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So, you're not interested in men? Okay great. Then the question was never meant for you to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 12:33 AM
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You mean, misogyny?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 09:09 PM
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So, they're both buzzwords?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 09:07 PM
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That's okay. We know it's just a buzzword that misandrists use anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 07:51 PM
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You spelled "women" wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 07:41 PM
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There are plenty of men who can present their own examples. So much so that you can run a whole study on it. But we already know that no reputable institution would ever publish or even conduct a widespread study like that because it goes against the current mainstream narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 12:00 AM
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Interaction mostly. Not that I was really shy before. But I definitely had some reservations.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 05:34 AM
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My point is that his take is not new, escorts have already been suggested to them, the majority reject going that route. What statistic/study is this based on? Even if that were true, what do you think is the potential reason? Social stigma surrounding men paying for sex, perhaps?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 05:34 AM
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You literally implied that hooking up with escorts is something that is only suggested in "incel" circles, which basically implies that anyone that talks about seeing escorts as a potential alternative to relationships and casual hookups is automatically an incel. And I did answer it, in my very first response to you, in the form of a rhetorical question: Why is it that whenever we talk about men paying for sex, someone always has to pull out the incel card, whereas, when we talk about women eng…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 01:40 AM
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Why does this matter? Because I've done both - seeing escorts and having sex with women I've been in relationships with. You're judging something that you've never experienced because the mainstream told you it was bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 12:52 AM
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I think you should follow your own advice here. Because your take is absolutely bonkers. You don't need to be extremely wealthy in order to see an escort. Just have some disposable income and don't be broke.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 12:46 AM
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If you've ever had a girlfriend, you would know that they are far more expensive. Wives even more so. Not to mention, often times a headache to deal with.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 12:44 AM
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How many escorts have you been with? btw who is "we", other high body count women? They are all the second most demonized group in pill spaces next to incels. The only people I've seen demonizing high-body count women are the folks in the manosphere. Literally, everywhere else it is either praised or at minimum considered not a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 12:41 AM
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Why is it that whenever we talk about men paying for sex, someone always has to pull out the incel card, whereas, when we talk about women engaging in rampant sexual encounters, we call it "empowerment" or "hot girl summer" or some other nonsense like that? I personally don't see anything wrong with men engaging in safe-sex with consenting women, even if money is exchanged.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 12:23 AM
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I did for almost 2 years. No regrets. In fact, if anything, it was an incredibly positive experience overall (even though some individual experiences may not have been amazing) and it helped me garner the confidence to start dating again in my 30s. I'm curious though, what's this "special quality" that you're talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 12:00 AM
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I hope men can find fulfillment that way, it's much healthier than making women and sex the end all, be all of human existence. Honestly, if women could leave most of us in peace, this wouldn't even be a point of discussion. Literally 5 mins ago, I saw another clip on YT of a woman complaining that they can't find suitable men to date because apparently most men aren't "emotionally intelligent". t is a Chris Rock bit that is repeatedly referenced by men on this sub. The comedian? You mean, he ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 12:42 AM
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Women are the ones constantly whining about the patriarchy while simultaneously claiming to be strong and independent. But yes, it's men that just want to mind their own business without being constantly harassed for it, are the problem. Smdh!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 12:38 AM
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Shorter men than them? Lmao! Okay, if we're playing fantasy intersexual dynamics, then fine. My claim: "Most men are feminists". Your turn.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 11:11 PM
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Unlike you, I actually pay attention to what they do versus what they say.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 11:09 PM
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He's as real as the patriarchy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 11:08 PM
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Sure, just like many strive to find a partner, but just like it is possible to decenter work from your life, men can decenter women from their lives. We do. Which is why a lot of men opt out of the dating market. All these guys saying if it weren't for women they'd have a mattress on the floor and pizza box furniture are full of shit; Who said that? Not being ambitious is not the same as living in abject poverty. Kindly stop strawmanning actually address the points being made.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 11:07 PM
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None of us are in this economy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 11:03 PM
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What exactly is "functioning properly"? I think men are functioning just fine without a high-paying job and without a ton of hobbies. But now you're acknowledging that there are multiple vectors by which you can be attractive to a woman, many of which are things you can control, so we're back to this being a you-problem that you need to work on. We're not, if we're talking about a package. Besides, I dont think it's a problem for women to have preferences. I used the height argument to illustrat…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 01:18 PM
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If evolution doesn't care about your wages, then why even complain about men not wanting to make money or have hobbies. This whole post is about nothing then. Also, I'm basing my points based on books and studies, not Tiktok (I don't even have that on my phone). Are you familiar with mating strategies? Unless you're an evolutionary psychologist yourself, I don't see why your opinion is any more relevant than the Tiktokers that you claim are incorrect.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 01:07 PM
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I don't know. Are women broken and pathetic because they can't feel fulfilled unless they have a career AND make babies with Chad?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 01:02 PM
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How often? Where exactly did you see a number attached to my claim?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 12:59 PM
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Sex is important to most men, but it is not a need. Neither is money. But we all strive to make more or at least enough to afford a decent life. That, once again, is red pill nonsense. How?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 12:58 PM
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No, girls are out here complaining when they their vaginas can't attract respectful dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 12:56 PM
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I used height as a proxy because that's the most obvious one that both genders can relate to. But it literally can be anything: money, status, dominance, etc. I think men that are vertically challenged are pretty good at coping with it, especially as we get older. If anything, women find it difficult to cope when men opt out of the dating market, or they want to become passport bros, or if they want to pay for sexx, etc., I could go on.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 12:55 PM
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How is it cope? It's a perfectly reasonable response to this point: And if you genuinely feel this way, you have much larger issues you need to work out before getting into a relationship Have you ever told a girl you only want to date tall men because you have issues and you need to work those out before getting into a relationship? You think it's cope and BS because it doesn't fit your narrative. You can pick literally anything else btw. Substitute tall guys with guys that are financially stab…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 01:10 AM
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No one walks around thinking these things because it works in our subconscious. What you're saying is akin to telling a woman to not desire tall guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 01:04 AM
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I'm not sure about you. But sex is an important need for the vast majority of men. We have 10 to 20 times more testosterone than women do and therefore, it is a fact that much of our lives revolve around sex. It is what forces us to compete with the world, so we can earn a decent wage and stay fit & healthy, and the hope is that this will ultimately lead us to attract a suitable mate. That is the most primal instinct that men have. However, when we notice that all our efforts end up in vain and …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 01:03 AM
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Are you being purposely obtuse? I clearly mentioned in my previous comments that I was not talking about "playing" with toys.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 09:58 PM
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Most people really do! Unless they've had a very traumatic childhood, then maybe not.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 07:26 PM
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Then everyone is childish. Everyone has keepsakes that they use for nostalgia. Therefore, everyone is childish.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 07:23 PM
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If your point still stands then your point is stupid. Playing with dolls is not the same as having a collection of dolls. For instance, I have a Hot Wheels collection and a G.I. Joe collection. These are toys I used to play with as a child and they have a special place in my heart. That being said, I don't play with them anymore. I just like keeping them in a showcase and occasionally using them to reminisce about my childhood. One is clearly childish and another is not!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 07:19 PM
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Agreed! I'm bisexual and even I find this offensive.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 06:02 PM
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All the things I mentioned in my second-to-last comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 07:50 PM
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Yes, everyone who makes a fair criticism of the feminist movement and/or acknowledges that ideas espoused by the manosphere actually help men better themselves is clearly a bot. LMAO!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 06:28 PM
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I'd rather live in reality and see the world for what it is than pretend that we live in a world where everything is fair and equal like some of the blue-pilled and apparently, some of the supposedly black-pilled guys think. Moreover, I think you have a fundamental misunderstanding about what TRP movement teaches. All it does is state that men shouldn't put women on a pedestal because as you put it, "half of humanity are women". It also tells men to focus on themselves, work out, make money by u…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 04:52 PM
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Not everyone lives in America and supports that tariffing turd. But are you denying that western society has become insanely gynocentric in the past several decades?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 04:08 PM
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Yes. EDIT: Or current.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 05:08 PM
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Can confirm that this has helped me personally. Though I wish I would've learned that lesson when I was younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 05:07 PM
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I'm pretty sure most women that aren't completely anti-social have dated at least one guy in their lifetime who had a litany of red flags, which they conveniently ignored.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 05:06 PM
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Someone "good" and "treats me well". Don't forget the latter.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 05:03 PM
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I think men want the same thing, but it's women that often raise an objection when men state their preferences. Man wants to travel abroad to find a traditional wife whose values align with his. Woman complains and ridicules him for not being able/wanting to find someone in the West. Man wants to pay for sex because he's tired of spending his hard-earned money on dates that seem to go nowhere. Woman complains and calls him a worthless incel. Man wants to give up on relationships and marriage, fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 04:25 PM
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Where are you seeing these online alpha males that keep talking about faithful men being beta? I've only seen a handful of guys in the far-right podcast space talk about this and they often get lambasted in the comments for making these sorts of claims. What you're saying seems more like a feminist fantasy of what the manosphere talks about as opposed to what they actually talk about and espouse, which is focusing on yourself (emotionally, physically and fiscally), not compromising on your stand…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 02:37 AM
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Thank you! Unfortunately, there aren't many good women left in the West, which is why I had to go back to my roots - since I am an immigrant - to find someone who was more virtuous, kind and of course, better-looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 01:34 AM
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Those feelings must still be hurt for you to come back and reply to this just an hour later. 🤣🤣 Btw, I've been in a committed relationship for almost a year and my partner & I are quite happy and looking to get married soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 07:12 PM
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I just logged in and saw your response. Unlike you, I actually have a life. Which is astonishing since I would've expected someone who's married to a Chad to barely have time for social media. Looks like he isn't paying much attention to you. Let me know what it's like to share him. 🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 11:39 PM
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Exactly what I wanted to tell you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 09:25 PM
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Does me being married to Margot Robbie bother you? Seems like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 03:41 PM
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So, the only two machinations that the female brain can conjure up are, "gaslight him" OR "be mean to him". This is why no one should ever take any advice, especially dating advice, from women. Thank you for proving my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 02:56 AM
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And I'm married to Margot Robbie. 🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 02:53 AM
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Of course. Any criticism of women is "bitter revenge fantasy talk" on this sub. 🤣 And yes, if you can provide a man with something other than sex, which the vast majority of modern western women have been relegated to thanks to feminism and the sexual revolution, maybe he will give you the ring. That doesn't preclude the fact that most women that want said ring, don't get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 12:51 PM
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Not to the women on this sub apparently. They love making up their own definitions.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 04:35 AM
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I sincerely hope you're trolling.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 04:34 AM
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Plenty of women sleep with rich or attractive people thinking they will commit to them. As you mentioned in a follow-up comment, it's kind of a pathetic way to live.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 04:31 AM
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It is in the real-world. That's where I live at least. How about you?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 09:25 PM
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If you're making personal attacks, it's against the rules (rule #2). But generalized statements, no matter how offensive they are to you, are fair game in a debate. If you don't agree with that, you should probably find another sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 09:23 PM
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Yeah okay. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 09:19 PM
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That's why I used the word 'personally'. Advice is just that - it's advice. No advice works 100% of the time, even if it is applied correctly. But female dating advice is mostly just feel-good platitudes that really don't hold up in the real world, especially not in the current dating marketplace.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 09:18 PM
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Personally, my dating life has been far better since I started taking advice from RP guys. I'm not extremely successful, but at least better at it than I was when I was a total blue-pilled feminist.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 08:01 PM
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A bad-boy is typically a shitty person with other traits that women also find attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 07:58 PM
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How many men that claimed to be "average, nice guys" tried to insult your appearance, ask you to pay for dates or tried to SA you?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 07:53 PM
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It was great advice for teenagers growing up in the 1950s. Not today. Times have changed dramatically and so has the dating landscape. If anything, the Red Pill advice of focusing on yourself, working out, trying to make as much money as you possibly can and not putting women on a pedestal, is a far more effective strategy and has been for the past decade or so. Secondly, men have a far better understanding of what they can pull in terms of their appearance and social status than women do these …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 07:52 PM
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So, any form of generalized criticism toward one gender is abuse? In a debate sub that specifically focuses on gender dynamics? I'm siding with the mods on this one.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 03:50 PM
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I've reported people and had their comments removed (not sure if anything happened to the user). I've also been reported once, had my comment removed by the mods and was given a warning.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 03:29 PM
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That's what the report button is for.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 03:11 PM
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This is a debate sub though. That's the whole point.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 02:52 PM
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The typical bad boy is an asshole to his female too. Most "bad boys" I've seen are both emotionally and sometimes physically abusive toward their partner. He simply fulfills her emotional needs just enough to be able to keep her hooked.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 02:51 PM
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This is it. It's fine if you don't find me attractive, but stop saying sh!t like "don't worry, there's someone out there for everyone" OR "just be yourself, man" OR "just talk to us, we're easy-going" OR the worst one: "just shower/go to the gym/be funny" (as if any of that helps).
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 02:48 PM
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Honestly, considering how quick some of the women on this sub are when it comes to dismissing these sorts of claims, I think having data-driven reminders is essential.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 02:42 PM
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Exactly like the data you provided.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 02:43 PM
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You mean, how a man can just leave when he has his physical needs met, as one does when he is with a prostitute?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 07:27 PM
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It's because of the fact that when we're talking about relationships, including marriage, men are often judged for what they can provide and whether or not they can protect. ALL of my partners have clarified whether or not I work out and what kind of job I have (to assess my income) during the early stages of dating. MOST of my partners, at some point in our relationship, have either tacitly or directly admitted that they wouldn't be with me if I was a part-time McDonald's worker or if I was as …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 07:26 PM
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Yes it does, it’s a fact I stated which I then backed up with evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 06:16 PM
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Since when have men been loved unconditionally? Especially, when a lot of women keep using the word 'settling' when it comes to their future partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 05:47 PM
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Here's a wikipedia article: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Domestic_violence_against_men Therefore, you're wrong. See, two can play that game.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 05:42 PM
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I wouldn't really call it 'evidence' when it doesn't align at all with your claim. That's like you getting caught for robbery and then telling the judge that you weren't speeding. Like huh??
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 04:30 PM
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I used to go to prostitutes. It was fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 04:27 PM
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Sometimes, people do immature, unintelligent and impulsive things for people they deeply love, admire and/or care about. For instance, a husband sacrificing his life to save & protect his wife, would you call that impulsive and immature?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 12:36 AM
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He's exaggerating. But women absolutely do crazy things for guys that they are deeply attracted to. If she's not willing to do that OR do some basic things like responding to your texts on time, calling you 3-4 times a day just to hear your voice, clearing out her weekends so she can spend them with you, respecting your boundaries even if they go against her lifestyle (going to a club for girls' night, drinking/smoking, etc.), occasionally picking up the tab on dates, etc., then she's probably n…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 09:17 PM
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What's that saying: "she has to be more in-love with you than you are with her"? Something like that?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 09:13 PM
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Couple of things: - The article that you linked to is talking about the UK, not the western world as a whole. - It also talks about domestic abuse and not sexual assault or rape, which is what you were arguing for in your previous comment. This is the quote from the article: "1 in 4 women in England and Wales will experience domestic abuse in her lifetime." - The owners of that organization clearly state on their website that they are for "women and children against domestic violence only", whic…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 08:52 PM
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I mean, what was COVID aside from the proof that society will gleefully grind down its young for the benefit of some old farts? I'm glad someone finally said it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 01:53 PM
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I've heard this statistic being cited a lot, but I'm yet to find any hard data or evidence on this. The data that I have found states that 1 in 4 North American women will be assaulted in their lifetime, a.k.a it's more of a prediction than reality based on real incidents of sexual assault, and that too was from very biased feminist sources.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 01:51 PM
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That's literally what men are doing right now. And they're fine with staying single for the rest of their life or pulling out their passports, which infuriates a lot of western women btw. Men are fine with either of those options. What they are not fine with is women constantly complaining about the lack of good men, as if that doesn't advertise their ignorance while also making them look desperate.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 01:43 PM
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'Choosing'... ok. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 06:33 PM
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You should ask the women that complain about not being able to find the right guy. Personally, I don't see an issue either.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 03:00 PM
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The issue (if you want to call it that) is that for a lot of women, it's not really a matter of choice. They're forced to be single because a) their standards are way too high relative to what they bring to the table; (b) they've made terrible decisions when it comes to choosing partners in the past and are now terrified of making the same mistake, thereby passing on guys that are actually decent and have good relationship potential; or (c) this is fairly new but I've seen a ton of single mother…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 11:25 PM
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Men don't want women who use sex as a tool to get what they want, especially against their husbands .
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 06:52 PM
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Exactly! It's called emotional investment. When you're spending years of your life with someone, certain things like physical attractiveness for instance start to become less and less relevant. Sometimes even, you're attraction to that person might end up growing because now you're not just attracted to their physical features, but also their personalities, their quirks, their expressions, their interests (which tend to evolve with your own and gradually coincide), etc. It's sort of like stockho…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 04:08 PM
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How does "not all men" fit into this conversation? I'm not exactly blaming women for anything. I'm simply stating that people on social are real people.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 11:46 PM
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This is 2025. Literally everyone is on social media. Unless, you're talking specifically about women that live off the grid or in countries where they aren't allowed to use their phones.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 11:44 PM
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Women on social media ARE women in real life. The former are not all bots designed to erode the fabric of western society. There are some genuine truths to what you see on social media versus how women think in real life. They may not always act in that manner, but the mindset is certainly there.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 05:40 PM
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I think you're conflating two separate arguments. Men are NOT responsible for misandry - so she's ABSOLUTELY wrong there. However, I do acknowledge that there are men that say "not all men" because that's just a fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 05:47 AM
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Thankfully, I've already found my "pickme" and she is everything the modern feminist movement - basically all the "women don't need men (but we actually do)" types - is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 05:43 AM
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But when women’s interactions with men lead to women being wary around men, y’all are the first ones to screech “not all men” It goes both ways. When men say that women nowadays aren't worth committing to, let alone for life, you say "not all women". When you reward men that have terrible attitudes (I saw an example of that just today!) and other men rightly point that out, you say "not all women". When men that have been cheated on, falsely accused of sexual harassment/assault, called a creep f…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 01:52 AM
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There is a very good reason for that. It's easier for a fit guy to convince a fat chick to date or sleep with him. It's harder for them to date or sleep with another fit chick, since the latter's standards don't simply end at "the guy has to be fit". There are other things that those gym bros have to bring to the table.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 07:35 PM
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Annnnddddd this is why I (and many other men) turned to prostitutes once I was past the age of 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 06:50 PM
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Exactly! I've seen guys approach girls at kickboxing studios, libraries, at social gatherings (weddings, birthdays, etc.), even in the workplace (better if you're working in different departments), etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 07:26 PM
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Well written! The most generous definition of feminism that I can think of personally is that it is a female advocacy movement. Nothing wrong with having such a movement as long as it's marketed as such instead of gaslighting everyone into thinking this is the same as egalitarianism.
/r/MensRights13/10/24 03:37 PM
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A 25+ year-old guy that is fitter, is more financially stable and is more ambitious than the average male will typically have a better time in the dating marketplace. I've experienced this personally. However, all those things will rarely make a man more attractive in the sexual marketplace, a.k.a from a casual hookup standpoint. That is still influenced more by factors that are somewhat inherent (height, personality/attitude, good looks, etc.).
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 03:55 AM
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I don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 08:34 PM
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It's funny how only men are considered "assholes" when they think they're the prize.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 03:36 PM
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I don't disagree. I wouldn't date a woman seriously who's slept with more than 5 guys or has even had one ONS, so there's that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 01:24 PM
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Most men that have little to no experience often find it hard to showcase the correct level of enthusiasm. Too desperate and you risk turning her off. Too nonchalant and you risk turning her off there too. Most men don't know where the balance lies.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 01:21 PM
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Women think they're a catch all the time, whether they really are or not. So, why can't a man who has worked hard his whole life - whether it's working out in the gym to get in better shape or investing in their career so they can make the big bucks when they're older or making smart financial decisions so they can afford a downpayment on that dream home - not feel like they're the catch when they've "made it"?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 01:15 PM
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Howdy! How lovely to meet such a rare and endangered species.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 02:47 AM
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Let's be honest. Most women would not want to date a 25+ year-old man who has never been with a woman sexually and not for lack of trying. That doesn't necessarily mean that those women "despite" adult virgin men, it's just that the lack of sexual prowess is a turn-off for most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 11:15 PM
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Trust me, bisexual women are no better. I was friends with a woman who is openly bisexual. I once asked her if she would ever consider dating a bisexual man and her answer was a firm "NO". Why? Because - and I'm paraphrasing here - she finds men who like kissing other men disgusting!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 11:14 PM
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You're confusing a sexpat with someone who's traveling to a foreign country to find a marriage-able woman. That's like confusing a gold-digger with a woman who just wants to marry a man with a decent job.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 01:18 PM
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Exhibit A 👆🏽
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/24 01:40 AM
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Two things can be true at the same time.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 01:30 AM
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Not to the same degree. Not even close.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 05:41 AM
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Dating apps are meant to be superficial in nature. That was the point I was trying to make. And by initial impression, you of course are talking primarily about said superficial qualities - looks, height, race, etc. All the points I made in my comments. How do you know whether you have all those things you mentioned without actually talking to the person? Answer is: you don't! In effect, what you're alluding to is exactly why dating apps need to go. So, thank you for proving my point for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 03:15 AM
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How do you know whether or not you have common interests, hobbies, goals and values? Are you talking to all the men whose profiles you're coming across?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 11:24 PM
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Plenty of women try to market themselves sexually using IG and OF. You might not know about them because they're not popular. Not everyone can be a millionaire using those platforms, but influencers gonna influence. 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 09:15 PM
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You just answered your own question. It's the over-abundance of options that causes this mentality. One guy is good looking, the other is 6'2, another guy has a photo with a Lamborghini, etc. If a woman finds a guy that is good-looking and has a fancy car, she will go out with him for some dates, but then think, "Well, that other guy was 6 foot tall and not 5'7 like this one. So, maybe I should be with him?"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 09:13 PM
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Men who pimp women OR men who simp for women? Coz they are not the same and I would argue, it's the latter. Not a lot of men are pimping women these days. Women are pimping themselves. I get 3-4 messages daily from women on Reddit/IG, begging me to subscribe to their Onlyfans. I highly doubt there's a man who's profiting from this.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 09:08 PM
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Porn is inherently exploitative, whether it's made by men or women. It seems like you're the one who needs to read up on how the world works.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 09:08 PM
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Weren't women actively engaging in the workforce since the mid-1900s? Yet their standards have only reached astronomical levels in the last decade or so.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 09:07 PM
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I don't think most men would want to be treated like a princess anyway. lol Jokes aside, your question was about dating. Not prostitution - which is essentially what these women are supposedly doing at these private parties. You think women are getting flown out to Dubai for the purposes of dating? lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 02:14 AM
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How can the "top 10%" be a unicorn? We're talking about tangible percentages here. Yes, it's more subjective than the top 10% of earners, for instance. But when you break the top 10% of men down to the characteristics (height, race, looks, status, etc.) that make them the top guys in the dating food chain, you'll be able to see the patterns emerge quite clearly.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 01:22 AM
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Theoretically it would help to at least somewhat curb the simp culture that we have going on and encourage at least some men to step out of their comfort zone and into the real world. Concomitantly, women won't have an avenue to monetize their sexuality (porn is too saturated), thereby preventing the artificial inflation of their self-worth while also allowing them to temper their expectations when it comes to finding a suitable mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 12:20 AM
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Let's put it this way: Fewer people would be chronically single, if dating apps were banned. I think this mentality that a lot of women have that "I don't have to settle for less (they never do) because there's always someone better around the corner" is only perpetuated by dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 11:58 PM
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Just because it is beneficial for SOME people, doesn't mean it's good for society overall. I could make the same argument for war too. Some people do profit from it, but it is massively detrimental for humanity as a whole.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 11:55 PM
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That's a start. I've got a few more: Ban Onlyfans Restrict Tiktok to only registered business users. Same as above for Instagram.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 11:52 PM
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Not hotter. Just more attractive from a relationship standpoint. I'd say my peak physical years were between the ages of 24-29. I'm still fit and strong in my mid-30s, but nowhere near as I was during those prime years. Having said that, I'm more financially stable than I was back then and take better care of my skin, hair, nails, teeth, etc., a.k.a. grooming. So, despite the fact that I'm less physically fit than I was and I'm balding (albeit slowly), I'm getting more attention from women my ag…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 01:32 PM
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Every harm you listed is actually harm men are caused… by other, more powerful men. So, if a woman physically abuses another woman, it's not abuse at all? I guess that's why nobody talks about domestic violence in lesbian relationships - it doesn't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 08:02 AM
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No, it's based on observation. Case in point.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 03:58 AM
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First off, I've literally never heard a guy say academia is "feminized". What a lot of conservatives say is that a lot of institutions tend to lean liberal. And they're not wrong. Secondly, far more women counter facts with their feelings than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 11:56 PM
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Depends on who's funding as well as conducting these studies.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 08:18 PM
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Yes, because the majority of therapists are women that empathize more with women than men. For men, seeking therapy is futile at best.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 05:11 PM
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Have they done similar psychological or even neurological studies on radical feminists?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 05:08 PM
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No, that's just you projecting.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 09:10 PM
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You have a degree in history? You should contact your university and ask them to return your tuition money then. And while I am largely talking about the US and Canada, I'd be surprised if what I said didn't apply to all of the western world. Rates of DV are rising. You mean for men. That's correct. Or maybe you're talking about the rates of DV in lesbian relationships? Most women have been sexually assaulted. Most women? Is that a majority? Because that's definitely not true. Also, the vast maj…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 09:09 PM
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You don't have to say it. The fact that you think the only way to get pussy is to pay for their dinner is proof enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 08:53 PM
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Not matched. Most women are hypergamous.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 02:12 PM
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You literally just said picking up hobbies to get to know more women, so you can spend time in their company is somehow cucked. How quickly you backtracked. Lol And don't worry about me. I get plenty of pussy. Enjoy taking them out to expensive dinners though. You'll get them someday.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 02:11 PM
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Modern western women are the most privileged group of people on the planet! Women have benefited more from both capitalism and social safety nets than men ever have. Anyone who has a rudimentary understanding of history and current policies would agree with what I just said. No one wants to make women feel miserable. You do that to yourselves and then blame men for the problems that you create for yourselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 06:43 AM
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Please point out where I said men ONLY need sexual release to feel whole.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 06:38 AM
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So, I take it that neither you nor any of your friends have ever been in a relationship in your 20s or had a one-night stand or had a FWB?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 06:36 AM
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Lol no.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 06:35 AM
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Then what did you mean when you said, "sleeping around is always a poor choice"?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 03:40 AM
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Most accurate reference of men having muscles are online bodybuilding communities, i.e. people talking about going to the gym and making muscles?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 03:39 AM
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If anything, I think paying for dates is cringe and cucked. Especially, if you go on multiple dates with her and still get nothing in return outside of a handshake and a friendly bro hug at the end of every date.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 03:35 AM
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online bodybuilding communities. There's your problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 03:29 AM
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I tend to trust their actions more than their words. Never been proven wrong once I started adopting this principle.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 03:26 AM
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https://psnet.ahrq.gov/issue/inside-epidemic-misdiagnosed-women I read the whole study. I still don't know how this relates to chronic depression among women because the study mentions nothing about it. Secondly, the study also alludes to the fact that most research in the past has been centered around white men and not men in general, which also means that it's not just women that were misdiagnosed, but also ethnic men: " Consider the fact that until very recently, medical research was done exc…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 03:20 AM
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Here we go with the patriarchy again. I was wondering when you'd bring that up. What always seems weird to me whenever the patriarchy is brought up though is the fact that for all intents and purposes, men have far more to complain about the patriarchy than women do. Yet we never do. Why is that? So of course feminism shames that type of thinking. Duh. Because they want to give women a choice. So, it's okay to shame men for having preferences and choices, but not women. Thank you for proving my …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 03:06 AM
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So, women in their 20s - including you and your friends - were thinking about men. Unless, your suggesting that you were sleeping around with other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 03:03 AM
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Except it's not a reaction, it's an action. Working women don't shame men for wanting traditional values BECAUSE they get shamed for participating in the workforce. In fact, shaming a woman for having a job is not even that common anymore because it's part of the status quo for women to be working. However, shaming men for merely choosing not to seriously date a working woman definitely common in feminist spaces.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 01:05 AM
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Surveys are highly unreliable for these kind of psychological topics and this is agreed upon by a myriad of researchers across several fields. Just because someone says they are happy doesn't mean they actually are, which is why I used the example of antidepressants because that despite being flawed is a much better indicator of happiness and fulfillment. Plus, depression isn't always chronic or genetic, and there's no concrete, statistically significant data that is capable of suggesting that w…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 11:50 PM
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Yeah college debt or credit card debt is a big red flag for me. I recently went out on a date with this cute Asian girl and while the date went incredibly well, when I was dropping her off, she told me about her pretty significant credit card debt and her abysmal credit rating, after which I basically ghosted her.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 11:33 PM
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Isn’t that because women on average find peace & fulfillment on their own, whereas men are feeling “incomplete” without a relationship? I doubt that's true for most women past the age of 30. Besides, aren't women getting on anti-depressants more than ever before? According to most studies I've seen, more than twice as many women are on antidepressants now compared to men. Men can find sexual fulfillment literally anywhere. Porn, hookers, AI girlfriends, even each other (if they're bi). I doubt t…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 10:54 PM
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Both men and women shame women for having high body counts. Both men and women also shame men for being adult virgins or for being largely sexually inexperienced. Men and women value different things in relationships, particularly when it comes to sexual experience. Are you sure working women don't shame men for wanting traditional women? I've heard more working women call men "insecure", "intimidated", "broke", "immature", etc., for not wanting to get into a LTR with them than I've heard tradit…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 10:42 PM
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It's about the labels. Let's say you're a single woman who is traditional, in the sense that you always dress modestly, you've had very few partners and have only had sexual relations with men in the confines of LTRs, you believe in traditional gender roles, i.e. men should be providers and protectors, etc. You go out on dates specifically with men who claim to be traditional and let's say you find someone who seemingly fits most of your criterias. But you find out a month after dating him that …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 10:35 PM
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So no relationships, no sleeping around, etc.?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 09:21 PM
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Good. Because no one here is generalizing all women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 06:51 PM
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You don't actually believe that, do you?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 06:50 PM
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Traditional men don't enforce traditional roles because in 2024 that would be considered abuse. Traditional men prefer dating traditional women and they are perfectly within their right to have that preference. What feminism aspires to do is take away those rights that men should possess and force men to conform to the whims of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 06:49 PM
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You: I have an issue with treating women poorly because they aren’t virgins, going on rants about how sluts that are women are awful people who do x y and z or just putting negativity and hate into the world over your expectation. Also you: I mean, i dont know how many virgins want to be with a slut like that, but you can have whatever standard you’d like. And this is exactly what I meant about men receiving criticism for things that women in 2024 get away with, without any accountability.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 06:44 PM
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So, I can sleep with 100+ women, including hookers, and still expect a virgin wife?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 03:54 PM
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I'm a Red Pill guy who sleeps with lots of women and I want a virgin wife. Both ideas can coexist.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 03:53 PM
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No one is forcing you to be a SAHM. Literally said that in my last comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 03:52 PM
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Feminists =/= all women. So you thinking people that generalize feminists are generalizing women is an erroneous and stupid notion in itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 03:51 PM
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Concept I know, but I also want that for men. Except men are criticized for wanting their cake and eating it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 03:47 PM
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Because it's contradictory and hypocritical? And it's just as hypocritical as men wanting a traditional wife while expecting her to work a 9-5, pay half the bills as well as do all the household chores, including taking care of the kids. Personally, I have no problem with people choosing to live their lives how they want to. But feminists constantly deride men seeking traditional women for LTRs and marriage, which is also a form of gatekeeping.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 02:13 PM
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Experience, observation, conversation and common sense (if you read the rest of my comment).
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 01:31 PM
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Sounds a lot like feminists want to have their cake and eat it too. They want to be traditional when it suits them and want to do non-traditional things when it suits them. And let's not be simple enough to assume that feminism is or has ever been an egalitarian movement. The most generous definition of feminism, just based on what you said in the first paragraph, is that it's a female advocacy movement. Also, you keep bringing up women getting fired for being pregnant as some sort of proxy for …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 01:23 PM
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No one is forcing women to be housewives. But traditional men want traditional qualities in a woman, which the vast majority of third and subsequent wave feminists don't possess. Besides, I thought feminism was about equality. So, why go after traditional men that believe in gender roles and ignore non-traditional men that want equal responsibility and divison of labor in the household. This is where feminists contradict themselves heavily. Equality is not a buffet where you can pick and choose …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 12:23 PM
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Regardless of what TRP says, most men would love to get married in their 20s. It's just that men in their 20s often tend to be broke and are often trying to build up their equities, so they can support a family in the future. Women, at the same time, are even more reluctant to marry in their 20s because they are more financially independent than ever before and don't want to settle down with the aforementioned broke mid-20s men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 12:11 PM
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"Feminist" and "Traditionalist" aren't polar opposites. Yes, in that feminist women still want traditional treatment. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 11:38 AM
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And I bet you those are the ones having children. The other half are not, which is likely leading to the low birth rates.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 11:37 AM
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Well, you can't really have physical intimacy without sex, can you? Also, I find it incredibly weird when people deny basic realities about life like the innate need for sexual intimacy and desire in order to feel healthy and whole. Technically, you don't need money to survive either. You can be broke and homeless, and still survive through scavenging. But is that really living?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 07:02 AM
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I honestly wish more men followed this principle instead of compromising on our standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 09:41 PM
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The exceptions don't make the rule. Most women don't like guys whining about their lack of dating prospects.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 05:06 PM
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If someone complains about dating, the default response is to assume that the complainant is a bad person. Correction: If MEN complain about dating, the default response is to assume that the complainant is a bad person. Most of the time, when women complain about dating, they are met with compassion, sympathy and of course, delusion ("it's not your fault", "you're gorgeous, sweetheart; it's a pity men can't see that", "you deserve better", etc.).
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 03:42 PM
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The wage gap has been debunked by several economists at this point. And if you were a realist, you would know that. And even if you use common sense logic without any supporting data, you would still come to that conclusion. For instance, why would companies not want to hire all female employees if they could get away with paying them 23 cents less for every dollar compared to their male counterparts, when the primary objective of every organization is to make money? Regardless, you disagreeing …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 03:13 PM
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Now that you mention it, I admit that the post is a little bit dumb since it's referring to absolutes. But I would say the vast majority of women would prefer guys that are taller than them. Not all maybe.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 01:24 PM
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Lots of things. Several false r**e allegations coming to light, the wage gap being debunked, women showcasing their toxicity and blatant misandry on several social media platforms, literally everything that happened leading up to the 2016 elections, etc. Plus, I started doing my own research instead of blindly following mainstream media and what the women in my life were telling me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 01:21 PM
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Thank you for proving his point.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 05:36 AM
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Yes, women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 05:35 AM
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So much cap in one thread!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 05:35 AM
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I know a man who's into morbidly obese women. I also know a man who's into 90+ year-old women. Therefore, the majority of men are into 90+ year-old morbidly obese women!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 05:33 AM
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Say what?? Pretty much every single 30s female celebrity I can name off the top of my head was hotter in her 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 02:29 AM
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I'm sure there's a few. Nothing in life is ever absolute.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 02:16 AM
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My point is that according to my observations, women say things that they actually believe about themselves but aren't necessarily true. I don't know if you can call that lying or delusion. To me, they are one and the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 01:12 AM
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That's called a trick question or in legal terms, a loaded question fallacy. It's like asking someone, "so, did you stop beating up your wife yet?". Most of the time, I judge women by their actions and not their words. And by doing that, I usually end up being right.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 01:00 AM
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The latter have the right to be frustrated because everyone from Disney to their mom has been lying to them their whole life. This is exactly why the red pill exists. There's more to attraction than being nice. This is fairly accurate. I used to identify as a feminist during my late-teens to early 20s. I believed in women empowerment while simultaneously touting that they ought to be respected for simply being women. I would shit on men constantly because I really believed the lies that they wer…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 12:54 AM
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Yes, it's pretty safe to do so, I reckon.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 12:15 AM
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That depends on the person? If you are someone who sees housewives as bangmaids, despite all the things I mentioned, that's a you problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 10:05 PM
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I would trust a housewife with my children and my finances. She'd be someone I can make and share memories with. Someone I could lean on for support and compassion when I return home after a bad day at the office. Concomitantly, she could lean on me for those things too and we'd have mutual trust and empathy. IMHO, a bangmaid would be what feminism has reduced modern western women to, sadly. Actually, now that I think about it, feminism has reduced modern women to something worse than bangmaids,…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 07:58 PM
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If a housewife is just a "bangmaid" to you, then that's your problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 06:56 PM
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Or we fight at 50% of our normal strength because we don't want to hurt you and end up in jail or worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 01:37 PM
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You're joking, right? This reminds of the time when I was doing BJJ. There was this woman in our class who liked to pair up with the men during training, so she could show us how tough she was. She was 2 inches taller and approximately 30 lbs heavier than me, and would train with me often. Out of respect, all the men in class were going easy on the women and I was no different. As a result, when she and I were training, we would always either end up going the distance during each round or I woul…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 12:41 PM
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Women are definitely not as welcome in the elite Ummm have you heard of one Hillary Clinton?
/r/MensRights12/02/24 02:03 AM
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You don't think women have had it better than men? I don't even know how to respond to that.
/r/MensRights12/02/24 02:02 AM
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Let's forget about hypotheticals and what feminism could be or should be. Let's talk about what it is. As someone else already pointed out, the most generous definition of feminism is that it's "a women's advocacy movement", which is what first and second-wave feminists used to preach. So, by definition, it is NOT nor was it ever an equality or equal rights movement. Personally, I'm fine with equal opportunity as long as it comes with equal responsibility.
/r/MensRights12/02/24 02:01 AM
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What I've personally noticed through conversations with friends and reading blog posts on reddit and other sites is that despite the fact that men are the primary consumers of porn, it is often women who have incredibly unrealistic sexual expectations from men. It is women who want men with above-average sized penises. It is women who expect men to have the stamina of an Italian stallion. It is women who think men should be experts at sex and should be able to get them off from any position. And…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 01:00 AM
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So, I guess we can apply the same logic for feminists then.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 02:04 AM
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Are we talking about women that are willing to disclose the fact that they had a promiscuous past within the first 3 dates? Because most women would not appreciate a guy asking her body count in the early stages of a relationship or in some cases, ever! So, how are you supposed to know whether or not they had a promiscuous past?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 02:03 AM
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Honestly, you're right. I thank God everyday for making me bisexual and I'm an agnostic!! Sex with men is way less stressful and way more satisfying than with women. Most women are essentially starfishes in bed and based on what I've read/heard about long-term relationships, most men say that women treat sex like a transaction as opposed to something that's mutually enjoyable. Sadly though, I'm heteroromantic - meaning that while I can enjoy having sex with men, I'm rarely romantically intereste…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 05:22 PM
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After you told her you were looking to date again Yes. I have no idea what you're talking about in the next part of yoyr comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 10:22 PM
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They typically are.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 12:27 PM
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I only got into that conversation because my cousin informed me that one of her friends who happened to be a single mother was romantically interested in me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 04:09 AM
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This has been a day of cynicism. During lunch break today, I spent nearly a half-hour arguing with my cousin as to why I would never consider getting into a LTR with a single mom. It's crazy how our standards are completely neglected and we're practically coerced into accepting what society wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 11:35 PM
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So, if a guy only prefers to date women that have a big ass, is he a fetishist? How about blondes? How about Asian women?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 07:46 PM
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I can think of maybe 20 countries and 100 cities where that message would actually be appropriate, no doubt. But Tokyo is not one of them, based on the many conversations I've had on this exact topic with people who literally were born and raised there, plus the experiences of my parents who've probably visited that city half a dozen times in the last decade.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 06:28 PM
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Yes, because governments NEVER have an agenda. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 06:27 AM
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The Gillette ad specifically made references to stalking and sexual assault.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 09:54 PM
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And Gilette released an ad a couple of years ago telling men the same thing here. 🙄 Do you honestly think there's no agenda there?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 05:34 PM
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Depends on the city maybe. I have friends that are from Tokyo and based on some of the stories I've heard, women are absolutely more privileged than men. It depends on how you define "favoring women" too. Traditional gender roles aren't always oppressive toward women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 03:56 PM
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She actually pulled the "source: trust me bro" on you. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 03:54 PM
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I noticed that the women here do this all the time. Man: She was never interested in having sex with me, even though she was wildly sexual with her past partners. Woman: But she loved you and wanted commitment from you though! In essence, implying that if she claimed to love you and wanted you to commit to her, you should feel incredibly indebted to her and automatically bow at her feet and allow yourself to be used like a good little beta-buxx for the rest of your life, despite not receiving an…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 04:58 PM
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I once tried to make it work with a girl who was promiscuous in HS, while we were both in University. I was a virgin at the time and we both agreed to be celibate until we were at least engaged. In fact, she was the one who suggested it initially. Guess what? She cheated on me with a coworker. This is notwithstanding the fact that it was a toxic relationship to begin with because anytime we did something intimate like holding hands, cuddling, kissing, etc., she would make subtle references about…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 03:54 PM
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I tried to make it work with a girl who was promiscuous in HS, while we were both in University. I was a virgin at the time and we both agreed to be celibate until we were at least engaged. Guess what? She cheated on me with a coworker. This is notwithstanding the fact that it was a toxic relationship to begin with because anytime we did something intimate like holding hands, cuddling, kissing, etc., she would make subtle references about how X, Y & Z guy was so much better and so much more expe…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 03:53 PM
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Don't you know that women only dress up in skimpy outfits and put on layers of makeup for themselves??!! /s
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 12:16 AM
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I appreciate the cynicism. 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 02:07 PM
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You're saying as though it's just a handful of women. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 01:54 PM
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It feels better? Oh hell no! I'd rather get no matches on a dating app than get brutally rejected by women over and over in social settings like a club or a gym.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 01:47 PM
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This is true. But let's be honest, only set of gender's preferences is considered acceptable in modern western society and it's not men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 01:32 PM
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So, I guess we've finally come to point where women are admitting the fact that their standards are too high, even when they are barely average themselves. Because how esle would you support your own theory that dating for men is so difficult now that we are literally revered for having a girlfriend that is at best your looks equivalent.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 01:59 PM
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Getting a gf for the average man is difficult for sure, which was the point I made in the last part of my comment. But then, how is it a status symbol if she's simply your looks equivalent? Unless you're one of those people saying women are always the prize no matter how they look or act.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 11:55 AM
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Women don’t need men to do anything. This statement is hilarious because reality is quite the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 05:26 AM
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Men having a girlfriend that is close to their looksmatch and isn't obese is called men having bare minimum standards and preferences. It has nothing to do with her being a trophy wife/girlfriend. Truth be told, I'm not even sure how you can call a woman who's average or barely average (what you described) a status symbol. Plus, let's be honest, it's difficult for average men to even uphold those standards in the current dating market.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 05:20 AM
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While women will never admit this, but they love showing off their man to their friends like he's some kind of trophy. So the shinier he is, in terms of his height, looks, status, etc., the more she wants him because as you said, they love one-upping their female friends and colleagues. I've seen this in my own circle of friends and relatives. Women bragging about how tall their man is, how silky smooth his hair is, how square his jaw is, how often he goes to the gym and how firm his body is, ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 11:48 PM
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How am I the employer if I help out? Plus, I don't always get paid in cash. Sometimes, my boss gives me extra time off, sometimes they'll let me wfh on days I'm not supposed to, sometimes they'll invite me to conferences so I can meet and network with people in my field, etc. If anything, relationships are more transactional now because women have made it so. With working women nowadays, it's always, "I make my own money now. So what the hell do you bring to the table?" To pretend that this is n…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 02:41 AM
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It’s not about pair bonding which is largely a myth in humans or promiscuity, it’s about your own insecurities. There's plenty of research done on pair-bonding and how it is affected by promiscuity. I'll just link one and you can certainly find others by the Medical Institute of Sexual Health and other sources. Now, you made a claim on another post saying that women prefer taller men because it makes them feel protected: The girls who like height say it’s makes them feel safer so how does the id…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 02:31 AM
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I literally said I'm against no-fault divorce. Being bored counts as "no-fault". I hope that makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 02:12 AM
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So, I guess I'm her employee too then, since my job is to make sure she's happy and never wants for basic necessities like food, shelter and clothing. Not to mention doing all the heavy-lifting around the house, taking out the trash, fixing the toilet, protecting her from all threats and dangers, etc. If that's not the definition of a transactional relationship, I don't know what is. She is also not able to make her own money if she’s at your house all day so you’ve now taken on the responsibili…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 12:10 AM
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I wouldn't exactly feel inferior, but you just proved why promiscuity is bad. It absolutely wrecks pair-bonding.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 12:04 AM
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What??? This is what women tell other women. Not what men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 11:12 PM
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Except I'm not her employer? This is also why I think western women are unfit for marriage. If a woman is going to treat marriage like a regular job instead of a lifelong commitment, I honestly don't think any man should take her seriously for marriage. Point blank period. Can you give an example of a scenario where a woman acts in what you would consider a demure way? I can give you several. Someone who doesn't dress provocatively, doesn't drink, doesn't party, doesn't flirt with random men, et…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 10:52 PM
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Are you okay with paying spousal support in the future? That's a very good question. It depends on the situation. How long were we married? What kind of assets are we talking about? And many others. Personally, I'm not a fan of no-fault divorce, so I wouldn't be in favor of spousal support in that case. What does traditional mean to you and what need does it fulfill for you? All the things I mentioned in my previous comment. So, someone who is demure, sexually pure or as close to pure as possibl…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 09:37 PM
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Are you okay with paying spousal support in the future? That's a very good question. It depends on the situation. How long were we married? What kind of assets are we talking about? And many others. Personally, I'm not a fan of no-fault divorce, so I wouldn't be in favor of spousal support in that case. What does traditional mean to you and what need does it fulfill for you? All the things I mentioned in my previous comment. So, someone who is demure, sexually pure or as close to pure as possibl…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 09:37 PM
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Not who you asked, so I hope it's okay if I answer. I'm in a similar spot as the other commentor, i.e. make over $130k and have zero debt outside of my mortage, which I'm on track to paying off in the next 2 years. Plus, I have investments in the stock market (stocks, index funds, ETFs, etc.) that earn me a sizeable dividend (which I reinvest) and have historically done well in terms of capital appreciation. So, to answer your question, if I ever decide to get married, I would want a wife who is…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 06:02 PM
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I think it has less to do with the woke mind virus and more to do with jealous older women who've hit the wall and are doing whatever they can to shame men in their age bracket into giving up our natural proclivities of wanting to date younger, more fertile women, because they either want us for themselves or they want young women to end up as miserable and hopeless as they are - as some twisted form of revenge. Sadly, some younger women do fall for this manipulation from their older counterpart…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 09:05 PM
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Of course that's how you read it. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 09:49 PM
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So, you befriend everyone that says "hi" to you on the street? That sounds like the opposite extreme of what the OP described.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 05:13 PM
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No, I'm pretty sure women who think like that are just terribly insecure themselves because they're either older i.e. less fertile, have been ran-through by bunch of men and/or are gold-diggers who want financially well-off men, but know deep down that those men don't want you in exchange. This is also why women hate passport bros or men who like to circumvent this whole rigged dating system and just pay for sex. It's blatant insecurity that society allows to foster because the mainstream narrat…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 10:16 PM
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I love how women on this forum always assume that when men have standards, preferences and boundaries, there's gotta be some evil intentions behind it. If a man likes younger adult women, he's a predator who wants to prey on vulnerable women. If a man prefers a woman who's fit and healthy, he's fatphobic. If a man prefers women who don't party, he's controlling. If a man doesn't want a promiscuous woman, he's insecure. I could probably provide a dozen more examples, but you get the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 09:15 PM
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That's exactly the point I'm trying to make.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 01:25 PM
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I don't actually. I just have a romanticized view of romance and maybe, economics. Was it difficult for you to put yourself in the shoes of the average man in 2024? Is that why you're deflecting?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 01:24 PM
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Well, tell the woman to water the grass a bit more and their men wouldn't be addicted to porn. Personally speaking, whenever I was in a relationship or even actively dating, I never felt the need to watch porn. And this is coming from a former porn-addict!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 03:56 AM
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Idk what the "manosphere" is. But either way, you seriously think the majority of men wouldn't want to return to a time when the women were more feminine, more loyal, more caring, less promiscuous, more submissive, non-argumentative, wanted to get married at a time when they were at the peak of their youth and fertility, etc.? A time when a man was able to support his family single-handedly with his own income, when wages were keeping up with inflation and there was less competition because wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 03:50 AM
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That partially proves my point. I say partially because even couples that don't have children end up having less sex over the course of time. Regardless, the point that you proved is that the reason why men turn to porn is because of the lack of sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 12:43 AM
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From a dating perspective? 100% yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 12:41 AM
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So, how often?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 11:52 PM
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The economic freedom of women has also led to stagnant wages, increased competition, salaries not keeping up with inflation despite increased productivity, abolishment of worker rights, etc. That's what happens when you effectively double the workforce. It has also led to increase in use of anti-depressants among women, increase in single-motherhood rates, etc. All of this can be traced back to the economic freedom of women and of course, the sexual revolution.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 11:41 PM
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I've scrolled dead-bedrooms too and I've also scrolled through other subreddits such as EscortClientsOnly, adultery, etc., where men describe the reasons for cheating - which I don't condone - as being in deadbedroom situations with their wives for years! Plus, even if you could discount all the anecdotal experiences listed in those subs and simply use common sense, it makes no sense why a man would resort to jerking off versus having consensual sex with his wife. So, I would surmise that those …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 11:34 PM
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Did you ask them how often they offer to have sex with their husbands?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 11:24 PM
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There's data proving that far less men are having sex nowadays than in the 1990s, for instance. So, your assumption would be incorrect.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 11:23 PM
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Yes, they are willing, if you're in the upper echelon of men. You wouldn't see an increasing number of men turning to the red and black pill, if it wasn't the case otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 10:32 PM
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The men in relationships that prefer porn to sex are probably in dead bedroom situations already. I don't see why a man who is frequently getting sex from his partner would decline it just to jerk off. It doesn't make any sense. The CDC breaks down this data by age group and the median number of sexual partners for men is 4, for men aged between 25-49. Plus, as I mentioned before, a large percentage of men under 30 are virgins. This myth that just as many men are having casual sex as women is ju…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 10:30 PM
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Watching an hour of porn a week is not the same as obsessing over it daily, which is what has become common in this day & age because not only aren't men getting laid organically, they can't even find relationships. Not saying that women are at fault for this btw. More than 30% of men under 30 are virgins. Understand that sexual variety is a thing that's mostly accessible to women and the upper echelon of men, i.e. men that are tall, good-looking, have high status and/or money. Most men rarely h…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 07:29 PM
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Lack of relationships or the prospect of having a relationship, even with someone who’s on your level lookswise is what makes men turn into porn addicts or worse, pay for Onlyfans. So, if society ever came at a crossroad where men had to choose between porn and having a relationship with a caring woman who's their looks equivalent, I'm fairly certain - barring a few exceptions - that we would choose the latter. I've noticed that the "no casual sex" thing gets thrown around by women on this sub a…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 12:16 PM
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I hope I don't need to tell anyone on this sub how fucked up that is, especially for the guy she's looking to "settle" with.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 09:11 PM
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You're going around in circles. Go back and read the entire conversation if you're not able to make sense of it. You literally tried to defend yourself against my strawman accusation and then immediately create another one. Funniest interaction I've had online this month. Guess sarcasm isn't in your vocabulary.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 05:15 AM
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I don't. I'm stating the reasons why I don't date. This is a debate sub, in case you forgot - even though it's literally in the title. 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 06:22 PM
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Excuse me, OP! Exhibit A.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 06:19 PM
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Which part of my statement was a strawman? I literally quoted you. At least you admit that men are the only ones who have the potential to act like adults. Kudos to you for acknowledging that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 07:15 AM
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Men like you have been negatively generalizing women for centuries. It seems like you're one of those people that constantly tout that women can do no wrong. Both genders have been criticizing each other for centuries. And this is literally playground logic. Why should anyone take you seriously when your response to aversion is to do the same thing? The moment you do this, you lose the right to criticize your opponent of the same fault. Is this your "be the better man bro" speech?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 01:59 AM
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Well, that hasn't been my observation, but I'll take your word for it since it is an anecdote and personal experiences vary.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 12:34 AM
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Women will always generalize us whether we get mad or not. How many times in this sub have you seen the "but men rape!" argument to shut down any man that speaks out about the social challenges men face, as if to say that all men are rapists and therefore we shouldn't complain about anything? I experienced that on this sub just yesterday. So, it's only prudent to return the favor.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 12:32 AM
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How are there enough chads that every woman has fucked multiple of them? Even if we take TRP estimates of the top 20% of men, that's still a LOT of men. Your Andrew from IT sounds more like Chad from Physical Therapy, who had a minor in Computer Science. Coming from your average IT nerd, most guys in Tech or STEM fields rarely get that lucky. To be honest, my standards “changed” because I gave a lot to men who, in retrospect were below average or just average dudes I love how these guys suddenly…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 10:10 PM
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Asking someone out isn't exactly a walk in the park. You're putting yourself out there, potentially facing rejection after rejection, and that's the best case scenario. Secondly, most women I've talked to don't like being part of the planning of the date. In fact, I'm willing to wager that most women find guys that constantly pester them about where they want to go out quite annoying and are summarily turned off by them. So while women might have thoughts about where they hope a guy would take t…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 10:02 PM
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Million dollar point right there! lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 07:19 PM
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We were 25-27 years of age at the time. Maybe when they're in their mid-30s, women have this realization after being pumped and dumped by multiple Chads and can't find a man who's willing to marry them that maybe it was me, maybe I was terrible at picking men. Maybe I should've gone for Andrew from IT in my mid-20s, who was kind and always respectful, but short and boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 07:10 PM
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What?? I have plenty of female friends and I've literally never heard one say to another that she needs to work on herself. In fact, it's quite the opposite. They'll say she's perfect and he's a D-bag for dumping. One of my close friends dated a girl in our friends circle a couple of years ago and then dumped her after having sex with her twice because he felt they weren't sexually compatible. Her female friends called him up and said some of the worst things imaginable to him, including calling…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 06:51 PM
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Is there a faster way to guarantee that you're not gonna get a 2nd date? I suppose there is, but all the things you mentioned are sure up there.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 06:41 PM
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Because if the man is thoughtful and chivalrous enough to be doing the things so I don't have to get my hands dirty, why wouldn't I cook for him even though he could do it himself? In that case, if men can find women that will cook and clean for them, then we'll worry about being thoughtful and chivalrous. Until then, let's temper our expectations.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 05:49 PM
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Strawman much? I never said dating is not an enjoyable activity for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 05:38 PM
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Strawman much? I never said dating is not an enjoyable activity for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 05:38 PM
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Nice job ignoring all the other things I mentioned in my comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 05:37 PM
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Trad man means taking care of her and be the protector and it DOES mean spoiling her. You don't have to spend millions on her, a flower a day would mean the same thing. The thought counts. Not everybody is rich I agree. Okay. But that isn't exactly spoiling. It's just a romantic gesture and I agree with it. I meant if both of them are working then housework AND bills need to be split. It's the modern world, it ususally needs both of them to work for survival. But if one of them decides to do the…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 04:56 PM
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But he's doing all those things too? On top of asking her out for the date, planning the date, paying for the date, etc. Plus, the burden of conversation is just as much on him as it is on the woman. If he's quiet or barely says 2 words during the date, he likely won't get a 2nd one because the woman will perceive him as shy and boring. Seriously, dating a plank of wood sounds more fulfilling at this point, tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 04:49 PM
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I don't understand the reasons for women wanting those things either. You mentioned irl and social media and I told you about my observations. Plus, being part of the trad man trait wasn't about spoiling and showering her with gifts. Not all tradmen were millionaires and their wives didn't expect them to be that extravagant. A trad man was always expected to pay the mortgage, pay for the utilities and pay for any other household expenses though. And shockingly, they still are! That's what relati…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 04:42 PM
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Lmao! I love how you desperately want me to be this loser who lives in his mom's basement and only comes out to fuck whores, when in reality I have a better social life than you do and spend much less time on social media than you do. You're out here trolling men for disagreeing with your obviously misandrist worldview and dismissing men's struggles coz women can do no wrong. Lol! You literally have no life and it's kind of sad. Oh the news said were unintelligible. So there’s proof. Go on and s…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 04:36 PM
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We aren't using personal anecdotes in a thread associated with generalizations. I may not have worked in sewage, but I have worked part-time in construction when I was a student. I've done manual labor in factories too at one point in my life! Guess what? Not only did I not see a single woman in my construction job, not a single woman applied for the manual labor openings at the factory! Now, I'll ask you again. How many female construction workers do you know? How many sewage workers? How many …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 04:27 PM
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Where are those women? Most of the women I see in irl and on social media are looking for traditional men for marriage, i.e. men that are protectors and providers. They keep saying that while they want to have the option to work, they want men to provide for all the household expenses. It's the definition of wanting to have your cake and eat it too. Men too are looking for traditional wives, so I'll give you that at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 04:20 PM
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I love how people here confuse jobs that are inconvenient and discomforting to jobs where you can literally die or lose/break your limbs. If that doesn't indicate that women have life on easy mode, I don't know what does.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 05:10 PM
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You wanna complain about pregnancy when it's clearly a choice. In fact, this whole argument started when we were talking about single mothers or women that have kids outside of wedlock. You know the best way to prevent that from happening? Not having sex before your wedding! The very thing you're arguing against. I'm not hating on women with regard to violent crime. You brought up this notion that women were more likely to be victims of violent crime and I said statistically that's not true beca…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 04:59 PM
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Lmao! You're trying so hard to convince everyone that you're not obsessed with me. I haven't been on your profile once! Why? Because you're not that interesting and I bet the majority of people in your life think the same way. Most people that have radical feminist beliefs, hate men that disagree with them with a passion and whine & complain about misogyny when there is none, haven't been particularly interesting since the Trump era. Social media and mainstream media have both exposed you guys t…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 04:44 PM
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What sort of credit am I taking? What I am doing though is pointing out the ridiculousness of the comparison between men literally being forced to go to war and dying under horrific circumstances, to women being shamed for promiscuity.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 04:04 PM
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Why is that even a relevant question? I don't live in a 3rd world country either, but I can speak on behalf of men living in those countries. Plenty of people don't go to war, but they can speak against war. You do realize that people have the capacity to speak on topics that they haven't directly experienced themselves thanks to power of information and observation. Mind-melting, I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 04:00 PM
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The point is that women aren't lining up to do those jobs. So, someone has to pick up the slack and incidentally, it happens to be men. Because if we didn't do it, society would inevitably collapse.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 03:55 PM
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The entry level pay for a financial analyst is still $76500. So, you were wrong either way. Also, my own former company hired financial analysts that were HS educated only. Plus, a lot of the blue collar jobs come with better pay if the worker has a degree in skilled trades, but even then it pales in comparison with people working in IT & Finance. And again, it's convenient to say that you don't have to become a blue-collar worker if you don't want to. But the fact of the matter is that in many …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 07:47 AM
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It's convenient to say that "let's have a gender equal draft", when we know for certain that will likely never happen due to the obvious biological differences between men and women. So, it's a moot point. Regarding violent crimes, being a victim of a violent crime is not a choice. Opening your legs to men that have no intention of committing to you is a choice. Also, the gender of the perpetrator committing the aforementioned violent crime, doesn't negate the severity of the crime. Thought that…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 07:39 AM
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The average salary of a sewage worker is approximately $35500 a year, which is about $17/hr. A average salary of a financial analyst is approximately $76500 a year, which is more than double what the sewage worker makes. Looks like the only one making silly arguments here is you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 07:25 AM
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Yet if men didn't, society would collapse. Coz how many women do you know that are volunteering to work in sewage? Or construction for that matter? How about miners? How many female miners are you familiar with? I know plenty of women who would love to work in IT, Finance, Accounting, etc. You know, cushy white collar jobs where you get to sit in air-conditioned offices OR work from the comfort of your home. I'm yet to meet a female sewage worker though. And as much as you would like for it to b…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 06:50 AM
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Men are already getting killed in wars. Men are also more likely to be victims of violent crime. Men are more likely to become homeless. But God forbid some cultures look down upon women that can't keep their legs closed and all hell breaks loose. Men are also victims of honor killings btw. Not sure what point you were trying to prove with that, but clearly it didn't work. Men aren't forced to work hard dirty jobs and yet if we didn't, the world's infrastructure would spectacularly collapse. Bec…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 06:46 AM
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I thought you were done responding. LMAO! You're so triggered you can't help but respond and it's hilarious. You've at this point spent hours meticulously studying my profile, just so you can make a feeble attempt to get under my skin, when I'm in fact I'm clearly under yours. 😂 Keep it coming! This is amazing entertainment. Triggering modern day feminists/misandrists is slowly starting to become my favorite pastime! lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 06:33 AM
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So, asking women to keep their legs closed is causing them to suffer? Meanwhile, men are subjected to conscription, forced to work the hardest jobs (construction, sewage, mining, etc.), etc. The problem that I've noticed in the last decade or so is that women love double standards when it's in their favor, but hate it when it's not. And this is just another example of that. Personally, I'm not in the business of policing people's sex lives. I live in a free country and I believe people should ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 05:28 AM
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It amazes me that you can't even comprehend basic analogies and yet you're constantly arguing about statistics that you probably can't even interpret. Plus, if I was triggered, wouldn't I be resorting to personal attacks like you're doing? Seems like you're reflecting. When you’re as unhinged as you are there is no conversation. You’re just that dense. I haven't said one thing that can even remotely be considered unhinged. Well, not to regular people anyway. You, on other hand, seemed to be insa…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 03:25 AM
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In what ways, can you show that shame is an effective deterrent other than the ways that I've just mentioned? I mean, if you're looking for data, you'd have to combine two separate studies - one which shows that promiscuity is not as common in the east compared to the west and another that shows the consequences of promiscuity - and make inferences based on their combined conclusions, which is easier said than done. if the women sleep around they will die or be kicked out of their families Talk …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 01:42 AM
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Can women be more prudent when choosing partners, instead of always going for the hottest guy in the room, who seemingly already has a lot of options?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 12:42 AM
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In the West, we don't shame women enough and that's why the behavior hasn't changed. Concomitantly, in the East, women are heavily shamed for sleeping around and as a result, they are a lot less likely to.....you guessed it, sleep around. I'm an Asian immigrant who grew up in the West and I was talking to a friend of mine who was born & raised in the West entirely. We were talking about the topic of single mothers and I was telling him how a woman's life is pretty much over if she had a child ou…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 12:39 AM
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Men are already shamed for being adult virgins or not having enough sex or sex with enough women. That's why the most common insult for men is "incel", which literally translates to involuntary celibate, i.e. no one wants to have sex with them. The most common insult for women, on the other hand, is a "slut" because that's what society deems unacceptable - and sometimes reprehensible - behavior for women. Btw, based on my observations, most of the time it's women that tend to call other women "s…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 12:34 AM
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Please prove to me that water is wet using scientific studies that use the words "water is wet" in their conclusions, otherwise admit that it's not! This is basically your argument! lol Also to think you’re a man with points as you use your account for gooning is hilarious. But carry on short king. You are a modern day jester. Nice strategy. When you can't prove a guy wrong, you resort to insults. lol! Making fun of a guy's height, his sexual preferences, etc. This is what modern feminism is all…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 09:53 PM
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You hit the hammer right on the nail! BB is the norm everywhere for men and it always has been. It's just about what you get in return for all your bucks, i.e. basic ROI.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 09:41 PM
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I am not a clueless keyboard warrior either dude. I'm an immigrant who arrived in the West from South Asia when I was a child and have been visiting my native country every year for the past 20 years. In fact, I just came back from there last week! I know what the women over there are like. And while there are a lot of green-card hunters in the major cities, a lot of the women in those countries are genuinely just looking for a financially stable partner with means to provide them the life that …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 09:39 PM
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Lol! You mean like the so-called modern women in the west? AF/BB wasn't a phrase coined in the East, my friend. And what makes you think these are poor, impoverished women in poor countries? First-world elitist mentality on display right here.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 04:04 PM
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Answer what exactly? I was the one who made the point about men being more prone to violence than women and that it wasn't misandrist to proclaim that. And I didn't need a statistical study to make that point because it's common sense. Just like it's common sense and NOT misogynistic to claim that women are more emotionally manipulative than men. Even if you wanted to do a statistical study on that, you can't because it's not a tangible metric. You don't need a statistical study, which btw I don…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 03:58 PM
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No, I did not. Unless your opinion is that that's how all men think.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 02:18 PM
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Lmao! Okay clearly you have a biased hatred toward men, which explains your opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 05:22 AM
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So, anyone that says men are violent or more prone to violence are automatically horrible misandrists? I'm always happy to help people that are logically impaired or are generally incapable deciphering the meaning of certain words, despite reading about them on the internet. Don't worry, we'll take this slow, one step at a time.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 03:39 AM
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What do you mean by "don't fall in love"?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 10:28 PM
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A preconceived notion that women are overall horrible beings simply because they’re women. Great! Now that we have a baseline understanding of what misogyny is, show me which part of the other guy's comment was misogynistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 10:28 PM
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Yes and it was in no way misogynistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 07:49 PM
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What are you on about? I'm talking about consenting adults. I didn't think that needed to be explicitly stated, but here we are. And no one said that is the ONLY thing men value.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 06:57 PM
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Do you even know what the word misogyny means?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 06:22 PM
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How does having a preference for younger, more fertile women in any way make anyone a terrible person? And don't say you didn't say that because that's clearly what you're alluding to. This is just another way for women to police men's preferences. The way I see it a man wanting to date someone 5, 10 or even 15 years younger than them, is no different than women wanting to date someone who's financially stable and/or someone that makes more money than them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 06:21 PM
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I would imagine most STEM guys nowadays don't even date. They either stay single, become passport bros, or if they're immigrants, find someone in their native country and bring them back to the west as mail order brides.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 06:13 PM
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I wouldn't argue with someone who said men are generally attracted to women that are younger than them and prefer women in their 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 02:58 PM
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Yeah right. Anyone that points out any faults with female behavior is automatically a misogynist. Great point! 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 02:17 PM
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I'm in the STEM field and most guys in my field don't get married until their 30s, if at all. So, I guess you're not wrong there.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 02:03 PM
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It works for women I guess. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 04:32 AM
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Nice deflection. Are you going to answer the question?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 01:31 PM
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So, if I can't get hard when I'm with her, does that mean I can dump her and move on to someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 12:21 PM
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Do we ask you to apologise or take accountability for the men that rape and kill woman? No of course not. This point is brought up ALL THE TIME on this sub. About how men are terrible because a miniscule percentage of us are rapists and child-abusers. If you don't want men to take accountability for it, why would you even bring it up? Along the same line of logic that you provided for men being dead bedroom situations, I'm saying that the reason women end up in abusive relationships is because t…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 12:11 PM
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I love how women on this sub constantly clamor about how intelligent, educated, independent they are and how they don't need no man, and they are perfectly happy with their cats. But the moment someone tells them to take accountability for their poor decisions, y'all claim to be young and naïve and oh so easily manipulated. Btw, you just got done blaming men for dead bedroom situations, but refuse to take accountability for women that knowingly get into relationships with abusive men. Make it ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 11:59 AM
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Men are terrible at hiding our red flags. It's just that women ignore those red flags if he checks all her attraction boxes.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 11:53 AM
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No, I fully expect women to get with a guy without doing any kind of sensible background checks on him or trying to find out about past relationships, assuming he is tall and good looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 11:48 AM
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Oh so now it doesn't make sense? You literally said it was a guy's fault for entering into a relationship where he has to put up with a woman who withholds sex from him. Well, concomitantly, I'm saying if a woman gets into a relationship with a man who has a history of abuse, the fault lies with her and not the abuser.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 11:45 AM
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I love hookers. Cheaper than having a girlfriend for sure and don't even get me started on how much it costs to maintain a wife these days. Sugar babies are even better. Have fun with your cats!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 11:28 AM
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Who forces women to get into abusive relationships? No one. Therefore, if she gets into a relationship with a guy who has a history of abuse, the fault lies with her and not the abuser. See how that sounds? EDIT: Lmao! You always get downvoted when you try to use the same logic against them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 11:26 AM
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I agree. Which is why I tell my single male friends NOT to get married. Nearly half of the ones that have been married have ended up divorced or separated anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 11:25 AM
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Lmao! You just proved my point. This was my original comment thay you responded to: Being masculine is a great way to attract women if you're already tall, good looking and physically fit.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 09:38 AM
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How tall are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 09:19 AM
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Yep! Neither high value (since I'm short) nor low value (coz I make good money & have status).
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 08:12 AM
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That's basically what I'm saying too.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 08:10 AM
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Nope. Let's use another example besides gang leaders, who are often short and unattractive, but have no problems acquiring women due to their status. The nerdy IT guy who makes $200k a year will ONLY benefit from having toxically masculine traits such as arrogance, being headstrong, hyper-independent and putting down others that don't make as much money. Tried and tested!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 08:09 AM
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Unattractive men that have neither money nor status will not benefit from being toxically masculine. That's the unfortunate truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 06:04 AM
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Take a cue from Elizabeth Warren. But seriously, if men can pretend to be women and vice-versa, why can't I pretend to be of another race?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 05:24 AM
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Being masculine is a great way to attract women if you're already tall, good looking and physically fit. But if you don't have those characteristics, often times toxic masculinity under the veneer of masculinity is what helps a lot of men acquire women. Otherwise, you wouldn't see gang leaders, career criminals, etc., rarely struggling with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 05:17 AM
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Yeah, the guy that compares getting a botox to a literal life-altering surgery with the one of the potential outcomes being paralysis, is clearly the logical one here. 🙄 As a functioning adult regardless of gender, I try not to make dumb, outlandish statements.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 10:03 AM
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Are you serious? Honestly, the more time I spend on this sub, the more I'm reminded of how much women lack empathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 05:28 AM
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Same way short guys can't get any taller - although they can now have surgery to be so i guess even short guys have a way to opt back into the dating game. That surgery is one of the riskiest and life-altering surgeries that you can get. The surgeons literally snap your bones and try to reattach them to give the impression of elongated limbs. Most people that go through this surgery end up paralyzed for life. And even with all those risks, the pain and sacrifice, you might only be able to gain 2…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 05:02 AM
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Plenty of people fake it till they make it. Also, based on my observations, getting her to sleep with you is the hard part, convincing her to stay after you've slept with her is the easy part - whether or not the foundation of the relationship was initially built on lies.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 08:35 PM
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I'm not talking about participating in combat sports. I'm talking about attending cardio-kickboxing classes. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 06:41 PM
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Just be yourself is terrible advice if you're a short, nerdy, socially awkward 20-something guy. Girls are typically not interested in guys like that, unless he's exceptional in some way or portrays himself as such. Besides, most of the Chads I know in real-life lie through their teeth in order to get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 05:37 PM
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And regular women - and men for that matter - are often camera-shy and aren't comfortable coming on these shows in the first place. Contrary to FnF, the Whatever podcast does their shows in the evening and often invites regular women working regular jobs/are housewives.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 05:32 PM
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Honestly, based on some of the conversations I've had on this sub, it's not clear to me that women understand why men of varying ages typically prefer younger women. A lot of women on this sub tend to call men "disgusting" and "creeps" if they want to date a girl that's 10+ years younger than them. Yet, I don't see the same level of denial and/or resentment among men for women wanting taller and/or wealthier men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 04:32 PM
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1) That these ages aren’t old 29 isn't particularly old. But 34 is definitely pushing it biologically for women, particularly ones that want to have kids because a woman's fertility starts to decline rapidly past the age of 35. when men say they find most women attractive... In comparison to women, yes. But we are biologically hard-wired to find women in their late teens and 20s attractive because they tend to be the most fertile.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 10:16 AM
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Wait, you're saying a woman who is 29 is too young to get into a serious relationship??? 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 10:11 AM
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So, you're already a Chad and your female friends are acting as your wing-ladies. That's not akin to giving someone dating advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 10:01 AM
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Joining a dance class or a kickboxing class is a great way to meet women and possibly find a partner, as long as you're already tall and somewhat decent looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 09:59 AM
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The worst advice I've ever gotten was from my female cousin, "Just be yourself bro and the right girl will find you. There's always someone for everyone."
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 09:54 AM
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I'm not talking about how much sex Gen-X used to have versus millennials and Gen-Z. I'm talking about options. Prior to social media, girls had a smaller pool of guys to choose from, which is why - at least based on what I've noticed - promiscuity among women wasn't as pervasive. Nowadays, dating happens across county and even state lines. Moreover, due to the increase in options, girls that are bored with their partners often move on to supposedly greener pastures. This is a fairly recent pheno…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 03:03 PM
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Tbf things have gotten a lot worse since the introduction of social media and online dating. So, maybe closer to the last 15-20 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 12:17 PM
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Speaking as a fellow whoremonger, I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 12:14 PM
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Or they are likely taking advantage of the men in their life, a.k.a the men that they've friendzoned, without even realizing it. Lack of self-awareness is not uncommon amongst modern western women by my observations. Edit: Looks like I triggered a bunch of them by saying the quiet part out loud. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 06:26 AM
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I don't know what sexually valuable means. All I know is that since time immemorial, men have preferred women that were young and fertile, and there's biological reasons for it: a woman's peak reproductive years being between the late teens and late 20s is a good one. Moving on to the supposedly "dominant and masculine" men, if you're talking about women choosing men that are providers and protectors, there's biological as well as psychological reasons for that as well. Personally, I think that'…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 06:42 PM
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The "patriarchy". 🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 05:28 PM
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So, are women ever going to take accountability for their actions?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 05:55 AM
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I don't think they're empowered either. But they are rich as hell because of their occupation. So, they don't really have room to play the victim now after acquiring all that wealth.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 04:21 AM
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Saggy tits on the other hand.....
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 06:55 PM
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That also describes fully-formed out-of-the-womb humans and we get killed daily too. Doesn't make it right. There's literally no evidence that suggests that most or a majority of prostitutes are coerced into this work in developed countries. If anything, the thing that drives women into this line of work isn't poverty, but greed! If they truly needed to make money for food and shelter only, there's plenty of ways to do that without selling their body. There are plenty of vacancies at McDonald's,…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 06:07 PM
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The problem is the victim mentality. If I made a lot of money through a multi-level marketing scheme and I'm at the cusp of retirement with millions of dollars, I can't then turn around and put all the blame on the company that made me a millionaire, while taking zero accountability for my actions. Heck, a lot of the women that are expressing regret for being part of the porn industry, have opened Onlyfans accounts and are continuing to promote the same content that they claim to be regretful of…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 05:13 PM
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A "foetus" with a unique DNA, neurobiological structures and most importantly, the ability to feel pain as early as 18 weeks! The problem is you thinking it's a trap versus the fact that the vast majority of women in the West get into sex work of their own volition. Also, the fact that the Nordic model does aim to shut the industry down is the main reason why SWs oppose it. That was the point I alluded to in my last comment. Plus, the way in which the law is designed is just misandrist as fuck!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 05:02 PM
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So, in other words, you have no proof.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 04:48 PM
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Abortion kills a LOT of unborn babies! Even if you don't believe in the old Christian adage of "life begins at conception". Plenty of babies are aborted during the 2nd and 3rd trimesters. The Nordic model has been challenged by SWs since it's inception because gives impunity to the women providing sexual services, but not the clients/men, which causes more mistrust and abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 04:46 PM
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We live in a culture where people - particularly women - are lauded and put on a pedestal for coming out as victims. When that happens, what else do you expect? A lot of these women retire with millions of dollars in their bank accounts. And even when they say they're retiring, they don't retire completely. I mean, a lot of the older women in Hollywood that have been working in films for 20-40 years that are now close to retirement (a.k.a no one is willing to hire them anymore), are coming out o…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 04:41 PM
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Yes, you're right again! Abortions kills millions of babies every year! So, let's start with banning that. Next, let's talk about prostitution. Legalizing prostitution isn't just about giving some horny "incels" that have trouble getting dates because they're not attractive and/or charming enough. It also allows protection for women that are involved in this industry. Right now, in places where prostitution isn't legal, women that are trafficked, abused and coerced into this industry, have no wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 04:33 PM
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Do you have any proof that the majority of sex workers in developed countries are trafficked, coerced and abused? Bear in mind, sex work involves porn, Onlyfans, camming, prostitution and a myriad of other sub-occupations. Btw, since you brought up the point of money being withheld, that happens in the corporate world as well. Heck, even people working in public sector jobs have had their salaries withheld from time to time for a number of reasons. The difference is that these folks can fight in…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 04:22 PM
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It's only stupid because you disagree with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 04:19 PM
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Yes, you're right! We should stop people from exercising their free will if the result involves them harming themselves and others. So, let's ban cannabis, alcohol, prostitution, adultery (since it causes psychological damage), divorce and especially, abortions!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 04:11 PM
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Lmao! That is too logical a question to ask. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 07:07 PM
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Unless you've never felt genuine interest or care for another individual, this is just a terrible attempt at a "gotcha". There are subtle, often both voluntary and involuntary, ways to show your appreciation for something someone has done for you. And no, it's not always offering to sleep with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 05:05 PM
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Your reading comprehension skills need work. I said MOST men don't expect sex in return for paying for a first date.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 04:53 PM
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So, you have no evidence for your claim. Great. Another reason why women should pay their share on the first date. So men can not expect a second one. Sure. I don't disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 04:23 PM
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I don't think a guy is owed sex simply because he paid for dinner. In fact, unless you have data for it, I refuse to believe that most men anticipate receiving sex as a reward for footing the bill on a first date. That's just another attempt at portraying men as some type of predator. Nice try though. I do believe however that if a guy does pay the bill on a first date, he is well within his right to expect a 2nd date.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 04:11 PM
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If we're talking about first dates, here's what you can do: if you didn't feel the "vibe", just offer to split the bill, regardless of who initiated the date. Simple!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 03:51 PM
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Yep. And this is why I thank God everyday for making me bisexual. As someone who's dated both men and women, I can assure you that courting men - both gay and bi - is so much easier and so much more satisfying than trying to court women. In my experience, men are typically far more understanding, empathetic and munificent than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 03:48 PM
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Hence all the downvotes I'm getting. Proves my point even more.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 01:29 PM
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Of course it did. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 06:23 AM
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Or because he's not looking for a LTR and instead wants to play the field. He has every right to do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 05:17 AM
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No, you don't cast her aside nor do you fall out of love. Because once you've spent a considerable amount of time - years essentially - with each others you've each made enough emotional investment in the relationship that falling out of love is highly unlikely. Moreover, when it comes to our partners, men tend to be more territorial than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 04:28 AM
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Didn't you know that when men have preferences, they're called creepy and disgusting? But when women have preferences, they're called standards. On a serious note, all I see here are women labeling all men that seek younger ADULT women as predators by making tangential arguments about fringe incidents of lecherous old men targeting minors. This is the type of gaslighting that men have to deal with whenever we state our standards, boundaries and preferences. You're a predator if you're in your 30…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 04:13 AM
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Were you raised by a single mom? Coz you're giving off that energy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 05:03 PM
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It's astounding to me that people can misrepresent your words so blantantly just to attain some woke points on social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 05:02 PM
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Wow! I can finally understand the cause for this snowflake generation, which coincidentally happens to be my own. We have men that are being raised to either be feminine & submissive OR the complete opposite, a.k.a drug dealers and criminals because we clearly don't have strong fathers in the home. I'm super happy and proud that my parents raised me and my brother the way they did, which has led to our success: I'm a Software Engineer making well over 6 figures while my brother is one of the top…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 05:00 PM
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When did I say that kids should regularly get the shit beaten out of them? It seems like you're just arguing to argue, a.k.a arguing in bad faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 02:06 PM
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Yes, just let your kids run roughshot all over you without disciplining them at all. I'm sure they'll grow up to be kind, considerate and respectful human beings then. lol I don't think hitting your child should be the first thing you should do in order to discipline them. But it should definitely be on the table, most likely as a last resort. This is coming from someone who had been struck by his parents as a child for being an annoying and disobedient little shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 01:27 PM
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I think paternity tests should automatically be woven into the childbirth process. This removes the concerns that a lot of women have about being tacitly accused of infidelity by their husbands/boyfriends while also allaying the latter's sometimes rational fears.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 09:00 AM
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I don't get why this question is only relevant to women. But oh well. 🤷🏽‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 05:46 AM
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This sounds like a justification for arranged marriages and I'm pretty sure you despise the concept of arranged marriages. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 05:09 AM
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The lack of shame or respect & consideration for societal norms among modern western women is why western society is heading down the path of degeneracy in the first place. Sleeping around with a bunch of people because "every woman should experience hot girl summer" and then going back to the guy you friendzoned/rejected because he's the optimal candidate for marriage, a.k.a beta bucks, is what is ultimately leading to the degradation of society, the systematic breakdown of the family structure…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 04:54 AM
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I don't even partake in OLD that often and I can tell you half a hundred stories similar to mine. Like I said, it isn't just my experience, I've had several observations as well. Btw, when you say, "it happened to me", you're talking about a time when you rejected a guy and then eventually went out with him, while seeing literally NO ONE else in the interim? No dates, no casual/short-term relationships, no hookups, nothing?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 04:24 AM
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Personally, I would describe your situation as an outlier then. Coz that certainly hasn't been my experience or observation.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 07:47 PM
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So, between rejecting your now fiance and then eventually starting to date him, you hadn't hooked up with or been in a casual relationship with a single man?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 07:15 PM
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Women on this sub legit want men to feel grateful about being "husband material". lol! They're openly expressing their opinions about how men should just accept women who rejected us in the past and are running back to us after getting pumped and dumped by Chads. The late great Kevin Samuel's words have never been more true.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 07:13 PM
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Did your fiance know about this during the early part of your relationship? If so and he still went through it, this is exactly what I mean when I say that men need to recognize their worth and raise their standards. 19 yo me would've probably thought myself lucky to be the alternate/safe-bet, but I don't think I'll settle for that ever again.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 06:36 PM
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It's pretty clear to me from the hypothetical that the OP provided that the guys she was swiping right on either rejected her OR she couldn't keep them for w/e reason. Idk about you, but I would immediately lose attraction for her if I found out she swiped left on me before, especially during the early part of a budding relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 05:17 PM
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Because I've been burned before by women who rejected me and later came back and told me they wanted to be with me. It's almost always because the guys they were swiping right on pumped and dumped them, and I was the reliable low-hanging fruit they could always count on. A lesser-than alternate or a rebound if you will. I think it's important for men to raise their standards enough so that they don't settle for being #2 or the option that's always there, without getting something out of the arra…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 04:57 PM
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I'd probably smash and leave. If she's somewhat attractive and/or good in bed, I might consider keeping her around as a booty call or a FWB. But it's unlikely that I would ever take her seriously as a long-term partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 02:11 PM
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How am I a troll? I asked a genuine question.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 05:13 AM
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But most normal people understand women can be valued for much more than that. Outside of youth, beauty and fertility, what exactly do modern western women bring to the relationship table?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 04:59 AM
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I appreciate you mentioning the Queen of all red-pillers. You know, since we all received our official red-pill handbook from her. All Hail Queen Pearl. 🙌🏾
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 01:53 PM
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Reading comprehension not your strong suit, huh? I said IF that were the new norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 11:24 PM
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If that is the "new norm", it would explain why passport bros are gradually becoming so popular.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 01:29 PM
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Also true. Most women want men with experience. They don't want a guy who doesn't know his way around a woman's body and fumbles to even get a condom on.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 12:32 PM
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As a bisexual man, I can confirm that this is true. I have female friends who are bisexual and they swear they'll never date a bi man. Don't even get me started on straight women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 12:29 PM
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How you make it 6 years without raising your voice. Most the time I'm like, "I'm not doing this" and exit to another room but every now and then it's going to boil over. That's probably why it lasted 6 years and also why it ended.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 01:27 PM
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Again, my comebacks have been logically sound and pretty easy to interpret. You don't like them? That's your problem. And I must've missed the Red Pill handbook in the mail. My point is that even if, it drops a woman's value, she still ranks higher than a lot of the men criticising her. Yeah in terms of attractiveness and assuming she's under 30. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 07:03 PM
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No one ever said a woman is totally devalued if she sleeps around with multiple men. It does not destroy her worth as a human being. What I'm saying is that it diminishes her value as a potential long-term partner. Plus, women get less attractive as they age because men value youth and fertility. Personally speaking, I've never been attracted to a woman over 35. Now concomitantly, men typically - assuming they have their head on straight - get more attractive with age because women as they matur…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 02:35 PM
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Look at the original comment and look at your responses. You derailed this conversation a long time ago. I'm just following your lead on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 11:15 AM
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Until she hits a wall and BOOM! She's a 4.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 03:19 AM
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Morality and smartness are subjective concepts. I'm talking about tangible indicators that determine whether a person is better than you or not. Such as height, physique/figure, income, status, etc. A woman that's an 8 will never sleep with a 6 anyway, unless she's drunk and horny. So, I'm not sure why you're even trying to make that point when it's clearly the opposite of what I alluded to.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 09:51 PM
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Let me guess, the girlfriend is 400 lbs, ugly and smokes everyday, i.e. bad breath. Also, exceptions don't make the rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 03:21 PM
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Women are hypergamous by nature and if they're sleeping around with multiple guys, that inherently means that they are sleeping with men that are better than them in every aspect. I think for women, sleeping around by itself is evidence that she is low quality.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 03:19 PM
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Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 12:24 AM
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So, women that sleep around with multiple men belong in the dumpster? Good to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 12:24 AM
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The only way the average man has the chance to get laid as frequently as the average woman in this day and age, is by paying for it! There's really no other alternative. Trying to blame somebody else constantly... you sound like a boy. Who did I blame?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 12:22 AM
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Here we go with the "your standards are too high bro". 😂 Despite the fact that women - not men - are the ones that practice hypergamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 06:14 PM
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True. Women are the only ones that are hypergamous.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 06:12 PM
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Pretty much any man can get laid, if he actually tries. And doesn't have his standards somewhere in stratosphere. I love how whenever men have a hard time getting laid, the assumption is always that our expectations are too high. This is despite the fact that women here constantly complain that men will fuck anything. Getting laid doesn't make you deserving of respect. The reality is that men that get laid on a regular basis are not only respected by other men, but also by the vast majority of w…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 06:11 PM
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It's their choice! Are you equally shocked when 5'1 girls demand husbands that are at least 5'10???
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 03:21 AM
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This is too funny! 😄
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 12:35 AM
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i didn't say approaching was simple, i said the rules you have to follow in order not to come off as an awkward creep are simple (to neurotypicals) I agree. Just be tall, attractive and confident. Having money is a bonus. Now, why is that so hard for men to understand??
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 09:53 PM
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Plenty of women with no or little experience would prefer the kissless virgin, if he is a good man and compatible with her, or else neither of them. The reason they're kissless virgins in the first place is because no one - including the types of girls you're describing - wants them for anything other than beta bucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 09:50 PM
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People are revered for achieving things that are otherwise difficult to achieve. No one gets or deserves respect for accomplishing things that are easy. In order to sleep with multiple women, a man has to bring a lot to the table. He has to be tall, in-shape, confident, have money, status, etc., for a girl to even give him the time of day. On the other hand, all a girl needs to do in order to sleep with multiple men is just be willing to do it. It's that easy! A girl sleeping around with multipl…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 09:48 PM
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Most of the men on this sub make valid complaints about women purposely ignoring blatant red flags in men simply because he is tall, good looking and has a high status/money, choosing said guy for dating or ONS, then acting surprised when that guy doesn't want to commit or worse, is abusive, and then claiming ALL men are the same. In other words, men on this sub complain about the lack of accountability that is synonymous with women in 2023.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 03:05 PM
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So, you're just here to troll?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 02:57 PM
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Not by the government. It's just neighborhoods that are mostly occupied by LGBT+ folks. Boystown Chicago is a good example.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 03:02 PM
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This is so true. If you're a straight or bi man with low self-esteem, just walk through a gay neighborhood and it'll give you a massive boost of confidence. The amount of gay or bi or even transmen/women that hit on me in these neighborhoods is absolutely insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 05:48 PM
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I don't plan on blowing ALL the money on SBs. Just a percentage of it, in case I need company, specifically sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 06:56 PM
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Make as much money as I possibly can without losing my sanity and spend some of it on sugar babies.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 04:43 PM
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That was just one example. But as a South Asian American man myself, I've seen plenty of SA women with similar stories.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 09:39 PM
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She dated ethnically diverse men, but wanted to settle down with someone who wasn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 05:29 AM
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This is definitely a thing. There was a post on AskReddit a while ago where a 32 year-old Indian-American woman was mentioning how hard it's been to find a traditional Indian-American man to settle down with, especially once they find out about her promiscuous past. Apparently, she has had sexual relations with 17 men in her teens and 20s combined and the moment a guy she was courting for marriage would find out about it, he wanted to either a) put her in the sex-only category; or b) not want an…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 11:16 PM
2

What is an incel? Please educate me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 02:36 AM
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You rarely see women policing other women too. Most women have a tendency to not only blame shitty men, but ALL men for their own terrible decisions.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 11:30 PM
1

Here's my educated guess: not a lot of women are virgins on their wedding night.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 12:57 PM
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The most common slang for a woman is "whore". The most common slang for a man is "incel". These two things alone should clearly indicate what men and women hate when it comes to the sexual history of their respective partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 10:50 PM
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More like, "women keep telling me to continue being nice and respectful to them, but they always seem to ignore me and instead continue to spread their legs for the douchebags in the apartment next door who treat them and other women like shit."
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 09:33 PM
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It's atypical for women past the age of 30 to go for bad boys, but it does happen. But I was primarily talking about women in their teens and 20s, which is what I indicated.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 07:37 PM
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That’s very anecdotal And your comments aren't? I am willing to bet the Church girls who liked bad boys were not the most chaste either they probably got around. It depends on what you mean by "chaste". Were they virgins? Probably not. But they weren't sleeping around either, a.k.a not promiscuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 07:13 PM
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That's why I mentioned the age group that was most attracted to bad boys in my comment. Older women typically don't go for bad boys because of obvious reasons: those guys don't make good long-term partners, they typically lack any sort of ambition besides spreading their seed as far and wide as possible, some of them tend to be abusive, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 07:10 PM
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Literally every girl I've ever known wanted the "bad guy", particularly in their teens and 20s. Whether it was the promiscuous girl who partied a lot OR little miss sunshine who went to Church every Sunday morning. Their motivations might've been different, but the outcome was the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 01:11 PM
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"Just be yourself bro." - said the girl that friendzoned me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 12:47 PM
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This is so true. And you can easily envision the progression - or deterioration, depending on who you talk to - over the years. It started with Orkut and then gradually shifted to Facebook, and now it's IG, Tiktok and for some women, OF.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 09:55 PM
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Maybe people shouldn't steal or rob or commit any crimes at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 12:51 PM
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Wait, are you suggesting that we should believe the girl no matter what, simply because she claims she was drunk and passed out? There are plenty of women who've had drunk sex with men, only to regret it the next day and claim that they were r*ped. Plenty of men who've had their lives and their careers upended because someone regretted sleeping with them while they were drunk.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 12:48 PM
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Sounds like you hate men, a.k.a a misandrist.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 04:49 PM
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I don't care if my future wife - assuming I ever decide to get married - is a virgin. But her body count absolutely does matter in the context of having kids and ensuring they are yours, i.e. paternity.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 02:25 PM
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Most girls get validation from a wide variety of men, which is why they can afford to be delusional. Sure, an obese, below-average looking woman might not get any attention from a top-tier guy. But there are plenty of men out there that would be attracted to her. This is not the case for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 03:32 PM
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Anyone who says that you have to put yourself in mortal danger for a woman you hardly know in order to prove that you're a real man is basically just a simp. That man was a hero though, I will say that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 01:29 PM
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Most of the popular (upvoted) comments are complaining about the same things I'm talking about. but men constantly talk about women’s access to terrible sex and undesirable men as if it’s a positive And yet they keep sleeping around and/or dating the same exact type of men. Go figure! Women are the ones that control the sexual marketplace. So, if you're dating guys based on how tall or muscular they are or how much money or status they have, thinking that it translates to good sex and then blami…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 12:57 PM
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As a techbro who sees legal escorts twice a month, I don't think that's what the OP was talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 12:48 PM
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Which ones? Outside of the $100k a year and the gym bro one, I doubt any of the other things are doable for even 10% of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 12:45 PM
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This is it. You can't just think of yourself as good-looking or charming or even capable. There's a burden of proof that's required of men that really isn't a requirement for women, particularly when it comes to attracting the opposite gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 12:38 PM
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We get access to all the shitty, unfulfilling sex we want Yet women still fall for it. lol Men in PPD straight up make posts saying women not reaching orgasm is not their concern No, we say that if women can't directly and clearly communicate what you like in bed, THEN it's not our concern. We’re desired by guys who are undesirable…great Most men have to deal with a lot of problematic women too. Amazing isn't it?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 04:51 AM
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Last I read the research says the single women are happier than ever. Is that why more women are on antidepressants than ever before?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 10:36 PM
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No, we get mad when you say you don't and try to deflect.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 07:44 PM
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Sorry what? Where are the posts of women complaining? ​ Responding in comments occasionally reminding men about what women deal with You can't make this up. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 07:13 PM
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Sadly, men can't read minds. So, if you're not communicating what you like clearly enough, it's not my job to keep pushing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 06:47 PM
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Most women find most men unattractive. This has been proven through various studies on dating sites. People don't get to a point where they're suddenly no longer attractive, and it seems some men like to reference it as a way to neg the women that aren't interested in them. No, it's quite the opposite. It's more common nowadays for older women to rattle on about how the men their age prefer younger women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 06:46 PM
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That's literally what women do on this and every other sub when men state their preferences. You would have an aneurysm right now if a 30+ yo man posted on this sub that he prefers to only date women between the ages of 18 and 24.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 06:43 PM
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Examples?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 06:41 PM
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Well, they typically don't settle. They think they are a lot times when they are marrying their equivalent though. When they inevitably hit the wall I mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 11:30 PM
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There have been plenty of polls similar to that on subs like AskRedditAfterDark and they pretty much align with what I'm claiming.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 09:29 PM
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I literally told you to prove what you're claiming with examples and you couldn't. You know why? Coz it doesn't happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 09:28 PM
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You literally did the same thing to all men that are on this sub disagreeing with women. Tit for tat too much for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 09:25 PM
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Most men in the west agree that women nowadays are far less traditional, feminine and loyal that women 50 years ago. And if you've looked at rates of promiscuity and adultery, this is pretty much a given. So, these opinions aren't just confined to one subreddit. Moreover, the premise that women will completely alter their personalities and their proclivities when the right guy comes along is completely nonsensical. And yes women nowadays are more psychologically damaged than they were in the pas…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 09:23 PM
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Hi value for the one night stand, and yet perhaps even disappointing for the one night stand. Doesn't matter as long as he's hitting it. Not high high value for relationships although it may take the woman a few months to admit to herself, that his personality sucks. This doesn't matter either because men - especially successful men and/or Chads - are the gatekeepers of relationships, while women are the gatekeepers of sex. What most people on this sub fail to understand is that a man's value li…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 09:12 PM
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That's not what I've heard. But okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 09:03 PM
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I've said this before and I'll say it however many times it needs to be said: men are terrible at hiding our red flags. If you've been on a couple of dates with a guy, you're sure to have seen at least a couple of his glaring red flags. Now, the issue is that most women tend to ignore said red flags because the guy is either really attractive and/or has high status and/or he exhibits characteristics that are typically attractive to most women, i.e. assertiveness, dominance, a no BS attitude, etc…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 09:00 PM
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Here's the thing, I have no problem admitting that the reason I'm on reddit most of the time is because I have literally no life outside of my FT job and my side hustle. I have a couple of friends, but we don't go out every weekend. However, when I was in a relationship or when I was actively dating, I had less than 10 mins every day to check all my social media accounts. So, it's a little surreal - and perhaps convenient as well - to me when women that spend most of their time on reddit claim t…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 08:53 PM
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So, a handful of mentally unstable people that you've labelled as incels went on a rampage and therefore all men suffering from loneliness amd rejection are just as bad? That's an amazing theory! Plus the vitriol on this subreddit isn't directed toward all women. It's just women that get pumped and dumped by Chads and then complain about it on this subreddit, while additionally calling all men "terrorist incels" despite their own terrible life choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 08:34 PM
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Pill theories about high value men ignore personality. If the high value man has an annoying personality he is not really a high value man. This was your original argument. I'm saying regardless of a guy's personality traits, if he's slept with a lot of women, he has essentially proven himself to be a HVM.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 08:23 PM
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The responsibility for communicating what you like in bed entirely falls on you. I as a man cannot read your mind. As I've stated in my response to your, the reason the men you're sleeping with are not listening to you is likely because they don't care! There are both psychological as well as physical elements to sex/pleasure. A lot of men get turned on by eating a woman out. That's why I said, if he continues to do it despite your apprehensions, he probably only cares about HIS pleasure and HIS…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 08:15 PM
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Are you? If not, please point out a few examples where men have specifically blamed women for their lack of success with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 08:09 PM
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Umm no. That literally provides no pleasure to the guy other than the psychological pleasure of knowing that your woman is getting off while riding you. If I wanted physical pleasure, I'd want her to bounce up and down as opposed to grinding on me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 08:07 PM
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How does that disprove anything I said?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 08:04 PM
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Nice pivot. lol Why would you believe her? The same reason why I would believe you. Yeah, I am going to believe a biased random Internet man over my actual real life experience. Your actual real life experience of 1. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 08:03 PM
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Men are direct communicators. If you're not clearly communicating what you like in bed, men are going to end up doing what they THINK you might like. That's an issue with communication on the woman's side, not the man's. If you ARE clearly communicating what you like and he still doesn't listen, it's probably because he doesn't care what you like and only wants to get off himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 04:00 PM
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I don't know what you mean by "getting away with everything". We're just talking about dating and sex. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 03:57 PM
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Again, most men aren't blaming you for wanting to date only certain types of men that you're attracted to. That's completely your prerogative. What does that acknowledgement do if there’s no way to truly fix the issue? What do you think women should be doing that they aren’t? Most men care about being heard. As for solutions, there's plenty, but there's no one size fits all type solution. I personally think that as much as people hate TRP, passport bros and MGTOW, they're the only ones providing…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 03:55 PM
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Don't wanna sound too graphic, but have you ever asked her to grind on you during cowgirl?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 03:48 PM
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Hmm that's interesting. Most women say they can't cum through intercourse and their biggest complain is that men don't organically initiate oral sex. But if women were to communicate what they like in bed, I think the majority of men would listen. The problem is that most women are into douchebags that only care about getting off themselves and don't necessarily care whether their partners are getting off.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 03:43 PM
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Most men aren't blaming women for men not having sex. The issue is with women not acknowledging the fact that they have an easier time dating than men in general and thereby, refusing to empathize with lonely, touch-starved men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 03:38 PM
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Yes a lot of them here CLAIM to be taken, I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 03:16 PM
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I literally am friends with a bunch of overweight and obese women and they get far more attention than the average guy on social media and on online dating platforms such as Tinder, Bumble and Hinge. They get messages in the hundreds on some weeks. Moreover, there's a podcast called "whatever", where this below-average looking, overweight woman showed up one time who claimed she was a sex addict and was having sex with 5-6 guys a day. That's more than what most top-tier guys can pull. You all ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 03:14 PM
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They complain about it all the time on this sub and others. Talk about selective viewing. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 03:07 PM
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The women here?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 03:06 PM
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The end-goal for most men is sleeping with as many women as they can and then eventually settling down with the one traditional woman they find. If they can achieve that, they are by definition high-value. I'm in my mid-30s and almost every single Chad I've known since HS ended up following this same path.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 03:04 PM
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You'd be surprised at how many married women think they're settling and if they wanted, they could do better.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 03:01 PM
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I think a lot of the "Chads" here are basically just guys lying about their sex life coz they like playing twisted games OR they're just women pretending to be men since they get some sick pleasure by rubbing salt on our wounds. Actual players don't have time to argue with random-ass strangers on social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 03:00 PM
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But do you tell them that though?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 01:39 PM
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Do you encourage women to be more feminine and ladylike too?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 01:05 PM
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Not saying this to hurt anyone's feelings, but even below-average looking walruses have tons of men thirsting after them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 12:32 PM
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Are you implying these are necessary to get girls? Because no Having a "popping social media" means status and that is something girls are attracted to. You can acquire status in other ways too, if social media isn't up your alley. But status is indeed key to dating girls consistently.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 12:28 PM
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You can teach a girl how to do a BJ properly. It's not that hard. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 11:28 PM
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Just as an example, maybe she perfomed anal sex with a lot of her previous partners. But you're too big/girthy and therefore, she's uncomfortable doing it with you. I'd take that as a compliment. However, if she refuses to do something as simple as a BJ, when I know for a fact she's done it with her previous partners, it's gonna be a massive deal-breaker for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 11:20 PM
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Drug dealers, serial killers and even gang members have historically exhibited all those characteristics, in addition to being abusive assholes, and yet they still never fail to get attention from women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 04:22 AM
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It's pretty rare for a guy to exhibit all these characteristics and still be a cookie-cutter vanilla dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 03:36 PM
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Not all terrible people are out there dating tons of women. Plenty of incels are single.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 12:20 PM
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That's an interesting perspective. So, if a woman dates a bad guy, by default she has no self-respect? I'm not disagreeing with you. Just trying to understand the concept here. With regard to the men dating these so-called insecure women, all I can say is that men prefer variety to a certain degree, even if we would like to settle down with a quality woman at the end of the day. I'd rather be the man that is able to date several women than be the virgin who can date none. Being the latter sucks …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 12:19 PM
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Try being unambiguously horrible to them and see how far you get. Seen plenty of guys being "unambiguously horrible" to the women they date and you know what, those guys are never single. It's a strategy that doesn't work for everyone though. But guys like that exhibit traits - assertive, dominant, revered by their peers a.k.a high status - that are very attractive to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 11:29 AM
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I've rarely seen that and it's usually when the guy either has a high enough status (high ranking official, politician, gang leader, beefy cop, etc.) or money. I've never seen an attractive or even an average-looking girl date a broke, short, unattractive guy. On the other hand, I've plenty of average or above-average looking, fit men dating overweight or sometimes even obese women. I've seen examples of that in my own neighborhood and even among my extended family/friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 06:27 PM
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Most of us don't. But there are exceptions to every rule. And if a woman is fat or unattractive and dating an attractive man, it's usually because he's extracting resources from her and feels that's what he's owed for dating her in spite of her shortcomings.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 06:22 PM
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I haven't found a response yet that says flat out that a woman raised her standards because of media. Sometimes it's hard to realize how much media - or social media - influences our lives. Question for women who are responding, or not: Do you think men have raised their standards due to media? Why or why not? Not a woman, but I'm gonna respond anyway since this is the Automod. My answer to your first question is no. But we men should definitely be cognizant of our worth in society. I feel like …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 09:02 PM
0

A very small percentage of men have the ability to even partake in hookup culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 03:36 AM
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Trying to live on a single income isn't as hard as you think its, particularly if you have multiple sources of income. Secondly, if the only reason you want to get married is to share financial responsibilities with someone, then you already have the wrong motivation with regard to marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 11:23 PM
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You can make arguments about divorce, child support, alimony, whatever, That's the argument I was going to make and it's a pretty solid one, so it makes zero sense to dismiss it. Divorce rates are close to 50%, with women filing for divorce 70% of the time. Alimony, although has come down over the years, is still significant if you're making six figures (which I do) and the reason why is because men are the ones that end up paying it in 97% of cases. We all know how men are screwed over by famil…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 10:32 PM
0

Casual sex is mostly gratifying for men. Women care more about emotional stimulation as well as the ability of a man to provide strength & resources.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 10:14 PM
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Men have a natural drive to provide and protect. So, even though it is much more beneficial/economical for us to be single in this day and age, and I also agree that life is often much more enjoyable when you're single, most men tend to feel a lack of fulfillment in our lives with the absence of a wife/girlfriend and kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 08:26 PM
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Yes, because men are terrible at hiding their red flags and women love to ignore them when he's physically attractive enough or has high enough status. How many times does this need to be rehashed?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 03:46 PM
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Wow, you got all that from one comment? You must be psychic. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 03:35 PM
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I've never known a drug dealer to be single. Secondly, what does controlling even mean. You used gym outfits as an example. If you google "inappropriate gym attire" and you're wearing some of the outfits that show up in Google Images, then I don't think it's wrong for your man to tell you to change into something appropriate. That's not exactly what I or any reasonable adult would describe as "controlling behavior". And no, men do a very good job of hiding their red flags. No, women just ignore …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 03:34 PM
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More men are opting out of marriage than women. The threat of divorce (women file for divorce 70% of the time), alimony (men pay 90% of the alimony), child support (family courts side firmly with women), promiscuity (women are gradually closing the gap with men when it comes to cheating), etc., are just some of the reasons why. Moreover, women are still hypergamous, i.e. they tend to date/marry across and above, whereas men often have to settle. This is what this whole thread is about. Most men …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 03:25 PM
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Yes, indeed men do lose all their benefits when married.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 03:16 PM
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Someone's gotta do it if they won't do it themselves. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 03:15 PM
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Lmao! Okay. So, they don't hate their spouses? Good to know. I bet if you asked the men in your family too, they'd prefer being single themselves. Men give up much more in marriage than women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 03:13 PM
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Trust me, I'm disgusted by the way women behave here too. The way y'all twist anything men say into something that is completely disconnected in order to portray us as vile predators who want to enslave women is just insane and I would argue, is what is pushing men further and further toward hating women in general. You said that they shouldn’t have dated these men in the first place. Yes. I thought that'd be obvious, but I guess I was wrong. 🤷🏽‍♂️ Not surprised though. Going out with a guy for …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 03:11 PM
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So, they hate their spouses?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 02:59 PM
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But they're both consenting adults, are they not? Plus, anyone that says money comes and goes as easily as you did, clearly has no idea how difficult it is and how much people have to struggle to make money. Your youth is inherent, wealth is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 02:59 PM
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You still haven't answered any of my questions. If women at 19 are incapable of making rudimentary decisions about who they are going to date, should they be allowed to vote or sign contracts or engage in sex work or allowed inside clubs? Moreover, your example is anecdotal and an extremely rare occurrence. I like how you're using that to trigger an emotional response from the folks here though.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 02:56 PM
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Not once did I say that it's wrong for women to break up with men that treat them poorly. I think you're making this way too much about yourself and your terrible experiences with men YOU chose to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 02:50 PM
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Did you willfully ignore everything that I said in the first comment that you responded to? Clearly you did because your rebuttal was completely disconnected to my comment. Also, why date the douchebag in the first place? I smell a lack of accountability there, which is sadly unsurprising when dealing with modern western women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 02:38 PM
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And?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 02:23 PM
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These girls are adults. If you think they're incapable of making rational decisions about who to date at 18-19, then suffice to say we should probably think about making some changes our laws, i.e. increase the voting age for women, increase the age of drinking and sigining contracts, increase the age of women getting into clubs, etc. Oh and what do you have to say about all the 18-21 year olds that are on OnlyFans, exposing themselves and scamming lonely, touch-starved men out of their money? I…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 02:23 PM
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Please tell me what part of my comment alluded to any of the situations that you mentioned. Moreover, women are 100% in control of who they date. So, if you're dating a douchebag coz he's tall or good-looking or rich or high status or has washboard abs or any combination of the above, then you deserve what comes with him. It's a packaged deal and you knew that from the start.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 02:16 PM
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So, if a 40 year-old man is dating a 19 year old girl, why exactly is that an issue? They're both consenting adults. Moreover, why do you think it’s always the men taking advantage of the woman? It could very well be that the 19 year old is using the rich 40 year-old for his money and status.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 02:11 PM
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This is actually one of the more reasonable takes on this thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 02:03 PM
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I never shamed any man for not wanting to date me in particular, for my age or any other reason. I do think dating much younger women as a much older man can be detrimental to those women, so that is when I might shame them. I love the contradiction here. Within a few sentences too. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 02:01 PM
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And regrets it. I know plenty of women in their late 30s all the way up to their 50s who hate the fact that they're single and wish they would've settled down with that guy that was into them when they were in their 20s. I was talking to a neighbor a couple of weekends ago, who just turned 50, single and earning $40k a year, telling me how much she regretted breaking off her engagement with her then HS boyfriend. And how much it hurt seeing him on social media now, living a happy, fulfilling lif…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 01:55 PM
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Imagine someone being stranded in the desert with no food or water, and the only way to survive is to drink your own pee or die of thirst/starvation. That's how a lot of men feel when it comes to relationships. Men can sometimes get so lonely and touch-starved that they'll latch on to any woman that gives them a modicum of attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 12:45 PM
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Not really. The vast majority of men rarely get any form of attention from the opposite sex and therefore cherish it whenever they do. In fact, I would argue it's the opposite for men. Men get attached too easily and develop false expectations.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 11:41 PM
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That's a moot point for this discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 10:21 PM
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And how many wealthy men do you see everyday?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 10:20 PM
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A person's weight tells you a lot about them. When I see a fat person, I can tell that he/she is lazy, entitled, lacks basic discipline when it comes to what they eat and how they choose to live, etc. A person's height tells you jack about their personality because 99% of the time, it's genetic. I don't really know any guys who would date fat women to be honest. Are you serious? There are tons of guys that not only settle for fat women, they actually prefer them. On the other hand, I've rarely s…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 02:30 PM
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Statistics relating to divorce and alimony.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 02:21 PM
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And women are more likely to divorce and take half of everything you have. Your point is?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 05:06 PM
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When a man marries a woman young, he gets wife goggles. So even as she ages, and isnt as pretty as younger women, he still views her like she was when they met. That plus all of the emotional equity shes built over the years, offer vast amounts of value that is hard to replace. So he never actually strays most times, so long as his wife doesnt totally let herself go. And so long as shes still kind and caring. Just to add to this, dead bedroom situations are a big part of why men "stray". I'm not…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 10:29 PM
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Your post is the equivalent of men saying, "everytime a woman has sex outside of marriage, she essentially proves herself to be a whore".
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 12:54 PM
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Woah you dodged a massive bullet there, bud. This could've gone way worse for you, especially when you consider all the lives that have been ruined courtesy of this line: that she didn’t really want to see me again as she was embarrassed and uncomfortable with the whole situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 11:59 PM
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Because men are not a monolith? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 06:40 PM
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-Oh wait, you said something negative about women who pick abusive men??? (even though that negative trait is something you learn from and grow from?) YOURE TERRIBLE. When did I ever say that?? Lol! I just said "okay" and you interpreted it the way you wanted. Seems like you're the one with a lot of unresolved issues, mate. You should probably work on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 05:40 PM
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So, if a woman has ever dated an abusive guy, she is neither smart nor high quality? Okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 05:08 PM
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and raising their standards to weed out the abusive leaning men. Except they don't? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 05:01 PM
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When you constantly portray men as the problem, you create a culture where younger men tend to believe it. So, in an attempt to not be presumed as toxic, they tend to stray from their natural masculine tendencies and some just shun public life altogether. This is what leads to the awkwardness when they are forced to engage in social situations. It's also compounded by women continuing to date those same toxic men that they deride, leading to mixed-messaging and further confusion among these youn…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 02:47 PM
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Yeah I don't think women necessarily want men that are actual bad guys that intend on physically abusing them. But the issue is that tons of women, particularly ones in the west, tend to ignore some glaring red flags if the man is attractive enough or tall enough or high status enough. The worst part is that they then assume that all men are like this and then try to demonize us/tell us that we somehow need to change, which gradually leads to the social awkwardness among younger men that you cor…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 06:00 PM
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Pearl is just trying to milk the movement for clout. Her takes are outrageous even for me, i.e. someone with outrageous takes.
/r/MensRights16/08/23 02:43 AM
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No, coz I already know what the majority of answers are gonna be. Secondly, this thread alone should be proof enough that the non-BP men here rarely cap.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 02:33 AM
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Not unless you're talking about blue-pilled men. Tell me 3 things that men here lie about.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 02:22 PM
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I'm curious if the same question when posed towards women, would yield similar results? What do you think the results would be? The women on PPD cap hard. So if they did yield similar results, I wouldn't believe them unless there was a sound explanation and backstory as to why they would choose a guy who's "average" or "mediocre" in your words. So the favor I would ask of you is to just copy this post word for word, change it to be q4w, and post it in PPD. I might do that tomorrow.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 04:19 AM
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Probably not. But let's hear it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 01:53 AM
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A bit of reality check for the women that think men have it easier than them in the dating marketplace.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 11:51 PM
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The vast majority of men will objectively agree that Victoria's Secret models are among the most attractive women on the planet. A vast majority of women will also objectively agree that a bachelor making a million dollars a year is an attractive prospect. On a micro-level, men can declare whether they prefer blonde or brunette models. Similarly, on a micro-level, women can prefer men that make $800k or $1.5 mil.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 07:35 PM
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But looks, social status and income are all subjective as hell None of that is subjective on a macro level.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 06:35 AM
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Actually, even guys with no dating history would be thrilled to date a woman like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 01:56 AM
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Am I? Because you are the one who didn’t address the points made and instead jumped topics lol This is literally what you've been doing for the past 2-3 comments. LMAO! Are you gonna keep responding while making closing statements like "I'm not wasting any more time." and "have a nice day"? Or did you want me to refer you to an ESL course?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 07:18 PM
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Yes and men are treated far more critically than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 07:16 PM
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The accusations against Tate have not been proven. In fact, there's more evidence to the contrary now, which is why he was released from jail and put under house arrest. Do you believe in due process? Or is it only when the woman is accused of something? Idk wth you're talking about Amouranth. She's literally one of the highest paid online sex workers in the world. And there's no proof of anything you're saying. Revenge-porn is illegal in literally all of the western world and even in some devel…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 07:15 PM
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This seems like a radical feminism meme. Q: Who are we? A: Women Q: What do we lack A: Accountability Q: What else do we lack A: Empathy Q: For who? A: Men
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 01:29 AM
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I'm starting to think it might not be yours. You seem to be having difficulty following this conversation. Also, what happened to "I'm not wasting any more time"? Or did you google that one?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 01:22 AM
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In this context, we are talking about words not actions. We are talking about what women SAY to other women, or what men SAY to other men. Its related to women's looks standards for women because women who are deemed attractive are treated better than the rest. Most men find most women attractive. The inverse is not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 01:20 AM
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Men talk shit in private and in public, to another man's face - assuming we're friends or relatives.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 07:55 PM
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So, in other words, you're not gonna hold women accountable at all. Can't say I'm surprised.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 07:50 PM
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It's not about what they say it's about what they do. Isn't that one of TRPs tenets? That applies to dating and dating preferences. A whole different topic. Didn't think that needed explanation. You will see that pretty girls get invited to more events, are included in the group more, and are elevated in social status. I'm confused. How is that related to women's standards for women? You seem to be mish-mashing different topics instead of sticking to one coherent argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 07:49 PM
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Women prop up other women all the time. If you're ever listened to a group of men talk however, we constantly make fun of each other's height, weight, loss of hair/baldness, etc. So, how exactly do women have it harder?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 04:32 PM
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How do you know porn wasn't as accessible? Were you there? And people didn’t commit sex crimes or killed themselves over it. I've already explained how this occurs. Seems like I'm not the one lacking reading comprehension skills here. You can check out subs that are helping people with porn addiction and they suggest the same thing. And why exactly does their opinion matter more than mine? Have they lived my life and experienced the things I've experienced? I'll tell you what, I'll do it, if you…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 01:27 PM
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These are women that are voluntarily choosing to perform sexual acts on camera for a stupid amount of cash. Not only that, OF models literally prey on lonely, vulnerable, touch-starved men for money and power. If you wanna portray these women as the victims, go right ahead. But no one in their right mind believes that for a second. It's just more proof of how far down the social and moral ladder modern western women have fallen. All thanks to feminism btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 01:19 PM
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People have had access to porn since time immemorial. Note I didn’t say watching porn makes men rapists, I said watching porn makes men who are rapists more likely to rape. Porn has been a feature in pretty much every serial rapist and child abuser criminal case. Some of them when interviewed even talk about their escalating porn use as a contributing factor. There has been no conclusive evidence on this theory. Plenty of people watch porn and don't rape women/abuse children. How would you estab…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 12:21 AM
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Porn has existed in one form or another since recorded history. So, what are you talking about? And there's a difference between visual stimulation and imagination. Some people just prefer the former over the latter. Or were you thinking that all of us men were a monolith?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 07:39 PM
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This is exactly the type of response I was expecting. Twisting my words into something that hasn't been said or implied in order to 1) virtue signal; and 2) demonize men as is the norm on every social as well as mainstream media outlets. I'm not suggesting that men will kill themselves immediately if their access to porn was revoked. I'm saying the reason men watch porn is because they don't have easy access to sex and therefore, if the one outlet that they have is taken from them, eventually th…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 07:35 PM
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The women on reddit have all but convinced me that women just lack empathy overall.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 10:53 PM
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If porn didn't exist, the outcome would be a lot worse than what you're suggesting here. For a lot of guys that don't meet the unreasonably high attraction threshold for modern western women, porn is the only logical outlet. Without it, you'd see depression rates among men skyrocket, male suicide rates skyrocket (not that it isn't bad enough already) and as bad as it sounds, you'd see sex-related crimes skyrocket as well. If you've heard of the homocel hypothesis, you might even see a lot of men…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 07:30 PM
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Literally everything I said was factual. But I like said before, men don't have the luxury of living in fantasy land. Btw, I love how every woman that identifies as a feminist or is blue-pilled in this sub, immediately claims to be married when they're called out for their misandry. It's a little hard to believe, especially when you're constantly on reddit responding to a multitude of comments and posts. For instance, I have no problem admitting that I'm single and have little to no life outside…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 10:34 PM
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Most people I know split the bill on dates. Women have careers these days, too, you know. You all seem to conveniently forget this. Women have careers and despite that, they still want a man to pay for first dates and most subsequent dates as well. I bet if you did a poll right now on dating subs, the vast majority of women would want the man to pay for dates. Not only that, even in today's age the man outearns the woman in the vast majority of marriages and LTRs, despite the wage gap being redu…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 07:45 PM
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The 20 year olds look attractive enough. They're facially pretty and have some nice curves. Plus, I'm into curvy girls in general, though usually not that curvy. On the other hand, I've rarely been attracted to any woman over the age of 35, fit or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 03:47 AM
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Why are they? Because they enjoy sex, just like men do. I know that’s a difficult concept for many of you to understand here. Already responded to this exact type of comment in this very thread. Feel free to scroll up and check. You and I both know that, but for some reason, people like you love to insinuate that women are the only ones responsible for this trend. Just one of many asinine double standards within the pilled communities. Yes, women are 100% responsible because y'all are the gateke…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 09:20 PM
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Umm... you're wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 04:33 PM
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They're certainly entitled to fuck as often as they want and with as many guys as they want, as long as they understand that pregnancy is a very real and obvious risk that comes with promiscuity - even with protection. Plus, women have a lot more to lose than men do in the case of pregnancy. If they don't understand this basic concept and/or refuse to act responsibly, they have no one to blame but themselves. Not the fuckboys that made them pregnant knowing that they had nothing to lose nor the …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 03:53 PM
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Not being a virgin and being a guy that the vast majority of women want to fuck are two different things. I trust most people here understand the difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 03:29 PM
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If the women don't want to get pregnant, why are they having unprotected sex with men? Rather, why are they opening their legs to men in the first place, unless they're married? Why is single motherhood one of the most pressing issues of our time? Plus, you have to meet certain standards in order to become a sperm donor as well. It's not just a healthy sperm but other physical characteristics that doctors look at as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 03:28 PM
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As I already mentioned, social characteristics or more accurately, personality traits are often influenced by biology as well. Plus, average men have far fewer sexual partners than average women. That is just common sense. Not to mention the fact that 1 in 3 or over 30% of men under 30 are virgins in this day & age. So, while the studies indicate that men on average are having more sex than women, the data is heavily skewed by the top 10 or 20% of "high value men". Just like if you were to take …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 03:22 PM
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I hate not being considered a fuckboy. But that's just life. 🤷🏽‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 03:05 PM
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Attraction is tied to biological traits. For instance, you're considered attractive if you are tall and have a six-pack. Social capabilities are also determined by biology to some extent. For instance, predisposition to assertiveness is dicatated to an extent by genetics, despite environmental factors playing a role. You’re not special if you’re attractive nor is it TOO heavy of a lift to make yourself attractive enough if you aren’t already. No matter how hard you work, you're not gonna gain a …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 02:17 PM
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A fuckboy typically has many offsprings. Whether or not he's a great dad is irrelevant from a biological standpoint.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 01:29 PM
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Being called a hero by your kids is an endearing compliment. Being called a genius by your boss and your colleagues is a compliment that fills you with pride. Being called a saint by your parents when you're young is a good compliment. Being called a self-made billionaire by the media is not a compliment at all, it's an acknowledgement. Being called a beloved husband and a great dad (assuming that child is yours) is a compliment that is appreciated. Having said all that, the biggest compliment t…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 01:28 PM
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First of all it is not actually known if rates of domestic violence are higher for LGBT couples because of flawed inadequate studies on the topic with that said, it seems that some have ran with the idea that because lesbians report being victims of domestic violence more than heterosexual women lesbians are more likely to be perpetrators despite the fact that 1/3 of lesbians reported being victims of male perpetrators. Also bisexual women report being victimized by men far more than by women. M…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 04:13 AM
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The is the first honest answer that I've seen on this thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 06:39 PM
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Huh? 80% after 5 years? Is that supposed to mean anything that’s probably how long it takes to get the green card, lol. Also second link looks like mail order bride advertising. It actually takes less than 2 years to get a green card. And I love how dismissive you are of anything that doesn't fit your narrative. I have no problem acknowledging that some foreign women do tend to marry western men in order to get their hands on the coveted citizenship. But you seem to be having a hard time acknowl…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 06:34 PM
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It wouldn't be biased toward women, but any criticism of women would be categorized as unproductive. And again, you're trying to get a little dig in at me with the implication that radfem subs are mostly "venting." No, I'm just talking about what I've observed.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 01:00 PM
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That's like saying women who buy vibrators aren't good candidates for marriage. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 11:07 AM
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I asked a very valid question in a very civil manner, which you automatically dismissed. While I agree that discussions should largely be productive, a little of venting - a staple of radfem subs - can be quite therapeutic as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 01:32 AM
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And who decides what's productive and what isn't? Women? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 01:20 AM
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I know a handful of guys that do this. But frankly, they're a lost cause IMO. I don't blame the exes in that situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 01:12 AM
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Okay, now I'm confused. Are you talking about passport bros or sexpats? Coz those two are entirely different categories. You could find some parallels between passport bros and Americans/Canadians with mail-order brides though. Besides, I was talking about purity of the woman. I assumed that was clear from my earlier comment. Now, talking about college-educated western women and divorce rates. As you might know, women file for divorce approximately 70% of the time. That percentage jumps to 90% f…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 11:41 PM
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https://newbrides.net/guide/mail-order-bride-facts-and-statistics/ The link I shared compiles studies from numerous variegated sources. Here are some excerpts: we gathered a lot of information and real mail order marriage statistics. How many mail order marriages end in divorce? For example, the United States Citizenship and Immigration Services reports that marriages that appeared thanks to mail order bride agencies are less likely to end in divorce than for the general population of the develo…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 11:10 PM
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The divorce rate for American men that marry other American women is closer to 57%. The divorce rate for American men who marry foreign women is approximately 20%. Immigrant men and women marrying each other can lead to even lower divorce rates, but that's not what we're talking about here. And though green-card seeking marriages do happen, it's no different than a modern western woman seeking a man with a high income is no different. Whatever men do, we can't really escape being beta-bucks, esp…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 09:01 PM
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Yes, it is. You can look it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 07:08 PM
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A woman in the US seeking a man that makes $200k a year while bringing nothing of value to the table is VERY different from a foreign/immigrant woman seeking a man that makes less than $100k, while bringing purity, agreeableness, youth and fertility to the table. The latter also brings with her a lower statistical chance of divorce as well as peace of mind. Btw, the reason I know all this is because I'm an immigrant that moved to the West with my parents when I was very young. So, I know plenty …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 06:49 PM
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Divorce rates are much lower in the cases where American men marry foreign women vs. domestic. It's not even comparable.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 04:38 PM
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The majority of the women in eastern countries prefer to marry young, i.e. by the time they're 25. So, they're not "ten years older" as you say. When you're young, you tend to take care of yourself better and/or you have a naturally high metabolism. Plus, women over there understand that in order to land a high value partner for the purpose of marriage, you have to stay fit and healthy. So, they act accordingly. Now, the gold-diggers or citizenship-seekers comment might be true in some cases. Bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 01:46 PM
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Based on what evidence?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 12:52 PM
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That doesn't make any sense. Can you elaborate on what your question is?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 12:32 AM
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There's a difference between sexpats and passport bros.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 12:29 AM
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If you're willing to compromise on your standards, then finding someone is not gonna be a huge issue. I can assure you though that the man that my friend is engaged to now is far from her ideal. When my friend first started on this journey, she was looking for someone who was taller than her, had a full head of hair, not more than 5 years older, financially established, etc. The guy she's currently engaged to is at her height, severely balding, out-of-shape. He is financially stable though with …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 04:45 PM
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Women would rather date a bad boy that slams the door in their face, breaking their nose in the process than give a chance to the guy that always opens the door for them and treats them with respect. Just because the latter is probably too boring or too short or too ugly or too shy for their liking. The bad boy doesn't have to worry about getting in a girl's pants when she's already all too eager to spread her legs for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 05:30 AM
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Where exactly did I say "all women"? Plus, I purposely used extreme examples in my comment to illustrate the obvious fallacy in your argument that women date guys that are nice and kind. Instead, the vast majority of modern western women have dated at least one bad boy in their life, if not several. Of course, a lot of women realize the error of their ways when they hit the proverbial wall. That's when they start craving for the supposedly "kind, smart and funny" guys. Or they simply start clamo…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 05:24 AM
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There is simply no concrete proof of that. In fact, I've had friends who've never touched drugs in their entire life and they've dated drug dealers.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 05:16 AM
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Most average men rarely get to have sex outside of relationships. So, unless you're chasing a top 10-20% guy, most men aren't looking to "turn dates into prostitutes". When it comes to marriage and LTRs, most of us just want a woman who isn't promiscuous, argumentative, is caring and compassionate, etc. The vast majority of women in conservative countries possess all of the aforementioned qualities. On top of that, the women in said countries prefer to get married while they are still young and …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 02:39 AM
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There are plenty of simps in the dating marketplace.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 12:18 AM
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Yes, I've noticed those drug dealers and gang members are always "smart, funny and nice". Never realized that was the reason they're never single. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 12:08 AM
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Lmao! Dude, you were the one who inserted yourself into the conversation in the first place. You came in with your low IQ argument without understanding what my comment was about and then proceeded to bring in nonsensical ad-hominem attacks, topped off with your own equally irrational brand of bigotry, when you couldn’t present a rational argument. That's basically the gist of what happened. 🤷🏽‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 01:14 PM
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How does that have anything to do with what we're debating about on this forum? Other than proving that you don't have a rational argument and therefore, need to resort to bad-faith retorts in order to save face. Nice try though. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 12:42 AM
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The fact that you can't comprehend what I did when I responded to that supposedly sarcastic comment is hilarious to me. But keep going. I wanna see how long it takes you to realize what happened there. 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 12:35 AM
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In your world You mean the real world? Okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 12:26 AM
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All I did was agree with her. Where was the whining? I mean, besides your comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 12:10 AM
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Yep, you got it!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 09:40 PM
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I'm just gonna copy and paste a comment that I made while responding to another redditor because this is the same exact kind of argument every woman on this sub seems to be making. Literally every single woman that I've ever known, from nerdy 18 year olds to fit 21 year-old attractive IG models to bossy 29 year-old overweight career women to soccer moms in their late 30s, EVERY SINGLE WOMAN fawns over guys with six pack abs. It's possible that you might be an exception to the rule, but the excep…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 08:42 PM
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The visceral contempt and hatred that modern western women exhibit toward passport bros and western guys who marry women from foreign countries, just reeks of insecurity. First off, betabuxxing is something that happens to men that choose to marry western women as well. However, the biggest differences between women here and the women that grew up in the east are that the latter are generally more traditional, less promiscuous, young, attractive, non-argumentative, less entitled, treat their men…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 08:36 PM
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"Women like him". lol! What does that even mean? Women who also have muscles? But can you deny that men like him also would not be attractive to women with different priorities? Yes, I can. It's weird that women on this sub can't even acknowledge basic realities of what women are generally into. Is it really that hard to admit that women in general like guys that are fit and have strong, masculine frames?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 07:41 PM
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Point out exactly where I said "all women"?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 07:36 PM
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Agreed. The women here are capping hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 03:24 PM
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Literally every single woman that I've ever known, from nerdy 18 year olds to fit 21 year-old attractive IG models to bossy 29 year-old overweight career women to soccer moms in their late 30s, EVERY SINGLE WOMAN fawns over guys with six pack abs. It's possible that you might be an exception to the rule, but the exceptions don't make the rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 03:20 PM
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Can you deny that men like him get a lot of sexual attention from women?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 03:13 PM
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Or they're just lying about their preferences, which in my experience women tend to do a lot. This is why taking dating advice from women often leads to disappointment for a lot of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 03:09 PM
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So, your evidence is pickone subreddits? 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 10:52 PM
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What guys like physically in a woman is absolutely subjective. Some guys like short girls, some guys like tall girls, some guys like blondes, some like brunettes, some like a girl with freckles, some don't, some like a girl that's skinny, some like girls that are thick, some like girls that are fat as fuck, etc. All of these things are subjective.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 06:10 PM
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That's what I was thinking. Outside of the physical attractiveness part, which is subjective, most of these traits are really basic characteristics that all adults should possess.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 11:08 PM
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In this case, I most certainly am. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 04:46 PM
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You missed the overarching point by a mile.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 04:46 PM
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You can internally validate yourself in your own bedroom, while staring at the mirror. You go out wearing a dress, looking sexy and posting pictures of yourself at the club on Instagram, in order to seek validation from other people - mainly members of the opposite sex. What you're saying is the equivalent of guys saying that they go out on dates because they're looking for a friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 03:50 PM
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A debate occurs when you disagree with the person you're debating. Not the other way around.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 03:46 PM
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Yes, I'm sure I'm the one lacking an understanding of women. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 02:36 PM
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because they want to feel good in what they’re wearing when they go out. That is literally another way of saying they are seeking attention. Geez the mental gymnastics that people do when it comes to these kind of topics.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 02:33 PM
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Lots of women wear mini skirts to offices. Have you ever worked in a corporate environment?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 01:09 PM
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And why is that? Think about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 12:51 PM
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Literally no one - especially women - dresses up for themselves. If they did, they'd wear the same outfit at home, all the time. People dress a certain way for attention. The equivalent for men would be grooming and to an extent, working out and taking care of our bodies.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 12:48 PM
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Then you're probably the exception to the rule. Most married men and women I know, including my parents, stay married because they understand the value of staying together to 1) raise children in a two-parent household 2) not be left alone at the most vulnerable time of their lives. Not because they are hopelessly in love with each other for perpetuity.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 11:17 AM
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There's no such things as a "happy marriage", particularly in western countries, where more than half of marriages end in divorce and/or separation. Marriages were never meant to be joyful and devoid of sorrow. Marriage is meant to be a social contract that you and your spouse each sign for your own fulfillment and for the benefit of society. How do you benefit society? By birthing and/or raising kids that will eventually contribute to society.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 03:31 AM
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Dude my friend used to date a drug dealer. She's never done drugs her entire life and was raised in a wholesome, two-parent household. She left him eventually after several months of tolerating his abuse, which was both mental and physical. This idea that only terrible women date these kind of abusive characters is patently false. Also either all dope boys are super handsome, or you contradict yourself, lol I don't know what you mean by this statement. I don't think I've contradicted myself in p…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 01:05 AM
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Fair point. Though I'm less likely to trust a woman when it comes to relationship advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 01:00 AM
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Do I personally know a girl that's obsessed with serial killers specifically? Maybe not. But that doesn't refute the fact that there are lots of girls that obsess over such men. Besides, I personally know a lot of girls that have dated drug dealers, gang members and guys that are just assholes in general. With women, I've learned the hard way not to trust their words, but to trust their actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 09:42 PM
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I'm not replying to your comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 07:32 PM
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Because he was neither famous nor rich when he got those women to work for him. He got rich BECAUSE of the webcam business that these ladies were engaged in. He was basically their pimp/manager.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 07:25 PM
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A rudimentary google search was enough to prove you wrong. Ted Bundy r*ped and murdered more than 30 women and girls across the US - but that didn't bother the besotted admirers who sent him marriage proposals and photos of their naked bodies. ​ In a recent case, family killer Chris Watts - who strangled his pregnant wife Shanann and smothered his daughters Bella, four, and Celeste, three - has received love letters and photos from female admirers as he sits in a Wisconsin prison for life. ​ Jef…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 07:21 PM
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The idea that most women aren't attracted to bad boys is what's actually detached from reality. I've never seen women line up to woo the nerdy IT guy that's kind, shy and respectful toward the opposite sex. He's lucky if he gets a woman to even talk to him outside of work.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 06:34 PM
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The vast majority of women that I know and that are in media have dated a bad boy at some point in their lives. Whether or not they stayed with them is besides the point. Manipulation is a convenient excuse but doesn't explain why so many women are so smitten by violent criminals that they haven't even met.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 04:55 PM
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And those are often girls/women from poor backgrounds, such as victims of sexual assault or child abuse, who believe that’s all their good for. That is a wild assumption. Can you substantiate it?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 02:59 PM
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There's literally no proof that Tate paid women to sleep with him. lol! And even if he did on occasion, like other kickboxers and combat sports athletes, he had many women who were already willingly sleeping with him, including ring girls, fans of the sport, etc. That is a fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 02:57 PM
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I've never seen a drug dealer who doesn't have a girlfriend. Violent criminals, convicted serial killers, even serial r*pists, etc., all have legions of women chasing after them. Men are terrible at hiding our red flags. Within the first couple of meets, unless the woman is unbelievably stupid, it shouldn't be hard for her to spot our vices. So, it's not that men do a better job at hiding red flags, it's that women actively ignore them, especially if the guy is tall and somewhat moderately good-…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 02:52 PM
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I've been where you're at. I pray I'm never manipulated to go there again.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 04:06 AM
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Beggars can't be choosers, so no. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 10:49 PM
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I don't think he's talking about all women. He's primarily talking about the left-leaning women on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 10:39 PM
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Are you asking me personally? Well, okay I'll answer then. Helping those in need because of circumstances outside of their control is something I can get on board with. Helping people whose circumstances are a direct result of their own foolishness and repeated mistakes, is not my responsibility. Participation in social programs should ALWAYS be voluntary, IMO.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 09:24 PM
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Not only is yours an extreme example, it is a completely irrelevant example. Particularly because of the hypocrisy in your earlier statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 09:17 PM
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If it works, then why is it wrong? Not everyone is made the same way and are incapable following the same rules that society has seemingly standardized. And if you think the red pill is wrong, do you think women sleeping around is wrong too?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 05:30 PM
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Or bored of reading the same cyclical arguments over and over.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 04:52 PM
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Do you honestly expect me to read all that word salad?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 01:42 PM
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No, it tells me that modern western women are greedy, selfish and manipulative. 97% of alimony is paid by men. So, that should give you some clues as to why women divorce. The only abundance I noticed is the abundance of men opting out of the marriage situation because of the aforementioned reasons. lol The mental gymnastics that you have to do to reach the conclusion that you did about Western men. lol! It's also funny how this whole conversation is just women saying, "we don't need a man". Wel…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 02:32 AM
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Seriously, this sub continually reminds me about how much women lack empathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 02:15 AM
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Literally no one who says those words gets anything but disdain on this sub. We're talking about paying full price for dates. And no, that doesn't automatically mean you deserve sex from the woman. But if the woman makes zero attempt at any sort of physical intimacy or reciprocation, she was never attracted to him in the first place and was merely looking for a free meal.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 02:14 AM
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Women choosing to "settle" for men that are on their level and then bringing that bitterness - caused by overestimating their own worth in the first place - into the marriage is why the divorce rate is close to 50% and over 70% of those are initiated by women. I'd much rather NOT settle for a woman like that. And I'm sure most sensible, reasonable men will share my opinion on that. I don't know how you came to the conclusion that Chads are the ones opting out of marriage, but it's not true. Most…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 09:52 PM
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You do realize that an increasing number of men are opting out of marriage, right? Far more than women. And there is an equally increasing trend of western men choosing to become passport bros? Most women don't have as many choices as y'all think you do. lol! Moreover, if women are happy with Chads pumping and dumping them, then by all means keep enjoying yourself. Also don't believe all the happiness surveys that you see online. 😉 Men just have no leverage over financially independent women, wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 09:10 PM
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Becoming a functional member of society = Paying for a woman's meals. lol You can't make this up.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 08:49 PM
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Aren't men the ones that propose? So, we're the ones doing the choosing it would seem.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 08:09 PM
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Until she decides to leave him because she thinks she's "settling".
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 08:07 PM
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Clearly his salary is holding him back since he's also likely to get divorced at least once in his life. Moreover, more men are ending up single now than women. Whether or not they're choosing to stay single is a whole another argument, which we can get into if you'd like.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 03:05 PM
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I never said it turns them on sexually, though a man with status and resources can definitely seem sexually attractive to a degree. I also never said it was wrong for them to be attracted to such men. I'm just pointing out the blatant hypocrisy that often occurs in this sub when it comes to male preferences versus female preferences. For instance, just like you have an inherent need to find a partner that's financially well-off to support your baby, men also have an innate need to find a partner…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 02:48 PM
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If women only "cared" about income, they'd be perfectly happy marrying a guy with an average salary (~$40k in the US). But that's not really the case, is it? Women tend to mask their need for a high-earning man with words like "ambitious", "earning capacity", etc. Perhaps, they don't want to disclose their avaricious nature? Also, this is not just within my social circle. Doesn't matter if you're from the first-world or the third-world, women all around the globe find men who are financially wel…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 12:50 PM
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You actually think the majority of women are thinking about salaries and getting wet? Women do care quite a bit about a man's income and status. Younger women might care less but older (25+) women definitely care more. If you're a guy over the age of 25 and you're living with roommates and you don't own a fancy, expensive car - doesn't have to be a Ferrari - and/or you work a blue-collar job, you are instantly categorized as either a loser or if they're trying to be kind, women say you "lack amb…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 12:00 PM
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You are partially right. D-bag Steve is indeed hot to them. Most bad boys exhibit character traits - assertive, dominant, etc. - that are attractive to most women without a doubt. Having said that, these types of men are notoriously bad at hiding their red flags. So unless these women are categorically unintelligent, there's no way they can miss these red flags. I think the women simply ignore said flags or they assume that these guys will be nice to them because "he picked me"! Unfortunately we…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 02:28 PM
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Yeah right. They wear makeup and dress in skimpy clothing for themselves too, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 07:36 PM
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When you're young, looks matter a lot more than money.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 01:35 AM
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How is this subreddit "woman hating"? Please explain with examples.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 12:03 AM
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I've never dated morbidly obese women. Idk what you mean by "deeply fucked up".
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 11:21 PM
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Correction,: it's not settling if you're marrying your equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 12:01 AM
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Almost half of one-time married Americans are divorced. Also, calling the average woman in America "super-attractive" is an exaggeration if I've ever read one.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 12:00 AM
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At the time, I took it in stride. Now, if somebody called me cute, I'd probably hate them. lol Cute isn't the same as handsome or hot. I think women say that just so they can put you in the friendzone and take advantage of your good nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 11:26 AM
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Sure. But are the women in Denmark as fixated on height as the women in the States? Will a girl that's 5'5 in Denmark be open to dating men that are 5'9?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 11:11 AM
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This is true. If you're 5'9 in India for example, you are considered tall. That's because the average height of men in India is 5'6. Average height differs from country to country.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 03:16 AM
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Why not? Please explain.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 03:09 AM
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I have been out on a few dates before and have had one serious relationship, which ended with her cheating on me with one of her co-workers at her part-time job. Last year I went out on a date with this girl I had been talking to online for almost 3 months! She had seen my face and from our conversations, it felt like she was really into me. That all changed the moment she saw me in-person. I could see the disappointment in her eyes. This girl was nearly the same height as me (probably 5'3) and …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 01:18 AM
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This makes sense and it was actually my best guess. I just didn't want to outright say it because I've noticed that in these spaces, the first thing people do when you make a claim - no matter how obvious it is - is that they respond with, "wHaT's yEr sOuRcE?".
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 09:27 PM
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Weight is a mutable physical characteristic, height is not! It is significantly easier for the vast majority of people to lose weight than for a guy to increase his height - unless he goes through some painful, life-altering surgery that has a pretty high probability of leaving him paralyzed from the waist-down.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 09:04 PM
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Same here. I've had plenty of women compliment me during my 20s on how cute I looked and how kind I was, but none of them wanted to date me. And that was primarily due to my height! How can I say that for sure? Coz they either told me or told my friend! I'm 5'4" btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 09:00 PM
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You're comparing anecdotes to empirical data. For instance, most short women I know prefer guys that are quite a bit taller than them, around 8-10 inches taller in some cases. In fact, in my experience, taller women (5'9+) generally are okay with dating men that are only a couple of inches taller than them. I don't quite know the exact reason for that though. Plus, I don't know any woman personally who's ever dated a guy shorter than them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 08:57 PM
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Apparently, neither do those women I talked about in that comment you're replying to. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 08:57 PM
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Dehumanizing and shaming are two different things. I think our society could do well with a bit of shaming.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 08:55 PM
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I'm sure you know this source very well: A third of women only date men because of the free food: study So, you think being broke is an excuse to use and manipulate men? And you're comparing it to charity?? Seriously? And power imbalance? I love how women pretend to be strong & independent while simultaneously playing the victim. You're just proving my point about modern western women having zero accountability and being the most privileged people on the the planet. Dating is the only investment…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 08:48 PM
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I don't think it's unfortunate for men at all. At the very least men are now waking up to the reality that women shouldn't be put on a pedestal, particularly women that sleep around. Speaking of high standards though, women shooting beyond their league is the primary reason for them ending up being used and tossed to the streets by Chads. Again, where have all the good men gone? They found greener pastures overseas or just gave up on convincing you that you're just an average girl who deserves a…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 04:22 AM
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Did you read the last line of my previous comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 04:12 AM
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I'm not worried about the cost as long as I know something will come out of it. And yes, a date is an investment! An investment of time, money and resources - if you're the one driving your date to and from the restaurant. As with any investment, you're looking to get a return. If your date isn't even willing to hold hands with you, she was never interested in you in the first place! She just wanted a free meal. There are plenty of women that are now using men for these freebies. It's become so …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 04:08 AM
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Both men and women lie all the time in order to get relationships or to get favors. In fact, I would argue women are far more manipulative than men. The friendzone is proof of that! If you are a woman leading a man on that has expressed his feelings for you, you're trash!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 01:20 AM
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It’s a different dynamic since men want both sex and a LTR while most women are only looking for an LTR but will have sex under certain circumstances. Sex and relationships go hand-in-hand. Yes, most western women rarely die alone, that is a fact. But then why are some of these women making tiktok videos crying about not being able to find a man or saying things are "where have all the good men gone"? I personally know some women in their 50s who cry about not being married or not having a man i…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 01:17 AM
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I live in a major city and most women will either refuse to go out with you OR just friendzone you if you ask to take them out to Subway or McDonalds for a first date. Plus, I'm not worried about the cost. I'm interested in what I'm gaining FOR the cost. Value for money! And no, I'm not looking for sex on the first date. But if she even refuses to do something as basic as hold hands or engage in basic physical intimacy, I essentially just paid for nothing!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 01:07 AM
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You brought it up: And if they stopped treating women who enjoy casual sex as sluts... Why do women have the right to bitch and moan about men, but men can't do the same with women? And when it comes to lack of empathy, women lead the pack. Empathy is about putting yourselves in the other gender's shoes in order to gain an understanding of their feelings. I've seen more men empathize with women on this sub alone than I've seen women empathizing with men. Whenever someone brings up men's issues o…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 07:29 PM
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Selective reading? This sub makes it seem like all men are trash, I’m glad I took a break. My comment was a largely cynical response to the one above. And I said, "women here" - so that's not generalizing all women. 🤦🏽‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 07:18 PM
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Never said it was gender-specific. In fact, I was arguing against that very notion.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 04:45 PM
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Uh no, that isn't even the best case scenario. I suggest talking to more people of the opposite gender in order to figure it out. Coz, no offense, but women on this forum seem a little ignorant on the issues that men face in the dating world, particularly during cold approaches. Also, one woman laughing at you isn't enough to shatter your self-confidence. But if it keeps happening over and over, then it is possible. Think of this from the perspective of someone applying for job interviews. If yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 04:41 PM
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It's hard to have empathy for women that sleep around and then cry about being unable to find a good man that'll settle down with them because of their past behavior. Moreover, women fake chemistry and sexual attraction all the time to manipulate men into getting what they want/need. Otherwise, the friendzone wouldn't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 04:32 PM
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Trust me, I have.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 03:19 PM
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First off, if guys were honest about why they want to go out on a date with a woman, the vast majority of us wouldn't even get dates. Secondly, having casual sex is easy for the vast majority of women, the inverse is not true. People aren't respected for doing things that are easy. For example, as a man, I'm not respected if I was paying to get laid every single time, even if I lived in a country/state where prostitution was fully legalized or decriminalized. Same thing if I inherit a bunch of m…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 12:10 PM
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I honestly think women here think like this: Woman: You are trash if you expect sex (or even a peck on the cheek) in return for that expensive dinner that you just paid for. Man: But what about women that expect a man to pay for expensive dates? Woman: That's different.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 11:39 AM
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Yeah if you meet a certain attraction threshold as a man. Otherwise, the best you can hope for is her thinking you're a creep and ignoring you and laughing about it with her friends. Or the worst case scenario would be her accusing you of harassment. In both cases, not only is it a massive L for the man, but it also shatters his self-confidence into a million pieces. And to answer your question, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 11:18 AM
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Hey I thought you didn't have time to read my comment! 🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 08:28 PM
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Bingo! Or just assholes in general, as long as they're at least mildly attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 01:08 AM
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So, quick question: does the top-rated comment on subs like MensRights and MGTOW have a lot of credence too?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 12:32 AM
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Oh I know that. I'm talking about a hypothetical solution. One that should - in theory at least - satisfy all parties.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 11:12 PM
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In other words, you don't have a rebuttal. Good to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 08:49 PM
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Damn, that's a lot to read. Better be worth it. Most of it are quotes from your lengthy response, actually. I don't care about western women, just women in general. Me and my partner are neither western nor single. I would love for all the men to flee away, more bitches for me. I'm just being realistic. You do realize that your comments do paint a very negative picture of women in general, don't you? So far, your argument has basically been that all women, regardless of region or culture, just w…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 06:59 PM
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Lol! What??? I seem frustrated? 🤣🤣 You're the one who said you didn't care about passport bros and then started blasting them, effectively showing that you do care quite a bit about them and it frustrates you thinking about all the western women that are gonna be perpetually single because of men either wanting to opt-out of relationships or finding greener pastures elsewhere. As for alpha fucks beta bucks, I have a theory. People like experiences dude. Money can buy experiences. If you want coo…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 05:19 PM
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Doesn't matter if it's one kid or several. If you're acting irresponsibly and having children out of wedlock, I don't want my tax dollars going toward incentivizing your uncouth behavior. It's as simple as that. Btw, that's just one example. There are others. I fully support the idea of the government letting citizens pick and choose where we want our tax dollars to go. Make certain things like road building & maintenance, emergency healthcare, etc., mandatory for tax-payers, while simultaneousl…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 04:13 PM
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I absolutely won't bitch about passport bros, they are free to bang Asian chicks who will use them for their money. Be aware tho, you will likely also have to support their family, and quite frankly, yall aren't half man enough to face the masculinity standard from those cultures. Lmao! This is funny. Using men for their money is basically what western women do all the time. Hence why, the phrase "alpha fucks, beta bux" has been popularized in the West in the first place. At least Asian women ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 03:56 PM
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Have you heard of the TANF program? There are others and a rudimentary google search is enough to figure that out.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 03:45 PM
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A lot of people are "struggling to survive" in this country because of their own mistakes. Do you want to talk about priorities with single moms who have children out of wedlock? The government does incentivize them, so let's start there.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 08:59 AM
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I have a solution to this. The government should allow citizens to pick and choose where their tax dollars go. Make certain things like road-building, road maintenance, healthcare, etc., mandatory for tax-payers. But things such as financial aid for single mothers, climate change initiatives, LGBT+ initiatives, etc., optional. That way they don't have to completely abolish certain social programs and those who want to opt-out, can. No more debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 08:56 AM
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If it was that simple to get a date, every guy would be a Chad. I can speak for myself that even after doing all those things in my mid-late 20s, women rarely looked at me as anything more than a friend. In essence, I still got friendzoned. I'm not blaming women for it though. They are free to choose who to date. But then don't turn around and cry when you're in your 30s, 40s and 50s, single, possibly raising a child or multiple children on your own, and saying, "where have all the good men gone…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 08:48 AM
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This is the exact lack of empathy that the OP and the OC are talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 02:19 AM
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I'm the same way. This is how I became a libertarian and started hating taxes. Why should my hard-earned money go toward the benefit of society when society shits on me & guys like me every single opportunity they get.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 02:18 AM
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The other person was talking about men who have a hard time getting dates as if they exist in a bubble. Did you ask her the same question?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 07:57 AM
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Agreed! A lot of those women - single moms and older single women - blame men for their problems and therefore, by your logic again, are losers. Btw, how many men do you see here blaming ALL women for their dating problems?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 03:12 AM
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According to your logic, all of the women that I described above are losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 11:53 PM
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Just like single moms and single older women that complain about it on Tiktok and Instagram are losers as well, coz they couldn't retain their man.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 02:15 PM
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I think he's talking about if/when he (or other men) does have options. And whether or not dating is harder for men compared to women, shouldn't even be a debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 09:59 PM
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Please explain to us how women got the short end of the stick when men were the ones being forcibly drafted, working some of the hardest jobs in the world (mining, construction, sewage, etc.), dealing with hardships and providing for the family, and the list goes on and on. Women have had equality for the better part of the last half-century, so why aren't y'all fighting to work those harder, labor-intensive jobs? Why aren't you fighting for conscription? It's because women want all the so-calle…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 10:23 PM
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Would you ask a man how tall he is if it wasn't in his bio?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 12:26 PM
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Sounds like a roommate situation, tbf.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 05:33 AM
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LOL. Are you for real? I guess no one does drugs because they don't report it. It's not like there are a myriad of other ways to find out. You know, like asking women "have you ever been the victim of a sexual assault? And did you report it". But yeah. You are right, polling data, studies, science in general doesnt exist. Haha. If we're going to simply take a woman's word as bond and get rid of legal concepts like burden of proof, due process, etc., then I'm willing to give men the same benefit …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 05:28 AM
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What do you think is more common, a woman claiming rape after regretting sex, or a woman not reporting the crime knowing the backlash she'll face How do you know rapes aren't being reported, if they're not reported?? And what backlash are we talking about? In the West, women rarely - if at all - face any backlash for coming out as a victim of SA and rightfully so. In fact, I would argue that women rarely receive any backlash at all even if SA accusations are proven false, with the exception of s…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 04:31 PM
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The issue is not feeling safe. one in six woman are the victims of sexual violence in some form. That is a reality that many woman face. The veracity of that data point has come into question several times. Women claiming "r*pe" after a night of drunken sex amd regretting it the morning after, women claiming catcalling is a form of sexual assault, false accusations, etc. Being messaged "hey slut" is a reminder than thousands and thousands of men don't view them as people, but as sex objects. The…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 05:09 PM
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Yes, the Final Girl trope was not a thing in the 80s. 🙄 Do you guys ever get tired of making patently false claims like these?
/r/MensRights06/05/23 08:37 PM
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They call you a "pedophile" if you're attracted to 18-22 year olds, which is both dumb and hilarious at the same time. Unless they're hinting that women are incapable of rational thought and by proxy, incapable of informed consent, between those ages, then that's a different matter altogether.
/r/MensRights06/05/23 06:19 PM
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The dumbest part of that comment is that they think we're all white, which couldn't be further from the truth. For instance, I'm South Asian. Feminism induced misandry doesn't just affect cis-white males, as they like to say. It affects the vast majority of men, beyond racial, ethnic and cultural lines.
/r/MensRights06/05/23 06:15 PM
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I used the example of 4 different cultures to illustrate the fact that this is a trait/requirement that is consistent among cultures. Now, could there be cultures where this is not true? Sure. But exceptions don't make the rule. Just like there might be some odd, primitive cultures where women do prefer shorter men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 04:48 PM
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As I said before, men are overwhelmingly shamed for having preferences and are particularly chastised for having a preference for purity. So, a man will never admit that he ideally wants a virgin wife. I've traveled a lot and experienced 4 uniquely different cultures, so I'm aware of what I'm talking about. And though I'm not familiar with your culture, it is patently false to state that shorter dudes have an easier time dating when it has been statistically proven through several studies that w…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 02:05 PM
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I assure you, no man wants a woman with sexual experience. In fact, female sexual experience is actually a turn off for most men, particularly when men are looking for long-term partners. The thing is that women are over rating themselves way more than men, but men will sleep with anything if horny enough. While they want to marry a virgin, for some reason they expect all the other women to be available in general Women think their vagina is gold or something and that just having one entitles th…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 01:49 PM
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Not necessarily Virgin, but not promiscuous for sure. Is that what you assume or do you know that for sure? If so, how? Because most men in the West - and in some major cities in the East as well - are very openly shamed for having such a preference. Therefore, it is highly unlikely that they will ever come forward with it. I remember when I was a blue-pilled simp in Uni, me and my other feminist friends made fun of a trad guy who said he wanted to marry a virgin. He was a virgin himself. So, wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 01:00 AM
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It's a biological reality It comes from needing protection while making babies If we're willing to accept that women have a biological need to find taller men, women should also accept that men have a biological need to find virgins.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 11:05 PM
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A lot of men are simply unwilling to accept any constructive criticism or guidance in the bedroom. Either it hurts their feelings and they shut down or they do the “smile and nod” thing that men sometimes do when women are talking. The “I’m pretending to listen but I’m not really listening” thing Most men actually want to please their women and want them to enjoy the act of sex just as much as they do. As such, they would happily listen to directions as long as the woman is willing to provide th…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 12:19 PM
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Based. I too think a woman that wants to marry a man that makes more money than him, is effectively a golddiger.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 03:53 AM
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20 is half of 40 dude, and it's not meant to be taken literally. I said in my very first comment that I wasn't talking about literal 20 year old college women. And I also didn't specifically state that 40 year old men want 20 year-old women. I said women in their 20s, which I clarified in a subsequent comment that I was talking about women in their mid-late 20s. Because he's a creep. You haven't been a young woman before and cannot understand how unwelcome that attention is. Men that target youn…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 10:34 PM
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Men can be multifaceted and also prefer younger women. And I'm not saying all men have the same preference, but I think if we lived in a society where men were less likely to get shamed for their preferences, we would overwhelmingly choose women that were at least somewhat younger than us. This is why in societies where men aren't shamed for their preferences, you see men in their 30s indeed only going for women that are in their 20s, so on and so forth.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 12:18 PM
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First off, I quite clearly was talking about men in their 30s and early 40s dating women in their mid-late 20s. Not women "half their age". Secondly, how is a guy not worth dating if he's expressing his preference for dating women that are younger than him? This is very clearly a shaming tactic to stop men from having basic preferences. How about instead of blaming men for having preferences, we tell women to understand the importance of their biological clock and have realistic standards and ex…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 11:35 AM
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most men i know don’t have such strict age preferences. they’ll have an age range they prefer, sure, as women do as well- but i can’t say i know many men in their 30s who would reject a woman of similar age if she checked their boxes regarding personality, values, compatibility, etc. I think the questions that we have to ask and ones that I alluded to are: 1. Are those men financially stable? And I'm not asking whether they have a job or not. I'm talking about an established career, i.e. doctor,…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 01:04 AM
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I don't know about college girls. That might be a bit of a stretch. But I hardly know a single guy in his 30s and early 40s, who is financially stable and thinking about getting into a long-term committed relationship that will possibly end up in marriage, even considering seeing someone who is over the age of 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 12:20 AM
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I don't unless it's a friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 04:42 PM
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A genuine female friend: She is just like any of my male friends and I have no romantic/sexual feelings toward her and she knows it. A friendzoned friend: Someone who I am attracted to romantically/sexually, but she has rejected my advances and still wants to keep me around because I add value to her life in some non-sexual way. In essence, she wants to take advantage of me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 01:00 PM
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the last time I saw someone give someone a ride like that they were dating like two weeks later and they'd basically been flirting half the night. This is a really long shot. So long that I've only seen it happen in the movies. In real life, unless you're already an attractive guy, regardless of whether you're her type or not, she will see you as nothing more than a nice guy trying to help. The most you can expect out of helping her is landing up in her friendzone.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 12:28 PM
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Not sure how what I said was trolling. I literally made a point about why more people are joining TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 03:10 PM
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It's not the word that I have a problem with. It's the convenience of you using it solely for the purpose of creating your own fake oppression. Moreover, modern western women - not to be confused with traditional western women - objectify themselves far more than the average man ever could. Calling someone an incel isn't going to destroy their career, you just want to feel oppressed for some weird reason. But creating a society of men that see women as objects increases violence against them. Ju…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 01:26 AM
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Alright. Then we're in alignment.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 01:02 AM
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Well, that's convenient, isn't it? So, because you perceive the comments made against men as "mean" and not dehumanizing enough, you think it's justified to call them "incels" or "misogynists", which is significantly more impactful btw and could - under the right circumstances - lead to the destruction of their lives and careers. But calling a woman "damaged" is a step too far? Bravo! And this, ladies and gentlemen, is why support for feminism in the West is declining and why more and more peopl…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 12:44 AM
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Don't know about "used" - which is a term I would use to describe a girl with a high body-count, but "damaged" is a good way to encapsulate what I elucidated in my earlier comment. Most people aren't going to take the time to write an essay about why they think some people are "damaged". Just like when women call certain men "incel" or "misogynist", they don't feel the need to explain themselves - even though 9 times out of 10, they're not using the words correctly. Speaking of which, do you cal…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 10:14 PM
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Let's make it real simple. As someone who has been out on dates with single mothers, I can tell you that they are the worst candidates for relationships. 1) Single mothers often carry a lot of baggage from past relationships, particularly from their relationships with the father(s) of their kid(s), which they then tend to dump on the guy they end up dating for the long-term. 2) Speaking of baggage, hate to say it like this but the child(ren) itself is a baggage from past relationships or worse -…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 09:59 PM
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That's not what he's saying. Just as you have the power to deny sex, a man has the power to deny commitment despite having sex. In other words, you're not entitled to his commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 09:34 PM
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Or it's the sexual marketplace correcting/rebalancing itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 08:24 PM
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Well, in my experience, increased wealth does mean increased opportunities to date. Not saying that it'll open up a magic door to a world where all the women that rejected you for your height or looks (lack thereof) would suddenly want to sleep with you. But you do become more attractive as a long-term dating partner or potential husband. If nothing else, you can always pay for sex. And no, I don't think you're pathetic for doing that, unless you're suggesting that all the women that sell their …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 08:08 PM
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Well, then it's pretty clear why you were able to get laid three times a week when you were 19 and broke. Not saying your height was the only factor. But to assume that it wasn't relevant is being disingenuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 01:58 PM
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So, you've never paid for a date?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 11:11 AM
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How tall are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 11:03 AM
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Neither am I. Not rich, but making 6 figures. And the fact that I'm financially stable and have strategies in place for potential job/money loss is the only thing that keeps me afloat in the dating market. I'm in my mid-30s though. I have no idea how an average or below-average looking 20 year old is supposed to achieve that level of security.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 11:02 AM
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Exactly! So, the vast majority of high-income earning men are beta buxx by default.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 07:40 PM
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I'm amazed that some people still believe in "unconditional love".
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 03:54 PM
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English please! 🙄
/r/PussyPassDenied01/04/23 04:59 PM
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Exactly! Some women might have a hard time finding their optimal suitor. Whereas a lot of men have a hard time finding ANY suitor.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 09:18 PM
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Verbal cues are what's important IMO. "Paying attention to my responses" could be a hit or miss, especially if we're having sex for the first time.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 04:33 PM
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In my humble experience, women are terrible at communicating what they like in bed. I love pleasuring women. If I can make my partner orgasm, it's one of the best feelings in the world. But if I have to experiment and ask you 50 questions in order to get a half-decent answer from you regarding what you like, then sex just becomes a chore and at that point two things can happen: I can either give up and just worry about getting myself off. Or I just go limp, in which case, the entire moment is ru…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 04:03 PM
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No and no. Unless we're talking about a pimp/hooker relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 07:58 PM
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The women under 25, thin and conventionally attractive are superficial af and most guys are aware of that. So, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 03:40 PM
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Being in the friend zone is very different from being in an established and committed relationship I'm trying to use the friendzone as an illustration of the similarities between the expectations of simps and women that chase after Chads, thinking that she'll be the one to change him. Most men have a lot of options, but don’t realize it since they aren’t conventionally attractive thin women under age 25. There are very few men who have no options. Okay, this is beyond inaccurate. Only the top ti…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 12:48 PM
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I don't. But if a woman knowingly wants to date guys that have a lot of options, then it's her fault for not realizing that at some point, he's going to exercise those options. It's a similar concept with guys simping for that one hot girl. They accept the friendzone thinking she'll change her mind one day and finally see how nice he is, and fall in love with him. We all know how that ends.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 04:53 AM
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https://psychcentral.com/health/long-term-psychological-effects-of-infidelity Again, this article does not support your theory that infidelity results in divorce and breakup of the family. It is a good article though and I agree about the long-term psychological effects of infidelity on children, which is why I stated before that I don't condone it. My ex-girlfriend cheated on me with one of her colleagues at a part-time job, when we were both in Uni. I know what it feels like. I'm simply saying…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 03:58 AM
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That is still a threat Again, proof? How do you know if a guy has lots of options? Can you make a specific list of characteristics to avoid? It's pretty obvious that guys that have some combination of looks, height, hyper-masculinity, physically fitness, money, status, etc., tend to be ones that have a lot of options. It's not hard to spot a Chad, even from a mile away. You rarely see the average guy hooking up with a bunch of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 08:18 PM
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We're not talking about open marriages. We're talking about an aspect of polygyny, with the difference being that the man instead of marrying multiple women, has one wife and several other girlfriends/mistresses. Nowhere in the article does it explicitly state that "92% of open marriages end up in divorce". As a woman, you can easily avoid this. Just stop dating guys that have a lot of options. But we both know the average guy isn't good enough for the average woman these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 08:04 PM
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Proof?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 07:16 PM
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Agree on the protecting and providing part. Still unclear on the mistress and side-chick part? Most married wealthy and/or resourceful men cheat on their wives. He can do that and still protect & provide for his family. And there is a difference between necessities and luxuries. No one NEEDS to work 16 hours a day to provide for their family's necessities unless they have tons of children. Having said all that, I do appreciate you setting your expectations of what a HVM should be. Let me set my …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 06:50 PM
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In my view, a high value man is someone who is financially secure and has game, i.e. he has a bevy of women who wanna be with him. Moreover, if you're free to define what a high value man is, should men be able to define what a high value woman is? If so, I say any woman with a double-digit body count and is argumentative is automatically a low value woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 05:22 PM
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One of your questions was "are other girls aware?". That's basically why I responded. As it pertains to the main girlfriend, there's no way I buy this notion that the guy is seeing 3-4 side-chicks and the girlfriend has zero clue or hint about any of them. That would make her woefully naive and ignorant. I'm willing to bet that at the very least she's already suspicious of his endeavors, if not fully aware of them, and she just chooses to ignore them because he's a high value man. At the end of …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 02:50 PM
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Yes. I'm not condoning it. All I'm saying is that a lot of women are okay with it for the "right" guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 01:01 PM
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A lot of women absolutely tolerate this sort of dynamic if the man is high status enough and less importantly, good in bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 12:42 PM
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I guarantee you that despite all of her physically unattractive attributes, she'd still have a horde of suitors chasing after her. She may have a hard time finding her optimal suitor, i.e. a guy who's several inches taller than her, above-average looks, physically fit, high status, makes a lot of money, etc. But she'll have no problem finding A suitor. On the other hand, it is far more difficult to find women - attractive or not - who are interested in you if you're just an average-looking man.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 11:22 AM
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Exactly! Nearly all of the working women in my extended family as well as wives of friends, contribute less than 10% toward household expenses. Their money is usually spent on themselves, i.e. buying make-up, getting their hair and nails done twice a month, perhaps a gym membership, and occasionally buying cheap toys and candy for their kids, with that last thing making up the 10% that I was talking about. Everything from mortgages, car payments, utilities, phone bills, grocery bills, children's…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 03:10 AM
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Sure. But we're making comparisons though.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 04:41 AM
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Lmao what??? I'm making six figures (not even counting the money I make through stock trades) too and I'm on reddit everyday. 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 09:54 PM
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Idk how the mods are gonna take this, but a fit white person is generally considered more desirable than a fit non-white person. In fact, white males are the most desired male group, according to several studies.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 09:23 PM
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I wasn't switching. That was the entire point I made. Four years isn't a reasonable age gap when one party is nineteen years old or younger. Why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 10:55 PM
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Okay, now we're switching back to age gap being an issue again? And how is 4 years not a reasonable age gap?? And why are we making assumptions about when they met? Are you trying to imply that the girl was somehow groomed by her husband? If not, what else are trying to insinuate? I swear, women nowadays just look for an excuse to play the victim.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 03:30 PM
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So, should we raise the voting age for women too? If they're not old enough to marry, then they're probably not old enough to decide who should be leaders of their respective countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 02:47 PM
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Not based on the studies that I've seen.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 02:45 PM
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Not when people say 4 years is a "significant" age gap between couples.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 01:10 PM
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It doesn't, that would be really fucking stupid lol Agreed. Significantly less stupid would be to assume that both men and women are more likely to stay committed when they are married to each other. Not really. People cheat a lot more than you think The percentage of married men cheating is around 20%. For married women, it's around 15%, with a gradual uptick. Pretty high, no doubt. But the vast majority of men and women still stay committed during the course of their marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 01:08 PM
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Because feminists are absolutely bat-shit crazy! I made a comment on another sub stating that TwoXChromosomes was filled with misandry. And ever since then, I have this crazy feminist who's stalking me online, calling me an "asshole" and a "dickhead" over chat, and leaving snide responses on nearly every single one of my comments on any sub, including comments that I've made over a year ago. And this isn't the first time this has happened to me either.
/r/MensRights23/03/23 12:57 PM
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How does meeting a 6 ft tall Chad at a birthday party or a club and sleeping with him on the same night ensure commitment? While nothing in life is 100% guaranteed, one of the aforementioned scenarios is definitely more reliable when it comes to securing commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 12:47 PM
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"Significant age gap"! lol Are you being serious?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 12:34 PM
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but he is also handsome. Lmfao!! 🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 01:38 AM
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Obviously, the guy is being hyperbolic. But he does have a point about guys with average or below-average SMV being more likely to subsidize women who've made poor life choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 12:14 PM
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This comment just screams "modern western women have unrealistic standards". lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 05:24 PM
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These lists are usually just cap. A marketing ploy to lure more people into their cities, so they can fill out their factories and restaurants. Every city, town, suburb, etc., has both fit as well as obese people.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 05:22 PM
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This is exactly it! While some things that RP role models say can be questionable, the basic tenets of TRP have helped guys like me tremendously. Not when it comes to dating specifically, but when it comes to self-improvement and not giving two F's about what a feminists opinion is about how men should/shouldn't act and the kind of role models that we ought to seek out.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 05:31 PM
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So you’re telling me unattractive serial killers had women throwing themselves at them? Why didn’t you name them? It’s odd you’d name the attractive male serial killers but claim it’s not looks Wait, so the men that I named are attractive to you?? lol! That literally proves my point! And YO are you saying it’s ok to want to fuck a baby killer cause she’s hot? I didn't even know what crimes she committed. I just googled a picture of her. But to answer your question, when it comes to sex and only …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 02:26 AM
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As opposed to the assholes women love to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 11:49 PM
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Casey Anthony received the proposals that she did because of her appearance and not because men we're attracted to her "badness" (if that's a word). She practically looks like a model. Totally different topic than the one we're discussing. Aileen Wuornos is a better example, i.e. of someone who didn't receive as many letters from men despite being a serial killer. Once again, it's coz of her appearance. The twisting it must take to view obscure mentally unstable people and think “yeah, this is a…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 11:47 PM
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Only a ridiculously tiny minority of women write to serial killers, and the vast majority of them know that they aren't going to actually do anything with them (writing to a gay serial killer being a perfect example). It's a way for a very small number of insecure or fetishizing women to harmlessly flirt with the danger that they feel in one way or another every day of their lives, and so isn't really applicable to women in general. Serial killers received letters from hundreds of women, so it's…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 11:41 PM
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Abusive partners tend to not be abusive up front and slowly trap their partners before their true side comes out. I literally provided an example of a convicted serial killer. How much more "up front" would you like them to be? Also, men are generally terrible at hiding our red flags. But when you live in a society as superficial as the modern west, you tend to ignore red flags in favor of things like height, six pack and tattoos. Arguing that women should preferentially get in relationships wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 05:26 PM
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That's another solid point. But back in those days, I assume a lot of people just thought that being gay was "only a phase".
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 05:09 PM
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Jeffrey Dahmer is definitely not an edge case. Plenty of other serial killers (Richard Ramirez, Ted Bundy, etc.) have been known to receive amorous letters from legions of female fans. Besides mass murderers, I have plenty of female acquaintances who've dated drug dealers, gangbangers and other men that have had a horribly violent past. We see it on social media quite a bit too. Women generally tend to have an affinity for bad boys, whether they want to admit it or not. It's clear as a sunny day…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 05:08 PM
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Yet plenty of women still get into relationships with abusive men far more often than they do with nerdy, timid men. Everyone is aware of it and yet people try to skirt around it. Remind me again, how many letters Jeffrey Dahmer received from women that admired him?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 04:14 PM
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The question was about perception. Even financially successful men are looked down upon socially, if they've been single for a long time. Case in point: IT guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 06:26 AM
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Controversial take: Assuming she's not a virgin, if you're not kissing by the third date and not sleeping together by the 5th, RUN!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 01:21 AM
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Agreed! Hence the term "incel" is a popular insult for men whereas "hoe"/"slut" is a popular insult for women. Men are shamed for being single and/or virgins whereas women are shamed for sleeping around.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 01:03 AM
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Man, this is spot on. Just to add to it though: - Women who talk about their exes way too much while they're with you. "Oh he did this for me.", "Oh I still remember the time we went to watch <insert romantic movie> together", etc. That's a huge red flag! - If she's frequently uninterested in going out with you and instead just wants to hang out with her friends and/or stay in her apartment/house watching soap operas, that's another red flag too. Especially in the latter scenario you ask, "hey b…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 01:00 AM
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Having children is a net gain for most families. Assuming that you're raising your children with strong moral values and a sense of personal responsibility, in a two-parent household, kids can offer several benefits in the course of their lives that adults without children can never hope to achieve. Besides providing joy and happiness in parent's lives, kids tend to strengthen a person's sense of responsibility and motivate them to strive towards greater things, i.e. getting a higher income job,…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 05:42 PM
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He's fallen so far down the simp hole that he can't see the difference between men and women. 😆😆
/r/MensRights12/03/23 04:20 PM
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Lmao! The fact that you're getting downvoted this hard for stating facts is an indication of how misandrist western society really is and how far this sub has fallen.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 04:10 PM
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That sub is supposed to be rant, and rants in general are stress dumping, so please do not visit those kinds of subreddits if you cannot take rants. Edit: At this point, both misogyny and misandry will never disappear if you people are hating on each other, without trying to understand each other. Try to understand their stress, because we really need to understand each other if we want to solve issues. So, I assume you're going to provide a link to a similar comment that you made on that sub.
/r/MensRights12/03/23 04:20 AM
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So, you don't see the manipulation? Cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 11:54 AM
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I will say American women are exceptionally bad as they both are shallow while often themselves being overweight etc...and shame men for wanting sex I guess we can find some common ground here. Just gonna add that it's not just American women. It's Canadian women too.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 01:57 AM
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I'm a SA immigrant who's been living in NA for over 10 years. And I guarantee you that the women in the East are way different than the women in the West. Women in Asian countries are far more traditional, compassionate, devoted, agreeable and are not shy about displaying their gratitude for the arduous work of protecting and providing, that traditional men are typically known for. As a man, I feel much more appreciated by the women in my native country than I am in the West. I'm not saying that…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 01:21 AM
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And no one really cares if dudes go there. Skimming through the comments on this post prove otherwise. From my vantage point, women seem to care a lot about men going overseas to find traditional women they can settle down with. A lot has been made of them in this very thread, including calling those men manipulative, opportunistic and someone even alluded to such men being pedophiles! It's absurd the depths modern western women would stoop to, in order to shame men for having preferences and ac…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 10:50 PM
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Melania is 25 years younger than Trump. You're saying that she married him because she was attracted to him physically AND NOT because of his money? Yeah, pardon the pun, but I don't buy it. And I'm sure you don't buy it either. It's just more gaslighting, which is what I've come to expect on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 10:42 PM
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Literally all of my married friends say this to me. ALL OF THEM! Especially my female friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 01:30 PM
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He did answer the question. It's just not an answer that you like.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 03:12 AM
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If only women cared about looks as much as men do, guys like Donald Trump would never be able to find one wife, let alone 3. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 03:06 AM
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I did look it up and hence the point I'm trying to make. When it comes to International Women's Day, it's about celebrating women regardless of their achievements. The expectation is not the same for International Men's Day. Heck, I didn't even know there was such a thing until recently because the MSM rarely promotes it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 10:02 PM
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So, it's never about being proud of who you are regardless of how you look, what kind of profession you're in, body-positivity, etc? And being proud of your gender?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 09:47 PM
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Ideally, it should highlight men who have made positive contributions to their communities, praise men who have made a difference for the better, past or present. Focus on role models and value and not on what men have done wrong because that defeats the whole propose of the day. I don’t have to be a man to recognize that there are really good men out there. Wait, is that what they do on International Women's Day?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 08:53 PM
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My brother or the other guy I commented about, did not live in dorms. And they did pretty much everything else you mentioned. Though some of the breakups were kinda ugly. Again, it's not common because frankly, most guys these days barely have a shot with one woman, let alone 3 or 4. But it does happen in some rare instances.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 08:27 PM
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My brother used to date 3-4 girls at the same time when he was in college. I used to secretly check his phone, so I'm aware. Plus, he was known as a stud amongst his friends and among people in our neighborhood. I had a friend like that in HS too, who used to date multiple girls at the same time, albeit casually. I guess you could call it a FWB type of situation, but one of the girls was really smitten by him. Guys like that do exist, but they're just not common.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 08:09 PM
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No, I've never had these happen to me, fortunately. I'm sorry for what you had to experience though.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 01:18 PM
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These are some really weird questions. Can you tell me exactly why you're asking me these?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 02:58 AM
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Exactly! As a man that's 5'4" short and used to be fairly decent-looking in my teens and 20s, the vast majority of times I've been rejected, it's because of my height. And this is something that a lot of those women admitted, i.e. if I was taller they would date me. Mind you, these girls were all either the same height as me or shorter. Also, I'm South Asian.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 11:52 PM
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Even children are held to higher standards than women are in this day and age, IME.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 07:57 PM
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The statistics you're citing is from a study that was conducted in 2011, years before online dating was popularized (around 2013-2015) and Onlyfans was a thing. Moreover, the study doesn't account for relationships being a potential blocking variable. Also, if women were truly as agreeable as you state, they wouldn't be leaving their men in such record numbers.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 04:41 AM
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Umm, because if the man’s behavior is an issue for the woman, then there isn’t anything for her to change? If the man's behavior was an issue, then why did she marry him in the first place? Men are terrible at hiding their red flags and you'd think women would be able to pick up on those flags BEFORE deciding to tie the knot with them. I’m one of those women who has initiated divorce from both of my prior marriages. In both situations I left due to their behavior, which they were unwilling to ad…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 04:30 AM
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Yet, it's women who make the choice to break up the family the vast majority of times, instead of trying to work out their problems. It goes back to my last question: why get married if you're not willing to make that compromise? Or why get married to a man who has indicated that he's unwilling to change his ways?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 02:05 PM
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Why not change both their behaviors? Isn't that what marriage is about? Compromise? Or don't get married to person A in the first place?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 02:01 PM
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Are you assuming women divorce simply because the husband isn't behaving the way she wants him to? Because the biggest predictor of divorce among women is earnings, i.e. when the woman outearns the man. And even if what you say is true, why does the man have to be the one to change all the time? Why can't the woman change her behavior to suit her man?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 01:17 PM
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Most divorces are initiated by women. And unless there's concrete evidence to prove that it's because men aren't willing to work through their issues, I don't think that's the case. Not everything is the man's fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 12:29 PM
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Assault and defamation are two completely different crimes with different scores of punishments.
/r/MensRights01/03/23 09:59 PM
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I was a responding to a fake narrative based on observations and facts. If you agree with that narrative, please provide empirical evidence of every single statement that the comment I originally responded to. Can you do that? No? Then I don't feel obligated to provide anything to you, especially when I know it's not gonna change your mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 10:38 PM
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If I thought it could change your mind, I would. Sadly, I've met plenty of feminists such as yourself on this sub who refuse to acknowledge the privileges that modern western women share over their male counterparts. So much so that I think it's better to tell you to do your own research and if that doesn't change your mind, feel free to take a victory lap while wallowing in your fabricated victimhood.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 05:43 PM
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I misunderstood your earlier comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 01:31 PM
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The average is similar. Only to people who have a very reductive understanding of statistics or even math, for that matter. Options to pay women to spend time with them, this isn't genuine attraction. You just described what the majority of women in the West ultimately want from their long-term partners. Congratulations on finally discovering how the world works. In most of the Western world? Uhhh no. Women initiate divorces because we are more likely to be unhappy in marriage compared to men. Y…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 01:29 PM
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I guess we don't disagree on much then. No idea why you responded, in that case. But whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 01:20 PM
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Nope. I'm not a feminist or a simp. I don't make up stories. I just report facts and observations. You must be from the #believeallwomen crowd.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 01:17 PM
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You mean the majority of men in the West? Yeah, if only.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 04:26 AM
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No, I think you responded to the wrong comment, bud. This is more suited for the comment I responded to.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 11:09 PM
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You think a man wants to be with a woman that's run through by a bunch of guys?? Lmao! Why do you think the passportbros are becoming so popular?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 11:08 PM
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Average number of LIFETIME sex partners for a woman is 4.3, this casual sex lifestyle isn't at all what most women are doing. They are not talking about averages, they're taking about median. It's a whole different statistic, which makes a huge difference. It means that half the women in the States have had fewer than 4 partners in their lifetime, but the other half have had more than 4. How much more? We don't know. For men, it is quite obvious that the older that men get and the more money the…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 08:53 PM
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You guys on here keep saying this nonsense again and again as if it's an article of faith. I have literally never met a woman who does this or has done this. My comment has more truth to it than the comment I was responding to. I have met plenty of women who have this exact 304 lifestyle in college, up to their mid-20s. And you seen tons of women online talking about this phase as well. Literally in this day and age women usually have a steady boyfriend throughout college they break up and she s…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 08:31 PM
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The problem is that the current version of “traditional” that many of these men seem to want is one in which they spend their 20’s & early thirties having near constant casual sex with hot “sluts”, then when they turn 35, a 20 year old virgin (also hot btw, but she’s insecure and doesn’t know she’s hot) drops into their lap, has a super hot, kinky audition session in which she loses her virginity and orgasms effortlessly. It's funny. This is literally what women do in this day and age. Have sex …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 05:40 PM
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Literally every guy that pays for dates is ultimately paying for sex. Guys can delude themselves into thinking they're not, if they so desire. But that doesn't change reality. And the vast majority of times, they have nothing to show for it. I decided to pay for sex at 32 after being lead on, friendzoned, cheated on, being used as a wallet by girls looking for free meals, and more. If you're trying to make me and others feel guilty for paying for sex, you're gonna be disappointed. Edit: Looks li…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 08:00 AM
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And those preferences are one-dimensional and they change with age.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 01:13 AM
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Men rate women like cattle, women treat men as human beings. Yes, human beings that are mostly mediocre. 😂 Women in their late-teens and 20s overwhelmingly tend to date men that would harm them either physically or emotionally or both. Older women, on the other hand, tend to use wealth and resources as a means to determine a man's value. So, once again, human beings that are reduced to either their height/looks or their wallets. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 12:40 AM
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The person you asked to "elaborate" can't do that because they know you were making the correct point.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 05:57 PM
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They can't. Hence the awkward laughter.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 05:44 PM
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Do you say the same thing when men actually commit assault? "Maybe he didn't mean to. He was just high." 🙄
/r/PussyPassDenied24/02/23 03:00 PM
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Though if it's purely for sex it'd probably be better to just hire a prostitute since you don't have to deal with them every day, just when you want sex. This is exactly what I do. And I live close to a place where it is legalized, so that works out amazingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 06:42 PM
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I feel the majority of men who've already been in bad relationships would choose this option over the other, every single time.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 06:37 PM
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The situation with the Rotheram girls is completely different from the choices that these women made in their youth. It's like comparing apples and oranges.
/r/PussyPassDenied23/02/23 01:38 AM
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How so? I'd love an explanation. Also, I don't think you caught my last excerpt, which I edited in: Why do I sense an assumption from you that conservative men can't be benevolent? Benevolence is rooted in conservatism.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 01:43 AM
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Evidence shows that many women—even those who desire egalitarian relationships—want a man to be chivalrous, by, for example, paying for dates and opening doors for them (Lamont, 2014; Lever, Frederick, & Hertz, 2015). That's from the article btw. They've already accounted for egalitarianism as a blocking variable in their research: Who do you think is more likely to have the benevolent form of that? Uhhh conservatives! And that's what the article alludes to as well: Women might perceive that BS …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 01:40 AM
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Dating for the short-term and dating for the long-term are two very different situations. There is no empirical data to support this idea that Republicans have more difficulty with long-term relationships and marriage compared to Democrats. While there are tons of articles describing why Republican men are more desirable to women across all political spectrums. Here's an example: https://nypost.com/2021/07/10/why-progressive-women-want-to-date-men-who-act-conservative/ A quote from the article: …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 01:22 AM
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Most men in the US, regardless of political persuasion, are not financially stable. Yes, but conservatives are generally more financially stable than their liberal counterparts: https://www.pewresearch.org/politics/2017/10/24/10-financial-well-being-personal-characteristics-and-lifestyles-of-the-political-typology/ Core Conservatives are most likely to own their homes; 86% say they own a home, more than 10 percentage points higher than any other typology group. ​ However, while Core Conservative…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 01:11 AM
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https://hireinfluence.com/blog/top-twitch-streamers/#:~:text=Top%20Twitch%20Streamers-,Ninja,games%20are%20Fornite%20and%20VALORANT. I don't know WTF the person who wrote that article was smoking, but "Ninja" was the top Twitch streamer of 2022. Even if you just segregate by politics, Hasan was #5. Impressive feat. But still not #1. https://www.dexerto.com/entertainment/most-watched-twitch-streamers-in-2022-xqc-hasan-ibai-more-2020227/
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 12:50 AM
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Couple of key points here: I've read the article and this survey is mostly talking about Trump voters specifically. They are not representative of the entire Republican party or conservatives across all countries, especially in 2023. Also, in 2016, several people that voted for Trump, voted for Obama too in his past 2 terms. So, you can't really define who's a conservative by who voted for Trump. The article combines both genders, i.e. they are talking about both men and women, whereas we're her…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 12:42 AM
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Please share the link, coz I would like to see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 12:17 AM
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The analytics that you're citing is from a specific month, a couple of years in the past, i.e. during the 2020 US elections.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 11:50 PM
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Apparently! lol Also, I think you meant to reply to the other comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 11:46 PM
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Conservative apps are cringey as fuck! I doubt they're representative of actual conservative men (I'm a centrist btw). But most leftist women I know in my life and my surroundings either ended up marrying conservative men or want to marry conservative men. Only a small contingent of leftist women wanna settle down with leftist or liberal men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 11:42 PM
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Number one according to who? According to his delusional, obsessed, leftie fans.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 11:37 PM
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For women, I'm sure it is.
/r/MensRights20/02/23 08:43 PM
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In Emma Watson's voice, "How dare you!"
/r/MensRights20/02/23 03:39 AM
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Of course not!
/r/MensRights20/02/23 03:12 AM
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The kind of person that wants to be appreciated for his hard work, for trying to provide for his family no matter the sacrifices I have to make and in turn wants a partner who desires me, actually wants to take care of the house and the kids while I'm out working two jobs, slaving myself so they can have the perfect life? A man that respects women with traditional values and doesn't wanna marry an entitled hoe? Yes, you're damn right I'm one of THOSE people!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 08:41 PM
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Or don't get married to a modern western entitled woman and find a traditional wife overseas. 🤷🏽‍♂️ That should be the way to go for most western guys that aren't simps, IMHO. P.S.: I'd rather not get divorce-raped
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 08:02 PM
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If I don't wanna work and feed my family and my wife tries to force me to, that's slavery too, I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 07:07 PM
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But I also don't think housewives should be slaves either This was her exact comment!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 05:13 PM
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She literally said this: "But I also don't think housewives should be slaves either" Who suggested that housewives should be like slaves?! You guys need reading glasses!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 05:12 PM
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Who are these men that are treating housewives like slaves? You think doing basic chores like cleaning and cooking when you don't work for a living, is equivalent to slavery? All the while your husband toils day and night, ACTUALLY slaving away working the hardest jobs, to ensure you and your children are leading a comfortable and fulfilling life! No, that guy's practically a misogynist, am I rite? This is the problem with modern western women. The tiniest bit of personal responsibility and acco…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 06:25 AM
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If you're making half the income, then you're technically not a housewife, are you? You should also pay for half the house, in that case.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 04:00 AM
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So, if a man has a house, are you willing to be his housewife and take on all the cooking and cleaning responsibilities, and have sex with him whenever he wants?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 12:46 AM
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advice is cheap. Anybody can give it dude. Myron and all the other TRP girlies sit around and bitch all day while actively ruining the dating market. Agreed. But what matters is the right kind of advice. Unless of course, you're someone that takes everyone's advice into consideration - which btw is terrible practice. For instance, based on my own experiences and the experiences of several other men, I'm fairly certain taking advice from women on matters of dating and relationships is a terrible …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 01:32 PM
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Doesn’t saying something is bad imply people would lose respect for someone for doing it? Do people lose all respect for smokers? How about people that watch porn? Is your whole point just that people don’t (or the person you replied to shouldn’t) care whether a guy pays for sex or a woman has casual sex, they just neither gain or lose respect by doing it, since they’re both easy? Though it’s ok to care about stripping since it’s harder. My point is simply this: people don't respect other people…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 03:27 AM
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Of course I did, all these RP senpais claiming they want to help the average men? Bullshit, they want to climb the male food pyramid. If they wanted to help an average guy, they would enforce monogamy The "RP senpais" have helped average men by teaching them to constantly strive to be better versions of themselves and to understand their value in society. I have personally benefitted from the advice of several established RP men. Doesn't mean I agree with everything they say, but their ideology …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 03:19 AM
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So basically the gist of it is that as a man you're not allowed to have standards, unless it conforms with female standards. Yeah no thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 10:17 PM
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Also, I don’t understand how you can think easy things aren’t automatically immoral, but reply yes to the first question asking if it’s bad because it’s easy Because there's a difference between choosing to not respect someone for a particular action versus disrespecting them. If you think stripping is harder than casual sex, then what about a woman who randomly stripped for money at a party vs one who spent years losing weight and improving themselves etc for the sole purpose of being able to h…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 10:15 PM
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Third of all, I’ll tell you a big secret: I don’t like it when people start virtue signaling and fish for compassion points. The left did it, and men advocates and allies made fun of them, now you guys decided to take your turn or what First off, nobody I know in the red pill sphere has ever tried to fish for compassion. Yes, we sometimes do fish for acknowledgement regarding what men have accomplished for generations when some feminist broad keeps uttering the same BS narrative about not needin…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 10:06 PM
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Which implies you think paying for sex is bad because it’s easy, so you think it’s equivalent to women having casual sex as you think that’s also easy. Yes, that's correct. It seems the person you replied to was thinking paying for sex is bad, due to the morals of being ok with being intimate with someone who’s only relationship with you is financial, so it’s equivalent to stripping. No, it's not. There is a financial incentive for sure, but it is significantly harder for a lot of women to have …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 01:45 PM
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If they whine that there isn’t a traditional god fearing men for them. OF girlies seem to be doing fine without traditional men tho. Literally everyone is happy except for men who buy nudes, so of course the burden of performance is on them here. Cuz they are complaining. The burden on whoever is whining. Not sure about the "god-fearing" part, but have you not seen the dozens of women complaining and whining online about their dating problems and not being able to find guys that stick around pas…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 01:32 PM
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For paying for sex specifically? No, I don't think so. I do deserve respect for everything else I've done for people and for being able to stand on my own two feet since I was 19.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 04:32 AM
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It’s not about taking the easy way to sex; it’s that it is embarrassing to be with somebody who has slept with the whole town. I don’t want a man who will run into lots of his past sexual partners at the grocery store. Being with a man like that makes the women he is with look desperate. Also if a man has slept with a lot of other women and didn’t commit to any of them what’s the odds he will commit to me? Past behavior is the best way to judge future behavior. This is the type of thing most men…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 04:30 AM
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I don't mind taking the easy route. I just don't expect people to respect me for it. And I'm constantly judged on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 04:29 AM
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NPCs, slaves, obedient OF supporting simps don’t deserve anything better than this. Curious if you'd say the same about women going for the 6 foot tall Chad, ignoring all the red flags - abusive, alcoholic, manipulative, etc. - that are very clearly visible? If they went to church, hit the gym and restrained themselves we would have a conversation, for now I can recommend this cool thing, called making peace with circumstances and getting over themselves. None of the things that you said are act…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 04:28 AM
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I'm not saying they don't deserve respect at all. They could be carrying groceries for old ladies in their free time and that certainly deserves respect. I'm saying they don't deserve respect for paying for sex specifically. I don't think that's something men should ever brag about. Unlike women who brag about their body counts and brag about making money shaking their naked tits on OF.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 04:22 AM
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Go ahead and look up the definition of manipulation, because those dudes are willingly purchasing a product. So, I assume you don't think that when Chads make false promises to women in order to sleep with them and then block their number once they're done, that's not manipulation either? Or when a politician manipulates you and takes advantage of your grievances to get himself voted in? Good to know. Because that's what it is with the Onlyfans girls. They are exploiting a bunch of young guys, w…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 04:19 AM
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Yes, that's what happens when you have a generation of attractive women posting nude selfies on Onlyfans and trying to manipulate a generation of sexually deprived men into giving her money. Have you seen the stats on how rapidly the rate of virginity has been increasing among young men since the advent of OLD? Look it up!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 05:24 PM
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No, women see men that pay for sex the same way men see women who work as strippers. That's not an accurate analogy. It is significantly harder for men to get casual sex than it is for women. So, paying for sex is a way for men to at least get some kind of sexual gratification. A better analogy would be to see women that have a high body-count the same way as men that pay for sex. They are both doing something that is easy and you don't deserve respect for doing things that are easy. Also I am l…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 05:16 PM
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I’m saying if gay people can have relationships and even marriages with the opposite sex, then straight people could do the same thing with the same sex, in theory You do realize that most gay people don't want to marry someone of the opposite sex, right? Nearly every single time they are forced to do that because of societal expectations, mainly in non-western countries where anything outside of heteronormativity is heavily stigmatized. These relationships/marriages are also pretty-much sexless…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 01:22 PM
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So, it's a one time experiment. That's not what the other guy was saying, but okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 09:30 PM
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Sounds like you did your own set of mental gymnastics and read way too hard into what you thought I was implying. My argument was mostly tongue in cheek but you took it to some next level mental gymnastics lol. Not at all. But you clearly are doing a lot of mental gymnastics to dig yourself out of this hole you've put yourself in. I'm loving it though. I quite enjoy it when supposedly woke homophobes get caught up in their own shenanigans.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 09:27 PM
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Neither is okay. But nowdays, basic disagreement with the feminist narrative is considered sexist. So... 🤷🏽‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 09:25 PM
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Nice backtrack. But that's obviously not what you were saying. You were very clearly implying that straight guys should just fuck each other or fuck other gay/bi dudes if they were having trouble finding girls. This wasn't you suggesting they experiment at all. This was you clearly portraying, once again, sexuality as something that's malleable.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 12:18 AM
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My comment was in response to someone saying that fat women can get fucked easier than men because clearly there's a huge market of horny men. If you had said just that and stopped there, I wouldn't have even felt the need to comment because you would've been right. I commented because I was disgusted with you very clearly implying that homosexuality/bisexuality is a choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 12:12 AM
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I quoted you a bunch of times already in this thread. Keep playing your word games though. Focusing on what was said as opposed to what was insinuated. Classic deflection.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 12:10 AM
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Nah, even fat men can get fucked if they wanted, just download Grindr. Your comment very clearly insinuates that you think sexuality is malleable, i.e. homosexuality is a choice! Keep dancing around it though. I'm loving you trying to justify your homophobia.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 09:38 PM
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LMAO! It's like the racist saying, "I can't be racist coz I work with a lot of black people". Are you seriously throwing out that line? And it's not mental gymnastics when you're pretty much claiming that men and women can just switch their sexual orientation like it's a light-bulb. That's blatant homophobia, bud.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 09:35 PM
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I'm getting plenty of sex. And when the time comes and I want a long-term relationship, I can look eastwards like the passport bros. So, don't you worry about me. I'm doing fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 09:32 PM
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I don't disagree that guys are more desperate when it comes to sex than women, primarily because we're biologically inclined to have a higher sex drive. But what does that have anything to do regarding your comment about homosexuality being a choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 09:27 PM
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If they're getting BJs from dudes, they're likely bisexual and suffering from internalized homophobia, which forces them to reject this idea that they might be anything other than straight. This has been discussed to death in subs like askgaybros. Actually, I shouldn't expect an actual homophobe to know that. My bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 09:24 PM
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Well, I clearly don't have as much experience as you in the "manosphere" department. I talk to actual people in actual, everyday life though. Which is what I was suggesting you do. Coz if you did, you'd know what I said is pretty much accurate for the vast majority of men. Having said that, the lack of awareness about red flags has probably worked to our own detriment sadly, particularly in recent years.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 09:22 PM
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Then they're not gay. They're bisexual. How are we confused about this in 2023?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 09:18 PM
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I'm lean af, mate. And even if I wasn't, I wouldn't change a thing about me so some overweight, ran-through broad with a hundred orbiters and an ego the size of Madison Square Garden, can accept me as her beta-bucks. Yuck! 🤢
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 09:16 PM
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I recommend you do the same. Your knowledge seems to be based on mostly left-leaning, blue-pilled men. Literally no guy I know cares about whether women can drive or has friends. In fact, the fewer friends of hers we have to deal with, the better.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 07:51 PM
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Seriously, they make these types of homophobic comments thinking that's some type of "gotcha".
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 07:47 PM
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Other than mental issues, most men don't care about any of the above.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 07:45 PM
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The OP listed a bunch of things that almost exclusively apply to men. Your retort was listing a bunch of things that you insinuated only apply to women. So, I gave you a reality check. Thank you for helping prove the OP's point though. And mine!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 07:44 PM
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So, sexual orientation is just made up, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 07:39 PM
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You literally said men can just fuck other men if they can't find a woman, which suggests that you think being gay is a choice!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 07:37 PM
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So, you're saying that being gay is a choice? Wow!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 06:35 PM
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High body count. Men are just as stigmatized for having a low body count. Adult virgins are pretty much ostracized by everyone in society, including friends, family and other women. Attention seeking Being an “influencer” or “content creator” Women that are truly attention-seeking make a shitload of money off of that attention. Think tiktok, onlyfans, ig, etc. Obesity Come on. You're seriously gonna claim that obesity only affects a woman's social status? In fact, obese women get way more attent…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 06:33 PM
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You're saying she could be jaded etc because of previous experience. If this was the case, this would come up within how she conducts herself within your relationship. That's precisely what I'm saying. Have you ever thought about how your manosphere time is affecting your ability to have a healthy relationship? I can't imagine getting to know someone romantically who is constantly looking for flaws instead of enjoying my company. 1) We're talking about things that men should be aware of BEFORE s…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 12:15 AM
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When I see alpha widow used in the manosphere it's rarely used in this context though. I've seen it used instead as a presumption. "She's been with guys that are better than me, so I know she's comparing me" is how I've seen it used. That is fully the self-esteem of the "wounded party", not being compared to an ex The more guys she's seen, the higher the chances of her being physically and emotionally disconnected with her current partner. And if she's actively comparing her man to her exes OR i…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 01:28 PM
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Why is there a female mod on a sub called AskMen??
/r/MensRights31/01/23 11:53 PM
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Okay, so how is it about men having low self-esteem then? So, you're saying women have it too? In which case, we agree. All I'm saying on top of that is that if a man senses that his woman is constantly comparing him to her exes - whether subtly or not - he should leave her ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 11:16 PM
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Why in your mind did " he toss her to the street". I believe both sexes on this thread equate "alpha widow" to pining over lost love ( not gendered). You however seem to think that a gal who's had sex with a guy better than you (alpha) means you should toss her. No, I don't think he SHOULD toss her. But more than likely - particularly when we're young - that's what ends up happening. Women's obsession with dating up is what often times leads to heartbreak. I'm not saying they shouldn't aim high …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 01:13 PM
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Or maybe she should set some realistic standards for herself? 🤷🏽‍♂️ That so called "alpha" tossed her to the streets for a reason. More than likely it was because she didn't measure up and he found someone that did. And I hope this hypothetical guy - which frankly could be any average dude in a relationship - realizes his own potential and follows suit.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 09:29 PM
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Women talk about men having a one-track mind and "men being dogs" is not misandrist to you? It goes both ways! And you finding red-pillers misanthropic is exactly the kind of paranoia I'm talking about. So, thank you for proving my point. If you're really concerned about the dangers of misogyny and close-mindedness, let's talk about Muslims. Otherwise, let's close out this chapter right here.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 07:48 PM
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No, it's called reality. Paranoid delusion would be thinking every red-pilled guy is a misogynist and they're all out to get you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 02:13 PM
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You're welcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 05:29 AM
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I'm not though. I love women, in a general sense. I just despise misandrists, modern feminists and white knights. Now, since the definition of misogyny keeps changing every decade, I kind of understand why my opinions would be considered misogynistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 01:47 AM
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I'm bisexual. And how does what I said make me a misogynist? In fact, you're the one who's a misandrist assuming every man needs pussy! lol!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 11:50 PM
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It's not out of nowhere if you understand the underlying context.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 11:47 PM
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Damn! I can't believe how triggered you guys are getting at my one comment! I love it! 😂 Btw, that picture is reminiscent of a woman trying to hold a gun at the battlefield. Friendly fire incoming! 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 11:44 PM
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Agreed. Hence why I specifically said "battlefield".
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 11:42 PM
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I need pussy as much as single moms need child support and as much as 35+ post-wall women need a man to pay their bills. Oops, I said yet another thing that will trigger the feminists and the white knights! Here we go again! 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 11:41 PM
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The people that say "women should be drafted" are actually making fun of feminists and blue-pillers that say dumb crap like "women are just as strong and tough as men" or "I don't need a man". Funny how it goes over some people's heads.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 11:36 PM
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It’s really not that rare at all. I got divorced from my second husband at 39, and was picked up by a couple of guys (on separate occasions) who were mid 20’s at bars and both of them assumed that I was around the same age as them. No, neither of them was drunk either. I was still getting carded pretty much everywhere at that time and people did a double take after looking at my birthdate. I didn’t start getting fine lines until a couple years after I turned 40, and that’s pretty much only becau…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 11:33 PM
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False rape charges are hardly a real thing. Violent crimes motivated by misogyny are extremely common. Not just in the US either. Have you heard of acid attacks? False rape charges have become increasingly common in recent years and acid attacks have become increasingly less common. Incidentally, white knighting has become increasingly common as well, evidently! Yes. So many. Much more in the US compared to Muslim extremists and way more compared to anything related to misandry. Since we're talk…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 11:28 PM
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"Trimming the fat" is exactly what the military should do with women. They have no place on the battlefield.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 06:29 PM
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I don’t see how it’s a moot point considering they all have misogyny in common. "They all" is basically you sharing one article where the attacker was a perceived misogynist. Do you know how many women file false rape cases? I can tell you that the number is higher than the number of actual - not perceived - misogynists committing violent crimes. And isn’t it strange that there have been so many shooters motivated by misogyny but hardly any motivated by misandry? Interesting. So many? lol! Anywa…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 06:42 PM
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Yeah, I guess that fair. None of my friends are significantly above average in looks, except for one, and her husband is a good looking guy. I think the reasons have more to do with maturity and maybe wanting kids more than anything because none of them had lost their looks in any meaningful ways. I worked in the salon and spa industry for two decades, and so did most of my female friends. Those women know how to hold off signs of aging as long as possible and they do a great job with it. But th…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 06:39 PM
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Well idk how old you are but most of my friends are 30’s to 40’s and regardless of one’s choice of explanation for that, we all seem to agree that women do indeed date down in terms of looks when they reach a certain age. I'm in my mid-30s as well and you're right: a lot of women in their 30s and 40s do tend to the float back down to earth and start developing some realistic standards as soon as they hit the wall and realize that hot girl summer is over! But calling these women "attractive" is a…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 12:02 AM
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It doesn’t. The article is about terrorism motivated by misogyny. I was just including a not so fun fact. Your "fun fact" is based on an anecdote and the article also makes several assumptions about "misogyny" and at one point also says the following: As concluded in previous research, there continues to be no single profile of an attacker. Rather, attackers tend to demonstrate observable concerning behavior across a variety of community systems, which often elicits concern in bystanders before …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 11:58 PM
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You've seen a lot of attractive women dating average men, i.e. men with average income, average height and average looks?? Okay, sure. That goes against every statistical study ever conducted on this topic and has definitely not been my observation/experience. But I suppose some unicorns might exist. 🤷‍♂️ If you don’t think men put up with women’s abuse because she’s good looking I have a bridge to sell you. A lot of men, particularly married men, put up with women's abuse because they're afraid…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 10:58 PM
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I must be missing something. Where in your article does it say that "most acts of terrorism are committed by white supremacists"? And if so, what are the numbers? Also, while we're at it, here's an article you can probably familiarize yourself with: https://www.fondapol.org/en/study/islamist-terrorist-attacks-in-the-world-1979-2019/ The above article contains an entire database of attacks committed by people of the Islamic faith. Now, personally, I don't wanna go down this rabbit hole. I was usi…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 10:51 PM
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I know what my friends’ guys do for work and not a single one of them is anywhere close to a secret millionaire. My personal standards for physical attractiveness in men are like a 3 and up, but I’m still capable of being objective either way. I've personally never seen women date down in terms of looks or even at the same level, unless there was money involved. Your friends must be unique. Yes, most guys are smart enough to not believe the stripper actually loves them, but it does happen. It ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 10:36 PM
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How is this my logic? Lol. I never once said men should be denied human rights and kept on 24 surveillance You're conflating what a handful of men have done with the behaviors of all men that are deprived of sex. What I described is exactly the same logic that you've used in your own argument. I was just pointing out the error in your post - how applying generalization to a group of people and then forcing random members of that group to accept accountability, whether or not they participate in …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 10:27 PM
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Honestly, all of my coupled female friends are with guys who are pretty… physically unappealing. There could be one of two reasons: 1) They might be ugly to you because your standards are far too high. 2) They are rich or at least financially well off. Hypergamy is a thing and it doesn't only encompass height, looks, etc. When I say that guys ignore red flags for a hot woman, I’m not specifically talking about women that are in a serious relationship with them. I mean women are playing them for …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 02:52 PM
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You think the men are shooting up schools because women aren't having sex with them?? I love how these crazy, unsubstantiated theories are being peddled in subs like these in order to shame men because we're biologically inclined to have a higher sex drive. You know what, let's address this. Has a self-identified incel performed acts of violence, including commiting mass shootings. Of course. A handful in fact. But you know which group is most responsible for committing acts of terrorism? Muslim…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 02:37 PM
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How many attractive women do you know that are dating the average guy? Lol! And most attractive men - not all - tend to be womanizers themselves. So, there's red flags all around.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 01:54 PM
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What's said about women here is that they tend to ignore red flags in favor of height, looks, confidence, etc. Which is true. If the guy ignored similar red flags, then that's on him too.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 01:44 AM
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Wonder if you'd say the same to the woman if he had punched her.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 01:21 AM
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Basically this: 1) As a man, you're not entitled to sex, but she is entitled to your wallet, i.e. you pay for dates, you have to give her all the expensive gifts, etc. 2) You're not entitled to love, but she is entitled to lead you on and keep you in the friendzone, i.e. keep you around for money, emotional support, etc., and you dare not try to get close to her, lest you wanna get labeled a creep.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 01:20 AM
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It depends on what? You already know you don't like sushi, so you should force yourself to do it again knowing you're going to throw up after eating it? We're not talking about something as benign as sushi. Though you already knew that. Probably not but no matter what you did with your ex before taking a women to McDonalds and KFC and expecting an adult relationship is already placing you were you need to be in the dating market. Ah here we go. Basically this: Woman: I'm not comfortable doing th…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 12:20 AM
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It depends. I used to spend a lot of money taking my exes out to dinner at expensive places. Would she be okay with going to McDonalds and KFC for every single date because I'm not comfortable spending that kind of money on dates anymore?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 12:42 PM
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My way or the highway lol. You didn’t have an argument stop blaming women and throwing insults because you couldn’t keep up with the debate. It’s fine. Lmao. I thought you were done. What happened? lol! Indecisive much? I didn't throw insults. I just shared my observations. You're the one making wild and inaccurate assumptions about what men want without actually knowing what men want. And also denigrating men for having basic standards while parading your female privelege by saying that men sho…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 04:24 AM
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Lmao! Typical "my way or the highway" modern woman. This is part of the reason why movements like passport bros exist. Modern western women aren't marriage material and aren't worth commitments either, and I'm glad men are finally realizing it. Congratulations for proving my point! Have a great night.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 02:47 AM
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You're deluding yourself if you think I'm gonna read that essay. Either explain your points more succinctly or just admit that you're wrong about this.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 02:34 AM
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Willingness: She'll be enthused to try new things with you and make novel memories (and of course there are boundaries that she might not cross). If she's settling for you, she'll likely not have much interest in these new an novel experiences with you, but instead opt for comforting and predictable routines. Agree with you on everything but perhaps I'd like to clarify this point a bit further. If she was comfortable crossing certain boundaries with her past lovers and isn't comfortable doing th…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 02:28 AM
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On the contrary, the blue pill is replete with women that act like hoes in the name of "taking control" of their sex life and then look for the weakest men (other blue-pilled guys and simps) as soon as they hit the wall in their 30s.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 01:22 AM
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What part of my comment indicated to you that men want "trad" or "submissive" women? Stop projecting! Lol! This is the problem. Women want men to just accept them however they are. No matter how they look or behave, however many times they've been ran through or how many kids they've had with however many baby-daddies, whose names they don't even know. And men just wanna have realistic standards, just like women always claim they do. Moreover, a woman who agrees with her husband on matters that …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 01:20 AM
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No, RP men want a woman that: 1) Isn't promiscuous because promiscuity in the past often leads to promiscuity in the future. Moreover, I don't wanna walk into a party or a social gathering with my wife/girlfriend, where half the guys have already slept with her! It doesn’t make me insecure like some feminists and blue-pillers will have you think. It makes me territorial and speaks to the fact that I have a modicum of self-respect. 2) Doesn’t keep harping on about being "strong and independent" o…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 04:38 PM
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Femaledatingstrategy. Feel free to look them up.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 11:15 PM
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So, there's no proof that people from either subs are overwhelming this one. So, your original point is moot anyway. Glad we could clear that up! Also, going back to your original comment: This sub is so known for incel / red pill rhetoric now that other subs are banning people active on here. (I was banned from another sub just for writing comments here.) This is just further proof of reddit being heavily biased toward one set of ideologies over the other. Women and feminist narratives are allo…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 06:47 PM
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Umm probably because asktrp and mgtow have been banned for many years at this point, and FDS hasn't? So, right now, we don't know how many trp guys have invaded this space. They could've just moved on to sites like 4chan. But we can say for sure that FDS still has one of the highest overlap of members with this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 05:51 PM
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The women of FDS are also heavily involved in r-/datingoverthirty and r-/datingoverforty, which is hilarious because that's exactly what TRP has been saying about these feminist man-haters since the movement first began. As the late great Kevin Samuels used to say, "You can't make this stuff up!"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 03:51 PM
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As someone else already pointed out: https://subredditstats.com/subreddit-user-overlaps/femaledatingstrategy femaledatingstrategy Has the highest overlap with this sub. It's not just RP guys it's pink pill feminists.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 02:30 PM
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Prime example of twisting someone's words to fit your narrative!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 02:24 PM
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Umm where is the proof that Japanese men are overall unhappy? Based on what I've heard, legalizing prostitution in Japan has increased happiness, improved public health and work-related productivity among Japanese men. It has also given women a lot of benefits as well. For instance, sex workers were offered financial aid during the covid pandemic.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 03:36 PM
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Uh no, women can just exist and have men approach them. The volume of men approaching them is the only thing that differs.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 04:57 PM
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Who makes the laws then?
/r/AntiFeminists13/01/23 04:02 AM
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Are you gonna answer the question?
/r/AntiFeminists12/01/23 11:39 PM
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What priveleges do men have in this day and age that women don't?
/r/AntiFeminists12/01/23 11:15 PM
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Nah I'm not about spoonfeeding simps.
/r/AntiFeminists12/01/23 10:27 PM
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Then it's by choice. Or voluntary celibacy, if you will.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 03:38 PM
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Triggering, I know. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 03:37 PM
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That's what I'm saying. I've seen 50 year old whales that are so ugly (no offense to the ugly women here), I wouldn't even rate them 2/10, and they have no problem finding dick. Now, marriages are a whole another issue altogether. However, women have it easier in that category as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 01:26 PM
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Men and women both like attractive opposites. That's obvious. But there's only one gender that's been successful at dating said opposites. And honestly, I think it's perfectly fine for women to date up. The issue occurs when an average-looking woman dates and sleeps with the attractive guy, then gets mad when he leaves her for an equally attractive woman and then has the audacity to say that all men are bad/dogs/scoundrels, while simultaneously continuing to ignore the average guy until she's ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 01:22 PM
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I'd love to see the stats that show young women in particular are having less sex and that's somehow proportional to the percentage of young men having less sex. I agree with everything else you said.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 01:10 PM
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Sure, as soon as you answer some of our questions. Scroll back in the comments, if you're confused, which I'm sure you always have been.
/r/AntiFeminists12/01/23 12:28 PM
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Would you like me to submit a formal literature review as well?
/r/AntiFeminists12/01/23 03:28 AM
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Ignore the moron. He's trolling. I wish the mods had the wherewithal to ban these trolls instead of banning guys that are legit anti-feminista.
/r/AntiFeminists12/01/23 03:25 AM
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Because I've been banned from this sub before for saying the most benign shit. I wouldn't totally fault the mods for it because we all know how pro-female and anti-male reddit is and the mods simply don't want this sub to suffer the same fate as other male-centric subs such as MGTOW, Male Virginity, TRP, etc. See, female privelege exists everywhere! tell me when did I say " muh whamen have been oppressed or " white man bad" . ? You want me to spoonfeed you the same garbage that you yourself have…
/r/AntiFeminists12/01/23 01:52 AM
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I literally explained that to you. If you didn't like my answer, that's your problem. Your default response for everything I've said so far has been "mUh wHaMeN hAvE bEen oPpreSseD" and "wHiTe mAn bAd". So, if you want more answers, google it! I'm not here to spoon-feed everything to you. And please do tell how I'm not a real man I told you that before too. But I can't elucidate, coz I don't wanna get banned. We all know what happens to guys that are too harsh on feminists and simps.
/r/AntiFeminists12/01/23 12:52 AM
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What messes are they cleaning Ran-through women and feminists still get wife-d. 97% of the alimony is paid by men. Plenty of other reasons, but I don't wanna keep dragging this out. how am I not a real man ? I could elucidate, but I don't wanna get banned. lol
/r/AntiFeminists12/01/23 12:39 AM
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Female, simp, etc. Does it really matter? Real men are cleaning up all your messes.
/r/AntiFeminists11/01/23 11:42 PM
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Lol! Keep living in your delusions while men keep cleaning up your messes - both literally and figuratively.
/r/AntiFeminists11/01/23 11:40 PM
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That's the narrative every feminist wants to push! And that might've been true 50 years ago. In fact, it definitely was. But not anymore and hasn't been for the past few decades. And I'm not even white or cis!
/r/AntiFeminists11/01/23 09:03 PM
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I was just speaking about physical appearance. Men do get judged but not nearly as bad as women . Its not even close or comparable . Uhh no. Women in the western world are coddled to the point where they refuse to take any accountability whatsoever for their actions. Feminism is to blame for that, but there are other factors too. You should be judged for paying for sex and going to foreign countries to look for wives lol . Umm why? Why should men be judged for paying for a completely consensual …
/r/AntiFeminists11/01/23 06:34 PM
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Say what??? 🤨 Men get judged far more brutally and in far more categories than women ever do! We get judged for being too fat, too skinny, for balding, for our skin color, for our height, for having too little education, for being sexually inexperienced, being broke, being rich (having inheritance), for wanting to split the bill on a date, for paying for sex, for wanting to go to foreign countries to find a traditional wife, etc. And this doesn't even scratch the surface on all the things that w…
/r/AntiFeminists11/01/23 05:59 PM
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Lmao! Who's talking about a woman's feelings?? We're talking about intent here! And I love the double standards! Totally not surprised. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 01:02 AM
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Why not? Women tend to give each other dating advice all the time. Are you saying that's wrong too?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 12:44 AM
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I’m a woman and telling you this is not what we think when we label a guy marriage material. So, you're saying women are monolithic?🤔 But if you would like to listen to other men, then go right ahead. Yep! Didn't need your permission for it. But appreciate it anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 12:41 AM
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Y’all don’t know how women think. No, women don't want you to know how they think. If men knew what was going on in a woman's mind, the friendzone wouldn't exist! This is why experienced men will tell you never to take a woman's advice when it comes to dating. I’m not sure who told y’all this but it sounds like something Andrew Tate preached to his cult. The BP's obsession with this one guy speaks volumes, despite the fact that the RP existed way before he became a household name.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 07:24 PM
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I guess "men and women are different" is not a concept these PPD ladies understand. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 07:14 PM
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No, being husband material means she can manipulate you without sex! r/DeadBedrooms
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 05:13 PM
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Men don't bitch about you. Lol! We state facts and get banned for it. I think the bigger problem in general is that men feel shamed for having sex drives We don't feel shamed. We are shamed. Constantly!
/r/MensRights06/01/23 09:41 PM
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I’m saying questioning or bitching about who I want to date isn’t misogyny. Caring whether a dude wants to bang fat chicks isn’t misandrist. I love how you keep evading the question! And I know women don't believe in misandry. Imagine if a man said that women that sleep with tall Chads should suffer genital mutilation. You'd be crying at the top of your lungs to get that guy cancelled and possibly even jailed for being a potential predator - even though he used the same logic as those fat chicks…
/r/MensRights06/01/23 05:01 PM
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This is gonna be my last response to this thread. I don't like rehashing the same arguments over and over, especially on a dead thread. Number 1 - Fucking people for fun wasn't invented in the last twenty ish years at all, stop seeing people of the past as more pure, it's just not true More like the last 3 or 4 decades. Also, you'd have to be either blatantly disingenuous or at least partially intellectually stunted to think/claim that women from the 70s and before, were as promiscuous as the wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 04:38 PM
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