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It may be partially hardwired but boys can also learn those tricks by copying women. On the plus side, guys like that can easily see through girls tricks, alter their moods and get them aroused. It's almost like being able to see hidden parts of the light spectrum, when they walk into a room and can immediately identify the subtle signs of which girls are going to be receptive to have sex within the hour. The negative is that they may still must have some subconscious feminine mannerisms, straig…
/r/TheRedPill28/01/17 08:17 PM
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A bit off-topic but just want to give a PSA. 4 women I've been with have used this as a shit test. They slyly ask 'when last' or 'why you last cried'. I usually respond with "anytime I see a big ass", but you get my drift.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/17 01:26 PM
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LOL! I should have clarified that ~25 meant 'about age 25'.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/17 12:02 PM
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I wouldn't focus too much on physique if you don't have it naturally. I know guys that are overweight, ugly, broke and act gay but they fuck beautiful young girls regularly. If however, you do want a relationship with a woman, I'd recommend you just make sure she doesn't have any obvious hoe signs (tattoos, piercings, many male friends), rather than even trying to guess her body count. TL;DR... 11 guys is way to small a body count estimate for western women ~25 IMHO.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/17 06:17 AM
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About twice a year on average, I hear a news story about a medical professional (usually nurse) who was caught accessing patients' personal information illegally. Why do you doubt it? Corruption isn't only in 3rd world countries
/r/TheRedPill17/01/17 06:05 AM
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I concur with that. I think u/abbafishhead and u/TomFoo are trolling. The red pill and science are very clear on this issue but what they are saying sounds like what the girls say at slutwalks. Some girls like to stop short of actual sex because of dumb reasons, e.g. self-imposed "no sex on first date" rules, she's a virgin, etc I mean for god's sakes those are the most basic of shit tests even some blue pill guys learn to overcome.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/16 12:31 PM
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I used to be a male feminist before finding TRP. For a real man (Doesn't matter if gay or straight), SJW/Feminist circles are not safe spaces. My natural instincts and ideas cannot be expressed openly in those environments.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/16 11:40 PM
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Good revelation OP. When I was BP and had low self-confidence, I once hung out with my sister and her friend. Her friend was a complete cunt to me 90% of the time even in front of my sister, because I had no frame. It was failed shit test after failed shit test, putting pussy on pedestals, not having back bone, qualifying myself, pretty much the lowest of the low. Back then I wondered why she did this even though I hadn't told her I was interested in her, learning body language and non-verbals s…
/r/TheRedPill20/08/16 05:35 AM
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Radio silence is a shit test. If you contact her first, then you have failed. You've already slept with her so in this case she is checking whether your frame is still strong. Also, don't bother watching the video she sent or replying early, all these are boundary pushing maneuvers. Play some games, do some sports, chase other girls, do what you can to keep other things oon your mind
/r/askTRP17/07/16 05:49 PM
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The sooner you realize the reality of things, the better for you... Or you could always take the blue pill and go back to being happy.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/16 12:40 AM
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True, it took decisive and strong manly men of Nigeria.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/16 10:14 PM
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Wrong. Sure, some girls escaped but most of the girls never made it home. You can check the DailyMail for when UK and US drones saw the girls being raped and stuff before they were separated and sold off. A few girls turned up a year later as suicide bombers.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/16 10:06 PM
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Keep your head up buddy. Assimilating the red pill body of knowledge will help keep the depressing feelings away. Hope you're reading more now that you have more free time.
/r/askTRP08/03/16 02:49 PM
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Wow. Good pep talk.
/r/askTRP08/03/16 01:33 PM
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Oh yea, try watching "the great happyness space". A japanese view on male adult personal entertainers. Still, it has the same underlying technique as the west though (you'll likely be servicing mostly call girls, etc). Would tell you to steel your heart but I think you're already set.
/r/askTRP04/03/16 10:52 PM
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The fastest way I know of is to learn from the naturals (women). If you gave more info on your level of experience, possibly you could get more helpful answers.
/r/askTRP04/03/16 07:04 PM
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Have you gone monk mode before?
/r/askTRP04/03/16 06:53 PM
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Not ridiculous, it will make for a much better story than working at pinkberry when you're older. If you are successful, make sure you always protect yourself. When I was in college my roommate made so much in cash and gifts, escorting girls and women. He even organised hook ups for me, good memories.
/r/askTRP04/03/16 06:48 PM
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It started when I casually mentioned to a woman how much I disliked it when young girls could manipulate grown men for cash, gifts, time etc. The woman must have taken it as a challenge. The next day she started a psychological/emotional assault on me which lasted for roughly about 2 months. She successfully manipulated cash and gifts out of me. At that time I even convinced myself that I didn't want to get her in the sack. I felt like crying each time I gave in because I subconsciously knew som…
/r/askTRP02/03/16 01:57 PM
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I was really surprised how therapeutic it was posting about my frustrations and experiences. I now understand why catholics confess their sins once in a while.
/r/askTRP02/03/16 01:30 PM
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I stand with you OP. I can't even make out with girls I don't know in dark places because I'm afraid of catching something orally. Once, a chick that I worked with and liked, came in with a mouth full of sores, I lost interest faster than a failing bank. Redpillers always say "lift", "if you don't lift, you're a blue pill beta fag" but all of a sudden they quote statistics and probabilities when it comes to herpes. Nevermind me, I'm just venting. I'm just pissed because a body-building-fanatic b…
/r/askTRP29/02/16 01:18 PM
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Nah, your analogy seems more like an ultimatum than IDGAF with the "too bad, obey or gtfo" mentality. General rule of thumb with RP relationships is that ultimatums are bad. I'm gonna quote from Rollo Tomassi's Frame article here: A lot of times guys believe that because a woman initially gave them IOIs or was ‘really into them’ in the beginning that they had ‘frame’. This is another unfortunate misconception about frame – and I partly blame the PUA culture for it – but frame is not interest lev…
/r/askTRP27/02/16 12:29 AM
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I don't see how you established frame to start with. Your entire game sounds pretty weak TBH.
/r/askTRP26/02/16 10:59 PM
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I knew those boys were not guilty. They might wanna get tested though.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/16 09:57 AM
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Personally I don't initiate intimate escalation (i.e: more than touching and looking into each others eyes) unless all my pieces are in place. Chess made me a nerd. Side note: If your place isn't available, you can subtly ask her about her living situation and if her roommates usually bring people over or something like that. The point is to have her consider her place. If she has half a brain she'll understand your womanese and bring something up that would allow you to invite yourself over if …
/r/askTRP25/02/16 10:44 PM
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If she's slapping you, then you've lost relationship frame. You could apply subtle dread game. Examples: Stay out 1 or 2 hours later than usual, never truthfully explain why, just make jokes while looking directly in her eyes (let her look away first) if she persists. Personally, I'd use those hours to hang out with the boys or do fun and exciting stuff, but it's up to you. Never take her abuse personal. She's just testing if her kids are gonna have a strong daddy. Have fun while deflecting it. …
/r/askTRP25/02/16 10:19 PM
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Why so unstable? Are you 18?
/r/askTRP25/02/16 10:04 PM
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Yea, smell. Sometimes you can catch them sniffing the lotion or perfume bottles that you use.
/r/askTRP25/02/16 10:00 PM
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You're still worrying about trivial blue pill stuff. You'd likely reject the best advice you see here. I hope you have good friends to help you get out of the funk.
/r/askTRP25/02/16 08:14 PM
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Nope, unless you're part of a 'top 250 movies' discussion club.
/r/askTRP25/02/16 08:03 PM
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Try formatting your text better.
/r/askTRP24/02/16 08:12 PM
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Wow. You wrote that? Weak ass game. I'm pretty sure you're not Al Pacino But since you've gone down that road, just know that she is likely going to shit test you with what you said. She'll want you to feel guilty about it and apologize. If you break frame then, she's gone for good. Tips: Step up your verbal game. Watch James Bond, Snatch, The Man From UNCLE type movies for the dialogue. Force the conversation so she'll be the one anticipating your texts, and don't give them to her unless your r…
/r/askTRP24/02/16 07:47 PM
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I'm gonna echo that. Never give her a real answer. No matter how dishonest it makes you feel. As soon as you lift the weight from your chest for her, she's got you by the balls and will probably leave. She secretly wants to stay guessing.
/r/askTRP24/02/16 07:27 PM
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Actually I have gotten pissed once when I found out the soft C-cups I had been caressing over her shirt turned to less than A-cups after the engineered bra came off. I noticed that she could see the sheer shock, anger and disappointment in my eyes, but her poker face let out no emotions. Still, I went for the gold but always considered her a liar after that. Got me imagining what girls would do if guys could wear fake 6-pack vests.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/16 02:42 PM
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Correction: - to get attention from guys that they like. aka alpha fucks Women are irritated by advances from guys they consider low value. On a regular day they don't notice these low SMV men exist. They however go out of their way to stand in the path/field of view of a high value guy. Some women, at certain times of the month, deliberately put themselves in situations where it would be likely an alpha would want to "aggressively pursue" her. If a beta takes the bait instead or somehow the wom…
/r/TheRedPill24/02/16 02:24 PM
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ALWAYS ALWAYS ALWAYS listen to your gut. Personally, it sounds like she's testing you to know how much of your time she can waste and if you're gonna flip out when you reach your limit. Oh, and I'd barely trust a woman's words when she says them to my face, not to mention over text.
/r/askTRP24/02/16 01:42 PM
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My 2 cents. It's sometimes easier only to text plates to organize a meet up (preferably using womanese/subtlety/plausible deniability/double entendre). Any other texting could hurt your prospects, unless your SMV is solid. You are overthinking it. They probably will never text you back also. Oh and reinforce your abundance mentality.
/r/askTRP24/02/16 01:20 PM
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You ain't alone in that. So long as my bros are clean about it, I'm cool. They also let me do the same when I have a gf at home.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/16 11:47 PM
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Dying while trying to impress pussy = beta I mean, don't you want to spread your seed to more females or not? Is this one female so special that you're gonna risk your future seed?
/r/TheRedPill21/02/16 11:01 AM
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True observation. Probably would be better to dominate the women directly though, if it's just for the sex. Once knew a guy that got stabbed while we chased and detained a burglar that stole a woman's stuff. I watched as he died in the hospital gasping for air. The knife must have pierced his lung. Made me quite averse to escalating situations.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/16 10:55 AM
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Stop trying to kiss her. Treat her like a little girl that annoys you and doesn't know anything. She really should be the one begging to kiss you actually. She obviously liked you enough to go on 2 dates. Though the more you negotiate and settle for scraps of ass or boob touching, the lower your value will drop to her. The way I see it now, she's far more experienced than you. So unless you can act like non-thirsty older guys, she's gonna manipulate you till she's satisfied then disappear.
/r/askTRP21/02/16 01:12 AM
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like u/AlfalfaRoll said. INTENT I have the same stoic personality. Like a cat I just enter hunter mode at will. Works like magic everytime. Keep it in your mind that any girl worth having has to be hunted. If she drops in your lap, then it's probably tainted meat. Force yourself to get used to touching and being touched. Have fun with the girls while you're hunting them. Even girls who only noticed you hunting someone else will become aroused.
/r/askTRP20/02/16 09:43 PM
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Most definitely she's a freak in bed. Your SMV must be substantial for her to approach you like that, shame the opportunity didn't pan out. Don't feel bad though, she just knows what she wants. This girl most likely gave you her standardized (womanese) test to select for guys capable of giving her the rough sex she enjoys. Gonna throw you a bone here. When a girl you just met touches you, treat it as a shit test. Women know that most western men let down their guard and also become weaker to man…
/r/askTRP20/02/16 08:59 PM
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Don't contact her. Don't apologize for anything if she contacts you. If you didn't leave any bruises or actually have sex, don't sweat it. Edit: I think this'll be better on asktrp
/r/TheRedPill20/02/16 11:25 AM
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Wow, you're so calm and collected. That part of you is quite impressive... The spending on ladies, not so much.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/16 11:20 AM
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Good story with 3rd world realities. I managed to make it through to the end. Unless the women you date on tinder have been through trauma or lived in rape-istan before, I doubt they will reach the degree of this journalist. This "feature" usually has to be unlocked in a western woman. This woman knows she's not a princess and is okay with it, hence the lack of hamsterization when recalling her sexual experiences. She needs men who know that and won't treat her like a princess, good thing I'm do…
/r/TheRedPill18/02/16 07:17 PM
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Unconditional love is part of it, but for horny guys raised in religion like myself we mostly wanted to get married because we thought we would have easy access to 100% legal/moral pussy 24/7. We waited through high school because we knew the fornicators would go to hell so we laughed to ourselves smugly. We had a few unexpected encounters in college that made us beg for forgiveness from our deities. The only problem was we never forgot how sweet and moist it was while inside a woman. The "logic…
/r/TheRedPill13/02/16 03:35 PM
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For all women, I think rape is defined mostly by what happens after the sex. Act fidgety and apologetic: Get called up by police/ campus police. Act like you're still the king: She apologizes for the bad sex.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/16 01:12 PM
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Sex guilt definitely is a problem but isn't the point of TRP NOT to dedicate a lot of your resources into getting laid?
/r/TheRedPill09/02/16 07:30 AM
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I'd agree that unplugged alphas get first choice but all women can win too, after all, this is their game. After stuffing herself with cake and at the BB settling age of 32, check out the tall talented dude that married fat feminist writer, Lindy West. The man's height makes me think he has sufficient alpha traits, unfortunately his sister and wife will keep him sniffing that feminist blue pill glue. Landwhales can get A-class men as long as those males are still hooked up to the matrix.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/16 06:14 PM
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This is how the red pill can saves lives. Imagine if the jury and witnesses were too steeped in "you never hit girls" mantra to see the truth. Repeated: Never be a hero, unless you don't mind getting injured or killed for people you don't know.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/16 09:35 AM
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It can be performed in some circumstances but the catholic church always tries to butt their noses in and stop them. Yes, including for girls abducted by Boko Haram that want an abortion.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/16 08:19 PM
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As disgusting as it sounds... YES
/r/TheRedPill05/02/16 08:04 PM
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OP if this surprised you, then you haven't understood Rollo's warbrides and the effect of dominance on women. Surely you are aware that when you practice game/ RP teachings that you are basically mimicking the traits of the Boko Haram militants? If you've experienced the 3rd world you would completely understand her pragmatism. Shit is real out there in the "real" world. Considering the poverty out there, I wouldn't be surprised that being kidnapped by a confident/dominant terrorist who was also…
/r/TheRedPill05/02/16 07:30 PM
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AWALT You definitely need separate game for LTRs. Know the risks, know that she's been playing the game a lot longer than you. I'd advise plating for a long time. Especially because you're BOTH still in med school. Residents and senior doctors have more status in both your spheres. You can't keep her from interacting with them, and if she's that hot, they're gonna want a taste. Focus on your own advancement and when your done, hot 18 year olds (or even 16 depending on where you live) will be sub…
/r/askTRP04/02/16 11:06 AM
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The reason men want good girls is so that they can be the one to make them do bad things. If you are not pushing this girls limits, then ask yourself "what she is really gaining from you that other beta boys cannot provide." You like her and she is obviously leaving the door open for you to break through her barriers. She won't fully respect you until you dominate her and PHYSICALLY PROVE (touch is important) that you want (not need) her. Edit: Her decision for celibacy is a barrier/shit-test th…
/r/askTRP04/02/16 10:23 AM
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You've not yet been exposed to a shock that will make TRP make sense to you. I was the same about 5 months ago. Enjoy the euphoric, girls are pretty, SA is so much freer than the US, my dollars can buy so much shit for cheap, feel good times while they last. TRP has nothing against dating foreign women.
/r/askTRP01/02/16 11:31 PM
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Don't listen to him. She agreed to pay for the drinks even before heading out. You only fucked up by not giving her the D. Probably could still get her cookie, so long you keep her hating you (don't apologize).
/r/askTRP29/01/16 10:03 PM
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What do you mean by no porn? Did they block the porn sites there?
/r/TheRedPill24/01/16 09:23 PM
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Are you in the US OP?
/r/askTRP23/01/16 06:09 PM
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Agreed. Smile and wave boys, smile and wave.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/16 09:07 AM
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Smiling without teeth works for me. I was once in a meeting and let my mind wander. When I regained consciousness, I noticed a woman across the room looking at me. Gave her a toothless smile and winked.... At that moment she seemed to turn into a little girl, giggling and shit. Of course, I also have a fucked up dentition so I guess that's also a factor.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/16 09:29 AM
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Dude, make your posts easier to read. Haahahaha! Of course you did the wrong thing, you poor boy you. How could you be crushing on a girl for almost 2 years? Is your town's population like 10? Do they sell love potions there? Or was her puss laced with cocaine? She gave you a basic sh!t test, telling you she liked someone else. HINT: Never listen to what a woman says but note what she does.
/r/askTRP20/01/16 09:11 AM
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it doesn't cost me anything Ah, I remember how people used to manipulate me with those words.
/r/askTRP19/01/16 03:08 PM
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lol! I used to buy into all that sunny ways/ polite metrosexual crap but consistent psychological attacks from women brought me to my senses and finally, TRP.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/16 07:24 PM
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You obviously have never experienced a mental assault by a female or group of females.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/16 02:59 PM
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Real talk: What mental health issue have you been diagnosed with?
/r/askTRP18/01/16 02:39 PM
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It is important you remember that you are the rock, the leader. I strongly advise you not to get drawn into the rollercoaster of emotion. The crying and pleading shows the imprint was strong. It is good for her because she's a woman, she feeds off it, but it weakens your frame.. For the best results I'd advise you to look at other women and at least imagine getting with them. You have to keep your virility up while she's gone or you'll start getting effeminate and she'll notice even if you talk …
/r/askTRP17/01/16 10:00 AM
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Congratulations on your height and whiteness. I bet it took a lot of hard work.
/r/askTRP17/01/16 08:48 AM
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Wow. She's gonna get some mandingo meat, if it's west africa, just know that those guys are notorious poon slayers. lol just kidding. On the real, even when she's in the same city with you, you probably still won't be able to monitor every hour of her time and a quickie may only take 10 minutes. Best hope is that you left a strong enough alpha imprint on her so the bond will be harder to ignore, but even that is still not likely to stop another alpha when you're miles away. Go have fun with othe…
/r/askTRP17/01/16 08:43 AM
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But morally speaking, I do NOT want to cause any harm to a woman, either. I think that's bad karma. I don't know if all women are like this but a lot of women I've dated like to feel some sort of pain/discomfort. You should probably be aware of that.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/16 11:55 PM
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Oh my!! It would sell as horror because that is exactly what it is.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/16 07:42 PM
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Agree and amplify Disagree and amplify to absurdity. Pressure flip ( .... but your mom didn't mind it last night) Laugh it off, then continue/change discussion (Think of that Christian Bale/Patrick Bateman gif meme) etc. Important thing is not to show any (negative) emotion
/r/askTRP16/01/16 12:38 PM
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Yes, there is a way to counteract it. Assuming this scenario was to happen again... a) From my experience, if you are well built, you could physically take control of your target and show strong but non-threatening possessiveness of her (preferably with jokes, a smile/smirk on your face and a humorous vibe). This will keep your target happy because she is being fought for by someone she has already determined to be high value. Fun note; I noticed that even if this fails to land you the girl imme…
/r/askTRP16/01/16 12:22 PM
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100% endorsed I force feed my girl a banana whenever she gets cranky.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/16 01:18 PM
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And you should. The more she realizes that she's mentally tougher than you, the more she'll start to look for other guys.
/r/askTRP13/01/16 08:17 PM
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It's interesting that you don't think he wants to use it as a crutch... And a poor one.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/16 09:02 PM
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Completely agree with the "Shacking up" POV. OP, a point I picked up on is: You went down on her because she requested. This is unlike the RP standards. You are supposed to be the rock of the relationship and therefore the wind cannot tell you what to do. You're are subconsciously telling her that you are a speck of dirt. If you really enjoy giving head (and not just because it was described in some book), then go for it when YOU feel like. I'm not saying you should deny her all the time but tel…
/r/askTRP11/01/16 05:05 PM
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