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2	Who cares more about sex? Eh, I’ve been unimpressed by therapy so far. Maybe I’ll just make peace with being only partially human. Seems like it’d probably be cheaper too. See, the problem is that despite everything I still can’t help but love my parents. They fucked me up (and I think they kinda know they did tbh) but they only did what they did because they cared about me and honestly thought they were doing what was best for me. They miscalculated, I think, but I don’t feel like I have the right to be mad at them or t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/12/23 09:26 PM
6	Who cares more about sex? their sexual purity is not a commodity, promiscuity is not a stigma Istg I lost the fucking lottery by being born into this dumb religious culture. I’d kill to experience this sexual liberation that apparently all other guys just naturally have. My parents did such a good just of crushing my sexuality growing up that I can’t even be attracted to someone without feeling ashamed about it. Like a physical discomfort when I even think about anything sexual. God I wish o could’ve just been normal	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/12/23 08:39 PM
1	If the man doesn't like the woman more the relationship will never work out. Youtubers and red pill men need to stop telling women to pursue men. Men hate to be pursued and feel uncomfortable with a woman thirsting after him Lol two girls interested in me at the same time? What kind of chad do you think I am? XD	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/23 03:24 AM
1	If the man doesn't like the woman more the relationship will never work out. Youtubers and red pill men need to stop telling women to pursue men. Men hate to be pursued and feel uncomfortable with a woman thirsting after him One of the few upsides of having no standards is that there’s no such thing as “better”	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/23 12:54 AM
3	If the man doesn't like the woman more the relationship will never work out. Youtubers and red pill men need to stop telling women to pursue men. Men hate to be pursued and feel uncomfortable with a woman thirsting after him No, you’ve got it backwards. It’s them that would be settling for me	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/23 08:54 PM
3	If the man doesn't like the woman more the relationship will never work out. Youtubers and red pill men need to stop telling women to pursue men. Men hate to be pursued and feel uncomfortable with a woman thirsting after him It’s less “that’ll do” and more “I’m just lucky to have anyone love me at all”	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/23 08:53 PM
1	If the man doesn't like the woman more the relationship will never work out. Youtubers and red pill men need to stop telling women to pursue men. Men hate to be pursued and feel uncomfortable with a woman thirsting after him Lol I mean, if they like me that’s good enough. What else can I ask for?	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/23 08:41 PM
6	If the man doesn't like the woman more the relationship will never work out. Youtubers and red pill men need to stop telling women to pursue men. Men hate to be pursued and feel uncomfortable with a woman thirsting after him Which is why I have to take what I can get	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/23 08:40 PM
4	If the man doesn't like the woman more the relationship will never work out. Youtubers and red pill men need to stop telling women to pursue men. Men hate to be pursued and feel uncomfortable with a woman thirsting after him Some of us aren’t cut out for approaching people though	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/23 08:31 PM
1	If the man doesn't like the woman more the relationship will never work out. Youtubers and red pill men need to stop telling women to pursue men. Men hate to be pursued and feel uncomfortable with a woman thirsting after him Lol some of us have to take what we can get	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/23 08:19 PM
1	simple solution Yeah. I just wish I was normal though. I hate being me honestly	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/12/23 09:42 PM
1	simple solution What if I’m not the kind of weird where you can learn not to be? (weird is code for autistic in this case… and a lot of cases, actually)	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/12/23 09:30 PM
0	simple solution But like, what if you’re not fun to hang out with and don’t have interesting hobbies, not because you’re an asshole but just because you’re weird?	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/12/23 09:16 PM
3	Men don’t put in the effort yet they complain about their lack of dating success I think anyone who pretends that things don’t bother them when they do is a total bitch. And I think people like you are the biggest pretenders of all	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/10/23 05:41 PM
0	Men don’t put in the effort yet they complain about their lack of dating success Yeah that’s right, they prefer men who just take it like a bitch, I’m sure :p	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/10/23 04:22 PM
21	Men don’t put in the effort yet they complain about their lack of dating success I get the sense that there’s nothing in your mind that would give people the right to complain	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/10/23 01:24 PM
9	There is no correct way of approaching women which cannot at some point be construed as annoying or inappropriate What do you do if nothing works for you?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/10/23 01:21 PM
-1	Women; what are the actual specific hardships you face in terms of the modern dating marketing place and society at large? But what about the women so introverted you’ve never even met them? Remember, I’m not just talking about only of the women you’ve talked to, you gotta take into account everyone you’ve ever crossed paths with. Those people don’t not exist just because they didn’t strike your fancy one way or the other. And just like how you might be in the unfortunate circumstance of playing this role for women, inevitability there are also women stuck playing this role for men. (And women for women and men for …	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/23 05:35 PM
-1	Women; what are the actual specific hardships you face in terms of the modern dating marketing place and society at large? You’ve only met 5 women you weren’t interested in in your whole life? I think you might be forgetting a few. I wonder why	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/23 04:17 PM
4	Women; what are the actual specific hardships you face in terms of the modern dating marketing place and society at large? To be fair, she did put “date” in quotes. As long as they were aware of what it was (and it sounds like they were) I don’t see a problem with it personally it’s just… damn. O, but to be that comfortable at dating	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/23 04:04 PM
1	As long as you don't have a major disability/deformity and are neurotypical, you WILL get women I just don’t know where people like you get your optimism and determination from. I don’t want to live the life of a functioning autist I just want to be a normal person. I just want to have always been a normal person, from a normal family. I just don’t see any value in any life I could cobble together from here. I don’t want to have to fight tooth and nail every single day against everyone just to reach what’s the starting point for everyone else. I’m not willing to. I don’t have that much fig…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/23 03:29 PM
1	As long as you don't have a major disability/deformity and are neurotypical, you WILL get women My parents don’t believe in autism, want me to get counseling through their church instead of therapy, would disown me if I tried to live anything other than a traditional conservative religious lifestyle, and I’m financially dependent on them despite nearing 30. That’s the difference. I should’ve known. I forget how much easier life must be when you have support	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/23 02:46 PM
2	As long as you don't have a major disability/deformity and are neurotypical, you WILL get women Thank god you’re in this comment section. Again, this is what I would’ve said if I wasn’t an angry, empty husk of a human	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/23 02:32 PM
1	As long as you don't have a major disability/deformity and are neurotypical, you WILL get women Fucking right. It literally just comes down to your social skills, there is literally no other factor. People on here who get into looksmaxing and shit are fucking delusional. I’d trade my looks for social skills in a heartbeat and my life would do nothing but improve.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/23 02:29 PM
0	As long as you don't have a major disability/deformity and are neurotypical, you WILL get women Yeah but why did you have it in you to make mistakes when I’ve always been to scared to even do that? I haven’t always been this bitter, I used to just be a normal person but I was too scared to make the first move and no one ever made a move on me. Why weren’t you scared to put yourself out there even after bad experiences when I’ve been cripplingly scared to my whole life despite having no experience? Seriously, if we both have autism, what the difference? I’m just so confused all the time. Wh…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/23 02:24 PM
2	As long as you don't have a major disability/deformity and are neurotypical, you WILL get women This is what I would’ve wrote if I wasn’t bitter and full of hate. Except for that last paragraph. Even on my best days I could never be that positive	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/23 02:14 PM
1	Women; what are the actual specific hardships you face in terms of the modern dating marketing place and society at large? I got news for you, my dude. Even if introverts started making the first move, those girls you’re talking about, they’d still be fielding those same offers. There was never any world where those girls were going to be “incels” And you’re ignoring all the girls who aren’t and have never been in that position. It’s ok though, they’re used to being ignored	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/23 02:11 PM
-1	As long as you don't have a major disability/deformity and are neurotypical, you WILL get women WELL GOD FUCKING DAMNIT IF ITS SO EASY FOR EVERYONE EVEN AUTISTIC PEOPLE THEN WHY THE FUCK CANT I DO IT, HUH!? I CANT EVEN HAVE ROOM TO MAKE MISTAKES OR EXPLORE MY SEXUALITY BECAUSE NO ONE WILL EVEN FUCKING GUVE ME A CHANCE!!! I’m literally stuck at the starting line because apparently everyone has collectively agreed that’s where I belong. Fuck I hhhhhhaaaaaattttttteeeeee being me	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/23 02:08 PM
1	As long as you don't have a major disability/deformity and are neurotypical, you WILL get women If you can date, you’re socially adept. If I had the ability to be socially adept, I’d be dating. I could go literally anywhere with literally any mindset and I would never be romantically successful or even conversationally successful. I’m just that type of person. If I try to be social people don’t want to be around me and if o don’t try to be social people don’t want to be around me. I have a lifetime of experiences with both to back that up. People like you just don’t know what it’s like. An…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/23 01:58 PM
1	As long as you don't have a major disability/deformity and are neurotypical, you WILL get women See, this is what I’m saying, man, you’re clearly just more socially adept than I am and always have been. I do the same thing. My entire social strategy is based on observation and imitation and that’s been the case sense elementary school. I too tailor my personality to the individual to the point where I’m essentially a different person depending on who I’m talking to. Like you I literally can’t wrap my head around not living like that. And yet, I’m perpetually single and romantically illiter…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/23 01:43 PM
–	Women; what are the actual specific hardships you face in terms of the modern dating marketing place and society at large? And then I’m over here not even able to get dates with people I’m actually interested in. The female experience truly is just irreconcilable with my own istg	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/23 01:32 PM
0	As long as you don't have a major disability/deformity and are neurotypical, you WILL get women Can I have your version of autism instead of mine then? Cuz I hate group settings too but I sure as fuck am not good at 1 on 1 either. Possibly even worse than with groups because I can’t fade into the background. I can’t even focus on what I excel at because I can’t do anything, even with all the practice in the world. And I can’t even imagine a truly autistic person ever being comfortable enough to go to a gym. If I ever wanted to exercise I’d just imagine the thought of it and the hyperventil…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/23 01:30 PM
0	As long as you don't have a major disability/deformity and are neurotypical, you WILL get women If you find dating with autism easy, then you must not actually have autism, my dude. Autism makes dating literally impossible in my experience	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/23 01:11 PM
4	Women; what are the actual specific hardships you face in terms of the modern dating marketing place and society at large? You date people with the expectation that things aren’t gonna work out?	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/23 01:07 PM
2	Women; what are the actual specific hardships you face in terms of the modern dating marketing place and society at large? Honestly this is the problem right here and it absolutely has nothing to do with gender: introverts are waiting for someone else to make the first move and extroverts aren’t interested in dating someone who’s not willing to make the first move. Short of an absolute perfect right place/right time situation, being introverted is guaranteed singledom be you man, woman, or anything else	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/23 01:04 PM
3	Autism vs attitude, what's more attractive? I used to just walk up and say whatever I wanted to people and not care… And that’s the story of how I ended up with no friends	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/23 05:32 PM
–	Men scaremonger women about being old and alone because that is their fear Men don’t wanna be openly settled for. They don’t actually care as long as she keeps it to herself	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/23 05:27 PM
-1	The real reason you were lied to about how society and mating works, and wtf you can actually do about it. I’m not saying it wouldn’t work, I’m just saying it’s pretty useless as advice for most of us because if we could just do that we’d be doing it already. Also for the record even though I disagree with you I didn’t downvote you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/23 08:15 PM
0	The real reason you were lied to about how society and mating works, and wtf you can actually do about it. How exactly are you supposed to achieve consistent novelty without being rich and confident though? Shit costs money. And it’s gonna be hard to focus on constantly cultivating all these new and elaborate perfect situations for her when you’re a naturally anxious person. As usual this advice is locked behind a paywall I can’t afford and requires a level of self-actualization I have not achieved.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/23 08:05 PM
1	The real reason you were lied to about how society and mating works, and wtf you can actually do about it. Complicated way of saying be rich, attractive, and self-confident. Yeah, we know	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/23 07:53 PM
13	What's with all the generalization? Yet at the same time complaints of conflict is because humans are not monoliths I think you’re on to something op. As I guy who grew up in an EXTREMELY sexually repressive environment he hasn’t fully escaped from and is due to circumstances surrounded by almost exclusively conservative religious people in my social circle, it is absolutely hilarious to read posts by guys talking about how women are just too sexually aggressive. Like that has not been my experience in the slightest 😂 like can we trade lives? You can have all the boring-ass vanilla prudes I’m surrounded by an…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/23 02:37 PM
2	Most of the people who objectify their opposite gender have never been treated like an actual human being in their entire life and they need to heal instead of projecting their insecurities on social media I mean, this, but what the hell can any of us do about it? Edit - felt like clarifying my position: I think of it the same way as the reason why whether I’m autistic or not I’m never going to pursue a diagnosis. Because the people that know me and already are accommodating to my personality quirks are already accommodating and the people that aren’t aren’t suddenly going to be accommodating because of a slip of paper. In the same way, I could gender nonconform all day and all night and the peopl…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/10/23 08:08 PM
–	What do women think they accomplish when they say how offended they are when someone calls them slut despite doing slutty acts and/or think that someone is obligated to care what they think? Any tips on how to get out of that state? :p	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/23 02:19 PM
3	The "manosphere" built an entire reality to dodge accountability and give up Oof might’ve gone a little harder than I needed too, reading that back 😬 And I wonder why people don’t seem to like talking with me 😅 Thanks friend, I know your sympathy’s genuine	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/23 04:05 PM
3	The "manosphere" built an entire reality to dodge accountability and give up I don’t blame those things, but also I tried all those things you said up front and they didn’t do shit for me so I guess I’m just one of the ones that was always meant to be a worthless piece of shit Edit: nah I ain’t done. Everyone says “therapy” like it’s some magic solution to everything but I strongly suspect that most people who do don’t actually have any real extensive experience with it. Therapy is a lot like the police. You can get away with a lot when your job is to get involved after …	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/23 03:25 PM
2	The "manosphere" built an entire reality to dodge accountability and give up So what the hell are you supposed to do if you have a mental illness then? You’re just totally screwed?	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/23 02:54 PM
1	What can guys do to not come off as overconfident, if they cannot back up their confidence? Yeah, so what happens when I still feel anxious after that because placebos don’t work on me? :p	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/23 10:44 AM
1	What can guys do to not come off as overconfident, if they cannot back up their confidence? There’s not enough cbd in the weed I smoke? :p	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/23 10:13 PM
3	Question for all: would you describe your relationship with your partner as Independent, Dependent, or Interdependent? For those not in a relationship, what type do you want? Bro at this point I don’t even care. You can literally treat me however you want, I just don’t wanna be alone anymore	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/23 08:20 PM
1	What can guys do to not come off as overconfident, if they cannot back up their confidence? Oh well good for you. I am anxious about getting dates though so, yeah :/	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/23 08:17 PM
1	What can guys do to not come off as overconfident, if they cannot back up their confidence? Well how’d you make it happen?	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/23 08:04 PM
2	What can guys do to not come off as overconfident, if they cannot back up their confidence? I mean do they tho	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/23 08:00 PM
3	What can guys do to not come off as overconfident, if they cannot back up their confidence? So if you have anxiety and can’t do anything about it you’re pretty much just screwed then, huh? 😅	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/23 07:37 PM
1	Do you actually benefit from this sub ? Gotta respectfully disagree about me not being worse off than anyone else there partner. I feel like my results (or lack thereof) dispute that 😅 I’ll bite though, why do they behave like that?	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/10/23 09:15 PM
2	Do you actually benefit from this sub ? I ended up here because I felt scared and confused and inadequate whenever I thought about dating and this is where it brought me. After being here a couple of days I now feel much much MORE scared and confused and inadequate when I think about dating.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/10/23 08:18 PM