burningscarlet Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Gonna try picking up girls talking like Johnny Silver hand from Cyberpunk 2077 for the entire month of January	Lifestyle	burningscarlet	/r/seduction	27/12/20 03:29 PM

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1	What is your opinion on the phrase: "She is not yours, its just your turn" Because then how tf would there be enough non single people to have growth in population??? Lmaooo	/r/seduction	24/04/22 03:42 PM
1	What is your opinion on the phrase: "She is not yours, its just your turn" Statistically that wouldn't add up	/r/seduction	24/04/22 03:13 PM
1	What is your opinion on the phrase: "She is not yours, its just your turn" I mean regardless of whether what I said is true or not, the stuff I've seen you posting around here is pretty incel-ly in nature. It's the mindset that makes the man. You won't be getting any girls if you assume they're all sluts from the onset. (Even if they were, sluts are cool. I hang out with them a lot and they have great stories) Personally I feel like the real analogy is like, 60-70% of women. But even then it's referring to women who are having fun on Tinder - we all settle down eventua…	/r/seduction	24/04/22 12:54 PM
10	What is your opinion on the phrase: "She is not yours, its just your turn" Wanna hear another depressing anecdote? 20% of men get 80% of the girls.	/r/seduction	23/04/22 06:54 PM
8	What is the fastest way for guys to get better with women? You are given advice after asking if there is a method, and the advice was to go out and practice, and your response was a sarcastic "getting rich and famous it is". That's not really an advice problem, it's an attitude problem. Like learning a new language, if you wanna get good with girls, you gotta put in the work. You sound like you're looking for some "get rich quick" secret formula and that shit don't exist. So yeah, unless you wanna bother putting in effort then you're doomed.	/r/seduction	20/04/22 07:08 AM
1	I'm sure a lot of you wouldn't be lonely if you went for women more in your own league, or the women who don't get much attention. Maybe. Communication is difficult. I hope my intent got through at least. I think I get what you're saying but I think it's better to them to work on improving if they're really really obsessed with the idea of dating only hot girls.	/r/seduction	19/04/22 06:26 PM
1	I'm sure a lot of you wouldn't be lonely if you went for women more in your own league, or the women who don't get much attention. Yes, mostly on the parts where you shouldn't just go for the hot girls. I do think it's not the right idea to say "lower your standards" though. It's a better concept to say "improve yourself for the girls you want".	/r/seduction	19/04/22 06:22 PM
1	I'm sure a lot of you wouldn't be lonely if you went for women more in your own league, or the women who don't get much attention. Being rich and famous is an attractive trait. If you were super fat, balding and smelly and you didn't want to lose weight, take a bath or do something about the balding, then you can be rich and famous to make up for it. My point is that attractiveness is not limited to looks and personality. A woman might find value in you being rich, in knowing magic tricks, in knowing how to play the guitar, etc etc.	/r/seduction	19/04/22 06:17 PM
1	I'm sure a lot of you wouldn't be lonely if you went for women more in your own league, or the women who don't get much attention. It's an internet post. I'm not going to go out of my way to look for evidence, I've got other stuff to do. But even DJ Khaled can get married and look at him. Money is a part of attraction for certain people.	/r/seduction	19/04/22 06:13 PM
1	I'm sure a lot of you wouldn't be lonely if you went for women more in your own league, or the women who don't get much attention. The thing is fat balding men will get success. The issue being that they aren't working on the fat and the balding, and the smell. You're not confined to a so called "league", you're confined to the effort you're willing to put in to become more attractive. Heck, even if you were fat if you had the right personality you would still be dating girls way above your station anyway.	/r/seduction	19/04/22 06:02 PM
3	I'm sure a lot of you wouldn't be lonely if you went for women more in your own league, or the women who don't get much attention. Or you know, don't be so hung up on whatever the fuck a "league" a woman is in and just go out there, get to know people and find someone that vibes with you? Pickup is weird in that you ain't a real pickup artist unless you're dating a girl with boobs as big as her head and hip which are twice the size of her shoulders. I appreciate all the scientific breakdown PUA's have done in distilling social skills into actual teachable things but a lot of their mindsets are still cringe leftovers of thei…	/r/seduction	19/04/22 05:55 PM
21	Coworker flaked on date. How should I handle seeing her at work come Monday? I mean flaking yes, falls under ADHD. Not saying anything? Basic human decency. Being ADHD doesn't mean you don't work on your coping mechanisms.	/r/seduction	03/10/21 05:13 PM
5	[deleted by user] Just don't pull an R. Kelly and work your way down too low	/r/seduction	29/09/21 04:16 AM
14	“We have a connection, but she’s taken.” False. You are being needy and projecting your romantic fantasies onto her. If she wanted to be with you, you would be first priority, not next in line. Once I’ve had a girl I really click with literally break up with her boyfriend and start heavily hinting about her availability (one sided) but yeah.	/r/seduction	02/09/21 01:41 AM
4	If you are comfortable being alone, at ease with rejection, and have abundance mindset, you will rarely act needy with others You're barking up the wrong tree here man. It's a medical symptom - believe me, I go through all 5 stages everytime rejection is brought up but the shake in my mentality is obvious regardless of my self control, lmao.	/r/seduction	09/06/21 09:54 PM
6	If you are comfortable being alone, at ease with rejection, and have abundance mindset, you will rarely act needy with others I literally have finally managed to achieve most of these things yet my RSD on ADHD will never let me take rejections with grace. It’s seriously a fucking pain	/r/seduction	09/06/21 08:36 PM
40	If you are ignoring the basic responsibilities of your life and seeking external validation from women, no amount of women will make you happy. This is a great writeup after all those recent pessimistic posts about how looks are king or how it's perfectly acceptable to crave external validation. I have no idea how those got to the top - believing your entire existence can subsist on the validation provided by another person is really unhealthy.	/r/seduction	08/03/21 08:13 AM
5	5 Hard truths I’ve learned about game after 13 years of practice. Glad to hear that. I'll probably check in later to take a look. To answer your question on my looks, I'm a 5'2 asian adult with large ears, weird cheekbones and very patchy facial hair. I don't really have any (what's the word for it I forgot) misconceptions on how I look but I've learned to accept it. I'll admit I've also missed some opportunities because some girls who were much more into looks one sidedly amped their own attraction to my friends and ignored me. But thankfully if I'm being cha…	/r/seduction	04/03/21 08:41 AM
8	5 Hard truths I’ve learned about game after 13 years of practice. I think 95% is quite the exaggeration - I have a male model friend who pulls girls on Tinder all the time but the amount of girls he's managed to keep around for more than a few months? Zero. He's just intrinsically abrasive. I also have another friend, really good looking, but has a serious narcissism complex and coasts on a lot of dates with his good looks. He's had a few long term relationships but his tendency to abuse and self sabotage burns bridges like you wouldn't believe. If you've foll…	/r/seduction	04/03/21 08:22 AM
9	How To Use Your Insecurities To Make You More Attractive To Women I’d disagree that people with no insecurities rank at no. 1 here. From my experience people who don’t even have one seem “unattainable” or too perfect for girls to like. A source of a crush or admiration maybe but the insecurities help the guy feel more human and less “hard to get”. Not to mention shared insecurities can amp up attraction like crazy	/r/seduction	14/11/20 07:15 AM
2	Don't be hard on yourself if you're struggling to feel confident. Its hard to completely flip your self image over night. Another post on r/socialskills or r/depression talked about this and I thought it was really good - if you're really hard on yourself with negative thoughts and you're having trouble turning it into positive thoughts then just don't think about anything at all - be neutral. It's called mindfulness and it helps you slowly transition into more healthy, positive thoughts.	/r/seduction	09/11/20 06:18 PM
2	If you don’t try then you’ll never know... It's difficult man, keep at it. Once the fog lifts and one day you feel a little less farther down the pit than usual it may the day the crawl begins. Keep at it man, you did a great job starting or trying at all.	/r/seduction	22/09/20 03:59 PM
1	I spend 30 minutes a day reading this pdf on DBT (dialectical behavioral therapy). It's made me more confident, less of an asshole, and given me the ability to relate to women and see myself as an equal, and not as some chump. If you'd like a more digestible format, feel free to check out this link: https://www.7cupsoftea.com/help-managing-emotions/	/r/seduction	17/03/15 08:07 PM
1	Difference between "The Friend Zone" and legitimate friendship. Good info, OP. I feel like a lot of my friends can't make the distinction.	/r/seduction	13/09/14 01:33 PM