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burrowing/r/MensRights06/10/14 04:32 PM
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burrowing/r/MensRights03/10/14 06:34 PM
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Not that bad really. Maybe my perspective is skewed by my ex's behaviour. Don't be obtuse, you understood what she was asking. Take the highest of high roads, just answer her politely and that's that.
/r/MensRights05/12/14 05:03 PM
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Seriously speaking you need to talk to your doctor. Sometimes trauma isn't something a person can work through on their own. Your fear is either going to spoil your own life or boil over into rage and get you into trouble- please talk to a doctor, a crisis worker, anything.
/r/MensRights03/12/14 07:56 PM
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I think he probably did it because he has settled very similar cases in the past. I think there may be nutjobs who will try to jump on the scandal but in this case I think he did assault women. Do I think he will be convicted of anything? Probably not, but his career as everyone's jello eating dad is over.
/r/MensRights24/11/14 07:34 AM
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I respect any man's need to sit however the fuck he wants except when I'm trying to cram my goddamed body onto the jammed rush hour train. i lose all civility when people don't understand how public transit must work for the general order of society to continue. This goes to people who take up two seats that do not need them, people that STAND in front of an empty seat instead of sitting the fuck down, people who wear giant backpacks on a crowded train, people who stand in the doorway when peopl…
/r/MensRights21/11/14 04:19 PM
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both of us had to submit psychiatric reports in my custody process. it worked out great for me!
/r/MensRights21/11/14 02:38 PM
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I'm not a small guy and I can sit on a subway seat like an adult. People expect to touch when they sit in seats directly next to you but I don't have any need to spread my knees open a few feet apart. I don't sit like that at a meeting either. I don't cross my legs or anything but I don't have to sprawl my legs wide open.
/r/MensRights21/11/14 02:33 PM
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If I was about to walk out the door to the pinnacle of my career I'd dress like an adult man and put on a normal fucking shirt.
/r/MensRights15/11/14 09:26 PM
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It's getting a bit frustrating when people keep calling this alimony no matter how clear it is that this isn't alimony. This is a corporation both parties worked for, not alimony for a housewife.
/r/MensRights14/11/14 06:12 PM
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When I have a dinner/evening event for work I am pretty much on the nail home between 10:30 and 11 and I assure you I'm not banging anyone I work with. (Ever.)
/r/TheRedPill13/11/14 04:29 PM
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I do not have any earthly idea why anyone in this forum would support this guy. He advocates behaviour that if the normal guy did them, they would be running serious risk of being arrested for sexual assault. Men need to be more cautious and protect themselves from allegations and this guy is out there teaching them to take a random girl's head and shove it towards his dick while walking down the street.
/r/MensRights13/11/14 02:49 PM
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i think it sounds like someone trolling, but it's pretty sick anyway.
/r/MensRights13/11/14 02:47 PM
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Is this for your homework?
/r/MensRights12/11/14 02:32 PM
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This is so uncomfortable to watch. Firstly, it's like they have never seen a drunk person. Secondly, why would the men WANT to take her anywhere in their car if they believed she was drunk? (It's so hard to get the smell of puke out of the floor mats.) Moronic all around.
/r/MensRights12/11/14 02:28 PM
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My take: I worry at a fundamental level about many claims of parental alienation syndrome because fundamentally it casts doubt on a child's voice and weakens their ability to advocate for themselves. During my custodial fight for my child, she was appointed a social worker and lawyer to represent her neutrally in court. They presented their own findings from a clinical investigator, letters from her therapist, police reports confirming physical injury and affadavits from her school social worker…
/r/MensRights11/11/14 08:50 PM
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On the plus side, alimony is not gender specific and as women's pay goes up, alimony paid to men will rise as well.
/r/MensRights11/11/14 07:03 PM
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This was written for children, by children.
/r/MensRights11/11/14 06:14 PM
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Julien Blanc is seriously a danger to impressionable/young men.
/r/MensRights11/11/14 06:12 PM
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I am not a fan of pay-to-play mindset. It sounds attractive, but ultimately depriving the kid in one way (financial support) should not be a result of depriving the kid in another way (access to a loving parent).
/r/MensRights10/11/14 07:16 PM
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Well that's... weird. I don't live in Hell, I live in Canada. If our children date each other, they each need to set their own personal boundaries and rules.
/r/MensRights10/11/14 05:48 PM
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One more thought: the mum agreed to it when the kid was an infant (when the risk is lower) stipulating the dad had to arrange and pay for it. The dad didn't get around to it until the kid is almost 4. It's riskier now, and certainly more traumatic. If the dad cared all that much why did he wait until the kid is old enough to be scared and old enough for it to become a riskier procedure?
/r/MensRights10/11/14 05:35 PM
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I could use one for men trying to raise teenage daughters, this shit's a minefield!
/r/MensRights10/11/14 05:20 PM
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Upon looking more closely, the contract says the father “would be responsible for scheduling and paying for the boy’s circumcision,” which undermines my imaginary legal argument.
/r/MensRights10/11/14 05:16 PM
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THe parenting plan order applies to the mother, not to the child. For example in my situation: I am bound by a court order to take my kid for visitation with her mother, at a supervised access centre. I provide the child as directed, so I am complying. However my child refuses to participate in the access, and tells the staff of the centre she will not be oging in. The court has not ordered my child to do anything- only for me. If I were this mother, I would make an appointment with a sensible, …
/r/MensRights10/11/14 04:52 PM
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I don't think it's creepy for adults of either gender to be attracted to older people. I think it's iffy for adults of either gender to seek out relationships with very young partners, especially if there is a power or authority imbalance. For instance a 15 year age gap is really going to raise my eyebrows if an 18 year old is paired with a 34 year old, but not if it's a 30 year old and a 45 year old.
/r/MensRights10/11/14 04:46 PM
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I agree. And since there is nothing to keep him from choosing to circumcise himself as an adult, obviously the logical outcome is that nothing be done now, and he can choose that for himself later. He can't choose to uncircumcize himself later.
/r/MensRights10/11/14 04:30 PM
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Why is that funny? Removal of healthy body tissue is unreasonable to say the least. It isn't funny if it's a healthy breast, the internal reproductive organs of a psych patient, a leg, a clitoris, a foreskin or a pinkie toe. Why should anyone be cutting off parts of children who cannot consent to such a thing? Is female genital cutting funny to you? It sure isn't to me.
/r/MensRights10/11/14 04:22 PM
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this i think is a question worth asking, and I can't really wrap my head around it fully. however it isn't directly relevant to the reality of abortion law. i almost think circumcision (disrespecting a person's right to make decisions about their own bodies) is a closer argument.
/r/MensRights10/11/14 04:06 PM
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As a man (and a father) I say if the man wants the embryo/fetus he can have it. Unfortunately that isn't going to do anyone any good without a uterus to grow it in.
/r/MensRights10/11/14 03:04 PM
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This discussion here seems to operate under the assumption that all prostitutes are women and all clients are men. I guess my hope is that trafficking men/boys will be prevented as well. Anyway, the idea is that prostitution contributes to human trafficking and forced exploitation, and by that argument sex workers are likely to be victims. Charging them with crimes and giving them criminal records is not a good way to get them into employment in different industries. I have no idea if it's a goo…
/r/MensRights10/11/14 02:51 PM
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My nephew had to be circumcised due to a defect and everyone tried to avoid it. Every medical professional called it a last resort. Only after repeated infections and complications were making him seriously ill did they do it, and they put him under general and sent him home with morphine. (He was a bit less than a year old.) I really don't understand how the same procedure can be done casually and ruthlessly without pain relief in some places and treated as a serious intervention in other place…
/r/MensRights10/11/14 02:45 PM
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what I think is more likely- that they don't hate single fathers, but they feel their lives NEEDED a child and so were willing to do anything to keep the baby initially and now it's their kid and they love him, so they won't let go. It's really hard to adopt a relatively healthy young baby domestically so they probably just decided to do whatever it takes.
/r/MensRights06/11/14 08:48 PM
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Yeah wikipedia's english site is going to be pretty limited use when researching crime statistics in Finland.
/r/MensRights06/11/14 07:56 PM
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I agree. Again this is a joke of a shallow man who is basically a poster boy for "bad guys" and men's rights advocates should distance themselves from people like this.
/r/MensRights06/11/14 07:30 PM
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i think this is a dumb cause, sorry. maybe the red pill will be on board. if men follow this guy's advice, they are in legitimate danger of imprisonment for sex assault/harassment. do you seriously think this guy should be giving men advice on how to "push the limit" with women? Do you think most guys can go around being sexually aggressive and faux-choking women without facing allegations or even criminal charges? what reality does he live in, that he won't eventually get his life ruined over t…
/r/MensRights06/11/14 05:59 PM
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yeah I don't care about the feelings of the adoptive parents (or the biological mom either) but for a 3-4 year old kid to be taken from his life and handed to a dad he doesn't know would really mess the kid up. I hope the adoptive parents aren't lousy parents and that this one act is an anomaly in their character. (Unlikely. Sigh.)
/r/MensRights06/11/14 05:54 PM
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a. how incredibly heartbreaking for that man b. how incredibly cruel of the biological mother (enormous understatement) c. that said, if the kid is happy and over age 3 right now, an abrupt removal from the only family he knows would be devastating. i at least hope the adoptive parents let the biological father visit with the kid.
/r/MensRights06/11/14 05:27 PM
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Antti Taskinen was in this decade wasnt he? (Or am I getting old?) Who is the nurse you refer to? I must admit I don't really know of any sources to look for information on serial murdering Finns.
/r/MensRights06/11/14 05:17 PM
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i just went and checked out the r/Canada thread and am pretty uncomfortable to realize that I think I work with one of the people who commented.
/r/MensRights05/11/14 08:46 PM
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I had this article forwarded and discussed at work, in a circle of 8 colleagues, 5 of them female. My work is a very feminist oriented social justice promoting organization. Every single person was absolutely gagging over this article and how stupid it is. [I just edited out a c&p quote from a colleague because that was probably unwise and I think one of my colleagues commented on the r/canada discussion of this article.]
/r/MensRights05/11/14 08:45 PM
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I morally agree that a victim should feel obligated to protect future victims but I do t think anyone should be held responsible for the actions of another.
/r/MensRights01/11/14 02:29 AM
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No worries. Even though I said 'this is a hole you dug yourselves' I hope you are able to get a reasonable payment plan in place. It doesn't sound like you are trying to get out of anything but need a humane repayment situation. I especially hope that happens since this isn't even about a kindergartener sitting on a dirt floor- this is settling a debt with another adult. Good luck, and especially kudos for not pulling the kid into the conflict- really a mark of character and not always easy.
/r/MensRights01/11/14 02:26 AM
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I vaguely remember a story of a woman who tried to have her ex killed after years or absolute terror and no aid from police. I remember actually seeing how someone could get that desperate. I am now wondering if this is the same story- how on earth could a defense story get that far without a fact check? Even media shouldn't be fooled by unsupported claims like that, let alone the Justice system.
/r/MensRights01/11/14 01:58 AM
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Back support officially doesn't go to the kid, it goes to the parent. The parent was incurring the costs alone back then and is now owed, in the eyes of the law. If I ever get back support enforced I will pay it to my kid to support her start in life, but that's just me and God knows some parents don't seem to view the kid as the priority. If he had a support order and didn't get it altered, didn't pay it, and didn't have custody- well, that's a hole you guys dig for yourselves. You should have …
/r/MensRights01/11/14 01:52 AM
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I am a custodial parent with a child support order which I have never enforced. From what I understand, you really can't get out of arrears once the order is made unless you get it re-calculated. If I go to the court when my kid is 18, her mother will be compelled by law to pay me the provincial calculator's amount for every year. The day I was happy with my custody order, I told her- look, if you ever bring me back to court I will file to have this order enforced and you will owe me tens of tho…
/r/MensRights01/11/14 01:35 AM
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Predicted Argument: children are more likely to be cared for by women than by men so this applies to them more. My argument: this is WHY men are facing an uphill battle as caregivers. The simple change to inclusive language would normalize the idea of men as caregivers. Men are parents too. You cannot tell me that women aren't held back by the defaulting of childcare responsibilities onto them. This kind of gendered language should be considered a problem for feminists too! Normalize male caregi…
/r/MensRights01/11/14 01:27 AM
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I talked about my personal experiences (not things I heard about but things I have witnessed with my own eyes) around my underage daughter getting catcalls and for some reason was called out for 'white knighting my daughter' which I don't even understand. Don't all parents want their kids to be treated with basic decency, regardless of gender? I'm not sure what "white knighting my daughter" might even mean, and beyond that, I think any decent parent would object to adults catcalling to their you…
/r/MensRights31/10/14 08:28 PM
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What the latest to come forward was saying (the lawyer- don't remember her name) is that she basically didn't go to the police because she didn't feel it was warranted, that the incident wasn't extreme enough or traumatic enough to warrant that response. That's fair enough I guess. She more or less said "I didn't do anything other than leave and avoid him because it didn't seem like there was anything else that needed to be done."
/r/MensRights31/10/14 08:21 PM
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This is a good quote from the officer: --The officer said cases of domestic violence against men were not reported to police as often as those against women. She added: "We do not hear of many cases of domestic violence against men because they are very much under-reported." She doesn't say it's a novel case, just that the cases aren't often reported.
/r/MensRights31/10/14 08:17 PM
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That's truly unbelievable. The only (very cold) comforts are that the guy didn't actually get killed and thankfully, he has full custody of his kid and moved away from the "mother" there. I wonder what the legal technicality was really.
/r/MensRights31/10/14 08:14 PM
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Could you temporarily physically move in with your parents, at least several nights a week, and do what you need to make that your legal mailing residence? You could still pay your rent to your buddy. Also, having no order is better for you than trying to change an existing order. Basically, I recommend you trying to care for your kid at your parent's house as much as possible this year before trying to get the court to let you move the kid to a new school next year.
/r/MensRights30/10/14 07:59 PM
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why do we assume that the past was ever so bad for women and so great for men? It really wasn't. This argument is basically addressing the entire structure of my reasons for identifying as an MRA. If a situation is "so bad" for women it's also bad for men. If women are considered only fit for being home with the kids, the flip side of that is that men are not considered good parents and that isn't good for men. If women are considered the property of men, men are required to shoulder the entire …
/r/MensRights30/10/14 07:41 PM
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on one hand, i kind of hate to see anything barring two adults from dissolving their relationship for whatever reason they choose. especially since there is a cost involved with these classes and divorce is incredibly financially stressful. Also, i would have HATED to be forced to interact any more with my ex because even looking at her made me sick to my stomach because of how she was fucking up my kid's head. That said for the less extreme situations, I can see this might be helpful. Some adul…
/r/MensRights30/10/14 07:37 PM
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I would like to see lottery ticket fuckarounds, people that don't read the menu while in line, people who text and walk, people who don't pick up their dog's buttloads and people who take their smelly shoes off on the plane should all be sent to a workhouse where they are directed in their tasks by supermarket checkout robots who give conflicting directions and end up calling for a human clerk anyway at the end of it. Also people who hug the pole on the subway like there aren't 5 other people wh…
/r/MensRights30/10/14 07:33 PM
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The woman depicted looked more or less white didn't she? Anyway, if we can take the video at face value for a moment and assume she walked in all kinds of neighbourhoods and didn't selectively edit: I was wondering if a black woman were to take the same walk if there would be more white men comfortable catcalling her as an 'outsider' or if it's just a cultural difference or what.
/r/MensRights30/10/14 07:29 PM
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does anyone even think that lady was dressed provocatively? she was dressed like the majority of 12-50 year old females here on a saturday afternoon. (when, exactly, tights became a substitute for pants I'm not exactly sure but it was 2012 or earlier.)
/r/MensRights30/10/14 07:27 PM
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to be neutral we'd probably need to include the numb nuts who followed her silently for 5 mins because that's creepy for anyone to follow any stranger. MORE importantly: the people who don't read the menu, or get their wallets out, or can't decide what they want after standing in line should be imprisoned for time theft. Hopefully in the same penal colony as the people who buy lottery tickets in some compulsive, obnoxious way that takes 10 minutes when everyone just wants to grab a pack of smoke…
/r/MensRights30/10/14 07:21 PM
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At my kid's school the day of pink is for anti-bullying discussion, and it originated from the bullying of a (male) student for wearing pink. It's kind of broadened to bullying in general but specifically bullying gay kids, or bullying kids by claiming they are gay.
/r/MensRights30/10/14 07:17 PM
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a couple I know had troubles conceiving, and it was in this case caused by the wife's physiology not his, and while they were getting the tests done-- the JOKES. My god people joked about his swimmers, the cup, etc. The subtext was that if it was a woman, her friends would all be supporting her and sad for her but if it was the man, everyone would make wimpy sperm jokes. It was gross and unfunny.
/r/MensRights30/10/14 06:56 PM
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I do not get mad when people turn and look. (Well I try not to, and I try to assume they do not realize how young she is.) She's tall and pretty and generally has a cheerful demeanor, I don't blame people for liking to see her, but the way some (shitty! abnormal!) adult humans feel entitled to comment on her body is a different story.
/r/MensRights30/10/14 06:28 PM
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Transgender people and recognizably gay people are liek fair game for harassment in many places. That's totally unacceptable, for a quirk of birth to open a person up to harassment. (I am not saying you are recognizably gay, i have no idea, but my point is- harassment is unacceptable no matter who the victim or the perpetrator is, and to say otherwise demeans us all as humans.)
/r/MensRights30/10/14 06:24 PM
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i am telling you as her dad i see it as not 1-5 times a year, more like 1-5 times a week. she dresses more or less like that woman in the video, leggings, boots, t-shirts, jeans. the whole point is that women or men should be able to walk down the street and not have strangers yelling at them. I am not talking about stories i have heard, etc, i am talking about walking down the street in the city where i live, in actual reality, with her and her friend walking two paces ahead of me, getting litt…
/r/MensRights30/10/14 06:22 PM
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I said waking hours, that's 18 hours, and plenty of people interact with the public for 18 hours a day. My specific example is my school aged (female) kid who is out walking or in public transit a good 500 hours of the year. or more.
/r/MensRights30/10/14 06:17 PM
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as an actual, literal men's rights advocate i have said it before- condoning the bad behaviour of men instead of calling it normal behaviour makes us all look bad. shitty guys do shitty, rude things and to call shitty, rude behaviour "normal" or "natural" makes us normal people who just want to work hard and parent our kids look bad. this isn't a male behaviour, it's a negative behaviour. it is not normal behaviour to approach strangers aggressively on the street. if you want to date someone, ye…
/r/MensRights30/10/14 06:14 PM
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i will add that this doesn't only apply to men talking to women, it goes both ways. leave people alone if they want to be left alone.
/r/MensRights30/10/14 05:03 PM
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a person getting bothered 1% of the time is not minimal- that's 66 HOURS of harassment in a year's waking hours. My school aged kid is walking around or on the transit system probably 500 hours in a year. That's five hours of consistent interference from strangers. That really doesn't sound minimal to me as her dad.
/r/MensRights30/10/14 05:00 PM
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even a few flat out creepy people in one day of filming is basically bullshit. i don't care if it's a man or a woman, being overtly sexual or creepy as hell (following! taking offense at a stranger not talking to you!) is not going to make a young person feel safe walking around their own city.
/r/MensRights30/10/14 04:55 PM
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i don't know what is wrong with people that teachers preying on kids, regardless of gender, is ok. let alone AWESOME. I seriously don't understand it.
/r/MensRights30/10/14 04:53 PM
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I don't know exactly what the point of the video is, but casual catcalling is a constant thing for young women living in a city. My young teenaged daughter gets catcalled so regularly it isn't even noteworthy to her. It makes my blood boil when we are out and she is with a friend or lagging behind, because it is very frequent. However if she is walking directly next to me/ clearly WITH me, they leave her alone. I'm talking men from 16-60, ranging from "hey pretty girl" to really explicit things.…
/r/MensRights30/10/14 04:45 PM
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My only comment is that I believe I have the same eyeglasses as this man, and now I want new glasses.
/r/MensRights30/10/14 04:41 PM
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also, do you 'not have custody' because the mother does, or is it that you don't have an existing order?
/r/MensRights28/10/14 07:53 PM
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Can you move in with your parents for a time, say until the end of the school year? If your child's address is the same as yours, that will definitely support at minimum joint custody. Couldn't you do a 50 mile commute for a few months now in an attempt to show that you are an involved primary caregiver? That way a court motion wouldn't be asking for a CHANGE so much as an extension of the current situation.
/r/MensRights28/10/14 04:33 PM
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i've seen this personally and I agree. COntinuity is good for kids, staying in one place/ in the care of the same parent if the parents are of equal or similar capability. Going to court to keep the kid where they are is MUCH more successful than going to court to change the kid's living arrangement.
/r/MensRights22/10/14 08:23 PM
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How old is your daughter? I will warn you that status quo is powerful- if you currently had the child in your physical care you would stand a better chance. Depending on the age of the child and whether or not you truly think she is better off with you OR in actual risk of danger right now, you could consider taking her to yours for a visit, filing, and keeping her there. If she is enrolled in school or daycare now, she'd have to be in actual risk of harm for family court to move her into your c…
/r/MensRights22/10/14 08:20 PM
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I do think child support should depend more on the paying parent's income than to do with the payee's income. (My opinion deserves a grain of salt however because I am a custodial parent who has never sought child support.)
/r/MensRights16/10/14 06:38 PM
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I see, yeah. There may be a nonprofit 'deprogramming' group that may have advice/direction for you- they may have insight into the tactics this group has used in the past.
/r/MensRights15/10/14 11:37 PM
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I can't upvote this enough. All of it- especially letting the lawyers drive. If you think the court may want something - such as parenting classes, etc - don't wait to be ordered. Have it already done. Look forward and stay calm.
/r/MensRights15/10/14 08:02 PM
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Is your name on the birth certificate? Is there any legal aid in your area? Many lawyers will have an initial consultation with you without charge and that is where you can get an idea of where a lawyer will start. I have sole custody. Things the family court will want to see from you: where you live is safe and welcoming for a child your employment is stable and well regarded you have a plan for how to care for this child- have a daycare plan lined up, etc nurture as many community contacts as …
/r/MensRights15/10/14 07:53 PM
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I had to create some PR documents for my employer which considers itself a very pro social justice organization and the topic was family poverty. The only direction for depictions of parenting was that the parents be diverse and for it to be 50/50 men and women parenting. It had to go back to the designers twice for under-representing men but it got there. Small thing but it made me feel good.
/r/MensRights13/10/14 09:05 PM
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also are millwrights, electricians, masons, surveyors etc horrible jobs? These are skilled trades, sought after and often members of unions or guilds, very much in demand. What makes them horrible? Roofer, yes. I know I'd sure as hell rather be a millwright than change diapers or clean teeth OR toilets.
/r/MensRights06/10/14 04:19 PM
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I am definitely more comfortable confronting a man than a woman because frankly I'm afraid to be branded a bully. Women say that they are uncomfortable confronting men because they are afraid/unsafe confronting a man. That is why I say I wish like hell women would confront each other when a woman acts badly. I have confronted women who are behaving poorly, but I am more wary. I just also wish like hell men would confront each other when one jackass is behaving badly, because it does make it easi…
/r/MensRights03/10/14 07:50 PM
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I sure as hell want women to address each others' bad behaviour, whether it's not condoning/laughing at female on male violence or family court horrors. Sure it's not nice for the lady to get yelled at, but my main point is if the normal guys among us speak up, the abnormal behaviour won't be perceived as the reality.
/r/MensRights03/10/14 07:03 PM
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Being an activist is pretty much engaging confrontation in small ways as we see fit, I guess.
/r/MensRights03/10/14 06:55 PM
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Well, confronting someone in that situation did not escalate it yesterday. Five guys walking down the street, one of them catcalls something filthy at a 13 year old girl- the other four saying "hey, knock it off" would not escalate it.
/r/MensRights03/10/14 06:48 PM
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I even see this stuff at times from guys who have kids. I don't understand how this is funny.
/r/MensRights03/10/14 06:39 PM
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I wondered if I would see this here. Not only is that ad gross and transphobic, it's grossly male-phobic. The person showering next to the hypothetical daughter is another child, but "BOY" doesn't sound threatening enough either.
/r/MensRights03/10/14 03:44 PM
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I don't even understand what is happening in this post.
/r/MensRights29/09/14 08:58 PM
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You think this would happen to a woman with a skull t-shirt and some tattoos? I sure don't.
/r/MensRights25/09/14 08:31 PM
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No, a woman shouldn't be the default to go with little children to the washroom. A parent should be the default. Fathers and mothers are both parents. He said there was no stall in the men's room for the kids to use.
/r/MensRights25/09/14 08:20 PM
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When I get dressed and groom myself, it's not to please the clucking chicken masses at Costco.
/r/MensRights25/09/14 08:00 PM
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it cited five other studies which studied perpetration by factors including gender. Follow the rabbit trail if you want to look at the methodology of those. I do actually appreciate that the researchers spell out why they focused on male perpetrators, even if 4 of the 5 studies were from more than 15 years ago. "Research also suggests that females are significantly less likely than males to perpetrate sexual dating aggression (Bennett and Finneran 1998; Foshee 1996; Munoz-Rivas et al. 2009; O’Ke…
/r/MensRights25/09/14 07:56 PM
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Absolutely ridiculous. Honestly, that's a 'feminist' issue as much as a men's rights issue. There is no substantive difference between "women belong in the home with children" and "men should not be caring for children" at all. I get my share of hairy eyeball when parenting my daughter. I don't know which is worse really-- the hairy eyeball or the condescending praise for 'babysitting' while the theoretical 'mommy gets a break!' Yeah mommy's getting a break. A lifelong break.
/r/MensRights25/09/14 07:47 PM
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That's where it would be interesting to see the ratio of charge to conviction for men vs women. It would get almost impossibly nebulous to compare "persons of interest" to charges laid to conviction but the exoneration rates are only the tip of the iceberg.
/r/MensRights22/09/14 09:48 PM
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I think you see what I am getting at. Since what, 90% (?) of people convicted of murder are men, a murder exoneration rate on par with that number isn't surprising at all.
/r/MensRights22/09/14 08:37 PM
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where are they living now? in foster care? how old are they?
/r/MensRights22/09/14 07:57 PM
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What are the rates of criminal conviction of each sex? What is the sex breakdown of charged with crimes, convicted of crimes, etc? I think the conviction rate is around par with that exoneration rate so that isn't necessarily as telling a number. What could be the most telling number is the male to female ration of convictions in the event of a criminal charge.
/r/MensRights22/09/14 07:54 PM
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I can't share personal insight on the child support system because I have never had to pay it, and I have never sought an order for it to be paid to me. I had one Children's Aid worker decide right off the bat (literally, before having met me) that I had created parental alienation syndrome (alienating my kid from her mom) and this worker never changed her mind, not in a year. I am so, so grateful the other persons looking into our situation did not agree and that her influence was nullified. It…
/r/MensRights22/09/14 04:31 PM
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Being close to beating the shit out of anyone means you could probably use some assistance. Being traumatized can really mess with you.
/r/MensRights22/09/14 03:25 PM
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I am a custodial parent and it's been the definition of contentious but with steady gains along the way. Not every person involved in my situation has been reasonable or helpful but I have had a lot of success just working within the system as it is set out. It could be a geographical/cultural difference but I have not found the 'system' to be biased against me at all. I have found individuals biased against me but as long as the whole system was working there were checks and balances in place f…
/r/MensRights22/09/14 03:19 PM
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I think having her address men's rights positively in a speech about 'feminism'/gender equality should be taken at face value. I wonder why they didn't call the men's initiative "HeForWe" however. I do definitely believe that everyone is better off when equity/equality is improved. I think white people are better off when racial equality is improved for instance. When there is a level playing field everyone wins. Men's right to be emotional people, nurturing fathers, etc helps both women and men…
/r/MensRights22/09/14 03:04 PM
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No decent man would look at his behaviour and think it was acceptable. Fine, forget the punch. If I punched my worst enemy on earth and they dropped like that, I'd check them over and get them help, not drag them like luggage. Disgusting as a whole.
/r/MensRights09/09/14 12:15 AM
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Do you think the press should state if this woman is a transwoman? Isn't that a man's name?
/r/MensRights08/09/14 07:02 PM
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has any source/researcher ever considered male suicide statistics as "victims of male killers" by any chance?
/r/MensRights08/09/14 04:48 PM
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