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oh babe im sorry for you <3 keep making a fool of yourself in front of women and see how far it gets you. peace
/r/askTRP08/03/19 02:46 AM
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actually not at all true - i broke up with my LTR bc he didn't respect me and its sad bc i still love him and think about him a lot. in terms of a 'date' i feel like there aren't super clear boundaries in real life like that unless you're on a dating app - it's more of an outdated 50s concept. imo if you want to find a gf the best best way to do it is to get to know a girl slowly in a shared social context. i've dated using dating apps and i would date someone who i knew from a class and asked m…
/r/askTRP08/03/19 12:33 AM
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a lot of women actually really enjoy being called a slut/talked dirty to (obviously in a consensual way) but its a great sign you're still nervous bc it means you're actually into your LTR and that's fucking cute
/r/askTRP07/03/19 04:10 AM
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i'm sry dude that sounds like a really rough situation. first of all do not let yourself sink into despair and absolutely do not hurt yourself. i lost a family member that way and it affected me at my core so please do not do that to those who love you. please get help practice some awareness and write all the obsessive thought loops and feelings down at least once a day and then re-read that when you have mental clarity and realize how irrational and obsessive they are. i'm being honest here - …
/r/askTRP07/03/19 03:56 AM
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woman here - sometimes you snap or you're unaware of the impacts of your words or you're insecure and you front and it comes off insulting. many reasons but i do often pick up on common LTR dynamics where the woman is naggy and the guy is resentful and it makes me sad because i never wanna be that. i think often that comes from an unbalanced dynamic where the woman takes initiative and is too self-sacrificing and the guy is not supportive and proactive enough. protip give women credit for being …
/r/askTRP07/03/19 03:48 AM
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oh uh im a real life woman lol. so from my experience cold pickups almost never work - they're too random and i perceive men who cold approach me as a threat pretty much always. the best way imo is to connect with women where theres a social context but if you must then lower how aggressive you come on. best way to is get that contact info and reach out with context ie. you go to the same uni, you can help her navigate campus etc.
/r/askTRP07/03/19 03:12 AM
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It does for me too actually! I think if you get too high you can experience a negative come up - I used to smoke like a full joint and have a negative spiral where I beat myself up about things but : #1 I discovered recently that when I lower the dose it helps me to enjoy the experience I'm having and also understand myself a bit more - like where my actual interests lie. For example getting a nice low buzz and focusing on some comedians or a movie I enjoy and truly laughing and relaxing helps m…
/r/askTRP06/03/19 05:16 PM
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this sounds like she is into you but also a little insecure about 'being in a relationship' as a label. ask yourself - do you truly like her? if you do then speak up about wanting to label it a relationship once a month or so has gone by and have an open discussion about it.
/r/askTRP06/03/19 05:20 AM
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congrats you've been played by the redpill bullshit - you like this girl it's obvious. she wasn't down for you being a player which we can all understand. ​ instead of nuking your friend circle, first message her privately and apologize for the way you acted months ago and then explain that you still really like her and can't get over it. women absolutely love a romantic unrequited love. ​ once you've done that if she rejects you embrace it - it's beautiful and rare that you find someone you tru…
/r/askTRP06/03/19 05:07 AM
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both women and men can be redpill or bluepill it depends on how much of a psychopathic fuck you are
/r/askTRP06/03/19 05:02 AM
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it's human nature to be nervous about being watched by people you're attracted to! if they're really staring start a convo with a cute lil sentence otherwise ignore them and revel in being admired
/r/askTRP06/03/19 05:00 AM
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lightly grazing someone's upper arm when you leave or walk by in a gesture of caring is always a huge tip off that the person is into you - most women understand at that point and then watch for their signal if they're into it or not and follow through accordingly
/r/askTRP06/03/19 04:58 AM
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ask yourself about your own boundaries in this relationship and why this happened - do you find it onerous to always text her during the day? do you need more space and feel like you're on a leash? when you text her is it always authentic? it really sucks to be left on read but communicating that you were stressed and busy should be enough for her to understand if she cares about you
/r/askTRP06/03/19 04:55 AM
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smoke weed and invest time in your interests. eventually you will realize that you have validity as a person - you are interesting and contribute positively to others' lives. you don't need to be a 'dominant' person if you respect yourself. still on that journey myself tho bro and im your age this is just whats been working for me
/r/askTRP06/03/19 04:50 AM
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women are weirded out when you are too direct you come off creepy and they're suspicious. be nice to her but then just leave contact info like "hey if you wanna follow on me on insta maybe i can help you out with a class you're taking that i've taken before" etc. and then leave it up to her
/r/askTRP06/03/19 04:47 AM
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