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When in doubt - AWALT...
/r/askMRP31/01/21 09:12 PM
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Why did you want to get married in the first place, faggot?
/r/askMRP28/01/21 09:32 PM
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I'm going to school full time as well as working full time. I'm pretty drained still, and actually feel like I might be getting sick. To go off what Aloha mentioned, you need to actually get a schedule in order. Ideally, I would recommend you put together a weekly schedule ahead of time (week by week), that way you can schedule everything going on in your life. Use your calendars on your phone and laptop. They aren't just there for holiday reminders. You will be able to schedule and prioritize e…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/01/21 07:47 AM
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Take this to /r/askmrp, not here.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/01/21 04:43 AM
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33yo/6’1/230lbs. Yes I lift. No way. No fucking way do you lift. You are a fat fuck who doesn't have a consistent diet and lifting regime.
/r/askMRP25/01/21 10:24 PM
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5′ 9/150lbs/I do lift No way. No fucking way do you lift. Go and actually lift, followed by going through the sidebar since you never did previously.
/r/askMRP25/01/21 07:08 PM
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Slow....the fuck....down I absolutely love this! As Rian Stone has mentioned in the past, it really comes down to enjoying the process of everything you do, before you can get the outcome you are looking for. Great read, Blarg!
/r/MarriedRedPill23/01/21 11:30 PM
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He wants the cheat codes to improve his wife's looks.
/r/askMRP18/01/21 05:17 PM
1

Do you have a question or a point in there?
/r/askMRP14/01/21 09:37 PM
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You are angry with how women are? Yeah, life is fucking unfair. Get over it and stop being a bitch.
/r/askMRP14/01/21 06:26 PM
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Why should we help this guy? He can't even help himself...
/r/askMRP12/01/21 11:44 PM
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Take this to /r/askmrp, not here.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/01/21 08:53 PM
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hate my wife. You don't hate your wife, you hate yourself. You hate yourself for the drunk captain in your life that you have become. STFU, lift heavy, and hit the sidebar.
/r/askMRP12/01/21 12:18 AM
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Aren't you the guy who was trying to fuck his wife's friend last year? If I remember correctly, that was the moment your marriage changed... EDIT: Here we go!
/r/askMRP11/01/21 07:44 PM
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Watch this before you even consider getting married while being in the military!
/r/MarriedRedPill06/01/21 10:20 PM
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Focus on improving lifts while continuing to run FYI; your gains will suffer.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/01/21 09:08 AM
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Take my comment whatever way suits what you are looking for. I'm glad that you are keeping your eyes open on these concepts since it will help you out down the line. By the time you decide to promote a woman to the relationship/LTR phase, you will have done a better job when it comes to vetting and boundary enforcement.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/01/21 07:46 AM
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This might have partly been due to some feelings of guilt and shame: 1) continuing to have sex with women that I wasn't interested in LTR'ing, 2) being afraid to get too close, and 3) being "disloyal" by seeing more than 1 girl at the same time. I will be doing more introspection into these issues while figuring out what it is that I really want. This whole section here around dating/spinning plates comes down to a few points: Lack of experience: You spent the bulk of your twenties with one woma…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/01/21 08:57 PM
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get an eyebrow piercing and a tattoo on the 30th Your SMV will dip a couple of points... You can't afford that.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/12/20 09:24 AM
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Current Streak: 12 days Don't be like one of those freaks from the nofap and semen retention subs. No need to keep track of this like a journal, or else, you will be destined to fail.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/12/20 09:18 AM
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Nothing. Lucky for you, women have the memory of a goldfish. Even though your wife has already forgotten what you have given her for Christmas, you will have a fresh new day ahead of you where you will be starting from zero.
/r/askMRP31/12/20 03:37 AM
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Can't you see the user(s) who report comments & posts?
/r/MarriedRedPill30/12/20 10:12 PM
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You have to be a troll...
/r/askMRP29/12/20 10:38 PM
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You got it.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/12/20 10:16 PM
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You don't even need to ask her (or anyone) a specific question. Basically, you can make a long rambled comment about [x-topic], which will give openers for a woman to make a comment, ask you a question, or engage in some way. With women, the more words you use, you build comfort. This is where a lot of guys fail since they will ask basic questions like; "How are you?", which doesn't give much to go off. Instead, try something like this: "Man, my favourite coffee is [insert what you like] because…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/12/20 09:24 PM
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Rule 9 in regards to what exactly? You said the word 'she' 21 times in your post.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/12/20 08:43 PM
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Saw a cute girl alone who made eye contact with me a couple of times. I wanted to approach... but was suddenly blank with anything to say. Read up on 'Old Man Game' from Roosh V's book Day Bang.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/12/20 08:39 PM
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None of it matters. Unless you do you. They come for the sex and leave with self-actualization.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/12/20 03:18 AM
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One of the worst posts I have read on /r/askmrp, which is saying something with all the shit that has been posted here... Should I even care? I don't know, should you? I don't care about you. Fuck your wife. Although, I don't blame her for not wanting to fuck you. Hit the sidebar, lift heavy, and focus all of your time, energy, and resources on yourself.
/r/askMRP27/12/20 03:17 AM
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I wanted to go to the gym, go out with friends, basically perform a level 3 and 4 dread, but I am stuck in the same house with her. This statement is whiny as fuck. You are making excuses - fuck you. Sidebar, lift heavy, and develop frame. Merry Christmas, faggot.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/12/20 06:40 AM
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The problem with chasing unicorns is that unicorns don't exist.
/r/askMRP22/12/20 07:50 PM
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You should marry your unicorn. Only with her for 4 months? Man, you better get on it.
/r/askMRP15/12/20 09:22 PM
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Waves upon waves of shit.
/r/askMRP12/12/20 09:15 AM
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I like how he keeps doubling down on how he lifts...
/r/askMRP10/12/20 10:16 PM
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I don’t know how I would go about doing that without taking off my ring or making a tinder alt or some shady shit. Clearly, you haven't been working on being social with everyone you meet out in public, including women. No need to be an autistic fuck. Open up your piehole and start chatting with women. It's not just for stuffing your face. Small talk here and there. I would even go as far as to start practicing some catch and release, which includes going for a number close. It's a good way to p…
/r/askMRP09/12/20 08:03 PM
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This was my thought too... Something is severely off in this post.
/r/askMRP09/12/20 04:05 AM
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Was it really a female user?
/r/MarriedRedPill08/12/20 05:15 AM
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We had makeup anal sex, I came in her ass, and now I’m laying awake in bed a bit dumbfounded. Sounds like he anal trained your girl. I guess my question is how would be the best way to conduct myself in her presence the coming days? STFU, sidebar, lift heavy, and stop worrying about her and focus everything on you.
/r/askMRP05/12/20 02:05 AM
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25 years old Way too young to be thinking about marriage... Sidebar, lift heavy, and focus on you.
/r/askMRP01/12/20 09:16 PM
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You need a year or two of dating before even considering promoting a woman to the relationship phase...
/r/askTRP01/12/20 05:43 AM
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This girl I been messin around with for like few months. What the fuck does this mean? Did you get into a relationship with a woman you only saw a couple of times in a two week period? Fucking idiot.
/r/askMRP01/12/20 01:09 AM
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Decided to be official about 2 weeks in Uh, dude, you should spinning plates for at least a year or two before even promoting a woman to the relationship phase. You are hanging out with her once a week (max) and texting is only for logistics. Period. Paragraph. Slow the fuck down!
/r/MarriedRedPill29/11/20 11:07 PM
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Broke up with last gf a month ago. 6 month long relationship. How long did you date her before getting into the relationship phase (6 months in length), or, are you telling us the whole thing was 6 months in total (dating & relationship)?
/r/MarriedRedPill29/11/20 09:46 AM
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Great breakdown comment you left for Dave, Tyred. He didn't deserve the comment breakdown that you gave, considering, how he has acted in his previous deleted comments.
/r/askMRP26/11/20 08:59 PM
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How much of the sidebar have you gone through? Edit after edit: We’ve been to 10 therapy sessions but they seem woefully inadequate. Skip the therapy sessions and go lift. Seriously, go and fix your shit with the sidebar and stop worrying about your wife. MRP is about the man, not about saving the marriage, relationship, plate, or the wife. Get your ass to work. All of the resources you need are in that sidebar, followed by lifting heavy. Make a home gym if you have too.
/r/askMRP26/11/20 08:29 AM
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I did try tinder and it was a magnificent waste of time. You are going to need to learn game on this journey as well. Don't be one of those guys that just stays swiping on dating apps. You will need to get out there and practice being social and upping your game. Practice by getting some numbers and going from there. Good luck.
/r/askMRP26/11/20 05:26 AM
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30 years old? Married with no kids? Jesus... Count yourself lucky. STFU, lift heavy, sidebar, and take control of your life from here on out.
/r/askMRP25/11/20 08:44 PM
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You mean the entire fucking point of this place? MRP, baby.
/r/askMRP17/11/20 08:40 PM
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Your whole write up is “tell me what I should want”. We can’t do that for you. Bingo. That's like every post on this sub summed up with your comment.
/r/askMRP17/11/20 08:33 PM
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STFU, lawyer up, lift heavy, and sidebar.
/r/askMRP16/11/20 12:15 AM
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It's great to see all of that progress, man! Keep it up and keep on lifting as your life depends on it!
/r/MarriedRedPill14/11/20 10:44 PM
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Have been going through the majority of the TRP sidebar over the last year TRP sidebar, or MRP sidebar? There is a massive difference between both sidebars... Have you not been going through the 60 DoD!? You will find all of your answers there.
/r/askMRP14/11/20 07:26 PM
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You suck.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/11/20 05:02 AM
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You have no fucking experience and you have no idea what you are doing. But, by all means, go ahead and marry your oneitis unicorn.
/r/askMRP10/11/20 01:12 AM
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You clearly haven't done any sidebar work, have you? You have no idea when it comes to SMV, DMP, female nature, male nature, and all of that jazz. If I leave her to learn about women what if I find another girl who also wants a relationship before 30 am I supposed to dump her and go sleep with more women because I’m not experienced enough? You are supposed to be spinning multiple plates in your pipeline and promote the best one out of the bunch if she serves it and if she asks your thoughts on y…
/r/askMRP10/11/20 12:13 AM
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Not long enough. You should be dating/plating women for at least a year before promoting her to a relationship. Hit the sidebar over there ➡ and do the work. You are too young to be in a relationship anyway... Go out and game other women to learn about female nature and to figure out what YOU want in a woman down the road. You shouldn't be in a relationship until you are in your 30s at the very least.
/r/askMRP09/11/20 11:05 PM
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Okay so I’m currently in my first ever real relationship, 9 months in How long did you date her before you promoted her to a relationship? Everything else is irrelevant until you break down your situation for us.
/r/askMRP09/11/20 10:56 PM
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I was going to put some effort into my comment, but based on your post history, you are one of those TRP guys who whines and complains about women... How old are you? How fat are you? What is your weight and bf%? How many days a week are you lifting? All of your problems stem from the fact you are not focusing on your mission as a man. You are too busy chasing tail and posting stupid shit on TRP to even grasp the magnitude of your problems here - you. All of the work is over at the sidebar. So, …
/r/askMRP09/11/20 08:15 AM
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House rich and cash poor Okay, that makes sense. Personally, speaking? I would recommend you renting a boat for a season and see how it goes. You need to have a trial run with a boat before you decided to commit the time, energy, and money into owning one.
/r/askMRP09/11/20 01:31 AM
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There are a lot of inconsistencies with your finances here...
/r/askMRP08/11/20 09:37 PM
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Women your age want to fuck, not play girlfriend, act accordingly. So true...
/r/askMRP08/11/20 08:11 PM
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Just keep escalating every time and seeing where it goes. No harm in trying until you get it or the hard no. Keep it up!
/r/MarriedRedPill07/11/20 07:35 PM
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Because you have mentioned it in prior OYS, which seems to really turn on your wife. Always look for the ques and patterns when it comes to initiating sex.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/11/20 07:00 AM
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Usually she's like "nyah, don't touch me, do you always have to make everything about sex?". Did she ask you if you wanted to cum on her tits again?
/r/MarriedRedPill07/11/20 03:03 AM
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What's the point of your post?
/r/askMRP06/11/20 11:52 PM
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For me, I just did a bunch some stuff, had some ups and downs as always, but found that there was a general upwards projection. That's all it needs to be. Perfectly stated TKOL. I love that analogy of plugging along through the ups and downs since you are improving over time.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/11/20 08:30 AM
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What an amazing post, Stoney! Thanks for putting together this gold.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/11/20 12:11 AM
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And I just said ya sure kind of thing. It was her idea So, you entered her frame? Your fault. Own it.
/r/askMRP04/11/20 08:52 PM
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So, she was cheating on you, right? Yet, you decided to stay, right? Infidelity on any level is a hard next for guys around here. Burn it to the ground. But, you will have to decide on what you are going to do to improve your situation. Fuck your wife. Start with you. That starts with the sidebar, lifting heavy on a regular basis, and STFUing for the foreseeable future. Do you want advice for this exact moment? Call up three divorce lawyers each day until you find one. Get your shit in order. Do…
/r/askMRP04/11/20 08:52 PM
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Where was the boundary you set from when you were in the dating phase to then promoting her to the relationship phase?
/r/askMRP04/11/20 08:47 PM
1

I enjoyed that livestream more than I anticipated!
/r/askMRP03/11/20 06:01 AM
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no fap, no sex, orgasm challenge was to cure premature ejaculation You must spend a lot of time at those nofap and semen retention subs, huh?
/r/askMRP30/10/20 05:30 PM
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You are completely operating in your wife's frame... STFU more... Lift more... Sidebar more... Own your decisions more...
/r/askMRP29/10/20 08:43 PM
1

Well, there you have it! Good ol'johneyapocalypse strikes again. Take this advice and actually use it, OP.
/r/askMRP28/10/20 07:37 PM
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There’s a difference between trp and mrp? Guys over at TRP whine and complain about women, act autistic, and don't actually do the work on becoming a man with a mission and purpose. That's what MRP is about. It's about building the man, not saving the relationship or marriage. Do the work. Hit the sidebar and lift heavy.
/r/askMRP28/10/20 02:59 AM
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You spend a lot of time over at TRP... I would stop that... Hit the sidebar over here, lift heavy, develop a mission, and you can then choose what you want in your life.
/r/askMRP28/10/20 02:19 AM
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We get a quarterly update with this video.
/r/askMRP27/10/20 05:27 PM
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This video has been shared on this sub and the main MRP sub before...
/r/askMRP27/10/20 04:46 PM
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You don't deserve respect. You argue and constantly DEER with your girlfriend like a whiny bitch. Why would she respect you? I really hate my girlfriend for opening my eyes to this shit. I like her. Send me her number.
/r/askMRP27/10/20 07:20 AM
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Gyms have just barely opened in my area. Make your own home gym...
/r/askMRP26/10/20 07:02 PM
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The final verdict is in from the group. Conclusion: You are a fucking idiot.
/r/askMRP25/10/20 10:59 PM
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This was a fucking excellent post!
/r/MarriedRedPill25/10/20 10:39 PM
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Discipline and routines get shit done, not motivation...
/r/askMRP23/10/20 05:46 PM
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How many days a week are you lifting heavy?
/r/askMRP23/10/20 01:58 AM
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Call your landlord and ask to speak or meet with them. Talk them through your situation. You would be very surprised... Some landlords can be very forgiving in these kinds of situations, depending on how many months into the lease you are. You will have to be prepared to pay a penalty, but it will be worth it a decade down the line of working on you and your shit. Get things in order. Be prepared to move and clean out all of your shit when she is out.
/r/askMRP23/10/20 01:57 AM
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It was definitely after one month. One month!? Are you fucking kidding me?! I won't promote a woman I've been dating for at least a year - minimum. I have milk in my fridge that's older than your dating period... She wanted exclusivity You entered her frame - sidebar. I never been with a girl before. Break up with her, start focusing 100% of your energy on YOU, and start spinning plates to understand female nature. STFU, lift heavy, and sidebar.
/r/askMRP22/10/20 09:59 PM
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Okay, this post brings everything full circle here. Conclusion: OP is a bitch and doesn't lift enough.
/r/askMRP22/10/20 07:06 PM
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Oh, for fuck sakes, just dump her if you are this unhappy being around her. How long did you date/plate this woman before promotion? I smell a guy that prompted his unicorn or approached her for a relationship after a month of dating...
/r/askMRP22/10/20 05:54 PM
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If that's the case, then stop drinking soda. Suggestion? Start drinking soda water to still have that carbonated feel, without running sugar through your body like a mad lad. Soda is absolutely horrible for you and it will ruin any gains you get from lifting and throw your diet off with the extra calories that could be consumed with healthy food.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/10/20 05:14 PM
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Good man. Start your journey and get to work.
/r/askMRP21/10/20 05:41 AM
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That's 140 grams of sugar a day. Not to mention that diabetes will be the next stop for him.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/10/20 01:11 AM
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I agree with the comments around you watching a ton of porn and masturbating all of the time... How active are you on a daily basis? Do you lift heavy? You do realize that your wife will end up branch swinging to another guy (or multiple men) to have her fun and get fucked, right? Women don't like it when their men reject them for sex. Once this starts happening on a regular basis, their subconscious brain is already thinking about moving on to another cock. You will probably end up being the be…
/r/askMRP20/10/20 07:44 PM
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I absolutely loved the concept of having a science experiment on MRP, HOA!
/r/askMRP20/10/20 05:02 AM
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This smells of a troll post...
/r/askMRP18/10/20 01:55 AM
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In the past week He has barely touched the sidebar, nor has actually done any 'real' work...
/r/askMRP17/10/20 02:41 AM
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You're back from suspension!
/r/askMRP17/10/20 12:03 AM
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Yeah, you need to learn the difference between dating/plating and relationships. This woman was just a woman you were dating, she was not an LTR/relationship woman. Read Dr. Shawn Smith's book, 'The Tactical Guide to Women: How Men Can Manage Risk in Dating and Marriage' to learn about the different phases (i.e. dating phase, relationship phase, etc.). The majority of guys (like you) don't have a fucking clue what these differences are and then assume they are in a relationship, when in reality,…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/10/20 10:11 PM
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You should have been "doing your list" the entire time... Take some responsibility for everything here. This breakup was caused because of you - not her. Hit the sidebar, lift heavy, eat clean, and develop a mission. This time? Stick with living your life until you are 6-feet underground, fucker.
/r/askMRP16/10/20 01:22 AM
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I got in another LTR literally 2 months afterwards that lasted about 10 months (LOL). That's not an 'LTR' - sidebar. How long did you plate/date this woman before promotion?
/r/MarriedRedPill15/10/20 09:50 PM
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Wow, really!? You got sent here from /r/relationships? Okay.. You are no different then any of the new guys that come here. Hit the sidebar Lift heavy (4 to 5 days a week) OYS Oh, stay the fuck off sad sack subs such as /r/relationships. They are full of losers not doing the work on themselves to better their situation and life. Fuck them.
/r/askMRP14/10/20 07:56 PM
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Based on your edit, I'm going to say that you aren't lifting regularly enough, along with eating clean. You should be lifting 4 to 5 days a week, cutting out shit (i.e. alcohol for at least a month, sweets, crisps, etc.), and adding in intermittent fasting to your diet. You will have to do your own research on what diet works best for you as everyone is completely different.
/r/askMRP13/10/20 09:44 PM
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Don't want to just recover and get fatter Have you been doing any intermittent fasting with your diet at all? Seriously, what's your diet like?
/r/askMRP13/10/20 08:47 PM
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Loose lips sink ships, fucker.
/r/askMRP11/10/20 11:38 PM
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“I just couldn’t accept it. Not in months. I couldn’t accept it. I just kept asking her,” the 44-year-old said. You look and act like shit, Brad...
/r/MarriedRedPill09/10/20 01:57 AM
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however my longterm goal has always been to have a lovely wife and children That's not a goal... First off, I'm confused about your post history compared to this post. You got all caught up with an HB9 at a resort, who you think is a special unicorn for a fling, while on the other side you want to have the family life? For fuck sakes, you are all over the place here... So, where do we begin? Ah, yes! The famous "hit the sidebar" reference is your first stop! You clearly haven't read or internali…
/r/askMRP08/10/20 08:56 PM
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Her thinking about divorce started way before this incident. Bingo. This didn't just "come up out of nowhere", OP... In addition, how much of the sidebar material have you gone through? You clearly don't lift, you have barely touched the sidebar matieral, you don't STFU when needed, and your wife is preparing to jump back on the carousel because of your lack of direction.
/r/askMRP08/10/20 07:11 PM
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I counted 'she' 17 times in your post.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/10/20 01:51 AM
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ILYBINILWY
/r/askMRP06/10/20 07:42 PM
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Any advice? Keep lifting heavy (minimum 4 days a week). Keep a handle on your diet. Ignore your wife. Your mission is your mission. Keep working on your Russian cursive.
/r/askMRP05/10/20 08:12 PM
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oneitis Oneitis is a popular option for a lot of guys.
/r/askMRP04/10/20 04:03 AM
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23yo I'm in my second LTR It has been 11 months She's 20yo Wow... You are a fucking idiot. Rundown You are not in an 'LTR' or relationship. How long did you date/plate this woman before promotion? 11 months isn't an LTR/relationship (see #1). 20-year-old women want to have fun, party, instafuck, facefuck, finger fuck their phone, and fuck men they are interested in. Your boundaries are not boundaries, they are you mate guarding - weak. You don't know what you are doing. You don't lift, you don't…
/r/askMRP04/10/20 03:47 AM
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I've recently come across the "Red Pill" knowledge and now am questioning all of this were as before I would believe her when she says it was just a mistake, a phase etc. How much of the sidebar have you gone through? Books, links, OYS, comments, posts?! Be specific... You mention "physical goals", but this doesn't really tell us much... Start STFUing, lifting heavy (regularly), going through the entire sidebar and internalizing as much material as you can, and start owning your shit from this p…
/r/askMRP03/10/20 09:09 PM
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What's with some of these shit and low effort comments on /r/askmrp lately?
/r/askMRP03/10/20 08:55 PM
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Exactly my point! Horrible advice...
/r/askMRP03/10/20 08:54 PM
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There ya go! I forgot to mention that one too... All of those subs are full of walking trainwrecks...
/r/askMRP03/10/20 08:53 PM
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Also, avoid the r/divorce, r/relationship_advice, r/marriage sob-reddits like the plague. Also add /r/relationships to that list!
/r/askMRP03/10/20 08:45 PM
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I think you missed posting this over at /r/relationships and /r/deadbedrooms.
/r/askMRP03/10/20 07:58 PM
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The 'she' count for OP in his post is 15.
/r/askMRP03/10/20 07:55 PM
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The divorce machine is a very valuable card to play; especially, for post wall women on the exit of the marriage getting back on the cock carousel. What does your soon to be ex-wife get? She will get access to your child, access to your resources, money directed to her from you on a monthly basis ($$$), and the ability to get some men into her pipeline that are of a higher value than you are at the moment. Lots of benefits for your soon to be ex-wife.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/10/20 06:42 PM
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Gave my wife Fascinating Womanhood and sent her away for the weekend. Another gem from Horns.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/10/20 06:19 PM
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A few things here, OP: You should have posted this on /r/askmrp instead of the main sub. You haven't put any effort, background story, or a good amount of info for us to actually give you proper feedback. Add more later? Jesus, you may is well of waited until you had time to make a proper post. How much of the sidebar have you gone through? Lots of questions here...
/r/MarriedRedPill02/10/20 05:57 PM
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Lots of science experiments happening on both this sub and /r/askmrp over the last week.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/10/20 05:54 PM
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Thank god you got rid of that he/she...
/r/askMRP01/10/20 08:01 PM
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You keep deleting comments... You are a.) a woman and b.) a troll.
/r/askMRP01/10/20 04:48 AM
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Wow... You are such a butthurt beta fuck nice guy... STFU, hit the sidebar, lift fucking heavy, and get to work.
/r/askMRP01/10/20 03:46 AM
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8 days you posted to dead bedrooms. Hey Johney, he deleted a bunch of recent comments on that sub from only a couple of days ago. I'm fully certain he's full of shit...
/r/askMRP01/10/20 03:40 AM
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No fap, Don't be autistic The key thing here is "don't be autistic" around doing 'nofap', or else you will turn into one of those idots over at the nofap and semen retention subs. You can just tell yourself that you are cutting out porn/mb and leave it at that.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/10/20 01:33 AM
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No one here will advocate for you to go to marriage or couples counselling. It's a great way to waste your time, money, and energy on knowing that your wife is preparing to jump back on the carousel. The first thing here, as many others have mentioned, put the weed down. That isn't helping. You are using weed to cope with the fact you hate your wife? Jesus... Get lifting and hit the sidebar.
/r/askMRP30/09/20 06:43 PM
1

Which one is the unicorn?
/r/askMRP30/09/20 01:14 AM
5

I'm 27M and she's 28F You already fucked up by getting into a relationship with a woman older than you, followed by putting a ring on her finger. You are out here writing long lists about "The Wife"; however, your wife is approaching the wall and probably wants to jump back on the cock carousel because of your lack of leadership. Your wife signed up for a HVM, a captain, and a man with vision, purpose, and drive - not this... Your wife is a pure reflection of the man that you are, which means yo…
/r/askMRP29/09/20 07:26 PM
5

Your mission is your mission. Period. Paragraph. How much of the sidebar have you gone through?
/r/askMRP27/09/20 11:18 PM
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The fact that you have went through all of the behind the scenes info on your Verizon account proves that you know something is up. You don't need to be Sherlock Holmes to prove whether or not your wife is cheating on you since you already have that caveman instinct in you. I find it entertaining to see how much time you have spent trying to investigate whether or not your wife is cheating on you, instead of putting in the time, energy, and work on yourself to have the script flipped backwards. …
/r/askMRP27/09/20 11:17 PM
1

I love MRP science!
/r/askMRP27/09/20 09:30 PM
2

Thoughts are with you during this time... You will make it through on the other side, much stronger.
/r/askMRP26/09/20 10:26 PM
3

Long story short about a month after we ended up in a relationship for 6 months. Wtf!? A month dating this chick before a relationship? Dude, fuck off and hit the sidebar. This is all your own doing. You need to learn the importance of spinning plates and dating women for a long period of time (i.e. 10 months, year or two, etc.) before even considering a promotion. You sound like 80% of the men out there that are so needy to get into a relationship with a woman after a month or two since you dev…
/r/askMRP25/09/20 06:42 PM
3

I always learn something new from a comment or post from Horns.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/09/20 05:06 AM
4

I love your investigation work!
/r/askMRP24/09/20 11:51 PM
3

God, I fucking love the accuracy of your comments.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/09/20 07:49 PM
3

The way I witness “monk mode” with these guys, it’s just a way of avoiding rejection day-gaming. Finally, someone else says it! This has always been my thought around guys banging the drum around monk mode. My biggest pet peeve around guys that claim they are in monk mode is when they mention something along the lines; "I have taken a few weeks off to hang out at home playing X-Box, drinking with the boys, and smoking some weed too! I'll be back on the RP journey in a few months!" - really, WTF?…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/09/20 04:56 AM
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Great post! I have been thinking about this a lot lately with some of these posts I've read over the summer. There's literally a group of people who lack this cognitive capacity ... All of the regular TRP subs apply to this.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/09/20 04:00 AM
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A whole long ass comment, but no real info around the following: Height Weight BF% Lifting Stats
/r/askMRP21/09/20 12:25 AM
2

Both MRP subs coincide.
/r/askMRP20/09/20 10:36 PM
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I find that way too many men overthink this kind of stuff. Frankly, you can meet women every single time you step out of your door - everywhere. Whether it's at the grocery store, on a walk with your dog, on the street, going to x place, coffee shops - you name it. I think you should change your approach to being social with everyone that you meet out in public. You will be amazed at the people you will meet everytime you head out with the right attitude. Speaking from personal experience, I hav…
/r/seduction20/09/20 06:34 AM
3

An actual chance to share custody with his kids...
/r/askMRP19/09/20 11:31 PM
5

we drank WAY TOO MUCH. They drank all the booze they brought and we cleaned out my beer fridge after that. Homie barfed everywhere outside and I left it cause I was too hammered. Why are you drinking to the point of throwing up everywhere and passing out?
/r/MarriedRedPill19/09/20 09:39 PM
3

Most men are pussies. Never a more true and honest statement in this day and age.
/r/askMRP17/09/20 07:04 PM
0

Body weight exercises They do absolutely nothing... Not sure why so many guys buy into the whole weekly body weight exercise routines.
/r/askMRP17/09/20 07:01 PM
3

Looking back I was fairly alpha when we met (MGTOW monk) but let my guard down to try and give marriage a shot. MGTOW, Monk Mode, Incel, MRA, and nofap, all of this shit is not "alpha" in any way, shape, or form... I read Horns post of nuking the nuclear family. Did you internalize his post...? Can this be salvaged through separation? You need to find a lawyer and be prepared to serve your wife. Seriously, do the work. Get the paperwork in order. If you don't do this you are either stupid, naive…
/r/askMRP17/09/20 06:44 PM
5

Do you want any positive progress in your life? Cut out alcohol and drugs from your life - full stop.
/r/askMRP16/09/20 08:18 PM
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If it feels hard, your probably doing it right. This is so spot-on that a lot of guys miss this point entirely. Thanks for the share, /u/Gherial. This will be a great post for you to reference in the future, as well as newbies that stumble upon this sub in the future.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/09/20 07:14 PM
2

Wow... OP, you are lucky that Barra gave you this in-depth review of this horseshit that you posted. Truthfully, you didn't deserve this breakdown. Now? It's up to you to decide what you want out of your life.
/r/askMRP16/09/20 07:09 PM
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Blah, blah, blah, blah, your wife this, your wife that - yawn... My stats are: I have abs. I'm extremely fit. People think I'm an actor or model. Stats include the following: Height Weight BF% Lifts/Workout routine My reward for being faithful before marriage, is to live out my sex life with a post-wall woman and now if I step out of that I risk my life being destroyed. STFU, lift heavy, and sidebar.
/r/askMRP16/09/20 04:27 AM
1

Ex wanted to borrow my car to pick something up, it would have needed to go on roof. I said I would get it for her and was happy to do that. Stop pandering to your ex...
/r/MarriedRedPill16/09/20 02:05 AM
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If I'm just talking to everybody then I'm just having fun and not making it all about pussy. Bingo. That's what it comes down to. Once you have developed your frame, OI, and abundance mentality, you will be well on the way to DNGAF, which is an attractive quality all around. The stay plan is the go plan; therefore, you need to make sure you focus on your social life and developing your game moving forward.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/09/20 08:55 PM
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WATCHING- Rian Stones YT channel, Rich Cooper Good man... GIRLS/GAME For this section, my response comes down to you needing to be more social whenever you are out of your house. Chat up everyone you run into: neighbours, grocery store employees, people in line at the coffee shop - everyone. You need to focus on building your social presence to a level where you can approach anyone, anywhere... I also reccomened reading 'Day Bang' and learning some basics when it comes to you practicing "Catch &…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/09/20 06:57 PM
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I've always enjoyed RP but didn't find it as useful to me as I am married. Really? Why did you come to the MARRIED RP sub? huh? Fuck your story. I don't care about it. None of us do. Here is your road map from this point forward: STFU: Seriously, STFU is your new best friend. Sidebar: Read and internalize everything on the sidebar (books, OYS, posts, comments, links - everything). Lift Heavy: I did not say walking, running, cycling, or push-ups in your basement. I said lift fucking heavy (compou…
/r/askMRP12/09/20 07:07 AM
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Don't stop talking and keep on going with what you are saying. How much of the sidebar have you gone through?
/r/askMRP12/09/20 06:50 AM
1

Well written, Horns.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/09/20 10:36 PM
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Why are you, guy who is 22 years old, fucking around in the following areas: Involved in a relationship/LTR situation. Having major oneitis for your unicorn who is fucking other guys. Ignoring red flags that you already see from her. Not listening to our advice for you on your first post. Break up with her, STFU, lift heavy, hit the sidebar, and start focusing on building up your life, faggot.
/r/askMRP10/09/20 08:51 PM
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We can all Benefit from remembering how lucky we are, all the things that had to come together for you to even exist, your time is short, are you really going to spend it covered in Dorito dust and crusty Kleenex? We need to save this quote on the main sub.
/r/askMRP06/09/20 07:48 PM
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Started dating this good looking girl 5 months ago. ... This isn't a relationship or 'LTR', this woman is a plate...
/r/askMRP05/09/20 08:56 AM
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By doing the work and trusting the process This is so spot on... Too many of the newbies that come here fail to trust the process that other men have gone through to unfuck themselves.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/09/20 01:09 AM
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lifting This is your permanent priority moving forward.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/09/20 03:30 AM
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You are in a better situation compared to most guys when it comes to relationships and facing the fact they are losing their job. Seriously... You are getting paid for two months, getting a severance package, and you have experience in the field you specialize in? Come on, man... Who gives a fuck what your "1.5 year LTR" thinks.
/r/askMRP01/09/20 12:38 AM
11

You need to hit the sidebar and check out the 60 DoD around 'style' since cargo shorts are an absolute no-go. The last time a guy got any sort of action wearing cargo shorts was Nam.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/08/20 01:49 AM
4

Yeah, this is what came to my mind first...
/r/askMRP27/08/20 03:52 PM
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I've let myself go way more than I should. Women don't fuck unattractive men. I see you hang out at the regular TRP subs a lot, huh? Let me break this down to you in a simple way... TRP subs: whine about women and play the victim. MRP subs: there is no whining allowed and you have to own your shit.
/r/askMRP26/08/20 11:46 PM
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What the fuck is this? Seriously, do the work on yourself. Can you come up with the antidote to save her father, uh? No? Okay, STFU please. That's the first step in this process - STFU. Stop being her therapist. You don't have the credentials, nor the information and understanding to know what a "comfort test" is - do you? Now, why on earth are you trying to save her? Women in relationships want a man who is like an oak tree or a mountain (read MMSLP - sidebar). I bet you don't know that, do you…
/r/askMRP26/08/20 11:27 PM
2

He does fit the description of a STEM guy..
/r/askMRP26/08/20 12:05 AM
1

I get ioi’s from hotter women. Post wall cunts don't count.
/r/askMRP26/08/20 12:04 AM
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Wow... You need to get your head out of your ass. honestly was my own Unicorn. HB8-9. Fuck off. Fast forward to the past couple months with quarantine, I essentially showed I wasn’t able to lead anymore with poor choices, weak frame, loss of fitness, and just bad habits (lazy and video games). Own your shit. This past months we had an altercation to where it lead to a “break”. Translation: Getting sprayed down by other men. After talking with her she wants to fix this but needs her space. Stop f…
/r/askMRP25/08/20 10:10 PM
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I'm with you on this one.
/r/askMRP25/08/20 09:26 PM
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I am 23, and a college grad. Get divorced - now. Most of the time, we want guys to actually push through and do the work on themselves before getting out of the LTR or marriage. In this case? Fuck everything about that... You are so young and not even close to your prime SMV target (mid to late 30s). Now is the time for you to be building your life and figuring out what you want. I'd also like to add that you getting divorced now will be a lot easier compared to five years down the road with a m…
/r/askMRP25/08/20 03:17 AM
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Good sex comes down to you leading it the way you want. Don't bitch about bad sex; that's your fault.
/r/askMRP24/08/20 10:50 PM
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Your "post" wasn't for you, but for new guys that come to this sub and start doing the work. We often reference past posts when certain questions or examples can be shared. It's a sensitive topic I didn't want up overnight due to the personal details within. Fuck off.
/r/askMRP24/08/20 04:56 AM
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You deleting this post has wasted everyone's time here - fuck you.
/r/askMRP24/08/20 04:48 AM
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You’re caught on one - onenitis. There are no unicorns. Zero. What is with some of these unicorn circle jerk sessions lately!? Seriously, we need to have a post on the main sub around - "Unicorns Don't Exist...".
/r/askMRP24/08/20 04:47 AM
1

What. Did. I. Just. Read. Go and hit the sidebar, lift heavy until your arms and legs come off, and STFU. You have soooo much fucking work to do...
/r/askMRP24/08/20 03:58 AM
1

I'm late to this, but I absolutely love this analogy.
/r/askMRP23/08/20 10:13 PM
1

This is an awesome story!
/r/askMRP23/08/20 07:12 PM
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Do I plate my ex? Absolutely not. If a woman comes back to you... That you were dating and/or plating? Sure, go for it. That you were in an LTR/relationship situation or marriage? Never.
/r/askMRP23/08/20 05:03 AM
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Well, you are seeing what happens when you do the following: a.) Promote a woman to relationship/LTR status way too soon (i.e. promoting her after three months is fucking insane). b.) Do not understand that women under the age of 25 years old (generally speaking) have no interest in jumping into a relationship UNLESS it’s with a high value alpha that has his shit in order (i.e. not YOU). c.) Have not built up your framework, OI, and abundance mindset. d.) Not lifting heavy — at all. e.) Do not u…
/r/askMRP23/08/20 12:57 AM
1

You are saving balls deep BP men... That's killin' it, my friend.
/r/askMRP18/08/20 09:07 PM
2

I know! You are killing it and I'm enjoying the episodes!
/r/askMRP18/08/20 09:02 PM
2

I'm surprised no one here has brought this up yet... Reading/Working On: MMSLP (reading & audiobook) Pay very close attention and internalize what you are reading in MMSLP. What /u/Sepean mentioned in his comment around having the balance between alpha & beta traits in LTRs/relationships and marriages is key & spot-on for success in the long run. Athol Kay brings up a lot of good info and examples in MMSLP for you to digest and internalize. In fact, Rian Stone (/u/RStonePT) has talked about this…
/r/askMRP18/08/20 08:55 PM
1

I like this change-up in routine!
/r/askMRP18/08/20 05:25 PM
1

On paper she’s a great candidate for potential marriage e.g. virgin when we met, traditional family values, no social media etc. and I feel lucky that we’re together. ... She is not a unicorn; therefore, stop treating her like one.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/08/20 05:23 PM
5

If you have to ask, you're fat. This is hard for a lot of guys to figure out...
/r/askMRP18/08/20 05:20 PM
1

Am I dancing correctly? OP is a court jester.
/r/askMRP18/08/20 01:34 AM
1

Texting is for logistics. Me: we’ll talk when I get home < Fucking leave it here! Everything after this text is full of autist behaviors on your end and your woman getting free attention. Her: sure we will And it will be like all of our other conversations You’ll say the right things to make me feel better But nothing will change I feel stuck Me; we’ll talk about it when I get home Her: whatever See you at 5:30 This close to just going to (state where we are both from) I’m losing it LabelOtherSi…
/r/askMRP17/08/20 06:28 PM
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Also - Don’t tell your wife and don’t go on a sex moratorium. This is a big takeaway for you, OP...
/r/askMRP17/08/20 06:12 PM
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Tell the fucktard to start living like he is single This might be the best advice that OP could tell him...
/r/askMRP17/08/20 01:43 AM
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I saw her not having sex with me after 4 dates Four dates... Dude, get over the oneitis you have for this unicorn and lift some heavy shit.
/r/askTRP17/08/20 01:33 AM
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... You don't do "sleepovers" with plates...
/r/askTRP16/08/20 08:19 PM
1

Plates are plates...
/r/askTRP15/08/20 11:02 PM
3

These kinds of posts kill me...
/r/askMRP15/08/20 11:01 PM
1

I'm so confused as to why this guy makes the same post a couple times a month...
/r/askMRP15/08/20 10:19 PM
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It's been a week and I get that. Dude, what the fuck? You need to pump the brakes here... Did you not listen to your doctor when he sat both you and your wife down beforehand around all of these details?! Hold the fucking phone and keep pumping those fucking breaks, Casanova.
/r/askMRP15/08/20 12:18 AM
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I'm happy you linked the previous advice you said to this fucktard.
/r/askMRP14/08/20 08:00 PM
1

If you have been religious around your lifting and diet routines, you should have already slashed half of your originaly BF % by now...
/r/askMRP14/08/20 07:44 PM
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My guesstimate was 29-30%. Yeah, buddy, it really doesn't matter... What does matter is whether or not you are lifting heavy and eating healthy today on a consistent basis. You should probably be focusing on your week-to-week schedule around lifting and having a good, healthy diet.
/r/askMRP14/08/20 07:36 PM
2

They want to hang out around the finish line and fuck the winners. This is what Rich Cooper talks about all of the time - video.
/r/askMRP13/08/20 10:27 PM
2

No kidding!
/r/askMRP13/08/20 05:57 PM
3

Any advice you can offer? Hit the sidebar.
/r/askMRP13/08/20 05:33 PM
1

There are no crowded bars anymore. Your question has a false premise. So true...
/r/askMRP13/08/20 03:42 AM
1

You broke down the video better than anyone else I have seen make a post and/or video around it.
/r/MensRights13/08/20 12:24 AM
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There is a lot of whining, complaining, and lack of action (on your part) which is why some of us are going down that road...
/r/askMRP12/08/20 06:24 PM
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A guy who powerlifts, or a guy who does bodybuilding? A guy that looks fucking fit... If you are too bulky and big (all around), then you need to go on a cut with your diet to get lean. Honestly? This is kind of a stupid post...
/r/askMRP12/08/20 06:22 PM
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Are you serious? What the fuck!? Your buddy never internalized some of the stuff he read in NMMNG...
/r/askMRP12/08/20 12:11 AM
2

This is an excellent example for OP to keep in mind...
/r/askMRP12/08/20 12:06 AM
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I would buy him a copy of No More Mr. Nice Guy. This is what I have done in the past and it's the only thing you can do...
/r/askMRP11/08/20 09:59 PM
1

You sound like one of those MGTOW guys...
/r/askMRP11/08/20 06:28 PM
1

I am a skinny weirdo (see above) and sex with my wife is not at the frequency or to the level of excitement that I desire. I want passion in our union and I have to build it. Does my wife really want to fuck me, honestly? I wouldn’t fuck me. This is my fault. Exactly... Women don't fuck concentration camp survivors. Once you start bulking up and lifting heavy on a regular basis, you will slowly start seeing your sex life increase to a steady frequency. Good job for actually realzing this and act…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/08/20 09:05 PM
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This isn't a 'providing solutions vs. leading' issue, this is a specific issue you have with a plate... I’m trying to find a balance with my main plate where she dumps all her issues on my lap. This comes down to the fact that you didn't properly set boundaries with this woman. How long have you been seeing her? If you haven't thoroughly gone through the sidebar, you would know that you only adhered if your woman asks you a direct & specific question. Other than that, she is venting and letting …
/r/askMRP10/08/20 02:57 AM
2

You have to start hitting the sidebar, lifting heavy, and STFUing moving forward.
/r/askMRP09/08/20 09:58 PM
3

How much of the sidebar have you gone through? I'm curious to see your answer to this question since it will allow me to figure out where I can take my answer... Therefore I need options. Options only come when you become a HVM, which will resonate in all areas of your life.
/r/askMRP09/08/20 07:58 PM
1

You certainly need to read WISNIFG and NMMNG. I totally agree with you on this one. The problem most of these guys have is that they will read the books, but fail to internalize the material.
/r/askMRP09/08/20 04:40 AM
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Does she have citizenship? Is this a citizenship play? This is where my head is at after reading this post through a few times; especially, when it comes to the family "adding pressure" to OP for him to go right ahead and wife up one of their family members. This reminds me of a post on this sub a few months back where a guy married up his LTR, who was on a green card/student visa from Mexico for her schooling program, then she bounced on him within a year of getting married. I don't know why, b…
/r/askMRP09/08/20 04:25 AM
5

Just out of curiosity, does your fiancé have PR yet? If not, that would explain a lot of her family pressure to have someone abroad that is married in another country.
/r/askMRP09/08/20 02:46 AM
4

Thank you for your kind words. I do... I recommend reading Dr. Shawn T. Smith's book, The Tactical Guide to Women: How Men Can Manage Risk in Dating and Marriage since he shares a lot of information and research around both the dating & relationship phases. One of the things he talks about in the book is around becoming a better "gatekeeper" when it comes to letting women come into your life. It's a great read with some staggering and mind-opening information around female nature, dating, relati…
/r/askMRP08/08/20 08:01 PM
4

Rian Stone said it best in one if his videos a couple of years back. To paraphrase: "The reason guys have trouble with the 'anger phase' or cannot let go of their anger all has to do with their ego still being (somewhat) attached..." - that's it. It all comes down to ego investment and shedding your ego to move on with it.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/08/20 02:12 AM
3

Hey Scott, how are you doing? Well, after taking a bit of time to go through your post, I have come up with a few things you should take with a grain of salt... Rundown: Women (AWALT) only respond to boundaries to a man they are seeing/in a relationship with whom they respect. Boundaries only come once you have developed and have worked on your frame. DEERing and/or arguing with your wife about whatever BS is not any kind of way to establish boundaries. Women only get the feelz for men who are c…
/r/askMRP04/08/20 05:30 AM
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"If you don't like how it is, you know where the door is". or STFU. Bingo. This is excatly at what I was getting at in my comment. OP never set boundaries from the beginning with his girl, along with her not entering his frame. When guys haven't built up their own framework and path for their life, this is the kind of shit that happens (on the regular).
/r/askMRP03/08/20 06:57 AM
2

This isn’t about the gift. In womanese, she’s saying she regrets her choice picking you as an LTR. As Rich Cooper would say, this is a 'cold harsh truth bomb' - so true.
/r/askMRP03/08/20 01:28 AM
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Plated her for 3 months, made LTR 1 year and 2 months ago Why did you promote her? Three months is not that long of time to vet, set boundaries, and see what she is all about (i.e. interest level, emotional investment, etc.). This is exactly why you have these BS problems since you never set boundaries and your framework during the dating phase. This is all on you... I can almost guarantee you promoted her since you didn't have any other options in the pipeline. Take responsibility next time bef…
/r/askMRP02/08/20 06:35 PM
1

The issue here is that you are signaling to these women that you are a better beta provider compared to their current BPs. You need to fix yourself if this is the only attention you are getting from women. Figure out what you need to change and do it.
/r/askMRP02/08/20 01:06 AM
1

Hahahah!
/r/askMRP01/08/20 12:23 AM
4

Please tell me this is a troll...
/r/askMRP01/08/20 12:17 AM
6

he didn't deserve the effort it took to make. Oh, 10000% he didn't deserve the time and energy from /u/HornsOfApathy!
/r/askMRP01/08/20 12:16 AM
3

Stop whining. No one gives a shit. Start doing the work on yourself, lift heavy, STFU, and hit the sidebar while you are at it.
/r/askMRP31/07/20 11:28 PM
3

This is one of the best comments here, OP. "Embrace it & have fun!"
/r/askMRP31/07/20 05:44 PM
3

Here's the deal... You haven't been doing the following: Lifting heavy (regularly; 4 to 5 times a week) Internalizing the books & material on the sidebar Being social with everyone you meet & learning game (ALL women; not just your wife) Developed frame, your MAP, and your mission (figure it out) Leading your wife (that's why she wants to go to counseling) Texting for logistics only Developing your own style (yeah, your 'haircut'...) It's time to start taking responsibility for your ship and act…
/r/askMRP30/07/20 06:32 PM
0

not lifting yet (hurt my arm + gyms closed due to Covid) These are excuses. You need to read /u/SBIII post on lifting. but cycling 3 times a week Lifting heavy means lifting heavy. Not running, not CrossFit, not spin, not speedwalking, not... doing stomach crunches crunches in your basement. I said fucking lifting. If there is a will, there is a way. Figure out a way to lift heavy (i.e. build your own home gym). Last night I tried to initiate sex, after sitting and chatting a little while, and s…
/r/askMRP28/07/20 09:17 PM
3

Watching TV is not a good option for "something to go do" when spending time with your wife isn't high on your list. I'm glad someone said this since this is something that has come up on this sub a lot in recent time... OP, your wife watches TV for the following reasons: To escape from her life. To escape from you. To escape from the boring monotony of the life you have made for her. Lead her off the sofa, into the gym, and help with her self improvement skills.
/r/askMRP28/07/20 09:12 PM
7

BIL needs to get a good attorney That's what came to my mind too.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/07/20 02:48 AM
2

What does DEER mean? Hit the sidebar.
/r/askMRP26/07/20 05:32 AM
4

Yeah I’ve been using TRP logic for an LTR, and it isn’t really paying off, just making me think more. The MRP sidebar is all you need to have to help build a successful life for yourself (personally & professionally). If you truly want to have success with women, then I highly suggest recommend you go through the books on the sidebar to understand the dynamics of dating, relationships, and female nature. The TRP subs will not help you with anything around 'sexual dynamics', other than guys just …
/r/askMRP25/07/20 09:05 PM
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Hey, first LTR since discovering TRP. Congratulations! We were fwb for a year, started being exclusive a month ago. Why did you promote her to an LTR/relationship? Did she earn it? Did she come to you and ask? Or, did you say to yourself; "Well, I may is well get into a relationship with her!" We see each other once a week, the sex is good and frequent. Once a week is fine if you are dating/plating her. That being said, you decided to get into a relationship with her. That means you have to put …
/r/askMRP25/07/20 08:04 PM
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This comment almost made me spit out my coffee! Soooo true...
/r/askMRP22/07/20 08:33 PM
1

I'm glad this is on Ask... What the fuck is this shit? Tell me why this isn't some concern trolling or circle jerking. I'm glad you said this... I have no fucking clue what's going on here. I don't even know what to say to OP. Fuck, some of these posts...
/r/askMRP22/07/20 08:30 PM
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She lost her virginity at 15 with one guy, then dated another guy for a year, and then dated another guy for 4 years. At the end of the day it doesn't even matter to me what a girls N number is anyways. It doesn't matter; therefore, don't bother asking... Iron Rule of Tomassi #2 doesn't just apply to you, but to her as well. Stop asking.
/r/askMRP21/07/20 12:16 AM
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This is another unicorn circle jerk!
/r/askMRP20/07/20 11:24 PM
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Her n count is 4. Times that by 6.
/r/askMRP20/07/20 11:19 PM
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I'm 36 and have been seeing a 21 year old girl for a few months now. She's hinted at being exclusive and I am considering it. I said this in another comment the other day: "Promotions are earned, not given". Forget the age gap that you are worried about here... The bigger question here is why does she deserve to be promoted from a woman you are dating to someone that you are in a relationship with. A few months is way too short of a timeline to promote a woman to LTR status. Are you spinning pla…
/r/askMRP20/07/20 08:59 PM
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You clearly need to work on yourself and lose your ONEitis for this “girl.” Yup! That's exactly what I was saying. This guy has his very own unicorn! God, I'm so tired of these oneitis unicorn circle jerks...
/r/askMRP20/07/20 05:03 AM
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There is a lot of bullshit to unpack here... Most arguments are solved quickly Hit the sidebar. You do not argue with women. Willing sexually Just an overall quality person in a world of trash people. It sounds like you have oneitis for this unicorn. Gym 3 times a week. Hit the sidebar. You should be lifting a minimum of 4 times a week. She is a high-quality girl, but im definitely scared of remarriage and more kids. Hit the sidebar. There is no such thing as the 'high-quality girl', as they are…
/r/askMRP20/07/20 04:57 AM
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But thanks to oneitis and men being the true romantics, it's easy to forget the fundamentals. Bingo. You're most welcome!
/r/askMRP20/07/20 01:32 AM
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Promotions are earned, not given. I will give you a personal example. Back in April/May, there was a woman who I was in the dating phase (plated) with for close to a year in a half. As time went on, I kept an eye out on what she was like around me, responded to boundaries, how she entered my frame, complimented my life - all of it. I loved spending time with her, but you need time to vet, set boundaries, and see how they act. If you do this properly, it will take year or two to see what she is a…
/r/askMRP20/07/20 12:20 AM
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I’m predicting a branch swing and a divorce within 3 years. She is definitely preparing to jump back onto the cock carousel. As you mentioned, no info on OP whatsoever, which leads me to believe his SMV is low and he has little (to no) frame at all.
/r/askMRP20/07/20 12:06 AM
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The key? Authenticity to who you are. This is such a good point.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/07/20 03:14 AM
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Problem is this wife doesn't respect me at all. She is not your wife, she is a plate. STFU, hit the sidebar, and start lifting heavy.
/r/askMRP16/07/20 07:29 PM
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These are good details... Since then, OP is engaged in "psychological warfare" with her. The fuck? OP raised another dude's three children So, he's a cuck. All of this has "made (him) stronger" No... OP needs to lift heavy, STFU, hit the sidebar, and actually do the fucking work on himself.
/r/askMRP16/07/20 07:26 PM
1

I like this comment - a lot.
/r/askMRP16/07/20 07:13 PM
1

Sounds like you have a snowflake there. Good luck. It's his own, personal unicorn.
/r/askMRP16/07/20 04:28 AM
1

Hahaha, I fucking love your comments /u/johneyapocalypse!
/r/askMRP16/07/20 03:43 AM
3

She is MRPing OP..
/r/askMRP16/07/20 01:37 AM
1

I love this break down /u/SBIII. Excellent detail & effort!
/r/MarriedRedPill16/07/20 12:33 AM
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So much cringe is in this post... This is why promotions are earned from the dating phase to the relationship phase. This woman was/is no more than a plate. Period. Paragraph.
/r/askMRP15/07/20 06:50 PM
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How would I you react to this ? You should leave the house and lift heavy. At the end of the day, who gives a fuck what your wife's friend thinks?
/r/askMRP15/07/20 04:43 PM
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I just came across this comment... This is gold. By the way, I loved your 'Be Social' post!
/r/askMRP13/07/20 01:57 AM
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Thanks for the laugh!
/r/askMRP13/07/20 12:58 AM
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I'm late to this thread, but this is the best comment here, OP.
/r/askMRP12/07/20 07:17 PM
6

If you really want help around this specific situation, you would have provided detailed information on what happened...
/r/askMRP12/07/20 05:01 PM
1

Of course! Yeah, no need for me to add that. I just wanted to point out the fact that OP is one of these idiots blasting out of Walmart with extra tacos.
/r/askMRP12/07/20 02:23 AM
1

That killed me. I bet this guy has a brutal social life, too. It wouldn't surprise me if he is this guy from one of your previous comments in the past, along with one of my favourites on this sub. "Waitresses, bartenders, bar managers, hostesses, and their bosses... all perfect fodder for hooking up and establishing a connection. So fucking connect. They expect every dumbass walking in the door to be blasting out of Walmart with extra tacos, so you show 'em what's up and they're goddamn apprecia…
/r/askMRP12/07/20 12:22 AM
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awareness = mental masturbation
/r/askMRP11/07/20 10:54 PM
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I'm really confused here... You mentioned in your post that you have been 'unplugged' for over three years and have gone through the sidebar two times over. Yet, you are making your wife and your sex life your mission? Give me a fucking break.
/r/askMRP11/07/20 06:32 PM
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If there is no shortcut - then even going through the steps - is it like a self help program and then your just happy and content at some point once you achieve your goals ? Chase Excellence!
/r/askMRP10/07/20 03:03 AM
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Cut out your ego investment bullshit - it's pathetic.
/r/askMRP10/07/20 12:39 AM
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It's a cesspool full of losers...
/r/askMRP09/07/20 07:21 PM
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By lift - do you mean physically lift weights? Yes. Lifting heavy is a requirement, not a suggestion.
/r/askMRP09/07/20 07:18 PM
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Here, have a gold award for this amazing comment /u/SBIII.
/r/askMRP09/07/20 07:08 PM
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Looking for advice... i'm starting a new journey. Hit the sidebar. You are no different than any other guy that comes here. The work is located over there ➡️ .
/r/askMRP09/07/20 05:20 PM
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"Honey, at least I have good taste in women." Excellent response! OP, take notes...
/r/askMRP07/07/20 12:07 AM
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slow clap OP, please save this comment and re-read whenever you feel you are about to relapse in any of the following areas. In addition, you need to start going through the sidebar on a consistent basis. Your progress will only come from working on yourself 'daily'; not once every two weeks. Get your head down.
/r/askMRP01/07/20 06:25 PM
1

Just out of curiosity, how far have you gone through the sidebar; considering, you mentioned that you have been "exposed" to the content?
/r/askMRP01/07/20 05:29 AM
1

Add Rian Stone's YouTube channel to your list.
/r/askMRP30/06/20 08:29 AM
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I also follow a few guys on YouTube Which guys?
/r/askMRP30/06/20 12:25 AM
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'cumtown' - WTF...
/r/askMRP29/06/20 11:53 PM
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the more people flock to those points of view. You are spot on here. Rollo has also mentioned this a few times within the past couple of years, which he happened to be bang on about.
/r/askMRP29/06/20 06:32 AM
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From my understanding, the trp & asktrp subs will be gone tomorrow.
/r/askMRP28/06/20 06:29 PM
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Do what you want The underlying reality here, OP...
/r/askMRP28/06/20 04:01 AM
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One of the best comments I have read on this sub.
/r/askMRP28/06/20 12:56 AM
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No one on that sub takes any of the responsibilities; especially, the pathetic men that post on the sub. Make sure you hit the sidebar!
/r/askMRP27/06/20 02:40 AM
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Good luck. Feel free to reach out if you want any suggestions on other readings and content as well.
/r/askMRP24/06/20 04:45 AM
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Read the divorce advice section on the sidebar. I second this advice, OP. In addition, I would recommend put together a MAP and hit the entire sidebar once you have filed for divorce. You need to start doing the work and preparing for the next chapter of your life: read, hit the sidebar, lift heavy, and STFU.
/r/askMRP24/06/20 04:38 AM
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Not your job to fix her feelings. Work on mastering your own fucking feelings instead. ^ ^ ^ ^ ^ ^ ^ ^
/r/askMRP23/06/20 12:36 AM
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Time to stop excuses and get to work. Lift (today), hit the sidebar (today), and make a MAP (now).
/r/askMRP21/06/20 01:14 AM
1

Was the post on this sub or on the /r/marriedredpill sub?
/r/askMRP20/06/20 10:36 PM
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but you’re probably gonna oneitis and home the next girl that puts your pee-pee in their mouth. This will definitely keep happening to OP until he chooses to unfuck himself.
/r/askMRP20/06/20 07:56 PM
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Thanks for sharing!
/r/askMRP20/06/20 01:07 AM
1

It really comes down to what each man wants out of their life.
/r/askMRP19/06/20 09:08 PM
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Go read WISNIFG. WISNIFG is such a great read. I cannot recommend it enough to guys I know that need that book.
/r/askMRP18/06/20 05:19 AM
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These are excellent videos, Rian! Thanks for putting these together.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/06/20 09:18 PM
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It’s been quiet around here since Covid-19 and we could all use some entertainment. Too true.
/r/askMRP14/06/20 04:27 AM
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You dodged a bullet. Lift, read, and get to work.
/r/askMRP09/06/20 08:52 PM
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A man living in his own frame doesn't get surprised. Bingo.
/r/askMRP08/06/20 06:05 AM
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That is the main reason I steer clear of most of the RP subs (other than askMRP & MRP, which is all about owning your shit) since they end up being in a place where they can play the victim mindset.
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/20 10:34 PM
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RP aware for 4 years. It sounds like you haven't learned anything... With the current gf, she will follow my lead 90% of time, but I’m beginning to doubt myself with how distant she has become. Just because your GF 'follows your lead' most of the time, it does not mean that she enters your frame. How should I proceed with her being distant? Your post can be summed up with the following: "Can I break up with my girlfriend, please?"
/r/askMRP07/06/20 08:01 PM
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and then bark at me like a dog for the rest of the day. This is on you... Your wife clearly doesn't enter your frame, you never set up boundaries with her (early on), and she has no respect for you since you have no respect for yourself.
/r/askMRP07/06/20 05:33 AM
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He's mistaking his bitterness for red pill. That's the problem with a lot of the guys that end up in the space. Instead of focusing on improving their life in all areas (lifting heavy, developing their career, personal life development, etc.), they think it's an area for them to point and sputter and not have any kind of accountability for their life.
/r/RedPillWomen06/06/20 01:18 AM
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Attractive men sleep around, and women are pretty universally turned off by men who are unable to. Have you heard of preselection? That is this guys problem, if you take a look at his post/comment history, he is completely plugged in.
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/20 11:40 PM
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I don't know why you would try and argue with Rian Stone on this topic...
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/20 11:19 PM
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No man wants to pay full price for 50% enthusiasm, so if you're not down to be a slut for this man, at least as much as you were for others, don't waste both your time. Bingo.
/r/RedPillWomen04/06/20 08:00 PM
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