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Boooo I want to witch hunt it’s my right
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 10:28 PM
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Jokes on you I just complimented you. I’m learning😎 didn’t work tho you didn’t seem to like it
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 10:26 PM
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Wait I haven’t figured it out yet anymore tips? You give really good advice
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 10:21 PM
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Woman moment🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 10:17 PM
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Cringe also no where to go from here…thanks?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 10:15 PM
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Patrick thinks I’m pretty🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 10:15 PM
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Smh
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 10:14 PM
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More like Cringe
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 10:08 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/7kb8c1zmfnxe1.jpeg?width=1179&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=2004cecccafb7f553cbd96fded4e2989a028757b Meanwhile
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 10:06 PM
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Damn apparently you can’t call people out by name anymore? Back in my prime there were whole threads about me
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 09:52 PM
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Too whimsical and fun loving
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 01:47 PM
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Dude just discovered empathy
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 01:41 PM
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When I swear to him I’m a lowkey homebody then we get to the bar and the bouncer hugs me and the dj yells “there she is!” before we even order drinks 🥴
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 01:31 PM
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Love it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 01:33 AM
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Depends whose asking
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 10:51 PM
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Some of us love attention. Also I probably wouldn’t take one from someone I’m not at least a little interested in as you usually have to talk to them at least a bit
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 09:09 PM
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lol that’s definitely happened before
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 09:06 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/uvw5yimkr8xe1.jpeg?width=1179&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=3d5bc82acd029037c7de8f74e4cc370b21fc1f51 Somebody in the friend group has to secure the free drinks 🫡🫡
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 08:47 PM
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Well I look like a trans woman in my new passport photos 🙃 I look so manly when I can’t smile
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 03:29 PM
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Yeah I don’t do hookups but I will enjoy the attention heavily
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 07:25 PM
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I mean we’re going to Arizona but yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 07:16 PM
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He’s 23 and in a band he will be fine
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 06:51 PM
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He’s 5 years younger than me and we met at a bar I don’t think he was trying to marry me
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 06:51 PM
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Nah. Just made me realize I wasn’t that into him
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 06:50 PM
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Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 06:48 PM
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One of the reasons the guy I was dating and I broke up was because I’m going on a girls trip and I just did not want to be in a relationship with him while on it 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 06:19 PM
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Oh cmon Just because I’ve failed the last 45 times you thought I was gonna fail this time too
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 02:59 PM
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Yes but when I’m good I’m so good
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 02:46 PM
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I met my ex on ppd and went on a date with another
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 02:44 PM
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I’m a serial dater but I’m not a cheater
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 02:43 PM
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Yeah this one took it pretty rough 😅🙄😥
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 02:42 PM
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The yes is a confirmation not that I’m happy about it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 02:42 PM
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We use eachother 🥺
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 02:41 PM
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YES IM SINGLE AGAIN
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 02:19 PM
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We broke up I’m a serial dater
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 02:13 PM
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Um
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 01:51 PM
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I love them really make me look and act my best
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 01:50 PM
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About that….
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 01:50 PM
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Having a work crush changes everything
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 12:18 PM
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Enjoy the last few moments before you find out
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 10:02 PM
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I don’t discriminate
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 03:48 PM
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<image> I’m listening
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 03:37 PM
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I do think it’s crazy how naturally stronger men are than women. I am 5’10 and thick and while I don’t lift I think im relatively strong for a female from build alone. Was trying to move a planter today and it was just way too heavy no matter what I tried. Random 40 year old skinny same height as me guy walks in offers to help and moves the it in 5 seconds light work no reaction
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 11:28 PM
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Of course
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 01:27 AM
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I only buy brunette Fortnite skins it’s my code of honor
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 11:34 PM
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We’re gonna do some scenic stuff but we aren’t super hikers lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 06:42 PM
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Going on a trip next month with my best friend to Arizona any must dos? We are going all over the state
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 06:33 PM
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We met a few days later and a few times after that and it was fine
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 02:02 PM
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This was years ago and it wasn’t that deep 🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 02:02 PM
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Fr should have put me in my place
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 01:44 PM
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He put a bar we both frequent and met at “Friday night”
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 01:43 PM
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I don’t consider it at all cause it was unintentional genuinely thought he just said that in passing and didn’t want to/forgot
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 12:50 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 12:36 PM
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Perfect plan tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 12:33 PM
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Well we didn’t stay together…we hung out a few times but that was it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 12:26 PM
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We didn’t have plans in my opinion he mentioned something in passing. We ended up going out another time anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 12:23 PM
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That’s fair that would piss me off
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 12:22 PM
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We ended up going out again anyway 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 12:22 PM
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Fr
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 12:21 PM
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Have you ever been stood up for a date? I’ve never stood anyone up but I have had a guy on Tuesday be like “let’s go out Friday” and then he didn’t text me the whole rest of the week so I assumed it wasn’t happening and he texted me “I’m here” and I was like uhhhhhhh
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 12:07 PM
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HEY
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 11:53 AM
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No way the hormones would make me even more of a bitch than I already am
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 11:45 AM
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One baby won’t hurt
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 11:42 AM
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It feels like a great idea in the moment but one of us has to have good judgement
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 11:39 AM
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just pointing out things I find funny
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 11:24 AM
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quality time with your penis 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 11:23 PM
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Well I’m doing my part to remedy
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 11:23 PM
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😱😱😮😲🙊🤯😯😳😨🙀😯😧 me pretending to be suprised every time a man tells me his love language is physical touch
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 10:34 PM
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I have the Watchmen omnibus 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 06:51 PM
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What would be some cool/smart books to have in my office ( I promise I will actually read them) I work in mental health but am in administration so could be either side
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 06:02 PM
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You’re not getting it but that’s okay
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 04:14 PM
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But then I tell him and he says no- read it again
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 12:44 PM
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I’m sure this is a true story and not just hyperbole to have a counter point 🤣 Obviously there’s a balance
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 12:33 PM
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It’s so common and it’s infuriating
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 11:41 AM
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I’ve been on several dates where the man didn’t ask one single thing about me, talked about himself the whole time, then told me he had a wonderful time. It is so annoying- I’ve legit have had a man say to me “I’m not good at asking questions but I’m an open book” like it’s not rocket science ask me the same question I asked you back. Pisses me off to know end and then having the nerve to say they had a great time and felt such a connection when they don’t know one single thing about me it’s so …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 11:15 AM
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it’s hot
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 05:47 PM
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Yes. Kids say shit all the time it’s not that deep of course it’s a good way for him to flirt or something but I really don’t care
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 04:26 PM
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Dry jumping with clothes on is back in style and I’ve said for years it’s so underated for foreplay idc every guy I’ve been with loves it and I’ll die on that hill
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 03:58 PM
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Have you ever gone to a bar by yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 12:37 AM
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I gave up candy for lent and I’m feeling it hard 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 04:00 PM
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Oh I have. Nothings better than a fight before I go out for girls night
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 03:29 AM
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You’re right I should be locked away in my tower
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 02:28 AM
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When the guy who met me drunk at a bar in a little skirt doesn’t want me drunk at a bar in a little skirt
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 01:14 AM
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Fight club
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 01:30 PM
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Well it finally happened The fire alarm in my apartment went off while I was in the shower threw back on my old pajamas and ran outside with my hair in a towel 🥲
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 01:29 PM
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I always do this ✨
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 01:03 PM
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Get a lip flip
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 01:03 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 01:02 PM
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I definitely was in some ways not in others
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 01:26 AM
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I fooled around before then but nope
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 12:46 AM
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I lost my virginity at 22 that’s a good age I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 12:37 AM
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I’ve shared this hack before but my little secret is I always tell my boyfriends that massages get me really turned on. It’s not exactly a lie but it’s mostly just that I love a massage and want him to give me one frequently and it’s really a win win he gets to initiate and I get a massage
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 04:04 PM
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I can see that too
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 01:22 AM
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I got you thanks 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 01:13 AM
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A friendly 7 > a stuck up 10 and I live by that
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 01:09 AM
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What do you mean
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 01:09 AM
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A friendly 7 > a stuck up 10 and I live by that
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 01:01 AM
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Agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 12:27 PM
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Yeah I wouldn’t be caught dead doing that
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 12:27 PM
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I don’t approach but I invite an approach with eye contact body language and smiles. I like to let the man I’m interested in know it will be well received ahead of time but I will make him to the actual act of approaching This has worked best for me in the past and how I met almost all my boyfriends except one who I met online
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 11:57 AM
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4 years I’m 28 and he’s 24
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 09:53 PM
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For the first time in my life I’m dating a guy younger than me
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 09:12 PM
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Wegmans, price chopper, Weis
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 09:12 PM
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I think he means erectile dysfunction
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 04:05 PM
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Get a female therapist and talk about in depth with her as a form of exposure therapy
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 04:04 PM
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Commented something but it’s not worth it. You can never reason with someone who will tell themselves whatever they need to feel better Best of luck!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 04:00 PM
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Nope never not even once never even thought about it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 03:58 PM
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I’ve never done that to a man
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 03:55 PM
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I’m not saying women don’t value looks they absolutely do. But not more than men 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 03:52 PM
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Victim mentality will never help you
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 03:48 PM
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I see fat ugly men partnered all the time you’re so blinded it’s clouding your judgement fr
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 03:43 PM
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My point is woman most likely treat you neutrally and you’re so insecure that you view this as a huge slight. Just like men don’t buy drinks for woman they don’t find attractive in some way…is that being mean? Or is it being neutral
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 03:34 PM
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They’re buying me drinks cause they think I’m attractive and they value that kinda my whole point
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 03:28 PM
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Your own insecurity is projecting onto how you believe others view you
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 03:19 PM
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I’ll agree with this
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 03:18 PM
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Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 01:59 PM
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Maybe with looks
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 01:59 PM
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you should be scared…we’re extremely annoying
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 01:36 PM
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I’d say the same to men
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 01:34 PM
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Spend 10 minutes with my friends and you’ll see how many men we find attractive You’ll be forced to hear about it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 01:30 PM
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Tf I see them all day everyday and I’m dating someone I find very attractive he’s no model but like I’m very attracted to him
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 01:27 PM
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I really can’t believe people will still say women value looks more than men There’s a lot of things you could argue women might value more than men (money,status) but looks really isn’t one of them
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 01:23 PM
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This story isn’t real but either way it’s stupid🤣 Both men and woman value attractiveness alongside other factors which you develop as you grow up and learn in relationships…so yeah you don’t have perfect taste in men when you’re 9 years old and it’s gonna be based on looks cause you’re still learning to be a human- also the average person has a relationship way before 25
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 01:21 PM
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Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 01:19 PM
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Ive never killled anyone just gave them irreversible psychological damage
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 01:15 PM
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I’d say 30% of the time I have a lane to myself
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 02:24 AM
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I love both
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 12:36 AM
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Oh no I feel very intimate with everyone including the old ladies and men that frequent my gym
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 12:24 AM
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Why is sharing a lane with someone swimming laps at the gym so intimate
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 12:15 AM
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Oof im out im a big bitch
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 06:07 PM
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Wow
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 06:07 PM
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Blue collar management
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 06:07 PM
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How it should be
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 06:04 PM
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Godddd why did you make me too tender to marry for money
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 06:03 PM
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Meaning past and present
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 02:43 PM
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Never let him get too comfortable men hate that
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 01:14 PM
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I love starting fights with my boyfriends as a little treat after I’ve been good
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 12:43 PM
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WHAT
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 12:13 AM
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I am in the perfect job in donor relations because I just get off on schmoozing people
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 12:10 AM
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after a espresso martini or two
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 03:02 PM
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When a guy says I’m high maintenance I take that as a compliment cause they lowkey love it
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 02:47 PM
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Where tf do you live
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 09:45 PM
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lololol great idea
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 08:14 PM
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Doing friends and families taxes for 100$ is the easiest side hustle of all time
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 07:40 PM
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🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 11:13 AM
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Oh cmon
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 11:12 AM
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It’s old I just thought it was funny
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 01:45 AM
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Never heard that word until now 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 01:39 AM
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https://preview.redd.it/o7w90n78lqqe1.jpeg?width=1179&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=76ec31217a5f01f38a3eba17c7e331992f0e3d71 Thanks I think
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 01:14 AM
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Never been more confused in my life- i guess it was an insult- or he’s a manwhore joke but id never been there before so I was just so confused
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 11:54 PM
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I don’t have a preference but if a guy is vocal about liking blondes I wanna slit his throat
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 11:49 PM
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Went to a small dive bar on Saturday and they had a open mic night- a comedian came up and the first thing he said was “I’m a regular here…I fucked everyone in this bar…except these two…”and pointed at me and my friend-and everyone laughed then he just continued on
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 11:49 PM
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That’s true
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 04:10 PM
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BUT IM BRUNETTE
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 03:57 PM
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And also I’m brunette so
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 03:57 PM
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Is someone calling you “Barbie” a compliment 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 03:45 PM
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Thank you I appreciate that
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 09:20 PM
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I think 25 is the cutoff
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 05:36 PM
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My brother in Christ you commented
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 05:36 PM
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Think I’m a bit old for that
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 05:34 PM
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WHAT DO YOU WANT ME TO DO
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 05:34 PM
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I ALREADY SAID ITS A RED FLAG
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 05:33 PM
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it’s good for me cause my bf always is willing to pick me up from the bar
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 05:31 PM
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Me
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 05:29 PM
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My red flag is I have like no sex drive unless I’ve had one sip of alcohol and then I’m a star
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 05:28 PM
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NY gal when I had bumble I had over 4000 likes
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 02:48 PM
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I dated a guy who was in the army and he told me he fucked up his shoulder so bad I had to be on top everytime Dude still went to the gym everyday tho
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 02:46 PM
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I’m taking golf lessons so I can stun everyone at my works golf tournament
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 11:44 PM
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Lololololol omg that’s brutal
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 07:45 PM
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Well I’m in a relationship now but it has happened a few times where I thought we didn’t click at all and then I get that text
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 07:15 PM
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Nothings worse than going on the most mediocre date of your life and getting that “tonight was amazing I’d love to see you again” text My brother in Christ you didn’t ask me a single question
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 07:11 PM
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This is so true
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 07:10 PM
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Snapchat be like “special moments” and it’s just me on a bender
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 03:52 PM
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lol yeah im not really intimidated physically by most men I do know that most can physically take me no matter how big I am but I also like don’t feel as worried as if I were petite or something
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 03:39 PM
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Around 190 -I’m thick trying to lose tho
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 03:33 PM
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I’m not at all but I wouldn’t be physically intimidated by any lower but I’m also 5’10 myself
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 03:05 PM
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5’10 vibes
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 02:47 PM
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I feel unprofessional if I don’t have my hair nails and makeup done it’s just the way it is
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 01:25 AM
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Seeing it today
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 02:54 PM
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When he says the dress is too short but it’s the one he literally met me in 🤔🤨🧐
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 02:54 PM
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Fingers crossed
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 11:13 PM
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My boss and I are ready to hit the town after a week long conference as two retired party girls anything can happen
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 11:06 PM
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Take it or leave it
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 01:23 AM
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Thank you I work hard and my job is really important to me as well
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 09:37 PM
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85k
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 09:35 PM
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I’m not sure not especially that I’ve noticed but I’ve heard that too
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 09:34 PM
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Should be Any day now
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 09:34 PM
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Operations for a non profit
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 09:23 PM
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too accurate
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 09:13 PM
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Yeah I know it’s embarassing
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 09:02 PM
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Too accurate
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 08:59 PM
1

Usually not explicit in my experience but at these it’s acceptable to just ask lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 08:56 PM
3

Work conferences are the horniest events on the planet. I’ve never been explicitly propositioned more in my life Just an unwritten rule that everyone is banging I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 08:45 PM
2

Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 04:01 PM
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This girls that always want you to kiss their boyfriend cause they think it’s funny or something what is that about
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 10:12 PM
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Just a regular profile. Both photos im at wrestling events so it’s not that unheard of I just felt like bragging and I do think it’s cool🥹
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 03:08 AM
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You’re not a whore
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 03:06 AM
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Proud to report as of today two professional wrestlers have liked my photos on Instagram 🏆
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 02:56 AM
1

Tf I love validation from anyone hahah no shame here
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 01:52 PM
2

I save money, and the guy clearly thinks we’re attractive which always feels good
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 02:31 AM
2

It feels great
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 02:07 AM
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Yes I always do this with guy friends. Also depending on the guy if he’s balling out I’ll be like how about around so he buys all my friends with me a drink hahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 01:28 AM
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I’ve gotten an oil change for free before as well
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 12:50 AM
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He was just an old rich guy tbh but ya I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 12:50 AM
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Last night I went out for a friends birthday and we racked up over a 200$ tab and some guy at the bar just paid it for us I love being a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 12:46 AM
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Hokas
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 07:17 PM
1

Why are men so obsessed with getting nudes from women they like when there’s so much porn and nudes available like just google it or something leave me alone
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 02:31 PM
1

Agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 12:39 AM
1

I’m catholic so unfortunately I’ve done shit like this before
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 11:59 PM
2

Idk guess I’m built different
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 11:17 PM
2

I love Applebees and Olive Garden smh
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 11:16 PM
2

I prefer a coffee date to dinner a lot of the time. I don’t even know if I like you yet
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 11:13 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/hw07kfhidlie1.jpeg?width=828&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=0f1517ad43241c7b23c1957a51a1ec41650dc234 Nos for me would be your house(specific exceptions), fast food chain, the gym(specific exceptions),family functions, and hookah bar but I think that’s it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 11:10 PM
1

Hell YEA
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 05:12 PM
1

I’ll check it out thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 05:12 PM
1

he works in IT so he can get flirted with
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 05:00 PM
1

Sure
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 05:00 PM
1

I don’t I love men lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 05:00 PM
1

I’m not addicted bro I just like to have it to sleep and wake up and work and before meals
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 02:58 PM
1

And it makes you lazy 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 02:58 PM
1

he understands how important not having to put in a second ticket is to me
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 02:58 PM
2

Lololol men are simple creatures What was the Funko pop
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 02:46 PM
1

Yes definitley. Many times it just doesn’t appeal to me
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 02:45 PM
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Flirting with my works IT guys so I don’t have to put in a seperate ticket ✨
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 02:39 PM
1

Coughs and gets paranoid
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 02:35 PM
1

I don’t want it 😩
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 02:29 PM
1

Whatever floats your boat
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 02:28 PM
2

Fair we all have some give and take…I wouldn’t say it’s a deal breaker but definitely something I don’t find attractive. So many guys think smoking together is a date like I’m actually all set on that
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 02:23 PM
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Smoking weed is a huge turn off to me Idc
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 02:19 PM
2

Hahahahaha GUILTY LOCK ME UP
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 02:18 PM
1

Ahh you’re right hanging out with the same people on a regular basis is very childish and not how friendships work
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 04:01 AM
1

If you don’t have a robust friend group just say that
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 12:08 AM
1

I’m 28
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 11:31 PM
1

I have a group of friends that’s mixed gender. I’d say thats pretty normal
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 11:10 PM
1

Me and you go way back actually
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 11:01 PM
1

I’m Italian and a new Yorker
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 11:00 PM
1

Is that a callback to my old Reddit days or a crazy coincidence. I don’t have bpd by the way no matter what anyone on Reddit says
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 09:16 PM
2

Yeah I’m slightly annoyed- I genuinely can understand if there’s a history there but it’s legitimately nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 08:57 PM
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Male friends new girlfriend said he doesn’t want him hanging out with me anymore. Never had any romantic involvement of any kind and rarely hang out 1 on 1 but in a group setting I told my friend to just say we’re cousins next time fr
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 08:46 PM
1

Wooooooooo
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 08:44 PM
1

Wooooooo 💍
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 08:44 PM
1

It’s not ✨
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 08:44 PM
5

Men LOVE crazy women idc
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 08:39 PM
1

Men love crazy women wym
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 08:38 PM
1

Try not too but ya know unintentionally I’m sure
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 08:38 PM
1

I just like want to control the situation to my benefit
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 08:26 PM
1

Do hot people have to be manipulative? Thought they just got what they wanted
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 08:26 PM
1

Controlling situations for my benefit
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 08:24 PM
2

I just see a situation and do what I can to control it
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 08:24 PM
2

Charge they phone
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 08:23 PM
2

I can’t stop being manipulative no matter how hard I try
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 08:14 PM
1

Cold obv
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 03:28 PM
2

Feel that way about oatmeal fr
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 08:44 PM
1

Before he was married
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 04:55 AM
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I didn’t talk to him lol he said “hey what’s up” and I didn’t answer
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 12:23 AM
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Dude I used to have a flirtation with that’s married just sent me “hey what’s up” I read it and didn’t respond he then unsent the message and said he meant to send it to his friend Oliver 🤣 Okay dude
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 12:15 AM
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No I don’t mind getting cat called at all as long it’s not too extreme or like someone follows me or something
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 02:06 PM
1

Impulsively buying tickets to elimination chamber because I can ☺️
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 03:28 PM
1

I’m having a party🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 03:30 AM
1

I’ve been a perfect angel but at 12:01 😈
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 03:07 AM
1

A minor test of strength
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 03:07 AM
2

Pour me a drank
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 03:06 AM
2

Dry January it’s been real but
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 02:00 AM
1

Lolol too funny
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 07:38 PM
1

I’m Back lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 07:33 PM
1

White
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 07:33 PM
1

If I had a won for everytime a Korean man asked me if I was Russian which is code for prostitute I could host my own squid games
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 05:22 PM
1

Relatable
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 08:26 PM
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I would say more that they may not be as aware of how it’s making people uncomfortable or if it’s inappropriate for the situation. Like I’m very outspoken and love to argue but there’s plenty of scenarios where I’m reading the room like hmm better not I’d think neurotypical people might not be as aware when people are trying to disengage so it comes off as argumentative Just a thought
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 02:43 PM
1

PLEASE ASK ME ahhh comment
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 02:04 PM
2

No just nice
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 03:18 AM
1

Recruiting the guys snowplowing my apartment complex parking lot to carry in my big ass bed frame and mattress up 3 floors I love being a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 03:14 AM
1

The US postal service is my favorite special interest I’ve seen
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 05:55 PM
1

Nothing yet but it’s still early
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 05:54 PM
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I don’t care as long as it’s not crazy. I’m 5’10 so a lot of guys I’ve dated or been interested in have been about my height or a little shorter/little taller. Not a huge deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 05:51 PM
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If I had a nickel for every time a vendor has come to my work and I gave them my cell phone in case they needed anything, then they added me on Snapchat from the people you may know that night and sent me “hey nice meeting you” id have 2 nickels
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 09:47 PM
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Agreed- nothing like a trip abroad when you need some attention. I’m going to iceland in May and Hawaii in October. Then I’ll probably go back and forth between ny and South Korea a few times. Where are you going
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 02:47 PM
2

She just like me fr
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 02:41 PM
1

What country are you in, expectations by age are very culturally influenced? I’m sure you’re doing just fine
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 02:37 PM
1

I always like to do the cooking 💪🏼
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 01:05 AM
1

Yes that’s only gonna be problems
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 01:05 AM
2

20-50 but very situational
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 01:03 AM
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Depends on the situation. But they are extreme either way in my experiences Men who are trying to date you are super respectful and by the book and traditional and want to marry you after 3 dates, dudes who are trying to bang you are extremely forward and will not give it a rest. I also got roofied in Korea lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 11:16 PM
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Me when I first moved to Korea- wow these men are so nice they all want to help me practice me Korean and help me run errands Me soon after: Oh
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 11:11 PM
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https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTYcaNvwU/ Still accurate and I rounded down 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 08:14 PM
2

I have skin color and black ones☺️
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 05:47 PM
1

I wear mine like 3 times a week- my fav
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 05:15 PM
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Ooo I bought Hogwarts legacy, I have never played any final fantasy and only know a few characters from smash but someone else told me I should play that so maybe I willl Ps I really did think it’s relevant to the game seeing as it’s two player but I am happy 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 04:44 AM
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I’ll take any suggestions I just got a ps5
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 04:35 AM
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Biggest problem I see is people (mostly women just from my own friends) who have casual sex and say they’re okay with it but are actually absolutely hoping and praying it turns into more. If you are honest with yourself that you want casual than that’s great- but I’ve seen so many people hurt because they really think it’s gonna turn into more tho they’ve said a million times they’re okay keeping it casual
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 04:24 AM
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https://youtu.be/1-MM1UTtjyU?si=H6MCfHjOmw2EItTU
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 04:21 AM
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https://youtu.be/1-MM1UTtjyU?si=H6MCfHjOmw2EItTU
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 04:21 AM
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I know but lowkey love the drama that’s why I posted again
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 04:20 AM
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I’m playing it’s take two right now as well- I just got a ps5 for Christmas i only had a switch for a while. I had played a way out a long time ago which is also really fun but I like it takes two more so far
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 04:19 AM
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I would
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 04:16 AM
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Hops on to talk about a fun game I got for Christmas I thought people would have an interesting gender roles point of view on- instant regret 😅 This is the game btw https://youtu.be/1-MM1UTtjyU?si=H6MCfHjOmw2EItTU
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 04:16 AM
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Try the game out it’s super fun!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 04:14 AM
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No worries I just deleted it- try the game tho it’s super fun!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 04:13 AM
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Yes I’d say so- I felt I was better at reading the hefty amount of information and telling him what was most useful and then getting his feedback and looking for more information than trying to follow the directions or visualize what he was telling me to do tactile wise
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 04:11 AM
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There I changed it to friend for your comfort
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 04:05 AM
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My boyfriend and I played this game called keep talking and nobody explodes. One of you has to diffuse a complicated bomb on a video game and the other has the directions on diffusing but can’t actually see the bomb so you’re trying to walk them through it Really showed so much of our communication styles and it totally was eye opening. We tried both him giving the directions and me giving the directions and it was much better with me giving the directions and him doing the diffusing which I thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 04:03 AM
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Neither - he has like 6 properties in our hometown He also is technically a real estate agent but doesn’t do listings often but he could
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 11:16 PM
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Property manager yes lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 11:10 PM
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I care more about the ethical ramifications of being a landlord I swear 😤
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 11:10 PM
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Guy I’m seeing when we first met: yeah I like own several properties and I manage them and the tenants Me: so uhhh a landlord
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 10:51 PM
1

Yes sir 🫡
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 01:21 PM
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Working in corporate now…I feel totally unprofessional if I don’t have my hair and makeup down- I used to just do it when I felt like but now I do it everyday for work and deff notice a different in treatment
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 01:15 PM
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Lolol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 12:44 PM
0

Thank you king just explaining what prompted the statement
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 03:51 PM
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I just saw someone post about it but okay
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 03:40 PM
1

I know you are but what am I
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 03:38 PM
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I am lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 02:47 PM
1

I just said it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 02:47 PM
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A person is entitled to to want what they want doesn’t mean they are gonna get it Big fat ugly husband with hot wife is a huge trope in movies and tv…I’d say the same thing to a woman look in the mirror
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 02:38 PM
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I’d say the same thing to a woman. I’m bmi 27.7 and I’d never say my man has to be skinny or fit or anything- I actually do not care as long as I’m attracted to them
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 02:37 PM
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Everyone is entitled to want what they want…but you have to admit it is funny when an overweight guys says he could never date a fat woman like look in the mirror bro
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 02:30 PM
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Interesting 🤨
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 01:05 AM
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No no he wouldn’t do that it was another girl of course lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 12:37 AM
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Also I met and dated a guy from this sub for almost two years it was a whole thing I took a break for a long time cause there was a scandal~ where I got doxxed( not really my Instagram was shared) but yeah now I’m much more casual
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 12:19 AM
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I’m 5’10 and 193lbs but I’m trying to lose weight
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 12:18 AM
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I’m deff higher than that I think but whatever you want to imagine Me and this sub go wayyyy back There was a time I was the most famous name on here then there was this whole thing and then I came back cause I’m an addict
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 12:12 AM
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lol I mean obviously yeah they could just be into just seems really common where a man specifically into fitness is specifically into chubbier women which I find ironic and was just curious Source: I’m a chubby woman
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 12:11 AM
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Lolol yes I had this thought too
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 11:48 PM
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Idk man I have a pretty different experience
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 11:46 PM
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I love that for me
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 11:13 PM
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It seems like many buff gym rats like thick/not fit women…not even like average either but like chubby….are they just settling?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 11:10 PM
1

Meh dlc didn’t do it for me 1 wasn’t my fav
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 02:45 PM
1

Literally same I was like dude that’s not a selling point at all
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 02:04 PM
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Animalities just came out btw
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 02:04 PM
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That’s fair like I know guys cream their pants when a girl plays video games or hunts or fishes but that does not translate well the other way, a man who is into the girly stuff I like is a huge turnoff lmak
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 12:58 PM
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that’s so funny to picture- literally making a hinge This made me actually lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 12:55 PM
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He definitley doesn’t mind her- my point was he thought that would be a big selling point for him which I just don’t think is realistic
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 12:48 PM
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OH GROW UP
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 12:42 PM
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Last night I was talking with my friend as he was making a hinge…. Him: I’m gonna put I love chappel roan cause I swear all the girls love her Me: well girls don’t necessarily need you to like what they like they’d probably prefer you like manly interests Him: what do you mean? Me: it’s not really attractive or necessary that a guy like what I like…I’d prefer him have his own more manly interests than just saying he likes what I like Him: that doesn’t make any sense Can someone explain this bett…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 12:40 PM
2

Yes it was!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 05:10 PM
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lol good
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 05:09 PM
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Had to drive two hours with a coworker for a meeting. He put on a podcast where people call in and have like familial/relationship problems and the guy calling was talking about how his wife sucks and she’s mean and naggy and he likes a woman at work who is nice and understanding and he’s afraid he’s gonna cheat - is this him shooting his shot 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 04:54 PM
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Sorry babe I can’t go out tonight- the mortal kombat animalities just came out and I have to autistically do them all in order
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 10:54 PM
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Oh hell yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 12:20 PM
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That might be worth it playa
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 05:25 PM
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it would heavily depend how it fits into your/our life but it could potentially be a dealbreaker for me for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 05:21 PM
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lol cold take that’s a new one- I agree but there are plenty of people who enjoy weed culture and do not find heavy usage a turnoff
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 05:18 PM
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Honestly I’ll smoke occasionally or do an edible with friends but why is it so normalized to NEED POT the second you wake up to the second you fall asleep
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 05:17 PM
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Giving me a drunk cig is like giving a mouse a cookie
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 05:16 PM
9

IMO being a pothead is unattractive
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 05:14 PM
0

lol I hope it’s undercover boss
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 06:14 PM
1

I know- she’s like telling her self it could just be like him being fun but I’m like hmmmm
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 06:13 PM
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lol yea my instinct is he has a wife and doesn’t want my friend looking him up lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 06:10 PM
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lol maybe we’re just two chicks but whatever I’m gonna thinking he just has a wife and doesn’t want my friend looking him up lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 06:10 PM
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Asking for a friend- is there any not nefarious reason for someone to give you fake name in the bar 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 05:57 PM
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Yes I agree they’re kinda different just cause of the amount of time you can do them. If your hobby is working out I feel like working out 3 hours a day is like A LOT- 3 hours of a video games is light work lol and same with tv/movies/reading/doom scrolling I still think it’s an interest/hobby but it’s kinda of in a different tier like a entertainment hobby as opposed to a creative or physical hobby
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 02:57 PM
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I’m not above paying someone on fiver 10 bucks to make/fix a spreadsheet for me 😬
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 11:32 AM
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Well I have to give him positive feedback because I want to encourage him to continue to make gestures 💁🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 02:43 AM
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I just said thank you so much exc but made a joke I was gonna go to the gym extra tomorrow or something. But I might bring it back up at some point casually if it makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 02:25 AM
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5’10
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 02:19 AM
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you rock-I kinda did this but will probably have a further convo about it just to reitorate and bring up some of the points you said about other options and things I can do as well :)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 02:19 AM
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Lmaoooooo that would be hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 02:16 AM
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Are you a newyorkaaaa this just might work
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 02:13 AM
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Yes I’m tall and thick- I’ve been losing weight over the last few months. It is the perfect trap I happily ate it 🤦🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 02:13 AM
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Probably a little of both
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 01:59 AM
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When the guy I’m dating knows I’m in the process of losing weight and yet door dashes me cold stone creamery without telling me until it’s at my door 😐😐 how to respectfully be like don’t do that again but I appreciate the romantic gesture??
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 01:47 AM
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One time I was like 15 and something (dumb I’m sure) happened and I was crying and I said “ugh it’s so hard being me” and my dad said “but you’re so good at it” Could definitley work if you want to flirty or joke back 🤷🏻‍♀️ Ps I love my dad 🥺
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 01:43 AM
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Oh like jäger
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 01:37 AM
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Not really-I’m just joking because I dated one guy I met on Reddit. It wasn’t intentional tho we just hit it off
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 11:24 PM
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Oh come one it’s the 21st century!! Free love
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 11:11 PM
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I’m special
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 11:06 PM
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lol no I don’t even use hinge often tho I did date a guy from there for a bit and he was great. I just wanted to ruffle a few feathers
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 11:03 PM
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I’ve never used tinder only bumble hinge and reddit of course
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 11:01 PM
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Yes between you and me I think it’s a good idea and I’m a lover girl so I always have blinders for the guy I’m dating but I just wanted to ruffle some feathers. I met the last guy I dated on hinge and he was great. Just wasn’t meant to be long term
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 11:01 PM
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It’s alright I’m on the phone with hinge should be taken care of soon
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 10:57 PM
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Yes it’s new but im on the phone with hinge right now so it should be reversed soon
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 10:55 PM
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https://youtu.be/VM3uXu1Dq4c?si=eNlIzu4VB6OXp9p9
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 10:54 PM
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They need time bump that number up
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 10:50 PM
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I’m built different
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 10:50 PM
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😐 no comment
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 10:47 PM
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Ugh did you see hinge only lets you have 8 open conversations at a time LAME
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 10:45 PM
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as a woman peacocking is my FAVORITE pua technique for a night out I always wear something a little silly/crazy like a funky wig, face stamps, fun outfit because it gives men an easy low stakes Ice breaker to talk to me Then I can either just take the compliment and move on if I’m bit interested or banter a bit if I’m feeling flirty.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 10:43 PM
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True I’ll happily oblige
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 09:39 PM
0

I’ll do whatever I want! Hope this helps
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 06:48 PM
1

Me too..but I love reliving it
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 05:54 PM
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Need me some of them. Mine are always like so where we going after this 😀 Like my brother in Christ you bought me one drink
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 05:06 PM
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Obviously I’m just picturing like in a bar guys my own age are a little more like strategic with the drink buying attention, talking, and expect more reciprocity while as older men are like here’s 20 drinks gals you’re so hot take my money
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 05:00 PM
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Fair enough I’m just picturing the old men who think I’m cute and by me drinks all night and worship me even tho it’s obvious to everyone else but them they’re being used. But maybe they just don’t care
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 05:00 PM
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0$ just Dr Pepper and stern reflection for me at this time
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 04:53 PM
46

Side note ironically I find older men easier to manipulate than younger men
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 04:37 PM
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I mean it’s probably a little bit that but mostly just that they are hotter
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 03:57 PM
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The plane ride post vacation bender alone with your thoughts reflection on the debauchery is a must have for me
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 03:55 PM
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So fun. I studied abroad her so I have some friends and it’s been so fun catching up and meeting new people. I met a few people the first night and we’ve gotten drinks again
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 10:49 PM
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God this England trip has been such a blast idk if it’s cause I’m American or I’ve lost weight recently but I’ve never felt more confident and sexy and I’ve met so many people
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 10:44 PM
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Met a guy at the bar tonight- totally hit it off_ 100% only problem in 27 and he’s 20 I feel like a predator I didn’t know until after
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 11:22 PM
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England bender commencing
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 07:18 PM
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Nah just waiting to board lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 09:38 PM
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Four beers was not the move before my red eye flight to England
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 09:16 PM
2

Agreed it’s not my favorite 😐
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 01:26 PM
2

My new gym has a coed sauna 😵‍💫
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 01:11 PM
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I’m a notary, so it’s pretty easy for us to whip up a legal document quickly
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 01:07 PM
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If you can do self employment that’s great. I dabble a little bit in that as I write IEPs and life plans for people with disabilities on the side and I do like making my own hours and all that
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 07:23 PM
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To be fair my manager rocks and I also think imma good manager. We work in mental health so there’s a big emphasis on work life balance/ trauma informed care exc. but yeah I’m sure there’s some stinky positions out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 07:22 PM
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idk I was worked to the bone teaching I much prefer office life but I’m sure like anything there’s good positions and bad- I’m in operations
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 07:14 PM
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Absolutley. Don’t be stubborn is the lesson here- sometimes when people claim they know you and what you’d like- they’re right :)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 07:13 PM
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It is a legitimate hobby but is much more pervasive and easier to do for long periods of time than other hobbies. It’s all about balance. I think working out is an attractive hobby but if a guy did it 6 hours a day I would think that’s too much and taking time from other things he or we could be doing It’s hard to work out 6 hours a day it’s quite easy to play video games 6 hours a day (ask me how I know lol) Anything in excess is a problem. If my bf unwinds with video games for an hour or two a…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 07:12 PM
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My ex boyfriend wanted me to get a corporate job and get my mba but I fought against it so hard cause I’m a bleeding heart and was doing volunteer work, teaching, and library work and swore I would hate corporate life We broke and now I have a corporate job that’s paying for me to get my MBA and I love it. Life is weird
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 07:08 PM
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Lol so dumb “Sorry I’ve dated enough brown people I’ve actually met my quota”
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 05:15 PM
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I don’t intentionally go for any race but my dating history tells a story lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 05:09 PM
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I’m ruining FAMILIES
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 05:02 PM
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I have a type
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 05:01 PM
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Ugh this must be it
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 04:58 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 04:51 PM
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If I had a nickel for every time I dated a brown guy in college whose parents swore I was corrupting their son even though he was drinking and having premarital sex LONG before he met me I’d have two nickels🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 01:42 PM
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I fear this would work on me
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 01:42 PM
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Yeah I mean I do know women who actually care. I don’t- but me and my best friend do joke about it as we both have bad exs that are aquariuses. But if a guy at a bar told me he was Aquarius I’d be like “get away from me” but in a flirty way
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 12:10 PM
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No it’s usually pretty hot probably from a biological level
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 11:59 AM
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To be fair I don’t really believe in it but it is a fun ice breaker that allows you to be flirty I’ll always say like “oooo I think we’re compatible” or something but I do know some girls take it seriously
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 11:57 AM
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Lmao I frequented there as well
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 01:53 AM
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When the breakup subs are no longer in your “communities your active in” on Reddit 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 11:02 PM
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Lol will you do it for me
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 09:39 PM
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I think it’s more like an “it can’t hurt” thing on her end but I told her she’s a lil retarded
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 06:55 PM
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My best friend paid a witch on etsy to do a love spell for her lmfao- she sent her a video using her name and everything- I’ll keep you posted on if it works🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 06:48 PM
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Losing weight has been the single most life changing thing I’ve ever done. It’s been a hard 7/8 months but it’s so worth it. Kudos to you!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 06:42 PM
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Interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 03:56 PM
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Ahhh yes this could be. Seems a bit fake tho or at least exaggerated
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 03:42 PM
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Probably that one girl always talking about her boyfriend and how he’s perfect Or I could just be bitter both equally plausible
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 03:34 PM
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Could have said my former name but it might be still banned lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 02:18 PM
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Golfing for the first time ever besides mini and top golf in my life at a huge tournament with my work Wish me luck 🤡
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 01:41 PM
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Don’t care
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 11:19 AM
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Lol no worries it’s just funny
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 01:22 AM
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Never confirmed mostly theorized by people on here lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 12:53 AM
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Yeah I’d don’t really DUMP him as it was just a few weeks and we kinda just agreed timing wasn’t right- but still it was just happen CHANVE we started talking again. I was happy tho
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 12:36 AM
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Lol sorry- ummm probably since my ex we broke up in September. I dated another guy for a while but it was similar I never felt too strongly for him and we ended up saying we’d be better as friends. Then I dated this guy. 2 since February neither serious (didn’t sleep with either) both just in the getting to know you dating phase- but didn’t feel the intense way I usually am with guys with either of them
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 11:54 PM
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Yeah I’m not sure. Not necessarily settling because I do like him and feel a lot of potential- it’s hard to tell if this is just my new emotional style since I have been doing some HEAVY self work since my breakup- or if it is settling
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 11:52 PM
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This is kinda my fear- I really don’t mind being “alone” I have a really healthy friend group and busy work life but obv that’s not the same as romantic connection. I definitley feel SOMETHING toward him but it just feels different. Like not intense? But I fear this could be the case like am I subconsciously telling myself I should settle
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 11:51 PM
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Fair enough- unfortunately that may be it. I’m just usually much more boy crazy and haven’t felt that way for a while- wasn’t sure if that’s growth or just something else lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 11:46 PM
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I’m not quite sure to be honest
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 11:46 PM
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Is it fair to say I’m not sure
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 11:45 PM
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Thoughts on dating a guy you don’t have super intense feelings for? Went out to a bar in March- rugby team was having a party thing met a guy went on a several dates things were nice, he’s cool, fun, I think he’s attractive I ended up cooling things down as I didn’t feel over a bad breakup- he was understanding Saw him a week or two ago at the same bar we reconnected been talking, we discussed trying again- I like him- attracted to him, definitely can see potential, but don’t have as intense fee…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 11:35 PM
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I don’t think not having a name is anymore disrespectful than calling everyone Stacy. I think it’s just a pop culture thing and isn’t that deep. I don’t know I don’t have that type of style but I can see it being an issue like men just wanting you for that style and not really caring much deeper. It is what it is tho
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 03:51 PM
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Big tiddie goth gf is a phrase I hear a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 03:42 PM
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Bachelorette party in Nashville last weekend. It was a great time. LOTS of woman around on their worst behavior if that’s your thing. I might like Nashville more than vegas and deff more than miami. But New Orleans is still my fav party city by a mile
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 03:32 PM
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Don’t really care about porn. Probably wouldn’t love my bf subscribing to an only fans- just seems too personal. But in general I think it’s pretty healthy. But if my boyfriend would rather watch porn than have sex with me that would bother me. If it’s just supplemental I kinda feel indifferent and I also take part on occasion.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 03:31 PM
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I’m scared it’s too hard lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 01:17 PM
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That’s me with Skyrim. I have like 100 hours logged and never touch the story. I just get married and learn magic …woman moment
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 01:16 PM
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any other games I should play while I have it?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 01:11 PM
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I finished mafia 3 and ghost of Tsushima, idk if I can do the other ones I give it back august 16th lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 01:09 PM
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Mafia 3, red dead 2, ghost of tshushima, cyberpunk and baldurs gate are what I’ve been playing
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 01:03 PM
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My friend let me borrow his ps5 while he’s at camp and I’ve been cranking through all the games I never got to play 😀😀 i thought about buying one, I have a well paying job now, but I feel like my addictive personality is better of just going hard a few times a year lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 12:58 PM
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sometimes it really isn’t you it’s them. I didn’t believe that stupid line until I basically used it myself. People have millions of reasons to break up and a lot of times they are situational and not because you did anything wrong. And sometimes it is you and it just wasn’t meant to be. You reevaluate where you may have went wrong and try to be better. you think you won’t be okay but you totally will. Ask me how I know hahah
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 12:56 PM
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Well two of my best friends (I went to wrestlemania with them) are guys so I couldn’t be a hypocrite but I’ve never so much as kissed either one we are childhood friends so I view that much different
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 08:28 PM
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I wouldn’t care caveat being that they’ve never been romantically or sexually involved before. I really can’t do the we used to sleep together but now we’re just friends- but I have childhood friends who I’m still close with the opposite sex no biggie. Would be situational for me
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 08:18 PM
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Good for him
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 06:18 AM
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Yup!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 02:58 AM
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Facts
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 02:05 AM
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Guess you missed the part where I said everything else in my life was going great I just wasn’t ready to date yet- far from “falling apart” But I’m happy to be of service fitting your narrative!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 02:02 AM
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okay!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 02:00 AM
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Yeah. Kinda felt like I was being kinder to him by doing that instead of pretending to be into him and being a loveless inauthentic relationship. But leave it to ppd to think that’s crazy lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 02:00 AM
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Had a rough day. Told the guy I’ve been casually dating that even tho I thought I was ready I’m still healing from my ex and not ready for anything serious. This is twice now. Two good guys who didn’t deserve that honestly. Truly need to work on myself for a while before I seek out dating
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 12:39 AM
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Can’t relate me and my best friend go out a few times a month just us two and mingle with loads of people. There’s always people looking to chat with the opposite sex imo Are you in a city or rural?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 03:24 PM
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MAYBE😅😅
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 01:28 PM
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We were just chatting and he said you seem like a daddy’s girl am I right
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 01:23 PM
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Guy at the bar last night said I seemed like a daddy’s girl lmfao I am a daddy’s girl but not sure if that was a compliment or an insult 🤨
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 01:18 PM
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Cause
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 06:33 AM
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Yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 02:47 AM
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That’s me lmao that’s the picture he wrote that comment on
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 02:35 AM
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No boyfriend but I’ve been dating casually
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 02:21 AM
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Nope he sent this message when he liked me I haven’t liked him back yet
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 02:20 AM
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Ehh not really but I’ll say hi
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 01:51 AM
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This was his opener
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 01:46 AM
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Liked me on hinge and this is the message lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 01:39 AM
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https://preview.redd.it/jx0pnjqrlcuc1.jpeg?width=750&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=fa428a20f519ee27122ef97b0cc92cbd7d614667 I don’t believe you
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 01:31 AM
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😩
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 12:08 PM
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When someone says you need mental health help so they send you resources. Probably cause I was being dumb on your post lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 12:07 PM
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I’ve been back on Reddit for like 12 mins and I already got a Reddit cares :/
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 11:56 AM
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Yeah me either
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 11:39 AM
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Ugh I gotta work a few hours today for an event and this is my first salary job so it feels like it’s for nothing extra :(
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 11:22 AM
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Makes perfect sense
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 11:19 AM
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Yeah I mean I see probably 1-3 movies a week depending
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 03:15 PM
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Ya 21.99 a month unlimited movies
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 03:09 PM
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I’d be fine that if it wasn’t over 50% of the movie
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 02:43 PM
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I don’t resent him for having that history , but it’s not something I necessarily want to talk or know about in intimate detail. If he respects that- I’m cool. If he doesn’t I’d probably end it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 02:39 PM
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I have regal unlimited so I see like every movie that comes out lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 02:37 PM
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Nope but you can notarize for your employer
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 02:32 PM
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No. I don’t care. then again I’ve never seen extreme either way- every guy I’ve been with has been “normal” I would say. I’d say circumcised vs uncircumcised was more of an adjustment for me but neither was bad at all, just different.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 02:30 PM
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I’ve seen both. Obviously I’d go monkey man but I don’t have the nostalgia for Godzilla and kong that you do. After Godzilla minus one the other ones only disappoint. In GVK the human parts and dialogue are pretty terrible imo. But my buddy who loves Kong liked it a lot so you can’t go wrong. If you want to “shut off your brain” for a few hours I’d go GVK but if you want something interesting and exciting I’d go monkey man.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 02:28 PM
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That’s pretty much the process. US govt is like Promise you’ll be good 🥺🥺👉🏼👈🏼
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 02:23 PM
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No one thinks that. I chose a woman dominated field and I make less money life goes on. I make the same as men in the same role as me. If I didn’t I’d wonder why, same as I’d wonder why if another woman had the same role as me but made more.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 02:00 PM
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I just became a notary public for my job and It’s kinda funny how serious they take it. Having to take an oath and shit I feel like a secret agent
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 01:59 PM
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Going back to work after my 4 day wrestlemania bender
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 11:34 AM
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“Well actually… you can be a non traditional woman and not promiscuous” Lol yeah I know I am one. You really thought you had me there even tho I didn’t say you couldn’t in the slightest. Maybe we are just culturally different cause if you think this is pissy idk what to tell you lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 03:25 AM
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I can’t deal with people who think every disagreement is rude sorry. I’m not gonna tip toe around your feelings when I’m simply stating my thoughts.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 03:22 AM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 03:20 AM
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Lol who is being rude? Are you like insanely sensitive or something? It just doesn’t seem like this is going anywhere I type several things and you pick one tiny thing to basically “correct” me on. (Ummm actually vibes) That’s not a discussion or debate in good faith. No one is telling you to date promiscuous women. Your standards are your standards. If they’re working well for you…why do you care about women’s disdain?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 03:16 AM
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I think most preferences have reasons behind them and dating based on those values leads to success. But you seem pretty stuck in your own narrative so no use wasting my time xoxo
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 03:12 AM
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yes and? There’s still a reason why. You clearly missed my entire point.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 03:09 AM
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I mean in my opinion attitude and values around sex are more important than the number. That’s what I mean by made up rule. I won’t have sex with people with an n count over 3= made up rule I want a woman who believes that sex is special and should be shared with people who care for her as a person=value If everything else is perfect I can compromise if we share values- if you cant “get over it” that’s your prerogative and no one is forcing you to be with those women but I also don’t feel sorry …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 03:07 AM
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No one cares about the made up rules you have for yourself. It’s your choice. We don’t have disdain- it’s more like just thinking it’s dumb because everything is situational and car by case but in the end it’s your life and you can have whatever preference you want
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 02:51 AM
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You do what you want-that’s just the best way to possibly have a chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 09:53 PM
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Fair enough tbh I replied lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 09:52 PM
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It’s hard being a woman!!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 09:51 PM
1

You got messaging off smh
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 09:43 PM
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Best thing you do is act uninterested imo. Not cold just not romantically into it at all. You can text her once so she has your number but that’s the most I’d do.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 09:41 PM
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It is It’s like right after laundry
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 08:42 PM
2

Ugh don’t remind me It’s on my to do list
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 08:35 PM
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I’m chubby so I’m not gonna be hypocritical. I don’t mind that at all personally I’d prefer to a very thin “bony” (not to be offensive) man lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 08:26 PM
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depends on the guy I think. I matched him lol I thought it was unique enough to get to know him more at least haha
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 08:23 PM
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Love a chubby man tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 08:20 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/mjmy86lwtisc1.jpeg?width=750&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=7bc51a21794456c35d3bbf44ce7ce300cdd4c964 All men want these days is to make the world jealous smh
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 08:19 PM
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SPICED COKE
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 07:23 PM
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Someone told me the spiced coke was just like Dr Pepper. Absolutley 100% incorrect and untrue
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 07:18 PM
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Maybe! Just my experience
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 06:53 PM
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I mean it definitely is the more powerful position. Men who know their worth and are comfortable walking away and not settling if they aren’t happy are cool. I can respect that. As long as they are dumping for the right reasons (incompatibility, different points in life, exc) then I’ll agree- the most powerful person in a realtionships is the one who will walk away if mistreated.but men who date woman just to dump them and “break their hearts” are probably just mentally Ill- if this is a “regula…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 06:21 PM
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I always agreed with the sentiment that was like a joke on golden girls. “We despise men as a unit but we love them individually” it’s a joke but lowkey true. I have my problems with masculinity/man culture but I haven’t plenty if men in my life I love and respect. I feel like men look at women the same way. Womankind has its issues including its monolithic ways but I’ve seen even the most staunch redpill guys say “well my girlfriend/wife/sister/mother/friend is different”
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 06:16 PM
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No just wrestlemania :)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 10:28 PM
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I don’t have it off
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 10:27 PM
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I don’t think so. Relationships end sometimes they’re amazing when you’re in it and then they run their course and it doesn’t work out. I don’t consider that a practice relationship. It’s just a relationship. One of the things that helped me heal the most from my recent breakup was like realizing that even tho it wasn’t forever like I maybe thought at some points it was a good relationship and just because it ended doesn’t mean the whole thing was a waste. I learned a lot, I had good memories(an…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 08:08 PM
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Tell them you can show them the birth video if they don’t believe you
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 08:01 PM
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Awww that’s fun
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 07:58 PM
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It’s this weekend! Yes I’m loving my new job but it’s busy and I also am starting my masters and seeing someone new so it’s been a bit busy. All good things tho
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 07:49 PM
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Fair enough
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 07:37 PM
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My boss: you took Monday off for the eclipse? Have fun!! Me who took it off to go to wrestlemania: ahhh yeah thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 07:35 PM
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I mean dating people just to try them out is kinda how dating works. Am I condoning stringing someone a long just for practice- I guess not…mostly just cause it’s exhausting and then inauthenticity affects the reality of what you’d learn- but yea dating all sorts of people even if it isn’t perfect is natural imo
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 07:33 PM
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Well it’s usually my boyfriend so he doesn’t have to do anything to get sex. And also me and my gal pal will definitley be doing the talking but you’re right on the paying part
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 12:32 AM
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Do men like double dates? Me and my friends love them but I always feel like my bfs are like 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 11:14 PM
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Yeah it’s a no from me
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 11:14 PM
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No but I have spent money and time on fortnite
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 11:13 PM
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I’ve never spent a dime on a dating app
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 10:44 PM
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I did
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 10:30 PM
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I trust my instincts :)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 10:02 PM
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Yep
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 09:42 PM
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Wouldn’t be the first time I went on a date from Reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 09:34 PM
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I didn’t specifically- just said we’d touch base when I was feeling better 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 09:14 PM
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Well I’d like to find a boyfriend. But I pretty much will go on a date with anyone that asks within reason. I had a rough breakup in October so I’m kinda just getting back out there
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 08:59 PM
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I’m average- but I do enjoy dating so it’s something I seek out
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 08:51 PM
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Went on a first date and the guy asked me on a second date tonight and I legit am super sick so I told him i was super sick but like as soon as I’m feeling better I’d love to but I feel bad cause he probs thinks I’m blowing him off :/
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 07:25 PM
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I prefer Marcus Aurelius
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 05:07 PM
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Why
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 05:02 PM
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I have it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 04:11 PM
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Don’t get me wrong I’m fortunate. I met the guy I’m currently dating on hinge. It’s just kinda funny like how tf did the algorithm decide this was my most compatible lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 02:29 PM
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my hinge most compatible is like the fucking Wild West I swear. I’m average looking I swear but they give me the wackiest dudes and then say “we think you’d be compatible 🥰”
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 02:05 PM
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Sorry babe I can’t go out today there’s a new fortnite season
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 01:24 PM
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NO well MAYBE but he wouldn’t even know we were meeting at the bar
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 01:21 PM
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We already had the date it was at a pub so it was chill- he just mentioned like no need to dress up!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 09:14 PM
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One time he was texting me and I said “sorry I was playing video games” and nothing else was ever said about it and then he said that shit when he was mad I was like WUT
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 03:56 PM
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Kind of a stoner vibe I think? Funny cause he’s a cpa now lol. We didn’t talk much he has a twin sister I was better friends with
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 03:54 PM
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I mean I don’t know you well. I just feel bad for men who struggle so hard dating. When I see them post something like I hate woman I’m like that dude probably has it rough. I don’t really take it personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 03:53 PM
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I didn’t respond- I’m a drama queen but even that was too much for me
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 03:52 PM
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I just look at those people with pity
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 03:44 PM
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I get rejection sucks but nothing is as funny to me as guy who is interested in you, who immediately changes his tune after you reject him. Was talking to a guy I went to high school with and he was wanting to text 24/7 I told him that wasn’t my style and he gave me an ultimatum- go out with him tonight or he’s done. Fair enough- he’s allowed to do that. I told him I didn’t think we were compatible and he immediately hits me with “Have fun wasting your time on video games you ugly bitch” Literal…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 03:40 PM
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Never done this
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 03:26 PM
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I appreciate it :)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 03:19 PM
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I honestly played it off and said like “I don’t wear my evening gown” and nothing else was said and we moved on and had a good date
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 03:06 PM
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Well we just had a date at 7 it’s not like she’s really know how long I took
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 02:53 PM
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Just a little insecure because I wear a good amount of makeup and felt like he might be saying don’t wear so much makeup- so I didn’t wear much lmao but idk
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 02:53 PM
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I wear a lot of makeup so I think he was saying don’t wear so much makeup- so I didn’t wear much and everything was fine but it felt almost a bit backhanded
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 02:52 PM
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The date went great- I just thought it was interesting that he said that
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 02:43 PM
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speak for yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 02:42 PM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 02:08 PM
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Don’t know lo
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 02:08 PM
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It was at an Irish pub so I guess that’s fair lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 02:08 PM
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Yay!!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 01:45 PM
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no lmao i just said “okay I won’t wear my evening gown” and then we went on the date and it was good
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 01:44 PM
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Idk don’t most guys want the girl they’re dating to look good- I wear a fair amount of makeup and dress up and not sure if he was like slyly being like hey don’t do that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 01:44 PM
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Is it a red flag or green flag if a guy casually says you don’t need to dress up for a date
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 01:40 PM
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You wouldn’t think so
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 09:12 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/w9ndr6bq2zmc1.jpeg?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=3574d6260107bfbcef8192ab8bd57d9027d86dd3
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 08:32 PM
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I think you’re on the wrong post
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 05:44 PM
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Not particularly but it is what it is
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 05:34 PM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 05:34 PM
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Right like? Respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 05:33 PM
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Cause I date within my league and know my limits
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 05:33 PM
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sorry for viewing it different
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 01:50 PM
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It’s cause I fuck up a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 01:49 PM
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Sometimes
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 01:48 PM
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Thanks that means a lot to me
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 01:43 PM
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Three nights ago I went out to an irish pub for trivia with friends. Waiter was cute in a Jason Kelce way and we had some banter. They ran out of what I was drinking for made me a “special” drink on the house. So at the end of the night I’m feeling gassed up by my friends so I leave my number on the receipt. Haven’t heard anything in 3 days-it is what it is he could be in a relationship, didn’t see it, or just plain not interested This morning I get a huge paragraph from him Stating that he is s…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 01:37 PM
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Diet coke?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 09:03 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 08:03 PM
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We dated in real life There’s actually more than one
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 08:02 PM
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Lol this is why me and my ex broke up. I’m emotionally exhausting and he was going through a lot. Lesson learned
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 07:44 PM
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Lmao I know I was WAY too flirty for instacart I was trying to get my tip up and it’s a dangerous game
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 07:29 PM
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Lol yeah it’s dumb
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 07:13 PM
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I was doing his grocery shopping through instacart and he asked if I wanted head (oral sex) when I dropped off the groceries
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 07:11 PM
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Cody Rhodes and Roman reigns 🥺👉🏼👈🏼
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 07:07 PM
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Yep lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 07:05 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/ql67ekylhrmc1.jpeg?width=750&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=a4bb8da98512a0d87ae713ccf48114ba2672d3db Throwback to when me and my roomie tried to instacart to save money for spring break
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 07:01 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/btpvh7j0hrmc1.jpeg?width=750&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=ed48120d08e89581ce0d03951d7d3e7ba4f6765d Throwback to when me and my roomie wanted tried to instacart to save money for spring break
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 06:58 PM
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Totally
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 06:31 PM
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It kinda worked out it was a good relationship. No regrets
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 05:56 PM
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A lot has changed since you last saw me. I dated a guy from this sub and then we broke up lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 05:47 PM
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But he has mommy issues and is sexually vulnerable
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 05:45 PM
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YEA
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 05:45 PM
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But but but
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 05:45 PM
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Yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 05:36 PM
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I’ve only started watching aew because I love edge but I’m a wwe girl 🥺🥺
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 04:30 PM
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I’m going to the shows
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 04:29 PM
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Yea he was feyd-rautha in the 80s dune movie (my fav) with Kyle McLaughlin as Paul atredies
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 04:27 PM
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It does tbh- but I also do like money and purpose
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 04:24 PM
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I was told to weigh yourself everyday but then take the average of the week to look for progress
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 04:23 PM
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Lol my boss is chill- legally I don’t have to tell her but we’re chill so she goes “oh is for the wedding” (I told her I’m in and upcoming wedding) and I was like uhhhh no im actually going to see Cody Rhodes finish the story
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 04:17 PM
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The humbling experience of asking time off from your boss and admitting it’s to go to wrestlemania
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 04:13 PM
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As a woman I vet by only have sex with men I’m in a committed relationship with
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 04:04 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/e8atpnphlqmc1.jpeg?width=750&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=181e79ce1dff8dcbe419c32b5f40472f6f1293e2 I could fix him
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 04:01 PM
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thats alright I make it work
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 08:34 PM
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Hinge? I’ve had good luck
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 08:31 PM
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2/7 ain’t bad right
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 08:29 PM
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It’s gotta be hivemind. While I think there’s something to be said for social validation from your friends and Preselection I feel it’s just such a cop out to say women all think the same. In a lot of ways women all think the same in a lot of ways men all think the same in a lot of ways humans all think the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 06:17 PM
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I worked at McDonald’s when I was 15. Apparently if you’re under 16 you can’t handle cash or cook anything so all I did was was clean and fill the ketchup and drink things. My parents made me keep up with it for like a whole summer too to “honor my commitment” Luckily I think I only worked like 4 hours on Saturday mornings lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 04:30 PM
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We are both white she’s blonde and I’m brunette
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 03:10 PM
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It’s hard when you realize you were the problem in your relationships- almost feels worse than it being some dramatic scandal or some crazy story I definitley couldn’t have loved more- but I definitley could have loved better Anyway Sundays always make me feel like a little bitch
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 07:46 PM
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Did you read the rest bro IM ON YOUR SIDE
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 07:09 PM
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Not reading that essay
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 07:09 PM
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lol good for her
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 06:33 PM
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Damn shit kinda worked out for her okay queen
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 06:31 PM
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I think it would depend on the situation whether he is being exploitive. If the dude is making her believe that he has feelings aka “future faking” I’d be like yeah that’s shitty and exploitive However often I’ve seen and honestly done myself is tell the guy I’m fine with casual while secretly hoping he’s gonna “✨fall for me✨” I wasn’t being honest with him or myself and he took what I said at face value which is fair. I’d say both are pretty common.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 06:30 PM
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yeah I can see that
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 06:21 PM
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I call them like I see them 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 06:11 PM
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IM TRYING!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 06:08 PM
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yeah I’d say it’s pretty common. I’m 27 so definitley not as common now. Most of us are either married, in a LTR, or dating. But I still have a few that are “seeing” guys and it’s “complicated”
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 06:06 PM
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Because you let him
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 06:00 PM
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I bring a sort of “if he liked you- youd know it, if he didn’t like you- you’d feel confused” vibe to the advice session that my girlies in situationships don’t really like
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 05:57 PM
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Awww thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 08:27 PM
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Feel like a woman’s hair, eyebrows, makeup and such plays a much bigger factor
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 08:26 PM
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It’s not that hard for a man. Wear clean clothes and you’re pretty much there.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 08:24 PM
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He was attractive. I mean it was within our friend group so like the same women everytime. She was cute too she was like a Long Island jap
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 08:17 PM
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WHY
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 08:10 PM
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He did it all the time with various people eveytime we went out and they didn’t break up at the time (I believe they are broken up now tho) but I guess maybe Maybe she liked to fight about it later lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 08:06 PM
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😩
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 08:05 PM
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Used to have a friend in college who I’d go out with with other girls in my dorm. She would always try to get all of us to make out with her boyfriend Like she’d be like “you know what would be hilarious?? If you guys just made out” What the fuck was that about
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 08:02 PM
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Y’all are getting resources???
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 07:52 PM
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I think it’s a positive. Shows he’s hardworking enough at something that it can probably transfer into other areas of his life
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 07:50 PM
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Well shit when you say it like that…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 07:50 PM
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Lol guess I’m wrong I tried my best Maybe things have changed since 2009 the way being thick came in style and shit idk Also maybe it has something to do with guys “ideal” type versus the type they go for due to prior success exc
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 06:58 PM
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I do tend to believe the sentiment that men have a little bit more variety of types than women just based on my personal experience. I’m tall and thick and my best friend is short and thin. We both can find men that are into our certain type in any given situation. My girls and I have different types in men-but they aren’t THAT different a lot of the features are still similar just with a few minor tweaks. Like my friend may like tattooed guys I like blue collar but they’re both fit, tall, stron…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 06:49 PM
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Now that I’m not teaching I don’t get the “I wish you were my teacher” and “if you were my teacher I’d definitley pay attention” jokes 477986 times every time I go out :(
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 12:47 PM
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Dating subs are trash that’s how I found ppd
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 12:19 PM
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Nothing gets past me babe
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 10:03 PM
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Also he added the satellite dish??? I don’t
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 09:33 PM
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I’ve had plenty of fine interactions this is the first time at a park tho I was walking laps and this guy came up and was like can I walk with you and we walked like two laps and just chatted and it was fine and then he asked for my number I said sure and that’s it but like DAMN later that night he just went crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 09:24 PM
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I’d say he called like 6 times too much lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 09:17 PM
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Nice edit there steakman
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 09:16 PM
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No I finally answered lol. told him I was going to bed and I’d text him tomorrow and then blocked
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 09:14 PM
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I also do this lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 09:10 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/hd0y8zpchekc1.jpeg?width=750&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=122542fdfba040fb0b3aed5f729680ef8f1433b0 I’m never giving my number to a guy at the park ever again lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 09:09 PM
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Other pic is better but it also looks fake so you’d probs get more matches with this one
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 09:07 PM
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Ooo gotcha. I drink liquid iv if I’m hungover same thing right lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 05:00 PM
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Do I need to get them from a special place?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 04:58 PM
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I think it will make you more enjoyable to be around. Especially if you require the people around you to put energy into making you feel more comfortable and confident. It’s exhausting for them- even if they love you. I’ve been that person needing reassurance many times unfortunately Don’t think it’s a magic cure tho
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 03:55 PM
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I’m loving the corporate world (well technically non profit but more businessy I guess ) after teaching/library work for the past few years and I’m so surprised with myself. I was always one of those girlies that was like omg I could never but I’m really settling in well. I love kids and I still get my fix by working at a nice gym in the childcare center like two Sundays a month so I get a free membership
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 03:45 PM
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Have fun 🥰🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 03:42 PM
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Made me lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 03:41 PM
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Definitley didn’t get the ick just normal I’ll see what happens he didn’t ask for my number so maybe he will ask the friend or something I’m just gonna let it vibe for a bit
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 01:10 PM
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Ehh could go either way. Definitley wasn’t terrible but it wasn’t an insta hit off or anything
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 01:47 AM
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Ummmm could go either way
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 01:39 AM
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My married friend asked me to dinner. I didn’t know that my friends husband invited his coworker and then the coworker paid for every bodies meal. What are the odds this was a setup
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 12:13 AM
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I’ll take things that don’t happen for 1000 Alex
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 06:49 PM
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can’t wait to get rid of the weekend
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 06:47 PM
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I can’t play anything too hard tbh I like to chill and relax
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 06:45 PM
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I’ve never played
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 06:40 PM
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It’s kinda cheeky with the military stuff lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 06:39 PM
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Kk
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 06:39 PM
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it’s so fun
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 06:37 PM
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That’s me with Fortnite
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 06:37 PM
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Interesting!! I just play casually
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 06:36 PM
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Play with me it’s multi
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 06:35 PM
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It reminds me of fallout cause of the propaganda and the big bugs lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 06:33 PM
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I haven’t played either of those- I’ve been playing hades on my switch but I just got a ps5 so it’s been taking a back seat
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 06:32 PM
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Ooo cool
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 06:32 PM
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Have you played hades
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 06:26 PM
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Anybody play helldivers I’m addicted
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 06:24 PM
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Ooo I don’t play that- is it a video game? I thought it was like figurines and things
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 06:22 PM
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What game
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 06:21 PM
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Me too lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 06:15 PM
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And I’m finally going to wrestlemania this year smh
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 06:15 PM
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Agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 06:14 PM
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probably would get old fast unless he’s super goal orientated like “I’m saving for a house” or “I’m saving for a trip” then I can excuse it a little more. If he’s just hoarding it I’d be like dude let’s live a little and I would expect occasional gifts/ dates just like I give occasional gifts and treats
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 06:09 PM
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This is one of the most like misunderstood things imo here First off I don’t care about money OBVIOUSLY I’m not an idiot and more money is better- but I don’t have any set rules for how much money my partner has to make and it’s extremely contextual. If my partner is getting their masters/phd and isn’t bringing in money right now- totally understandable but they’re clearly demonstrating work ethic and a desire to eventually support me or least join me in making money for the family. If I’m datin…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 05:21 PM
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I like them honestly just being in them is like another level of money
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 03:04 PM
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I’m 27 lmao you nailed it
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 02:17 PM
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Yep. Between the dress, bridal shower which I catered as a gift, bachelorette in Vegas, hair and makeup day of cause she wanted us to look uniform✨even tho I’m basically an amateur makeup artist myself, shoes, nails it adds up so fast
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 01:59 PM
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yeah you never know- they honestly are fun but being in them as a woman is like a whole other level
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 01:41 PM
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Depends if you have friends/cousins/ siblings exc
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 01:29 PM
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I think 20-30 it starts ramping up
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 01:27 PM
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That might be a contributing factor… WHO KNOWS
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 01:27 PM
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God I’m so tired of being in weddings. I’m flattered but like dropping a couple thou and using all my vacation time on bachelorette exc gets old kinda fast I’ve been in 6 weddings in the past like 4 years or so
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 01:17 PM
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Back
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 01:10 PM
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Big veiny hand
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 12:18 PM
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Same
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 12:00 PM
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My ex bought me the pumpkin spice latte one he’s so cute
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 03:22 AM
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https://youtube.com/shorts/CjPpvayqkFc?si=YWdkot9DZm_G7DuZ
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 11:35 PM
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Yep I mostly play squads with my friends. Have you played hell divers?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 11:30 PM
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I still have my switch- but yeah I got a ps5 recently after I got a new job loving it so far I also play a lot of Fortnite
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 11:23 PM
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Ahh yeah honestly I just play some to relax I used to have a switch but I got a ps5 recently
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 11:18 PM
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I like it! I also usually play mortal kombat but I didn’t care for mk1 so I’m giving tekken a try and I really like it I might pick mk1 back up when peacemaker comes out
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 11:17 PM
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RIGHT
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 11:16 PM
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Wait that guys scary this is the one I like
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 11:15 PM
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I also found it unsettling that he didn’t talk. My brother used to bring him on the screen all the time on purpose
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 11:13 PM
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This is the first tekken game I’m playing besides watching my brother play when I was little. This dude used to scare the fuck out of me https://preview.redd.it/qe7hctgct0kc1.jpeg?width=1030&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=ea1d612a6f0cdfb4b6b08d21d3a88d5d722a531f
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 11:11 PM
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Idk it’s just unleashed something in me
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 11:09 PM
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I’m a casual gamer. I’m usually a mortal kombat girly but I didn’t love the last one so I’ve been playing tekken 8…although peacemaker dlc is coming to mortal Kombat and I’ll probs play him
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 11:08 PM
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Wym?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 11:07 PM
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But I want the mask to stay on
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 11:07 PM
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I’m not a furry But I’ve been playing tekken and king hits different
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 11:02 PM
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That didn’t happen to me- was threatened with it tho lol I basically just got a few dozen follow requests on insta
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 05:19 PM
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I’m calling your boss wait till they find out like discussing gender/ relationship issues online
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 05:15 PM
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That was me lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 04:53 PM
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Dming you
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 03:50 PM
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Lmao not clicking on that essay
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 03:45 PM
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lol semantics
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 03:43 PM
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Guess I’m built different
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 03:38 PM
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Not that sad. A place where people come trying to figuring out there dating life have a lot in common and decide to try it out. I don’t find it sad 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 03:36 PM
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I have no idea who that is- I used to go by livs4drpepper
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 03:32 PM
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I thought so. It was a good relationship. No regrets
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 03:31 PM
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I dated someone from here for 2 years
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 03:30 PM
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I’m a real life 5 and a ppd 10
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 03:29 PM
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Meeting two boyfriends off ppd would be crazy right. Like one is wild but like two is certifiably insane right
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 03:24 PM
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Big yikes 😬
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 03:12 PM
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Kind men can still totally be alphas I know a few
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 01:34 PM
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Lol- no you definitely could look better losing a few pounds- I know I would too- I just think men can pull off being a bit heavier and still sexy and sometimes husky men losing weight doesn’t suit them perfectly it’s not a 100% this or that
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 01:32 PM
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Nice is fake kind is real
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 01:31 PM
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I dated this Pakistani guy in college and we had a great relationship but his parents DESPISED me because they thought I was like Americanizing him or taking away his religion like basically alluding to the fact that he drank cause of me even tho I met him at a PARTY where he was drinking and he was way more into premarital sex than I was (I’m catholic) we had a pretty good relationship when we were at college away from his family but damn. That’s the only time my significant others parents have…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 01:31 PM
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It’s not being an asshole that woman like- it’s being hot and an asshole- you gotta have both
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 01:27 PM
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Dick size means little to me. Although I’ve never been with anyone that extreme on either end. I’m a lover girl and sex is an emotional experience. My unpopular opinion is I enjoy sex, the intimacy of it and that it’s pleasing to my partner even if I don’t cum. I’ve never used a dildo or anything cause just the act of having something inside me does literally nothing for me. You can say I’m lying but I’ll take a “good” lover over a big dick everyday of the week.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 01:26 PM
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Totally situational- some dudes look better husky
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 01:23 PM
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I’m not in a relationship. As far as the exes is probably about even. I think I was definitely more upset at first but I think it’s evened out to the level that we both just are moving in and doing what’s best for ourselves. I don’t think he’s significantly happier than me as it seems a sense of normalcy has returned to us both.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 01:23 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/pxdqyl4xpxjc1.jpeg?width=750&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=76848c7e87e05f38ffb07e7f49a25ae888f3c757
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 12:46 PM
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Omg
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 02:46 AM
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Thank you king 🥰🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 09:23 PM
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I think so
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 06:50 PM
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It’s not so much that I don’t want you to succeed it’s just that there’s nothing I personally can do because you probably won’t value my advice (can’t learn to fish from a fish) and I’m not truthfully that invested in your success beyond a surface level everyone deserves to be happy. I’ll always offer my perspective but I think wanting more than that is a little delusional
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 05:50 PM
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Just be careful I went to a bartending interview a few years ago and the guy goes “oh also I fuck all my bartenders”
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 05:42 PM
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Sorry I get confused cause I don’t see color. Unless you’re an Indian British guy
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 05:10 PM
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lol oh Uhhh american I’m half Italian and half Lithuanian
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 05:02 PM
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YES he’s Pakistani but similar concept for sure. I dated a Pakistani guy in college
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 04:59 PM
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White
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 04:56 PM
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Truly believe they have the something something
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 04:48 PM
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That would be so epic
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 04:43 PM
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Yeah Dev Patel is a perfect example. He was so hot in the green knight. Im also thinking of the YouTuber sixteenleo but I think he’s actually South African or Australian I just had these two guys in my floor that I was super into when I lived in England and they were both like Indian but born and raised in England (I think not 100% in that). I can’t explain it, it’s just been a weird thing for me since
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 04:43 PM
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My favorite niche category is Indian guys that are British. Had huge crushes on two when I studied abroad and has become a niche category that I’ve always been super into
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 04:37 PM
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I think she’s really beautiful but her voice kinda is annoying I can’t lie
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 03:46 PM
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You and people being fertile 😅 I see it tho she is pretty much glowing
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 03:44 PM
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Mad pussy?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 03:39 PM
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Are you male? I just ask cause there aren’t a lot of male social workers- I’m sure you have an interesting perspective
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 03:36 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 03:30 PM
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I always have dreams about when I worked at tj maxx and had to do markdowns and scan a million things
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 03:23 PM
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Hahahaha this comment made me lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 03:12 PM
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My mom was a marketing director for years- I studied communication. I did a marketing internship for Disney. then I wanted to travel like a dummy and taught English and did the peace corps and ended up teaching again when I got home. Now I moved back to NY where I can’t teach (besides temp positions) until I get my masters. I pivoted a bit and am in operations at an education nonprofit- but am definitley looking for my next step. I have money to go to school from when I was in the peace corps- m…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 02:33 PM
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Totally fair. Only reason that one’s on my radar is that my current job would pay for it as the hire a lot of social workers. But I’m conflicted cause even if they payed and I move positions I would barely make more than I do now. I have money from my time in the peace corps so money isn’t a concern but if my employer paid my tutition I can legally use my peace corps money for other things while I’m studying like rent, books, computer exc. but I agree like I’m not sure it’s the wisest of masters…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 02:30 PM
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I know but im a touchy feely girly Do you think I could pivot
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 02:21 PM
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Q4M: thoughts on being woken up with a BJ? would you be okay with your girlfriend waking you up with a blowjob without like asking you the night before? not sure what the protocol for that is lmao I tend to just once ive been dating the guy ask if that’s the type of thing he’s into and if he says yes then I consider it fair game but who knows as we get more woke I don’t want to catch a case
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 02:06 PM
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Can’t decide whether I want to get my masters in teaching, social work, or just pivot and do tech or mba even tho I have minimal experience. I have money from the peace corps so it’s more about what’s the best move
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 01:19 PM
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Oooooo definitely would bother me- I’d probably have to end it if he’s that bad at hiding it
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 08:39 PM
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Does he tell me this? Or am I just sensing it?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 07:38 PM
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hell yeah brother
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 06:08 PM
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me emotionally manipulating every man I’ve ever known to their breaking point is this love??
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 05:54 PM
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That’s totally fair and interesting to me. I’m studying social work and have literally never heard it mentioned in anyway, not even a little
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 05:52 PM
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I know I’m just saying the argument could be had “if you feel so bad for them DO SOMETHING”
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 05:32 PM
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Few do trick
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 04:54 PM
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Wtf is ad hoc
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 04:19 PM
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BORING
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 04:16 PM
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I’m sympathetic enough to feel bad for them- but not enough to fuck them out of pity. Not sure if that makes me a terrible person but it’s just how I feel
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 04:11 PM
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I’m not annoyed by incels. I just feel bad for them
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 04:08 PM
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Went on a date with my brothers childhood friend I met while speed dating ( don’t worry my brother was okay with it) it’s funny cause when I was in highschool my brother would literally freak tf out of one of his friends hit me up or something we have a 7 year age difference. Now I guess it doesn’t matter go much
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 04:07 PM
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Finding two boyfriend on Reddit would just be too much right. Like one is crazy but like two would be CRAZY right
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 04:05 PM
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I dated someone from this sub for almost two years
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 10:53 PM
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Maybe go for an 8?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 10:50 PM
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Lmao I totally believe it
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 10:50 PM
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Many times
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 01:49 PM
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That seems low you gotta bump that number up
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 01:33 PM
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That’s fair- it shouldn’t all be hinged on one day- but I think there’s a a lot of options do so something special that aren’t just the same old dinner and flowers
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 12:09 PM
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I like how structured it is yet I just work on stuff privately. Like a I go to meetings and they say this is your responsibility and then I’m free to work on it and manage my time how I like lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 12:02 PM
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Oh I know. I’m just joking I would never say anything like that in reality I’m super new and just learning the ropes. It’s more just my private thoughts- I’m liking the corporate world more than I thought I would
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 11:58 AM
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I bring a sort of “this is just the vibe I’m getting” energy to the table that the data driven corporate guys don’t really like or respect
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 11:51 AM
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Lol yes I’ve seen both of these happen too. I should have said that I also would always have something back for my partner too. It should be one sided making that person feel loved just cause you’re the woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 11:47 AM
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Yeah for sure apathy is the absolute worst feature in a partner in my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 11:45 AM
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It’s true- dudes here will say it’s not but it’s 100% true- If your effort isn’t enough- it’s not you she likes it’s your $$$
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 11:42 AM
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Well that’s good at least. I know it’s annoying but I’d just put in headphones and try to ignore
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 11:33 AM
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Going off the question romance is truly all about effort and it’s not as hard as people make it out to be IF you have a good woman. My ex made valentines special last year even tho we were long distance at the time just by sending donuts to my work and my boyfriend when I was in college made a really cute scavenger hunt through our campus that cost like pretty much 0$ Both are happy memories that made me feel loved at the time which is what Valentine’s Day is about. If your girl needs like gifts…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 11:32 AM
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You can’t lock your door? Are you in a dorm and he has a key or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 11:23 AM
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https://preview.redd.it/r8u99ckogqic1.jpeg?width=750&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=fab6ea2ce268ab6ad3f0e39f1e6fd79f42226715 Me in my first corporate job after doing teaching/library/volunteer work for the past 7 years
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 11:18 AM
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yeah but it was a fun speed dating event no one was going home with eachother at that moment, most of the people there seemed EXTREMELY relationship focused like so much so that I was even like alright let’s chill lmao I imagine that is hard- harsh truth is they won’t flake if they like you enough
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 11:17 AM
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I used to think I was slick by giving up homework or something and my mom would lecture me on how it’s supposed to be a sacrifice
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 01:06 AM
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To be fair it was very casually and people were generally being nice so I highly doubt all those people would date me Also I was on the younger side of the demographic so I think that helped my case hahaah
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 01:00 AM
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Went to a speed dating event tonight with some friends at a brewery and it was actually super fun We had 15 people and you talked to each one for two minutes and then you basically decided whether you’d meet them again. Out of the people 11 said they would meet me for a second time (but one of the rejects was my guy friend who I came with but they still made us have a turn with each other lol) I said yes to 7 so we will see they gave me a list of their numbers. Funny enough tho one of my matches…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 12:51 AM
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Jeez that’s a hard one honestly- I’d say don’t put it on there and try to bring it up casually when you’re talking but that’s a pretty tough ask lol Is it cause you’re religious? Maybe lean into hat aspect if so
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 11:27 PM
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Yeah that was the point
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 09:23 PM
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I’ll also cross that bridge when I get there lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 09:08 PM
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I know I just feel like it’s an option for the millions of where do people even meet nowadays questions
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 09:08 PM
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Yeah but a little bit of time truly does change a lot of that. I was so cringey in highschool, now we laugh about it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 09:07 PM
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Sorry I’m a dreamer
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 09:06 PM
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Don’t know. Lol we will cross that bridge when we get there hahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 09:01 PM
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I’m 27 for context
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 09:01 PM
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I feel like an underrated way of meeting partners is reaching out to people you went to highschool with or knew when you were younger and reconnecting I know my ex met one of his former partners this way, so has my brother and at least one or two other friends. It’s honestly not bad cause you at least have something talk about, you know at least a little way they look like idk I just got a message from a guy I went to highschool with but didn’t know super well- and we are planning to get dinner …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 08:52 PM
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Because of….the implication
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 08:45 PM
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Ghouls like in the media or?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 08:41 PM
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I don’t think I’m big enough to qualify for surgery maybe ozempic I’ve thought about ordering it for my mom and taking it- I did that with Phentermine before
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 08:37 PM
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What if I already know this is what I’m supposed to do but I just can’t seem to do it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 08:12 PM
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I need help with this please advise
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 07:10 PM
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My ex and I went to a really nice steakhouse in nyc for my birthday last year . It was a super cool experience-I’d never really been anywhere that fancy. He was good with picking out that kind of stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 06:48 PM
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Steakhouse?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 06:41 PM
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Code red is elite
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 05:53 PM
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I’m trying to quit just to save money and to drink more water but I’m a diet soda addict
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 05:44 PM
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Oo that’s a good one
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 05:23 PM
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lol yes- I’ll be the first to admit a lot of catholic things make no damn sense
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 05:23 PM
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Oo okay I always just went till Easter
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 05:23 PM
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Too late lent already stared
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 05:22 PM
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I was gonna give up gossiping but wtf am I supposed to talk about
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 05:06 PM
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I know- it’s just a joke that when a woman says her language is gift giving it’s like oh boy just like if a man says physical touch I understand but I’m still like oh boy
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 05:06 PM
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It’s 40 days (not including Sundays) so 46 days really. It goes from ash Wednesday to Easter Sunday. Usually you give up something that’s a sacrifice as like a metaphor for gods sacrifices for us. Most people also don’t eat mean on Fridays or don’t eat meat the whole time.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 05:03 PM
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Idk how stocks work I’m a woman!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 05:00 PM
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Lol quick everyone sell your Dr Pepper stocks
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 04:59 PM
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What do you wanna know
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 04:58 PM
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that’s been me in the past- not so much wanting a gift but really valuing like something to PROVE my bfs love oops that was my bad
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 04:58 PM
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Yes the red flags are when the man’s love language is touch and the women’s is gift giving
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 04:51 PM
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I’m giving up diet soda/soda for lent. Want to also give up something non food/drink related. Was thinking gossiping or procrastination but both of these are a bit hard to measure. Any ideas?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 04:50 PM
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Effort
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 04:08 PM
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Ahaaaaa a little semantic humor
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 03:33 PM
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I don’t get it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 03:26 PM
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Maybe next year
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 03:12 PM
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Lol I’m just playing I did go out for Mardi Gras but in an I enjoy celebrating different cultures and trying to things way and not in a vile evil treacherous whore way I swear
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 03:11 PM
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HEY
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 03:07 PM
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And feminists will claim this is empowering
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 03:05 PM
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How is that even possible
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 02:54 PM
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I know that’s what I’m saying if it doesn’t bother you that your clearly the last draft pick by all means go for it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 02:47 PM
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Valentines is risky lol I guess it depends how much desperation bothers you
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 02:43 PM
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Fireworks are “illegal” in my state and my bestie is a nurse and when she worked in an ER people would come in all day with burns and shit and make up some bullshit story. This one dude had a huge bruise on his chest with burns (he clearly got hit in the chest with like a bottle rocket) and he said he got hit with a baseball. She asked why there was burns and the guy was like “he threw it really fast” hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 02:40 PM
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Yes!! My good friend lives right near an Irish pub so we’re all gonna go to his for pre drinks and walk over. I’m looking forward to it :) Not really doing anything for spring break I don’t have off this year as I have a new job but then there’s cinco de Mayo
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 02:25 PM
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Mardi Gras was a lot of fun- I went out to a jazz bar with my friend and they had a party with live music and king cake and everything. I love all the “drinking holidays” 💜💛💚
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 02:22 PM
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I’m impatienttttt
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 09:11 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 08:58 PM
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Ewwww to awwww real quick
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 08:50 PM
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Most women like when a bad boy has a soft spot * for them cause it makes them feel *special I know I’ve fallen for that in the past. He’s a dick to everyone else but he treats me well it must be because I’m so pretty an awesome. I think it probably would work on men in some way too. Imagine a girl who treats other guys like dirt or won’t give them the time of day but adores you specifically. Or like a good girl/ rule follower that is a freaky slut just for you. Men usually don’t have the luxury …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 08:42 PM
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Was thinking Perth as my friend lives there but would probably explore other parts as well. Interesting! Thanks for your insight :)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 08:39 PM
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But they have character
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 08:32 PM
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Is summer in the US a good time to visit Australia? When is the best you think?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 08:05 PM
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THATS THE FUN OF IT
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 07:59 PM
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Yes I do on a surface level. I’ll also add onto this with people who act insecure can also be conceited deep down. People who are constantly seeking reassurance out of “insecurity” often do so to feed their ego. A lot of insecurity comes from a place of needing constant validation and that all leads to being egotistical. Truly secure and non conceited people- tend to value others opinions but also know that internal validation is the only thing that truly matters. And I know this because I am th…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 07:58 PM
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https://youtu.be/Cg4D8GeAOF0?si=2lsNMq7f-VHx4oUz
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 07:52 PM
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Lol that’s probably true- bring it on
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 07:51 PM
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That’s definitely not true but a little bit of healthy perspective sure can do a lot if you let it
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 07:50 PM
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I just thrifted the cutest picnic basket but I live in NY so it’s too cold to go for Valentines :(
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 07:49 PM
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it can still help you to be grateful for all that you do have- you could be homeless AND single🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 07:32 PM
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Volunteering is the best way to squelch any sadness about it!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 07:22 PM
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You just said they are calmer. Don’t most people think they are most definitely not calmer and men are much calmer lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 06:47 PM
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guess we will never know 🥰🥰🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 06:41 PM
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https://youtu.be/SLGxJfMCCsQ?si=DMNwGttttkB78W4u
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 06:40 PM
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but why even bother setting up the interview corresponding by email and phone to ghost? Like I get ghosting if it’s the easier option but it seems like they put a lot of time and effort in to ghost. I’m just trying to figure out the motivation- I guess maybe they just get nervous and don’t feel like saying anything
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 06:38 PM
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I thought woman were known to be way more emotional an high strung than men?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 06:30 PM
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Lol yes I am. Interesting. Why do you think that is? Also isn’t female woman a little redundant or is that like a woke thing
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 06:04 PM
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I’m truly blessed 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 06:01 PM
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Nope!i was in a temp position subbing for a teacher on maternity leave cause I moved from Florida to NY- I’m working for an education/literacy based non profit now-I’m not a certified teacher in NY (it’s harder than Florida lol) so I might go back to it but I can only take temp positions at the time- I could deff teach again I just have to get my masters which I plan on soon :) but I like this job anyway! Miss all the breaks tho
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 05:54 PM
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Makes sense. Thanks for your advice!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 05:51 PM
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It’s a group home- so not really glamorous however the pay is good imo
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 05:51 PM
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That makes sense- I had a phone interview and then a regular interview for my job (operations coordinator) but the people we hire are more entry level not even- it’s for a group home so idk if 2 interviews is like absurd. But it’s definitley a thought I usually talk on the phone with them to schedule so can tell if they have etiquette exc. but it’s soooo hard to tell- this is my first time in this kind of role.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 05:41 PM
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Yeah I’m in the interview. We all feel the same like well we dodged a bullet- it’s more just that it’s a weird trend
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 05:35 PM
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That’s fair but like we talked on the phone and set up an interview like 2 days ago- I guess any number of things could happen but it’s just so odd
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 05:33 PM
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Yes I’ve been working on it so hard. Since I found stoicism and therapy I’ve felt really good mentally and lost like 12 lbs. not anywhere near perfect but it’s been a process
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 05:19 PM
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also for lack of sounding like a boomer I started a new job and it involves hiring for a big company with several group homes. I know it’s not the best job in the world but the pay isn’t bad over 20$ an hour for the jobs I’m hiring for. I have literally made 20 interviews in the past month and been ghosted no less than 15 times. Like people talk to me on the phone to set up and interview and then simply don’t show. It’s the strangest thing I would just never in a million years think to do that i…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 05:18 PM
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Me taking 27 years to realize lack of discipline and self control was the cause of 100% of my problems…well better late than never 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 05:13 PM
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I’d put in the work
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 01:48 AM
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Me and my best friend posted a pic from the show on insta and tagged him and he liked it 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 01:44 AM
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He just has that something something
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 12:49 AM
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Theo von is probably up there for my #1 celeb crush. I went to his show the other day and even tho it was a total sausage party we had a blast
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 12:46 AM
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Of course- feel free to enjoy. But what’s empowering about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 06:56 PM
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It’s not. Stoicism would leave him unbothered because he probably wouldn’t want her in his life anyway. He would move on with grace and accept what happened not as a reflection of himself but a reflection of her.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 06:55 PM
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Lololol NO ONE IS SAFE
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 06:54 PM
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Turns out hedonism ain’t it
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 06:51 PM
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Therapy and stoicism completely changed my life and I genuinely feel like a new person
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 06:48 PM
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Agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 06:46 PM
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Well I guess it’s something
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 06:46 PM
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What is empowering about sleeping with men who barely put in effort and aren’t interested in a relationship with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 06:43 PM
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In her defense at least in my case it was just something I didn’t know until I knew. And that wasn’t really my fault. I’m an average women and can get a date of old if I want. I know this is how it works. I know it’s not cause I’m amazing but because I’m available. I assumed it was the same for men because why wouldnt i. No one is gonna inherently know the different ratio of males to females on apps exc. I was suprised when I found out male friends who were I’d say on the same level as me strugg…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 11:22 AM
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You gotta give him that
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 11:59 PM
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<image> I’m snowed in so I’m bringing back this gem
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 11:45 PM
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Lol I won’t argue with that I hope they do too 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 11:44 PM
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Absolute game changer from therapy for me has been just wishing the people who wronged you the best. I’m guilty of taking everything so personally. Of thinking the worst of people- but not because they are bad people but because my low self esteem makes me think people aren’t genuine when they are nice and love me- that they are manipulating me. That has been my reality for so long. But most of the time it isn’t just you. Yes it was me a little but it was also a lot of things including my own pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 01:29 AM
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No. Know too many who cheat. Used to flirt with one at work all the time who said he was single. Turns out he was married and had twin 10 year olds. confronted him and he told me they were seperating. This was like 4 years ago and they’re still together sooo
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 01:20 AM
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Yeah that’s my point. No women would find that unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 07:26 PM
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This is another thing that I would just attribute to common sense. Crying over something “silly” like idk spilling or breaking something I would see as weak and feminine. I do this all the time but the reality is women can get away with it more. Crying over a death, birth, sickness in the family exc. I would view as a green flag. Very few woman on earth unless they are a psychopath would look at a man crying for those things and think EW so weak. If anything it’d be a red flag to me if his mom d…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 06:09 PM
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This is far but I’ll even go so far to say it’s not even just cause men gravitate towards it but everyone does. I work with all women but I still do my makeup because I feel more confident and put together and feel that it’s more professional.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 05:48 PM
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Yes! Reminded me of this I saw the other day https://preview.redd.it/h6scqxv50mac1.jpeg?width=1143&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=0e0c30ab59820ce7d16c7530fccf9a30045e0910
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 11:45 AM
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What do you mean? Like if I did it all over again if still date him again. We had fun and I learned a lot and it made me better.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 11:35 AM
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They’re just trying to be supportive but I agree. It’s like nah he had his reasons he’s not like evil I’m doing okay. Upward and onward
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 04:16 AM
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Just feel better about myself and more confident. Makes me make better eating choices - I struggle with binge eating so when I work out I feel a little more inclined to not “ruin” it. Gets the endorphins pumping which is good. Socialization so I’m not just sitting at home after work. Better sleep
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 04:00 AM
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Taking responsibility for the role I played in my breakup has been a game changer for me and I needed to be really honest with myself to realize that. My girlfriends spew the usual like “you deserve better” “screw him” But like working on myself has made me realize that I wasn’t a very good girlfriend at all- even tho I loved him a lot and coming to that realization was honestly very freeing. I caused a lot of unnecessary stress on both of us and I think that ultimately led to the downfall. No r…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 03:58 AM
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My fav is Prompt: the best way to get to know me is…. Every single man: “just ask”
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 03:51 AM
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I went to a few proms but my favorite theme was starry night 🥺🥺 like the vangogh painting with yellow and navy. Although also cool we had our prom on Friday the thirteenth and the theme was like horror glam all red and black
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 03:49 AM
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Eat right, excercise, lean into hobbies, journal, seek out platonic relationships, take pride in your appearance and home
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 03:06 AM
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I know right. Like making your bed every morning and shit wow
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 03:05 AM
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I used to think everyone was bullshitting about how much excercise helps your mental healthy but I’ve been going to the gym regularly and it has literally changed my life
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 06:32 PM
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I’m feeling pretty good about this year. Turns out all the things people always told me would help my mental health help my mental health who would have thought 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 06:03 PM
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He honestly was super nervous which was strange cause he’s attractive and a pro athlete. He told me he hasn’t dated much cause he’s super focused on hockey. He was pretty shy. Like he didn’t kiss me for the first 3 dates and then when he did he was like “finally I was so nervous trying to find the perfect time” so just stuff like that made me think it wasn’t that effortless for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 05:44 PM
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I’ve done this after every date I’ve ever gone on. Either told them to text me or texted them I got home safe. I like it cause it gives you an excuse to continue on the convo if you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 05:33 PM
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Yeah I agree it had to happen. He was fine tho we didn’t date very long
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 01:37 PM
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He didn’t tell me that. Just a hunch by me
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 01:37 PM
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No I don’t think so. I just think it wasn’t meant to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 01:06 AM
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Not even a feminist. We all know you don’t have a wife and kids lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 12:44 AM
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yeah like being OBSSESED with a women you don’t knows life to like track her on multiple threads is a bit strange. And to like tell her she has to have children soon or uhhhh she’s gonna have cats. Cause like rushing children and marriage is such a good idea and not a huge disaster Hope your happy with your wife and kids or are you maybe projecting?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 12:41 AM
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I’m really good dude. I think you have issues honestly and it’s scaring me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 12:37 AM
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You can try to make me upset all you want. It only makes you look foolish. I’m happy with where I am and where I’m headed. I feel really sorry for you and hope you find what you’re looking for
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 12:29 AM
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I have 3!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 12:28 AM
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I’m good. Thanks though :)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 12:26 AM
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I’m fine to not be married or have kids. I’m a teacher so I get lots of love 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 12:26 AM
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Totally agree. I just frankly don’t want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 11:55 PM
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First girlfriend yea
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 11:42 PM
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Well I broke up with the guy I’ve been dating for good. Even tho I told him I was still healing from a breakup and he said he was fine to take it slow I just wasn’t feeling good about it. He was okay. He’s attractive and an athlete so he will be fine. I know everyone says this but I truly want to focus on myself for a while. I did feel bad cause he asked if we could still hang out as friends and I was like idk if that’s really a good idea
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 11:39 PM
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I was gonna say Taylor swift would have been a better one to say
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 11:09 PM
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That’s fair do your thang
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 05:08 PM
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I think that’s fair and I’d respect it. Also nothing wrong with seeing how you click before deciding on a label
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 05:00 PM
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Fair enough 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 04:56 PM
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It’s a new relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 04:49 PM
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I’m dating someone but we aren’t serious yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 04:33 PM
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Congratulations! I’d never take my friend away unless she asked. In fact one time my friends and I hung out in a hotel lobby so our other friend could hook up with a guy she met at the bar. Lmao I can only speak from my own experience and me and my friends go out literally to speak to men and socialize and meet possible romantic partners. Constantly cock blocking defeats the purpose
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 04:13 PM
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Guess I’m lucky
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 02:42 PM
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Hope you find one that is!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 02:15 PM
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That’s why I’m here for real advice. My girlfriends offer support not advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 02:09 PM
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Yes it can affect how I feel and behave. Being open and self aware is so rare on here. I’m not ashamed that I’m struggling, don’t have it all together, may not make the perfect argument and can admit when I’m wrong. I can also admit that I do have some bitterness that affects how I feel. All a work in progress. Seems like all the red pill guys have it all figured out!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 02:09 PM
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I am bitter sometimes- but I’m trying not to be 🥰 I am also single I recently went through a bad breakup and am learning from it. I enjoy talking to people with different points of view. Thanks for the chat. Deff not a feminist tho
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 02:07 PM
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ahhh code for “I have no rebuttal” I’m 27 and I am singleish and I do have bitterness over certain things. Being open and self aware is such a gift. You should try it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 02:05 PM
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Oh good! Yes. average women have different life experiences than beautiful women 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 02:03 PM
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I’ve lived in England for a year
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 02:03 PM
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Yep bitter. Read the rest please🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 02:02 PM
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Another bitter man allowing pain to totally cloud his judgment. I’ve waited in a hotel lobby with my friend while my other friend fucked a guy she met at the bar in our hotel room. something I would never do personally- but if she wanted to make it happen she’d make it happen and if her friends are her friends we’d support her 😅 when my friends and I go out we enjoy talking to men. We break the ice for eachother we talk to Someone’s friend we aren’t into to give our friend time. We are most defi…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 02:01 PM
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It is the same and I would say the same to the women who go after those guys
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 01:58 PM
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And I’m a teacher 😛
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 01:46 PM
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I’d say the same thing to a woman dating one of those guys. If you want a bad boy accept the consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 01:46 PM
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Show me one man not wearing a tshirt(sleeves on or off) with basketball shirts or grey sweatpants. This is actually hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 01:31 PM
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Alright.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 01:30 PM
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Went to your page and it’s the first post. When men have such strong unsubstantiated claims against women It’s usually because they’ve recently been hurt. I just went through a terrible break up- I could say a lot of bad things about “men” too, but I refuse to let one man or even a handful convince me they’re all terrible because I have plenty of loyal, strong, and kind men in my life too.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 01:28 PM
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Men’s clothes are more varied? That’s hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 01:25 PM
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Sorry you recently went through a breakup. I did too. Don’t let it make you bitter.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 01:24 PM
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Hahahaha that might be true. I’m the average chick you’re talking about lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 01:20 PM
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promise you that’s not true. Isn’t the biological theory that men want multiple partners? I think you’re jaded from a past experience with one specific women who didn’t want to date you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 01:19 PM
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Yes we will.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 01:16 PM
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Delusional. She was checking up on her friend. If she wanted to come back she would have. No women is cock blocking her friend. Me and my friends go out specifically wanting to talk to guys- you’re just hurt
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 01:16 PM
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lmao hate non monogamy? Most women I know are desperate for monogamy. Including myself
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 01:15 PM
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Every man I know where’s t shirts/ wife beaters and basketball shorts or sweats to the gym. It almost like that’s just what’s comfortable to work out in. Trends are trends this is dumbest argument I’ve ever heard in my life. Every man I know is obsessed with football. Can’t even think of one who doesn’t watch it. Is that because they are a hivemind??? Or is it just because it is a popular past time people enjoy sharing with their friends? Bitterness has clouded every single thing for red pill fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 01:04 PM
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no that’s usually men- because women only want men for what they offer to them right? Or whatever stupid red pill theory Instabaddies are also their own brand and everyone with two braincells know it. If you go for them accept the consequences. Plenty of normal attractive women out there
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 12:53 PM
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I have finally unlocked the Peter griffin skin on Fortnite
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 12:15 PM
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then pick girls that aren’t just hot. You only value looks you get a women who only values looks. Don’t feel bad for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 11:54 AM
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Man goes after insta thots and then is mad they are insta thots. What came first the chicken or the egg. 85% of women are not doing that. I’ve never listened to drake in my life that is the most ridiculous thing I’ve ever heard. Maybe stop going after basic bitches
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 11:50 AM
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it was Both. A lot of crazy circumstances but in the end I was willing to try to make it work and he wasn’t. So…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 03:46 AM
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I mean I think I mentioned I missed my ex. I wouldn’t message him tho. I sent him my thoughts and he didn’t respond. Nothing else for me to do. Of course I’d love to keep talking to him but I’m also not stupid. I could send him a million messages of how I feel but what would that really accomplish. He’s made his feelings apparent
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 03:39 AM
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Not sure what you’re referring to. I definitely hold back my feelings but that’s to make others more comfortable. I know how I feel on the inside
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 03:34 AM
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Maybe a little. He deff seems like inexperienced. But he’s attractive and a pro athlete so I don’t know. I think maybe he doesn’t mind something lowkey low commitment right now too.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 03:34 AM
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Thanks 🥰🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 03:30 AM
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Pretty good! I was off Reddit for a while but I relapsed lol. I’m in a good place mentally tho 🥰🍾
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 03:24 AM
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When you know you know works both ways
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 03:23 AM
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Well im not married- so all my relationships have ended. Even when they’re on good terms I still feel hurt I’m also a little nuts wouldn’t be fair to leave that out
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 03:21 AM
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I am all these things- but Im geniunel at the time so I’m gonna forgive myself for being desperate
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 03:20 AM
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We’ve chatted before about this I used to go by livs4drpepper
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 03:18 AM
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Cause I don’t feel the way I did about my ex. I imagined a future with him daydreamed exc I don’t do that with this guy. I still need to heal from my last relationship to be capable of it. I’m focusing on myself. Just when I went to break up with him he was like let’s just keep it lowkey no pressure exc and I was like okay I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 03:16 AM
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I wouldn’t do either but don’t really care what other people do. Think the age gap thing is pretty over blown. Most age gap couples I know are pretty normal. Harems are cool if you’re into that. Having a man provide for you might be worth sharing for some
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 03:13 AM
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Yeah I guess you’d say that. But I’ve been open about my feelings and he is okay with the situation I’m in so I feel like that’s all I can do
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 03:03 AM
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He’s very sweet and adores me. We have fun together I told him I’m not ready for anything serious and he says that’s fine. I wouldn’t agree if I were him id be gone but idk I’ve been open about my feelings so
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 03:03 AM
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“Okay bleeder” is the new “woman moment”
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 02:49 AM
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I think a passionate women is worth the chaos but you’re free to disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 02:46 AM
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He’s just not. He’s not the one at all. But I told him that im getting over my ex and still figuring stuff out and he still wants to try so whatever. He’s good to me so it’s alright.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 02:40 AM
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it’s better than bleeder
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 02:39 AM
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He’s not
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 02:38 AM
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Isn’t female women a little redundant or is that like a woke thing
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 02:35 AM
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Nope just musing
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 02:34 AM
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Being a lover girl is the greatest privilege
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 02:32 AM
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It’s the easiest thing in the world
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 02:28 AM
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I’ll never regret being a lover girl and falling hard for people even if I always end up hurt and I’ll never let it make me bitter and I’ll always try again
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 02:25 AM
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Mine look subtle
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 08:48 PM
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I have them and they’re so expensive and annoying but I’m in so deep
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 08:45 PM
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You trying to take lessons or what? I’m a big tennis player and I joined a Fb group for people to play with. I found a friend and we played weekly when I lived in Florida it’s kinda awkward but it did work for men
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 12:41 PM
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Hey not all women have mental issues- just me and all my friends happen to but it’s a coincidence
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 04:37 AM
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It’s not a bad idea but you gotta use bees wax and cocoa/shea butter or coconut oil Vaseline is a little weird cause it’s petroleum
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 04:22 PM
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Ooo that’s a good one
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 04:21 PM
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What scent
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 04:18 PM
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Where we dropping boys
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 04:14 PM
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this would work on me
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 04:07 PM
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Moister
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 03:57 PM
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Yeah I think it’s perfect. Open the door but let her decide what to do with it no pressure. If she’s not interested she sweeps it into the trash and pretends she never saw it and we all move on. It’s totally in her hands and she doesn’t feel forced by being asked while awkwardly on the job
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 01:21 AM
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Would depend how good of friends I was with her
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 12:10 AM
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But you’re not. You leave your number as you’re leaving- they can pretend they never saw it and sweep it into the trash. It’s not like you’re making a scene or making them feel obligated to to accept. I think it’s the perfect way to respectfully show interest to someone who is working :)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 10:52 PM
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have you ever left your number for a server/bartender? I once left my number for a cute bartender at a brewery and he texted me saying he was flattered a girl like me would leave my number for him but he was in a relationship with kids. I would deff do it again if I was single- worst case they just don’t text you
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 09:33 PM
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My parents do this and I’m 27 lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 08:17 PM
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And you may tell yourself this is not my beautiful wife
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 08:11 PM
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Yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 05:50 PM
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I’m just obnoxious it’s not because I’m a New Yorker
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 05:50 PM
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He didn’t tell me he’s just had a ton of nervous energy from the first date and sleeping together but he’s admitted he’s shy and doesn’t have much experience with women as he’s spent his life OBSSESED with hockey but idk
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 05:50 PM
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Ewww Obv a New Yorker
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 05:47 PM
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Peach
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 05:44 PM
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I’m not 100% positive and I didn’t ask but I got that vibe
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 05:44 PM
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I’m definitley my new bfs first girlfriend which I thought would bother me but it doesn’t at all. It’s actually quite sweet
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 02:51 PM
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Hot
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 03:47 AM
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true true commitment issues are very real. I have the exact opposite I’m fucked up in the dying for commitment fear of abandonment way
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 03:41 AM
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Ugh I wish unfortunately I’m literally OBSSESED with love
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 03:40 AM
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When I’m into a guy and want to date him I have complete tunnel vision. I’m genuinely not interested in casually dating other guys or even texting, swiping, exc. So I feel like fellas if you’re dating a girl but she’s still hanging out with other guys cause you’re not exclusive- she’s just not that into you. Or maybe I’m just extremely intense who knows
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 03:33 AM
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I’m a big fan
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 02:53 AM
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https://preview.redd.it/740x90gv3d7c1.jpeg?width=4032&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=9afaf706f25336c29538546c724ad6594dd0c526
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 02:37 AM
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No men can compete because im spoiled by my 1st graders 😎😎 https://preview.redd.it/bcqmnfjl3d7c1.jpeg?width=1576&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=b995345c850e4d210a1bcd6e56a87e077304ff3b
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 02:36 AM
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Insta doesn’t even save your likes. You gotta save them or screenshot so WRONG
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 12:32 AM
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Teach English in Korea? Super fun and make good money
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 12:31 AM
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Thank you like I’m not even asking him not to look just not to embarrass me
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 12:13 AM
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A few because you like the show is fine. Too many or hentai would bother me and seems extremely pathetic
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 12:09 AM
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if you’re single do whatever you want
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 12:08 AM
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Honestly feel like that’s better than the public display of disrespect but I still wouldn’t like it and it would bother me a lil just because of the sheer amount. A few here and there who cares
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 12:06 AM
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that’s totally fine. I honestly would also be fine if he did while dating but stopped after I brought it up. It’s just a respect thing- we all know what’s going on there and it’s the public spectacle of it. I know other women are hot and men like looking at them- no problem- but out of respect for your girlfriend I’d keep it private
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 11:53 PM
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Bruh liking insta thots pics is the biggest ick and deal breaker to me Idec if my dude looks at them or watches porn but like liking the pics like a little puppy hoping they see it or something is just too pathetic to me instantbreakup
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 11:48 PM
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