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Boooo I want to witch hunt it’s my right
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 10:28 PM
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Jokes on you I just complimented you. I’m learning😎 didn’t work tho you didn’t seem to like it
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 10:26 PM
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Wait I haven’t figured it out yet anymore tips? You give really good advice
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 10:21 PM
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Woman moment🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 10:17 PM
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Cringe also no where to go from here…thanks?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 10:15 PM
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Patrick thinks I’m pretty🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 10:15 PM
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Smh
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 10:14 PM
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More like Cringe
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 10:08 PM
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Damn apparently you can’t call people out by name anymore? Back in my prime there were whole threads about me
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 09:52 PM
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Well I look like a trans woman in my new passport photos 🙃 I look so manly when I can’t smile
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 03:29 PM
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One of the reasons the guy I was dating and I broke up was because I’m going on a girls trip and I just did not want to be in a relationship with him while on it 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 06:19 PM
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Oh cmon Just because I’ve failed the last 45 times you thought I was gonna fail this time too
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 02:59 PM
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Yes but when I’m good I’m so good
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 02:46 PM
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I met my ex on ppd and went on a date with another
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 02:44 PM
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I’m a serial dater but I’m not a cheater
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 02:43 PM
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Yeah this one took it pretty rough 😅🙄😥
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 02:42 PM
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The yes is a confirmation not that I’m happy about it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 02:42 PM
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We use eachother 🥺
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 02:41 PM
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YES IM SINGLE AGAIN
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 02:19 PM
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We broke up I’m a serial dater
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 02:13 PM
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Um
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 01:51 PM
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I love them really make me look and act my best
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 01:50 PM
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About that….
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 01:50 PM
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Having a work crush changes everything
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 12:18 PM
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I don’t discriminate
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 03:48 PM
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<image> I’m listening
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 03:37 PM
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Of course
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 01:27 AM
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I only buy brunette Fortnite skins it’s my code of honor
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 11:34 PM
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We’re gonna do some scenic stuff but we aren’t super hikers lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 06:42 PM
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Going on a trip next month with my best friend to Arizona any must dos? We are going all over the state
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 06:33 PM
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We met a few days later and a few times after that and it was fine
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 02:02 PM
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This was years ago and it wasn’t that deep 🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 02:02 PM
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Fr should have put me in my place
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 01:44 PM
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He put a bar we both frequent and met at “Friday night”
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 01:43 PM
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I don’t consider it at all cause it was unintentional genuinely thought he just said that in passing and didn’t want to/forgot
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 12:50 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 12:36 PM
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Perfect plan tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 12:33 PM
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Well we didn’t stay together…we hung out a few times but that was it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 12:26 PM
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We didn’t have plans in my opinion he mentioned something in passing. We ended up going out another time anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 12:23 PM
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That’s fair that would piss me off
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 12:22 PM
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We ended up going out again anyway 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 12:22 PM
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Fr
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 12:21 PM
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Have you ever been stood up for a date? I’ve never stood anyone up but I have had a guy on Tuesday be like “let’s go out Friday” and then he didn’t text me the whole rest of the week so I assumed it wasn’t happening and he texted me “I’m here” and I was like uhhhhhhh
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 12:07 PM
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HEY
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 11:53 AM
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One baby won’t hurt
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 11:42 AM
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It feels like a great idea in the moment but one of us has to have good judgement
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 11:39 AM
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quality time with your penis 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 11:23 PM
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Well I’m doing my part to remedy
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 11:23 PM
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😱😱😮😲🙊🤯😯😳😨🙀😯😧 me pretending to be suprised every time a man tells me his love language is physical touch
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 10:34 PM
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I have the Watchmen omnibus 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 06:51 PM
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What would be some cool/smart books to have in my office ( I promise I will actually read them) I work in mental health but am in administration so could be either side
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 06:02 PM
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Have you ever gone to a bar by yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 12:37 AM
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I gave up candy for lent and I’m feeling it hard 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 04:00 PM
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Oh I have. Nothings better than a fight before I go out for girls night
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 03:29 AM
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You’re right I should be locked away in my tower
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 02:28 AM
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When the guy who met me drunk at a bar in a little skirt doesn’t want me drunk at a bar in a little skirt
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 01:14 AM
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I definitely was in some ways not in others
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 01:26 AM
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I fooled around before then but nope
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 12:46 AM
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I lost my virginity at 22 that’s a good age I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 12:37 AM
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I got you thanks 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 01:13 AM
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What do you mean
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 01:09 AM
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4 years I’m 28 and he’s 24
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 09:53 PM
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For the first time in my life I’m dating a guy younger than me
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 09:12 PM
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Wegmans, price chopper, Weis
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 09:12 PM
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I think he means erectile dysfunction
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 04:05 PM
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Get a female therapist and talk about in depth with her as a form of exposure therapy
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 04:04 PM
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I see fat ugly men partnered all the time you’re so blinded it’s clouding your judgement fr
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 03:43 PM
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My point is woman most likely treat you neutrally and you’re so insecure that you view this as a huge slight. Just like men don’t buy drinks for woman they don’t find attractive in some way…is that being mean? Or is it being neutral
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 03:34 PM
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They’re buying me drinks cause they think I’m attractive and they value that kinda my whole point
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 03:28 PM
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Your own insecurity is projecting onto how you believe others view you
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 03:19 PM
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I’ll agree with this
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 03:18 PM
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Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 01:59 PM
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Maybe with looks
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 01:59 PM
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you should be scared…we’re extremely annoying
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 01:36 PM
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I’d say the same to men
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 01:34 PM
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Spend 10 minutes with my friends and you’ll see how many men we find attractive You’ll be forced to hear about it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 01:30 PM
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Tf I see them all day everyday and I’m dating someone I find very attractive he’s no model but like I’m very attracted to him
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 01:27 PM
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I really can’t believe people will still say women value looks more than men There’s a lot of things you could argue women might value more than men (money,status) but looks really isn’t one of them
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 01:23 PM
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Never let him get too comfortable men hate that
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 01:14 PM
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I love starting fights with my boyfriends as a little treat after I’ve been good
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 12:43 PM
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after a espresso martini or two
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 03:02 PM
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When a guy says I’m high maintenance I take that as a compliment cause they lowkey love it
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 02:47 PM
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That’s true
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 04:10 PM
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BUT IM BRUNETTE
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 03:57 PM
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And also I’m brunette so
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 03:57 PM
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Is someone calling you “Barbie” a compliment 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 03:45 PM
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NY gal when I had bumble I had over 4000 likes
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 02:48 PM
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I dated a guy who was in the army and he told me he fucked up his shoulder so bad I had to be on top everytime Dude still went to the gym everyday tho
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/25 02:46 PM
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I’m taking golf lessons so I can stun everyone at my works golf tournament
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 11:44 PM
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Snapchat be like “special moments” and it’s just me on a bender
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 03:52 PM
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lol yeah im not really intimidated physically by most men I do know that most can physically take me no matter how big I am but I also like don’t feel as worried as if I were petite or something
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 03:39 PM
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Around 190 -I’m thick trying to lose tho
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 03:33 PM
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I’m not at all but I wouldn’t be physically intimidated by any lower but I’m also 5’10 myself
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 03:05 PM
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5’10 vibes
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 02:47 PM
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Fingers crossed
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 11:13 PM
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Work conferences are the horniest events on the planet. I’ve never been explicitly propositioned more in my life Just an unwritten rule that everyone is banging I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 08:45 PM
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Just a regular profile. Both photos im at wrestling events so it’s not that unheard of I just felt like bragging and I do think it’s cool🥹
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 03:08 AM
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You’re not a whore
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 03:06 AM
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Proud to report as of today two professional wrestlers have liked my photos on Instagram 🏆
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 02:56 AM
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Hokas
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 07:17 PM
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Cold obv
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 03:28 PM
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I always like to do the cooking 💪🏼
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 01:05 AM
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Yes that’s only gonna be problems
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 01:05 AM
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20-50 but very situational
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 01:03 AM
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Depends on the situation. But they are extreme either way in my experiences Men who are trying to date you are super respectful and by the book and traditional and want to marry you after 3 dates, dudes who are trying to bang you are extremely forward and will not give it a rest. I also got roofied in Korea lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 11:16 PM
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Me when I first moved to Korea- wow these men are so nice they all want to help me practice me Korean and help me run errands Me soon after: Oh
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 11:11 PM
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Ooo I bought Hogwarts legacy, I have never played any final fantasy and only know a few characters from smash but someone else told me I should play that so maybe I willl Ps I really did think it’s relevant to the game seeing as it’s two player but I am happy 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 04:44 AM
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I’ll take any suggestions I just got a ps5
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 04:35 AM
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Biggest problem I see is people (mostly women just from my own friends) who have casual sex and say they’re okay with it but are actually absolutely hoping and praying it turns into more. If you are honest with yourself that you want casual than that’s great- but I’ve seen so many people hurt because they really think it’s gonna turn into more tho they’ve said a million times they’re okay keeping it casual
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 04:24 AM
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https://youtu.be/1-MM1UTtjyU?si=H6MCfHjOmw2EItTU
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 04:21 AM
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https://youtu.be/1-MM1UTtjyU?si=H6MCfHjOmw2EItTU
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 04:21 AM
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I know but lowkey love the drama that’s why I posted again
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 04:20 AM
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I’m playing it’s take two right now as well- I just got a ps5 for Christmas i only had a switch for a while. I had played a way out a long time ago which is also really fun but I like it takes two more so far
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 04:19 AM
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I would
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 04:16 AM
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Hops on to talk about a fun game I got for Christmas I thought people would have an interesting gender roles point of view on- instant regret 😅 This is the game btw https://youtu.be/1-MM1UTtjyU?si=H6MCfHjOmw2EItTU
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 04:16 AM
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Try the game out it’s super fun!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 04:14 AM
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No worries I just deleted it- try the game tho it’s super fun!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 04:13 AM
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Yes I’d say so- I felt I was better at reading the hefty amount of information and telling him what was most useful and then getting his feedback and looking for more information than trying to follow the directions or visualize what he was telling me to do tactile wise
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 04:11 AM
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Yes sir 🫡
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 01:21 PM
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Working in corporate now…I feel totally unprofessional if I don’t have my hair and makeup down- I used to just do it when I felt like but now I do it everyday for work and deff notice a different in treatment
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 01:15 PM
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Lolol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 12:44 PM
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Thank you king just explaining what prompted the statement
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 03:51 PM
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I just saw someone post about it but okay
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 03:40 PM
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I know you are but what am I
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 03:38 PM
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I am lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 02:47 PM
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I just said it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 02:47 PM
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A person is entitled to to want what they want doesn’t mean they are gonna get it Big fat ugly husband with hot wife is a huge trope in movies and tv…I’d say the same thing to a woman look in the mirror
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 02:38 PM
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I’d say the same thing to a woman. I’m bmi 27.7 and I’d never say my man has to be skinny or fit or anything- I actually do not care as long as I’m attracted to them
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 02:37 PM
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Everyone is entitled to want what they want…but you have to admit it is funny when an overweight guys says he could never date a fat woman like look in the mirror bro
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 02:30 PM
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Meh dlc didn’t do it for me 1 wasn’t my fav
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 02:45 PM
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Literally same I was like dude that’s not a selling point at all
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 02:04 PM
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Animalities just came out btw
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 02:04 PM
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That’s fair like I know guys cream their pants when a girl plays video games or hunts or fishes but that does not translate well the other way, a man who is into the girly stuff I like is a huge turnoff lmak
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 12:58 PM
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that’s so funny to picture- literally making a hinge This made me actually lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 12:55 PM
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He definitley doesn’t mind her- my point was he thought that would be a big selling point for him which I just don’t think is realistic
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 12:48 PM
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OH GROW UP
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 12:42 PM
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Last night I was talking with my friend as he was making a hinge…. Him: I’m gonna put I love chappel roan cause I swear all the girls love her Me: well girls don’t necessarily need you to like what they like they’d probably prefer you like manly interests Him: what do you mean? Me: it’s not really attractive or necessary that a guy like what I like…I’d prefer him have his own more manly interests than just saying he likes what I like Him: that doesn’t make any sense Can someone explain this bett…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 12:40 PM
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Oh hell yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 12:20 PM
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That might be worth it playa
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 05:25 PM
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it would heavily depend how it fits into your/our life but it could potentially be a dealbreaker for me for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 05:21 PM
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lol cold take that’s a new one- I agree but there are plenty of people who enjoy weed culture and do not find heavy usage a turnoff
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 05:18 PM
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Honestly I’ll smoke occasionally or do an edible with friends but why is it so normalized to NEED POT the second you wake up to the second you fall asleep
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 05:17 PM
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Giving me a drunk cig is like giving a mouse a cookie
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 05:16 PM
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IMO being a pothead is unattractive
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 05:14 PM
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Well I have to give him positive feedback because I want to encourage him to continue to make gestures 💁🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 02:43 AM
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I just said thank you so much exc but made a joke I was gonna go to the gym extra tomorrow or something. But I might bring it back up at some point casually if it makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 02:25 AM
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5’10
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 02:19 AM
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you rock-I kinda did this but will probably have a further convo about it just to reitorate and bring up some of the points you said about other options and things I can do as well :)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 02:19 AM
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Lmaoooooo that would be hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 02:16 AM
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Are you a newyorkaaaa this just might work
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 02:13 AM
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Yes I’m tall and thick- I’ve been losing weight over the last few months. It is the perfect trap I happily ate it 🤦🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 02:13 AM
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Probably a little of both
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 01:59 AM
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When the guy I’m dating knows I’m in the process of losing weight and yet door dashes me cold stone creamery without telling me until it’s at my door 😐😐 how to respectfully be like don’t do that again but I appreciate the romantic gesture??
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 01:47 AM
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One time I was like 15 and something (dumb I’m sure) happened and I was crying and I said “ugh it’s so hard being me” and my dad said “but you’re so good at it” Could definitley work if you want to flirty or joke back 🤷🏻‍♀️ Ps I love my dad 🥺
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 01:43 AM
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Oh like jäger
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 01:37 AM
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Not really-I’m just joking because I dated one guy I met on Reddit. It wasn’t intentional tho we just hit it off
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 11:24 PM
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Oh come one it’s the 21st century!! Free love
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 11:11 PM
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I’m special
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 11:06 PM
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lol no I don’t even use hinge often tho I did date a guy from there for a bit and he was great. I just wanted to ruffle a few feathers
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 11:03 PM
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I’ve never used tinder only bumble hinge and reddit of course
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 11:01 PM
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Yes between you and me I think it’s a good idea and I’m a lover girl so I always have blinders for the guy I’m dating but I just wanted to ruffle some feathers. I met the last guy I dated on hinge and he was great. Just wasn’t meant to be long term
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 11:01 PM
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It’s alright I’m on the phone with hinge should be taken care of soon
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 10:57 PM
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Yes it’s new but im on the phone with hinge right now so it should be reversed soon
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 10:55 PM
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https://youtu.be/VM3uXu1Dq4c?si=eNlIzu4VB6OXp9p9
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 10:54 PM
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They need time bump that number up
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 10:50 PM
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I’m built different
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 10:50 PM
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😐 no comment
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 10:47 PM
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Ugh did you see hinge only lets you have 8 open conversations at a time LAME
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 10:45 PM
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as a woman peacocking is my FAVORITE pua technique for a night out I always wear something a little silly/crazy like a funky wig, face stamps, fun outfit because it gives men an easy low stakes Ice breaker to talk to me Then I can either just take the compliment and move on if I’m bit interested or banter a bit if I’m feeling flirty.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 10:43 PM
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True I’ll happily oblige
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 09:39 PM
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I’ll do whatever I want! Hope this helps
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 06:48 PM
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Need me some of them. Mine are always like so where we going after this 😀 Like my brother in Christ you bought me one drink
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 05:06 PM
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Obviously I’m just picturing like in a bar guys my own age are a little more like strategic with the drink buying attention, talking, and expect more reciprocity while as older men are like here’s 20 drinks gals you’re so hot take my money
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 05:00 PM
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Fair enough I’m just picturing the old men who think I’m cute and by me drinks all night and worship me even tho it’s obvious to everyone else but them they’re being used. But maybe they just don’t care
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 05:00 PM
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Side note ironically I find older men easier to manipulate than younger men
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 04:37 PM
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I mean it’s probably a little bit that but mostly just that they are hotter
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 03:57 PM
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God this England trip has been such a blast idk if it’s cause I’m American or I’ve lost weight recently but I’ve never felt more confident and sexy and I’ve met so many people
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 10:44 PM
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Met a guy at the bar tonight- totally hit it off_ 100% only problem in 27 and he’s 20 I feel like a predator I didn’t know until after
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 11:22 PM
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Nah just waiting to board lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 09:38 PM
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Four beers was not the move before my red eye flight to England
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 09:16 PM
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It is a legitimate hobby but is much more pervasive and easier to do for long periods of time than other hobbies. It’s all about balance. I think working out is an attractive hobby but if a guy did it 6 hours a day I would think that’s too much and taking time from other things he or we could be doing It’s hard to work out 6 hours a day it’s quite easy to play video games 6 hours a day (ask me how I know lol) Anything in excess is a problem. If my bf unwinds with video games for an hour or two a…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 07:12 PM
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If I had a nickel for every time I dated a brown guy in college whose parents swore I was corrupting their son even though he was drinking and having premarital sex LONG before he met me I’d have two nickels🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 01:42 PM
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Yeah I mean I do know women who actually care. I don’t- but me and my best friend do joke about it as we both have bad exs that are aquariuses. But if a guy at a bar told me he was Aquarius I’d be like “get away from me” but in a flirty way
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 12:10 PM
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No it’s usually pretty hot probably from a biological level
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 11:59 AM
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To be fair I don’t really believe in it but it is a fun ice breaker that allows you to be flirty I’ll always say like “oooo I think we’re compatible” or something but I do know some girls take it seriously
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 11:57 AM
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Well two of my best friends (I went to wrestlemania with them) are guys so I couldn’t be a hypocrite but I’ve never so much as kissed either one we are childhood friends so I view that much different
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 08:28 PM
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I wouldn’t care caveat being that they’ve never been romantically or sexually involved before. I really can’t do the we used to sleep together but now we’re just friends- but I have childhood friends who I’m still close with the opposite sex no biggie. Would be situational for me
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 08:18 PM
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Can’t relate me and my best friend go out a few times a month just us two and mingle with loads of people. There’s always people looking to chat with the opposite sex imo Are you in a city or rural?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 03:24 PM
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MAYBE😅😅
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 01:28 PM
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We were just chatting and he said you seem like a daddy’s girl am I right
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 01:23 PM
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Guy at the bar last night said I seemed like a daddy’s girl lmfao I am a daddy’s girl but not sure if that was a compliment or an insult 🤨
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 01:18 PM
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Yeah I mean I see probably 1-3 movies a week depending
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 03:15 PM
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Ya 21.99 a month unlimited movies
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 03:09 PM
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I’d be fine that if it wasn’t over 50% of the movie
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 02:43 PM
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I don’t resent him for having that history , but it’s not something I necessarily want to talk or know about in intimate detail. If he respects that- I’m cool. If he doesn’t I’d probably end it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 02:39 PM
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I have regal unlimited so I see like every movie that comes out lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 02:37 PM
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Nope but you can notarize for your employer
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 02:32 PM
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No. I don’t care. then again I’ve never seen extreme either way- every guy I’ve been with has been “normal” I would say. I’d say circumcised vs uncircumcised was more of an adjustment for me but neither was bad at all, just different.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 02:30 PM
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I’ve seen both. Obviously I’d go monkey man but I don’t have the nostalgia for Godzilla and kong that you do. After Godzilla minus one the other ones only disappoint. In GVK the human parts and dialogue are pretty terrible imo. But my buddy who loves Kong liked it a lot so you can’t go wrong. If you want to “shut off your brain” for a few hours I’d go GVK but if you want something interesting and exciting I’d go monkey man.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 02:28 PM
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That’s pretty much the process. US govt is like Promise you’ll be good 🥺🥺👉🏼👈🏼
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 02:23 PM
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No one thinks that. I chose a woman dominated field and I make less money life goes on. I make the same as men in the same role as me. If I didn’t I’d wonder why, same as I’d wonder why if another woman had the same role as me but made more.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 02:00 PM
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I just became a notary public for my job and It’s kinda funny how serious they take it. Having to take an oath and shit I feel like a secret agent
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 01:59 PM
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Lol who is being rude? Are you like insanely sensitive or something? It just doesn’t seem like this is going anywhere I type several things and you pick one tiny thing to basically “correct” me on. (Ummm actually vibes) That’s not a discussion or debate in good faith. No one is telling you to date promiscuous women. Your standards are your standards. If they’re working well for you…why do you care about women’s disdain?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 03:16 AM
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I think most preferences have reasons behind them and dating based on those values leads to success. But you seem pretty stuck in your own narrative so no use wasting my time xoxo
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 03:12 AM
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yes and? There’s still a reason why. You clearly missed my entire point.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 03:09 AM
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I mean in my opinion attitude and values around sex are more important than the number. That’s what I mean by made up rule. I won’t have sex with people with an n count over 3= made up rule I want a woman who believes that sex is special and should be shared with people who care for her as a person=value If everything else is perfect I can compromise if we share values- if you cant “get over it” that’s your prerogative and no one is forcing you to be with those women but I also don’t feel sorry …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 03:07 AM
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No one cares about the made up rules you have for yourself. It’s your choice. We don’t have disdain- it’s more like just thinking it’s dumb because everything is situational and car by case but in the end it’s your life and you can have whatever preference you want
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 02:51 AM
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I mean it definitely is the more powerful position. Men who know their worth and are comfortable walking away and not settling if they aren’t happy are cool. I can respect that. As long as they are dumping for the right reasons (incompatibility, different points in life, exc) then I’ll agree- the most powerful person in a realtionships is the one who will walk away if mistreated.but men who date woman just to dump them and “break their hearts” are probably just mentally Ill- if this is a “regula…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 06:21 PM
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Well it’s usually my boyfriend so he doesn’t have to do anything to get sex. And also me and my gal pal will definitley be doing the talking but you’re right on the paying part
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 12:32 AM
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Do men like double dates? Me and my friends love them but I always feel like my bfs are like 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 11:14 PM
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Yeah it’s a no from me
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 11:14 PM
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As a woman I vet by only have sex with men I’m in a committed relationship with
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 04:04 PM
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It’s gotta be hivemind. While I think there’s something to be said for social validation from your friends and Preselection I feel it’s just such a cop out to say women all think the same. In a lot of ways women all think the same in a lot of ways men all think the same in a lot of ways humans all think the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 06:17 PM
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We are both white she’s blonde and I’m brunette
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 03:10 PM
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Awww thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 08:27 PM
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Feel like a woman’s hair, eyebrows, makeup and such plays a much bigger factor
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 08:26 PM
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It’s not that hard for a man. Wear clean clothes and you’re pretty much there.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 08:24 PM
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He was attractive. I mean it was within our friend group so like the same women everytime. She was cute too she was like a Long Island jap
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 08:17 PM
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WHY
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 08:10 PM
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He did it all the time with various people eveytime we went out and they didn’t break up at the time (I believe they are broken up now tho) but I guess maybe Maybe she liked to fight about it later lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 08:06 PM
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😩
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 08:05 PM
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Used to have a friend in college who I’d go out with with other girls in my dorm. She would always try to get all of us to make out with her boyfriend Like she’d be like “you know what would be hilarious?? If you guys just made out” What the fuck was that about
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 08:02 PM
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Y’all are getting resources???
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 07:52 PM
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I think it’s a positive. Shows he’s hardworking enough at something that it can probably transfer into other areas of his life
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 07:50 PM
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Well shit when you say it like that…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 07:50 PM
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Lol guess I’m wrong I tried my best Maybe things have changed since 2009 the way being thick came in style and shit idk Also maybe it has something to do with guys “ideal” type versus the type they go for due to prior success exc
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 06:58 PM
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I do tend to believe the sentiment that men have a little bit more variety of types than women just based on my personal experience. I’m tall and thick and my best friend is short and thin. We both can find men that are into our certain type in any given situation. My girls and I have different types in men-but they aren’t THAT different a lot of the features are still similar just with a few minor tweaks. Like my friend may like tattooed guys I like blue collar but they’re both fit, tall, stron…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 06:49 PM
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Ooo gotcha. I drink liquid iv if I’m hungover same thing right lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 05:00 PM
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Do I need to get them from a special place?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 04:58 PM
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I think it will make you more enjoyable to be around. Especially if you require the people around you to put energy into making you feel more comfortable and confident. It’s exhausting for them- even if they love you. I’ve been that person needing reassurance many times unfortunately Don’t think it’s a magic cure tho
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 03:55 PM
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I’m loving the corporate world (well technically non profit but more businessy I guess ) after teaching/library work for the past few years and I’m so surprised with myself. I was always one of those girlies that was like omg I could never but I’m really settling in well. I love kids and I still get my fix by working at a nice gym in the childcare center like two Sundays a month so I get a free membership
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 03:45 PM
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I’ll take things that don’t happen for 1000 Alex
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 06:49 PM
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can’t wait to get rid of the weekend
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 06:47 PM
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I can’t play anything too hard tbh I like to chill and relax
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 06:45 PM
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I’ve never played
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 06:40 PM
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It’s kinda cheeky with the military stuff lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 06:39 PM
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Kk
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 06:39 PM
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it’s so fun
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 06:37 PM
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That’s me with Fortnite
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 06:37 PM
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Interesting!! I just play casually
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 06:36 PM
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Play with me it’s multi
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 06:35 PM
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It reminds me of fallout cause of the propaganda and the big bugs lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 06:33 PM
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I haven’t played either of those- I’ve been playing hades on my switch but I just got a ps5 so it’s been taking a back seat
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 06:32 PM
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Ooo cool
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 06:32 PM
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Have you played hades
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 06:26 PM
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Anybody play helldivers I’m addicted
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 06:24 PM
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Ooo I don’t play that- is it a video game? I thought it was like figurines and things
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 06:22 PM
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What game
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 06:21 PM
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Me too lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 06:15 PM
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And I’m finally going to wrestlemania this year smh
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 06:15 PM
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Agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 06:14 PM
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probably would get old fast unless he’s super goal orientated like “I’m saving for a house” or “I’m saving for a trip” then I can excuse it a little more. If he’s just hoarding it I’d be like dude let’s live a little and I would expect occasional gifts/ dates just like I give occasional gifts and treats
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 06:09 PM
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This is one of the most like misunderstood things imo here First off I don’t care about money OBVIOUSLY I’m not an idiot and more money is better- but I don’t have any set rules for how much money my partner has to make and it’s extremely contextual. If my partner is getting their masters/phd and isn’t bringing in money right now- totally understandable but they’re clearly demonstrating work ethic and a desire to eventually support me or least join me in making money for the family. If I’m datin…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 05:21 PM
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I like them honestly just being in them is like another level of money
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 03:04 PM
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I’m 27 lmao you nailed it
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 02:17 PM
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Yep. Between the dress, bridal shower which I catered as a gift, bachelorette in Vegas, hair and makeup day of cause she wanted us to look uniform✨even tho I’m basically an amateur makeup artist myself, shoes, nails it adds up so fast
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 01:59 PM
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yeah you never know- they honestly are fun but being in them as a woman is like a whole other level
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 01:41 PM
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Depends if you have friends/cousins/ siblings exc
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 01:29 PM
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I think 20-30 it starts ramping up
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 01:27 PM
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That might be a contributing factor… WHO KNOWS
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 01:27 PM
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God I’m so tired of being in weddings. I’m flattered but like dropping a couple thou and using all my vacation time on bachelorette exc gets old kinda fast I’ve been in 6 weddings in the past like 4 years or so
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 01:17 PM
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Thank you king 🥰🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 09:23 PM
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It’s not so much that I don’t want you to succeed it’s just that there’s nothing I personally can do because you probably won’t value my advice (can’t learn to fish from a fish) and I’m not truthfully that invested in your success beyond a surface level everyone deserves to be happy. I’ll always offer my perspective but I think wanting more than that is a little delusional
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 05:50 PM
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Just be careful I went to a bartending interview a few years ago and the guy goes “oh also I fuck all my bartenders”
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 05:42 PM
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Sorry I get confused cause I don’t see color. Unless you’re an Indian British guy
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 05:10 PM
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lol oh Uhhh american I’m half Italian and half Lithuanian
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 05:02 PM
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YES he’s Pakistani but similar concept for sure. I dated a Pakistani guy in college
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 04:59 PM
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White
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 04:56 PM
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Truly believe they have the something something
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 04:48 PM
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That would be so epic
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 04:43 PM
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Yeah Dev Patel is a perfect example. He was so hot in the green knight. Im also thinking of the YouTuber sixteenleo but I think he’s actually South African or Australian I just had these two guys in my floor that I was super into when I lived in England and they were both like Indian but born and raised in England (I think not 100% in that). I can’t explain it, it’s just been a weird thing for me since
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 04:43 PM
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My favorite niche category is Indian guys that are British. Had huge crushes on two when I studied abroad and has become a niche category that I’ve always been super into
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 04:37 PM
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I think she’s really beautiful but her voice kinda is annoying I can’t lie
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 03:46 PM
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You and people being fertile 😅 I see it tho she is pretty much glowing
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 03:44 PM
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Mad pussy?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 03:39 PM
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Are you male? I just ask cause there aren’t a lot of male social workers- I’m sure you have an interesting perspective
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 03:36 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 03:30 PM
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I always have dreams about when I worked at tj maxx and had to do markdowns and scan a million things
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 03:23 PM
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Hahahaha this comment made me lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 03:12 PM
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My mom was a marketing director for years- I studied communication. I did a marketing internship for Disney. then I wanted to travel like a dummy and taught English and did the peace corps and ended up teaching again when I got home. Now I moved back to NY where I can’t teach (besides temp positions) until I get my masters. I pivoted a bit and am in operations at an education nonprofit- but am definitley looking for my next step. I have money to go to school from when I was in the peace corps- m…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 02:33 PM
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Totally fair. Only reason that one’s on my radar is that my current job would pay for it as the hire a lot of social workers. But I’m conflicted cause even if they payed and I move positions I would barely make more than I do now. I have money from my time in the peace corps so money isn’t a concern but if my employer paid my tutition I can legally use my peace corps money for other things while I’m studying like rent, books, computer exc. but I agree like I’m not sure it’s the wisest of masters…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 02:30 PM
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I know but im a touchy feely girly Do you think I could pivot
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 02:21 PM
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Q4M: thoughts on being woken up with a BJ? would you be okay with your girlfriend waking you up with a blowjob without like asking you the night before? not sure what the protocol for that is lmao I tend to just once ive been dating the guy ask if that’s the type of thing he’s into and if he says yes then I consider it fair game but who knows as we get more woke I don’t want to catch a case
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 02:06 PM
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Can’t decide whether I want to get my masters in teaching, social work, or just pivot and do tech or mba even tho I have minimal experience. I have money from the peace corps so it’s more about what’s the best move
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 01:19 PM
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Few do trick
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 04:54 PM
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Wtf is ad hoc
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 04:19 PM
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Many times
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 01:49 PM
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To be fair it was very casually and people were generally being nice so I highly doubt all those people would date me Also I was on the younger side of the demographic so I think that helped my case hahaah
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 01:00 AM
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Went to a speed dating event tonight with some friends at a brewery and it was actually super fun We had 15 people and you talked to each one for two minutes and then you basically decided whether you’d meet them again. Out of the people 11 said they would meet me for a second time (but one of the rejects was my guy friend who I came with but they still made us have a turn with each other lol) I said yes to 7 so we will see they gave me a list of their numbers. Funny enough tho one of my matches…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 12:51 AM
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Jeez that’s a hard one honestly- I’d say don’t put it on there and try to bring it up casually when you’re talking but that’s a pretty tough ask lol Is it cause you’re religious? Maybe lean into hat aspect if so
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 11:27 PM
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I’m impatienttttt
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 09:11 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 08:58 PM
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Ewwww to awwww real quick
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 08:50 PM
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Most women like when a bad boy has a soft spot * for them cause it makes them feel *special I know I’ve fallen for that in the past. He’s a dick to everyone else but he treats me well it must be because I’m so pretty an awesome. I think it probably would work on men in some way too. Imagine a girl who treats other guys like dirt or won’t give them the time of day but adores you specifically. Or like a good girl/ rule follower that is a freaky slut just for you. Men usually don’t have the luxury …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 08:42 PM
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Was thinking Perth as my friend lives there but would probably explore other parts as well. Interesting! Thanks for your insight :)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 08:39 PM
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But they have character
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 08:32 PM
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Is summer in the US a good time to visit Australia? When is the best you think?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 08:05 PM
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THATS THE FUN OF IT
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 07:59 PM
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Yes I do on a surface level. I’ll also add onto this with people who act insecure can also be conceited deep down. People who are constantly seeking reassurance out of “insecurity” often do so to feed their ego. A lot of insecurity comes from a place of needing constant validation and that all leads to being egotistical. Truly secure and non conceited people- tend to value others opinions but also know that internal validation is the only thing that truly matters. And I know this because I am th…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 07:58 PM
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https://youtu.be/Cg4D8GeAOF0?si=2lsNMq7f-VHx4oUz
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 07:52 PM
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Lol that’s probably true- bring it on
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 07:51 PM
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That’s definitely not true but a little bit of healthy perspective sure can do a lot if you let it
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 07:50 PM
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I just thrifted the cutest picnic basket but I live in NY so it’s too cold to go for Valentines :(
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 07:49 PM
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it can still help you to be grateful for all that you do have- you could be homeless AND single🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 07:32 PM
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Volunteering is the best way to squelch any sadness about it!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 07:22 PM
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guess we will never know 🥰🥰🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 06:41 PM
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https://youtu.be/SLGxJfMCCsQ?si=DMNwGttttkB78W4u
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 06:40 PM
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but why even bother setting up the interview corresponding by email and phone to ghost? Like I get ghosting if it’s the easier option but it seems like they put a lot of time and effort in to ghost. I’m just trying to figure out the motivation- I guess maybe they just get nervous and don’t feel like saying anything
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 06:38 PM
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I thought woman were known to be way more emotional an high strung than men?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 06:30 PM
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Lol yes I am. Interesting. Why do you think that is? Also isn’t female woman a little redundant or is that like a woke thing
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 06:04 PM
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I’m truly blessed 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 06:01 PM
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Nope!i was in a temp position subbing for a teacher on maternity leave cause I moved from Florida to NY- I’m working for an education/literacy based non profit now-I’m not a certified teacher in NY (it’s harder than Florida lol) so I might go back to it but I can only take temp positions at the time- I could deff teach again I just have to get my masters which I plan on soon :) but I like this job anyway! Miss all the breaks tho
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 05:54 PM
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Makes sense. Thanks for your advice!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 05:51 PM
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It’s a group home- so not really glamorous however the pay is good imo
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 05:51 PM
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That makes sense- I had a phone interview and then a regular interview for my job (operations coordinator) but the people we hire are more entry level not even- it’s for a group home so idk if 2 interviews is like absurd. But it’s definitley a thought I usually talk on the phone with them to schedule so can tell if they have etiquette exc. but it’s soooo hard to tell- this is my first time in this kind of role.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 05:41 PM
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Yeah I’m in the interview. We all feel the same like well we dodged a bullet- it’s more just that it’s a weird trend
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 05:35 PM
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That’s fair but like we talked on the phone and set up an interview like 2 days ago- I guess any number of things could happen but it’s just so odd
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 05:33 PM
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Yes I’ve been working on it so hard. Since I found stoicism and therapy I’ve felt really good mentally and lost like 12 lbs. not anywhere near perfect but it’s been a process
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 05:19 PM
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also for lack of sounding like a boomer I started a new job and it involves hiring for a big company with several group homes. I know it’s not the best job in the world but the pay isn’t bad over 20$ an hour for the jobs I’m hiring for. I have literally made 20 interviews in the past month and been ghosted no less than 15 times. Like people talk to me on the phone to set up and interview and then simply don’t show. It’s the strangest thing I would just never in a million years think to do that i…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 05:18 PM
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Me taking 27 years to realize lack of discipline and self control was the cause of 100% of my problems…well better late than never 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 05:13 PM
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In her defense at least in my case it was just something I didn’t know until I knew. And that wasn’t really my fault. I’m an average women and can get a date of old if I want. I know this is how it works. I know it’s not cause I’m amazing but because I’m available. I assumed it was the same for men because why wouldnt i. No one is gonna inherently know the different ratio of males to females on apps exc. I was suprised when I found out male friends who were I’d say on the same level as me strugg…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 11:22 AM
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You gotta give him that
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 11:59 PM
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<image> I’m snowed in so I’m bringing back this gem
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 11:45 PM
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I used to think everyone was bullshitting about how much excercise helps your mental healthy but I’ve been going to the gym regularly and it has literally changed my life
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 06:32 PM
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I’m feeling pretty good about this year. Turns out all the things people always told me would help my mental health help my mental health who would have thought 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 06:03 PM
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No I don’t think so. I just think it wasn’t meant to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 01:06 AM
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yeah like being OBSSESED with a women you don’t knows life to like track her on multiple threads is a bit strange. And to like tell her she has to have children soon or uhhhh she’s gonna have cats. Cause like rushing children and marriage is such a good idea and not a huge disaster Hope your happy with your wife and kids or are you maybe projecting?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 12:41 AM
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I’m really good dude. I think you have issues honestly and it’s scaring me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 12:37 AM
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You can try to make me upset all you want. It only makes you look foolish. I’m happy with where I am and where I’m headed. I feel really sorry for you and hope you find what you’re looking for
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 12:29 AM
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I have 3!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 12:28 AM
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I’m good. Thanks though :)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 12:26 AM
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I’m fine to not be married or have kids. I’m a teacher so I get lots of love 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 12:26 AM
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Totally agree. I just frankly don’t want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 11:55 PM
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First girlfriend yea
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 11:42 PM
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Well I broke up with the guy I’ve been dating for good. Even tho I told him I was still healing from a breakup and he said he was fine to take it slow I just wasn’t feeling good about it. He was okay. He’s attractive and an athlete so he will be fine. I know everyone says this but I truly want to focus on myself for a while. I did feel bad cause he asked if we could still hang out as friends and I was like idk if that’s really a good idea
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 11:39 PM
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I was gonna say Taylor swift would have been a better one to say
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 11:09 PM
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Fair enough 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 04:56 PM
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I’m dating someone but we aren’t serious yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 04:33 PM
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Congratulations! I’d never take my friend away unless she asked. In fact one time my friends and I hung out in a hotel lobby so our other friend could hook up with a guy she met at the bar. Lmao I can only speak from my own experience and me and my friends go out literally to speak to men and socialize and meet possible romantic partners. Constantly cock blocking defeats the purpose
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 04:13 PM
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Guess I’m lucky
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 02:42 PM
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Yes it can affect how I feel and behave. Being open and self aware is so rare on here. I’m not ashamed that I’m struggling, don’t have it all together, may not make the perfect argument and can admit when I’m wrong. I can also admit that I do have some bitterness that affects how I feel. All a work in progress. Seems like all the red pill guys have it all figured out!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 02:09 PM
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I am bitter sometimes- but I’m trying not to be 🥰 I am also single I recently went through a bad breakup and am learning from it. I enjoy talking to people with different points of view. Thanks for the chat. Deff not a feminist tho
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 02:07 PM
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ahhh code for “I have no rebuttal” I’m 27 and I am singleish and I do have bitterness over certain things. Being open and self aware is such a gift. You should try it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 02:05 PM
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Oh good! Yes. average women have different life experiences than beautiful women 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 02:03 PM
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I’ve lived in England for a year
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 02:03 PM
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Yep bitter. Read the rest please🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 02:02 PM
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Another bitter man allowing pain to totally cloud his judgment. I’ve waited in a hotel lobby with my friend while my other friend fucked a guy she met at the bar in our hotel room. something I would never do personally- but if she wanted to make it happen she’d make it happen and if her friends are her friends we’d support her 😅 when my friends and I go out we enjoy talking to men. We break the ice for eachother we talk to Someone’s friend we aren’t into to give our friend time. We are most defi…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 02:01 PM
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It is the same and I would say the same to the women who go after those guys
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 01:58 PM
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And I’m a teacher 😛
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 01:46 PM
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I’d say the same thing to a woman dating one of those guys. If you want a bad boy accept the consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 01:46 PM
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Show me one man not wearing a tshirt(sleeves on or off) with basketball shirts or grey sweatpants. This is actually hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 01:31 PM
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Went to your page and it’s the first post. When men have such strong unsubstantiated claims against women It’s usually because they’ve recently been hurt. I just went through a terrible break up- I could say a lot of bad things about “men” too, but I refuse to let one man or even a handful convince me they’re all terrible because I have plenty of loyal, strong, and kind men in my life too.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 01:28 PM
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Men’s clothes are more varied? That’s hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 01:25 PM
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Sorry you recently went through a breakup. I did too. Don’t let it make you bitter.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 01:24 PM
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Hahahaha that might be true. I’m the average chick you’re talking about lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 01:20 PM
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promise you that’s not true. Isn’t the biological theory that men want multiple partners? I think you’re jaded from a past experience with one specific women who didn’t want to date you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 01:19 PM
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Yes we will.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 01:16 PM
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Delusional. She was checking up on her friend. If she wanted to come back she would have. No women is cock blocking her friend. Me and my friends go out specifically wanting to talk to guys- you’re just hurt
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 01:16 PM
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lmao hate non monogamy? Most women I know are desperate for monogamy. Including myself
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 01:15 PM
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Every man I know where’s t shirts/ wife beaters and basketball shorts or sweats to the gym. It almost like that’s just what’s comfortable to work out in. Trends are trends this is dumbest argument I’ve ever heard in my life. Every man I know is obsessed with football. Can’t even think of one who doesn’t watch it. Is that because they are a hivemind??? Or is it just because it is a popular past time people enjoy sharing with their friends? Bitterness has clouded every single thing for red pill fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 01:04 PM
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no that’s usually men- because women only want men for what they offer to them right? Or whatever stupid red pill theory Instabaddies are also their own brand and everyone with two braincells know it. If you go for them accept the consequences. Plenty of normal attractive women out there
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 12:53 PM
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then pick girls that aren’t just hot. You only value looks you get a women who only values looks. Don’t feel bad for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 11:54 AM
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Man goes after insta thots and then is mad they are insta thots. What came first the chicken or the egg. 85% of women are not doing that. I’ve never listened to drake in my life that is the most ridiculous thing I’ve ever heard. Maybe stop going after basic bitches
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 11:50 AM
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it was Both. A lot of crazy circumstances but in the end I was willing to try to make it work and he wasn’t. So…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 03:46 AM
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I mean I think I mentioned I missed my ex. I wouldn’t message him tho. I sent him my thoughts and he didn’t respond. Nothing else for me to do. Of course I’d love to keep talking to him but I’m also not stupid. I could send him a million messages of how I feel but what would that really accomplish. He’s made his feelings apparent
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 03:39 AM
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Not sure what you’re referring to. I definitely hold back my feelings but that’s to make others more comfortable. I know how I feel on the inside
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 03:34 AM
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Thanks 🥰🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 03:30 AM
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Well im not married- so all my relationships have ended. Even when they’re on good terms I still feel hurt I’m also a little nuts wouldn’t be fair to leave that out
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 03:21 AM
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I am all these things- but Im geniunel at the time so I’m gonna forgive myself for being desperate
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 03:20 AM
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Yeah I guess you’d say that. But I’ve been open about my feelings and he is okay with the situation I’m in so I feel like that’s all I can do
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 03:03 AM
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He’s very sweet and adores me. We have fun together I told him I’m not ready for anything serious and he says that’s fine. I wouldn’t agree if I were him id be gone but idk I’ve been open about my feelings so
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 03:03 AM
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“Okay bleeder” is the new “woman moment”
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 02:49 AM
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I think a passionate women is worth the chaos but you’re free to disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 02:46 AM
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He’s just not. He’s not the one at all. But I told him that im getting over my ex and still figuring stuff out and he still wants to try so whatever. He’s good to me so it’s alright.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 02:40 AM
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it’s better than bleeder
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 02:39 AM
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He’s not
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 02:38 AM
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Isn’t female women a little redundant or is that like a woke thing
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 02:35 AM
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Nope just musing
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 02:34 AM
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Being a lover girl is the greatest privilege
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 02:32 AM
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It’s the easiest thing in the world
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 02:28 AM
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I’ll never regret being a lover girl and falling hard for people even if I always end up hurt and I’ll never let it make me bitter and I’ll always try again
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 02:25 AM
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Hey not all women have mental issues- just me and all my friends happen to but it’s a coincidence
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 04:37 AM
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It’s not a bad idea but you gotta use bees wax and cocoa/shea butter or coconut oil Vaseline is a little weird cause it’s petroleum
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 04:22 PM
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Ooo that’s a good one
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 04:21 PM
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What scent
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 04:18 PM
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Where we dropping boys
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 04:14 PM
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Yeah I think it’s perfect. Open the door but let her decide what to do with it no pressure. If she’s not interested she sweeps it into the trash and pretends she never saw it and we all move on. It’s totally in her hands and she doesn’t feel forced by being asked while awkwardly on the job
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 01:21 AM
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Would depend how good of friends I was with her
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 12:10 AM
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But you’re not. You leave your number as you’re leaving- they can pretend they never saw it and sweep it into the trash. It’s not like you’re making a scene or making them feel obligated to to accept. I think it’s the perfect way to respectfully show interest to someone who is working :)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 10:52 PM
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have you ever left your number for a server/bartender? I once left my number for a cute bartender at a brewery and he texted me saying he was flattered a girl like me would leave my number for him but he was in a relationship with kids. I would deff do it again if I was single- worst case they just don’t text you
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 09:33 PM
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My parents do this and I’m 27 lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 08:17 PM
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And you may tell yourself this is not my beautiful wife
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 08:11 PM
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Wel I’m just super boy crazy and dating crazy and all of it. That’s why I’m here kinda OBSSESED with relationships my own and others and is constantly on my mind
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 03:02 PM
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What would you consider to be polite? “No thanks I’m good 😊 “ usually kills the vibe in my experience and the guy will resent you heavily
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 03:00 PM
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Im catholic so idk what you’re on about All I’m saying is being a virgin by choice is a lot different than being a virgin by not choice and women can definitely sense that lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 02:59 PM
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Would you rather a girl accept your number/give hers but then never text/respond and ghost you or just straight up refuse to give it to you. I always thought I was being nice and saving the guy from embarrassment by taking it and then just not texting but now I’m like maybe that’s not the best
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 02:53 PM
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I’m the same way with men tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 02:50 PM
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But her point is that women who are like super religious virgins till marriage usually want the same or at least someone who has similar traditional values. They don’t usually go for guys who are virgins just because they couldn’t have sex but have been trying for decades
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 02:50 PM
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I would not like this. I don’t club a lot but usually my friends are going out to dance as a group some girls bring their boyfriends, some bring guys they’re dating- we also have male friends. I also enjoy meeting people at bars and it doesn’t make me uncomfortable at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 01:20 AM
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I believe that- I have seen that too 100%
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 11:41 PM
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Yes I’m in the us. I think they’re hot I just know how much they cheat
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 08:04 PM
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THIS
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 06:21 PM
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When I started dating it was like the one piece of advice my mom gave me. She worked in food service marketing her whole life. She just said that their hours are terrible always working nights and holidays. There extremely stressed which coupled with the bad hours is just a recipe for disaster. Cheating is a huge problem IN HER EXPERIENCE by no means saying all chefs are liked that and it would depend heavily on the position but it just made sense to me- she’s had more than one bad experience no…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 06:16 PM
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only profession I wouldn’t date are police officers and chefs
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 06:02 PM
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At least things could be worse we could have both
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 02:57 AM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 02:56 AM
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Oh damn I always say ED when I’m talking about eating disorders I guess I should stop using that acronym lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 02:55 AM
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He can be a running back then. I’m just saying the status and fame would help a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 01:43 AM
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Not if he was still a successful athlete. Maybe if he was just some dude
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 01:32 AM
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So so so fact. I’m average and would never go for some model dude or even a attractive frat boy/ popular looking guy. I just don’t want to even put myself through that- I literally don’t even give it a second thought. There are plenty of guys I find attractive that are more at my level
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 01:31 AM
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Agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 01:27 AM
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I feel great but I gotta teach first grade in like 10 hours
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 01:05 AM
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I think Itd be more likely men find me annoying or frustrating than boring
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 01:02 AM
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Time to end my bender
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 01:02 AM
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I feel like I’m more annoying than boring
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 12:37 AM
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No I haven’t lol I loveeee dating sims tho
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 06:24 PM
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Lmao yes its so fun I just remembered it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 06:22 PM
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Has anyone ever played hatoful boyfriend
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 06:20 PM
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I believe that I just love going out to eat and drinking
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 05:26 PM
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I’d rather die
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 04:04 PM
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Lol this is so me
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 09:10 PM
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Check the username
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 06:44 PM
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Have you tried giving your number one draft pick one more go? Sometimes the awkwardness of first date colors everything
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 06:41 PM
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Those are pretty dead even for me
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 06:39 PM
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I just feel like some thoughts can stay in your head. Like I think it’s totally valid to not want to date a fat women but I just would probably not broadcast that and just not date fat women. I’d say that’s what most men do- but in spaces like ppd it’s more acceptable to talk about it so I know men who may say that here wouldn’t necessarily say it like beyond close friends But I kinda agree it does seem more acceptable for women to say their requirements out loud. I just think people should keep…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 05:16 PM
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I haven’t seen that one I shall watch
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 03:58 AM
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The boy and the heron was good but Kiki’s delivery service remains the top ghibli IMO
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 03:51 AM
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I guess I’m good then I don’t really like mean for the sake of mean
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 02:44 AM
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It was more of a joke than anything. Like saying you want to marry someone is a good compliment but now round these parts
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 02:41 AM
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Ask me anything babe
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 02:40 AM
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3
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 02:40 AM
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I am a drama queen so I do like the emotional spikes but I’m usually pretty good at just doing those to myself but I’ve never had sex outside of a relationship so idk I might be built different
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 02:32 AM
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“Creampie me”
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 02:25 AM
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It’s a joke babe. I don’t fit your narrative- I’ve never had sex with someone I wasn’t in a relationship so the “hoop” is a relationship and it’s been pretty consistent. Leave it to ppd men to get mad at someone wanting to spend their life with you but then wonder why they are lonely so classic
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 02:25 AM
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I was considering casual sex to be sex outside of a committed relationship like every other sane person but if you want to play semantics than sure. God forbid a women doesn’t fit your narrative- mental gymnastics
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 02:22 AM
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What’s funny about it is men suffering IM JOKINg
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 02:20 AM
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No I need worship
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 02:19 AM
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Idk I don’t have casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 02:18 AM
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He’s free to do whatever he wants before he meets me lol then we can be in love and get married and have cute babies
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 02:16 AM
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Lol totally
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 02:10 AM
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Idc I just think it’s how funny how I could be like “you definitely seem like a guy I would marry” and ppd guys would be like THATS SO MEAN
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 02:09 AM
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I know I’m just laughing at how calling a man marriage material is like considered an insult here
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 02:08 AM
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Welcome to ppd where being called “marriage material” is either the highest compliment or most unsavory insult depending on your gender
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 02:05 AM
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No cap I’m nuts
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 03:44 PM
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Lol this guys gets it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 03:15 PM
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I’d still end it all I’m nuts bro
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 02:29 PM
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Creates post to casually mention that you have a big penis That’s so something I would do if I was a guy
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 12:22 PM
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don’t think that’s better at all- I’m not enough for him either way so yeah that would Give me a huge complex and has in the past
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 05:49 AM
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Lmao I’m not upset over the hypothetical I’m merely saying it sounds absolutley soul crushing for a man to be like raise my children, support me in every way- I still want other better hotter women tho I just pretty much can’t imagine anything worse but again I’m a huge drama queen and pretty unstable so I don’t speak for all women
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 05:47 AM
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Yeah I’d probably commit suicide knowing I’m not enough but I’m pretty unstable so
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 05:39 AM
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I’d rather die
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 03:41 AM
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King 👑
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 02:23 AM
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Foolproof
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 11:09 PM
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It’s not even high it’s like 22-40 but hinge still gives me old guys I swear
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 11:08 PM
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no😳 officer I swear I just opened it and this one made me laugh I’m not actively dating
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 10:29 PM
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<image> It’s the inclusion of alone for me
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 10:15 PM
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Lol if I give you a 10 minute massage I want a 10 minute MASSAGE BACK AND I WILL ENFORCE IT
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 04:30 PM
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<image> Pretty high on everything 😩
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 04:26 PM
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And stardew valley 🥺🥺
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 02:58 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 02:36 PM
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My thoughts exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 01:20 PM
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A few things, if I go to a nice dinner with a potential new partner I will spend a lot of time and money looking nice, because of this I think it’s a nice gesture for him to say he appreciated that by paying for the first date. Just because we both wanted to make a good first impression that’s why I got all dolled up and why he paid. In following dates I might not get as dressed up(besides special occasions) he might not pay every time (be sides special occasions) and that makes sense to me. Spl…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 01:01 PM
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Those guys can be insufferable
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 11:51 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 11:47 PM
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Lol interesting I don’t use discord but thats cool
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 11:45 PM
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I know hahaha I gotta keep my Letterboxd following happy tho
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 11:15 PM
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Well I have 3 exs I usually don’t specify so idk if I’m taking about the same one everytime but I guess that’s fair. But sure That’s probably why they are exs
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 11:13 PM
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Is it pathetic that not being a movie lover is like nearly a deal breaker for me. I see like 3 movies a week and watch a ton in my spare time- I usually put a movie on in the evening and don’t watch as many series. Loved my ex but he barely watched movies with me and never wanted to go to the theater and it was a major bummer. Again it would depend, but it’s really nice to date someone who likes movies😄
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 11:06 PM
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I also feel like low confidence equates in a lot of people minds to needy. Like if my boyfriend needs me to constantly reassure him, to make plans for us because he’s unsure, to handle Decisions- that would be annoying and it all kind of stems back to low confidence. But I think most men would find that annoying in a women too. I’ve had problems with exes saying my need for constant reassurance was quite exhausting but in my mind I thought it was only affecting me
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 04:44 AM
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I think the “nothing” is kinda of just a figure of speech and isn’t really used literally when women say that. Its like someone saying “ugh nothing is worse than when you have a picnic planned but it rains! “ And then you chime in “the holocaust, cancer, and poverty are worse than that” It’s like yeah you’re totally right but it’s not that deep or literal. I don’t mean to play semantics but you seem pretty caught up on that word.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 04:40 AM
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Ugh wish that were me
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 01:04 AM
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Talk most with my teachers who teach the same grade- others occasionally
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 12:59 AM
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Oooo sexy. What grade?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 12:54 AM
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I’d say 25-65 but like there’s four first grade teachers at my school and we are all under 30 so
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 12:54 AM
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Oh I know one- that’s what I do with my summers off as a teacher
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 12:44 AM
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Lol it’s so crazy it just might work
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 12:42 AM
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I’m in education and obv it’s a women dominated field. the male teachers at my school (there’s only a few) get MAD pussy from way out of their league women because they are simply the only ones there You don’t even have to be a teacher we have a security guard at our school that’s banged like 3 different teachers lmao If you don’t mind kids this could be an option for you. Even I find myself being attracted to guys I normally wouldn’t at work because I have to have a crush everywhere I go when I…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 12:38 AM
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I’m 27 I would date like 23-40
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 12:31 AM
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If it were me I’d do like flowers on one date night on one and a gift on one. I’d like them to be separate things unless it was like a big trip or a BIG present
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 12:47 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 12:46 AM
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Watch suspiria if you like horror
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 12:41 AM
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I wouldn’t care that much if he really wanted to but I hate nickel and diming I’d prefer like you get this time I get next time on shared items but jd pay for my own like hair and makeup stuff unless my bf wants to
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 10:29 PM
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I can’t get the hang of discord at all
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 08:08 PM
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Lol I know it made me lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 07:54 PM
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I’m not sensitive I’ve been pretty open that I’m tall and thick lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 07:47 PM
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Lol I’m just playing I’m come over lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 02:22 PM
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Way too forward for me I’m clutching my pearls right now
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 02:08 PM
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Way to forward for me I’m clutching my pearls right now
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 02:08 PM
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CMV: the elite flirty text greeting is “hey you”
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 01:36 PM
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I’m not proud of it
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 10:43 PM
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Shhh
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 10:27 PM
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Lol that was me then I was known as livs4drpepper This made me laugh
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 12:39 PM
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Depends- there were several younger Korean men wanting to wife me for the aesthetic. I’d say the older guys are more like what you said. I feel like it’s a weird juxtaposition. Hookup culture is rampant- yet dating is very proper and sex is like taboo and couples are so intense. Like I would go on one date with a guy and he’d be like- so will you be my girlfriend? Still love it tho!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 05:22 AM
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Lol oh god
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 05:17 AM
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Korean men are the most direct in the world. Most common opening line I heard living there: wow you have big boobies
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 05:13 AM
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This was helpful!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 05:12 AM
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When I lived in South Korea teaching,men would come up to me all the time and ask if I was Russian. And for literally almost a year I would go “oh hehe no I’m American!!” And then one day I was in my school in the teachers room and said “it’s so weird so many people think I’m Russian” And one of the Korean teachers very politely asked to speak to me outside and was like “miss I don’t want to offend you but for safety I wanted to let you know that “Russian” is very much code for prostitute here” …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 05:09 AM
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I lived in Korea for like 18 months
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 04:23 AM
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No fun
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 01:17 AM
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Fingers crossed I’m in the 5%
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 12:32 AM
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I have the uncanny ability to walk into a room and instantly decide who I have a crush on
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 12:30 AM
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I DONT WANNA THINK ABOUT IT
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 03:13 AM
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<image> This is so humiliating
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 02:34 AM
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Forget how lucky I am sometimes with that for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 02:34 AM
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Met mine. I think we are about even but who can really say. Also my cousin and her husband. They’re equal for sure she’s about 5’1 and he’s about 5’4 and I’d say facially they are similar. Everyone says they look a like
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 02:33 AM
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Lovebombing is what you call the honeymoon phase if you’re trying to make your boyfriend look abusive
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 05:57 PM
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When dove did that real beauty campaign about how there needed to be more diverse body sizes and looks in video games No thanks dove I’m average in real life I’d rather be as hot as possible in my fake life
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 04:17 PM
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My red flag is that I think it’s obvious but then later find out it was in fact not obvious at all
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 04:12 PM
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You show up, I’ll make eye contact with you, and the rest is history
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 04:07 PM
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That was me you missed your chance Also I was a minor and you’re under arrest
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 04:06 PM
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It was me
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 04:06 PM
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I have the opposite of resting bitch face. People always say wow you look like you’re having fun and I’m like oh no I’m feeling very neutral thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 04:04 PM
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me after making eye contact with a man for 2 seconds: Alright I’ve done my part- your turn.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 03:43 PM
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Wym
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 01:33 AM
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It’s called peacocking and it’s a popular PUA tactic. Wearing something unique gives a low risk in for people who want to talk to you. Doesn’t necessarily mean they want to bang but nevertheless it’s a conversation starter. I wear these little stamps on my face whenever I go out and I’ve had DOZENS of guys use them as an icebreaker
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 01:30 AM
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I don’t think I do
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 10:34 PM
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I know but I’m delusional
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 10:34 PM
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I’m 5’10
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 09:22 PM
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Idk I’m gonna be ambitious and just say most
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 09:21 PM
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That’s the joke babe that’s why it’s from a sub called facepalm
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 09:21 PM
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I know that’s where the delusion comes from I feel like my size will do everything even tho I’ve had no training and never fought a day in my life
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 09:20 PM
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At least I’m self aware that it’s delusional
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 09:06 PM
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It’s devastating
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 09:06 PM
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Lol that’s so me. TRY HARDER
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 09:05 PM
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Education
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 09:00 PM
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Hahahaha no but I’m naturally quite tall and big and one time I moved a lacrosse net at the camp I worked at and the coach said “woah did you just move that yourself” and I said “oh yeah I thought you said to bring it in”and he said “damn those are like 200 lbs” so I think that made me delulu
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 08:59 PM
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I’m also well versed in emotional warfare
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 08:55 PM
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I may be delulu but I think I could take most men besides like body builders or something in a fight
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 08:52 PM
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That’s the joke
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 08:36 PM
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2 is literally my perfect man
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 08:32 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 08:30 PM
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Okay second person to recommend judo. I love professional wrestling so I guess that’s the closest vibe without professional wrestling classes which I think will be too weird
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 08:25 PM
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I haven’t. I would tho. I kinda want to spar with other people tho lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 08:23 PM
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I know right I love pro wrestling but I feel like I would not fit in at all
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 08:20 PM
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Interesting. Originally I just thought karate but my ex said that was gay and I should do boxing
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 08:15 PM
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Google blue waffle
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 08:13 PM
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Google Chris Benoit
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 08:13 PM
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Google Christ Benoit
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 08:10 PM
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I don’t really know the differences between the different types
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 08:05 PM
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Not so much self defense, more mixture of fun hobby with some fitness/getting off the couch
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 08:04 PM
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I wanna get into martial arts of some kind but have no idea what type, I’m also open to boxing and mma type stuff. I’d also love to like try professional wrestling classes as there are some near me but I imagine that would be a real interesting bunch
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 07:58 PM
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Bring me back
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 07:55 PM
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No offense dude but yeah you’re not getting something. 100% not a compliment and deff meant to be shady. No shade at all but you’re not great at reading some social situations. She’s saying I tried to hard it’s a very pick me thing to say
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 01:43 PM
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I did the exact opposite and sounded so lame I literally said “ohhh haha I don’t go out much these days so I go all out” smh
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 12:48 AM
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last night my friends girlfriend said to me when I met them at the bar “wow you’re dressed up I never get that fancy to go out anymore” Am I right to be annoyed or is this a woman moment
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 12:29 AM
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I also want to know
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 03:37 AM
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It turns me on to be there first
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 12:21 AM
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You’re such a married nerd
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 09:52 PM
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The guy I’m dating bought me the 1988 McDonald’s toy Christmas baby muppet collection for my birthday a few days ago 🥰🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 09:52 PM
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Vetting is showing every new boyfriend muppets Christmas carol and if they don’t appreciate it I kick them to the curb
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 09:13 PM
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I know I definitely should
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 03:01 PM
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Yeah I wrote in the post I always just send him a text to say thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 02:09 PM
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Why tf you sending some random chick romantic gifts? I use common sense. Sending a friend a birthday gift= okay. Sending a tinder match from four years go flowers every birthday saying “a girl like you is special” = not okay I shouldn’t have to explain this
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 02:02 PM
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Yeah he did think it was weird, but I showed him the convos and everything so he didn’t seem too mad
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 02:00 PM
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Lmao if my boyfriend sent another girl flowers for her birthday that would be so insanely innapropriate
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 01:59 PM
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Buying flowers for four years isn’t holding a door open if you don’t think he’s hoping I say “wow you’ve always been there you’re the one” you need serious social skill help.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 01:57 PM
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No I have a boyfriend 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 01:53 PM
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Lol I didn’t say anything about it being creepy but it definitely is odd as In not something many people would do. It’s because guys do those nice things with ulterior motives. We aren’t stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 01:50 PM
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I have no idea I only see bits and pieces of his social life on Instagram he seems to have a lot of friends but I can’t say I see many romantic posts or anything
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 01:47 PM
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I mean everyone has their own boundaries so if it doesn’t bother her it’s fine. I just personally wouldn’t like it especially the way you said “shy Asian girl” made it seem like you were into it or sexualizing it or something. But I’m not your gf so it doesn’t really matter what I think. However I will say just because she doesn’t vocalize it doesn’t matter it 100% could still bother her
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 01:41 PM
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That makes sense. I’m a teacher (elementary) but obv I’m curious about this stuff. Thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 01:40 PM
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There’s this guy I’ve known for a few years He sends me flowers every year on my birthday and the card always says “a girl like you should always get flowers on her birthday” I always send him a text to say thanks but that’s pretty much it he kinda acts like it’s a joke like lol now it’s just my routine or I have a reminder set exc I haven’t told him to stop cause I’m shitty but like everyone I tell is like yeah that’s a little weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 01:39 PM
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I got into the schools I wanted fine- I did a lot of ECs as I was a child actor and others. I guess it’s just a curiosity thing for me cause i didn’t get that good of grades but totally rocked the sat lol What do you think about people who say the SAT is racist?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 01:31 PM
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If I found out I’d break up with you
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 01:28 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 01:28 PM
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Wish I had put more effort into my SAT I did good the first time with never having ever studied or anything and then I was like ehh good enough- I feel like if I had studied or did a practice I would have crushed it. Wahhh
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 01:25 PM
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Interesting I can think of quite a few people married or in relationships from dating apps including myself. Maybe not the only purpose but definitely a purpose
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 09:27 PM
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Fair I guess I’m considering success to be relationships which probably isn’t success for men
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 09:22 PM
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These 500 guys are not chads there’s maybe 20 I’ve ever seen on these apps- the 500 are everyone else they do care if we match. You think it’s a coincidence every time I’ve talked to someone we dated? It’s because they are thrilled to have a match lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 09:20 PM
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The employee employer analogy is pretty accurate IMO. Like it’s annoying to be an employer who can’t find a good employee for a roll and it’s super frustrating but it’s not quite as demoralizing or self esteem killing to be an employee that keeps getting rejected
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 09:19 PM
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See the other people who said the same thing. There’s plenty of guys whose looks I like- I just pick one and get to know them. Got a few dates and two relationships this way there’s probably 500 guys I like physically just as much but that’s overwhelming so I just pick one
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 09:15 PM
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I’ve never argued that at all- I wouldn’t want to be a man dating. We still have challenges tho- just different
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 09:14 PM
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My point is there are about 500 guys in my app that fit what I like and who liked me- I just pick one to get to know better- so yeah luck is a huge factor
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 09:14 PM
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Yeah that’s why I don’t go for them
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 09:06 PM
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Emphasis on the luck
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 09:03 PM
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Definitley a factor- but when they’re all about the same it’s like throwing darts at a board
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 09:03 PM
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With a little luck, bravery, and preparation you can do anything
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 08:58 PM
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And the brave right
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 08:57 PM
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I feel like luck is the biggest factor of men being successful on OLD I’ve had a few dates and two relationships through OLD and all of them just happened to be who I matched with/ saw when I felt like talking- I’ve probably spent less than an hour on the app total in 5 years I just pick someone and commit lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 08:52 PM
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Oooo this is good
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 04:08 PM
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I just want to be like “my boyfriend Heheheeh 🥰👉🏼👈🏼” I don’t have casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 02:17 PM
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I’m so bad at that I’m the least chill person on the planet and intense and a lover girl
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 02:11 PM
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Well I said he’s a professional athlete that could get traded- but he’s only in minor leagues so he has some say in where he goes. So he was basically saying if it’s up to him he will stay in this area and like play his best so that they keep him exc. But I agree like the way he said it like makes it sound like we are in a relationship right so I guess we are lmao I’m seeing him today and I’ll be like sooooo
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 02:09 PM
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What
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 02:06 PM
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Yeah that’s my question. How? Do you literally say “so what are we” like the movies lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 01:34 PM
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As an adult do you have like “will you be my girlfriend” discussions or do you just date and eventually start calling them your girlfriend. Like how do you go from dating to exclusive. I’m seeing this guy casually and I do like him and would “be his girlfriend” but he hasn’t like asked me or anything and we kinda just see each other a few times a week. But then we were talking about him possibly getting traded (he’s an athlete) and he said “I’m gonna do my part so that this isn’t a long term rel…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 01:24 PM
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Only time I’ve cockblocked is when I felt like my friend was way to drunk to go home with someone even tho she was playing into it. Sorry dude but like she came with me she’s coming home with me in that state. Dude was so pissed but like I don’t care about his feelings at that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 01:12 PM
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Fair. I’d say we all have gone in and out of benign single/taken through our 20s
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 06:29 PM
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Hmmm you raise a good point I’d be scared to try lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 06:29 PM
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Hmmm yeah i wouldn’t ever make a move
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 04:35 PM
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Well this was interesting thanks for the info
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 04:35 PM
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We meet again ratboi
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 03:12 PM
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Ahhh I guess it’s cause I’m super mid…that makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 03:10 PM
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I feel like it’s insulting to men when they say that men and women can’t just be friends or that all those friendships are just bidding time to make a move. I feel like I have several male friends that are not interested in me romantically or sexually.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 03:07 PM
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But how would you verify they had a relationship with the woman and aren’t just her scorned exes buddies who are real people if it’s totally unmoderated
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 12:17 PM
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Everyone would just submit so many fake things it would be utterly useless. I’d text my group chat of 10 friends and say hey everyone go say this dude has a micropenis now he has 10 reviews saying he has a micropenis. Dudes will just tell their friends to go post about their “crazy ex” and it would devolve so fast and not be considered credible at all
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 05:12 AM
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No I just have a guy who does my taxes/ retirement. He was my dads and now helps me out too. I’d almost say family friend but he’s a cpa
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 03:31 PM
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My finance guy is in his late 60s. Looking through my statements he goes “you go out to eat and for drinks a lot, you’re a good looking women let’s start getting men to pay for those”
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 02:57 PM
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Not at all. I’m a teacher but my local library just has reading buddies. Also I volunteered at a literacy coalition non profit and they had like a 2 hour training on little tips. It’s mostly just for kids who don’t have a lot of practice at home and need a little support.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 06:10 PM
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Literacy is fun I’ve done reading tutoring and it’s very rewarding
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 04:41 PM
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Never forget when I dated an army guy who told me we could only have sex with me on top because he had “fucked up shoulders” I was BAMBOOZLED
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 02:56 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 07:12 PM
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Careful I got roofied clubbing in Seoul lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 01:09 PM
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It is pretty fun
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 06:04 PM
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Notes app on my phone and I include star sign for science
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 04:54 PM
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I agree. Another thing that makes me laugh is if you use hinge one of the prompts is “Of the five love languages mine is…..” Red flag for guys is that they always put physical touch. Red flag for girls is they always put acts of service and gifts lmao Both of those just make me laugh
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 01:10 PM
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Seriously. I have a “high ish” body count even tho I’ve only slept with men I’m dating at least a few weeks and feel a serious connection. Never had a one night stand exc. yet people act like that’s insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 06:15 PM
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Thank you 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 08:30 PM
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I’m relatively average is all. I have a cute face but I’m chubby and I made sure to have several Body pics(not sexual just like showing my full figure) because I’m afraid people will say I’m a catfish
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 08:30 PM
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Fair. I’ve matched with 8 ppl so far but one was a guy I already knew from highschool and we are reconnecting so he’s the number one draft pick right now
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 08:23 PM
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That’s true
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 08:22 PM
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Ohhhh gotcha yeah I’ve never tried that
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 08:20 PM
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No I think it will!! I was just saying me having 200 matches is probably just from people liking everyone- I didn’t say anything about your idea
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 08:19 PM
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I have guy friends that get like 1-2 matches a week and they’re cute
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 08:18 PM
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Lol I commented that on someone else’s thing- it deff could be hahaha but what about when I buy it and there’s not guys there? I’m not gonna buy it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 08:18 PM
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Most men just swipe on everyone so I don’t think it’s that impressive
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 08:17 PM
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Lmao I did wish me luck
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 08:16 PM
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Just regular photos and I’m like cute but chubby so by no means a 10- shits wild
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 08:16 PM
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Yup I feel like it might be a scam to get me to buy premium lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 08:13 PM
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<image> After making a bumble less than 2 hours ago. How am I supposed to make a meaningful connection
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 08:10 PM
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Women do the same. I prefer a less attractive guy that’s very attentive and lucky to have me than a super hot guy that acts like he’s doing me a favor.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 01:22 PM
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Good advice. But I just like obsess over texting and stuff like did he read my messages exc
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 11:47 PM
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True….that could work
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 11:46 PM
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I think I’m just messy
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 11:38 PM
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My friends are the source of my delusions 😅😅😅
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 11:37 PM
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It’s so hard cause sometimes it crosses into obsession. Like has he read my message what should I send exc. and I don’t like that. So I’m trying to help that aspect of it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 11:35 PM
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Yeah that’s true like it’s one date. And yet I’m picturing marriage, kids, holiday parties exc. I’m self aware that it’s silly but yet here I am
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 11:33 PM
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I’m pretty damn close
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 11:31 PM
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I’m fairly experienced in dating but only have had 2 serious relationships. There has only been one date 🤠
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 11:31 PM
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But I tend to be OBSSESED
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 11:28 PM
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Right. Went on one date and I’m already like in love with this man. The curse of the lover girl
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 11:27 PM
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IM DOING IT
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 11:26 PM
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Asking for a friend- how do you keep from getting attached immediately after dating someone new?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 11:23 PM
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I met my ex boyfriend on this sub lol so you’re right there. I’m not looking for a pity party it’s just crazy how I’m post breakup- download the app for a few days and am like woah this is too much and just like pretty much quit while Getting all these messages cause I just can’t even tell individuals anymore. I feel bad unmatching cause I have guy friends that are always perplexed when girls unmatch and I just don’t wanna do that but I guess I should. I do have fomo or curiousity but like it’s …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 12:05 PM
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Until you get it, and then you’re looking for the next anything you can get
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 11:52 AM
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And guys are looking for a stacier Stacy and we all end up unhappy <3
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 11:50 AM
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because I downloaded the app swiped a few times got a few matches and started talking- then a few more matches come, then more likes come. Then you feel like the chemistry isn’t there with guy one so you say hey I’ll talk to this new guy. Then guy one suddenly wants to talk again. I’m not talking to 45 guys at once but even 3-4 is a lot to blend together and I don’t really feel like investing in one fully just to have my time wasted especially when a lot of the guys are very hot and cold. For ex…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 11:49 AM
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Dating apps are overwhelming. I know I’m lucky as a woman that we get tons of messages but they just blend together into blah
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 03:03 AM
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Tell me you’ve never been to a Halloween party without telling me you’ve never been to a Halloween party
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 07:07 PM
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Thank you 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 12:16 AM
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Getting back into dating after like 18 months has me like 🤮
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 10:49 PM
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Hi king
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 09:45 PM
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White I lived in Korea a bit not sure how similar they are
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 09:44 PM
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Any ppders live in japan? My bestie and I are planning a trip and want tips :)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 09:27 PM
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THANK YOU KING
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 12:42 AM
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Alright what if I draw on a little Mexican mustache
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 09:00 PM
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Is it racist if I go as a luchalibre for Halloween?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 08:57 PM
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Thank you I’m devastated
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 12:04 PM
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At one point. I think everyone’s forgot about me but I guess I just came back to where it all began cause I’m feeling emotional
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 12:00 PM
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Yeah well I was pretty famous on here. Can’t say my name as it’s pretty controversial. But I got a lot of messages. We both were struggling dating and connected on many levels- frustration with current dating patterns exc. what can I say it was a mess but we messaged for 6 months before meeting up and I was totally in love.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 11:56 AM
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Well my boyfriend just broke up with me. We met almost two years go on this thread and dated long distance with visits. I was supposed to move in with him across the world for a year and try out being together full time. He said that his life is too much of a mess to bring me into it but I’m not dumb and know that’s bullshit. what do I do now?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 11:53 AM
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I’m 5’10 and I genuinely don’t think it’s affected my dating life at all. Many of my boyfriends have been into it. But I have guys say that I’m not “cute” cause I’m so tall.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 10:30 PM
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Before I met my bf I soft approached guys all the time. It’s kinda a win win or a least a win and break even If they’re into me great- guys usually are so happy to be approached that they lose all their cool If they aren’t I just chill and act like they took my friendliness the wrong way I don’t feel like I’ve ever been outright rejected but then again im not going up and asking someone out I’m going up and making a conversation
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 12:56 AM
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What
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 09:30 PM
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When I first joined this sub a few years ago I had no clue and had a profile pic…..instant regret
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 09:18 PM
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Feel like this is another instance where it’s a little bit unfair but in my anecdotal experience it’s more hot or sexy for a girl to be into guy stuff than a guy to be into girl stuff. Like a girl who fixes cars is hot but a guy being into like crafting or something probably isn’t that hot more neutral. Unless he can leverage the femaleish hobby into something brooding and sensitive (I’m thinking painting or writing). Guys just love women who are different that’s why pick mes exist. I ordered a …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 09:08 PM
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