butiwasdrunk Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
4	Advice on handling being in the wrong		butiwasdrunk	/r/askTRP	24/01/17 04:12 AM

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1	Would You Rather Be A wealthy male or attractive female wealthy male - beauty reduces with age, wealth multiplies	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/17 04:15 PM
1	CMV: If TRP would just drop the misogyny and adopt Popper's principle of falsifiability, they could become an enormous movement with millions of members globally. sure. I agree.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/17 11:25 AM
1	Here's a bunch of studies providing ample evidence to common Red Pill claims. Can't have a debate without evidence! in an ideal scenario, all studies for and against would be compared so that the truth can be extracted.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/17 10:53 AM
1	Q4TRP: After implementing TRP, have you been able to attract higher quality women then when you were "blue pill"? TRP helped for sure. I got rid of Needyness, being friendzoned because of being the purse carrier. I owned up my masculinity instead of thinking it to be a taboo thing and that helped me anchor my identity. I started learning game, because I realized that game is just like make-up. It doesn't change who you are but it enhances how you appear.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/17 10:42 AM
1	CMV: If TRP would just drop the misogyny and adopt Popper's principle of falsifiability, they could become an enormous movement with millions of members globally. There can be a lot of ways scientific discovery can be made with regard to TRP theory. Anecdotal data can be used cleverly. The point is that the bad kind of feminism controls the information right now - e.g - wage gap myths. So there will always be some group where men want to maximize their interests and they would do good to legitimize themselves before the bad kind of feminism labels this group as creeps, nerds, virgins, misogynists, rapists etc.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/17 10:36 AM
2	CMV: If TRP would just drop the misogyny and adopt Popper's principle of falsifiability, they could become an enormous movement with millions of members globally. I don't want to discount anecdotal experiences. Collating information from a large enough sample set would make good qualitative research (assuming the anecdotes are true). There is value to anecdotes where you can understand context or uncontrollable factors that wouldn't be easy to quantify in a research. But for the average guy, I agree that, TRP doesn't need scientific backing for itself, because that's not why he goes there. But even then, Adopting Popper's principle would be a good thing, …	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/17 09:26 AM
4	Q4All: Does anyone here find Amy Schumer Funny? Since you're asking at PPD, my RPish take is that she's baiting the Red Pill crowd by specifically focusing on her sex escapades while being fat and promiscuous. That actually makes me like her smarts, but it also tells me she is deeply affected by Red Pill's opinion of her - and focusing exclusively on it makes it old really fast. Her stand up is exclusively on the single premise of "hey I am slut compensating for my low self esteem of being a fat woman." If there was more to her personality th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/17 04:32 AM
1	Advice on handling being in the wrong I didn't understand your point	/r/askTRP	01/02/17 06:46 AM
1	Advice on handling being in the wrong That is great advice, because you are then concentrating on your relationship/dynamic and bringing it back on track instead of the fuckup.	/r/askTRP	01/02/17 06:45 AM
1	Advice on handling being in the wrong That's exactly what I'm saying though! Its a straightforward question - when you fuck up, if you don't admit it you're a deluded ass, but if you do say sorry, it can possibly change the dynamic in scenarios where they don't see you as capable. This might sound like insecurity, but there's a reason presidents or people in the corporate world word their apologies so carefully. Nobody is interested in the pressure of being infallible all the time.	/r/askTRP	01/02/17 06:44 AM
2	Advice on handling being in the wrong somebody guild this guy.	/r/askTRP	24/01/17 04:40 AM
1	Advice on handling being in the wrong depends on the level of fuck up though - out of sight isn't always out of mind right?	/r/askTRP	24/01/17 04:39 AM
1	Aside from fantasies (which are different from actual desires), most women are attracted to good men who treat women right. Ignoring shit tests, being firm and confident, leadership, not prioritizing the woman all the time so as to concentrate on your own development, - all of these traits work a lot better for men, even though they are completely opposite to being cuck aka "benevolently sexist". as for rape fantasies, Yes, most women have "rape fantasies", but that's just it: fantasies. They don't actually desire it in reality. Many women may want to roleplay in bed, but with a man they trust. Thank you for teaching…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/16 01:47 PM
2	CMV: The Fact That a Man is In a Relationship Doesn't Mean He's in a Good Relationship Is it even possible to break down such a non-specific scenario into either for or against using generalizations? If you're the kind of man who knows how to be happy, you'll make the appropriate choice in accordance with your goal of happiness at that point of time - whether to be in a relationship / marriage / or being single. From what I understand, TRP is about becoming the man that will enable you to be happy - regardless of whether you are in LTR or single or spinning plates.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/11/16 01:43 PM
1	CMV: Most men (especially red pillers) do not deserve a good woman. The point of TRP, IMO is to educate men on how to live to deserve a good woman. There's plenty of misogynistic posts on the sub, but the general theory is about men knowing the rules of the new world. Being nice, having a decent paying job, being an upright citizen of society are no longer enough. TRP concentrates on men improving physique and well being, learning dynamics of attraction with women, cutting down bad habits - so I don't know who deserves who, but you sure are turning yourself into…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/11/16 06:36 PM
2	The wall is real... NOT! Megyn Kelly looking like a goddess at 46. you are still comparing celebs who have loads of money to spend on looking beautiful. The simple fact is that most women lose beauty as they age. A few have been able to delay the ageing process due to genetics or wealth or some procedures. That doesn't change anything for 99% of the women who aren't the exception.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/11/16 05:47 PM
2	CMV: The Red Pill prejudice against women Nobody can force you to live a certain way. TRP is prejudiced against women is a certain way but not how OP says. If you don't believe in it that's fine - you choose your own way and face whatever consequences it brings. TRP is about how men can be happier in their lives. Its not about forcing you to do anything.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/11/16 05:41 PM
1	The wall is real... NOT! Megyn Kelly looking like a goddess at 46. The exception makes the rule. Just like one false accuser doesn't make all women's sexual harassment complaints invalid, Megyn Kelly doesn't define the common trend. You are positing with an example of a woman: who is a rare case of looking good near 50, who is in the television business all her life, who is wealthy, and ergo has resources as well as the fact of a TV camera to make her look beautiful. Sure, compare that to the average first world woman's beauty near 50 as compared to her looks a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/11/16 05:29 PM
2	CMV: The Red Pill prejudice against women The collective idea of society spawns from human biology. Woman's beauty is a much higher factor for male attraction than the other way round. Even women look to each other with comparisons of beauty. Its not privilege, its just accepting the differences of genders. Men on the other hand are held against standards of strength, self sufficiency, protection, leadership etc. Women are rarely attracted towards men who don't have those qualities.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/11/16 05:08 PM
2	CMV: The Red Pill prejudice against women I was going to agree completely with you reading the title. But the specifics you bring up are not the best to make your case. Let me begin by saying that TRP has a male bias just like feminism has a female bias even though they claim to be about gender equality. That being said: Men age like fine wine because they aren't judged as severely on looks as they age. Its a factual observation. AWALT isn't to be taken literally. It means that all women, by the fact of their gender do have certain comm…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/11/16 04:20 PM
6	Rape - "She liked the attention" How is this red pill theory? Also, just like there's a small percentage of male rapists there's also a small percentage of rape accusers. Whats the point of this post?.	/r/TheRedPill	21/11/16 11:53 AM
1	How to speak less and say more? k.	/r/askTRP	06/08/16 11:23 AM
4	How to speak less and say more? 15 ways to speak more through less: Not to give an opinion unless you are explicitly asked to, not to speak about something based on incomplete knowledge. The obvious - Do not waste words. Remove extraneous words. Improving vocabulary so that you use the right word instead of a long descriptive sentence. Combine sentences. Avoid repetition. Avoid adverbs ("really", "extremely", "literally",...), fillers ("in my opinion", "i think", "um um", "like", "you know",...), qualifiers, jargon, profanity.…	/r/askTRP	22/07/16 08:49 AM
0	34(F), working on swallowing RPW. Question for the RP men out there. What are your thoughts on women who drink? I wouldn't be interested in women who don't drink - I like drinking and would want a girl who is not a complete teetotaler. But worse though is A) a woman who can't handle her drink and will embarrass me and herself. When women who are already facing some emotional turmoil and barely holding up, suddenly get drunk and let loose their tears to spoil everybody's mood. - I'll exit that situation permanently, and asap. B) a woman who drinks more than me.	/r/askTRP	24/06/16 06:42 PM
1	How to fix "rape culture": Teach women not to throw their babies in the dumpster Uncle Dave chimes in	/r/MensRights	22/06/16 05:42 PM
3	TRP isn't a good community for happy successful guys how come TRP is described as full of aspies by you all, but can't stomach when someone says many feminists are bitches, or that many pro fat women are retarded?	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/06/16 04:42 PM
1	"Until we reassess what it means to be a “real man” then men will continue to beat their wives and murder LBGT people to ease their own self-loathing." Like I said in the previous post, I already agree that the author is trying to avoid using the world Islam all together. 99% of my post was to your question - why should the left defend Islam? I honestly don't get why the left defends Islam The left certainly overdo it, but we should target individuals, and not attack the entire religion itself. When you say "Islam" you're making a blanket statement. There are nut jobs everywhere. We have psycho shooters in colleges, they have suicide bombers. B…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/06/16 02:40 PM
1	"Until we reassess what it means to be a “real man” then men will continue to beat their wives and murder LBGT people to ease their own self-loathing." I see your response about us being part of the problem and agree. Maybe I was trying to say that we haven't been saints either. This is my guess, I don't have evidence, but do humor the thought that there hasn't been constant turmoil in any of the groups you mention post the American violence, nor do these groups have the kind of oil money funding or the kind of power to effect this kind of attack. Lets say we do this in Russia or China, there will surely be repercussions. Chinese Hackers engage…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/06/16 02:29 PM
42	I Met an Orbiter did you just rate your own mom on a scale?	/r/TheRedPill	22/06/16 02:02 PM
12	Man Sentenced To 10 Years In Jail For Rape Acquitted After It's Revealed That It Was A Live-In Relationship Gone Wrong This is why it's great when rape cases are taken to court. Men get a right to present proofs and defend themselves. Today, smart money is to avoid the court and simply making the accusations in public and watching the drama unfold. After that, society implicitly judges you (largely consisting of feminists, SJWs, White Knights etc.) and you see doors closing one after the other. Friends or Family might disown you, your reputation gets damaged, you might get fired to avoid the PR shitstorm, and if…	/r/MensRights	22/06/16 01:50 PM
3	How to game women who're mentally mature or come from traditional backgrounds? the intent isn't to point a finger at you, and right now I am the only person who actually tried to answer your question. I tried to help a brother out. Please clarify with more details with regards to culture, conservatism, age, lifestyle, maturity of the person so that its easier to answer with more relevance.	/r/askTRP	22/06/16 02:12 AM
7	How to game women who're mentally mature or come from traditional backgrounds? Call me pessimistic but it seems like you're trying to bait the community. Are you simply using the words ""traditional and conservative", "not young", "mentally strong" to mean to ask "How do I trick experienced, principled, and mentally strong women?" to make some feminazi accusation on tumblr/medium of how TRP mistreats women? If you're not, the answer is that TRP is not about that, its about being the best version of yourself, you as a man can be, and acting in a way that increases your happ…	/r/askTRP	22/06/16 01:37 AM
1	"Until we reassess what it means to be a “real man” then men will continue to beat their wives and murder LBGT people to ease their own self-loathing." 99% of the ugly stuff you are referring to, is the middle east, not Islam, and certainly not the entire Muslim population. And I agree with you that the laws there indicate a backward society. But, it is only in the past century that we're that modern. Their treatment towards LGBT is inhuman but our laws were just like them 5-10 years ago. Granted we didn't pelt the gays with stones, but we all know the hatred from church, don't ask don't tell, govt. not doing their best to stop AIDS among gays,…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/06/16 12:53 AM
1	"Until we reassess what it means to be a “real man” then men will continue to beat their wives and murder LBGT people to ease their own self-loathing." Agree that author is trying to skip over this fact. All left wing nut jobs are like that. But why does everyone say "Islam" when they really mean the middle-east + Turkey? Malaysia (61.4), India (14.2), Maldives (98.4), Bangladesh (86.3) , Bahrain (70.2), Brunei(67) and many others have large Islamic populations and seem to be pretty non-terrorist-y. 62% of Muslims live in south and south-east Asia, while only 20% are in the Middle East. Even out of those, only a few must be the real nut cases w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/06/16 12:29 AM
1	Q4RP: How would you want marital assets to be split during divorce? Learn the ultimate blowjob technique and practice on a variety of toys and appropriately shaped fruits and vegetables to strengthen your jaws. such detail, much cringe.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/06/16 10:57 PM
1	Q4RP: How would you want marital assets to be split during divorce? The problem isn't that women are given primary caregiver status, its natural, given how our society is based. The problem for men is that even when they prefer women to be primary caregiver, their visitation rights are denied in many cases, their "child support" fees are based on lifestyle, and not the cost of raising a child, and they don't get a chance to form a bond with the child if they had already been working the whole time while the mother raised the child. In a different post I have res…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/06/16 10:53 PM
9	Q4RP: How would you want marital assets to be split during divorce? But what evidence do you have? There is statistical evidence available. "According to the Census Bureau, nearly 40 percent of all noncustodial fathers have no access to or visitation rights with their children."[1] Until very recently the court's presumption was that mothers are always the better parent, ergo child custody should be awarded to the mother by default. [2] Moreover, the parent-child bond is a factor for custody consideration in court. If a child is young, the father has no chance. …	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/06/16 04:38 AM
0	Don't communicate; leave -- Communication is validation-seeking behavior As someone relatively new to TRP here is how I digested this: communication (i.e acknowledging shitty behavior) is not recommended. The appropriate thing to do is behave in such a way as to get respect, since that is the only way they will stop trying to shit on you. The primary code for this is stoicism. If you don't let that shit affect you, you will be able to behave in a calm and rational way. So what can one do when she nags? Walk away - you just avoided their bait to fight Do something els…	/r/TheRedPill	16/06/16 03:35 AM
23	Q4RP: How would you want marital assets to be split during divorce? I'd like to think that reds don't actually think they are entitled to things that their wife worked for and paid for with their own money. No they don't. But as a fun thought experiment, what do you think most women and courts feel when the genders are changed? I want to mention to you OP, that you are basing this on an unclear understanding of the complains of TRP about divorce. (Its really men's rights issue more than TRP. TRP says don't marry at all.) The complains (listed below) are specific…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/06/16 06:56 PM