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While this is true, I'm one for origins when learning, so I'm wondering how you get yourself into this mindset, from the route cause.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/22 10:43 PM
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This is a great mind set. Beta males crave security, which is one of the biggest attraction killers in relationships. Living the mentality that a relationship is fun and that it can end at any minute creates frame in itself. I try to live by this standard with my LTR's and it works well as the ambiguity of where I see myself in 5 years keeps all women's hamsters spinning, as well as allowing me to invest in myself with complete autonomy.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/22 10:42 PM
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Agreed with that, 'why do my eyes hurt'
/r/TheRedPill08/01/22 03:37 AM
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I'll take that, on the graph we reach near peak at 33 and start to drip off at 38. All things being considered we can agree on Mid 30's is the ultimate fucking college girls faze.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/22 02:20 AM
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I am very happy for you mate. I'm 25 and see my friends getting married left right and centre. I repeat, I'm 25. And a lot of these women my friends are marrying have hambeasts for mothers.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/22 02:00 AM
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To be honest you ain't wrong. I do still personally believe in a life partner (a woman worth my time and exclusivity) being from a stable family under a successful marriage.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/22 01:59 AM
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I'm confused, TRP is a literal pop culture reference to the Matrix and 'unplugging' and seeing reality.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/22 01:58 AM
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How do you put yourself first and become selfish personally? I'd love to hear your everyday mental schema
/r/TheRedPill08/01/22 01:57 AM
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Look at the support material for women throughout their lives, you're completely right, they are entitled and they 0ut themselves on pedestals. Like fuck just look at the sexual market place, women accept no lower than 2 points above their SMV, that in itself is entitlement. Men want sex, and from personal experience, every pussy feels the same. Putting one on a pedestal is strange to me. Become a PUA, put all pussy on a pedestal, worship the pussy, who cares, but worship ONE pussy? You're fucke…
/r/TheRedPill08/01/22 01:54 AM
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Are you implying you can't swallow the Red Pill? That's interesting, perhaps your definition of swallowing the red pill is different to mine. While we cannot change reality, we can be aware of it, and that in itself is unplugging.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/22 01:50 AM
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I would argue contrary to this. Men are idealists acting like realists, women vice versa. Just look at hypergamy, a woman's sexual strategy is find the optimal male in terms of AF/BB, while men look for availability and sexual attractiveness. We've been conditioned by the feminine imperative to believe that women are romantics, all the films and pop culture we consume. Who runs Hollywood? Men. Who directs romantic comedies and writes the scripts? Men. We are idealistic, and I would argue you are…
/r/TheRedPill08/01/22 01:48 AM
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A man can still play RS and Bench, I rep 120kgx5 good sir.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/21 12:06 PM
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Will remain hyper vigilant.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/21 10:22 AM
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It's an ironic mindset you're right, on one hand objectively I know where I stand, but emotionally I'm being pathetic. If you get my gist.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/21 10:21 AM
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Both responses very informative and I'm going to take this into account, I think the most alarming part is when reading your reply and the comment above for not one second did I disagree. I feel more invested than she is. This is enough of a wakr up call. Cheers guys, no need to feel bad for me, all things considered I may be invested more than she is but it's still early days and I couldn't really care if it ended tomorrow, that I'm sure of, I have plates and stand by if need be who spin themse…
/r/TheRedPill25/08/21 09:19 AM
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Well shit let me get a ring.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/21 07:32 AM
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Appreciate the advice. After the incident we had a fairly normal night and morning, I will proceed to make my presence scarce. All in perfect timing funnily enough as I play Runescape in my downtime and a 3 week tournament just commenced. Besides the point, in the past I have always made time for her, and I will rethink this approach now. Clearly she is not deserving of my presence currently.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/21 07:28 AM
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I'll take this into account thanks.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/21 07:14 AM
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Valid input, thankfully I can fuck, I can lift her up like she's nothing and throw around like a ragdoll. So utilising this frame may be useful moving forward. Honestly I do question why I deal with it, she's not even close to my SMV, she's just a cute girl who I've given a chance funnily enough.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/21 05:02 AM
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That's what I thought, I've rationalised and thought maybe this is a generic shit test, but she did spark it with some major intent. I handled it I'd say 7/10, could have done better, could have done worse. I'm giving her 24 hours of no attention now, as the test will still be on her mind and I have no time to entertain any of it.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/21 04:58 AM
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Highly, highly plausible. I could be getting gamed as we speak. I appreciate the caution, I need to proceed with more of it in my future.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/21 04:55 AM
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Very true. Ironically it's no debate who has higher SMV. To toot my own horn, I am 6'2, Ripped, good looking and quite rich, I care for my women but I give them too much comfort, I don't dread because I'm a romantic. So with all these positives that help my SMV externally (looks, wealth, self confidence) I also have these fatal flaws (treating women TOO well, compromising etc) it's like I'm the guy women say they want but really they don't want.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/21 04:53 AM
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Thanks for the reply, it makes sense, ironically I'm one to burn bridges of women orbiters when I get into an LTR which always is detrimental for me. I should keep them orbiting as it keeps my abundance mentality intact. I'm not having any contact with her today as I'm busy and am honestly somewhat unattracted by her actions and don't want to converse with her until tomorrow, is this a bad call?
/r/TheRedPill25/08/21 04:50 AM
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I can see where you're coming from through the somewhat aggressive approach of your response, you are speaking some facts. I reject my orbiters when in a relationship but know I can find anyone else on a dime. I believe I make my women too comfortable, I don't dread enough. That's for sure.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/21 02:02 AM
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I've been around for 5+ years, on and off, different accounts, burners etc
/r/TheRedPill25/08/21 01:48 AM
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I did see a picture of him, and agreed with his looks, not sure of her reaction, I admit was taken back by this sudden shit test, was not expecting it. She is not mine, it's just my turn. I see this thousands of times, and I need to make this my mantra.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/21 01:42 AM
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People think the gym is all you need for a healthy fitness and social life. No. Pick up a sport, tennis, rugby, football where you're playing with men or women aswell in some sports (tennis, surfing, climbing, hiking etc) Regardless of the sport you will meet more men and women and have more opportunities to go out and enjoy friendships and eventually you will meet someone who is a potential female. Lead, why wait for your friends to plan a night out? Make friends who have similar interests to y…
/r/askTRP03/10/19 07:18 AM
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In my opinion If you're in a LTR and you have fallen in love with your S.O there is literally nothing wrong with "I love you" this is a expression of affection and a positive affirmation. One of the 5 love languages. 'I miss you' I believe this is needy, regardless of the state of the relationship. If they say "I miss you" feel free to give lip service by saying "I miss you too". However as a man, never confess your missing of your S.O, this term is reserved for the female. Saying I miss you imp…
/r/askTRP03/10/19 07:10 AM
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You're 5'3?
/r/askTRP01/10/19 02:15 PM
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Literally furthering my point, thanks. You don't even know anything about my life, I might have even fucked your mother.
/r/askTRP01/10/19 01:28 PM
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This may sound cliche but for me to get into a relationship again Spotted your problem there bud, you're looking for a relationship. Why are you looking for a companion? Do you seek validation from being with someone? If so, you have a self esteem problem and need to improve yourself by gaining abundance mentality and learning that once you are comfortable being single, then you can pursue a relationship. Seems to me you're just straight up desperate and it's showing.
/r/askTRP01/10/19 01:25 PM
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Go to Vietnam, buy a cheap motor bike, travel accross Vietnam, use hostelworld for accomadation. I say Asia because you're in a country that has none of your culture with people that barely speak your language and you are forced to be at one with yourself.
/r/askTRP30/09/19 04:44 PM
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You can improve yourself while you have a job, self improvement is a life long job. Go travel Asia by yourself, that shit is eye opening.
/r/askTRP30/09/19 12:31 PM
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So you're admitting, by calling me mediocre, you rate life success with how many women you've fucked? Thanks for consolidating my point.
/r/askTRP30/09/19 11:50 AM
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The fact that you keep counting indicates to me something is wrong with your need for validation.
/r/askTRP30/09/19 05:44 AM
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Comparison is the theif of joy. If you don't want social media, don't use social media, I recently look Instagram off my phone because its Fucking cancer for attention whores who don't realise nobody gives a flying fuck about what they have to post.
/r/askTRP28/09/19 03:18 PM
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If I saw my Ex LTR getting drunk around multiple guys I'd feel better than it I saw her in another relationship, clearly looks like she's wilin out. Tbh man you did very well, don't text her, continue to work on yourself and concentrate on moving on, it seems to me that you're trying to gain validation from women, because your retaliation to seeing her was to make her jealous. She would have probably been more annoyed if you stayed with your friends and had a good time as it showed you weren't t…
/r/askTRP28/09/19 03:13 PM
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Thanks for the constructive criticism mate!
/r/askTRP27/09/19 01:01 AM
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Thanks man, blue pill conditioning got me good, never again.
/r/MGTOW26/09/19 02:14 AM
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Yeah I have no trouble with this, I'm starting to play tennis three times a week and I go to the gym 4 times a week, I just mean that i can't spend every single hour out and doing something, and as a student I don't have a full time job which gives me too much free time.
/r/MGTOW26/09/19 01:53 AM
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Thanks man, I have picked up hobbies, I've always gymmed so that's not a problem and I've started reading. I think I need the distraction in order to not think about my ex and when those feelings fall away then I will be able to fully enjoy the silence.
/r/MGTOW26/09/19 01:49 AM
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Thanks man, it is slowly wearing off however difficult in the mornings as she was usually in the bed with me. I need to learn to not depend on that to be happy.
/r/MGTOW26/09/19 01:42 AM
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I just found it boring, we get it Brad, you got daddy issues, now show me some cool space shit.
/r/MGTOW25/09/19 02:53 PM
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The wall forgives no female.
/r/MGTOW25/09/19 05:57 AM
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You legend, fuck that cunt. Welcome my man
/r/MGTOW24/09/19 02:20 PM
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Last time I checked CHAD's are driven, but not driven for women, they are driven for their own ambitions and goals in life, which is why women love them. I believe CHAD's disregard most women due their personal goal, which is MGTOW. Maybe I have a skewed perception of the CHAD, or maybe you do OP, let us discuss.
/r/MGTOW24/09/19 01:22 PM
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Take it from someone who got broken up with by his LTR of 2.5 years because she was no longer desiring sex. If you break frame and create a beta frame, it's not recoverable, learn and move on.
/r/askTRP24/09/19 10:02 AM
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My most recent LTR literally never had anything to say or talk about, and over two years I started to treat my phone with more respect than her, never listening to her boring conversation starters of 'omg so today this funny thing happened in my lecture xyz said this hahahaha'. Eventually got bored and ended it, are there any interesting women out there guys? I did find one when i was younger but I fucked it up.
/r/MGTOW24/09/19 08:08 AM
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That's what my entire family told me, 'you can do so much better', I know I can, but I don't anything to do with them right now, it's time to focus on myself and my inner happiness, it's true that once you can enjoy doing your own thing without a companion, only then can you find the right companion. Abundance mentality, unlike TRP, i don't really have much urge to spin plates or all that shit, I find going out for the sole reason to pull girls is fucking boring and I'd rather just chill with my…
/r/MGTOW24/09/19 07:47 AM
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You're probably right, she used to never go out when were together, she's constantly out now. Probably Thotting out, after all she always was a basic bitch, faithful to me, but regardless, a basic bitch.
/r/MGTOW24/09/19 07:21 AM
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Thanks man, it's still hard to fully instill, I still miss her because the chemicals in my brain need to settle first.
/r/MGTOW24/09/19 05:29 AM
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I'm very grateful this happened now, I learnt so much. It's amazing how your mind will go through intense mental gymnastics to tolerate women. No more, I'm going to go celebrate for a good 6 months, cut out video games, porn and general unproductive time wasting. Start reading self improvement books and learn the important philosophers such as Stoic.
/r/MGTOW24/09/19 05:28 AM
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This discribes my Ex LTR too well. Over two years I started off talking about the most interesting things and she just listened, never adding value. Over time I got bored of her lack of intellectual thought and started to treat my phone with more attention than her. Thank God that's over, she sucked the life out of me and for a while I wanted to mend things because the reality was I had been in a passive emotionally abusive relationship, not her intention, but that's what she did. What the fuck …
/r/MGTOW24/09/19 03:24 AM
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This is my problem, I've been brought up without having to compete for anything and it shows.
/r/askTRP23/09/19 11:59 PM
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Sorry mate I'm just fortunate enough to have a wealthy family, however personal finance and following YouTubers such as Graham Stephan and Dave Ramsey can teach you how to achieve financial freedom.
/r/askTRP23/09/19 08:05 AM
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