butt_spaghetti Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	What do you actually mean when you say 90-95% of men are unattractive? I’m just not attracted to very many men. It always surprises me how diverse female taste is too, contrary to what red pillers believe. Yes there is a small percentage of men most women agree on but beyond that, I see TONS of range amongst my girlfriends on who thinks who is cute. Most women I know, however, only like under 5 percent of men. But what’s in that 5 percent tends to vary a LOT.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/26 12:43 AM
3	What age is it weird to have never been on a date before? No dates by 25 would start to feel unusual. By 30… weird.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/25 10:25 AM
32	CMV „As a Man you should never be emotional/weak infront off you‘re Girl“ is one of the most brutal reality’s that a Man has to accept. If you can’t be vulnerable in front of your girl, you are dating the wrong girl. I love when my husband shows me where he’s shaky and I get to love him up and support him. Maybe if I was with a partner who had major issues and always falling apart I would have a problem with it, but my problem would be with the fact that his life is a mess, not that he has access to his emotions? At this point in my life I couldn’t consider being with a man who bottled up his reality around me. There are lots of…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/11/23 01:33 AM
1	Does experience from paying for sex counts? We found the incel	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/09/23 06:47 AM
11	Have you ever seen a handsome and successful man struggling with his romantic/sexual relationships? And why? Yes I’ve seen attractive and successful guys completely blow it over and over again because their personality is a shitshow. Usually it’s massive amounts of insecurity manifesting in anything from constant self-deprecation and neediness to picking awful partners who are extremely damaged, and so on.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/23 07:12 PM
1	On top of the other obvious issues men face, there is literally no acceptable time or place to approach a woman, even once mutual attraction has been established. Women simply do not want to be bothered, leaving almost everything to chance encounters and organic interactions. Says who? I’m a woman and I don’t see hard and fast rules for where someone can find a love interest. I think if a woman shows that she isn’t interested, for gods sake please don’t get pushy and annoying. But I’m sure there are lovely couples who have met on a bus.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/05/23 08:25 AM
3	How picky do you think you would be if you were an attractive woman? I say that because that was my experience. The men I got involved with would want to enter a serious relationship. I never had one night stands.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/03/23 05:24 AM
5	How picky do you think you would be if you were an attractive woman? I don’t get it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/03/23 05:22 AM
11	How picky do you think you would be if you were an attractive woman? I was a hot 18 year old at one point and was relationship-minded but it took me a long time to know what qualities would lend themselves to a successful relationship. I was attracted to artists who wanted a real relationship with me (honestly most guys wanted to lock me down) and I spent many years trying to make long term relationships work with people who actually lacked the real qualities to go the distance. I had to do a ton of work on myself to recognize what really matters and find the rea…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/03/23 10:42 PM
1	Would you date a man if you found out he’s paid for sex in the past? Same. But I hate it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/02/23 06:12 AM
1	Being confident, but unattractive, will get a man called creepy No… creepy is the combo of insecure and assertive, if you aren’t hot enough to get a pass. Secure and unattractive is often considered hot, if it’s a guy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/01/23 03:14 AM