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Entitlement Princessbutt_uglee/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/04/20 02:01 AM
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Good bot
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/01/22 02:53 PM
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Translation: I want a husband/slave and servants
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/01/22 01:16 PM
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Step 1) Earn huge amounts of $$$ because of youth and beauty Step 2) Complain that the only thing people care about is youth and beauty
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/01/22 10:56 PM
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Step 1) Get paid huge $$$ for being young and beautiful. Step 2) Complain about not getting attention when no longer young and beautiful.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/01/22 05:42 PM
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Adoption? Better option..
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/12/21 02:31 PM
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Mind blown… so succinct and so accurate
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/12/21 04:55 PM
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She’s just the female version of a douchebag
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/11/21 03:08 PM
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It reads as super bitchy
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/11/21 03:07 PM
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I don’t know if she’s blind…. Dense? Feeble minded? Total lack of pattern recognition?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/11/21 04:38 AM
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Like a lot of women she wanted to find a guy that meets 90% of what they want then fix the last 10% It’s what they resort to when they realize they can’t get the final product the way they want it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/11/21 10:16 PM
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I went on a date with “this” woman. She worked for EPIC - a large software company in the Midwest (Madison WI) I was 36 ish at the time, I lived in a rural area. She had “widened” her range geographically. I made 2.5 times more than she did. When she found out I couldn’t move to MSN… she wasn’t interested. They not only want the 6’, 6 figures, six pack… they want the lifestyle (urban or rural) they dream of.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/11/21 04:42 PM
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Forever …. So … like 5 more years?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/11/21 07:22 PM
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Good catch
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/11/21 08:02 PM
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What? You mean the hat and glasses aren’t hiding her lack of wrinkles, grey Hairs and crows feet?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/11/21 06:07 PM
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One major bone of contention—- You can’t “rehabilitate” a h03 From the streets she came to the streets she shall return…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/11/21 03:27 PM
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I love the restaurant analogy… that’s great. I love you honey, I took the other girls that meant nothing to me on a weekend trip to the Bahamas, I’m taking you to McDonald’s— you can get anything you want off the dollar menu
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/10/21 11:30 PM
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She thought she could hide the truth…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/10/21 11:28 PM
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As KS puts it, we want one price for the pus. We as men get confused when you set multiple prices for the same item for different men.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/10/21 05:41 PM
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Women see the relationship as the prize/goal. Men see sex as the prize/goal. ————— She’s giving the current BF the important part — the relationship— but not the sex. Don’t you see? She really likes him, so she’s giving him the prize, time with her. Women and men see this differently. We are hard wired differently. She thinks that he’s getting a good deal, where he feels cheated.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/10/21 05:39 PM
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They deserve better than the top 15%… They want the top 1% Must make 6 figures, six pack abs, six ft tall, and he only has eyes for her… They want the unicorn
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/10/21 05:27 PM
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Don’t you need to use the perfect second person singular cēpístī? Wouldn’t futuo be a better verb? Doesn’t mater need to be in the accusitive as the predicate nominative ?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/09/21 08:58 AM
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She’s a SJW… typically they aren’t all that pleasant unless you agree with everything they stand for ( feminism, Marxism, high taxes, screw the rich, down with the patriarchy ) …. For most red blooded American males that are successful and “go getters” … they are a holy terror.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/09/21 01:32 AM
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Yes, just like a handbag with a designer label, or a fancy car
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/08/21 03:11 PM
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A tall man is a status symbol
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/08/21 02:37 AM
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I love the link thanks
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/08/21 02:36 AM
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If she’s a Roman Catholic— is she a virgin? She’s not married…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/08/21 02:30 AM
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Yes. Yes I am…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/08/21 01:03 PM
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I think that dude is above average looking. WTF is she talking about?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/08/21 04:13 PM
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That’s a very…..interesting….. outfit. Not a dress, not pants… not a mu-mu…. What the heck?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/08/21 01:28 PM
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20s - I value Chad and his rock hard abs and his trust fund. 40s - I don’t cook, I don’t clean, I’m nowhere near virginal, I have a foul mouth, I have no idea how to be a wife…. But I want a man with traditional values.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/08/21 01:24 PM
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“Sales consultant for liquor distribution” Bartender?!?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/08/21 06:48 AM
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She’s a whole lotta woman… she’s a whole lotta rosie…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/08/21 12:16 AM
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As the poet warrior Shawn Carter once said “If you’re having girl problems I feel bad for you son, I got 99 problems, but the female dog ain’t one….
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/08/21 03:04 AM
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Because I'm fat, I'm fat, sha mone (Fat, fat, really really fat) You know I'm fat, I'm fat, you know it (Fat, fat, really really fat) You know I'm fat, I'm fat, come on you know (Fat, fat, really really fat) Don't you call me pudgy, portly or stout Just now tell me once again, who's fat?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/08/21 02:47 AM
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I think she need more random trashy tattoos
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/08/21 04:42 PM
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Thank you for your service. Thank you for being a mod and dealing with all the associated grief entailed with that job.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/08/21 10:31 PM
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“Someone to put up with my crap” This is a personal ADVERTISEMENT You’re supposed to SELL yourself! Not highlight your downsides…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/08/21 05:15 PM
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If a guy did that — he’d be permanently banned. A woman threatening to make up false domestic violence charges, even in jest, no biggie…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/08/21 04:50 PM
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How many men put “no Biden supporters” in their profile…. I’d guess none Politics has become religion It used to be — in days past —- you couldn’t date outside your faith ( Jewish, Muslim, catholic lutheran) Now it’s you can’t date outside your politics…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/07/21 01:47 PM
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What do you call a group of geese — gaggle What do you call a group of crows — murder What do you call a group of owls — parliament What do you call a group of baboons — a Congress What do you call a group of Karens (white liberal women) —- a Complaint….
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/07/21 01:44 PM
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Yea, I was reading this and the little voice in my head was saying ….. “you must really think you’re irresistible”. …. Everything she lists is what I can do for HER. (Buy me steak, buy me a book, be a Christian…) There’s nothing about what she has to offer, or what she can do (I’m a gourmet chef! ) I guess all she has to do is have a pulse and she expects men to line up and give her what she wants….
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/07/21 07:44 PM
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What an ass. He raised you as a father and now you want your “dad” who can’t be bothered to come to your wedding to walk you down the asile? At least her mom isn’t deluded about what a saint Fred is….
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/07/21 03:07 PM
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Men are not vending machines you put physical intimacy tokens into and get long term relationships….
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/07/21 03:03 PM
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It’s not a forehead it’s a 5 head
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/07/21 06:37 PM
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Nurses aids are actually really important. There’s a nursing shortage chronically. They can do all the non-RN work like, assisting people to the commode, getting them out of bed to a chair, ambulatory them, recording their vital signs, recording their fluid inputs and outputs. That leaves the nurses to dispense medications, do admission assessments, medication reconciliations, start IVs, hang fluids or medications and make calls for status changes to the MD. Many of them eventually go on to nurs…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/06/21 08:22 PM
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Twin studies of adult individuals have found a heritability of IQ between 57% and 73%[6] with the most recent studies showing heritability for IQ as high as 80%.[7] IQ goes from being weakly correlated with genetics for children, to being strongly correlated with genetics for late teens and adults. The heritability of IQ increases with age and reaches an asymptote at 18–20 years of age and continues at that level well into adulthood. You can teach an average person to be knowledgeable and act re…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/06/21 03:54 PM
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Snapchat filter on the face
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/06/21 02:07 PM
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My income puts me in the top 2% of US households. I am an outlier. ————- Do tall men make more money on average — yes. ——- Here’s the rub. There are more “short” rich men... here’s why. There are more average or short height men than tall men. 85% of all men are under six feet. Let’s say 30% of tall men make 100,000$/yr Let’s say 10% of short men make 100,000$/yr 15% * 30 % = 4.5% (tall rich) 85%* 10% = 8.5% (short rich) So even if tall men are 3 times as likely to be rich, there will be twice a…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/05/21 08:23 PM
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Fat, old, ugly, 3 kids in tow, earning 30K — But she only dates 6’ or taller Most of them are demanding caviar and champagne on a beer and pizza budget...... stupid
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/05/21 06:02 PM
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I don’t give a shit. Like I said, there’s no “hidden meaning” in what I said. I really think most of them are morons.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/05/21 05:34 PM
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Now do engagement ring size
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/05/21 01:02 PM
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My point exactly - If Kate Upton wants a 6’ man... she can If Lizzo wants one.....
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/05/21 01:00 PM
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I doubt the mods will like the homophobia either...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/05/21 12:58 AM
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https://dqydj.com/height-percentile-calculator-for-men-and-women/
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/05/21 12:53 AM
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“Nearly 12% Of The People All Around The World Are Over 6 Feet Tall. For countries like the USA and Canada the percentage of people that are over 6 feet is nearly 15%”
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/05/21 12:50 AM
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https://colonelheight.com/percentage-of-world-population-over-6-feet-tall/#:~:text=Nearly%2012%25%20Of%20The%20People%20All%20Around%20The,considered%20the%20borderline%20area%20between%20short%20and%20tall.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/05/21 12:49 AM
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Look — 15% of the population is 6’ or taller By your own admission a “large proportion” of women have height as a deal breaker and “aren’t interested in me” Cool - good for them .. don’t date me if you aren’t attracted to me. A large percentage— to me that phrase means over 50%. If I’m a rational thinker — and I know I’m trying to get something that 50% or more of the population wants and only 15% will get.... I know that I have to be at the top of my game. Since most women aren’t in this catego…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/05/21 12:12 AM
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The words I wrote mean exactly what they say. If I was unclear — let me try again. I don’t care if you or any other woman excludes me due to my height. I’m not projecting anything. There’s no “hidden meaning” to interpret. I’d rather have someone that wants to be with me rather than someone that will “settle” for a short guy.... because she “prefers” tall men. I don’t want to be anyone’s consolation prize, or “I guess he will do”. I actually would have liked more women to state their preference …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/05/21 09:49 PM
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The words I wrote mean exactly what they say. If I was unclear — let me try again. I don’t care if you or any other woman excludes me due to my height. I’m not projecting anything. There’s no “hidden meaning” to interpret. I’d rather have someone that wants to be with me rather than someone that will “settle” for a short guy.... because she “prefers” tall men. I don’t want to be anyone’s consolation prize, or “I guess he will do”. I actually would have liked more women to state their preference …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/05/21 09:49 PM
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I don’t mind them passing on me for height. Helps me weed out the idiots. Yeah — I like a beautiful woman — but that’s not the ONLY criteria. I’ll give on beauty a bit to get other desired characteristics. Similarly, a intelligent woman would typically be willing to give a little on height, to get other desirable qualities. Women that give an inflexible absolute... and pass on guys that are 90% of what they want..... morons
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/05/21 09:37 PM
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I have no problem with women excluding me because of my height — as long as they own the consequences of that choice and then don’t turn around and complain that “there are no good men” I’m only 5’9” ... want a 6’ guy — go for it. An old girlfriend married that guy; he’s in law enforcement. They have 2 kids. They had to borrow money from her parents for a house down payment. I make a bit over 400,000$/yr and bought my parents a house in addition to my own (no mortgages) If you want 6’ plus, you …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/05/21 09:25 PM
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Couldn’t get through the first minute... rambling incoherent ... I I I .... me me me me.... Solipsism, selfish, self centered
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/05/21 04:40 PM
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I always love the “I’m only on online dating because x y z” You’re on here because you aren’t having luck IRL You don’t need an excuse. For guys it happens starting age 18 and gets better around 30. For women it’s a shameful thing because she used to not need OLD ..... now she has no other option....
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/05/21 06:35 PM
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I stand corrected — top 24 percent...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/05/21 01:54 PM
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Actually in 2020 in the USA it is 90th percentile meaning only 10% make that amount
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/05/21 09:56 AM
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She needs to be 128 to be BMI 25
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/05/21 04:32 PM
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BMI of 44. Obese starts at 30 Morbid obesity starts at 40 She was once (300) at a BMI of 58. She qualifies for a gastric bypass procedure. Older, morbidly obese, mental health issues... In the words of KS, she’s not even average at best....
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/05/21 12:11 PM
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Don’t marry a lawyer — you don’t want to divorce someone that can do half their own legal work
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/05/21 11:34 PM
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MIS? Vascular? Colo-rectal? Hepatobiliary?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/05/21 04:06 PM
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Imagine having to deal with this level of entitlement and attitude every day when you get home..... She’s a total a-hole. She’s just damn mean.... Nobody deserves this crap.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/05/21 01:01 PM
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She has an engagement ring on her left hand. I think she’s in the drivers seat and the image is flipped...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/05/21 07:55 PM
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“A guy your mother wants you to marry” Because your mother understands your looks are a depreciating asset — and your attitude sucks.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/05/21 02:09 PM
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She’s the British Amy Horton Seriously— what is wrong with dating a guy your parents approve of?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/05/21 02:05 PM
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Manicured nails = I don’t work in the farm field High heels are also - I don’t do manual labor. Wagging dress — I can afford to spend a huge amount on a dress I will wear only once... A white cake — used to be a sign of affluence because purification of sugar was difficult and expensive....
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/04/21 07:36 PM
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Nose ring... not attractive
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/04/21 03:33 AM
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HB8 ? I’m dense and not getting the translation... help me out?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/04/21 04:28 PM
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Men’s good years are 30-50 not 20-30
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/04/21 01:59 AM
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For the last 20 years... no husband The only constant in that equation was her. There will be no husband unless she is willing to change her attitude/approach/criteria. Enjoy your cats.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/04/21 07:46 PM
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I encountered this multiple times online.... yuck
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/04/21 07:11 PM
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I assume this is the pre-baby photo?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/04/21 03:38 PM
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Fat, dumb, and stupid is no way to go through life ...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/04/21 09:12 PM
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Can we give negative ratings?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/04/21 06:19 PM
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Chad thundercock doesn’t need a dating service to get women...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/04/21 02:05 PM
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3 .... very true
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/04/21 09:33 PM
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Ok, I date a woman that has 2 horses and is a “farm girl” grew up very rural. Not from money. She also keeps chickens (for eggs) and someday wants to keep sheep for wool and meat. She likes to ride through public parks, long distance just like hikers like to climb mountains or trails.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/04/21 08:39 PM
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Chad gets miserable too. Sure he gets laid all the time, but after a while women are just “things” to him to play with... it’s fun... but ultimately not that fulfilling. Also Chad is being used by the women sometimes - for sex — and just being a hot slam piece is dehumanizing too.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/04/21 08:19 PM
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“I don’t want to settle.” Neither do men — that’s why the guys don’t want you anymore. They want you 10 years ago.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/04/21 08:14 PM
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Serous question. Why? What about horses is bad?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/04/21 07:37 PM
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How strong brave and courageous... to not get what you want... and be OK with it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/04/21 04:57 PM
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I’ve had my fun.... past tense.... no fun for my husband
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/04/21 03:58 PM
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Yep— the guy can be changed to fit her needs... not the other way around... Try asking her to lose some weight....
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/04/21 03:55 PM
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“I’m a single female, 31, who’s been dating online since my mid-20s and had a lot of fun” Can anyone translate this for me? I’ve never seen this phrasing before.... I’ve had my fun... and now... I just can’t seem to place it. Seems vaguely familiar... almost like an NPC response ——— The pandemic is a lame excuse. I found a LTR in September at the height of this crap-fest.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/04/21 03:50 PM
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Most of these “single forever” women don’t earn enough to retire comfortably. They will be working until the day they are permanently horizontal....
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/04/21 03:49 PM
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Kevin says his channel is mostly for the AA community but 90% of it applies to other cultures and skin tones
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/03/21 06:22 PM
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Or they will celebrate women who “make him wait for it”....
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/03/21 02:00 PM
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She doesn’t look small. She’s over 40. Her only screening requirements should be.... 1) are you breathing 2) are you bipedal 3) are you willing to associate with me. 4) are you a homo-sapien
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/03/21 02:34 PM
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Yes — in times where in person meetings are impossible or for people that are socially/geographically isolated— high value people are on OLD ..... but in general it folks that are having trouble meeting “eligible” suitors
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/03/21 02:27 PM
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High end guys only use OLD for hit and quit. They can pick up girls going to the post office.... they don’t need a dating app... Same with good looking 21 year old women with no kids.... not on dating apps. The only people using them are people that are running into difficulties. The problem is for most women.... they still get attention... all the time... so they think they aren’t having trouble..... until they are so far gone, they are almost beyond recovery...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/03/21 01:14 PM
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It’s not fair a 5’4” guy gets overlooked It’s not fair a trust fund boy gets girls at age 18 because of his money. It’s not fair that the quarterback gets all the attention and the engineering student gets none. Kate Upton and Megan Fox get paid millions just because they are pretty... while homely girls have to work 9-5 jobs... Dating is SUPER unfair. Life is unfair. Deal with it....
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/03/21 07:31 PM
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Before she had a child it was all about her needs/wants. She only dated/slept with men when there was an upside to HER. Why should it be any different now?!? Why should she have to consider what men want? She never did before...... This is solipsism, a very common trait amongst modern women.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/03/21 06:10 PM
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So at least 5’10” up to 6’4” Wants to be in a relationship but have her freedom at the same time Down to earth, and sophisticated. Doesn’t want to have children ever. ———— So she wants a tall, good looking F’buddy that’s loyal to her and pays for everything. But he doesn’t get kids, youth, beauty or any other feminine traits.... Enjoy your cats
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/03/21 02:41 PM
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Multiple facial tattoos Strange looking eyebrows Dyed hair Looks like she has a mustache that has to be waxed Government make-work job Unrealistic expectations
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/03/21 02:35 PM
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Ears pierced ?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/03/21 01:04 AM
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Especially when the shift in behavior coincides with a gained advantage. Young - having sex with whoever she wants — paying no attention to the stable, good, blue pulled men.... advantage her... Older - making blue pulled guys wait till marriage and demanding traditional behavior to secure a commitment— advantage her
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/03/21 08:35 PM
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Alabama — she’s trying to show she’s from the state... “see I’m a country girl”
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/03/21 06:20 PM
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You only get so many bites at the apple. But they don’t want to “settle”.... so they end up with nothing
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/02/21 03:28 PM
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An pilots lounge is prime picking — most guys have money - 92% of all pilots are male
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/02/21 06:08 PM
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Maybe she’s super hot?.... oh ... wait ...... If she were she’d have a guy.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/02/21 05:42 PM
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If she wants something “nicer” — get it for the 5th or tenth anniversary. I’m guessing by then she will be gone (won’t care) or will be busy with some kids (and won’t care) This is SOOO shortsighted. The ring has no utility other than bragging rights to “I have the biggest “ to other women.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/02/21 05:39 PM
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I’m assuming the 6’4” thing will eliminate most Asian men anyway
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/02/21 01:06 PM
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To a lot of single women, politics and career are more important than men and family... that’s why leftist women are much more likely to be cat-lady spinsters Feminist men are usually a Pain in the ass.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/01/21 06:46 PM
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Fork, plate, mouth repeat, repeat, repeat
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/01/21 02:35 AM
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Age?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/01/21 04:49 AM
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Nope — BMI is at least 35
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/01/21 12:29 AM
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It’s not just filltered— there’s the massive amounts of eyeliner and the eyebrows that have been manicured/waxed/dyed into submission
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/01/21 05:49 PM
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The only thing I’ve ever had them do is help me roll over my 403b to a Roth after I left
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/01/21 05:47 PM
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Why? If you’re on SA there have to be non-pregnant women .... right?!?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/01/21 03:05 AM
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She needs to vet her potential boyfriends better. It seems that once they get what they want she’s just another notch on the bedpost. If she wants a LTR she’s still young enough at 19-20 to try to command it from a decent man.... like an engineering student or pre med or pre law... the guys that usually get no female attention....
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/01/21 05:52 PM
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Average weight for an American woman is 172 lbs BMI of 29 or so. Sadly she might not be far from average.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/01/21 01:19 AM
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Nose ring, bottle blond She can’t spell She can barely use the english language The ONLY thing she has to offer is p-sleeve
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/01/21 01:18 AM
30

You done f’ed up aa-Ron
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/01/21 12:52 AM
49

It’s photo manipulation Children have a larger eye to face ratio. It’s one of the thing that all human beings identify as “cute”. It’s one of the reasons women wear eyeliner — to exaggerate their eye size. There are face-tune apps that will make your eyes look big for this purpose.... she went too far. It becomes noticeable/clown like at some point and the eye isn’t fooled.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/01/21 02:18 AM
57

She’s 42 with a 21 year old mindset. “I’m good looking so I can be obnoxious” Men may put up with that from young attractive women (but shouldn’t) Few men will put up with it from old, unattractive women...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/01/21 05:22 PM
29

If your early 30’s you might be able to snag a 45 year old...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/12/20 05:15 AM
40

Well he is 48 and dating in the 35-50 range. Most women will be single moms in that age range
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/12/20 06:29 PM
55

Perhaps size of 6” refers to the fish she’s holding up. I get that it’s a double entendre.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/12/20 05:45 AM
1

It’s tinder, not eharmony It’s a hookup app. You should expect to have a large number of people expecting nothing but a hook up. ———————- Also, men prefer to date young, attractive women. Some are willing to wine and dine a lady because there might be a point to it (marriage/family/sex with an attractive woman). With her all those are not options. She’s probably nearing infertility. She’s marginally attractive. Most men her age have been divorced and know marriage is a bad idea. ———- For me this…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/12/20 11:19 PM
7

I feel dumber for having watched this.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/12/20 06:24 AM
21

There’s a lot of this on Reddit and the internet in general. Either there is a vocal minority that is feminist, or regular people don’t use Reddit. Only 10-15% of the population identifies as feminist. Same goes for being Republican. The country is nearly 50% /50% but post anything moderately in line with conservative thinking — downvoted to oblivion or banned....
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/11/20 03:47 PM
9

This has to be fake
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/11/20 10:49 PM
11

Am I missing it or does it say female somewhere in the profile?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/11/20 05:11 PM
72

Is this a troll profile?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/11/20 06:37 PM
14

Well the other worry is — if you look this good at forty why didn’t anyone put a ring on it at 22? Is she f’ing insane? Is there some other problem that makes her undesirable?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/09/20 06:39 PM
14

Not bad looking for 40
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/09/20 03:21 PM
10

The fingernails scream white trash
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/09/20 03:20 PM
1

Don’t hit on the cart tarts. They’re nothing but trouble. Don’t poop where you eat. I haven’t asked a woman out in 10 months. I feel like I’m in AA - and I’m trying to give up women instead. The women worth a damn don’t want anything to do with me. The ones that are fat, ugly and/or old, I don’t want anything to do with. I have a little over 1.3 million saved, own my own house and just want to retire early at some point.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/09/20 02:49 AM
5

I did put my income and my profession in my OLD account with photos of me piloting my airplane - doesn’t work. The only thing that changed things was making my height 6’2” instead of 5’9”
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/09/20 02:45 PM
18

I’m a pilot (own a PA 24-180 and I’m a FAA AME) I’m a surgeon I’m a millionaire I couldn’t get a date in a women’s prison with a fistful of signed pardons. The standards aren’t unrealistic, they are unattainable.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/09/20 02:28 PM
16

Swiping on tinder. Punching above her weight.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/09/20 05:20 AM
109

Yep - one of the mods on DOT likes to ban anyone that mentions anything about being realistic. Like::: You don’t have to date EVERYONE that asks you out, but if you want to eventually get married you have to date SOMEONE. The more people you exclude from the pool the fewer choices you will have to meet ANYONE. By default, if you are super picky, you will end up choosing NO ONE. This got me banned...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/09/20 05:19 AM
14

Always with the lists... 🙄
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/08/20 05:08 PM
12

Isn’t chin music when the pitcher almost hits the batter in the head in baseball?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/08/20 08:56 PM
36

“Personal growth”. Looks like waste line growth....
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/08/20 10:23 PM
4

I wouldn’t want my daughter to date a gigilo any more then I’d want my son to date a whore
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/08/20 12:51 AM
2

This is similar to Tomi Larhen... men are trash!!! .... why am I single?!?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/08/20 03:17 PM
14

She’s a Karen — take away her “good looks” and she’s just awful.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/08/20 07:26 PM
12

She wants chad, and she wants to wear the pants in the relationship. This is NOT possible
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/08/20 07:25 PM
5

No and no, she was engaged
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/08/20 07:13 PM
13

I’m repeatedly told —- Just because a man is a gentleman or chivalrous to her, he doesn’t automatically get a relationship or sex. Similarly— just because she has sex with him or dates him, she doesn’t get a long term commitment or exclusivity. The social contract of women trading sex for commitment is gone, women destroyed it through sexual liberation. Sow the wind, reap the whirlwind baby....
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/08/20 05:40 PM
21

She is a narcissist. Me me me me... us us us us... not introspection about how they are choosing to be with crap rather than the crap choosing them....
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/08/20 04:20 PM
18

Exactly! Why are y’all tolerating this behavior from men? Why aren’t you dumping their ass? By dating “bad men” you are ENCOURAGING this behavior!!!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/08/20 04:03 PM
11

https://www.dailywire.com/news/a-lot-of-men-are-trash-tomi-lahren-posts-14-minute-psa-for-boyish-men?utm_source=facebook&utm_medium=social&utm_campaign=benshapiro&fbclid=IwAR0bCrD7jUzkGl9vMjffhZDCfU6kYwzKBpZIg-rGDEvYbdp1yxpTFpMeG34 Link to article — it has a link to the Facebook rant
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/08/20 03:34 PM
6

Stop me if I’m wrong. I think lawyers are trained to be oppositional. They argue naturally. They negotiate hard. At work this is fine. Doing it with a suitor is VERY off putting.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/08/20 01:11 AM
16

She is losing the competition with her friends. She even said it. They are married and she isn’t. She doesn’t want to spend time with her husband, she just wants one to check off the to-do list. She wants a husband like she wants a hand bag. She wants a fancy accessory. She doesn’t care about their interests or hobbies (football? Ew gross!). I’m sure she will want him to go to all her work and social functions though. She’s a lawyer. Every female lawyer I’ve ever met with the exception of one, I…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/08/20 11:49 PM
28

There morbidly obese and then there’s “I have so much mass I have my own gravitational pull”
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/08/20 11:21 PM
19

Wait, if she has a stem PhD Hasn’t she been surrounded by highly intelligent, high earning men her entire life?!? None of these guys were any good?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/08/20 04:42 AM
24

No, she can buy a few cats
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/08/20 08:24 PM
6

Look at her other articles. She has selfies/photos.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/07/20 10:02 AM
13

No, she’s morbidly obese
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/07/20 09:30 AM
37

She’s large, very large. She openly describes removing friends and family from her life that have criticized her decision to be heavy. Unfortunately for her, a large number of men are not attracted to a morbidly obese woman that “doesn’t take care of her skin” and calls Christianity “a cult”....
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/07/20 09:28 AM
10

It also depends on population density. Live in a big city? A lot more anonymity. Live in a small town? Everyone knows you are cheating
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/07/20 02:50 AM
17

My ex in-laws liked me more than their daughter did
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/07/20 09:51 PM
1

Loquor linguam latam...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/07/20 11:31 PM
123

One addition- the age difference. If it’s ok for a 50 year old woman to be intimate with a 25 year old guy. It’s totally ok for a 50 year old guy to be interested in a 25 year old woman.. No double standards.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/07/20 02:51 PM
2

Holy shit... I just found this post. Wow... just ... wow... this is one of the best “how to date for dummies” explanations I’ve ever seen. As Wayne and Garth once said... I’m not worthy.
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre27/07/20 12:03 AM
8

Agree, I’m just saying a lot of guys that would have been “good men” in the 1930’s are now PUA and players. Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/07/20 07:38 PM
23

There are no “good men”. They all have been incentivized to be PUA and players. It’s the only way they get any female attention. Guys don’t want to play by the “old rules” and frankly many don’t know how to anymore.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/07/20 05:52 PM
-1

You’re right, there’s no happy medium. There’s no way to communicate physical desire or interest without sex. You’ve caught us all in a paradox of our own making. And it’s all men’s fault /sarcasm
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/07/20 05:12 PM
21

If she wants to have sex with you and you say no, the date and relationship is over anyway... You write this as though the woman has no agency in her decision.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/07/20 03:06 PM
125

Or maybe guys don’t want to date a woman that has sex on the first date. It’s a rash impulsive decision about a major part of a relationship. What other major decisions is she going to make on an absolute whim? Is she mentally stable?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/07/20 02:24 PM
2

Yeah, I don’t have the time to do it properly, I actually did some grafting and queen rearing, but could never get the mating colonies to work....
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/07/20 02:05 AM
6

I make ballpark 400,000$/yr ... when I retire I’m not going to practice geriatrics on a cruise ship. When I’m retired I’m flying my airplane to any ballgame I want to go to and perfecting my beekeeping abilities. If I want extra pocket money I’d do a few weeks of temp work here and there. (Yes there are MD temp agencies)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/07/20 02:00 AM
4

Tl:dr At some point possessions (and jobs) own you not the other way around.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/07/20 12:49 AM
6

What are you going to do with all the money if you work 80-90 hours a week? I don’t like big houses or a fancy cars, I fly small airplanes as a hobby. I rarely get to fly. I purposely have to schedule days off to do it. I think I put 25 hours on the airframe last year. I spent my life (18-31) working through undergrad, med school, residency and having little or no social life. I was one of these blue pulled guys figuring there’d be someone that would appreciate who I was and what I had to offer …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/07/20 12:48 AM
3

I’d highly consider being a pharmacist, you make more, often don’t have to deal with the public and it’s shift work...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/07/20 12:38 AM
10

There’s a huge shortage of nurses in the US. You get paid fairly well. If you don’t like the job you’re currently at there are 10,000 others you could jump into tomorrow. Picking up extra shifts/work is not hard. Working 1/2 time is possible too. Want to move to another state? RN license is almost infinity transferable. There are travel nursing companies that will line up 4 different jobs in 4 different states along with housing so you can see the country. Are MD’s in shortage, sure, out in the …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/07/20 11:29 PM
3

Is this a reference to a book or movie I need to read or watch?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/07/20 05:26 PM
6

Surgeon. I drive a used 4 cylinder ford mustang. (The eco boost engine gets 30+ mpg highway)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/07/20 05:21 PM
2

Can confirm
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/07/20 03:45 PM
3

Most of the CRNAs are guys
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/07/20 03:44 PM
9

She seems like a true intellectual. Perhaps we can discuss plato’s republic or the works of Locke or DeCartes on an outing?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/07/20 03:29 PM
5

Holy mother of god... my eyes!! my eyes! It can not be unseen!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/07/20 03:21 PM
1

You just can understand appendicitis without reading the source material either, it would just be a waste of time for me to try to explain it to you. Why do trust those internists and ER doctors, they aren’t actually surgeons... I think I’ve exhaustively proved my point on the folly of trying to explain the nuance involved in your disease. You will just never understand like I do... it’s beyond your feeble mind’s comprehension (Does church lady superior dance)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/07/20 10:22 PM
1

Paul Ehrlich said in “The Population Bomb” between 1980 and 1989 that 4 billion people would perish in the “Great Die-Off.” He still has a job at Stanford as a professor and president of Stanford’s Center for Conservation Biology. Why are there no consequences in climate science circles for being horribly wrong?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/07/20 09:26 PM
2

Look, I have an undergraduate degree in biochemistry, mathematics, chemistry and molecular biology. (Yes 4 majors in 3 years) I have a post doctoral education in a hard science that I used daily for work. I understand scientific nuance and error bars. The climate “science” I get exposed to is so bad at actually predicting outcomes ( I was a kid in the 1990s and global warming was going to kill us all and make my life a living hell) that I can’t take much of what I’m told at face value. It’s not …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/07/20 09:23 PM
2

So Al Gore’s movie that says we should all be dead by now — the one that won an academy award is not a good data source? http://www.denisdutton.com/newsweek_coolingworld.pdf This is Newsweek from 1970. Global cooling was going to kill us all then...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/07/20 09:07 PM
5

The climate science has proven CO2 is a greenhouse gas. They do a really shitty job of modeling the actual temperature increases. The polar ice caps were supposed to be gone by 2012. (They are still here) It’s hard for me to take a branch of “science” seriously that keeps repeatedly predicting outcomes that never come to fruition. In the 1960s there was going to be “global cooling” and we needed to paint our buildings black to absorb more heat. There also have been climate changes of greater mag…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/07/20 08:02 PM
7

As a conservative, no, I don’t think the hard sciences are “polluted”. They are the only rational ones left on college campuses usually. Men aren’t women and women aren’t men.... Say this objective truth on any college campus and the leftists will have a meltdown. There are valid criticisms of conservative positions but not understanding objective truth about sex/gender is not one of them. “I identify as 6’7”. “ — but you’re 5’9”!! “I identify as a woman “ — oh that’s totally cool...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/07/20 03:19 PM
39

Hey, I’m all for being everyone’s friend, I’m a nice guy. It also gives me a ring side seat to watch the shit-show that is her dating life. Where’s the popcorn?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/07/20 10:39 PM
202

I’m in the friend zone, right where you left me.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/07/20 10:15 PM
3

I don’t date. I haven’t asked a woman out in 8-9 months. I still browse through photos of the local singles for my edification but I don’t play the game any more. The deck is marked, the dice are loaded and the game is rigged.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/07/20 02:44 PM
3

It’s not just that. The more you realize the truth, the easier it is to deal with rejection and disappointment. If you’re blue pill and are a beta, you have no idea why women keep kicking you in the groin. “I don’t deserve this!!” “I’m playing by the rules” If you are a beta and you have red pill awareness, you not only understand why it’s happening, you understand that ALL women will treat you this way. It’s not me, its them. It’s not my lack of compassion, commitment, success or confidence....…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/07/20 10:32 PM
2

Woah- man....
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/07/20 09:03 PM
29

They want to friend zone you and then only promote you if you’re “worthy”. You need your orbiters to know their place.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/07/20 09:02 PM
4

It’s not her looks it’s her attitude. She’s sooooo entitled. She doesn’t list one thing she has to offer men... not one.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/07/20 01:26 AM
2

In Soviet Russia the field plays you!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/07/20 01:17 AM
21

So you find bank transfers and financial records? If they used a stage name or alias how would that come up? I don’t understand, because you can do cam work from anywhere, and there’s no license or other registration that I’m aware of that you need.... (thanks for the reply and indulging my curiosity)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/07/20 01:13 AM
57

Is there a good place to find out if someone has done this stuff?? It would be interesting if any of my co-workers did this 🤔
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/07/20 12:26 AM
1

I had a debate with a woman over this. “OLD is worse for women because the guys have their pick. They ghost, they lie...etc. etc. etc.” She was 35+ —- still blinded by the apex fallacy. —- unable to settle for beta provider So despite what the above post says “you can eventually be a beta” — even THAT isn’t possible. They will want 6’ and six figures when they are 60 years old
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/07/20 06:58 PM
2

Can I get a witness? ✋✋✋
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/07/20 01:46 AM
1

It was an old joke I’d make when I was 20 ish single and had no luck with women. I’m looking for bipedal berating and female .... and she has to understand those criteria...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/06/20 12:01 PM
9

I met a woman that was VERY religious I asked her what she thought of: Ephisians 5:23 For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, his body, of which he is the Savior. ———————- She basically (paraphrasing) said that modern women don’t “submit” to their husbands.... Ok, then you just pick and choose the Bible verses you want to follow. I can totally take multiple wives then ... cool? ... wait where are you going?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/06/20 01:25 PM
1

It’s hard to discern — is she Uber liberal too? (Feminist)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/06/20 12:54 PM
2

At her age, bipedal, breathing, and male are the only standards she can have.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/06/20 03:51 AM
5

Yeah, she’s thin. I’ll give her that
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/06/20 02:12 AM
11

What is the upside to dating her? If I’m a 58 year old guy, my sex drive is lower than when I’m 18. She’s not that attractive. She can’t give me kids. She might have a 3 bedroom place — I don’t care I’m financially independent myself.... I guess her company? Witty discussion? I can go to a coffee shop and strike up a conservation to get that....
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/06/20 01:54 AM
9

I own a 1959 airplane... looks better than her
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/06/20 01:50 AM
4

Quality men don’t need dating apps unless they want to fuck around.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/06/20 12:30 AM
14

She’s only middle age if life expectancy is 116
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/06/20 12:16 AM
6

I’m a surgeon, I also have a pilots license and I keep honeybees. What do you do — I fly planes.... Not technically a lie... Or “I work really hard at a job I enjoy”
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/05/20 06:14 PM
30

If it were easy... everyone would do it. be in physical shape lose weight stop drinking be virtuous win a sporting events (All examples)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/05/20 01:22 AM
2

Gotcha... it’s a 40,000$ piper BTW. But it can get me to New Orleans from the Chicago area in 5.5 hours... I can take my liquids, no TSA, no set departure time or arrival time. Wanna stop for lunch in Memphis? Sure! I use it a lot to go to sporting events or day trips where commercial air travel is a pain in the ass.. I guess I should buy myself a selfie stick and take pictures of where I go instead of getting there...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/05/20 03:18 AM
1

Whoops wrong thread
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/05/20 03:17 AM
1

Isn’t an airplane inherently travel?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/05/20 02:47 AM
3

I own my own airplane, even with photos of me behind the yoke... oh well.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/05/20 01:13 AM
19

The only people that show interest on line are a decade older than I am. The level of inflated ego/self worth is astounding.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/05/20 03:35 PM
22

For you maybe, not for me. The odd thing is I make almost a half million a year.... nobody wants to put up with me... Either I’m an ass, or women are superficial (looks only)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/05/20 02:50 PM
44

I’m 5’8” bald and my history with women has been less than stellar. (women in general treat me like crap, or worse like I’m invisible). I just don’t want the abuse anymore, juice isn’t worth the squeeze. What’s the upside anyway? More kids? Someone to spend my money? Someone to steal my daughters inheritance?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/05/20 02:43 PM
16

Ok, there are very FEW men or women worth dating at my age, better?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/05/20 05:43 AM
239

I’m 42, I have one child, I’m male, divorced. I don’t date, I focus on my 1 daughter. To do anything else is me being selfish (time with a woman is time away from my daughter). She has 4 kids. Focus on them. Live for them, not for a man. Besides, there aren’t any men or women worth dating at my age, including me.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/05/20 05:23 AM
13

There’s about 5 posts over at “bad women” that brag about being banned here, calling MGTOWs incels... pathetic, mysoginysts, bad with women... all the typical things. “I was hotter when I was 30 than I was when I was 20” .... Whatever.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/05/20 02:57 AM
11

Just like doctors, some NPs are good some are bad.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/05/20 02:29 AM
1

No, but she is older (not old) and seems to be a whiny baby. With all the upside you list above, if she had a modicum of a nice personality she wouldn’t be single.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/05/20 03:23 PM
24

She’s getting a DRNP.. doctorate of nursing practice. All the nurse practitioner schools have moved to issuing doctorates. That way they are “doctors”. Yes, they actually want to be called “doctor” and they are “just as good as a physician” If this is the kind of woman she is (a Karen basically) no thanks....
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/05/20 03:20 PM
1

I appreciate your ad-hominems The child like nature of which I could find on my daughters kindergarten playground. Now do you have an intellectual argument?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/04/20 06:39 PM
2

Ephesians 5:23 For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, his body, of which he is the Savior. —— So if you are a devout Christian— you should submit to your husband’s decisions. The husband is the head (leader) of the wife. She shouldn’t question his judgement just as a Christian shouldn’t question Jesus. This is a question I always ask of people that don’t want to have sex due to faith. “Oh so if we get married you’ll completely submit to me? “ Usually the res…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/04/20 05:22 PM
6

I don’t hate her. She’s really cute. Why after 20 years of dating is he STILL single ? Fat, ugly, short women get married all the time. If she wants a LTR she could have had one by now. Either she’s a horrible person, or she’s constantly trying to hit above her weight. “I want an alpha” —- except alphas don’t date 36 year olds (unless they are 50) This is WHY she deserves to be here
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/04/20 04:59 PM
1

1)I want MY children not a sperm donors 2) She has about a 1-2% chance of getting pregnant and carrying it to term at this age. Not a good choice if you are liking to have kids ... unless you have no other. 3) No one wants to be someone’s last shot. I don’t want someone to “settle” for me when they are at the end of their fertility window. I was always here, when she was 23 and I was 22 — she would t have given me (or most men) a chance. I’m under no delusion. If you’re not with me in your prime…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/04/20 04:54 PM
25

Alphas don’t give a fuck about politics... unless they are a politician.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/04/20 04:47 PM
15

If only there were a “mute” button I’d agree. But I have a feeling the entitlement and constant blather would make me want to take a long walk off a short pier.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/04/20 03:11 PM
213

She is an awful human being. She’s not getting gifts?!? He’s taking care of her and her kids! That’s a huge gift. He’s a good father — huge gift. He married her at 30ish and rescued her from a life of solitude — huge gift. Dumping your husband because you’re bored? YOU CHOSE HIM!! Awful, awful awful...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/04/20 06:10 AM
2

Last night at 2 went to bed with a ten, at ten I woke up with a 2. I ain’t gone to bed with any ugly women, but I sure woke up with a few...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/04/20 01:00 AM
2

It was her choice. When she was 22 she was decent looking. She’s not overweight or horribly deformed. Even those women get married and have kids. She chose to be single... She chose this. Not all at once. A million separate tiny decisions at a time.... but she chose this none the less.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/04/20 12:48 AM
0

What makes her a two? Fat? Old? Ugly? Did she used to be a 6?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/04/20 12:44 AM
1

Meh — the image could be backwards. I’ve seen that happen a lot where the printing on the t-shirt is backwards. But you’re probably right passenger side, old car, old photo. The drunk dude? I’m guessing it’s “you must be this much of a chad to ride this ride”. It shows how “good” of a man she can date (not LTR).
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/04/20 07:36 PM
2

Yes. Single mother — big issues Older woman — what happenes if she gets breast cancer, leukemia or other chronic illness? Single income - again what if she gets sick? —— That being said my daughter was born to a 39 yo and there were (thank god) no issues.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/04/20 06:08 PM
1

Google DaVinci robot... that’s my favorite thing to use....
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/04/20 06:06 PM
1

Yet there’s some guy that responded to my post that “this isn’t that bad”.... smh
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/04/20 05:45 PM
15

Second stage of the wall?!? 1st stage — Alphas won’t even date them 2nd stage — betas won’t date them Do I have that right?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/04/20 03:47 PM
6

The technical term is “advanced maternal age”
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/04/20 03:42 PM
1

Yes, it’s quite fulfilling. Try it some time. Its called a surgical residency training program. In fact that would be considered a light schedule....
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/04/20 10:50 PM
2

I usually look for weight gain and evidence that the photo is scanned or a picture of a picture (not digital because it’s old or no one has a digital copy)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/04/20 03:54 PM
6

She did. I just chose not to include every photo in the screen capture.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/04/20 11:26 AM
6

I like the term inspin— involuntary spinsters
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/04/20 06:51 AM
9

FDS also correlated with Teen mom original and #2 Dating over thirty Dead bedrooms Tarot Traveling solo Social anxiety Petty revenge
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/04/20 06:49 AM
2

Atlanta ? Or Chicago?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/04/20 12:27 AM
8

Women in big cities don’t want to date outside of town. Women in smaller cities want to date in the big city. Saw it first hand in Atlanta.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/04/20 12:18 AM
7

It’s a shit hole alright (I’m the OP)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/04/20 07:17 PM
22

One of her photos (not included) is from 2/2016 (date stamp in corner from the camera). So this may not be what she looks like now — claims to be 34
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/04/20 11:57 AM
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I don’t think blonde is her actual hair color either. Hard to tell. Her profile has been active for at least 2 years. No takers yet I guess...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/04/20 11:16 AM
1

RCF?!?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/04/20 02:33 AM
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I’m a big enough man to admit I’m wrong and you are right. Something about her though... would she hold out to 38 and then just take some random guy? There’s a reason the sperm banks pay for 6’ plus donors more often than short guys....
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/04/20 05:24 PM
3

Part of me thinks sperm bank. I can’t imagine anyone volunteering to have sex with her.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/04/20 03:28 PM
1

I’m guessing a lot of the photos are a few years old
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/04/20 04:15 PM
5

Match has recently hidden the “what I’m looking for” section. That’s where height used to be listed. Now they have to say it overtly in their profile
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/04/20 04:15 PM
3

Abracadabra? Open sesame?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/04/20 12:01 PM
1

You catch more flys with honey. Being this negative openly in a profile is a recipe for disaster. It makes her sound, old bitter and jaded. It makes you realize she likely had all of these bad things happen to her (partially because she is attracted to bad men). It makes me believe that, we’re I to “apply”, there is an extremely low likelihood I would meet her standards It’s marketing 101. Get as many “hits” as possible. Don’t respond to the clients/prospectives you don’t want. But don’t ever op…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/04/20 12:00 PM
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She’s a fitness trainer, she’s around in shape men every day. She’s athletic. So she believes that despite her age, she’s still a catch due to her low body fat and tone. She is good looking as far as a 38 year old goes, but she can’t compete with the younger models.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/04/20 11:54 AM
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A woman can decide to have a kid from 16 to 40 ish (sperm bank, random guy at bar, husband) A man has to find a woman, convince her to have sex and then convince her to keep the baby. It is infinitely easier for a woman to accomplish the goal of motherhood (there are plenty of single mothers) than it is for a man to be a father. It’s tragic ... she’s a good looking woman. Had every advantage in life genetically (blonde thin pretty)... and ends up without offspring. (A genetic failure) That’s no …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/04/20 10:27 AM
3

At 42 I probably have a lot more relationship experience than you do at 18 And yes, if you marry someone and they decide not to give you children when that was a major life-goal... and you wait till 40 to divorce them .... then you have bad judgement.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/04/20 10:18 AM
4

I don’t know ask my 6 year old daughter.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/04/20 10:12 AM
3

Again If you are right and she is being reasonable she’ll get what she wants in no time. As a 42 year old male that live in her area (I’m the OP) I could do a lot better than her, and there are a 1000 profiles that are less entitled than hers. But you do you ... when you turn 40, feel free to marry an aging , end of fertility woman, just in time to barely pop out one kid and have her divorce you...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/04/20 10:10 AM
4

Who picked her ex-husband ? The one that “didn’t work out”?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/04/20 09:48 AM
4

Ah, but that’s the rub. If she were asking for something reasonable, she would find it quickly/easily. There are few 18-25 year old female dating profiles. There are many 26-32 year old female profiles. There are massive numbers of 33-45 year old female profiles. The older a woman gets, the less ANY man wants to date her. She’s 40. She has competition from women younger and prettier than she is for men her own age. There is a surplus of 40 year old women available she has to compete with too. (O…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/04/20 09:33 AM
1

I’m not saying don’t have a child. I’m saying the chances are poor that she can have a baby and are getting progressively worse every year. A man that has an option to choose a more fertile woman to date/marry would not be making an illogical decision. This erodes her ability to find a man, if there are any younger women available.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/04/20 08:48 AM
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First marriage is lower divorce rate (50%) It is lower the fewer # of sexual partners the woman has had. Pre-nuptial agreement Religious women are less likely to divorce as well. It’s a REAL problem though as women have HUGE financial incentive to divorce. “It’s not that every woman will ruin your life, it’s that every woman has the potential to do so” — unknown
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/04/20 08:44 AM
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Totally agree If I were 50 or 55. I’m 42. The other problem — 2nd marriages have a 60% failure rate. You can’t pre-nuptial agreement child support.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/04/20 08:37 AM
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There are women at 50 that can have children (about 400 a year in the USA) It doesn’t mean it’s a sure thing or a good idea. I’m not trying to shit on her dream. Go try to have a kid. Just be realistic, it likely won’t happen. I included the “single factor” because I’m showing you what fraction of the total male population she is excluding. At 40, a large number of tall, attractive, liberal males living in a big city are already married. I would posit that the type of men she is looking for is M…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/04/20 08:31 AM
2

She is attractive. What the point is, the man she is describing, in most of our opinions is MORE attractive than she is. It’s not that she’s “wrong” for wanting any of this. It’s that it is exceedingly unlikely that her bargaining position is good enough to get what she desires Now this is all opinion.... However, if she were asking for something reasonable/easy/accessible , would she be on a dating app for an extended period of time? No, she would be able to find a realistic, appropriate man re…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/04/20 08:20 AM
2

The rate of divorce in a second marriage is 60% Women institute 70% of divorces If you want to marry her and give her 1/2 of your assets and future earnings be my guest. Child support can’t be pre- nuptial agreemented away, even if you can pre- nip the rest. A) 40+ year old tall, liberal men in a big city have preferences too. They likely can do better than her. B) she’s not “wrong” wanting a baby. I don’t believe I ever said this. If she can find someone to have a baby with, more power to her. …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/04/20 08:08 AM
5

I’m not saying I wouldn’t date her, but that’s it. Long term girlfriend only. I’m not marrying her and letting her have half my assets/future earnings. She likely can’t have kids, and she’s already divorced one guy. The rate of failure of a second marriage is 60% and women institute 70% of divorces. Even if she can have a kid — I don’t want to get stuck paying child support (which you can’t pre-nup)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/04/20 07:30 AM
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At forty you have a 7% chance per month of getting pregnant. You have a 50% chance of a spontaneous miscarriage if you do get pregnant. So, a 3 or 4 % chance per month if you start trying to have a kid this second. IVF has about a 20% success rate. Eliminating anyone under 5’10” leaves you with 40% of the male US population. 35 % of the male population is single (not married or dating). 60% of the male population voted for trump. As the OP I know where she lives. 25 % of households don’t own a c…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/04/20 07:24 AM
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I just looked it up - at 40, you have a 7% chance per month of getting pregnant, and if you do a 50% chance of miscarriage. So that’s like a 3 or 4 % chance per month of having a baby. If you start RIGHT NOW.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/04/20 07:14 AM
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A) anyone 5’10” is above average, she just excluded over 60% of men in the USA (FYI 5’9” is the average according to the CDC ) B) She wants children at the age of 40. Most people like to date for a year minimum before proposing marriage typically more. Let’s say it takes 2 years. At 42 the risk of infertility and needing IVF (20% success rate) or having to adopt is high. If she is intending to have biological children this is unrealistic. C) 60% + of men voted for trump in the last election. She…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/04/20 07:02 AM
1

I want a bikini supermodel astrophysicist billionaire. (I can be unreasonable too)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/04/20 06:37 AM
20

I’m a MD (guy) but because I’m only 5’8” the RNs and the other MDs don’t want anything to do with me
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/04/20 05:39 AM
2

I’m guessing they all are 5 years and 30 lbs old.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/04/20 05:30 AM
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There are a few liberal billionaires (gates, Bloomberg) but on the whole, unless you are a professor (chairman) at a college, most people that have a lot of $$$ tend to lean conservative.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/04/20 03:32 AM
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Or he does not exist.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/04/20 02:24 AM
1

Sorry, I forgot to blur her educational background and didn’t realize her location was also in the text... thanks for catching that. I’ll do better next time.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/04/20 01:56 AM
0

Nope.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/04/20 07:32 AM
1

Dude, nice straw man argument. I bow to your superior intellect
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/04/20 12:54 AM
0

There is an option on match to identify yourself as a widow. She’s divorced, not widowed. Sorry I didn’t screen shot that, thought I had included it. Your original comment was deleted because you are violating the rules of the reddit. I can’t read it any longer to refer to it. The only info I had that you didn’t was how long the profile was active. Otherwise we have is 99% the same. You can infer anything you want. I’ll draw my own conclusions from my own experience and observations. I get it...…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/04/20 11:42 PM
0

If she’s so awesome, why is she still single?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/04/20 10:43 PM
2

I’m not trying to be aggressive or argumentative. As the OP let me try to shed some light on why I think she is not a great “catch” and why there are some serious red flags. First off, I’m 42, so she may look a heck of a lot better than the 47 year olds that are in your age range. For me... meh... she’s not bad looking but there are more attractive candidates. If I were to look at 35 year olds, she would pale in comparison (47 is to 40 as 42 is to 35). I have no problem with a woman having stand…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/04/20 07:35 PM
1

It’s where you put people that are dying for comfort care. They give them drugs to make keep them out of pain, not cure them.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/04/20 04:16 PM
1

“Candidate to be a widow”?!? So her husband is in hospice?!? I don’t understand...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/04/20 03:47 PM
2

Cool.. Thanks for the guidance I’m new here.. I’ll do better next time.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/04/20 01:03 AM
1

Just FYI — she’s easily 40 pounds overweight too. As a nurse and nurse practitioner she’s been around tons of good men in the health care industry over the course of her life....
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/04/20 12:33 AM
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My co-workers who are 60 and 65 (and married) don’t understand. At our age there are literally no good women. 1) The good looking ones a) are single moms or divorcees b) have ridiculously high standards due to the fact that they were REALLY good looking at 22-25 yo c) both 2) The ugly ones a) have been fat or ugly all their life and are desperate for a man to marry and pop out a kid or two. Usually morbidly obese. You’re her last least bad option. Enjoy the feeling of being picked last. b) She u…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/04/20 10:40 PM
10

Only if she were a widow, and then I doubt she’d be “I don’t want to settle” material. Most women I meet in that circumstance truly miss the man in their life and what he had been giving.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/04/20 10:18 PM
7

I keep them to remind me how awful the local prospects are
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/04/20 10:17 PM
16

I just don’t want to hog the Reddit
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/04/20 10:16 PM
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I could post at least 1 of these a day.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/04/20 07:43 PM
2

I’m confused — she’s a cat lady that does not like cats?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/04/20 06:54 PM
5

This is why you have young men obsessed with “gym tan laundry” rather than building a business or a career. The payoff (sex with young hot women) is higher to them than the monetary payoff of working hard.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/04/20 06:30 PM
16

I got so tired of waiting for a quality woman, I pleasured myself — male equivalent.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/04/20 06:20 AM
4

I had an old inactive match dot com profile. It listed everything about me accurately. I decided to see what would happen if I made myself 6’2” I made the profile active for 24 hours 14 unsolicited emails, 190 views, and 34 photo likes. Prior to that — I had around 1 view a month when the profile was active. Mind you, I have a graduate degree, work in health care, and own 2 houses, an airplane and a hobby farm at 42 years old. My theory is that the women use height as a filter, don’t even look a…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/04/20 03:03 PM
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I always wondered if y’all taller men picked up on the attitude and entitlement of these women. I’m never rude to heavy or ugly girls (most of them are really nice people) because I know that it inherently makes me a jackass. Even if I’m not physically attracted to them, it costs me nothing to be cordial. It seems like a lot of these women get a kick out of being abjectly cruel to the men they aren’t attracted to.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/04/20 01:35 PM
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Standards for me but not for thee.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/04/20 01:28 PM
6

A woman can wear heels if her man is 5’ tall or if he is 7’ tall. My height doesn’t change her shoe size.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/04/20 10:24 PM
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