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you just summed up perfectly how I feel right now 🥲 it’s really hard
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/22 03:07 PM
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Especially her twin brothers? I’m sure they’re very hurt and confused after finding out who their biological father is but how can they turn on their sister, she was also betrayed??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 03:02 PM
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I honestly think this is why so many men are really enthusiastic about making all public bathrooms and changing rooms unisex. They pretend they care about “trans rights” but really they want to eliminate the only public safe spaces we have.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 12:25 PM
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You’re welcome MissGalaxy, I’m really proud of you ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 06:50 AM
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I really wish I had! I have a friend who used to be the biggest of pickmes and bragged about how much porn she watched from the time we were about 13. She would literally just turn it on at times and have me and our other friends watch it when we visited like it was a show. When we were 15 me and another friend dismissed anal as gross and she jumped to defend it saying that we just weren’t mature enough to understand and “don’t knock it til you try it!” and that anal was how she planned to lose …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 05:46 AM
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Aww that makes me so happy! I’m glad you really took the time to think about it and changed your mind, I know how hard that can be. You deserve all the respect and love in the world ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 02:46 AM
4

thank you 💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 02:32 PM
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Oh my god the other day this guy asked how old I was and I told him I’m 30 and he said, “I can’t believe that, I thought you were 21! I was so sure you were too young for me!” Sir, you’re 50, I’m still too young for you 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 05:46 PM
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Yeah this makes me really sad. Like it’s a novelty to her to be able to buy herself a meal. I’m angry at all these assholes who presented OF to her as a good option.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 05:37 PM
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I teared up reading this because I relate so hard. My name literally means “worthy of love” and it’s always seemed like a cruel joke because of how unlovable I’ve always felt.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 05:07 PM
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Also sorry if I came across as mean or condescending originally, I just get upset when I hear about smart, kind women talking about how they get off on a man disrespecting them. I really was coming from a place of thinking you deserve better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 03:23 AM
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Your comment didn’t offend me but I understand what you mean about avoiding Reddit when you “disagree” with someone and are afraid of what they’ll say haha, I’ve done the same thing. I would be really, really hesitant in asking men to “dominate” you, especially if you’re using slurs or the word “slave”. Most people use slave to actually mean “I’ll do anything you want and you can do whatever you want to me because I’m your property”. I think it’s more important to ask yourself why you get off on…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 03:18 AM
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Actually a ton of people right now are going after Sam and Aaron Taylor-Johnson who got together when he was 18 and she was 42. He’s 30 now and they’ve been married for about 10 years and have two kids. They’re saying she groomed him because they first met when he was 17. I’m not defending her because the age gap is weird but I’ve seen the same people defend Leonardo DiCaprio, who exclusively dates young women and makes a point to dump them before they turn 25. Oh and he met his current girlfrie…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 02:44 AM
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Anal anything is a no, but a dude asking to use a sex toy when you hardly know him is just :/ like sir I’m sure you didn’t buy that just to use with me, so it’s either been in your ass or some random girl’s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 08:06 AM
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Exactly, it makes me wonder how they were able to get in character and it freaks me out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 04:56 AM
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I never got around to watching that movie because I heard those scenes were so brutal and prevalent. (Also I think that Sam Claflin is the villain in that movie and I don’t think I could watch him play Finnick Odair after that.) And it sucks because I really like horror movies but they’re the worst at playing up the sexual assault of women for entertainment. And yeah that director was irresponsible at best, you don’t need to show us repeatedly in great detail for us to understand what happened. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 03:25 AM
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Was Fleabag actually good? I watched the first like 60 seconds of it and was too grossed out to go on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 03:15 AM
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I would love that! A book list would be good too! Abusive relationships have been normalized to the point that I’ve been recommended things only to be blindsided once I got into them and left wondering how anyone likes them. It ends up being a huge waste of time and really bad for my mental state.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 10:03 PM
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I really wish being a virgin into adulthood was more normalized. (And I mean “actual” adulthood, not like 18.) There’s no benefit in doing it before you’re ready and I don’t think most teenagers are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 08:42 PM
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Women having no female friends during their pregnancy makes me really sad :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 01:38 AM
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I was just agreeing with her that I struggle with liking those aspects of makeup. I’m not defending the industry or disagreeing with your points. I’m a radfem, I’ve never thought that anything a woman does is feminist just because she likes doing it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 07:08 PM
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I definitely think you can be creative and express yourself through makeup, but the issue I always have is that everyone seems to make themselves look the same. Like using makeup to “correct” certain things, making certain features bigger/smaller depending on what society thinks is trendy, etc. instead of “wow this bright green eyeliner is so cool and matches my dress”. I agree it’s a fine line and I struggle with it too, because makeup can be fun.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 02:53 PM
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It’s really disappointing how many of his famous friends have defended his behavior (basically the entire cast of Parks & Rec) just because “he’s not as bad as Harvey Weinstein”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 01:50 PM
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Oh I just meant that you and a dude getting off on the idea of him “making you his bitch” is misogynistic and couldn’t be part of a high value relationship. I assume you’ve leveled up with FDS and don’t talk about yourself like that anymore, even in a sexual context and know that any man who likes you talking about yourself like that is bad news. I definitely wasn’t implying that he should get to do whatever he wants to you because you said that!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 12:46 PM
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Glad he’s an ex, any dude who acts with enthusiasm when you introduce any sort of misogyny into your sex life is bad news.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 07:38 PM
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It’s Ninja but I think he said he made the $5 million off doing some promotion with Fortnite.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 11:10 PM
19

I can’t imagine how bad the books must truly be because the show is really something. Even the main love interest is an abuser and it’s excused (even on FDS!) because he’s hot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 09:20 PM
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I thought that was also in the show? I had to stop watching after he beat her but I heard not long after that that they included that scene as well?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 09:15 PM
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It’s sadly popular in shows meant for women written by women too - look at Outlander.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 08:45 PM
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He beats her so don’t feel too sad 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 08:30 PM
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The saddest thing is that the dude who tweeted this was just in the news for making 5 million dollars in one month off the games he plays. Top in his “field” and here he is, 30 years old and bragging about how his hot wife is basically a servant.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 08:00 PM
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Those are such thoughtful gifts!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 05:57 AM
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And Leo was friends with his current girlfriend’s family and has known her since she was 12 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 12:01 AM
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Thank you. That’s really sad and disturbing :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 05:18 PM
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Do you know where/when he said that? I don’t know much about Bobby but he’s friends with Ethan from H3 and I’ve always gotten such a weird vibe every time he’s mentioned.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 04:07 PM
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Aww flowers are great, what a jerk 😢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 03:01 PM
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Like when she went after Quvenzhané Wallis and Courtney Stodden, tweeting about how much she hated them (and even said she wanted Courtney to die) when they were literal children. And then had the audacity to quit Twitter because people were “so mean“ to her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 02:47 PM
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Me either. These are romantic fantasies written by women, why would you include scenes of abuse?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 11:00 PM
6

Wow that sounds like the love interest in Outlander 🙄 Beats his wife but women still hype him up and love him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 10:35 PM
5

That’s like the comments on the Ben Affleck tiktok. A ton of younger women were saying that they’d go for it and it’s like have you seen those beach pictures? He’s a cheater and the ugly back tattoo is the least of his problems.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 10:26 PM
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The love interest did that??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 08:11 PM
11

Pretty sure he was 20 when he was dating Mandy Moore, who was 15
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 07:16 PM
2

I’m so sorry :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 11:43 PM
11

It’s nice hearing stories about HVM. All the stories about LVM have been making my depression worse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 11:30 PM
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It was on my home feed so I’m wondering if they assume you’re a young woman based on the subs you participate in and show it to us since we’re the ones most likely to sign up? I have no clue if ads on here are targeted or not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 05:08 PM
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Ugh I got an OnlyFans ad on here earlier and it was a girlfriend telling her boyfriend she had an OF and of course he was all for it and the ad was about how empowering it was and how much money you’d make. I reported it for misinformation lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 10:45 AM
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Evidence? Was he arrested for revenge porn or child porn? 😟
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 06:03 AM
5

I had to stop watching Outlander after they got married because Jamie beat her with a belt as “punishment” right after and admitted he was getting off on her pain as she screamed for help. And I also heard that he’s very sexually aggressive to the point of it being borderline rape in an episode soon after that? I literally had a panic attack after watching it because it was like okay Jamie seems nice enough and then it was like a switch was flipped and he became a monster. And then the show acte…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 06:08 AM
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I thought the same thing when it came out that they were having a hard time identifying all the victims.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 04:51 AM
2

Thanks for your answer! Good luck on Wednesday :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 02:44 PM
4

I would like to see a thread. I’ve always been curious because I’m 30 and I don’t think I’ll be having kids until I’m 35 at the youngest. Can I ask how old you are and if you have any idea of how old you’ll be when you use the eggs?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 01:19 PM
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Right? My best friend said the same thing when I was telling her about it earlier.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 06:17 AM
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God speaking of demeaning, I just saw a tiktok where a boyfriend bought his girlfriend’s parents custom made cups that said “MY DAUGHTER DOES ANAL” and she was trying to see what they said (clearly not in on the joke, not that it’s even funny) and the dad was like “haha I’m taking this to work :)”. Everyone in the comments was saying how cool the boyfriend and dad were and so even though the girlfriend was clearly embarrassed when she saw the cups she was liking all the comments validating her r…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 12:11 AM
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God this was like a whole TikTok comment section I saw yesterday talking about the movie Megan is Missing. It’s about a teenage girl who’s kidnapped, tortured, raped and buried alive while her parents look for her. It’s gruesome and I won’t go into further detail, my friend told me about it years ago and it upset me for days just hearing about it, it’s truly worse than it even sounds. And all the comments were making jokes and saying “lol just watch it, it’s not even that bad”. Meanwhile just se…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 08:30 AM
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I liked this one but in another video she shits on women who don’t wear makeup saying they only don’t wear it because they don’t know how :/ and implies that they look bad, the comments were awful
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 12:28 PM
15

Oh okay, yeah it’s trash a lot of the time. I wasn’t sure if you meant that like someone was being mean to you on FDS and was like :( haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 02:37 PM
2

I think she was also an easier target because she has an interest in BDSM and that’s usually the sign of a woman with self-destructive tendencies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 02:15 PM
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Only 2 years in jail?! And what about the guy who donated $1000 to see him abuse her, what is he going to be charged with? Outrageous!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 02:10 PM
5

Didn’t that girl later change her POV after she got a lot of hate and admit that the men in the porn saw that she had a self-harm scar that said “FAT” on her body and started mocking her weight? I might be thinking of someone else.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 01:06 PM
11

unpopularopinon or FDS? :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 01:00 PM
13

All those commenters saying that she needs to relax because it’s not a big deal are going to be the same ones calling her stupid for staying if he ever hurts her because “there were signs and she ignored them”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 12:54 PM
54

Billie is a good alternative and they’re much cuter!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 08:05 AM
13

It’s still fairly difficult not to run into questionable stuff in modern books. Like even A Court of Thorns and Roses and The Cruel Prince are highly praised and contain a lot of non-consensual stuff and sexual violence. And those are teen romances put out by children’s publishers!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 07:17 AM
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I remember watching the show because it was highly recommend and like 5 episodes in ~sweet innocent virgin~ Jamie tells his wife he’s going to get off on hurting her and then proceeds to beat her with a belt while she screams for help and then all the men they’re traveling with laugh at her when she can’t sit down the next day. That was so triggering for me that I had a panic attack, fuck Outlander.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 07:12 AM
9

I don’t hope it works out for her, honestly. Imagine having a high-level corporate job and telling your coworkers that your boyfriend doesn’t even have a GED or take a bath without you forcing him to :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 01:10 PM
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It worries me when any woman is that against something and goes against her preferences solely for the benefit of her partner :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 09:11 AM
2

He’s a bit skinny for me, but I’d say yes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 07:49 AM
2

I’m INFP and pretty in the middle of dom/sub (probably leaning more toward dom) but I really like dudes who are very masculine in looks but more “feminine” in personality. Like Peeta from the Hunger Games, haha (in the books anyway)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 07:41 AM
1

I vote Trick Mirror.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 01:44 AM
22

The shit he was spewing would be embarrassing enough coming from an 18-year-old, but he’s 30!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 10:27 PM
2

I’m so sorry about your baby :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 07:44 AM
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Funny in a sad way that she needed that male validation because she’s getting no attention from her porn-sick boyfriend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/20 11:55 PM
3

Your local library might have them! There’s even an app called Libby where you can download ebooks and audiobooks for free with your library card.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 11:58 AM
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But it’s the rare, rare minority and the risks just aren’t worth it is the point that everyone here is trying to make.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 12:31 AM
5

I feel the exact same way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 12:29 AM
5

Don’t forget that when he cheated on his first wife with Lauren, he choked out his wife for having the audacity to get upset and was arrested for domestic violence and Lauren still ended up with him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 04:13 PM
2

Have you guys ever tried reading erotica? It’s not all hokey stereotypical romance novel stuff. (Even though romance novels are better than you’d think.) Places like Literotica and Archive Of Our Own are good sources (just mind the tags because some of it can get a bit weird, lol).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/20 09:44 PM
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