butterballnook Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
679	Never again, thank FDS	FDS MEMES	butterballnook	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/02/21 06:14 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
14	Seriously though, this is such a sad truth That's disgusting, idiotic, and so disrespectful. I often hear those kind of comments and from dark skin guys too! Like you're dark but think you have a pass because you're a man but people outside the community don't distinguish on skin tones like they carry around a palette reference lol! You know that phrase that when you point a finger at someone there are three pointing back? This fits well to men of color (and white men too but let's keep the topic small here). They internalize racism, c…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/02/22 02:03 PM
9	Something icky to laugh about tonight. We were talking about planting grass for our cats and ofc he had to make it gross and awkward. My intuition was telling me from the start he was weird, but societal gaslighting told me to give him a chance merely bc he was giving me attention 🤷‍♀️. Blocked. This reeks of desperation from his end	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/02/22 01:18 PM
3	How many of you ladies have found HVM since following FDS? God forbid that you a talented, intelligent, creative powerhouse outshine a man who pours colored drinks together :(	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/02/22 12:07 PM
6	That's NOT a date. Stop romanticising no effort! Tired of seeing awkward couples looking uncomfortable at thrifts and parks Great username.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/02/22 04:13 AM
78	“Hemotional Damage,” aka Why Block and Delete is the Best Response Something about it is so satisfying. It’s the mental equivalent of skipping into a scrote’s houseshitty studio apartment punching him then strolling out, consequence free.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/02/22 07:12 PM
15	I've had to tell myself this after cutting a few toxic people out of my life, especially with long-term friends who have felt the need to pat me on the back and tell me that I've "come so far" every single time we speak. It comes off very patronizing and forced. DAE understand what I mean? This is so true. I have some people in my life that are trying to sabotage my progress 🥴	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/02/22 05:43 PM
1	A very discouraging thread on Reddit about a woman's BF wanting her to starting wearing more slutty clothes because... You’re resilient! I’m glad you’re not with that useless waste of space 🤡	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/02/22 06:57 AM
5	Story about my friend which ultimately led me here That’s hilarious and definitely queen energy. What was he yelling about?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/02/22 06:23 AM
55	I wonder why he wants to date someone 10 years younger than him… I don’t know why adding “with the sound on” sounds more insulting. Then again these scribes wouldn’t consider being accused of watching porn insulting 🥴	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/02/22 12:17 PM
22	Nick Cannon shares he's expecting his 8th child, with model Bre Tiesi — weeks after the death of his 5-month-old son. Nick Cannon is a sick pos and all the women are serious pickmes! Wow thanks for the clarification. Everyday I respect men less and less.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/02/22 01:36 AM
12	Nick Cannon shares he's expecting his 8th child, with model Bre Tiesi — weeks after the death of his 5-month-old son. Nick Cannon is a sick pos and all the women are serious pickmes! Go to phone jail 💀💀💀	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/02/22 01:35 AM
19	Nick Cannon shares he's expecting his 8th child, with model Bre Tiesi — weeks after the death of his 5-month-old son. Nick Cannon is a sick pos and all the women are serious pickmes! But he’s ugly…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/02/22 01:35 AM
3	Groom smashes bride’s face into cake & she rightfully is leaving him Silly women, men aren’t mind readers. Oh you spoke to him about it? If your standards weren’t so ridiculously high then you would be happy!/s It’s always somehow woman’s fault.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/02/22 01:24 AM
7	He forgets about her bday and ignores her, but he (finally) surprises her! Is this a new rock bottom? 8 years and he typically forgets her birthday. I am deceased. I have been reborn only to die again.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/02/22 01:08 AM
1	One thing these scrotes gonna do is drop their masks. Their real intentions show when they feel they have trapped their wives. Girl run! That sounds extremely difficult. I hope you’re in a safe place now.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/02/22 12:32 AM
8	How to be more assertive the FDS way? I love audible. Here are my recommendations. Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents The Body Keeps the Score Six Pillars of Self Esteem 48 Laws of Power Daring Greatly or really anything by Beene Brown	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/02/22 12:05 AM
6	How to be more assertive the FDS way? Agree with others saying assertiveness does not mean confrontational. I would begin by working from the inside out. How did your childhood and experiences shape you into who you are now? As for a self help book by a woman check out Nice Girls Still Don’t Get The Corner Office. This book focuses on being an adult woman rather than falling back on girl socialisation. Also has breakdowns of mistakes and suggests solutions. I’m into self help and psychology books so if you’d like more recommendation…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/02/22 09:22 PM
249	This guy telling women we don’t know how beautiful we are and then blesses us with shirtless “clarity”. The bar is in HELL. 🙄 Investing in a bra would be a good start 😳	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/02/22 09:14 PM
9	Rihanna & Her Pregnancy Announcement 💀 disturbia 💀 I cackled out loud	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/02/22 09:06 PM
14	This makes me so angry - a male primary care doctor(!) refuses to prescribe contraception because apparently basic women's health is "just not something I want to practice" Same! I inherently distrust men in these fields because of all the reports of SA.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/02/22 08:55 PM
10	Reasons I changed my mind on having children and all the aspects of motherhood society does not want to acknowledge: I’d be careful about freezing eggs. The success rates aren’t clear. Remember the fertility industry is an industry. https://theconversation.com/amp/egg-freezing-the-reality-of-putting-your-fertility-on-ice-101223	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/02/22 08:46 PM
38	Nick Cannon shares he's expecting his 8th child, with model Bre Tiesi — weeks after the death of his 5-month-old son. Nick Cannon is a sick pos and all the women are serious pickmes! What do these women get out of it? I am confusion.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/02/22 08:37 PM
93	Nick Cannon shares he's expecting his 8th child, with model Bre Tiesi — weeks after the death of his 5-month-old son. Nick Cannon is a sick pos and all the women are serious pickmes! Why do men go to therapy when they aren’t interested in bettering themselves?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/02/22 08:36 PM
7	Ladies who have dated Desi or Muslim, how did the misogyny affect how you were treated in the relationship? All men are trash in their own unique way ✨	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/01/22 11:59 PM
6	Ladies who have dated Desi or Muslim, how did the misogyny affect how you were treated in the relationship? A wiiiiig?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/01/22 11:56 PM
71	A Curated Selection from OLD Why do they talk about polygamy like they’re selling cage free eggs 🤔	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/01/22 10:33 PM
3	I believe the push for men to go to therapy will end up with the same results as the libfem idea that “feminism is for men too” therapy will not destroy the patriarchy Narcissists go to therapy to learn how to manipulate better 🤡	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/01/22 03:57 PM
5	Sharing FDS knowledge with young women and girls is crucial! I can’t stop giggling over the use of “woowoo”	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/11/21 08:55 AM
65	I just had to unfriend someone on fb for sharing this. Scrotes will admit they’re only with women to use them and women will be in the comments like “🥰❤️😘” it’s so gross🙄🤢 I guess we should start telling men that unless they’re here to build us up they’re “dead weight” 🤷🏾‍♀️ I wouldn't even help him up if he feel over. Just pick yourself up by the bootstraps, sweaty 🥰	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/08/21 01:54 PM
1	Need to start doing this Measuring by knuckles? What. Please explain, I didn't even know about measuring with the palm lol	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/05/21 12:35 AM
1	Men were not socialized the same way you were. Keep that in mind when you listen to them talk about women. A lot of this applies to men in real life. I have to remind myself that the appearance is not real.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/05/21 09:14 AM
5	People 👏🏻 don’t 👏🏻 want 👏🏻 women 👏🏻 to 👏🏻 enjoy 👏🏻 PERIODT I bet you smile brighter than the sun. Anyone would be blessed to see your smile. Stay true to you.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/05/21 08:41 AM
24	Need to start doing this It's for measuring the correct length of paper to put in a printer. Measuring penises? Not in my Christian female dating subreddit 👺	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/05/21 08:23 AM
29	The effort a scrote puts in before and after He looks like a guitar fish viewed from underneath 😳	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/05/21 07:41 PM
37	The “personalities” of the contestants on next season of The Bachelorette... I think I would just go home early. It's the male equivalent of Michaela, Mikayla, Mikaela	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/05/21 01:44 PM
68	The “personalities” of the contestants on next season of The Bachelorette... I think I would just go home early. And his favorite holiday is Halloween. Stop Aaron! You can only get so quirky!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/05/21 01:42 PM
8	On today's episode of "scrotal recall" I look in the mirror and see a confident boss. He can't see anything with his filthy mirror. Its clownery your honor!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/05/21 02:39 AM
64	I'm not the babysitter, I'm not the parent. Let's share the stories where you were expected to be either of those in a relationship with a grown man. I was friends with a guy who thought I was so supportive when in reality he would talk at me. I could never get a word in let alone say mhmm or uh huh. Almost all our conversations were centered around his victimhood. His mother was abusive (she was sick of dealing with his shit), he fought with his siblings (also sick of his shit), and never admitted he was wrong even with the smallest mistake. In our last conversation he was complaining the world was unfair because the places he wanted to work…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/05/21 02:37 AM
82	Love seeing women waking up And younger girls too, thank God! I hope we can continue working towards Women's liberation, even when I feel like we can't break free :(	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/05/21 02:30 AM
3	What are some physical/“sex-life” related red flags you’ve developed after encountering FDS? Why/how did he know that his sister watched porn with her husband. That's suspicious.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/05/21 10:49 PM
115	I said what I said. Where did you find this photo of me???	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/04/21 02:22 AM
61	5 bucks says he’s never made a woman orgasm Ain't nobody want his life energy 🤣	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/04/21 01:47 PM
8	For those of you torn about prioritizing beauty and avoiding the male gaze, I wanted to share my solution Isn't the female gaze also influenced by the male gaze?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/04/21 07:34 PM
18	There seems to be an influx on men on tiktok spreading messages that you must have sex before marriage etc for “compatibility”. As someone who doesn’t want to, this just reeks of a LVM tactic to coerce women into sex I am cackling. This smug loser with man boobs is really trying to shame a young couple for waiting until marriage. Nothing will change the fact that he is a smug loser and is probably convinced of his sexual prowess. Newsflash, no one wants your broken dick.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/04/21 07:11 PM
84	He says he is all for “enthusiastic consent” but his whole post is putting women down for not wanting to have sex and being upset when their partners turn to porn. It's very possessive. Like I own you, you are mine, why are you not giving me what is owed to me by mere fact that we are in a relationship. In this case the gf is just a walking fleshlight to this 🤡	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/04/21 10:03 AM
13	A post titled “It feels like he doesn’t care about me anymore” by the lady who was fed slugs. It started so small and “innocent” to evolve into her bf feeding her slugs less than a year later. Red flags evolve into life danger sometimes. This comment is uncomfortably close to so many relationships in my life. I need a moment.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/04/21 02:20 PM
1	Bye b*tch Thanks for the explanation, you're so right. I don't think its an ego boost to be stalked, and I don't remember what I was trying to refer to so that's my bad.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/04/21 10:46 PM
85	I really enjoy watching antifeminists have a meltdown every time we discuss penis size. Just take your L and leave us alone! 😂 Ladies, please enjoy this curated collection of male tears, from the left-wing manosphere 🎁 They want women to shield them from reality. To shield them from the toxic culture that ridicules them for not meeting the standards they impose on each other and encourage by their consumption of pornography. Women don't owe these losers niceness. These ill intentioned critics love to set up some boogeyman FDS/feminism then tear it down. Just goes to show how low their self esteem is that we get under their skin. As for the pickmes. Chile, I can only look away and mind my business.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/04/21 10:25 AM
2	Bye b*tch Also, the ego boost doesn't hurt 🤭	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/04/21 06:49 AM
14	Sorry but no, withholding sex isn’t a real thing because nobody’s entitled to your body under any circumstances. In her BIO she calls herself a psychologist. 🤡 I can't help cracking up when I see your comments. I mean the content is great and all but the user name and the pic kills me.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/04/21 11:24 PM
4	Bye b*tch I hope he doesn't have any other info. Given that he gave you his phone number, it looks like he wants you to meet up with him to give it 🤡 Opsec is vital, so do your best to scrub info about you from the internet. This kind of behavior is why I don't believe scooter when they say they're not upset or effected.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/04/21 11:11 PM
26	The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 5 - Vice Media Comes For The Queens I could listen to you guys for hours! Kinda sad I have to wait for another episode.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/04/21 08:20 PM
7	"I look like a goblin but I want a thin princess" smh 😂😂😂 If he were really honest, he wouldn't have described himself as "sexy".	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/04/21 01:20 PM
8	Sharing trauma, HVness, and exploitation of vulnerabilities I feel the same way. But it's so important to guard your heart and be your best friend. Always act in your best interest, that means recognising your weaknesses and being objective with yourself. It's so tough but lately I've been trying to teach myself this too! Funnily enough, it worked almost instantly. Where people in my life had previously been withdrawn suddenly wanted my attention when it was the other way around.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/03/21 06:20 AM
13	Why You Should Trust Your Gut (Short Story + Example) It always struck me how they're so willing to forgive men's behaviour and put blame on women. Sometimes they did share some good advice but it was packaged horribly: where they'd make fun of the women and essentially clown on them. They did teach me how to avoid men like them. Men that pretend to be reasonable but can't contain their hatred for women.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/03/21 01:21 AM
12	He was my best friend for over a decade until I realized four years ago that he had been sexual abusing and manipulating me for years. He texted me this out of the blue from a new number after blocking him on everything. Thank you to FDS for giving me the strength and courage to not respond. Babe, I'm so sorry you went through that grooming x	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/03/21 11:42 PM
3	How men insult women by how they define them. UPDATED These are some great points, that illuminate a lot for me personally. Also your user name is hilarious.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/03/21 04:26 PM
26	24 hours since joining POF. My advice? Just don’t do OLD. I didn’t include the three sick fucks who asked me to be their sugar baby (prostitute). I feel uncomfortable on your behalf.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/03/21 04:17 AM
1	I think this applies to FDS too. I've never seen the argument against cancel culture put in such an easy to follow/compelling way. Thanks for giving me another viewpoint to consider.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/03/21 11:46 PM
2	🔥🔥The Female Dating Strategy podcast teaser is now live on Spotify! Check it out! 🔥🔥 I'm so hyped! When is the episode coming out? I need it now.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/03/21 03:19 PM
10	Had a comment removed from a different sub because telling someone to wait longer than 2 dates to have sex is apparently “dehumanizing” to men? Telling the truth about men is offensive in the mainstream.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/03/21 03:00 AM
51	We all need a bestie like this!! "Aye, boy can you pump her gas? Pump her gas its her birthday. Thank you baby, she ain't gotta be scared to ask because I asked. Thank you! (The girl with red pants reaches for the pump) Thank- LET HIM PUMP THE FUCKING GAS! Pump the gas! Thank you sir!"	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/03/21 09:59 AM
7	I don't know whether to laugh or cringe He really thinks he's slick 🤣	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/03/21 07:43 AM
101	Nothing to add, she said it all LOL It's always the girls that don't get picked that are the loudest when repeating LVM philosophy.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/03/21 07:38 AM
389	Men CAN Level Up. They Don’t WANT To. On one hand I like the message about getting a glow up. On the other, I think the beauty culture is tiring and can be so toxic. For women I mean. For men, the bar is below ground.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/03/21 09:06 AM
2	Why are “Sexperts” always claiming women that DON’T have sex on the first date 1) have internalized misogyny 2) are sexually repressed or 3) are worried about being “girlfriend material”? How ‘bout it’s because we JUST DON’T FUCKING KNOW HIM AT ALL 🤯 This is so well said!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/03/21 12:00 AM
81	Found in another sub; shining example of the audacity of men and the ties between fundamentalist religion and the patriarchy. Beat his ass sis 🤣 This is why I'm no longer a religious person. I thought God would bring me and my future husband together. But that requires I give up my rights, my personality, and my personhood.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/03/21 09:54 AM
6	He’ll probably propose by summer. Men bend over backwards for women who treat them this way. I always remember that when some man implies I’m single because I’m not easy enough. Bon appétit, sis! This whole post puts me off. If he is now rethinking the relationship then why does he need to ask others if he should be upset? Sounds like he made up his mind and needs outside confirmation.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/02/21 10:53 AM
11	Ah yes, my mission in life. I sit that way because it's the closest to laying down, I'm not trying to seduce a scote I'm just tired 🤣	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/02/21 04:09 PM
24	You can feel as fake-empowered about hookups as you want. It doesn't change the fact that this is how men think. Things like this is why I don't think our sex culture (at least in the west) is empowering. Not to mention some women are like UberSex for men. I've seen tiktoks about women leaving a man's house and how awkward it is for them to drive home. Seriously. Why would you deliver yourself on a platter to some loser who cannot spell clitoris?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/02/21 12:55 PM
51	What in the pickmeisha hell is this clownery? The only thing I’m growing are my plants 🌱🪴 This reminds me so much of the 'ride or die' and struggle relationships. Outside of personal experience, there's so many examples of celebrities who had a woman behind them, supporting them for years, only for them to turn around and get a younger woman (sometimes not even prettier). Shows why we need to be careful who we get into a relationship with but also all that could go wrong with those "gRoW tOgEtHeR" relationships. The balance is always significantly against women.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/01/21 09:26 PM