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1	AI is now banned and also join our discord come argue with incels, misogynists and misandrists Their posts will be indistinguishable from wholly-AI generated posts. Because of that, those translated ones should be banned too. If you allow those, everyone generating entire shitposts with AI alone will just say "I just used it for translation!" We can go back to the olden days of 4 years ago where people with broken english typed in broken english and people with working brains could easily figure out what they're trying to say.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/26 09:22 PM
-3	The mockery of "unselected" men is a proxy victory. Women celebrate their loneliness because they are powerless against the elite men who actually exploit them. The target at low hanging fruit to make themselves feel better. I've seen the same thing as you and agree with you. I see it as the corollary of men who love to deride single moms on here, even though they'd never date one in a million years. Why so much animus for a group of people you would never date and probably shouldn't even think about? Because they're easy targets who can stand in for the people from the larger group they belong to	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/26 01:36 AM
1	If you're a regular, average guy, you don't need to relate on dating apps Unless you are a top-tier guy who hit the genetic lottery, makes great money, and has his entire life perfectly sorted out Oh please. Literally the exact opposite of my experience. I'm not matching with legions of models, but this is such a hilariously nihilistic view. Maybe I should selfishly be happy that you guys are attempting to thin out the pool of men for me to compete with.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/26 10:20 PM
–	Having female friends is absolutely a positive in dating This happens from my women friends often. If it doesn’t for you: lmfao	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/06/26 06:41 PM
1	Do Women Understand How They Help Power Red Pill/Manosphere Content? who are the trad wives? Conservative women The ones pushing for gender conformity and keeping gender roles? Conservative and liberal women. Both groups push for gender conformity (for men) and keeping gender roles (for men).	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/26 05:31 PM
19	Men Care Way Too Much About Female Validation Can’t believe you have me genuinely feeling a little bad for men here of all places. This makes you sound like human garbage, not as a more reasonable person like you might imagine	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/05/26 12:28 AM
7	If you haven’t dated in the last 10-15 yrs you shouldn’t be giving dating advice Already had that user blocked, so they must have a history of saying extremely stupid things on a very regular basis. I only block someone when they comment so much i start to recognize their username as belonging to a dumbass	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/26 01:45 AM
–	Chores are survival skills not gender roles I don't really love myself, there's a lot about myself that I self critique. One thing I can be satisfied about, even though it shouldn't be one of those things, is that I know I'll more than carry my weight in domestic duties if i live with someone. When my friends would come over in my early 20s, I'd clean the apartment so we all had a nice place to hang out, even scrub the toilet. It baffles me that there are people who don't feel a little shame in having someone else clean up their messes, o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/04/26 08:03 PM
–	Ladies, If you’re not attracted to 90-95% of men, that’s not a male problem.. thats a YOU problem These websites are fun to play with but they leave out something important, correlation Being wealthy is correlated with other things (BMI, income, etc). Same goes for all sorts of demographic factors. The “how delusional are you” websites I’ve seen assume these things are randomly distributed in the population, cause factoring the correlations would mean 100x more work whereas if you ignore that, it’s simple multiplication (eu population * prevalence of requirement 1 * prevalence of requirement…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/26 02:18 PM
–	It seems if a woman ever has a hook up, she should be expected to keep having subpar sex with strangers. it had nothing to do with race. You too are assuming something about my politics that is false, given that we probably largely agree politically.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/26 08:02 PM
–	It seems if a woman ever has a hook up, she should be expected to keep having subpar sex with strangers. You shouldn't be commenting on statistics. I remember that hilarious thread you made a while back where you didn't know what per capita was.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/26 05:59 PM
–	Modern women don't want a "protector," they want a reliable safety net Guys they’re building up a spam account. Every single post on it is about having some digital safety net bullshit. Every post. A few hours ago this account was pretending to be a teenage girl	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/26 11:17 AM
2	As a woman, women's intuition is vastly overrated Great example	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/12/25 02:27 PM
1	I think many (conservative) men are hypocrites because they say stuff like "not all men are bad" but act differently when it comes to their own daughters and sisters. Yeah exactly. White people are disproportionately over represented among the violent criminal population where I live vs their share of the population. Immigrants are under represented. Reddit hates hearing that. You’re right.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/11/25 05:59 PM
6	This sub’s idea of the “average man” is way off from the general population. dude lol. Nightclubs are also not reflective of the larger dating world. You'll never get it I guess.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/25 06:55 PM
6	This sub’s idea of the “average man” is way off from the general population. Hey just so you know your brain is being pickled by the internet. And you don't seem to be able to recognize it even when it's pointed out directly to you. The rest of us can tell. I'll just re-emphasize TinyFlamingo's post I like how we're talking about average men and you bring up some video you watched on social media where a dude is weird as hell for views. This ragebait youtube video does not reflect how dating works in the real world at all. People don't go up to strangers asking for sex. …	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/25 05:02 PM
–	An hugely understated "purgatory" for men is being stuck in the "zone" between average and the top 10% lol same question. How did I end up in that hot therapist's bed, who sent me a message the next day saying I gave her two orgasms? (no tools involved, though I would not have been opposed) Why was the girl who went to school with billionaires' kids and had a PhD at 28 wanting me so badly? She BAWLED when I said we shouldn't see each other again. Right now I'm two dates in with a very hot, fit woman who sent me the "Thanks for this evening, I had fun" text after both our dates, before I could sen…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/25 11:52 PM
12	Why are men blamed for supporting for conservative values when almost half the women do the same? As the Atlantic stated years ago, “the cruelty is the point”. Yup, it sure is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/25 08:36 PM
9	Why are men blamed for supporting for conservative values when almost half the women do the same? I remember having a conversation with a conservative woman who made the comment “I can afford to fly my daughter to Canada or Europe if she ever needs an abortion”. She wanted to stop other people from getting abortions because she personally could afford a workaround. How did she reconcile these two attitudes? It reminds me of this well known article from 25 years ago.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/25 08:14 PM
1	No, women do not make it "obvious" they're into you yeah they do. From a woman I went on a second date last night, she sent the follow-up text first Thank you so much for such a beautiful evening, [my name]! I had a lot of fun :)	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/10/25 05:58 PM
5	Why do you guys insist that a woman's income and career doesn't matter, while also complaining about women "settling" for stable providers? This makes sense to me	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/25 05:16 PM
0	Men are not obliged to validate any choice a woman makes and they are free to have their own opinions and feelings too went out of their way to go read content, topics and conversations they dislike. read It should have been pretty obvious.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/25 09:22 PM
6	“Women Writing Men” — and the Progressive Blind Spot No One Wants to Admit You didn't write it	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/25 05:34 PM
2	If women don’t dress provocatively for men, what do they do it for? They're not stupid, they just don't want to acknowledge the truth. It's uncomfortable to admit it. Same for why they can't answer why the Special Olympian volleyball players don't get the same outfits the regular Olympians do. You know, those extremely skimpy outfits that everyone says improves their performance? Why are the Special Olympians deprived of these amazing outfits? Seems really unfair. Unless....it had nothing to do with performance and everything to do with looking attractive to men	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/25 07:16 PM
4	If women don’t dress provocatively for men, what do they do it for? For sure. The replies in this thread are very funny. "I like it because I like it ok!!"	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/25 07:02 PM
1	This sub's understanding of the 'average person' is flawed. That part is more mysterious to me, and it's why I said it more like "this is what my friend thinks" rather than "this is what's actually happening," cause I'm not sure. But I assume this is a combination of what my profile looks like, how the first message looks, and how the rest of the conversation goes. I'm generally not asking anyone out unless we've been messaging for a day or three, so it's usually dozens of messages back and forth by the time I do that	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/25 08:37 PM
5	The fact that most women don't want to date bisexual men is a great litmus test to show how much women actually do care about male gender roles. Contrary to popular beliefs. still managed to attract women I don't ever say this but this is the rare case where it's worth specifying cis or trans women. I find a lot of people say "women still like trans men!!!" when they mean "queer women" specifically, who are a small subset of all women	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/25 02:12 AM
1	This sub's understanding of the 'average person' is flawed. Yeah I realized there could be a good reason for asking so I deleted that part.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/25 05:26 AM
5	This sub's understanding of the 'average person' is flawed. Sure, but I know it's not because I'm hot, have a fancy job title or dripping with confidence, so it has to be something else. So once those three are eliminated, what's next most likely?	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/25 11:22 PM
6	This sub's understanding of the 'average person' is flawed. Yes, I had sex from an online date 2-3 weeks ago. No, I don't have sex with every online date i go on. No, I didn't have sex with my friend.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/25 10:57 PM
6	This sub's understanding of the 'average person' is flawed. 37, 5'10". I also used dating apps at various times since I was about 25 and also did fine then as far as getting matches and dates	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/25 10:31 PM
10	Women aren't a hivemind, but they do have an almost unconditional solidarity for each other that muddies the waters. I was just explaining what you were reading since you seemed unable to do so yourself. The rest of the internet, you will have to learn to decipher it yourself. Best of luck, I suspect you'll need it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/25 09:52 PM
8	This sub's understanding of the 'average person' is flawed. Appreciate it, high five buddy. I'm aware of how much undue hate single moms get just for having that status and don't want to perpetuate it	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/25 09:49 PM
5	This sub's understanding of the 'average person' is flawed. What? Yes, I have a friend. I don't want to date a single mom.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/25 09:28 PM
8	This sub's understanding of the 'average person' is flawed. Tooting my own horn here but... I made a friend from Hinge, she is a single mom and I didn't realize that when i sent her a comment. We text here and there and meet up for coffee or a movie every 2 months or so. She's single because her ex husband had a secret coke/crack addiction I am also very below avg in income/job title fanciness and confidence, and probably average in looks She always explains my success at getting dates from apps by the fact that I'm normal around women. That's usually th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/25 07:59 PM
12	Women aren't a hivemind, but they do have an almost unconditional solidarity for each other that muddies the waters. it is still a scientific fact that female in-group bias is substantially stronger than the male equivalent	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/25 05:16 PM
3	Women do not fall for "manipulation" as much as they want to think they do Don’t worry, some other person decided to jump in and answer a question on another person’s behalf. It’s basically the dumbest thing on Reddit. The person you asked a question you hasnt answered it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/09/25 02:26 PM
28	Women do not fall for "manipulation" as much as they want to think they do I don’t get it either. There’s no way I’d want to date a woman who would happily, voluntarily start up a relationship with an inmate. They’re not even part of my dating pool. they might as well not exist. And because of that, I don’t really take them as a representative of women as a whole, just like I wouldn’t want women taking the inmates as representative of the rest of us.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/09/25 02:24 PM
6	Men and women are referring to different things when they talk about attraction which causes all the confusion Why are you mansplaining this to a woman?	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/25 08:29 PM
2	Women judge men for promiscuity! No we can see what you’re doing, which is trying to change the topic. No need to explain, it is clear. The question was why.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/25 05:52 AM
2	Most women who say they are sapio sexual are not actually sapiosexual. The reason it is written that way is because OP didn't write it, an LLM did.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/09/25 10:48 PM
2	Female teachers are largely responsible for systematic misandry in the educational system. Teachers make great money here in Canada, make more money and complain even more than American teachers, who actually seem to have legitimate grievances especially the low pay. Plus the students in Canada are generally easier to handle too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/09/25 10:34 PM
5	Do men believe that nice guys finish last ? From your posts in this thread you sound resentful toward men. It's going to be pretty obvious in person. I didn't even go looking for your posts, I just kept seeing the same username saying similarly bitter things under most comment threads.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/25 11:56 PM
1	Women's dating profiles suck just as much as guys do, the difference is guys are just less picky about women. I think it’s just because you live in a less populated area. I saw lots of those kinds of profiles when I was there too. When you swipe in a big city, you hardly see that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/25 12:48 PM
7	Men's version of Tea app? I looked at my city’s and it’s mostly guys wearing oakleys and trucker hats from the outlying suburbs opining on whether they find the women attractive or not. Also very diverse city and the only guys posting there are white which I found surprising. Maybe 40 yo white dudes are most of the narrow overlap between Facebook users and the dating market.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	28/07/25 02:24 PM
3	Women who want men to “lead” don’t really want a leader they’re just lazy, don’t want to take any initiative, want their minds read and are actually the ones in charge It’s a common Reddit thing. Oh a LEADER is this (all positive qualities) without acknowledging the unpleasant parts while a BOSS is this other very bad thing Like some people took this meme very seriously and developed theories of leadership to go along with it https://miro.medium.com/v2/resize:fit:1100/format:webp/1*S7wS8DnRc-4uEcCbfPMocg.png	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/25 03:30 PM
2	Why do men here seem to think that the only way to approach women is by cold approaching strangers and asking them on a date on the first meeting? Why don’t they understand getting to know someone over time? that reminds me of the friends episode where phoebe tries to find a purely good deed with no personal benefit. I figure, when we help others, we benefit too, and that's ok!	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/25 08:12 AM
2	Why do men here seem to think that the only way to approach women is by cold approaching strangers and asking them on a date on the first meeting? Why don’t they understand getting to know someone over time? I’m a guy, I agree with you. Volunteering transformed my dating life, and I never even dated a fellow volunteer (except one, who miraculously suggested we get together and kiss sometimes, which was fun) Guys, go volunteer	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/25 02:55 AM
1	Question for Women: What are the barriers that stop women from just taking the initiative and asking guys out on a date that they clearly like or have a crush on? Yeah, it’s hilarious. I’ve gone out with doctors and lawyers. They all expect me to pay. The people who will be least likely to expect me to pay are the ones who immigrated to Canada within the last 10 years or so, they will borderline insist on paying	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/25 05:39 PM
-4	Society Hates Men Who Adapt to the "New Normal" Created by Feminism Stop posting your trash here.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/25 10:05 PM
15	Why do men interpret women’s disinterest as hostility? 19/20 women aren't giving you cruel rejections, get out of here	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/25 04:18 AM
4	CMV: Men pretend to not notice hints so they can continue putting in the bare minimum It was communication in the same way that a crumb is food. It’s the bare minimum to meet the definition. You know this. It would also count as communication if she left hidden messages within the walls, but only barely - just like the dead flowers.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/06/25 12:19 AM
5	Women who “expose” a man for being a terrible person after they break up aren’t good people Yeah I can't say I've seen a lot of these "my ex was a huge racist" posts or from people IRL	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/05/25 05:55 PM
–	If a woman genuinely likes a man, she'll make it easy for him. I agree. I'm talking to someone now and there is no question about her interest. She isn't afraid to say good morning, for example - she doesn't wait for me to say it. I love it and it makes me want to give her 200% effort too	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/05/25 05:36 PM
1	The Market Value metaphor breaks down because products you buy don’t choose you back. That's good, and also ties into how some people want the best item they can obtain, no matter what. Who cares if I have a perfectly good item at home? That other one produces 1.5% more output! Forget the old item that was making me perfectly happy, I want a new one!	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/25 09:53 PM
1	Nice guys actually do talk to women as people, but women then treat them as "one of the girls" once you get the "one of the girls" label it will stick and women will never introduce you to their friends. Not my experience at all. Never made a move on or flirted with my female friends/coworkers, they are still willing to set me up if they can. They won't date me themselves, but that's totally fine. I assume they see me as a nice, safe guy who won't embarrass them by misbehaving around the friend they set me up with	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/25 09:17 PM
5	Single mothers symbolize something deeply painful to a lot of men The women I know who have become single mothers have never been short of good men wanting to marry them. This is heartening	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/25 06:56 PM
–	"Just approach women, bro" is outdated, sexist and pointless. I agree, I’ve made a few friends from apps	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/25 01:29 AM
4	Benevolent sexism and rigid male gender roles are the reasons why male privilege can exist in the first place. The sheer amount of thought that goes into these debatable hair-splitting concepts just seems so excessive Don't worry, it was chatgpt. No thought was expended here.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/25 07:32 PM
1	Is it fair to criticize men for consuming porn when most women don't want them? Sure but I don't go to the Village Idiot festival for 4 hours a day, every day, and make that the bulk of my human interaction. Some people do If only women were this self-aware about their romance novel addiction Since you think this is a thing, you clearly have been hanging out at the idiot festival every day.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/25 07:20 PM
2	Women gripe that "the bar is in hell" for men, but the situation is actually reversed such a funny response. "It too is real! I saw it on tiktok!!!"	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/25 09:06 PM
10	Reasons for men to decenter relationships If one of the guys in my friend group said he did this we'd all look down on him. Such a dumb generalization	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/25 09:23 PM
1	Its not women’s problem that men have low standards out of desperation. Yup, we've all got them, me included. It's good to be aware like you are	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/25 03:22 AM
-2	Why Don’t Women Defend Men Like Men Defend Women? You said it better than I did	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/25 03:18 AM
-2	Why Don’t Women Defend Men Like Men Defend Women? Yeah man, I agree with that statement. If you can, try to take a step back here. Read this post like a random outsider, and see if you agree with it or not	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/25 03:18 AM
16	Why Don’t Women Defend Men Like Men Defend Women? Why do you think there are so many women’s shelters? Could it be because they’re disproportionately at risk of sexual assault when they’re homeless?	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/03/25 11:15 PM
4	Its not women’s problem that men have low standards out of desperation. There’s a field of study about this, sociology. What we think are individual preferences are much more societally influenced than we realize	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/03/25 09:48 PM
4	Be Realistic: Don’t Resent 'Boyfriend Material' Treatment; Reciprocate the Lack of Love I used to be a good man Hahaha good one	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/02/25 02:57 AM
4	Gen Z males are not dating as much, but what about gen Z women? citations Cute! They're all substack links and the first one I clicked on was obviously AI-generated. Raise your standards.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/25 04:37 AM
5	Married men live longer, and so do married women (Although the benefit is larger for men than women). However, the argument that marriage benefits men more than women falls flat, when healthier and wealthier men are simply more likely to be married. Yeah, the other one that falls apart is: Men leave their wives when they get ill, but women don't If women make less money than men, they are more likely to feel financially obligated to stay with a man who is ill If men make more money than women, they are less likely to feel financially obligated to stay with a woman who is ill	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/25 04:09 AM
6	The "Friend-zone" is often deliberate manipulation. It’s like they live on mad max planet	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/01/25 06:42 AM
1	As a woman, I really don't get the logic behind "I got used for sex" If you look at the stats that we're presented to you I looked. We recruited 820 women (Mage ¼ 34.64 years, SD¼ 10.93) using Amazon’s Mechanical Turk and paid them US$0.26 as remuneration. This is your sample. l.m.f.a.o.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/25 08:26 PM
0	As a woman, I really don't get the logic behind "I got used for sex" https://www.researchgate.net/publication/333920013_Foodie_Calls_When_Women_Date_Men_for_a_Free_Meal_Rather_Than_a_Relationship We recruited 820 women (Mage ¼ 34.64 years, SD¼ 10.93) using Amazon’s Mechanical Turk and paid them US$0.26 as remuneration. You think these people are going to be representative of the general population in terms of their propensity for a foodie call?	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/25 08:24 PM
11	As a woman, I really don't get the logic behind "I got used for sex" Thanks haha It's possible, but it's mostly very unlikely that women (or anyone) would spend 2+ hours with someone they're not interested in for dinner or drinks. It happens, but rarely. And this bit of bad faith interaction happens a lot I thought, no, you're repeating yourself. People will get what you mean with only one sentence	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/25 05:46 AM
22	As a woman, I really don't get the logic behind "I got used for sex" Problem is, then how do you know that women just didn't click with you after going out on a several dates or she was just there for the free dinners and free rides? I'm not who you asked, but I think that if a woman goes out 3x with a man, he pays, and she decides he's not for him, she probably didn't use him. It's possible, but it's mostly very unlikely that women (or anyone) would spend 2+ hours with someone they're not interested in for dinner or drinks. It happens, but rarely. Most people (l…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/25 04:46 AM
2	What are your thoughts on why men aren’t attending singles events? Have you ever read the Reddit post to that effect? Or maybe you wrote it? That one was illuminating for me	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/24 12:23 AM
11	What are your thoughts on why men aren’t attending singles events? Just a guess: inverts the typical dynamic of men coming to women we see in society and apparently traditional speed dating events	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/24 12:22 AM
7	Why is it fair for married men to go 50/50 on chores when their wives are SAHMs and the kids are in school? I agree completely. It neatly wraps up time taken at work, commuting, groceries, cooking, cleaning, etc into one number, and it just feels fair in my head It even accounts for the frequent problem couples seem to have of "we live 1 hour from my work and 1 minute from theirs, what do?"	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/24 12:41 AM
5	“I want a man that takes the lead” doesn’t free women from taking initiative It’s so easy for me to forget exactly what you wrote here Far busier people have made the time, so this person doesn’t have much of an excuse. I need to remember that cause I’ve had both of these experiences too Hope you find your person soon buddy	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/24 02:05 AM
4	US women are not at any significantly higher risk of maternal mortality than the rest of the developed world So you’re saying it’s 1/100 mothers, and the OPs saying with an MSDH source it’s actually 1/100 infants, not 1/100 mothers. I looked on MSDH website and it says 35.2/100k mothers from 2016-2020 (page 12) How do you reconcile this?	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/11/24 04:06 PM
1	Q4M: Given the "ideal" wife/girlfriend/partner, do you genuinely enjoy providing? Given what you described, I would happily do so. In this imaginary scenario, I am picturing that this woman (being ideal) would be okay with a pretty modest life, since we are on a single, modest income. I would say the "catch" is that I would not want this if it was an expectation of hers, if that makes sense. It would have to be a cooperative decision made with some deliberation. I wouldn't be looking to meet the love of my life on a sugar baby website or something, and if I see a dating profi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/24 08:58 PM
2	Women are lazier when it comes to relationships This is not the kind of relationship I want, but I respect it. It does sound like you have a fair split of responsibilities. I hope to have that too	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/09/24 06:23 PM
2	Women are lazier when it comes to relationships It's very telling that when you want to be charitable to women, it's "women." Just women, implying all women. When it's time to be the tiniest bit charitable to men, it's "some men." Even though the vast vast vast vast VAST majority of men will be doing the leading in the entire first year of the relationship.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/09/24 06:20 PM
0	This Platform Coddles Women and Shames Men You’re disappointed that people were bashing a rapist? Most people would agree that being raped is much worse than being cheated on.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/24 05:46 PM
14	Most of what gives women the "ick" are just perceived shortcomings of masculinity The whole point of this shtick is that Jerry is aberrant with his many icks. He is not normal and is routinely mocked/criticized for it by his friends. You seem to be under the opposite impression. It's like saying "wow men be crashing into doors and counters and objects....because Kramer does"	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/24 06:36 PM
1	Women would finally understand why dating is unfair for many men if job hunting process was similar to men's modern dating experience Where do you live? I’m curious how much the same sort of things would cost there. I know Canada is generally cheaper than the US for restaurants (and Japan much cheaper than Canada, as I recently learned)	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/24 10:44 PM
1	Women would finally understand why dating is unfair for many men if job hunting process was similar to men's modern dating experience So I don’t want to seem like it’s perfect The women, even the ones who vastly out earn me, are happy to have me pay for most or everything. That’s not good But yes I’d say about 25-50% of women I see start paying for some things from date 2-3 onward. Some will even insist on covering that first coffee date, or all of date 2. I was mainly refuting this hyperbolic complaint from OP and You also had to buy the interviewer an expensive dinner, or cover their drinks, or plan a creative and extravagan…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/24 10:32 PM
1	Women would finally understand why dating is unfair for many men if job hunting process was similar to men's modern dating experience Well it’s Canada, so can divide the prices by 1.38 for USD equivalents. and I don’t wanna look like a cheapskate so I hit the tip button on the iPad, so it’s like $6 per latte + 5% tax + 15% tip ($4.50 USD latte? I’d imagine that’s on the low end in the US for a fairly nice suburban coffee shop) The sushi was $57 last night plus tip for 8 big pieces of sashimi ($20 CAD, $15 USD) and two specialty rolls ($29) and two miso soups ($5) which I considered decent considering that going to a normal din…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/24 10:26 PM
17	Women would finally understand why dating is unfair for many men if job hunting process was similar to men's modern dating experience I know you wanna be a crybaby about this - and I’m honestly inclined to agree with you at baseline - but you’re being a doofus here. The vast majority of the women I ask out are fine with a first date coffee date. I would estimate 5% haven’t been. It’s a $15 investment in the first date most of the time. Sure I wish it was more even, but it’s not the end of the world Literally just had a second date today with a girl I asked for coffee for date 1, and sushi for date 2 (which is not a super expen…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/24 07:07 AM
–	Cold approach is a 0 sum game especially for average & below men Where’d you get the 3% number from? Sounds cartoonishly low	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/24 02:34 AM
1	Why do women get turned off if a guy is living with parents even though they live with parents too? Yeah I've been there. It's hard to accept that things are going down the toilet while they're happening, then you walk out of the coffee shop/restaurant/whatever and it's like you've woken up from a nap and wonder what the hell just happened.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/24 06:27 PM
1	Do Any of You WANT An Arranged Marriage? Why? Who Should Arrange it? If you're interested in this, watch the Netflix dating show Indian Matchmaking. I'm indian, never used (or even heard of) a matchmaker before this, but the general principle is one I'm familiar with in the 21st century (as opposed to in the olden days): Your friend Boris gives you the contact info of someone they think you'd be compatible with, a woman named Natasha. Boris already talked to Natasha's friend/relative, Cynthia, who already told Natasha about you. Boris and Cynthia think it's a goo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/24 05:00 PM
2	Most of the advice women give automatically weeds out introverted men This is really insightful. I appreciate you also not demonizing other cultures in the West like many who discuss this topic do.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/02/24 07:30 PM
5	Most of the advice women give automatically weeds out introverted men I had two coworkers/classmates who were women I wasn't interested in set me up with their friends, because we got along well and they trusted me not to be a dick to their friend.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/02/24 07:26 PM
0	Women base most of their “preferences” on trends and what is popular, and are far more influenced by what other women think than even their own instincts - the whole 6 foot thing is a perfect example I suspect if he didn't have as defined jawline and square/rectangular lots of his "attractive" qualities would vanish lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/24 10:49 PM
2	The truth is that majority of men won’t even approach/talk to women, yet they keep blaming them for the their lack of success. Can I take you up on that? I am wondering. Nothing weird	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/23 06:42 PM
–	CMV beeing a smooth Talker / high charisma will improve you‘re smv more then most men today believe, this is backed by „every top salesman does well with women“ theory You’re saying that sitting at a bar and reading a book is the plan three times a week? I’ve never done that	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/23 01:06 AM
1	White women are the most, by far, privileged group of people in Western society Yes. I am south Asian. I live in a metro area that’s maybe 15% south Asian, 25% East Asian, and 60% white. I restrict myself mainly to the 15% that are south Asian because I know the interest from everyone else is very, very sparse. It saves me a lot of headache rather than trying to chase after people who wouldn’t want me	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/01/23 01:58 AM
1	Can I see your dating profile? (No pics or names just prompts) Being honest I think everything to do with the face is very average. Thanks for the feedback	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/12/22 07:16 PM
1	Can I see your dating profile? (No pics or names just prompts) Ok I replaced that bad prompt with this and took out the bad photos. No not liking to date Sikh women only but its really only Sikh and Hindu women who will swipe right on me (maybe 95% of my likes are from them). Why do you ask? Should I leave that part out?	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/12/22 07:05 PM
1	Can I see your dating profile? (No pics or names just prompts) Ok help me out here please Hinge part 1 Hinge part 2 Bumble (same photos as Hinge)	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/12/22 04:58 PM