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DISCUSSIONbuttercupcake23/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 04:33 AM
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Half your age plus 7 applies to people 20 and under, it only works for that age frame. Above that, it gets proportionately more skeevy the older you are. After the age of 20 you should not need that calculation to know if you're being creepy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/22 11:11 PM
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Yeah no lie if I met a new guy who was picky these days I'd probably just move on because I don't love it as a personality trait and I'm not sure I'd have the patience to try and figure out if it was "real" pickiness or just preference. I'm willing to look past this right now because in context with everything else it's not a deal breaker in this relationship. I like most foods and my tastes do tend to lean towards chicken and beef anyway so MOST of the time im perfectly happy - like my favorite…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/22 01:01 AM
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Eating whatever the fuck you want and cooking whatever the fuck you want whenever you want really is underrated. I love my husband but if I was single I could actually have make proteins other than just chicken or beef. I could add mushrooms right into my sauce without having to cook them separately and add them later. I would be able to make 1 type of eggs. My noodles would be as spicy as I want them to be instead of having to portion out his serving first before I add extra spice to my portion…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/22 12:56 AM
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You are 100% right. This guy was all about himself nothing he got was to make her feel good. It was virtue signaling at its peak. Also eyelashes? Falsies are like some of the cheapest things you can buy, they start at like $4! I'd be so disappointed if my husband walked into Sephora and bought even the more expensive set of $20 falsies AND THATS IT. Like there are so many things he could have gotten that spoke to HER interests. The bar is SO low and I'm so sad for all the women who thought this …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/22 12:08 AM
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I have girlfriends who have kids! I'm the cool aunt to those kidlets. I spoil them because what else am I gonna spend all this disposable income on?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/22 08:07 PM
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I agree. I was def a PickMe and a cool girl but never to this extent. This isn't just cool girl behavior this is just being convinced you are so unlovable you don't deserve better and won't ever find better. When the truth is, being alone is 1000000 times better than being with someone like this. We need to socialize that being on your own is OK and that not being in a relationship is not the same as being lonely or unloved. Love is everywhere! Male love is not the only kind that matters.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/22 12:22 AM
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I agree!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/22 06:15 PM
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Exactly. househusband treat their jobs like 9 to 5s. Soon as the woman is home they clock out and go to "rest" and the wife gets to come home and start 2nd shift. It's bullshit and I have seen so many women fall into the trap of "he's a good dad and I want him to spend time with the kids" meanwhile they're stressed to hell over basically being single moms while dads are nothing more than daycare.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/22 05:04 PM
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People live long nowadays. My husband's family is wealthy, but I neither want nor count on his inheritance because 1) that would mean losing both his parents whom I love and 2) by the time he DID inherit, if we still needed an inheritance to get by I'd consider us giant fucking losers. Like, we are in our 30s. They're in their 60s. I want them to live at least another 20 years - by which time we will be in our 50s. If in our 50s we aren't perfectly comfortable and are still hoping for his parent…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/22 04:58 PM
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I liked this video enough to browse his other stuff. I agree with a lot of his comments in general about dating philosophy...but his advice is also very much geared towards young men so our mileage may vary in it's usefulness for us as women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/22 05:19 PM
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Not to mention women get DOORS OPENED for us! And women get more COMPLIMENTS. The scales are balanced. Our struggles are the same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/22 03:49 PM
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Yes! Also, by vetting all the men who aren't worth your time you free up more opportunities to meet one who is. The longer you let crappy men hang around the less time you have to be able to meet the right guy. But even if you never do - that's okay. It's better to be happy and on your own living your life however you want than to be trapped with a man who sucks the life out of you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/22 12:14 AM
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It's so dumb. Meanwhile if a woman ever reacted with less than joy at a man's pay raise or job offer she's not being supportive. Or if she reacts too happily she's gold digging!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/22 12:08 AM
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I didn't ever kiss on the first date. I think I did a cheek kiss on the 2nd or 3rd. One guy tried to hold my hand on the first date and I think I was more offended by THAT than if he tried to kiss me honestly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/22 03:43 PM
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Ooh and you just know they're thinking their avoidance of you is like some major punishment. Oh noooo now you won't get randos touching you without your consent anymore whatever will you do? Like those dumbasses who are all like, "well if you can't even hit on women without being called a harasser anymore I guess we will just stop approaching women! Then see how you like it!" Not being hit on by guys who don't understand the difference between harassment and flirting? We like it very much, thank…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/22 03:42 PM
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It isn't just "ugly" guys either. It's dudes who give zero fucks about their appearance. True there are guys who are just objectively unfortunately unblessed genetically but those men are a minority. There are so many regular men who could be attractive if they put some effort into grooming and hygiene and dressing neatly. Instead they don't try at all and then have the audacity to complain when they get no matches.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/22 10:13 PM
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Yeah, neither does she. Meanwhile she has 50 other dudes who are willing to actually spend time and money on her. These guys really have no idea what kind of competition they face. I'm an average to moderately attractive woman at best and when I was dating, had plenty of guys willing to take me to $50 plate restaurants on our 1st, 2nd, 3rd dates...and I was able to be picky (even though I was a total PickMe back then, unfortunately). If I was actually legitimately super hot I can imagine my opti…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/22 06:43 PM
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But this wasn't one time though. This whole trip was a pattern of him not prioritizing your friendship while you went out of your way to prioritize his. Especially when it comes to friendships with men I think it's a mistake to put more into it than they are because there is so much more of a risk of it being ungenuine and with ulterior motives. The fact that he wanted to come over only when he was done with the things he wanted to do and after midnight - it seems like he just wanted to hook up …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/22 06:26 PM
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The second I saw that trailer I thought the same thing. Let's make a movie about the greatest couple of female athletes we've seen in modern times...and then let's center it around the man. Cos nothing can ever be about women, that won't sell tickets! And men are never taking credit for women's accomplishments! I have no respect for Will Smith and his inappropriate chauvinism fueled rage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/22 01:59 PM
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That's perfect. Men fear marrying the "wrong woman". To him, the "wrong woman" is one who might actually leave his useless ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/22 02:58 PM
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Also...if you suspect a man is actually truly an imminent danger to you and unlikely to respect a restraining order anyway...don't file a restraining order. Move, change your number and disappear. All a restraining order does is tell him where to find you. Restraining orders can be really useful if he's just a run of the mill stalker who won't back the fuck off but is unlikely to actually murder you because you can call the cops and give them consequences. But for the ones intent on doing you ph…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/22 11:33 PM
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I'd dunk him in a volcano.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/22 08:24 PM
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Exactly this. The work analogy is perfect. Because the truth is, by the time the employee leaves it's not just about the money anymore. It's about all the other things that made you want to quit - the lack of respect, the shitty boss or coworkers, the abuse, the bad hours, bad culture, lack of PTO, and then bad pay. And when they come back with a counter sure maybe they increase your pay but all the other things that made you want to quit are still there. Same with a breakup. He promises to "be …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/22 12:13 AM
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I am never ever going to understand how you can willingly plan to get pregnant with someone you don't know for sure you will marry. I get people have babies before marriage sometimes cos that's just how it goes but usually that's with the understanding we will get married. This guy never ever committed to her and she just hinted along and never actually outright asked if he planned to commit. And this fuckface isn't ready? Cos 2 kids is somehow LESS of a commitment than marrying your 7 year gf? …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/22 12:09 AM
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That's the thing that bothers me most. People who compare sex work to say being a coal miner and claim that if you think they aren't the same thing cos they're both selling your body that you're a SWERF. First, it's not the same thing. When being a coal miner gives society the right to treat you as having less intrinsic value, when it means you will forever be unable to have normal healthy relationships, when it means you can't ever be around someone without wondering if they're judging you beca…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/22 12:45 AM
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I bet men are going to point to the NSFW stuff and say well she made a sex tape so of course she's on fap sites. But I also bet you could type in literal teenage girls names and find similar shit. And let's not forget those same men are the ones who judge women for showing skin while at the same time being the ones benefiting from their exploitation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/22 04:32 PM
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Yeah I get that and I don't dispute it. I was responding to your specific statement of "you should never ever have to change, or be asked to change". My point is only that not all change is bad. Voluntary change that is also a reflection of personal growth can be good for you and for your relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/22 09:18 PM
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I think that's a little stark. Personal growth isn't a bad thing and none of us come out fully formed. While we absolutely should never be involved with someone that we plan to try and change significantly and any deal breakers should be right on the table, I think there's some leeway when it comes to working on your issues together, and adapting to each other. I am a person who is not very open, emotionally. I'm not affectionate by nature, but I recognize that's a thing that's me and comes from…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/22 03:45 PM
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I mostly agree with this but I just want to note one thing you said that I disagree with which is "just love each other and that's enough". Love alone isn't enough. They can feel love and you can feel love all you want but love that isn't backed up by actions is meaningless. All the lvms will plead that they love you and hide behind their love (forgive me for everything cos I love you!). And it might even be real. They do feel love for you. But unless they're willing to back up that love with ac…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/22 09:06 AM
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Exactly this. If they weren't trying to meet up with every single random woman they ever exchanged two words with, they wouldn't be...you know, paying for random women. If men only met up with women with whom they had multiple conversations, and felt a good connection with, women they personally liked and felt attracted to...they would not be random women. They are a person you are interested in dating and thus worth the effort. Unfortunately most men just want to play the numbers game, meet as …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/22 11:28 PM
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I love it. Pez dispensers of trauma. It's so apt.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/22 09:18 AM
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Gotta buy one of those toys shaped like a fist - modeled after a male fist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/22 08:13 PM
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This is part of a collective male attempt at negging. They figure if enough of them do this shit they'll break women down and neg us into thinking its normal. Collective patriarchy approved social brainwashing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/22 08:12 PM
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Jesus Christ the man is dirtier than dog poo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/22 09:27 PM
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Why are men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/22 03:05 AM
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This is a really good point. Decent people relay facts without needing to insult or trash their exes. My spouse mentioned that his ex cheated on him in the context of a conversation we had about fidelity, but didn't call her a bitch or otherwise badmouth her. That was the one and only time an ex was discussed and he didn't bring her up out of nowhere. People who use the term "crazy ex" or "psycho bitch" are always 100% the problem. That language alone points to misogynistic tendencies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/22 08:58 PM
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Omg that struck me too. This dude being all like proud of the fact that he got laid 4 times out of 124 tries (and that was with going for "average" girls). Lmao so sad. Getting laid is like his only purpose in life and he's soooooo bad at it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 03:07 PM
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To me that immediately makes him a LVM. HVM have a well defined and defensible set of values that are core to who they are as a person. If they don't know what those values are til they get asked, those values aren't real. Being well informed and thoughtful about the world we live in is a sign of a well rounded person. Someone who sticks their head in the mudand has no idea what is going on is being willfully ignorant.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/22 01:37 AM
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This is incredibly astute.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/22 01:33 AM
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Ooh I had a comparable experience. Tall, good looking, good career, intelligent, similar interests. But when he paid the bill he whipped out a wad of 50s to do it, like really made sure I saw those bills. I was immediately turned off but I still gave him another 2 dates and the chemistry never happened because I could never get that gross image out of my head - and nothing he did ever dispelled the idea that he really placed all his value in his money and thought it should impress me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/22 02:35 AM
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It 100% has. I was on OLD in like 2010 (how the fuck is that 12 years ago wtf) and my experiences were so much better than what I see described now. I rarely ever got the same kind of fukbois that are like common now. It was also before Tinder was really big so it seemed...more genuine? Idk. But how it is now is really awful and I can't even imagine how much worse it is after the pandemic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/22 02:31 AM
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Oh my GOD yes. Do not tell them your insecurities either, things that you're sensitive about. They will always zero in on those things just to hurt you, regardless of whether it has any basis in reality.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 07:40 AM
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Oh my GOD I was going to say the same thing. When I shop I always put either a substitute if there's a brand I prefer, a Do Not Substitute if I MUST have this exact brand, or "Use best judgement" if I don't care what brand it is I just want some fricken lasagna noodles, or Ask Me when I want the item, but need control over what the specific sub is without knowing what is available. Women? Can use judgment and get me what I need. Men though? Men will either: A) Message for EVERY SINGLE ITEM (even…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 12:03 AM
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Fucking what? Male PMS? ARGHHHHHH
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 10:33 PM
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I am so sorry you went through that with such an awful selfish partner. You deserved so much more than that and you should have been able to rely on the one person who should have been there to support you! He is garbage and I'm also glad you were able to pick him to the curb and then leave all those useless men in the dust!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 08:01 PM
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Hahaha it's like a fucking reflex from posting in other places cos if I don't, I KNOW some turd burglar is going to march in and be like BUT WE SUFFER TOO. God, I hadn't even realized how conditioned I had become to coddling male feelings. It is...a new experience having an actual women only space.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 07:55 PM
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Oh, this syncs up with a lot of the horror stories I read from women asking why their spouses have become so much more needy and act like they're jealous of the baby. I also totally understand why men who have genuine anxiety about whether they can be good dad's and their lives changing get depressed. Or if they have trouble bonding because God knows that's a thing that can happen to anyone, you hold your child and don't feel an instant connection and suddenly question if you're a bad parent (ev…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 04:58 AM
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Yep. People who love you do not abuse you - verbally, emotionally, physically. This is not the behaviour of someone who loves you. For the record this is not just something you have to do for the sake of the relationship. A decent man - a decent PERSON - is capable of admitting they may be wrong. Only delusion psychos think they're always right and refuse to accept even the possibility they're not. You deserve better. You deserve respect. Do not accept this kind of bullshit - no matter what you'…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 02:10 AM
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Same and honestly for at least one of them I wish I HAD dumped him for his looks. He was overweight, had terrible grooming and self care, and was awful at sex. But he was also one of my first relationships and I thought it would be shallow to break up with him over something superficial. I wish I hadn't wasted so much time being with someone I had ZERO physical attraction to. Just even thinking about him now repulses me on a visceral level. Women are conditioned to put up with SO MUCH MORE crap …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 09:45 PM
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What a great point he makes. After all women have never been pressured to undergo invasive surgery to look better or spend hours of time and thousands of dollars on maintenance and grooming that is considered "standard". What a terrible world it must be for this singularly unique white man who can't get laid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 09:36 PM
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I saw that thread earlier and was about to respond to that thread telling her to get an abortion and a divorce but the thread locked. Fortunately...that was already the top comment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 08:43 PM
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Yes! The fucking entitlement of men who presume you have nothing better to do than wait by your phone and answer their texts. Followed by pathetic mewling if you don't answer within seconds. I rarely respond to texts during work hours. I leave people on read when I don't have the mental capacity. Texts get treated as emails for me. If I'm here and free I will respond, otherwise you can expect a two business day response. The exceptions are close friends who don't demand responses and quick inqui…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 03:50 PM
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I keep saying we need a union!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 01:18 AM
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Speaking of Megan Kelly - her new fiancee is an abusive piece of trash. He designed her engagement ring so it would hurt if she tried to take it off. Yikes on a bike. https://www.cnn.com/2022/01/20/entertainment/megan-fox-engagement-ring/index.html
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 01:12 AM
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Haha!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/21 08:20 PM
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Ewwww
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/21 08:19 PM
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I was thinking that. Like if I wanted steak I'd just ask for veggies. Fucking take him for all he's worth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/21 04:16 PM
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I say this with love because I know the value of true female friendship and connection. Friendship with other women is invaluable and I understand especially your desire to keep a friendships with someone you love and care for. But. A good friend will notice if her bf is violating your boundaries and put a stop to it. A good friend will respect your desire to not be around him without it affecting your relationship with her. If she can't support you not wanting to be creeped on, she's not being …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/21 04:58 AM
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Most things that are "treats" arent nutritious. Belgian chocolates, fresh vanilla ice cream, home made brownies, a salted caramel cookie - it's all bad for you. I love McDonald's fries. I'm not eating them for health, they're a guilty pleasure and occasional treat that if eaten only occasionally is perfectly harmless.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 08:13 PM
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Men already think the world is about them and everything women do is geared towards trying to get a man's attention, that our sole purpose and goal in life is to get a man. A woman chasing them just reinforces that bullshit. Mediocre men in particular don't need encouragement to be even more up their own asses.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 04:30 PM
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So for me personally, the benefit is...morally ambiguous? I have an anglo first name but an ethnic and difficult last name prone to being mangled, while my husband's name is very white. Given the studies that have been done on how racial bias can affect whether your resume sees the light of day, I have to imagine it's given me some benefit in that regard to not immediately be dismissed based on my race. There was also a familial connection that opened some doors for me at the start of my career.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 07:26 AM
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Don't do it unless there's material benefit in it for you, because there are a ton of downsides. Then if you divorce you have to change back. But even if you want to for the sake of being a family with the same name, I would hyphenate and expect him to do the same. There is zero reason for it to be the man to keep his name and the woman to lose hers. Form a new family by joining them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 12:29 AM
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An adult neurotypical non disabled man with minimum wage job without an exacerbating reason is a reason to be cautious, IMO. Minimum wage at the age of 30 because you got laid off and while you're trying to find something in your career path? Fine. Minimum wage while you're going to school because shifts are flexible? Fine. Minimum wage job + 2nd job + gigs to subsidize = fine, he's hustling with what he's got. Minimum wage at 40 because that's all you've ever done your whole life and your life …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 07:21 PM
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Fucking A! THIS IS GOLDEN. Date yourself first if you find yourself settling for bad treatment because when you learn to treat yourself well first, you learn what you actually deserve. What fantastic advice. I wish this shit was taught as a class to girls growing up, would save so many women from settling for shitty men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 05:29 AM
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I wonder if this is a negging tactic or if it's just a complete lack of social tact or emotional intelligence. Like what are you supposed to say when someone is like, "oh yeah that thing you just said you're into doesn't sound super interesting" - it's a total conversation killer and I don't know if these dimwits are savvy enough to be using it as some sort of manipulation tactic. I think they might just suck at talking to humans. Of course whether shitty behavior is premeditated or just unplann…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 09:20 PM
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This is why I never understood the appeal of hookup culture. Sex takes trust and communication, sex with randos doesn't result in orgasms - and if you're not even going to get off, why the hell go through all the incredible risk. It's not worth it. My vibrator gets me off 100% of the time and is as much value as random hookup with random guy with whom I share zero connection.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 06:20 PM
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100%. Testing for sexual compatibility is something WOMEN should do after proceeding to a relationship and feeling safe and comfortable enough to have sex. Because men can seem perfectly fine and then end up being a flop in bed. But sexual compatibility isn't about some sort of magical spark that does or doesn't exist - it's about effort and caring and respect. A man who is initially bad in bed (inexperienced maybe?) can get better if he's willing to listen and learn. Selfish and disrespectful s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 03:19 PM
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I love this. A good man is an accessory to your already fulfilling life. Like a stylish purse you can add to your ensemble for an extra touch of something nice and a dose of utility, but not at all necessary because you're already perfectly put together and your outfit has enough pockets that a purse isn't mandatory!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/21 01:26 AM
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Don't give up! Online dating sucks but men are not unilaterally garbage. My husband isn't perfect but he is a genuinely good man and a good partner. It's ok to forget dating for a while. You have to work on you and develop yourself first and foremost because you exist outside of a relationship as a person who deserves to be happy by yourself. And then widen your social circle, meet people who share your interests and make good, worthy friends. Network! From those friendships and connections is w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/21 01:20 AM
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Same here, I really liked Mulaney but a huge part of his appeal for me was the love and respect he showed for his wife. But this shit with Olivia PickMeMunn...nope. Lost me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/21 01:17 AM
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It really hurts my feelings when you hold me accountable for my actions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/21 04:34 PM
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I uh...yeah.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 09:09 PM
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Seriously. Acting like his whole life and family before never existed. Typical man on second marriage shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 03:47 PM
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He is so not charming.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 03:47 PM
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I started out as a stay at home wife but then I wanted things like a house and shit so I had to get a job. Miss the days when a single income was enough to support a whole damn family. Like I suppose technically I could quit my job and we'd still be fine but we wouldn't have the same quality of life and I like to travel.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/21 10:36 PM
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Yes! Cultural stigma and shaming are MASSIVE hurdles and can be life ruining!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/21 07:11 PM
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You know I hear a lot about how arranged marriages have a much lower divorce rate than non-arranged marriages, and people use that as some kind of defense for how arrange marriages aren't somehow coercive. But I think that low divorce rate only exists for one reason - the same reason that divorce rates in Western marriages were lower before women were allowed to open their own bank accounts and earn their own income. IE, if you're in an arranged marriage, the odds are that you don't have the mea…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/21 06:57 PM
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Good call! I didn't know of this one and the more tools we have the better!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 07:16 PM
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Use Google number! It's a real number you can give out that rings your phone and keeps your actual number private.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 03:58 AM
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Incels are still pushing for laws about how each man should be assigned a woman. Red pillers still think they should be allowed to rape women that fit certain conditions. They're fucking obsessed with women even as they claim to hate us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 01:36 AM
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I agree! I'm married so I'm not trying to date but it reminds me that I don't have to settle and I only need to be here as long as he's still a good husband. This sub has been so good about uplifting women and I want to carry that with me everywhere. I want a bunch of tiny booklets I can hand out to women I see trapped with LVM, all sneaky like some kind of cultist whispering "THERES ANOTHER WAY" I mean not really but like it's never a bad thing for women to realize their own power. We have to u…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 01:32 AM
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Me too! I was exposed to porn really young and it definitely shaped me growing up. Porn is the starkest and fastest way of conditioning women to transform themselves for the benefit of the male gaze. Even when being degraded and humiliated, this is what you must do to make the penis happy. Happiness of the penis is paramount. I wonder if in some other parallel universe we might have seen erotica that was not misogynistic and violent. But mainstream porn nowadays is what in the 70s would have bee…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 01:24 AM
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I have a friend who decided with her husband that he should quit his job and stay home with the kids while she worked. She ended up with a full-time job and then still did all the housework after she got home while he dealt with the kids during the day as a 9-5 and then clocked out once mom was home and went to play video games. Then the pandemic. So then she started to work from home. Which meant she then started also doing the parenting while working during the day and then after work as well …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 01:10 AM
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Omg this is so true. Every regret I've had with past relationships has been that I put in too much pointless effort, wasted entirely too much time. I've never felt like I didn't do enough. I always wished I'd walked away sooner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 12:51 AM
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It is I know lol, I think 45 is the latest a man should be a dad really, but there's probably a tiny exception of good men who just were unlucky enough not to have found someone compatible. But yeah, stretttttch lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 09:49 PM
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YES. I will never not call out these decrepit motherfucks who think fathering children at age 60 is totes appropes. It is SELFISH. Not only are they already dooming their 30 year old wives to spend the rest of their lives caring for them when they're ancient, they're leaving these children to grow up essentially without a father. How the fuck is a 70 year old man gonna be playing with his 10 year old son? When your kid graduates high school is your 80 year old ass even allowed to still drive? Me…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 08:41 PM
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All his exes are "crazy" Shittiness towards service people
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 06:49 PM
61

Omg yes. Old Pickme version of me used to feel so flattered when they'd say that. Makes me cringe to remember it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 06:48 PM
257

I will never cease to be surprised by the sheer depravity these evil evil bastards can sink to. Men are capable of some truly heinous shit all in service of their dicks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 12:29 AM
175

Ooh I had a male therapist when I was 18. He interrupted me and told me he was "teaching" me when I'd argue with him. Put me off therapy for YEARS. Last 3 therapists I've had have been female and I always feel so much more understood and less judged.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 02:54 PM
67

100%. Soon as a guy says his ex is crazy I assume that's a red flag. For one thing, I'm not into dudes who trash talk their exes because that might be me some day. (And this is entirely different from when your partner who is in a real relationship with you sharing what happened in a past relationship. I'm talking about the dudes who tell you this way too soon without you even asking.)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 06:11 AM
41

I just...who...how...I...can't even
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 10:48 PM
450

Mediocre white men have some sort of superpowers confidence gene. It's incredible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 07:55 PM
6

That's a really interesting take. I was the same way as a teenager, like I could recognize someone was attractive but I never had a "crush" on celebs. Instead I had crushes on characters - the characters that actors would play. Even now, I'm not attracted to actors just because they're attractive, but I do crush on them when they play attractive characters because of how we conflate the actors with their characters.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 07:12 PM
10

Maybe the diff is that asexuals generally don't experience sexual attraction? Whereas demisexuals do experience sexual attraction, but the absence of it does not impede their ability or desire to be in a relationship with someone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 07:08 PM
180

Gotta do something with all this extra time you have from not having to clean up after a man. How awful for you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 10:24 AM
185

If only sex positive simply meant "don't be ashamed about having sex and liking sex" as opposed to "if you sell your body for male use and settle for subpar partners it is empowering!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 04:08 PM
15

Friendship with hetero hvm is definitely not a myth. HVM respect women and understand and enforce boundaries.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 10:28 PM
88

Seriously, my time is worth more than it would cost you to buy me dinner at Applebee's. These guys making 40k a year really think we are going after their money lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 07:38 PM
42

Dear God. In this case the "right person" for a guy this low effort is someone without standards so...I guess that's true?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 07:15 PM
33

I used to dislike her because of the strong pickme notlikeothergirls themes (I wear t shirts she wears short skirts she's a cheerleader I'm a dork etc). But that was just her age and we all go through that crap. She's matured beautifully and her music just gets better and better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 03:53 PM
37

Thank god. That poor woman, this is horrifying I hope she can get out. Every day I feel like we need a new fucking flood.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 09:45 PM
856

"Wow I can't believe you would advise OP to jump right to break up over a simple misunderstanding, overreact much? OP you should consider if your BF makes you happy and if this one little thing is enough to throw away the whole relationship, marriage is hard work and both parties are probably at fault here for not communicating"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 05:46 PM
69

The reddit one is too real.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 05:43 PM
82

Seriously. I can't believe those women couldn't see how fucked up that was. What if he'd just punched her? Or chained her up to keep from bothering him? Would that have been fine cos she was nagging him? Jesus Christ.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 12:56 AM
63

Yup. And short men act like short women OWE them. Like we're being traitors for dating tall guys because we should be dating them instead. And they have such major complexes about it that it's a huge turn off. These dudes make their height their entire identity it's ridiculous. For some reason this was so much more prevalent in online dating. When I met average height or short guys in real life they were just nice normal dudes. I still think about this one guy sometimes because he was amazing. A…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/21 01:58 PM
78

Yep. Living in the US, horrible daycare, education system, lack of protected maternity and paternity leave, economic uncertainty...feels like I'd never see any kid I produce anyway. And why would I make a baby to doom it to die in the climate wars? It's happening in our lifetime. That plus a general sense that I will not be able to deal with a kid anytime soon. I'm like 92 percent sure I'm going to end up adopting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/21 04:28 PM
63

This is lovely. And the best part to me is, this models that behavior for their kids. Boys learn the right way to engage in relationships and girls learn not to settle for anything less.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 02:28 PM
9

Yes!! People don't realize how much freedom Iranian women had in modern times until it all slid backwards real fricken quick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 01:16 PM
47

It is terrifying. And the whole "we got equality now STFU" is soooo fucking narrow minded and privileged. First of all, eurocentric much? Huge numbers of women are still being oppressed, enslaved and abused in huge parts of the world. Even in developed countries equality on paper doesn't mean shit when institutional sexism and social norms have not changed. The "laws" changing is great in theory but in practice rape has been illegal for quite some time and rape still happens c.o.n.s.t.a.n.t.l.y.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 02:03 PM
77

Exactly. Also, calling it female incels is So Much Lol. Women are NEVER involuntarily celibate. Any woman could get it anytime she wanted it if she had zero standards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 11:57 PM
36

She is SLAYING. And her make up skills are fire, holy shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 02:09 PM
74

... Other men That's about it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 06:27 PM
41

Dogs are loving, loyal and protect their humans. They can be dumb but good hearted. Scum like that can't compare to dogs. It's more like some kind of disease carrying vermin that just eats it's way through whatever it can find and has no care what havoc it wreaks so long as it can reproduce and eat all day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 05:56 PM
14

Take him with you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 01:51 PM
75

All boys who have a lick of sense should ally with the girls and do this. Boys start asking boys to prom. Girls, ask other girls. Do it all before any boy can ask them- just pair up the girl population. See how that goes. But yeah I agree girls should say no and boycott the prom. This rule is horrifying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 07:44 PM
56

Rate of ...female... pedophilia almost doubled in the last 4 years. Thats a number we'll just take at face value I guess.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 04:47 AM
10

I dumped a guy over this. It was raining and he just wanted to get out of the rain but it was what ultimately tipped the scales for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 02:40 PM
28

It's both imo. Majority of men are terrible, but also women dont have high enough standards and settle for terrible men. This creates a culture wherein men assume being terrible is fine, because they're certainly not seeing any consequences. The plethora of pickme women will always ensure the deadbeats continue to have access to their supply of bangmaids and they need never change. However - that pickmeisha exist is also due to the patriarchy. That women are socialized to accept this bullshit st…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 04:42 AM
3

This person has a punchable face and I've never seen his face.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 04:33 PM
3

I value compliments from women SO MUCH MORE. Women compliment me on shit that I actually put effort into achieving or is reflective of me as a person. I put on this make up, I did my hair, I chose these shoes, I said the smart or funny thing. Men compliment my fuckability, tits or ass, none of which I had much control over. Men have ulterior motives. Random girls who compliment me are doing it for the sake of nothing, just women building up women. Men always have a fucking ulterior motive becaus…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 04:21 PM
26

Oh YES. I loved their relationship it was such a fantastic representation. On that note, eleanor and chidi from The Good Place (barring anything terrible happening on s4 I haven't caught up yet plz no spoilers)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 04:04 PM
13

Luke from Gilmore Girls is a HVM imo. He and Lorelei didnt always have the most functional relationship because they both have massive baggage but he was a genuinely decent man who ALWAYS put her first. I try and think of other HVM in tv shows I like and I'm mildly shocked I can barely think of any, lol. Maybe Marshall from HIMYM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 04:00 PM
7

Yes!! I miss that show so much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 03:56 PM
9

I'm so angry for you. I want to string up every last piece of shit that was involved in this travesty. Society is a fucking joke.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 03:28 PM
9

Men: All women are gold-diggers who only care about material things and only date a guy when he's rich ​ Also Men: Wow I can't believe she's dating that loser here I am a nice guy with a good job and my own house and car no wonder women get abused
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 07:21 PM
74

OMG SEX IS A BASIC HUMAN RIGHT!!! Being denied sex is literally the same as being raped. This is actually an argument I have seen men make.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 05:43 PM
56

So gross. And also, wtf? Do men really view sexual intercourse with someone they find unattractive preferable to just masturbating? That's so baffling to me - the idea of sex with someone I find repulsive is...well, repulsive. Whereas masturbation is always a good time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 05:41 PM
6

Also she can SING. This woman is goals.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 09:31 PM
16

bUt hAvE YOu TrIeD tO COmmUNiCAte that it's important to you that he wipes his own ass? CLEARLY BOTH SIDES AT FAULT HERE
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 08:05 PM
7

Same!! I can't believe there's no radical feminist subs left. Meanwhile, violent porn and misogynist subs abound.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 05:43 PM
8

Or NoT aLL MeN and its soooooo unfair to judge us all just because one guy was an asshole, I'm a good guy but nobody ever gives me a chance, that's why women end up with assholes... Barf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 11:28 PM
30

I mean, yes because objectively a woman who has given birth will of course have considerably more stretch in her vagina than say, a 17 year old girl. But let's not kid ourselves - when men talk about women having loose vaginas they're saying they're so loose as to feel dramatically physically inferior, as though a hot dog down a hallway, which simply isnt true. They're not referring to the natural elasticity of human tissue, they're using a far fetched mythical interpretation of women's anatomy …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 08:24 AM
2

My mother did this shit. I do not tolerate it in my partners.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 03:00 PM
28

Even if he does bat an eye at the $500 console, if your gifts from him are cheap and thoughtless, KICKHIMOUT. Gifts should never ever be thoughtless. They might be relatively inexpensive because of his current income level, but never ever thoughtless.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 10:08 PM
16

Bunch of leaky cuppers comforting empty or broken cuppers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 08:35 AM
37

Time is fine. Spend a few hours in the bath. Tell her you need some time to absorb is, let's talk later cos you know theres plenty to discuss and plan but you need to just wrap your head around it. She gives you an evening of peace. That's self care. Even a few days might be ok if you make it clear you are there if she needs you. Running away to Narnia is selfishness because it disregard that she needs support too and ypire actively removing that support or even option from her. People can have …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 08:33 AM
28

Whoooo that thread and the men in it like "why arent men allowed to take time to process she had time to process before she told him" Like 1) procesing feelings without running away like a scared piece of shit is possible and what adult ls do 2) false equivalencies abound when does she get to leave her pregnancy behind and go to the woods and the nerve of them to claim oh well she said it was ok so shes not allowed to change her mind The fucking nerve. Hes so oblivious I hope she aborts before s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 08:26 AM
10

I'm with you. Life is exhausting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 09:38 PM
24

hahaha why do i get the feeling they'll take it as permission instead of protest
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 06:08 PM
126

"Nice Guys" TM usually are rapists lol - or at least have rapist mindsets (I was nice to you, you owe me sex is real rapey)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 05:48 PM
248

Men: What was she wearing? Did she provoke him? Men: Women are always choosing the wrong men to marry and then cry about it when they get abused, it's your own fault for not choosing the nice guys Men: Why won't women give me a chance? I'm a nice guy!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 04:45 PM
6

Agreed. It used to be about avoiding political talk because it was unnecessary conflict about something that ultimately did not make a difference in your relationship: his standpoint on the federal tax rate or funding for roads or whether public services should be privatised arent issues that speak to the essence of him as a person. This is different - being a Republican or Trump supporter now is an implicit condoning of racism, classism, misogyny, anti-truth, anti-science, and general corruptio…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 12:22 PM
3

And if you give him the side eye for any of his lame shitty jokes you obvs dont have a sense of humor wow relax
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 12:08 PM
2

I'll add one - any over emphasis on video games. One mention of it as a hobby is...maybe ok? But if it's a big enough part of their personality that they go into detail or have nothing else to talk about, that's a dude to avoid for 99% of women unless you're in the 1% that are ok with being ignored for 10 hrs a day while he sits in the same pair of pants and plays games. There are guys who game as a casual and moderate hobby but those arent the dudes who would talk about it in detail on their da…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 12:05 PM
31

I never cease to be amazed by the depths to which they sink. They're simultaneous self-aggrandizing and self-pitying. So pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 02:40 PM
31

This is all the more heartwarming because it stands in stark contrast to the high number of men who leave when their partners become ill. "Serious illness may increase a couple’s chances for divorce — but only when wives get sick, according to a growing body of research." https://www.fatherly.com/health-science/why-sick-wives-increase-divorce-risk-not-sick-husbands/ This couple is a wonderful love story. They both seem to cherish and appreciate each other so much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 10:40 PM
2

I equate this to unpaid internships in employment. So many people are willing to just give away their value for free that chucklefucks become accustomed to it. Fucks shit up for everyone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 03:00 PM
8

Haha! I know what you mean! I remember thinking "Yikes how did she end up with him look at her and look at him" and then thinking I was just being shallow but now I realize he was such a LVM omg.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 09:58 PM
2

Sending you good thoughts and good luck, I know you'll kick ass!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 09:54 PM
3

Yes! If you dont make enough to be in the same bracket then youre clearly a gold digger or not his intellectual equal. Just dont you dare be anywhere near bypassing him, then you're clearly just way too career focused and not being feminine enough and obviously neglecting your family.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 09:16 AM
3

What a tool. Humblebrag - I make a very tiny amount more than my husband and for a while was ahead of him career wise despite starting later. His only response to my promotions has been support, pride, and excitement for me because my earning more results in benefits for both of us. He's far from perfect but I'm glad hes never been a jealous asshole so insecure in his manhood that he could feel emasculated merely from his partner's success.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 09:13 AM
42

I gotta rewatch this one. That scene was too real. When it first came out I was still a teenager and my impression of it was just that i was sad they couldn't work it out, kind of a bummer. But that scene was way too real and I can feel the rage and frustration emanate from her because I've felt that same rage. I have a feeling I will be a lot less bummed out when they break up watching it the 2nd time around.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 08:57 AM
11

The standard for "friendliness" is much higher for women than it is for men. Men can be serious, straightforward and unsmiling without being told they're being unfriendly. If a woman - particularly one in any position of authority - does not bend over backwards to smile, laugh, and be overtly warm towards men they're seen as stuck up, cold, unfriendly, etc. If a woman were to have exactly the same demeanor as a professional man in the workplace she would be considered snooty. It's shit. I don't …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 08:32 AM
24

I need to fucking stop reading r/relationships the posts there make me so sad and angry, the absolute fuckery that women put up with, and then the number of people who defend said fuckery or at least make excuses for it... I'm glad I can at least come back here so I can get the taste out of my mouth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 08:23 AM
25

Soooo much less evidence of toxic masculinity trap. These dudes have such good skin omg om borderline jealous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 06:26 PM
14

Holy shit yes to the point where just telling the children the facts about why they no longer live with daddy is called parental alienation. Like you're not making shit up or trying to smear the other parent you're just telling the truth but that is MaNiPULaTioN and parental alienation. If your actions would result in your children hating you maybe idk that's your own damn fault? I don't just mean like when your kid is 5 and you might not want to explain you divorced because daddy was fucking hi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 06:21 PM
7

Oh man I wish I hadn't read this. Its going to make it so much harder to enjoy his movies because he's ridiculously attractive, but this is such a turn off goddamn. Why are men such creeps??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 05:43 PM
33

Fucking CONSTANTLY. "I pay for all his things and his food and his house while you just sit around at home all day what do you mean I don't do enough?" My blood boils just thinking about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 03:31 PM
16

This is it. It's also the difference between people who hate their oppressors because you know...they're being oppressed. Vs the people who do the oppressing because they hate. Misogyny results in oppression. The opposite results in...hurt egos.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 06:44 AM
12

Also, they have the ability to both be attractive/worth fucking and vile ugly undesirable loose whores at the same time and it isnt until the incel is rejected that he knows which one she is. Shroedingers whores, so to speak.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 06:39 AM
13

I agree. Buying things, extravagant gifts and such on the first date are a super red flag to me. Not just because its cringy and like...a bit desperate? Like we barely know each other so are you trying to buy a shortcut to my affections? But also because it's kinda manipulative. This isnt a standard thing that women expect on a date, let alone a first date. It puts the woman in a super weird and awkward position, like if you decline are you just being an ungrateful bitch? If you agree too easily…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 01:07 PM
10

Along with the rest of the very good reasons already posted - because everything must be about them of revolve around them, so when a woman cries it cant be about anything else, it clearly must only be about manipulating them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 12:56 PM
53

Jesus fuck. The audacity. How do they become like this???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 08:42 PM
350

Sadly this is way more common a problem than I could have imagined. Way too many threads of r/relationships from women who are like "my bf of 2 years won't shower/brush his teeth/wash his ass what can I do? I love him :(" WHYYYYYYYYYYY It makes me so sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 03:20 PM
27

Fuck yeah. Men take advantage ALL THE TIME of women feeling pressured to be "nice" or "helpful" and if we dare to act like anything but a doormat we get branded as "bitch". I'm really glad also that your boss has your back, a lot of the time management are also a bunch of enablers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 02:20 PM
35

Women in our 30s onwards are less agreeable in bed than 20 year olds? Absolutely. We've actually figured out that we also deserve to get off and that it's not all about you. Itll take a while for the 20 year olds to realize what a selfish bumbling idiot you are in bed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 08:39 AM
24

Hugh Jackman I think is a HVM. He married his wife debora lee furness in 1996 and they're still together. The thing that impresses me is that she was 41 and he was 27 when they married (just on the cusp of the limit) and back then it was even less socially accepted for men to date older women. And then over the years he became more successful and that of course is when most garbage men leave their wives for younger models. It's been 24 years and they're still together. I have no doubt it's becau…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 04:42 PM
18

Just seeing the contrast of how Obama treats Michelle contrasted against Trumps behaviour with his own wife and children is breathtaking. I will never ever ever understand how anyone can think otherwise.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 04:15 PM
23

Yep. Friends and family I sometimes just cant summon the emotional energy context back because I'm an introverted unending void of anxiety and they know this about me. But a new crush always gives me enough enthusiasm and motivation - if I'm not enthusiastic about texting or talking to him, then I'm really not enthusiastic about him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 02:31 AM
44

I've seen this argument used before. When people have brought up how male birth control was sidelined because it caused side effects in men and that's super unfair, the argument was that we weren't taking those side effects seriously because they were sometimes incredibly painful and in some cases even lead to death. To which I say - and female birth control is just a side effect free super fun ride that never results in anything bad, right?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 12:44 PM
7

And even if he did do the dishes, theres a 95% chance he only did the ones that were physically in the sink, and not the ones on the counter, the stove, or the coffee table.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 02:55 PM
3

In my head cannon I like to think their division of labour is truly equal (not society accepted equal ie she works full time and still does 80% of housework), so cooking maybe is usually her responsibility but he takes over when she needs him to carry some weight for her. And part of why its sweet is that it's a meal that takes a bit more effort because of the breading and frying (subjective of course). When it's something like I have 10 assignments to do at work and my coworker has 10 assignmen…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 02:51 PM
14

Exactly. Expecting Republicans to act in good faith had not worked out for the last 20 years. There is no point in taking the high road when you know the other guy is going to push you off a cliff the moment he can.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 06:34 AM
9

I LOVE those people. They're wonderful allies. I have a few people on my team who will notice when somebody is cut off, wait until the interrupter finishes their sentence, and then prompts, "Jane, you were saying?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 05:59 PM
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