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buttercuppitude/r/MensRights24/07/12 06:51 AM
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My understanding is that there's a lot of misconceptions about IUD's left over from the early days of their use in the 80's and early 90's. In particular, that doctors (I think now it's just old-school doctors) won't insert an IUD on a woman who's never had a child (something about the cervix having never been dilated making insertion more difficult). This is no longer the case for the most part, I think. Sometimes they make periods heavier and longer (who wants that!) although I think that depe…
/r/MensRights25/08/12 10:51 PM
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Interesting. Women should be more assertive in dating. I asked my husband out after I got tired of making googly eyes at him and him not making a move. Seems to have worked out well for us.
/r/MensRights24/08/12 04:40 AM
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I definitely feel sorry for the husband and am more on his side, even though I can't imagine that it's easy to be pregnant and OCD and having to be off your meds. Still, there's having irrational emotions/thoughts, and then's there's being able to accept that some of the things you are doing/feeling are irrational and making a concerted effort NOT to take them out on your spouse. I am an absolute looney toon right before my period. I cry at EVERYTHING. I know this. I also can step back (most of …
/r/MensRights09/08/12 06:59 AM
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This, unfortunately, is very true. I opted for #1, as did my husband, and I've had to work very hard to reverse that pattern.
/r/MensRights26/07/12 03:02 AM
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If you don't mind, I'd love more references please (for myself too while I'm at it. I enjoyed (though haven't finished fables) and I love reading urban fantasy. My husband has digital version of Sandman I've been meaning to start reading because Neil Gaiman is awesome.
/r/MensRights24/07/12 10:53 PM
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My BA is a double-major in English & Theatre, which for someone people assume translates too I ONLY read boring/stuffy/classic literature (not that classic literature is stuffy or boring). Even my husband (who also has a BA in English) was baffled as to why I was reading pop lit. "tripe" or young adult novels, or fill-in-the-blank genre here. Of course, he also doesn't understand why Vonnegut isn't really my thing, but I have a fondness for the Victorian period. When I explained it too him thus …
/r/MensRights24/07/12 10:52 PM
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They'll be high school age. I'm looking for a variety of topics and genres, reading levels, etc. I want to have a library (complete with rug, bean bag chairs, etc.) in my classroom where students can "check out" books and go read when if they finish their assignment or test early. I want to encourage my students read, and emphasize that they aren't limited to "classics" or "school books" but whatever piques their interest as long as they are reading.
/r/MensRights24/07/12 09:26 PM
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Thanks for all the suggestions. Not to mention some stuff to add to my personal reading list (not that I have any time right now /sigh).
/r/MensRights24/07/12 07:33 PM
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I have NO idea. I think he's attractive, but I guess a lot of people wouldn't think there was anything special about him. He's nerdy cute (tall, freckled, glasses (boy am I ever in trouble when he takes his glasses off, dark blue eyes that make me all melty)). Intellect has always rated higher than appearance on what I'm attracted too. He claims that he lucked out, but I may just suit his personal tastes. I guess a nice way to describe me would be pixie-esque (I like this because its a nice way …
/r/MensRights24/07/12 07:26 PM
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You were READING, that's the important thing.
/r/MensRights24/07/12 07:21 PM
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LOVE the Dresden Files!!!
/r/MensRights24/07/12 07:19 PM
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Can you make a few recommendations anyway? I may be able to write up a parental permission slip for some "mature" books, or if its just that the students might now appreciate them, doesn't hurt to let them try. Its also really interesting to go back to things later on that you may not have appreciated the first time around and see how your thoughts shift with age and maturity.
/r/MensRights24/07/12 07:19 PM
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:( Why are the harder to get outside of the UK? Definitely not opposed to having graphic novel tradebooks in my class library. Quite frankly, I don't care WHAT they read in the "free time" as long as they're reading something, and graphic novels certainly have a lot to offer.
/r/MensRights24/07/12 07:17 PM
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I'll be certified for 8-12 grade, and I want to to teach high school. So, I could end up anywhere between 9-12 grade. That said, I'm a big advocate of letting kids making their won reading choices, which is why I want a variety of topics, reading levels, genres, etc. available for my students to choose from. Can 9th graders appreciate/comprehend Vonnegut? Maybe, maybe not, but it should be there if they want to try it.
/r/MensRights24/07/12 07:16 PM
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I think my husband would divorce me if I left out Kurt Vonnegut.
/r/MensRights24/07/12 06:58 AM
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I wish my husband would cry more, or at least, express his emotions more overtly. He super-compartmentalizes and so sometimes he's impossible to read. He will, however, cry if at movies, so there's that I guess.
/r/MensRights24/07/12 06:46 AM
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My husband and I are both 28. I'm hanging out over here to learn more about men's perspectives. I didn't mean to come across that I think ANY amount of alcohol negates consent. Obviously there comes a point where someone is way too trashed to consent, or if they're passed out. I just think its a good idea for both parties to double-check consent to help prevent false accusations and such, mostly in random hook-ups/one-night stands. The example you cited its totally kosher, especially since they'…
/r/MensRights21/07/12 06:19 PM
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Actually yes, if there's drugs or alcohol its ALWAYS a good idea to get a definitive yes or no before proceeding with intercourse. This applies to getting consent for both men and women. Men are equally capable of being too stoned/drunk to speak up if they're uncomfortable with how things are going.
/r/MensRights20/07/12 05:13 AM
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I think my husband's thinking is more along the lines of indoctrination and sensitivity to me having been assaulted (although I was not and had not been drinking AT ALL when I was assaulted). I guess my husband was (he's less so know that I've explicitly explained that 1 glass of wine is not going to impair my judgement to hop in the sack with him) very careful to not doing anything that might make me feel that I don't have control in the situation. I was about to say how important control is to…
/r/MensRights20/07/12 02:43 AM
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Having been a victim, I can say with absolute confidence, that making false accusations is something I would never do, and one of the things that makes me see red on an epic level. However, I see the point your making, and that's definitely something that many men, especially ones not in a committed relationship, should unfortunately, (you guys really shouldn't have too) take into consideration.
/r/MensRights20/07/12 02:31 AM
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Yeesh, the poor husband. Even my husband has been indoctrinated into this concept that ANY alcohol consumption automatically negates consent. I almost never drink, and when I do its usually about half a glass of wine. I've never gotten truly drunk before, and I've never had drinks in an "unsafe" environment (i.e. I only drink at home among trusted friends, just in case I do drink enough to impair my cognitive decision making.) That said it took awhile to convince my husband that if I wanted sexy…
/r/MensRights19/07/12 09:28 PM
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Do you have some research or articles you could put me too? I would be interested in learning more about instructional methods that account for male behavior (at the high school level). I'm working on my certification, and I definitely want to make sure ALL of my students are being reach in a way that they understand/can take interest in. I will be teaching English, and won't have much control over the curriculum, but I can control my instructional methods.
/r/MensRights30/06/12 02:32 PM
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Really, your method of recruiting people interested in men's rights is by insulting them if they offer an opinion that differs from your own?
/r/MensRights30/06/12 02:16 AM
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I hope that things turn out in Mr. B's favor. However, I take issue with the implication that female teachers are habitually uncaring. I don't see the situation you are describing as a gender issue so much as an issue currently being fought in the profession with a serious lack of good teachers of BOTH genders. I know many, many female teachers who haven't joined the search for students who were MIA, and many who were utterly useless. I have also known some wonderful male elementary teachers, an…
/r/MensRights30/06/12 02:04 AM
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I feel sick. This one of the things that insane sects of my gender do that sends me into a blind rage. I won't lie. Its two-fold. She fucked up some innocent guys life, really fucked it up. AND sick women like her make it that much harder for real victims, like me, to come forward and be believed. One of my theatre professors in college was similarly accused. He told me about it during one the many office conversation we had, after I reported my own assault to him (It was date-rape, and I didn't…
/r/MensRights18/06/12 09:18 PM
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Its phrased weird, but I saw it as a shout-out to all the single-mothers. Make one for the single-dad's next year fro mother's day. There are dead-beat dads AND dead-beat moms.
/r/MensRights17/06/12 06:43 PM
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