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| 6 | How to quit this bad mindset I have?I compare me with other males all the times and think that if I am not special for a girl then I suck.Even if she likes me, I say she should like me THE MOST.It seems like you're desperate for attention and the affection of the women you meet in your life. You talk about being another fish in the sea; well think about it this way, women are fishes too. Plenty of them in the world who will seek YOUR affection if you have a confident mindset. A mindset that does not come off as needy or dependent on their attention. There's a mantra here that is one of the top posts of this subreddit (I can't link because I'm on alien blue). Confidence is not "she will… | /r/seduction | 14/07/14 05:24 PM |
| 2 | [FR]-Night game post day game, strange reunionsNice report. That fat guy must have some serious experience if he could walk up to a friend and do that shit to her. As for the hairstylist, I think you did the right thing by not going further with her. A terrible feeling is when your girl cheated on you and you couldn't do anything to stop her since she's in a different city. But whatever that's just my opinion. From what I've read, it seems like that HB5 that ran up to hug you has shown interest in you | /r/seduction | 13/07/14 05:32 PM |
| 1 | Can F-close, but will definitely reck the girl, is this beta?What the other guys commented, but to add on, it's a bastardization of the word "wrecked" | /r/seduction | 09/07/14 04:09 PM |
| 14 | Hug or nothing!What an ass | /r/seduction | 07/07/14 04:23 PM |
| 1 | [FR] I broke the Friendzone last night, [k-close] and a bit more.Awesome game OP. You played hard to get, reeled her in, and got closer than any other dude in that club would have gotten if they were stuck in the friendzone. Although, I think you managed to emotionally confused the crap out of your friend based on her reaction in the morning and how you responded | /r/seduction | 06/07/14 01:47 AM |
| 3 | [FR] had an amazing first date; F-closed, afterwards nothing but flaking. (need some advice)Yeah keep it cool for the next girl, hell even this girl too if she responds again. Also, don't ask her when she's free because that would set you up for failure. Like for the comedy club for example, instead of suggesting going to it, what you could have said was "Hey, let's get drinks. Comedy club at 9." This makes you sound more assertive PLUS you are keeping your cool from her last flake. And if she said no, you could have just ignored her and give no response. If she actually was busy, she … | /r/seduction | 01/07/14 05:04 AM |
| 1 | [FR] had an amazing first date; F-closed, afterwards nothing but flaking. (need some advice)But don't forget that there is nothing wrong with wanting more in a relationship, however that longing has to be mutual. And if that girl isn't expressing that mutual interest while you keep striving for it, than your best bet is probably to drop her | /r/seduction | 01/07/14 04:48 AM |
| 4 | [FR] had an amazing first date; F-closed, afterwards nothing but flaking. (need some advice)OK dude, I am far from being an expert on this, but I think you should stop trying to make plans with this girl. From what I have read, I don't believe that you actually fucked up with the texts. You weren't being needy and you seem to be great with keeping your texts short and simple (except for those drunk texts bro). But yeah, maybe its time for you to try out other options. If she keeps flaking, than she is missing out on a great guy in you. And by exploring other options, you'll probably fo… | /r/seduction | 01/07/14 04:42 AM |
| 106 | [FR] Finally went out of my comfort zone and approached a girl for the first time in my life.Great job OP. I honestly thought you were in your 20s when I started reading this field report until you mentioned that you were 16. You got balls dude, and you sound like one mature motherfuckin' badass | /r/seduction | 30/06/14 04:53 AM |
| 2 | [FR] I set up a firm date and got the number, have not gotten a reply back yetDude NOOOO! Why did you just text her that??? By doing that, you come off as needy, as if you don't have anything better to do. You want to come off as a busy independent man who is never over-available. | /r/seduction | 29/06/14 12:52 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Criticize my approach today, She # closed on meNo criticism here because you were pretty smooth but I am confused about the kino. How did you use your feet so that you wouldn't drift away? Did you like literally wrap your legs around her or something? | /r/seduction | 29/06/14 12:40 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Date Report - Hungry For Hungarian.Nice job OP, but I have a question about one of your strategies. "Cool, let me get your number, if you don't like me, give me a fake one" How effective is this with other girls? It seems like using this approach would be setting yourself up for a higher flake rate, seeing as you're giving the girl the OK to give you a fake number | /r/seduction | 27/06/14 07:31 AM |
| 1 | [FR] It was all stacked against me... [Long]That's awesome how you still approached her after she gave you a cold shoulder during the party. But tell me, just how responsible were you in burning the bridge of your prior relationship to the ground? Did your ex overreact or did you do something that justifies the amount of hate you're receiving? | /r/seduction | 26/06/14 03:43 AM |
| 108 | [FR] Got a nurse’s number during my doctor’s appointment last week and we went on a date (wall of text ahead)Don't hate to say that you like this girl a lot. She sounds like one of those girls that your average dude will not find through pickup or day game. Good look OP, you smooth-ass bastard | /r/seduction | 25/06/14 05:05 PM |
| 8 | Rebuilding after a personal hurricane (or, In praise of r/seduction)Damn dude you are THE man. I offer you my condolence for that awful stage of your life, but after reading further, I'm pretty sure you don't need it. Good luck on your pickup | /r/seduction | 22/06/14 04:39 PM |
| 32 | [FR] # closed the nurse in my doctor’s office and now we have a date tomorrowDude nice. I like the way you responded to holding her hand | /r/seduction | 20/06/14 08:59 PM |
| 7 | Balancing new found "God-Mode" with old, shy selfI have observed that most of us here on Seddit maintain that "god mode" state of mind by just giving absolutely no fucks when opening sets. If a girl shuts you down or you have a terrible interaction, move on to the next girl but this time, use your new found experience to go about things differently. | /r/seduction | 10/06/14 03:14 AM |
| 3 | Thank you Seddit! You've changed my life in less than a month.Wait, what was the semi-shit test that she pulled on you? I'm confused | /r/seduction | 09/06/14 04:04 AM |
| 4 | How to deal with a one-itis with common classes/friend groups? (Long story inside)The problem is that you have a mindset that she is the only one in the world for you. This is wrong. You only think that she's the only one because you are afraid that you will not find a hotter and even better babe. You settled for this one girl, and it really burned you. Seddit is a library of resources we can access to improve ourselves. We aren't looking to get that one girl we crushed on long ago, instead we learn to come to terms with our sexuality and embrace it. My advice is to go out in… | /r/seduction | 08/06/14 05:21 PM |
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