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Thank you for taking time to read this! It's amazing what compassion and listening can do for people instead of actively trying to fix something or debating/arguing about how someone feels. I hope everyone has someone that they can go to for acknowledgement on anything. I hope you're having a swell day and thank you again for reading! Much love!
/r/MensRights09/09/20 09:11 PM
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Oh no, I'm so sorry you feel this way. I wish there was something I could do to help. I am here for you friend if you'd like to talk and I'm sending much love and hope your way
/r/MensRights09/09/20 09:07 PM
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I think a good bit of us do to some degree. I hope you have someone that you're able to talk to and that you have a way to cope or at least a hobby to try to make the bad days, less bad. I hope you also know that even if this world sadly doesn't show it, there are people that hear you and send you positivity! I am by no means a mental health professional and I am terrible at answering back in a timely fashion but if you ever need a friend, don't hesitate to message me. Again, I hope you have som…
/r/MensRights09/09/20 07:54 PM
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And it stinks. I've noticed many men in my life as I grow up who never had the compassion and love that they deserve. I've made plenty of mistakes but I do also hope to make amends and to show compassion and love to everyone, especially men who haven't gotten the love and support that they deserve in life. Even if it was a random post on Reddit, for me it's a start and I hope it makes at least one person smile. Or! I hope it starts the conversation of campaigns that are meant to be gender neutra…
/r/MensRights09/09/20 07:31 PM
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Thank you for reading! I hope you're doing okay today sweet bean!❤
/r/MensRights09/09/20 07:22 PM
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I see what you mean. Thank you for clarifying! As I told another person, it gives me the chance to explore all sides and to make sure I get as much info as possible. It just takes one statement to ruin someone's life and the more people talk about things like this, the better we can understand and make sure certain injustices don't happen. (At least thats the plan of course. We all know how a lot of things go with topics like these). Thank you so much!
/r/MensRights26/09/19 02:58 PM
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That's absolutely awful. Thank you for telling me! I'm going to dive into more events like these after work and class. Hearing your side definitely has made me think about my next steps in exploring this.
/r/MensRights26/09/19 02:55 PM
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Understandable! And thank you for your input again. Whether I agree or disagree with any comments, it gives me the opportunity to dive deeper into my disagreements to make sure I'm getting as much info as possible about hard topics like these. I've never read anything on feminism or sjw other than some articles in class so I can't say I am or am not that person. I'm definitely not trying to bring an ideal that because I had sex with the person I did that I was of course raped. Its more so that n…
/r/MensRights26/09/19 02:25 PM
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I agree! But after a heated discussion with someone, I wanted to ask to see where some stand. Some believe it's wrong, selfish and manipulative, but not like sexual assault or rape. Many people only think of rape with the physical aspects and nothing else. Thanks for your input!
/r/MensRights26/09/19 02:19 PM
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Definitely agree with blackmail. When it comes to asking multiple times, in your opinion, do you think extent would change your mind? If someone is consistently asking no matter how many times no is said? That one is definitely one that I can see for debate in any situation or context.
/r/MensRights26/09/19 02:17 PM
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Thanks for the input! And I agree! A lot of these really are situational in and of itself and without proper communication, it can always be skewed in a way the other doesn't intend it to be.
/r/MensRights26/09/19 02:15 PM
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Thank you so much for your input! I agree!
/r/MensRights26/09/19 02:13 PM
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I completely agree! And thank you for your input. In things like this, a lot of it can be based on the manner of the relationship, what each thing means to you, boundaries, and the extent that it goes to. Expecting sex in a relationship is great and healthy. Not receiving it, the final "if we don't I will leave" is okay. Same as the being worn down part. Ask a few times sure, but consistently is not good at all. Definitely brings into play to have that open communication about needs/wants and se…
/r/MensRights26/09/19 02:13 PM
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I'm so sorry, I've been reading many different sources all night and came across another definition that included the physical force. I should've definitely stated that I'm (at the moment) looking at the more emotional/verbal side. But thank you so much!
/r/MensRights26/09/19 02:09 PM
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Thanks for the input! So if someone pressures another person into having sex, that to you isn't coercion but do you consider it as not consent? If someone continuously says no and the other person doesn't let up so they give in to "get it over with"? For the things you consider not coercion, would you put it under anything else? Such as red flags, abusive traits, manipulation, etc.?
/r/MensRights26/09/19 02:07 PM
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Forgot to say thanks for the input! I apologize again for how my definition seemed
/r/MensRights26/09/19 02:04 PM
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Definitely not what I intended! I don't know how to embed links or else I would include the link of the website. In my opinion, expecting sex in a relationship/marriage is totally okay and expected. I guess I just believe that if someone says no you should respect it not try to convince them otherwise unless you have had a talk like that with your SO discussing sex, consent, and boundaries. I've been in a relationship where they would continuously say please. I say no 10 times, and they keep goi…
/r/MensRights26/09/19 02:03 PM
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That's definitely something oh wow. In the US, the definition is along the lines of : penetration by a sex organ without the consent of the victim. Its usually discussed that it happens by physical threat or injury or if a person is incapable of consenting (drugs, no mental capacity due to age or mental illness, etc). Though I believe coercion is apart of it, its not something many people I've noticed want to believe. Maybe because that would mean they were a perpetrator or victim (although its …
/r/MensRights26/09/19 01:50 PM
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I think (in my eyes) seduction involves the temptation of something or someone more than anything. You may say no because "it's wrong" or "we shouldn't do that" and other phrases but you want to do it. You say no not because you don't want to do it but maybe you shouldn't and when there's something you shouldn't do, it makes it even more tantalizing. Coercion (in my eyes) is almost like verbal/emotional manipulation for someone to get their way. "Come on, I thought you loved me", "if you don't I…
/r/MensRights26/09/19 01:45 PM
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Terrifying and very real 😢
/r/MensRights26/09/19 06:37 AM
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Its more than a false rape allegation. Its wasting enforcement's time and the defamation of the accuser and the fact that a false rape allegation makes it harder for other victims to come forward and wow people are dumb
/r/MensRights22/02/19 04:27 PM
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Thank you for your service This broke my heart I was going to bring up possible age of consent and how stat rape may not be able to be used but I don't know anything about Idaho (I'm from the Carolinas ) I understand how hard it is fighting for custody even though you're obviously the one who your daughter should be with. I've seen crackheads have custody for their kids when the only thing the father did wrong was cheat. Yeah cheating is bad but I'd rather be with that than a crackhead I'd start…
/r/MensRights13/02/19 03:37 PM
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To many people money is the lost important thing. If the money isn't going to the child then why do they need it? Unless its alimony or whatever I don't understand all the bits and pieces of divorce. My mom told me for 10 years that my dad wasn't paying child support. But he was. She was just using it with all her little boyfriends and her own fun. No matter what the child comes first. As long as you have your kid's back and support them then they can get through whatever when dealing with this.…
/r/MensRights13/02/19 03:23 PM
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I hoped that helped a bit or made some kind of sense!
/r/MensRights13/02/19 03:12 PM
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I would probably feel hurt and unwanted. If they were struggling with money then I would try to understand but I would also feel like love comes first and they didn't feel that love towards me. Or not enough. I'm also a really emotional person, probably bc of how i was raised, so sometimes I'll think the tiniest things are about me. They could love me to bits but need that money but all I would see is that they're choosing money over me. If that makes sense. Not an example with kids but my dad h…
/r/MensRights13/02/19 03:11 PM
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As someone who was a child of divorce and I (now 20f) ended up living my mom, I definitely wished I was with my dad. My mom is a narcissist and terribly abusive emotionally, mentally, and physically. She would lie to my dad saying I didn't want to see him on his weekend, then she would tell me that he didn't want to see me. She told me plenty lies of my dad never wanting me and whatnot. My mother definitely shouldn't of had custody of me. I would've been so much better off, and now I'm rebuildin…
/r/MensRights13/02/19 01:05 AM
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She assisted in his suicide. She should've been the person this guy would be able to go to, the person who encourages him and supports him in gettkng help and getting better and she pushes him to the end of his life and gets 18 months? Which will probs be less on Good behavior? Its so messed up. Men already have such a disadvantage at emotional and mental health in our society. They are seen as weak and wimpy and too feminine for expressing their emotions and are practically forced to hold every…
/r/MensRights12/02/19 12:29 AM
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