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Thanks I’ll look out for it
/r/RedPillWomen07/03/22 07:25 PM
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Please elaborate about learning the lessons?
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/22 08:14 PM
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Agreed
/r/RedPillWomen17/11/20 05:12 PM
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My two kittens, food in my belly, my big beautiful brain, my senses and Netflix 💜
/r/RedPillWomen13/11/20 05:12 PM
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Wow that sounds amazing, I’ll def get those dvds! What diet did you follow?
/r/RedPillWomen26/10/20 06:55 AM
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Thank you so much, this is great advice!! I’m going to get more caramel highlights this weekend
/r/RedPillWomen26/10/20 06:54 AM
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Thank you! I’m not sure why :/ I once posted a progress pic? Could that be why?
/r/RedPillWomen26/10/20 06:54 AM
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Oh wow! This is lovely advice thank you. I have acrylic tips, in French manicure style, quite long but I do have skin that isn’t so smooth so Eurecin is a must and I’ve never thought about improving my speech 💜💜💜
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/20 07:36 PM
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😂🤣😂in the name of practice ;)
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/20 01:05 PM
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Wow I love this so much. Really great advice and beautifully written, thank you so much!
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/20 12:12 PM
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I’m too far on the not expressing myself. I only feel comfortable expressing my preferences three months in, I don’t blow up but by then they’re probably used to and bored with “the yes girl”, does that make sense?
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/20 11:42 AM
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This is very interesting. Thank you
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/20 11:19 AM
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Ooo I love this
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/20 11:19 AM
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Sure, I’m a “yes” girl, “Want to eat chicken for dinner” “yes, sure that sounds good”, “Want to watch a documentary tonight” “yes that sounds good”, “sorry I didn’t msg you when I got home last night” I reply “no problem, we all get busy sometimes”. I need to learn to offer a challenge maybe? I say yes to these things because I genuinely enjoy them
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/20 11:18 AM
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You’ve given me good food for thought. Thank you
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/20 11:16 AM
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Wow, good point!! I never thought of that
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/20 11:16 AM
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So hard to find. I don’t mind someone divorced, I definitely check their history
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/20 11:16 AM
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100%
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/20 11:15 AM
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I love this. Thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/20 11:15 AM
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Yes most dates lead to more dates and sometimes it’s me who ends it and sometimes them. These men are around my age, so I think you may be right. Thank you for your opinion I value it!
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/20 11:14 AM
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But how do you meet someone who’s ready?
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/20 07:17 AM
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Possibly didn’t put up with as much me? More boundaries?
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/20 07:16 AM
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Sorry I should’ve elaborated. Thanks for taking the time to ask for more information. I tend to meet men who are freshly single and have a part of infidelity, I live in a small town and in a country where the dating pool is small. My exes have compared me to a doll, some have said I’m too sweet and too positive (?) because I meditate every morning. I tend to be left for very masculine, hard women, that’s why I’m doubting myself and my femininity
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/20 04:38 AM
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Thank you, this is good advice. I have a large friend circle thank goodness and great family but on a subconscious level this belief could be showing in some ways
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/20 04:36 AM
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I’m so sorry, I’m sending you a hug
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/20 04:35 AM
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I’m sorry, sending you a hug
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/20 04:35 AM
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1) yes I think so, as I’m a bit on the passive side in general 2) yes, men who have shown infedelity in their past 3) no, I prefer the intellectual “dorky” look over the typical alpha look 4) yes I’ve been compared to Sofia vergara often, I do just have my last 5kg from lockdown to lose 5) yes, I go for blow outs weekly and my nails are always manicured - I’ve been compared to a doll by men on various occasions (I don’t know if this is good or bad) 6) yes I have a fulfilling job, great friends a…
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/20 04:35 AM
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I’m overly feminine and nurturing and have a great sense of humour, so I try to laugh and have fun adventures with my SO, i keep up with the news, so can always chat about current affairs, I am studying psychology and always available to chat as a best friend with unconditional positive regard
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/20 04:30 AM
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OLD and one at a sports game
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/20 04:29 AM
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Thank you for taking the time to reply. My longest has been one year in the past few years. It ended due to long distance in one case and in the other due to infidelity on his part by going back to his ex. I go on about a date a week when I’m single. I’m currently losing my last extra 5kg and work out hard 4 x a week. I’ve been told I look like Sofia vergara and compared to a doll quite a few times. I’m a teacher so incredibly nurturing, I offer lots of hand holding, massages, intellectual conve…
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/20 04:28 AM
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Thank you, this is great advice. I’m passionate about my psychology degree and gym. I’m an ex model who has been compared to Sofia vergara. I’m a bit of a “yes” girl in terms of where to go on dates etc, I’m overly feminine, some have said too feminine. I’ve been dating men who are fresh out of relationships so maybe that could be a factor?
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/20 04:25 AM
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🙌💜
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/20 06:06 AM
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What does matter in female partners?
/r/RedPillWomen23/10/20 05:20 PM
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Wow 😍🥰😍🥰🔥🔥
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 12:32 PM
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Agree. He needs to be banned
/r/askFDS15/10/20 08:06 AM
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More : Success Stories and examples of HVMs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 03:28 PM
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Saved 😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 03:18 PM
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Kyle is the new low grade Chad #fckKyle
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 03:16 PM
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Yes 😔
/r/askFDS12/10/20 11:28 AM
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Sis I’m South African and I’ve dated British and American men before and they’ve been empathetic and “gotten” it. Run from this one. Not because he’s Jamaican but because he has no empathy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 05:32 AM
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This gave me chills. So beautiful
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 09:07 PM
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Hi there, I have anxiety too and am now back on OLD, what I’ve done is I ask for a video call before meeting in person (I say because of covid) but really it helps soothe my anxiety and pick up on any negativity
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 02:32 PM
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😂🤣😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 05:35 PM
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Wow! I LOVE that!!! Thank you... definitely will use this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 01:05 AM
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Thank you! 💐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 07:02 PM
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Thank you, I ask because I get told this a lot too and left for more “bitchy” women. (Looking back I was a pickmeisha) however I met a lovely guy recently and when I gave my left over take out to a homeless man he said this to me and I just said “thanks” (secretly thought - agg Fck not again!)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 06:55 PM
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What is the best response to this? Say on the off chance a HVM says this to you and he’s genuinely a good guy?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 03:24 PM
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I love him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 03:15 PM
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Don’t worry. I went on a family vacation two weeks in - thought I was special. Realised he takes a new girl there every December. He’s in his 40’s - been doing it for 20 odd years... No one told me. I felt such a fool. Big Hampton’s style family home. Wow. What “fun” and entertainment for the whole family...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 02:12 PM
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This is amazing, I love every word... thank you Queen... 💜🙌
/r/askFDS01/10/20 10:13 AM
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Thank you so much, this is so beautiful and fills me with hope 💜💜💜 I actually am subscribed to Gaia and watch the documentaries so I’ll definitely check out the yoga. And you are right... it’s time to heal and time to love me for me, as I am...
/r/askFDS29/09/20 10:51 AM
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Your English is perfect, I was going to ask if you have a blog I could follow actually? I’ve taken screenshots of your reply and others and will read them often. You really hit the nail on the head with this post, especially the perfectionism.. I’m only allowed love when ... (I have my PhD, weigh x amount, don’t have wrinkles, or body hair etc...)
/r/askFDS29/09/20 08:20 AM
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Hi Pink Macaroons, I just finished a fit boxing class where I compared my body to everyone else’s yet again. Yes you are spot on, I do have an eating disorder and I do need to learn to love myself, not for being perfect but for being me. I’m reading this parked in my car, about to go for breakfast and I’m crying in my car. This thread is just so powerful and you ladies who have taken the time to write and share with me are incredible. Please share the steps you took to find self love. I have a t…
/r/askFDS29/09/20 08:01 AM
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Thank you for sharing, I’ve realised this is more about self love and acceptance than actual size? I’m sure you look gorgeous and dress like a Queen 😍🙌
/r/askFDS28/09/20 11:14 AM
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Thank you I will and especially some sexy jammies - so when I sleep over I still feel sexy!!
/r/askFDS28/09/20 04:36 AM
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Thank you, that’s great advice! I just had a look at kim kardashians clothes and Monica belluccis clothes for inspiration. Well done on losing 30kg, that is brilliant!!
/r/askFDS28/09/20 04:35 AM
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I wish I could upvote this 100 times! Thank you beyond words for this honest and vulnerable and beautiful advice. I’m sorry that you had to experience an eating disorder but you are so inspiring for recovering and now helping women like me. This is so beautiful and I’m going to try it tonight... Thank you!!! 💜💐🙌
/r/askFDS27/09/20 06:20 PM
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Oh gosh. This is such lovely advice, made me cry... I’ve taken a screenshot and will implement everything from tonight. Thank you 🙌💐💜
/r/askFDS27/09/20 03:51 PM
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I was still a half pickmeisha then 😔so I went to the airport with a goddam sign to welcome him!! Anyhoo after one night together I realised I had pined over a fantasy for ten years and gave him the talk. I realised what a narc he was and he had the audacity to tell me he was only interested in polyamorous relationships after his marriage dissolved. Ummm maybe tell me that over the phone before you flew around the world? So I could’ve saved you a dime!!! He was still staying at me for two more da…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 05:22 PM
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Hehe look at my comment- literally was ten years later in my case!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 04:40 PM
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Ladies I’m not joking - I had one cheat on me, marry the girl he cheated with and have a child with her and then TEN YEARS later, get a divorce, send me a msg on fb and FLY across the world for a WEEKEND to see me... Yip, they always come back and by the time they do, you’re no longer a pickmeisha - sorry bud!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 04:39 PM
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Me too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 09:49 AM
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“I’m looking for a man who treats me well and is consistent and transparent and I can only find that out after a few months of spending time together” don’t give the Love bombing narcs specifics
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 06:17 PM
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Tony Robbins and Sage Robbins
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 07:54 PM
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Hi there, thank you, that’s really great advice. I respect and admire him so much so I think I will and give it a few more sessions. Thank you again for all your great advice, I really appreciate it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 02:10 PM
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Yes we will!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 07:10 AM
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Thank you so so much for sharing so honestly and openly. I’ve been with my current therapist for four years and we mainly focus on my past but I haven’t received new tools for my present so I think you could be right. As amazing as he is maybe our journey can only go so far and it’s worth trying someone new. I’m very inspired by your words and your experience.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 04:21 AM
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Thank you 🥰🥂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 04:19 AM
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Thank you 🙌🥂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 03:32 AM
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Hehe thank you!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 03:32 AM
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“Conscious creation”, wow I love that...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 03:31 AM
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That’s exquisite, thank you so much ♥️♥️♥️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 03:31 AM
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Thanks strainingmyneurons, I agree, I’ve been with my jungian therapist for 4 years now, I really enjoy our sessions and respect him but we focus on my past exclusively and not so much on how to handle my present or how to vocalize my needs so I’m open to exploring other avenues of therapy that are more grounded in reality but I agree, he has shown me there are kind stable men out there who see me as a whole rather than as a fragmented object.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 03:29 AM
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Thank you so much for sharing, I’m going to google ACT and see if there are any ACT therapists in my area. Jungian psychology is great but it’s more spiritual than practical so ACT may be more grounded in reality and tangible changing of habits which I may need. Well done on your progress this year, you can be really proud, especially during a pandemic!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 03:27 AM
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This site has been a game changer for me. Joined last week but it’s helped me see everything so clearly. I’m happy to be in a safe space amongst kind HVW
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 07:44 PM
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Yes i am, jungian therapy. I have experienced sexual abuse and a violent upbringing so I’m wondering if DBT May be better for me? I’m open to all help and suggestions ...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 07:43 PM
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I have to vent. Ladies I’ve finally cracked. This pickMeisha is dead. It’s Jewish new year. Tomorrow I rise like a fucking Phoenix from my old life!! A HVW is BORN
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 06:52 PM
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I agree. Got to drop this pattern NOW. Tonight! Thanks redbirdflies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 06:28 PM
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Hehe I love her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 05:54 PM
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I’m still in this fcken kink. I need help. That’s why I’m here. I can’t live like this anymore. I’m sick of it. This guy is always busy on Saturday nights but I must see him thursdays and sundays???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 05:28 PM
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And same again
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 05:28 PM
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Same
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 05:28 PM
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That’s how I found this page 🙌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 09:09 AM
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Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 07:27 AM
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Same, he had ED
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 02:32 PM
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Can you send me the name of the podcast if you get a chance? Thank you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 02:31 PM
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Me too. I’m very feminine in the way I dress and have long hair, wear makeup and heels. He said I must shave under my hair, so it’s an under cut when I tie it up, that I must wear converse trainers and be more like his ex - a Harley Davidson bike rider. He also said, “I need to fatten you up so no men look at you, you’re too pretty now and it’s not good”. Took me three months to realise that was NOT a compliment
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 02:31 PM
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A bit late to the party but I’m also interested!
/r/RedPillWomen27/07/20 05:08 PM
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Hi there, may I ask what age you were when you found healthy love?
/r/RedPillWomen27/07/20 03:20 PM
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