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Very true too. You have no responsibility here.
/r/RedPillWives22/04/25 01:12 AM
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Ew wtf. How is pegging a substitute for sex for the woman. And how is someone overcompensating in other areas a healthy dynamic to strive for..
/r/RedPillWives19/04/25 10:08 AM
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I think it’s a good sign that he has been forthcoming and honest with you about an issue that would be quite sensitive to him. It’s also a good sign that he is proactive about dealing with the issue. Pumps and surgical options can be quite effective. If things are otherwise going well I don’t think it should be a cause for ending things. Any relationship has the possibility of health issues and ED from injuries, cancer, diabetes, antidepressants, so many other diseases.
/r/RedPillWives19/04/25 10:06 AM
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Honestly, I can’t with this sub anymore 🤦🏻‍♀️
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/24 09:16 PM
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Women were not put on this earth to provide satisfaction for a man. Not a husband, and not men in general. Having a husband can be part of a life, but God’s entire purpose for us is not to make a man’s life better. Do you see how you have told a confused 14 year old victim of sexual assault that a woman’s role is to provide satisfaction for a man? This is very concerning and I think you should delete your comment. To the rest of your comment: This girl DID say no and stop.
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/24 09:07 PM
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Is there a trust worthy adult you can talk to about this in real life? I want you to be getting proper support about this. What he did assault and it is illegal, and beyond support, you can also report this to the police. Kissing him does not give him consent to go further. You tried to push him away and he persisted. You also froze and he persisted. Please talk to someone in real life!
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/24 08:42 PM
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This is not the elephant in the room. No one else was thinking this. What an awful thing to say to someone who has been assaulted.
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/24 09:51 AM
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After reading all of the comments, I agree with a commenter who said this issue seems to come from validation rather than physical desire for sex, and I think this will continue to be an issue eventually in any relationship you have because it’s something you need to work on yourself if you want a long-term relationship. Sex decreases somewhat in all long term relationships. Even if it’s still a healthy amount, it will decrease in comparison to early days. This will be an issue for you in any re…
/r/RedPillWomen10/11/24 12:34 AM
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It’s normal at 34. I think you are thinking of how men are represented in movies. And comparing to horny desperate teenagers and college-aged or single, desperate guys. For men in relationships, 1-3x per week is normal and perfectly healthy! It’s not reflective at all of him not loving you or not finding you attractive. I think you need to figure out why you are so worried about this.
/r/RedPillWomen10/11/24 12:26 AM
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It sounds to me like it’s not a mismatch in libido so much as that you equate quantity of sex with being attractive, wanted and loved. There’s nothing wrong with that, but try and keep that balanced and not base your self worth on how much sex your partner wants. Sex will decrease in a long-term relationship regardless of how it is prior to getting married. It’s essential and both parties should be working to have a healthy sex life. But it will slow down in frequency compared to early days, sim…
/r/RedPillWomen10/11/24 12:20 AM
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This.
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/24 07:13 AM
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Is this all just coming from what he’s told you though?
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/24 03:34 AM
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How do you know that she knew he was seeing other women?
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/24 12:57 AM
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I read the post to my Husband and he thought your BF was being outright manipulative. Whatever happens in your relationship from here, don’t let him make you feel like you’re insane or a joke. To me it sounds like you are kind and are really trying to understand his perspective. You sound like you are very hard on yourself for normal emotions, or maybe struggle to regulate normal emotions sometimes. That’s only made worse when with someone who is manipulative. Be kind to yourself, you are not cr…
/r/RedPillWomen23/10/24 01:55 AM
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His choice of words give him away. He could have said ‘unhealthy’, ‘hurtful behaviour’ or even ‘dysfunctional’. Even ‘abusive’ is more neutral. Instead he used words that have weight and disdain behind them like ‘trashy’.
/r/RedPillWomen23/10/24 01:25 AM
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Maybe that part is subconscious and he really doesn’t get it. But regardless, the way he has responded to your history, and just how he’s responding to this… he needs to pull his head in. The main thing you can do for yourself be very firm in your boundaries. It sounds like you have been clear already. Say it again. Don’t let him downplay it. You can both apologise for hitting him in response, while also being firm in your position that you do not want to be tickled or bitten and he needs to res…
/r/RedPillWomen23/10/24 12:39 AM
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You are not in the wrong. He is. Beyond it being a natural response, you have actually asked him not to do this and he doesn’t care and continues to do so. Another worrying thing in my opinion is that he calls your natural response to pain and fear “trashy”, with no empathy towards your history of domestic violence. I think he’s at least unreasonable, maybe subconsciously manipulative, and probably a jerk.
/r/RedPillWomen22/10/24 11:06 PM
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When you say this is a mental issue, not a physical one - are you certain of this? Does he have any other symptoms of low testosterone? Or any risk factors for Diabetes? Erectile dysfunction can be an early indicator of Diabetes/elevated blood glucose. Does he take any anti-depressant medications?
/r/RedPillWives18/10/24 08:48 AM
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I can’t say if your fear of his drinking is irrational or not, because it depends on the frequency of his drinking, and the volume of his drinking. It depends on if it’s effecting his safety or health. I totally feel you with this though, because I also hate drinking and feel a bit anxious with it. I think that yes, your emotional response to him drinking is quite strong, and no, he shouldn’t have to completely stop drinking because you don’t like it. He might also be perceiving that you’re not …
/r/RedPillWomen19/06/22 02:54 AM
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That’s really sad that they actually planned it and then she changed her mind. If that’s true it’s quite bizarre! I do feel for him with that. Obviously in that case then, that changes my prior comment. Regardless, I’m not trying to say that this isn’t really sad for him. That would be awful. Especially being powerless as the father. My comments and judgement of his actions were more in regard to that he is being inappropriate with you and emotionally cheating. I’m not assuming anything, I’m jus…
/r/RedPillWomen14/06/22 06:05 PM
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Your first sentence of this post was asking members to talk some sense into you, or something to that effect. That was my intention, and not to actually insult you. I apologise, I was referring to the behaviour, and not you as a person. I was trying to speak in a no nonsense manner to be frank and get through to you. I would also argue, that you yourself are taking assumptions and interpretations about the situation in these people’s relationship to be real, but have never spoken to the girlfrie…
/r/RedPillWomen14/06/22 11:32 AM
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At this point, I think you are not open to seeing the situation from any other perspective. You also have not shown ANY compassion for the woman being cheated on and lied to. You have no care for your participation in emotional cheating and hurting another woman and a relationship. It’s quite astounding. At this point.. I think you’re just a clueless ho.
/r/RedPillWomen14/06/22 12:19 AM
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She got pregnant the first time and had an abortion, THEN he continued to have sex with her knowing very well that if she did get pregnant, she would abort. Therefore, he has equal participation. If he is dead against abortion and truly feels it’s morally abhorrent, he was not acting like it.
/r/RedPillWomen14/06/22 12:15 AM
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Looking at the edit you have made to the post - it’s not about lacking empathy for the abortion. It’s that the abortion is irrelevant to your relationship with him. It changes nothing. You’re thinking you need to save him from this relationship? Is that correct? You don’t. He is playing you. He can leave. He can discuss this with his close friends and family for support. He’s making you believe that he’s not a bad guy, just in need of saving. It’s a classic move. I think you are clinging to the …
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/22 08:37 AM
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He shouldn’t be discussing this with you, a woman he is emotionally cheating with. It’s not the same as talking about this with your friends and family. You’re not a friend, you are being kept on the bench. I’m sorry I’m being brutal. But I really think this is as clear as day. Communicating with him is engaging in cheating behaviour. This is not a good way to start a relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/22 08:27 AM
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This is not a quality man and I think you are blinded by lust. He has been emotionally cheating with you and being entirely inappropriate with you. It’s also inappropriate to be discussing such intimate details of their relationship, and her personal life with you. You are receiving only one side of the story about their circumstances, which may not even be true. If it IS true, it’s not your business, and it doesn’t change anything about the fact that this man is both unavailable to you, and is …
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/22 08:10 AM
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MrsMidwest YouTube channel & Instagram 🙂 also, Kristin Johns.
/r/RedPillWomen06/03/22 11:49 AM
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In regards to leaving taking time - could you move in with any family at all until you are able to find a new place?
/r/RedPillWomen17/11/21 10:20 PM
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It’s a rental! Why are you still there!? I would have left after the first issue with the previous tenants belongings!
/r/RedPillWomen17/11/21 03:14 PM
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Such a great response!
/r/RedPillWives09/08/21 02:50 AM
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There’s something like this already called Evie Magazine online 🙂except it’s definitely not apolitical.
/r/RedPillWomen10/07/21 04:51 AM
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RP and RPW can often lean heavy on the RP strategies for singles. I would 100% recommend focusing instead on reading the books recommended above by Laura Doyle. They are both loved by RPW and considered foundational, but focus on improving relationships rather than dating content. I personally feel Laura Doyle’s approach is the good part of RP for women, minus the heavy focus on appearance. I’m sorry that you’re dealing with this & hope things get better in your relationship!
/r/RedPillWomen30/05/21 12:02 PM
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No, This is not normal. I’m sorry you’re having to deal with this. Nothing you said was even remotely weird, let alone ‘repulsive’. If he actually said he wants to “kick you out on the streets” that is horrible. His irrational responses scare me a bit to be honest.
/r/RedPillWives05/01/21 01:54 PM
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Definitely some subtle earrings, light makeup, lashes and a winged liner! You could also tie a ribbon around your pony tail :)
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/20 02:27 PM
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He is 100% married.
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/20 10:06 PM
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