| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 415 | In order to not end up miserable, you should keep leveling up to derive power and self-esteem from other sources than LVM validation. | NAH, SIS | buttofdog | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/20 04:18 PM |
| 177 | Why the moment you remind a taken man, who has been hitting on you, that he has a girlfriend, he immediately becomes hostile? | FDS TRANSLATES MEN | buttofdog | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/20 11:26 PM |
| 84 | I wish I was born a lesbian | DISCUSSION | buttofdog | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/20 11:52 PM |
| 7 | Do you confirm meetings with your first ODL dates? If yes, when? | SEEKING ADVICE | buttofdog | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/20 10:44 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 5 | The advice I tell all my female friends when they ask me where all the good men have gone.Yeah yet another post blaming women and their decisions just because the majority of men are shitty. | /r/ExRedPill | 04/03/22 12:23 PM |
| 26 | Yes ladies! We need to start reciprocating!👏🏾Why whenever a man says he wants a "sugar momma", it's considered quirky and cute but when a woman says it, she's just a materialistic whore? It's so sad. 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 09:09 PM |
| 35 | Get a man who will show you off! If he's not proud to be with you and treats you accordingly, he ain't the one, hun!It's low. He isn't praising her for who she is, but just is showing off with "possession" of a pretty woman. More like an ego boost. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 01:17 PM |
| 3 | Man cheats on woman, publishes it in a pathetic attempt to get her back & scrotes in the comments going “You REAL for that bro! Get her back!” If it was the other way around, theyd call her a hoe & the man a simp. double standards on display right here, folks.Sooo... first question is why 10/10 woman was dating a 3/10 male? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 12:38 PM |
| 16 | I’d rather be single forever. Who the heck would ever want this life?!I thought femdom would be like having a slave or servant... not surprised to find out it's like having another child. I want my sub to give me money, let me use him as a table, etc. Exactly, by femdom I've always understood man giving a woman whole his salary, being her table, eating her out whenever she wants, wearing chastity belt and such stuff, not this pathetic shit OP has posted. It's more like mommydom. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/20 11:02 PM |
| 6 | The Best Revenge Isn't Revenge: It's SILENCE.I’ve never thought of it, it’s a genius idea! Hope iOS has this option, if not, I’ll search for some applications. Thank you ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/20 12:26 PM |
| 18 | The Best Revenge Isn't Revenge: It's SILENCE.My ex has been doing this for 1.5 years. First he threatened to kill me and burn my house via txt (he kept getting new numbers each time I blocked him), now he’s been doing the silent calls. I won’t lie, I feel anxious each time I see the phone ringing, especially at night as he has been calling me usually between 2-4am. The calls are getting rarer, the last took place a month ago (he used to spend like 100 bucks every few days on new numbers to keep spamming me with calls). If you are able to, … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/20 01:07 AM |
| 37 | 2️⃣🙅🏻♀️1️⃣🤦🏻♀️3️⃣🙎🏻♀️😂😂😂That’s genius 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/20 12:53 AM |
| 24 | Love. It's different for us. She hugs him, he feels her ass while drinking.Ew why is it always a fire woman with a below average short man. I see the same on the streets, 90% women look great while only like 1 in 20 men look properly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/20 09:18 PM |
| 5 | WHY do women subject themselves to this???Also investing in a child usually have positive results like improvement of relationship, a kid growing in a healthy and happy environment and as the time passes possibly gratitude as well. Investing in a manchild is time and energy wasted. They're ungrateful and don't respect you, and are willing to cheat on you if they have a possibility as they "deserve better". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/20 09:09 PM |
| 6 | Ladies, line up for your chance to give this man head in his car! This self proclaimed disease-free, kink-friendly cheater could be all yours (for an afternoon) for the small price of your dignity! [BARF]That's absolutely disgusting and racist approach. As if the color of the skin was a factor whether a person is "better" or "worse". I've always thought it was the novelty fetish, would have never expected this could be the "reason". Sorry to hear it, you're the best anyway <3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/20 11:51 PM |
| 9 | TruthI laughed over the story, I'm sorry hahaha. And don't stress too much over it, we all went through pickmeisha phase, some did even worse shit to impress LVM :P All the best hun <3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/20 11:22 PM |
| 37 | Truthhow his ex wouldnt be able to walk after they had sex lol HAHAHAHAH yes sure. How come the ones bragging the most are usually the worst lovers? And ye men with small/average dicks maybe want to hurt women so these can at least feel anything as they definitely don't feel their peepee during the sex. Yeah, porn addicts watched too much scripted porn, where women say "don't push, I'm so tight, it hurts" or some other bullshit of this kind and want to apply it in real life. If he didn't jack off tha… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/20 09:32 PM |
| 68 | TruthThese idiots will make up the dumbest shit to put woman down. He probably just felt insecure and tried to project this onto you instead. Sorry you had to hear this bullshit and I'm glad that you're aware that's untrue. Must have hurt in past however, I bet. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/20 09:14 PM |
| 9 | Cut off “friend with benefits” of three years five months ago and he contacted me again - what’s his motive?No, he just misses attention/sex from you. Don't fall into his trap. My exes have been contacting me at times too, usually when they're bored or their peepee feels lonely. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/20 04:52 PM |
| 12 | Why are LVM so obsessive! Small d*ck energy to the max"Please venmo me uwu" 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/20 04:25 PM |
| 7 | Why are LVM so obsessive! Small d*ck energy to the maxYes, and it's been 50s of the video and not even 1/3 of the first voice message. I'm dying. 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/20 04:25 PM |
| 20 | Why are LVM so obsessive! Small d*ck energy to the maxMy friend has the same body type too and a pretty face and long black hair, men are drooling over her when we go in public and constantly are hitting on her, usually in a vulgar and pushy way (I used to be jealous in past but I grew out of craving LVM attention + she is such a fucking queen and tells all the LVM to gtfo, instead of feeding herself with their attention). Whenever she rejects them, they tell her, she's a fat pig and they hoped that she's just easy. Or that they were hitting on her… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/20 04:11 PM |
| 9 | Ladies, line up for your chance to give this man head in his car! This self proclaimed disease-free, kink-friendly cheater could be all yours (for an afternoon) for the small price of your dignity! [BARF]I have a few Filipino friends living in UK and ALL of them try to avoid other Filipinas. They're aiming only for white women, no matter if tall, short, fat, thin, brunette or blonde - just white. I don't understand this fixation at all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/20 04:02 PM |
| 16 | this is the bare minimum ladies !My ex indeed expected ovations after taking out trash or washing up after the meal. Mentality of a 8-yo boy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/20 03:29 PM |
| 252 | TruthHaha, yeah they want a woman with a body count equal to 0 but also shame ones who never had a boyfriend as "there must be something wrong with her". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/20 03:27 PM |
| 82 | TruthWhat the hell with men pushing hands into your pants when making out? When I slapped one's face for doing it, he pushed me!!! And told me that he doesn't care if I'm a woman, he won't let anyone abuse him. When I told him that he's crazy for not noticing that he was the first one to abuse me, he answered that I had "wh0r3* vibes" and thought I wanted it. Like WHAT THE FUCK. I felt so humiliated then and it stuck with me for so long. This sub is helping me so much regaining my self-confidence tha… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/20 03:17 PM |
| 3 | These pickup artists are literally teaching men to be emotionally manipulative and to disregard boundaries. There is no reason to be kind to someone in a movement that works so hard to blatantly disrespect you. Leave, block, and delete!Omg, you're such a queen for explaining this pos right in his face. Keep it up, they shouldn't be praised for such behaviour, but other way round. I'm really sorry for his wife. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/20 11:31 PM |
| 22 | Do you ever just wonder why you still like men...Hahahaha, same story with my friend, husband blamed her for postponing maternity to 35, turned out after a year that he is the infertile one. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/20 10:09 PM |
| 9 | Why the moment you remind a taken man, who has been hitting on you, that he has a girlfriend, he immediately becomes hostile?Queen, you and I and everyone here knows exactly the reason: you caught him on his disgusting behavior, nailed it on the head, shot right at the target, caught him with his hand in the cookie jar. Hey! Thank you and I wish I could but unfortunately neither I nor any of my girlfriends know, who she is. He doesn't show her on his social media and he spoke of her only a few times in past year. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/20 12:35 PM |
| 11 | Men Are Like Buses - If You Miss One, You Can Catch Another Running 15 Minutes Behind It (Abundance vs. Scarcity Mindset)I've been getting hit by randoms on the street, who are practising PUA methods 🤮 They don't leave you alone until you reject them 3 times. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/20 02:36 PM |
| 23 | Are they even trying to get laid at this pointRemember that it's not your fault. There was a woman here posting, who worked in high fashion and her ex after a month or two chose porn over her anyway. You can be even a 11/10 but pornsick addicts will prefer fantasy over a real human-being because it's "easier". I personally avoid all men, who enjoy anime. On the other hand, there are HVM, who don't even mind if woman puts on 20kg during a bad time for her and still love her whole. Unfortunately they're the minority nowadays. Stay strong, Que… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/20 02:33 PM |
| 35 | LOUDER FOR THE LVM IN THE BACKWas supposed to be a throwaway account but I discovered a lot of nice subs for women and here I am 😂 Thanks! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/20 11:47 PM |
| 86 | From a potential date before we’d even gone out once: Sure you were joking...testing the waters then backtracking, gaslighting and when neither worked hitting me with the oh so classic angry tirade of abuse 👌Wtf with men wanting to choke new acquaintances? It's such a red flag indicating a porn-sick male. Gaslighting is disgusting too. You respect yourself and don't agree on such offers - you're the bad one with no sense of HuMoR. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/20 04:22 PM |
| 28 | DON'T chase a manSuch a queen. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 08:24 PM |
| 294 | And that’s the tea!If a dude says, he likes BDSM, I always offer him pegging. If he doesn't agree, then he just likes abusing women. Go next. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 02:27 PM |
| 43 | This! And can we please stop having society try to convince us to let a man use us like a walking sex doll in the name of “sex positivity”?It's such a lie that men need sex in order to fall in love! Fast sex only leads to lack of respect and getting ghosted shortly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 08:31 PM |
| 40 | LMAO COULD NEVERRRRR BE ME30s you say? Each of them looks like they could be the blonde lady's dad lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/20 10:35 PM |
| 3 | After stringing me along in a situationship for three months, fuckboy is now angry and upset I’m dating someone else (LONG, sorry)“What do you want now? I’ll do whatever you want.” I'm sorry if I sound harsh but he only said it because he was horny, not because he means it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/20 11:28 PM |
| 94 | Ladies, Separation and Infidelity More Common When Wife is a Patient, link in commentsYou know what? That's actually one of the saddest things. How can anyone be that heartless to leave their life-companion when they need them the most? And the phenomenon of males abandoning their families when some problems arise is too common. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/20 10:44 PM |
| 12 | Struggle is realI swear, like half of men nowadays think that watching porn and smoking weed is a hobby. And it's considered a normal and "funny" thing. Imagine a woman said she likes doing drugs and masturbating for hours in her free time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/20 10:23 PM |
| 9 | LVMs be like...Oh okay... I thought that you meant that you hate incoming future, didn't click it was the rapper's name. Still he's disgusting. But yet again, most mainstream rappers are. I on the other hand understand "she on the streets" as if the woman wasn't capable of anything else but sex work. Still both seem so wrong. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/20 08:17 PM |
| 3 | Tradwives think people are triggered by them because they’re jealous, rather than crippling anxiety that they may be making decisions that could devastate themselves and their childrenhttps://i.gyazo.com/2d792cb1349b6083121d4025664b64ee.mp4 - I've just checked and I can't change mine. I think they're given out by mods. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/20 06:57 PM |
| 19 | Tradwives think people are triggered by them because they’re jealous, rather than crippling anxiety that they may be making decisions that could devastate themselves and their childrenI am a tradwife in my early 40's desperately trying to get out after 20 years of this shit. The ONLY people triggered over jealousy are the dummies who mistakenly want to be tradwives.Thankfully, I did get a bachelor's degree before becoming a slave. My escape plan won't be as harrowing as some others'. Good for you! 40 isn't late AT ALL. It won't be easy but you'll make it. Cheering for you my dear <3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/20 06:34 PM |
| 62 | Didn’t mention anything about having kids/had “doesn’t want any” in his profile, and the humble brag sprinkle of “hehe I have so many women interested in me!” was laughable. Unmatched.Always block without giving any feedback or even mean comments. Fuck them. Males have sex with women and then ghost them. Block is nothing compared to this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/20 10:46 PM |
| 5 | Peak Pickmeisha humor is promising blow jobs in exchange for basic responsible adult behavior🤮 🤮 🤮 🤢 🤢 🤢 imagine being fine with men valuing you only for being a c*mdumpster | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/20 10:43 PM |
| 9 | Yet another example of the importance of abiding by the FDS rules - woman goes beyond her way to prepare nice date and ends up being used like a sex doll by NVMWhen something similar happened to me during my pickmeisha days, I thought there was something wrong with me and maybe the boy felt disgusted with me during sex and a lot of other ridiculous thoughts. Young women are so brainwashed, they take blame for everything males do wrong. I hope more and more girls and women discover this sub. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/20 10:07 PM |
| 183 | Gay men are proof that men are perfectly capable of understanding how to groom themselves to be more physically attractive, it’s just that straight men don’t give a single fuck how women feel and figured out its easier to just collectively bully us to lower our standards.Gay men know that they need to be attractive themselves if they want an attractive partner. None of my gay male friends would date "down" in looks unless the other person was mega rich. Unfortunately, my female friends will often date guys below their league because they think they'll get treated better (they don't). Thus perpetuating a cycle of low effort, entitled straight men. The myth of ugly "nice" guys treating women better than the handsome ones is one of the biggest lies! They're even wo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/20 08:26 PM |
| 38 | You can‘t win being sexualized by men.I’m too shy to call such disgusting creeps out but if any woman did it next to me, I’d applaud her loudly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/20 12:49 AM |
| 13 | The bile!It's called "Hate Cat Calling? Try Blow Up Boyfriend" and features exactly what the title says: Because men only leave you alone when another guy is with you, you can "purchase" a blow-up-doll in form of a man. Yeah, being honest with these fragile-ego males is just asking for trouble. Polite "I'm not interested" will probably end up in a verbal abuse directed at you afterwards. Stuff like "I was joking, you dumb bitch" or "You're ugly anyway" etc. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/20 10:30 PM |
| 4 | I can’t decide which one is more shameful here...the girl, the guy, or the parents letting this happen.Her eyes look dead though. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 11:51 PM |
| 35 | Nothing will change his mind if he’s decided he doesn’t want you.All men do (or at least they rate themselves 3-4 points higher than they really are), even such trashy as in OP. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 03:51 PM |
| 10 | Nailed it.My guess is r/niceguys | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/20 07:11 PM |
| 26 | Basic redditor starterpackWow, that actually sounds so smart. I'm perfectly sure you're right, I've looked through this sub and they give women much prettier than me (some of them basically model tier) 5/10! Insane! edit: your analysis is smart, not incels obviously | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/20 04:19 PM |
| 32 | Basic redditor starterpackI'm 7/10 and if this is my looksmatch according to males, I'd rather stay single forever. 🤢 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/20 04:03 PM |
| 8 | Gf stays in shape, bakes for him, and has sex whenever he wants and he still insults her...and she wonders if she should stay!!Heck, same. By early stage of dating I meant like ~10-15 dates already, not first obviously. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/20 06:36 PM |
| 16 | Gf stays in shape, bakes for him, and has sex whenever he wants and he still insults her...and she wonders if she should stay!!That's why I stopped doing more than bare minimum for men. Early stage of dating and he pays me a visit? I bake a frozen pizza or tell him to order something to eat. I used to prepare nice meals with desserts, was basically serving myself, but it was never appreciated. I mean, even if I didn't do it, the man would still be interested in me because they only want sex and everything extra is a nice addition. Fuck them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/20 06:17 PM |
| 74 | Ladies, when you hear a "I did nothing and she suddenly went crazy for no reason" type of story, rest assured it's complete bullshit and the guy is omitting a lot of things to make the girl look insaneMy ex was trying to convince me to have condomless sex, but I strongly disagreed because I cannot take hormones (even if I could, I wouldn't want to) and didn't want to get pregnant. One day when we came back from the party, I was really drunk and he basically started to fuck me (I wasn't much aware of what's going on). He did it obviously without the condom and finished inside of me like 2 min later during my fertile days (I had to take day-after pill...). I basically immediately sobered up whe… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/20 11:06 PM |
| 15 | Finally found my HVM ladies!!! 🤗 He's totally into talking about feminism with his homeboy and didn't even mean to let me know about it. Hello hubby 😍Holy, I have physically cringed. That’s one of the most ridiculous things I’ve seen recently. The whole txt is awful but the fact he sent all of these in one message is an overkill. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/20 12:21 AM |
| – | Not having a father to show you how to be a man is not an excuse to be a piece of shit. Fatherless men can be good men if they want to be.It blows my mind, when these cretins blame women for the fact that their partner was a manchild and escaped the moment, the woman got pregnant. Fathers running away from children should be ostracized by the society, not like it takes place currently. Single moms not only have to bear with ungrateful sons but also struggle with people around judging her. I've recently heard some male saying that if a mother is single it's purely her fault because "she chose a wrong man" or "she was the bitch, the… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/20 03:47 PM |
| 14 | A PickMeisha in the wildhttps://us.pandora.net/en/jewelry/timeless-elegance-collection/timeless-elegance--synthetic-ruby-clear-cz/190947SRU.html Lmao, it's a $50 ring. I'd be embarassed to propose myself with something like this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/20 08:07 PM |
| 4 | One of the top comments: “me considering this at 15 👁👄👁” Lord this generation is gone.. Girls are objectifying themselves more than ever.Holy fuck, this car of hers costs about 10k, she probably also spent half of her money for LV stuff and shows off on the video with max another 10k. Yeah definitely the money to lose dignity for. She would have advanced in any other job and by 30 hit the same salary but it actually requires hard work, not just letting creepy old men touch your 🐱 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/20 05:58 PM |
| 52 | some men need to learn thisThank you very much! I'm trying to, this sub helps me a lot. This "friend" of mine has shown sooo many red flags listed here but I never really considered his behaviour a deal-breaker. I should have however. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/20 08:38 PM |
| 223 | some men need to learn thisSame here but other way round. I gained 15 kg in a very short time span due to a medical condition (I'm tall so I didn't become obese but I'm not skinny anymore). A friend of mine, whom I've known for 6 years, and we've been meeting 2-3 times a year, after the last meeting ghosted me completely!!! We shared so much in common but the moment I became "unfuckable", he erased our whole friendship. It shook me really hard, I'm annoyed even now when I type this comment. Men at work stopped with the sm… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/20 08:18 PM |
| 1 | Put in the effort with this guy. Try again else where, I guess 🤷🏼♀️I hope he doesn’t pay you a visit. I’ve had such thing happen to me when I invited a LVM too early. I had to tell him that if he does it again, I’m calling the police. All the best sis, stay strong! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/20 11:59 PM |
| 10 | So if I get correctly a girl either swallow cum or rub it on her face,while being grateful for it????Im wondering if a scrote would agree on me pissing on his face if he wants to cum that much on mine. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/20 11:44 PM |
| 18 | This subreddit has completely changed how I value myself as a woman.FDS helped me understand that there’s nothing wrong with not settling down for LVM or even NVM. My family is pressuring on me to find anyone just for the sake of not being single as it’s “not appropriate for women my age”. Thanks to FDS I’ve regained my confidence and will not agree on dating a burden, even if it meant I was supposed to remain single forever. Congrats to you sis, very inspiring post. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/20 07:37 PM |
| 32 | Don't fight for anyone's attentionIf you fight for his attention, he will never appreciate you long term. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/20 06:25 PM |
| 160 | They start young...I'm afraid this little psycho might rape some woman in the future for real. It's scary that his parents are pretending, that nothing is happening. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/20 04:25 PM |
| 3 | Never again, mom, I promise!My ex got arrested for accidentally walking into a crime scene, then because of that he lost his job, so we moved back in with his mom, and then he started cheating on me and I moved out. So he lost his job, his apartment, and his long-term girlfriend, and got a police record. I won't lie, I laughed. He fully deserves, what happened to him for cheating on you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/20 01:22 PM |
| 21 | i lost brain cells reading this.I'm not using Tinder myself but I've seen enough screenshots and wondering myself too, why the heck are they all that angry? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/20 12:49 PM |
| 13 | On an askreddit about 1st time sex workers... I wish women would stop playing into pedo fantasiesI’m proud of you. I know it must have influenced your self-esteem but remember it’s not your fault that your ex is a sick and damaged disgusting pedo. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/20 12:20 AM |
| 3 | You can admit you miss and care for a LVM ex, that is okay, but don't let it fuck your shit up.Never get tricked into becoming friends with him again. He will just use you and drain your energy off. He’s definitely a toxic person. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/20 12:16 AM |
| 50 | Mixed signals = no.It’s worth remembering that if a man isn’t crazy about you in the early phase of the acquaintance, it won’t change later on. Probably only for the worse. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/20 11:58 PM |
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