TheRedArchive

~ archived since 2018 ~

buzluu Archive

View 0 posts and 63 comments by buzluu on TheRedPill subreddit and various other subreddits related to The Red Pill community.
Search in:
In subreddits:
More
Filter by year/month:
Upvotes Title Category Author Subreddit Date (UTC)
Upvotes Comment on Subreddit Date (UTC)
6

They believed only chad guys could be w girls,that belief is destroyed,buf after that they have to understand and be happy and try to be w girls right? nope,they try to go on accelerationist way,abuse the work even if its not working,cause we can make it worked.Whats goin on there is probably their deep cause of their pain root is fragile covert narcisistic belief system,scaring uncertainity,lack of trust in environment self etc,toxic shame,and power complex.A women who has freedom or free auton…
/r/ExRedPill08/05/25 07:39 PM
1

Mgtow could be good,be a man understand and explore your nature jn solitude,what is bad is staying and spending all your time in disappointment,and feeling loser and champion at the same time.Things can change,or u can "change" people.I dont know,its hard,but in the being of adult,there are lots of skills could save you or your time.
/r/ExRedPill23/02/25 12:04 PM
15

You see people like shells,getting inside of them will grant you beatiful realm that all gonna make you happy,so you know this fantasy its not real,so you tricking yourself only so beatiful shells could give u this and these guys or girls couldnt look at you so you could live in your self guarding cycle. Thats not how it works,beeing seen,being understood,being bold person ,wanting what u want,knowing what u want,able to get that,able to fix or get out of problems,or having some kinde of unique …
/r/ExRedPill24/01/25 12:22 PM
1

They like talkin about their insecurities and share them online,and then looking at it and believe it like facts.İnsecurities are normal,these guys lost their mind for the idea of charisma.
/r/ExRedPill22/01/25 09:49 AM
4

İn postmodern world every repressed tought is showin up in the surface,so narcisistic women toughts could be show up,i know its really hard to find a way in very confusing and apathic world,but its not a womens world its a humans world so if u r in therapy and carin yourself u can always tell the other person u talkin "u r rude and i dont wanna talk w u anymore,im looking for emotionally supportive and mature partner".Caring your needs and knowin what u want could give u more power than redpill.
/r/ExRedPill25/12/24 02:20 PM
1

İ used to feel like you,so i stoped game.I asked myself,am i a joke machine.People say be more vulnerable,just try to understand your needs,you really wanna fuck or want someone who is willing to be there when you fall off,or gonna support you. İf being a seducer,polygamy is not your authentic self,dont try that. Could you really show sexual interest without tryna be seducer,maybe with dignity you gonna touch your authentic self more and feel comfortable not being a jester for women.if you wanna…
/r/seduction25/08/24 02:25 PM
–

Hi bro,got you.İ wasnt good w women in my youth,so i always check internet for pick up advice,somehow i believe if i date or sex lots of women,i ll be real man.İ ve become valuable.Or its just a jealousy hatred and envy,towards who have,power,to be in love sex etc.But also i am making empathy and leaving people behind is bad,and also so afraid of ashamed and humilation,self.Basicly shame,inner shame.My redpill process lasted so short actually,cause i ve always know and see couples who is not hol…
/r/ExRedPill24/07/24 02:00 PM
1

You could go and play boardgames,go for language exchange nights.Be curious about people,ask them about their passions.Have a genuine interest about them.Just say wbat u like about them without asking or waiting something back.And have fun.
/r/ExRedPill22/07/24 09:09 AM
2

Bro your condition and your question is basicly the answer is why they r f up a**holes.Ok lets be gentle,they have lack of empathy or smaller perspective of life,they are trying to give their life a meaning via becoming sex boss or something.My opinion is,they feel like the men jn the street or young boys or so sad cause they couldnt have sex(that could be true in some point),but the reality is this is not the only problem or only aspect of it.They only see this and talk like only thing which is…
/r/ExRedPill10/07/24 05:53 PM
3

İts great to have dreams mate,on the other hand,we should wait compassion from people,not from the systems.First we need to heal ourselves,then we can look at the others.Cause our fixer parts,sometimes just ideology of "no painful events happened to me".So maybe choosing to be a therapist could be good too.
/r/ExRedPill19/05/24 11:43 PM
2

You could create your own social circle,but there is no guarantee that gonna give you your dream life.So its a sacrifice, some says,we should give up on our dream life,and just livin.
/r/ExRedPill18/05/24 11:39 AM
2

Google toxic shame bro.When we feel that,we feel we are shit in the inside and no one want to be with us.You could work on that and become better.
/r/ExRedPill04/05/24 07:07 PM
1

Ask this question this way,why i feel i make myself depressed when i see pretty women,when i like them,and what i gain from that depression feeling.
/r/ExRedPill05/04/24 11:48 AM
1

İmo you feeling some kind of jealousy towards them,their needs and emotions always seen but yours not.And you feel like she has options and you dont,shes seen but you dont seen and it make u feel like there is an inequality in there,you have to be same,there is injustice here,there is someone stealing your rights. So you want to be seen,you want to make seen your needs,on the other hand if you ask that,or if you be ok with that,you are not gonna be Alpha man and not gonna get all the women you w…
/r/ExRedPill25/02/24 08:02 PM
1

Loving women is hard for men,cause there is no guarantee that says everything gonna be well(it could be same for women too).You have to be your own(it could trigger some abondonment trauma) and figure out the situations you struggle,you need to listen your and her emotions.Most of the time stove is ourselves,our feelings,we dont want to touch them again to feel alive again,only alive people feel pain.
/r/ExRedPill25/02/24 07:48 PM
2

When you love them its easier to have an empathy.
/r/ExRedPill24/02/24 08:13 PM
1

İ mean nice guy syndrome.Being liked by others and being comfortable is more important than showing your intentions to a girl.You could chek this.link
/r/ExRedPill27/08/23 09:46 AM
1

Maybe you are too "good" or too "nice".Have you ever felt you wanna go date with them but supress yourself in the middle or supressing yourself in the first time.
/r/ExRedPill26/08/23 09:32 AM
12

You didnt write it openly,but do you mean,could we trust women cause they love or tried casual sex?
/r/ExRedPill23/08/23 09:49 PM
3

Imo you should go to bookstore and find a psychology book which is good for your own situation.I know some books,didnt read all,but you could check them. Running empty:Emotional neglect,by jonnis webb. Self compassion by kristin neff. Mark Mansons books and blogs. Feeling good by david burns Reinventing Your Life : How to Break Free from Negative Life Patterns and Feel Good Again by jeffrey young I dont know if you have any trauma from your childhood or abusive parents,but if its yes maybe you s…
/r/ExRedPill23/08/23 10:14 AM
5

İf you hate yourself,it could be shame inside you and toxic shame buddy.ar u trying to consume more positive psychology videos?
/r/ExRedPill22/08/23 06:43 PM
3

İ love mark manson too
/r/ExRedPill19/08/23 05:37 PM
1

Happy cake,in islam its sin for both genders.
/r/ExRedPill13/08/23 11:19 PM
1

What does it mean 110 i dont understand.İf i was you i call her to go for a walk at the park,drink tea in the cool japanese or chinese coffe shop,then eating ice cream from some famous shop and petting and feeding some cats.But thats the way i like to live,i mean i am actually inviting her my normal happy or normal selected life.İf she say yes,its Cool,if she says no its still cool. Other than that what i read from mark manson,the experience we shared together is that what makes bonds good.So tr…
/r/ExRedPill05/08/23 11:23 PM
1

Imo problem is norm or feeling not enough.
/r/ExRedPill04/08/23 04:40 PM
1

Who knows,really
/r/ExRedPill01/08/23 09:32 AM
1

They hate themselves,cause they couldnt do nothing about peoples change.Men need to look up and think to revize the societys masculine values.We are,males,are more than provide and die in war stereotype.Btw we are depressed cause that two values is not needed rn.On the other hand actually as men,we are not that small in anytime of history to stuck in these two norms but we believed it. And as extra,we feel attacked,cause we livin in the traditional male shell and we dont know any other way of be…
/r/ExRedPill28/07/23 03:47 PM
4

You have,one ideal life in your mind,and once you cannot reach it,you feel suck. Seeking porn everday make us wanna fxck all the time.In his book,robert glover suggests us,try to get a distanve with sex for a little bit time.That could break our sex obsession. And ask yourself,What if the reason you were unhappy wasn't because you couldn't find a girlfriend?Sometimes,we hide our real unhappines with something else. Find something to make you feel excited to return home,i dont know,create somethi…
/r/ExRedPill27/07/23 12:00 AM
4

Life is not youtube videos,or dating apps,but seeing this trigger somethings inside you,some trauma,found that,it could be that fear of being not loveable etc. All these videos manosphere etc,triggering these,if you consume that content all you will do just pushing your finger through your wounds.So please keep healthy content,like doctor k(healthy gamer). Found your wound,try to found it cause,try to share it with safe people.
/r/ExRedPill19/06/23 12:54 PM
1

İ saw his videos about fear,it was good.And loneliness statics and how we need human connection is good too.On the other hand hes content actually shows the online dating failures etc. cause everyone looking for perfect in there while most of us are just avarages(btw thats completely ok cause what we make us good and together our values and caring for each other).So i know only that content of him,maybe some of guys could watch that videos and become sorry cause they think online dating is the o…
/r/ExRedPill18/06/23 11:01 PM
1

This is your mindset(probably)"Your value=sex,women have lots of sex options,they have high value,i couldnt so i dont have any value,other guys could do that so they have value too."And when you feel piece of shit you couldnt stand to feel it again and again so hatred and jeoulsy come on surface as projection towards others.But there is a wrong thing in this mindset. "If you need to feel valuable to get sex or relationship,how could you get that value without having sex?"its like a tail biting d…
/r/ExRedPill17/06/23 04:22 PM
1

True,shadow work and active imagination great tools to try.
/r/ExRedPill07/06/23 02:46 PM
3

You look good bro,and after some time your beauty doesnt become a big deal,cause our brain evolved to seeing our close people to in the same level of beauty.I mean after some time,you dont care your ugliest friends ugly,and your hottest friends hottnes.Your brain get used to it.
/r/ExRedPill07/06/23 09:01 AM
13

Bullsh*t,how many women you slept never gives you a value,valie could be comes from within.And as Carl Jung said,who look outside dreams,who look inside wakes up.External never should be your value source,cause its temporary.Last but not least,why p*ssy is not holy grail
/r/ExRedPill07/06/23 08:55 AM
4

Theres nothing to shame about you goin therapy,we werent born in perfect familys,and we didnt choose the thing happened us and which are effected us,im supporting all my friends,who goin therapy,cause i wanna go too.👍❤️
/r/ExRedPill03/06/23 07:01 PM
3

İmproving yourself is a general dating advice cause you love yourself,you are creating a garden,and butterflies love it and comin,you are not chasin butterflys.You still have to ask girls btw.The point is there is no guarantee of that type of activites will give you a pertect relationship,or lots or girls etc.If redpill says that,thats complete lie.On the other hand,yes,these are attractive attributes and women could love that. When i talk about redpill,i mean the ideology of like,"women couldnt…
/r/ExRedPill01/06/23 07:46 PM
8

İ ve read an article on net,author said,"They cannot cope with uncertainty." For me,i ve felt unlovable sometime,and try to "fix" myself and my behaviours,to be loved.But sometime passed,and i ve felt like i am lying myself and others with all that behaviours,and i saw happy and understanding each other,humble,genuine couples around me.It was like cognitive dissonance for me.So i slowly understood happy relationships are possible while you being yourself,now im tryna do inner work,and journal.
/r/ExRedPill01/06/23 10:54 AM
1

Dating apps like "perfect men,women" finding place,kinda narsisitic,place,i believe it makes people seen as objects,not as human beings,so fuck off the apps,but in real life,for example you loved a girl and spent good time with her,she can think like oo maybe he can find better one,but you accepted as who she is before the meeting before the date or maybe you loved her in the date you said ok,i can go with her,you dont want anybody,you good with her if the relationship goes ok both for you your …
/r/ExRedPill08/05/23 11:49 AM
0

You have to do your best every single time without thinking them cause thinking doesnt change anything.
/r/ExRedPill08/05/23 11:31 AM
2

Narsist and other persons relation is actually a relationship of two wounded kids,some psychologist say,i didnt read the whole post,but you felt like you kinda need him,i dont know maybe codependency,imo saw that as a important opportunity to understand yourself better,inner child and inner wounds,and heal inner you. For narsist,you shouldnt take things personally,his mind is fucked up,his feeling of worthy mechanism is fucked up so he doesnt understand if he feel low from when he is someone nea…
/r/ExRedPill07/05/23 11:26 PM
8

Love is beyond objects,and i think "redpill love "could be like trauma bond or manipulation towards women who doesnt have much experience.It feels like kinda control desire.
/r/ExRedPill21/04/23 09:18 AM
1

Manipulations towards them,some girls and boys doesnt feel they have self worth or self love,so they searching someone to fill that space,or there is a theory,people love who is familiar,for example your dad is abusive is not caring,you gonna feel the spark in your brain to met that people who is like your dad,some people think its love,but its actually a trauma bonding,your brain tryna find a person with a same attitude cause at the end your brain wanna live the same situation but with a differ…
/r/ExRedPill20/04/23 10:41 AM
1

İ see so you are in different position and author say you should be like them,but you are not like "them",and its frustrating,am i understand correct? And for your last question,in the end,i have to feel like at least one confident particle in me,to do something.
/r/ExRedPill05/04/23 07:41 PM
1

First of all i wish you the best things for your life,i know discussions go nowhere but maybe i can share my perspectives for you and you can tryna look at from my side,and maybe you can find yourself something you liked. In the book,its not about projecting statues,its about being the statues,loving yourself,and trying to do something for your own life,and others.its a beatiful thing and its reflecting on your life as a status.(also,social status) Confident means a skill to telling what you wan…
/r/ExRedPill05/04/23 07:08 PM
0

So i see when we talk about "redpill" we talk about different things,in my mind redpill is,"women choose more powerful and people have more status everytime they get a chance,(hypergami),so you have to be so powerful etc,and cause of that women cant love like men,showing emotions and crying in front of your women is weekness,you should always hold your frame,you should always remind that they cant love you really,they love only your options,you should change plates(make love and flirt lots of wo…
/r/ExRedPill05/04/23 04:05 PM
1

Nooo,😂,its common book that advised in Reddit seduction community book so i understand maybe you tought its a redpill mindset book, but i read once and i can say its hundred percent not redpill,and just look the title of the book,"models,attract women with honesty",basicly "be yourself"idea,but grounded,i advise everyone,if you have a doubt get a copy,i was used to trying to be someone else and not being myself,and that book helped me like a medicine.
/r/ExRedPill05/04/23 02:33 PM
4

Welcome bro,or girl
/r/ExRedPill05/04/23 12:10 PM
-2

İt means,he has some scars inside,as a man,i thought like that,you cant change him,but you can be your bestself,and he can look at you,and tell,no,no all the women is like that guys told me so far,maybe you can remind him he is loveable with small stuff,maybe buying small gifts,giving him a birthday cake, listening him more carefully,apreciate him when he done something good,maybe complimenting him when he wear good,something like that,meanwhile,maybe some flashs gonna flickr on his mind"hmm,im …
/r/ExRedPill05/04/23 12:08 PM
1

What do you mean
/r/ExRedPill04/04/23 03:55 PM
2

Your in loop,you are nervous when you meeting girls,but your shamin about being nervous,being nervous is ok,i suggest you this article,this and this ks amazing
/r/ExRedPill29/03/23 02:19 AM
2

You can check no more mr nice guy,by robert glover(psychiatrist),i suggest it cause if you are nice guy,you just dont say anythinhlg bad about people but put that emotions inside you and making passive aggresive behaviours,or if you are nice guy you just act good to women for waiting something return,and if its not happens you gonna be angry,something like that,you can check that,second is i didnt read that one but i watched summary on youtube its quite useful book,courage to be disliked,maybe i…
/r/ExRedPill28/03/23 10:39 PM
1

what you believe you will attract into your life,maybe you should check healthy relationship around you for breaking your false toughts,cause your brain tryna make u believe lots of wrong shit,and when we see bad things happening around us or in internet we can feel hard to trust,or generalize whole people.Other than that people can give lots of signals,and emphatic skills of women is %30 better than men.I mean you can check some obvious behaviours. When I was ready to look for a serious relatio…
/r/ExRedPill25/03/23 10:46 AM
1

İf your style is goth,or you wanna try new style,you can paint your nails,do you know lipstick is created for men actually,then banned by church,then become repopular again,also you know romans wear skirts and think pantys are(basic jeans) are "feminine",everything is constructed bro,dont stick yourself upon the constructed things,cause when they are gone you feel like nothing,create yourself within yourself,ofc society is important,but this is anothe discussion topic,see ya
/r/ExRedPill19/03/23 12:08 PM
1

Women testerone level is rising,mens level going low,and its gonna make problems about populating in future
/r/ExRedPill17/03/23 06:50 PM
6

İ found 32 year old women on some dating app,she was doing yoga,and she was hot,and i ve never thought like i have to found younger,it will all gone,until he finds you and says its ok no problem :)
/r/ExRedPill17/03/23 12:57 PM
1

That was a problem for me too,i didnt know how to view women,first i dont understand how could i want to fuck and love women at the same time,then i realized i dont know how to really love women,it was sad experience,then i realize,all i need to do is understanding,caring,and loving myself,cause people are reflections of us,i tried hoonoponopono and it felt great and made me understand that concept more,as aristo said,the friendship that you build with others,starts from the friendship you build…
/r/ExRedPill15/03/23 02:57 AM
2

İf you didnt read four agreements by don migueul ruiz,it can help you in someway,otherwise,you have to rewire your thinking,friendly and encouraging way,like change that archetypes you put yourself with these İ am bad,i am not good with women,im not funny,im not real guy.They are your assumptions about yourself. For being an alpha guy try this İ am a guy,bioloigicaly,its a fact,and as i know my hormones are fine,and we all have the same mind capacity of general things in generally,so most people…
/r/ExRedPill20/02/23 12:55 PM
2

Youre welcome :)
/r/ExRedPill16/02/23 08:33 PM
3

Models is nice,i think no more mr nice guy is good too,authour is a therapist and he tells why people become nice guys and why its actually mask and why its not interactive and how to fix that(no it doesnt turn u bad guy) İ didnt read but people suggest book called courage of being disliked İf you didnt read little prince,you can read it too,cause why not
/r/ExRedPill16/02/23 06:52 PM
1

And in my opinion you can chat with someone ordinary things then you can ask for her him number,there is no one correct and one wrong,everything is possible
/r/ExRedPill11/01/23 06:10 PM
3

My other point is,for cold approach, i think women don't like and dislike men who take a long time in cold approach, can't say what they have to say and still don't quit when they get the no, Mark's approach breaks this approach anyway, making the cold approach much more honest and much more "try and if not, continue" mindset.And there is a video of dr robert glovers wiev on approach video
/r/ExRedPill11/01/23 06:06 PM
0

The thing about women who hates cold approach,yeah they can hate it,but most of the time they hate being objectified(i dont know actually im not women,this is dr robert glover argument).And while you continue read models you gonna understand the Marks core point. So if you read models its says ok sometimes some people dont like your cold approach but thats ok,you can find someone will like why not.This is Mark Mansons point. And Robert Glover says,beside that,just learn to get and understand sig…
/r/ExRedPill11/01/23 05:48 PM
5

Yeah people love people with flaws,cause love js a human thing,and humans are creatures with flaws
/r/ExRedPill10/01/23 07:13 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.
created by /u/dream-hunter