buzzer22 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	My attraction to my wife has gone away almost completely. Love all the downotes here, reveals the crowd. Lets imagine the conversation that makes it clear to her based on reasons given in the original post. I agree no one should have to stay in a marriage they don't want to be in: "I'm sorry honey but I need a divorce. Mostly I need someone fitter to have sex with. Not having a job for a year after being laid off makes the decision easier even though we are okay on my income. Be one thing if you lost that baby weight after I put two in you, and you try…	/r/Divorce_Men	31/05/26 05:17 PM
-12	My attraction to my wife has gone away almost completely. Maybe she actually got to know you and you couldn't put up with someone knowing you that well . Much easier to find somebody new and have them think you're the greatest thing for a while. She might deserve someone less shallow anyway.	/r/Divorce_Men	31/05/26 03:15 AM
3	Finding love at 40 with 4 kids? You are a spring chicken still	/r/Divorce_Men	09/04/25 12:25 AM
1	Ex is depressed and wants to die 2yrs out from the divorce He could trust God still has plans for his life that he has not discovered yet. I don't know how to guarantee a person to get to that conclusion in their life. Depression can gobble us up in one gulp.	/r/Divorce_Men	09/02/24 08:23 PM
-1	Ozempic, weight loss and divorce Losing weight is easier for some people than others. People here agree with you she is lazy and the drug allows her weight to be addressed in a way that is risky with little effort. And here you want to use her laziness as a reason to divorce .... risky with little effort. If you already know you want to divorce her, maybe this becomes part of many reasons. Alone, without other contexts, kind of weak I would say. If you can't or won't accept her like this, you would know, not us.	/r/Divorce_Men	08/09/23 02:01 AM
0	I messed up Is disrespectful, not in same universe as cheating	/r/Divorce_Men	27/05/23 12:25 PM
2	I messed up No it's not	/r/Divorce_Men	27/05/23 12:24 PM
2	If you think your spouse is cheating, and she already insisted on a divorce, should you give a crap? If the divorce is not certain to occur and she wants you back, perhaps some validation would help make the correct decision.	/r/Divorce_Men	27/02/23 10:12 PM
-1	If you think your spouse is cheating, and she already insisted on a divorce, should you give a crap? Your heart knows how easily she would do this, so it doesn't matter if it is true or not, doesn't change what your heart knows. You have more to potentially gain by moving on unless she is in danger.	/r/Divorce_Men	27/02/23 10:08 PM
3	Anyone else find it hard to be around their married friends? I am not divorced yet and everyone knows we have problems and still hard to be around married friends.	/r/Divorce_Men	11/06/22 12:30 AM
2	How long does it take to stop loving your ex wife? If you ever truly loved her, a piece of you will always care for her. Shouldn't be a problem unless is hurting best interests of someone important	/r/Divorce_Men	10/06/22 01:01 AM
6	Does anybody else feel bad for Will Smith? No	/r/Divorce_Men	28/03/22 09:39 PM
5	How do you get over feeling responsible for the devorce? Shows you have some humility and integrity if you truly take some responsibility. Personally, I'm having issues taking responsibility for negative developments in my marriage.	/r/Divorce_Men	22/03/22 03:43 AM
1	I am a divorced dad, but I need advice on a new relationship where I have to either commit to emotional change or end the relationship. Ok doesn't sound like she is emotionally manipulating you with sex then	/r/Divorce_Men	31/10/21 03:24 PM
5	I am a divorced dad, but I need advice on a new relationship where I have to either commit to emotional change or end the relationship. Sex has ceased? If sex is important to you and she knows it.... Get Out.	/r/Divorce_Men	31/10/21 02:54 PM
1	10 years, 2 kids under 18, virginia There are lots of couples imploding during and after these difficult times. So you aren't the only one. Any touch of depression among folks beforehand didn't help either. I also think that there is some truth to folks misplacing blame for the pandemic on their spouses, or even believing they are the only ones suffering from their unique cocktail of pain, when it is clear that many people have had difficulties. It seems ironic that a couple has to be a fantastic team to pull off divorce respectfu…	/r/Divorce_Men	31/07/21 02:24 PM