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| 1 | The belief that women’s lives are much easier is exaggeratedLol k. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/21 10:57 PM |
| 1 | The belief that women’s lives are much easier is exaggeratedA woman accusing a man of playing victim. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/21 10:03 PM |
| 1 | To the men who claim marriage is bad for men..Yet it’s under this new context that some men argue that women benefit “more than men” from marriage. There is a massive omission in your illustration of the modern context: The introduction of no-fault divorce. Before no-fault divorce, it was nessecary to prove misconduct on the part of the spouse in order to get a divorce. You couldn't just get bored and walk away from the not-so lifetime commitment. This alone has had horrific consequences for society as it gave us the age of fatherless child… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/21 05:43 PM |
| 7 | To the men who claim marriage is bad for men..she was a dependent, even raping your wife was legal. I'm sure there's already a term, but I'll just coin the term, "legalism fallacy". The fallacy being either, A) Because an activity was not explicitly outlawed, it was socially acceptable, ubiquitous or otherwise practiced in any appreciable degree. B) Because an archaic law remains on the books out of inertia, that it's legality is indicative of the relevant activity being ubiquitous, socially acceptable or appreciable in it's degree of pract… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/21 03:35 PM |
| 5 | To the men who claim marriage is bad for men..She was given away by her father, Lack of parental consultation is one of the major causes of modern pair-bonding dysfunction. Young people as it turns out, do not have the best judgement. When you realize that the main function of marraige was the stable transition of wealth from one generation to the next, it should be clear why mate selection was heavily a function of the patriarch's wishes(again, let's not pretend mother's weren't making decisions here as well). Today, we know how broken fam… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/21 02:41 PM |
| 18 | To the men who claim marriage is bad for men..In the past marriage meant a man owned his wife essentially as a piece of property. No it did not. This is a reductionist smear against traditional marraige. In most marriages, the wife held a great deal of responsibility and authority over the finances and management of the household and rearing of the children. She was not expected to be a mindless automaton that could not be entrusted to unilaterally execute important tasks without the husband micromanaging everything after a long days work. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/21 02:15 PM |
| 1 | Modern fathers are responsible for 99% of "slutty"/sexually dysfunctional womenThat's actually one of the biggest reasons why liberalism is a terrible ideology. It is absolutely powerless against it's own subversion. That's why corporations love it. There is no hard power in liberalism to resist soft power. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/21 01:21 PM |
| 2 | RP Men who claim marriage is bad for men.Raking him over the coals in a divorce. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/21 01:01 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Most men could do decent with online dating, they're just terrible at photography.Oh that's my favorite. I always assume it's the ugliest one. I'm right about 80 percent of the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/21 04:09 PM |
| 6 | CMV: Most men could do decent with online dating, they're just terrible at photography.Okay, so they get a nice photo of them, get a match, get a date and she sees what he looks like; What he actually looks like, not how a photographer made him look, which is aimed at being as appealing as possible regardless of reality. This is pushing failure a few steps further, not mitigating it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/21 04:06 PM |
| 11 | Having strong negative opinions of the opposite sex is a huge turn-off and red flag.cannot and will not ever love them for who they are and that they can only love them for their money, outward success, access to drugs, etc. Aside from that being mostly accurate, that's not the issue. Incels are the product of blue-pilled thinking lacking any nuance violently smashing into the walls of reality, and the ensuing inability to cope. This is why a lot of male feminists or other white knight types turn out to be misogynistic creeps; incels are just simps that reached a breaking point… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/21 02:03 PM |
| 8 | Is the rise of women in education and socioeconomic status causing severe problems in the dating scene or are is the crisis over it exxagerated?I think we’re truly lucky Russia and China haven’t already been like “yo, they can’t even get along with each other and they are the most spoiled pieces of shit in the world, let’s fuck them up and give them something to actually bitch about” They figured out a long time ago that there's no point. America is so thoroughly subverted that there's no reason to interrupt it's self sabotage. Sun Tzu remains undefeated. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/21 01:37 PM |
| 3 | Is the rise of women in education and socioeconomic status causing severe problems in the dating scene or are is the crisis over it exxagerated?Litterally yes, that's what we've been seeing. Nearly every 1st world nation's founding stick is reproducing below replacement. Illiberal 3rd world populations are exploding, and they are being given access to the stagnant 1st world- giving more space to reproduce and displace the native population. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/21 01:33 PM |
| 1 | Men should normalize wearing height extenders, as they are comparable to make-up for womenThat's not going to help men because woman will negatively judge men that try too hard to look good beyond their natural appearance. This is just another case of what-they-do, not what they say. There was a thread on r/dating about how guys would have more success if they took better profiles pictures. One of the tips was to not use selfies. In another thread, a guy was venting about getting ghosted shortly before a date. None of his profile pics were selfies, but she asked for one before the da… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/21 11:53 AM |
| 2 | Actual standards for men.You really can't let this go, can you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/21 06:20 PM |
| 2 | It’s a terrible practice for women to fuck one dude quickly and make the guy she actually “likes” waitThis has been debunked hundreds of times. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/21 06:18 PM |
| 5 | If a woman rushes into sex with you quickly, she does not care about you beyond sexual carthasis, because intimacy does not develop quickly, and people who like people care about their opinionHonestly, I'm more impressed the more I read it. I think this the worst analogy ever constructed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/21 04:56 PM |
| 6 | If a woman rushes into sex with you quickly, she does not care about you beyond sexual carthasis, because intimacy does not develop quickly, and people who like people care about their opinionWhy did you type so many words to equate typing on a computer anonymously to letting a person unanonymously put their genitalia inside of you? How do you breath? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/21 04:46 PM |
| – | If men leave/ghost after the first sexual encounter it's because they were grossed out.How do you quote my comment, yet not read it? Follow the thread | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/21 04:26 PM |
| 4 | If men leave/ghost after the first sexual encounter it's because they were grossed out.There is no way women are this incapable at actually comprehending a flow of logic. This cannot be possible. For the third fucking time; Guy only wants sex. Guy gets sex. Guy enjoys sex. Guy forgoes keeping a steady supply of sex he enjoys to restart the process all over again. Read, slowly and think. Think. I did not ask for a value judgment on 1-4. I am asking how you square 1-3 with 4, logically. Can you comprehend what I am asking? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/21 12:53 PM |
| 2 | If men leave/ghost after the first sexual encounter it's because they were grossed out.It usually is if they're being heavy-handed about it. Guys know they aren't going to have success with a woman if they don't give off the vibe that they are desirable- but it's a hard vibe to fake. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/21 06:05 AM |
| 3 | If men leave/ghost after the first sexual encounter it's because they were grossed out.Probably posturing to give the illusion of scarcity. Most guys that brag or heavily imply how much they pull are varying degrees of bullshitting. Guys that really pull don't care who does or doesn't know about it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/21 05:56 AM |
| 6 | If men leave/ghost after the first sexual encounter it's because they were grossed out.Like, they undress and he sees a tattoo he doesn’t like or finds her too heavyset, and he has sex anyway? Yes. Obviously yes. You rather I humilate the poor girl right on the spot? I'd much rather just bounce after the fact and let her assume I'm a fuccboi. Yeah, she'll feel bad, not nearly as bad as me telling her she grosses me out when she's naked and vunerable. That's unimaginably brutal. why wouldn’t he come back to have sex with her out of desperation/lack of options, if nothing else? That… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/21 05:27 AM |
| 5 | If men leave/ghost after the first sexual encounter it's because they were grossed out.Fair enough, OP's examples are relatively weak. There are better examples listed by others that can't easily be determined presex. Scents, tastes and performance- and these may or may not be superficial, but could very well not be overcome regardless of compatibility in other areas. Point being, there are reasons to delay sex, but past a point it's a dangerous game to wager sexual compatibility will be good enough not to derail everything else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/21 04:19 AM |
| 7 | If men leave/ghost after the first sexual encounter it's because they were grossed out.That's not addressing what I'm saying, so I'll type it out again; Guy only wants sex. Guy gets sex. Guy enjoys sex. Guy leaves to start over with someone else. No fuckzone. No situationship. Just decided he no longer wants the only thing he wanted and is getting. Again, how does this follow? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/21 04:09 AM |
| 5 | If men leave/ghost after the first sexual encounter it's because they were grossed out.How many men, pray tell do you think are so good at scoring that they would need to abandon a woman he enjoyed having sex with in order to get his numbers up? Let's even assume for a moment that 100 percent of men do not want to have sex with a woman more than once ever and unironnically are devoting their entire existence to beating Ghengis Khan's record. What percentage of men could even play that game? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/21 04:03 AM |
| 6 | If men leave/ghost after the first sexual encounter it's because they were grossed out.not having a perfect body? It's gotta be perfect now? Sounds like a great way to ruin my self esteem. As opposed to what? A guy genuinely likes you, you spend weeks and months building something only for it to be shattered by the realization that he can't enjoy sex with you enough for a relationship? Does that really sound better? pretty sure they would not ghost me for slight physical imperfections? Again with the perfection thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/21 03:52 AM |
| 8 | If men leave/ghost after the first sexual encounter it's because they were grossed out.So, let's explore this. Guy only wants sex. Guy gets sex. Guy enjoys sex. Guy forgoes keeping a steady supply of sex he enjoys to restart the process all over again. How exactly does that work? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/21 03:42 AM |
| 15 | If men leave/ghost after the first sexual encounter it's because they were grossed out.Those are not contradictory at all, and in fact, the second statement affirms the first. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/21 03:34 AM |
| 1 | It’s a terrible practice for women to fuck one dude quickly and make the guy she actually “likes” waitBecause they not actually waiting genius, did you read the comment? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/21 02:05 AM |
| 1 | If men leave/ghost after the first sexual encounter it's because they were grossed out.lol minute man! More like 40 minutes at half chub for a weak nut, but I'm guessing you blame that on the guy too right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/21 01:33 AM |
| 6 | If men leave/ghost after the first sexual encounter it's because they were grossed out.Yeah I'm sure women who bemoan getting pumped and dumped and how much it hurts their fee-fees would totally appreciate a guy stopping in the middle of foreplay to say, "sorry you just look/smell/taste gross, I gotta go- delete my number." I'm sure that''ll go over really well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/21 01:17 AM |
| 4 | If men leave/ghost after the first sexual encounter it's because they were grossed out."We're not gonna have sex, but let me smell your pussy real quick to see if I'd eat it out." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/21 12:23 AM |
| – | Independent womenThe overwhelming majority of white collar women would never consider an ltr with blue collar men so your question is faulty in premise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/21 05:08 PM |
| 1 | What is more important for a guy: sex or money?Enough money to survive. Beyond that a relationship, including sex. I would nessecarilly put sex by itself above disposable income for other things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/21 12:49 PM |
| 6 | Unpopular opinion: men don’t have it harder than women in the heterosexual dating worldIt doesn't matter whether or not the social expectations are based on "innate proclivities" or socially constructed; what matters is they're used to repress women unfairly. Yes, yes it does matter. When your civilization radically reorients itself based on a set of premises, and those premises turn out to be false and maladaptive- you have condemed that civilization to death. You picked a fight with millions of years of evolution, and you lost. Western Civilization is being outbred and replaced … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/21 12:23 PM |
| 14 | Unpopular opinion: men don’t have it harder than women in the heterosexual dating worldTl;Dr 2013 basic as fuck feminist talking points. Claims men and women were taught xyz sexist stuff, ignores 50 years of intense social conditioning to the contrary. Ascribes these teachings to social constructions, failing to recognize these are in fact inate proclivities that were naturally selected for. Contradicts own argument by providing rational explanations for female behaviors that were just described as socially constructed and sexist. Doesn't actually explain how women have it harder … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/21 11:42 AM |
| 1 | What adds to n-count, in your opinion?For the sake of consistency, ask yourself- "if my boyfriend/girlfriend did this with another man/woman in any context, it would be sexual infidelity." If the answer is yes- it counts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/21 03:11 AM |
| 0 | Red pill men, why the hate on only fans girls?Lust and respect are not the same thing. I don't know how you don't know that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/21 01:59 AM |
| – | Red pill men, why the hate on only fans girls?This is the third time you have equated wearing any bikini at all to wearing stripper gear and posting it on insta for simps to jack off to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/21 01:41 AM |
| 6 | Q4Men: Would you rather?B, only because marraige is out of the question. If it was just about LTR than option A. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/21 01:21 PM |
| 0 | CMV: Sex robots, legal prostitution, improved sex toys etc. won’t have any major impact on dissatisfied men.It's not a matter of experience, it's a matter of fact that women police female promescuity more than men. Maintaining the pussy cartel is part of female reproductive strategy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/21 11:44 AM |
| 1 | Is It Now More Difficult For Not So Attractive Men To Get Partners?Yes they are. Man with a six pack = A woman that is not overweight. One is several orders of magnitude harder. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/21 11:02 AM |
| 1 | Gender roles and double standardsWomen are outperforming men because of affirmative action. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/21 10:26 PM |
| 6 | Using game to "get" women is dehumanizing, a waste of everyone's time, and childish. It needs to stop.Game exists because women don't reward male candor or authenticity. Look no further than gay men to see how direct men are when they don't have to talk to a woman for sex and romance. Guys would not waste time or energy on mind games if being blunt reliably worked. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/21 08:10 AM |
| 68 | Study: Two thirds of romantic relationships start out as friends. 42% start as FWBs.Another likely explanation for why OLD is so ineffective. It brings people into contact that have no basis for being in contact in the first place. Hard to build rapport with someone with no shared experiences. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/21 09:47 PM |
| 2 | Women don’t have to fuck to show interest on the first dateAgreed. It should be something they both enthusiastically want and enjoy. Enthusiasm is like 90 percent of what makes sex good anyhow. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/21 02:59 PM |
| 3 | Women don’t have to fuck to show interest on the first dateYou don't get to decide what somebody else considers rewarding. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/21 02:52 PM |
| 1 | Male Sexlessness Problem: Is It Still Personality That's The Problem?I can: Women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/21 09:17 AM |
| 3 | MGTOW won't work.Yep, that is an option. Not a great one, but it's the one men evolved into. Many men were born to die so that others may live. What happens when they don't die? The answer is playing itself out in real time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/21 10:25 PM |
| 0 | When high value men date women less attractive then them, why does this anger people?Rp aren't bemoaning the one-off 10/10 guy settling with a 5/10 girl for the long haul. They bemoan the army of 5/10 women getting juggled by the same one or two 10/10 guys, bitch about those guys not settling, attributing their failures to men in general being fuckbois and not their shit dating strategy, all the while the rest of the guys got left hanging in the wind or had to settle with a 2/10 women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/21 09:55 PM |
| 3 | Men need to accept that they aren't going to be the hottest guy that their partner has been withOkay, cool. Still not wifi g someone if I find out they had a train ran on them. Don't ask, don't tell. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/21 09:14 PM |
| 2 | Why do they feel this way?Because it's true to answer your question. Do they think that using the machines is something only a man can do? The machine wasn't always there, and we don't have women to thank for it being there. The irony that your cherry-picked, reductionist view of labor is made possible by men that made material comfort and security so ubiquitous, men have essentially marginalized their own existence. "Another point they don't realize is that they think women don't want to do these jobs." They by and larg… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/21 07:14 PM |
| 3 | Why do they feel this way?Which women don't do, your one-note anecdote notwithstanding. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/21 06:00 PM |
| 13 | If women are responsible for their poor taste in men, then men are responsible for their poor taste in women.So, let's get this straight. I assert that if men try to get picky about their women, they are liable to become incels- and you counter by asserting that you as a woman also didn't get a lot of dates being picky...but you got engaged at 22. Are you sure you're contradicting me, or making my point for me? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/21 05:20 PM |
| 1 | If women are responsible for their poor taste in men, then men are responsible for their poor taste in women."I'm talking years in a row, more than once, with not a single date." 5 years? 10? 15? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/21 05:10 PM |
| 19 | If women are responsible for their poor taste in men, then men are responsible for their poor taste in women.several years. That's it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/21 05:04 PM |
| 25 | If women are responsible for their poor taste in men, then men are responsible for their poor taste in women.Then the solution is self-improve. Depends on your definition of improve. Their personality is just god awful, but due to mental illness they cant see that. Define personality. Does being a narcissistic, obnoxious violent, career criminal, gang-affiliated, negligent cheater count as a personality defect that women think is "awful"? It wasn't so awful that my father couldn't get 5 children with 3 different women. Could I improve my standing with women if I was as extroverted and charismatic as my… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/21 04:36 PM |
| 54 | If women are responsible for their poor taste in men, then men are responsible for their poor taste in women.The practical result of most men getting pickier with their women is inceldom. In fact, most incels are really just volcels that are aggravated that they have to choose between getting laid and living life in accordance to their preferences and values. Nearly all guys can get laid and get into some type of relationship with the right amount of lying, harassment and avaristic ambition to make up for in deficits of looks and natural charisma. The issue is- is that really how you want to live, just… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/21 03:33 PM |
| 2 | What percentage of men are either creeps or abusive?I found out after the fact a group of females in my basic training platoon had a nicname for me, "Sniper [Last Name] ", alluding to me being a mass shooter type. One of the females admitted this after basic in AIT when they got to know me better. I never interacted with these females unless it was absolutely necessary in basic, almost as if fraternization during IET phase banned or something..., But that's women for ya. I suspect that I did have one or two casual convos with a female the others … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/21 02:47 PM |
| -1 | Which gender is really more competitive/ambitious?Well, no. Male distribution of intelligence is wider so, assuming college was supposed to be for smarter than average people- men should out-compete. Women are doing better because of affirmative action and it's knock on effects(women dominating teaching, making teaching styles more effimate and thus harder for boys). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/21 02:20 PM |
| 2 | Porn has been extremely destructive to the male mind. Even more so than social media's impact on women in the last 15 years.The "problem" with porn is not the porn, it's the ejaculation. Post nut clarity is sobering. The reality is this. The human race would have gone extinct without male thirst because it is extremely difficult to enjoy a woman's company when your balls are empty. What separates the simp, incel and casual cheavanist? Time. Simps are younger than incels and have not been around long enough to jerk enough times to experience post-nut clarity enough to becone cynical of women. Incels are deeply frustra… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/21 02:02 PM |
| 0 | What's with PPD's obsession with sex, and not the other wonderful parts in a relationship?Men aren't obsessed with sex, they simply value it. It's women who have increasingly adopted a prostitute mentality towards sex where it's just a bargaining chip. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/21 01:37 PM |
| 1 | What's with PPD's obsession with sex, and not the other wonderful parts in a relationship?Fucking them regularly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/21 01:23 PM |
| 2 | What's with PPD's obsession with sex, and not the other wonderful parts in a relationship?All you did was describe more types of physical touch and sharing a hobby or two. Sex is easier to say than "physical touch" over and over again. It's covered under sex in context. As for sharing things, guys don't need women's help to enjoy their hobbies, other than sex. I can't think of anything more dreadful than turning my hobby time into our hobby time. I enjoy my hobbies and passions precisely because it's on my terms on my time and I only have to entertain myself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/21 01:22 PM |
| 0 | Women have historically contributed less "direct benefit" to society because, until recently, we were banned from participating in such pursuits, not because we do not need to compete sexually like males do.If women were as capable as men, they would not have needed to be allowed to do anything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/21 12:40 PM |
| -2 | “Withholding sex” from a date isn’t about getting men to act right. It’s about vetting out fuckboys.It's better because it means guys actually like sex and want it to be a good experience. Selective promiscuity is indicative of sex being used as a tool and women that treat sex as a tool are lousy in bed, because they lack the enthusiasm of a woman that enjoys sex for it's own sake. The worst sex comes from cheap prostitutes, the ones that actually bring energy to the bedroom make bank. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/21 06:55 PM |
| 2 | Do we need political and economic change in order to et social change to happen?Many people making bad decision is by definition, a society not functioning properly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/21 06:08 PM |
| 7 | “Withholding sex” from a date isn’t about getting men to act right. It’s about vetting out fuckboys.An engine is not the only thing that makes a car a car, but a car without an engine doesn't run. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/21 05:41 PM |
| 13 | “Withholding sex” from a date isn’t about getting men to act right. It’s about vetting out fuckboys.No matter how much you try to push the idea that the guy getting used for sex was the loser and not the one that had to wait for that same pussy , this will never ring true to men with a modicum of self respect. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/21 05:17 PM |
| 1 | The communication gap between men and womenIt's a shaming tactic to silence people that call out your bullshit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/21 04:42 PM |
| 2 | “Withholding sex” from a date isn’t about getting men to act right. It’s about vetting out fuckboys."after the first date or even the 3rd. Literally what does a woman gain from that?" Sex? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/21 04:36 PM |
| 1 | The communication gap between men and womenJustify however you like. The point is women reveal what they actually think of male vulnerability in the process; As an opportunity for attack, not a problem to adjudicate | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/21 04:08 PM |
| 4 | “Withholding sex” from a date isn’t about getting men to act right. It’s about vetting out fuckboys.Oh, it's easy to understand for men, easy to understand those women aren't fit for an ltr. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/21 03:36 PM |
| 6 | “Withholding sex” from a date isn’t about getting men to act right. It’s about vetting out fuckboys."Usually in those scenarios I imagine those women fuck those guys because that’s all they want from that guy" And that supposed to make the other guys feel better how, exactly? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/21 03:24 PM |
| 15 | “Withholding sex” from a date isn’t about getting men to act right. It’s about vetting out fuckboys."Except the good man would respect your sexual boundaries", by respectfully moving on and fucking other women. Therein lies your problem, you can filter out fuckbois(not really, but for arguments' sake we'll say yes)- but you just as easily filter out the highest quality men that have little reason to stick around. They're more likely to have the ability to find another women, all else being equal- but down to fuck. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/21 03:08 PM |
| 3 | The communication gap between men and womenMen complain about women talking out of their ass about petty shit. There is no value for men expressing vunerability because it is used against them especially by women. In fact, when women can't get a read on on a man's emotional state, but want to attack them, they'll project an emotional state into them. "Who hurt you?" - When is this ever used for good-faith problem solving? This phrase, used overwhelmingly by women against men gives away the game; Women weaoonize male vulnerability against… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/21 02:44 PM |
| -1 | “Withholding sex” from a date isn’t about getting men to act right. It’s about vetting out fuckboys.By not refuting it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/21 02:20 PM |
| -3 | “Withholding sex” from a date isn’t about getting men to act right. It’s about vetting out fuckboys.If that's the strategy, it's not a very good one cause that is easily counteracted by men doing the smart thing and pursing multiple women at the same time; Not devoting his attention to one at a time just because he's making progress. If you aren't juggling multiple women, that just means you have more disposable income for sex workers. Don't put out at the end of date 3? No problem. Date 4 and 5 will be coffee and a hike while the money I would have spent on fancier dates goes to a hooker. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/21 02:03 PM |
| 15 | “Withholding sex” from a date isn’t about getting men to act right. It’s about vetting out fuckboys."Because women always say those fuckboys ain't shit." Immediately after they get curved by them and immediately before they ask for another booty call and enthusiastically oblige. Women say a lot of things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/21 01:15 PM |
| 1 | If you believe the core tenant of masculinity is the subjugation of others, you can’t be upset that many thus associate masculinity negatively.Men know how to process their feelings. They do it all the time. You just don't notice it cause you project female methods emotional expression onto men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/21 12:20 AM |
| 1 | Men must change their own behaviour if they want women to change. Not expect women to change on their own.Not going to happen. All of this stuff stems from toxic social psychology springing from overabundance. It's often how civilisations die. Western civilization peaked, entered it's age of decadence and is now on its death spiral. Westerners are being demographically replaced with religious, illiberal people that out-compete them in reproduction. It's only a question of whether western civilization dies fast enough to prevent the destruction of the natural world for the rest of humanity's sake. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/21 11:18 PM |
| 3 | Shared observational bias among women created the false "men only want sex" narrative.Single or getting cheated on or got pussy once or twice in a year. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/21 09:53 PM |
| 2 | When it comes to who pays for dates, many women say that the gender wage gap justifies the expectation that men pay for dates. However, amongst the demographic that is dating (i.e., single people), single women outearn single men. Therefore, by their own logic, women should pay for dates.Yeah and coincidentally women have an answer as to why men ought to take the lead in setting up and planning a date if they're so interested. How delightfully convenient. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/21 09:49 PM |
| 1 | Why are men ridiculed for women's sexual dissatisfaction when Evolution did not select for women's sexual pleasure?Woman orgasming less is for the simple fact that women periodically have sex for reasons not having to do with pleasure, whereas men virtually never seek sex except for it's own sake(outside of activly trying to have a baby). That's it. That's all there is to it. Prostitution gap by gender itself would create an orgasm gap. How many female prostitutes are seeking an orgasm from each and every one of their customers? Never mind the countless instances of women offering sex for favors, as reward o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/21 09:27 PM |
| 1 | Why are men ridiculed for women's sexual dissatisfaction when Evolution did not select for women's sexual pleasure?"Women face expectations to look a certain way before we even get to the bedroom." And a lot of women think mission accomplished from there. It's a common axiom among men that uglier women often outperform very hot women in bed because hot girls think they did their job by just being pretty. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/21 08:48 PM |
| -1 | Why are men ridiculed for women's sexual dissatisfaction when Evolution did not select for women's sexual pleasure?If women want to orgasm, do more than be a starfish. I don't buy into this idea that men don't like foreplay. What's more likely is women give up sex rather than enthusiastically seek it, men sense it- so they just use the vagina to masturbate and move on. When guys skip foreplay, 99 percent of the time it's cause she led with a weak head game, didn't communicate shit except what she didn't want him to touch, lick or poke- so he opted to get a quick piv half-nut and move on. Either that or their… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/21 08:30 PM |
| 1 | If you use a dark triad persona to attract women it's no surprise you attract AWALT womenLolno. Humans don't overide instincts, they rationalize them. Humans are just extremely pretentious and arrogant monkeys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/21 06:56 PM |
| 1 | I don’t think “bad boys” are attractive at all. They’re attractive to immature insecure women but not mature onesAbusive men and women look and act like regular people on paper. Nah, not abusive men anyway. Abusive men exude obnoxious asshole with their every word and deed. The problem is that's a feature not a bug for women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/21 06:44 PM |
| 5 | Shared observational bias among women created the false "men only want sex" narrative.Disagree. Men often have at least a few friends. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/21 05:43 PM |
| 4 | Shared observational bias among women created the false "men only want sex" narrative.Your point was that women simply offer nothing of value to relationships that can't be attained from platonic friendship besides sex and offspring? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/21 05:32 PM |
| 3 | Shared observational bias among women created the false "men only want sex" narrative.Men that recognize sex is all there is. What else is there, besides children? That's pretty much it. Everything else women would provide is covered under friendship. What does a romantic relationship provide that a platonic friendship can't that a man would want or reasonably expect from women, besides sex and offspring? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/21 05:28 PM |
| 2 | If you use a dark triad persona to attract women it's no surprise you attract AWALT womenAnd lack of a personality or a valuable life that can be articulated. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/21 03:30 PM |
| 4 | If you use a dark triad persona to attract women it's no surprise you attract AWALT womenObjectively speaking, yes. You're a degenerate. Drug use, tattoos and piercings are a good indicator of low impulse control, low intelligence and short sightedness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/21 03:28 PM |
| 3 | If you use a dark triad persona to attract women it's no surprise you attract AWALT women"It's the researchers commentary because that's what the study found." Lol no. Researchers mischaraterize there own findings all the time in the abstract when their findings lead to uncomfortable conclusions. You have to actually look at the data, not how it got summarized. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/21 03:23 PM |
| 7 | If you use a dark triad persona to attract women it's no surprise you attract AWALT women"Be funny without being a narcissist" Not so sure about that. Entertainers tend to be very sick people mentally, particularly males. Most male humour is about really stupid or really horrible things they did or were subjected to. I think part of the problem is women think humour in a man is attractive when it is actually a good indicator of past psychological trauma and anti-social behavior being treated lightly by the subject. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/21 03:13 PM |
| 3 | Men's problem with the current dating sceneMen or women, or are we still on that meme that women know anything of emotional intelligence? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/21 02:32 PM |
| 1 | If you believe the core tenant of masculinity is the subjugation of others, you can’t be upset that many thus associate masculinity negatively.Not really gaslighting. Women tend to get really annoying when it comes to them wanting to talk about one thing or another. Yes, dating for most men is just trying really hard to care about whatever women are talking about when their not in dancing monkey mode. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/21 12:56 PM |
| 1 | If women are responsible for having awful baby daddies, then men are responsible for having awful baby mamas. It’s not the fault of ”gynocentricism” that he got screwed over.Most women are either party bimbos or were party bimbos when they were attractive enough to be diserable to the average guy, or they were never attractive enough to be a party bimbos(even then, uggos can still get a train ran on them) or they got into a serious relationship before becoming one. Trying to attain a women after the age of 22 that manages to be both attractive, not a bimbo and still single is simply not playing the odds. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/21 12:44 PM |
| 1 | If women are responsible for having awful baby daddies, then men are responsible for having awful baby mamas. It’s not the fault of ”gynocentricism” that he got screwed over.Men in general, no. Men in positions of power, yes. That's why women's suffrage is a thing. Significantly easier for the elite to manufacture consensus when half the electorate is biased in favor of agreeableness, social proof, and religiosity. Women have a greater tendency to uncritically obey authority and consensus and further demand obedience to authority and consensus from others. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/21 12:35 PM |
| 6 | If you use a dark triad persona to attract women it's no surprise you attract AWALT womenIs it though? Surely drug use is high but the majority? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/21 12:16 PM |
| 13 | If you use a dark triad persona to attract women it's no surprise you attract AWALT women"They liked him because they like free drugs" That's cold comfort for the guys that followed the laws, norms and customs and courtesies and got zero pussy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/21 12:01 PM |
| 1 | Why is talking about sexual strategy much more inflammatory than practicing it in real life?Blue pillers want romance to have a kind of magical quality to it. Romance itself, is a blue pill. It's a religious devotion to the idea of love as some transcendental, spiritual experience springing from the ether rather than a series of chemical reactions in the brain that can be measured and tinkered with an appropriate set of stimuli. Any attempt to rationalize, systematize or really understand pair-bonding beyond cute platitudes about nice behavior is an attack on their article of faith. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/21 11:46 AM |
| 0 | If you believe the core tenant of masculinity is the subjugation of others, you can’t be upset that many thus associate masculinity negatively.Traditional societal norms are a function of human psychology, not the other way around. Societal norms codify and systematize what is already the inate sentiment of a population. For example, most people don't be murder because murder is illegal is an incorrect understanding. In reality, murder is illegal because most people inately think it's detestable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/21 11:28 AM |
| 1 | Q4RP: In a relationship, how often do you admit that you were wrong?After being with them for years. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/21 11:10 AM |
| 1 | Q4RP: In a relationship, how often do you admit that you were wrong?Relationship subs are filled with women complaining about those guys...after being with them for years. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/21 11:06 AM |
| 6 | Feelings vs. "logic" in datingGood personality doesn’t mean “moral upstanding citizen” it means an enjoyable charismatic person to be around" Great argument for human extinction right there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/21 10:53 AM |
| 4 | THE REASON VIRGINITY IS A BAD THING FOR MEN IS BECAUSE IT RELATES TO OVERALL VALUEDeeply hating women doesn't create incels. On the contrary, incels are often the product of a unrealistically positive view of women smashing against reality and that incongruity creates bitterness. Virtually all guys that pull have a very sober, borderline cynical view of women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/21 10:28 AM |
| 1 | Men's dating problems are from not pursuing what they wantMaybe there aren't a lot of smart women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/21 09:56 AM |
| 1 | If you believe the core tenant of masculinity is the subjugation of others, you can’t be upset that many thus associate masculinity negatively.It's not a societal expectation, it's an inate male tendency. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/21 09:20 AM |
| 2 | Does an over reliance on advice hyper-focused on self-esteem and self-worth cause women to avoid the type of advice that may lead to painful realizations about themselves?Deserve is not to be confused with need. You can need something and not deserve it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/21 06:05 PM |
| 1 | Majority of Women Desire a "power imbalance" in a RelationshipNo. That phenomena is understood and covered under the AF/BB paradigm. Cops and Soldiers are typical blue-collar betas. Soldiers marrying strippers is a well known military meme. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/21 05:45 PM |
| 0 | If women are responsible for having awful baby daddies, then men are responsible for having awful baby mamas. It’s not the fault of ”gynocentricism” that he got screwed over.AWALT. You preemptive argument is not a counter because marraige is still low, still has massive divorce rates and children are still being born out of wedlock in large numbers. There have been some statistical improvement since the 90's, but that's only because pair-bonding has gotten so dysfunctional, it's crashing and burning before children even become a factor. Marraige is very clearly a hollowed out institution in the West that only continues to exist out of inertia. To the extent it still… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/21 05:38 PM |
| – | Women putting off children is not due to children being expensive - the poorest in society have more children than anyone.What if I told you that poverty and wealth are not genetically determined traits? What if I told you it in fact was? The difference is I would be correct. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/21 02:50 PM |
| 1 | It’s expected that men act in their own best interests in mind, but when it comes to their own mothers/daughters/sisters, the tables turn. What would a “red pill” man teach his daughter(s) or sister(s) about sex, dating, & marriage?No, you're wrong on all counts. Proximity is a major factor and averting future liability is a factor as well. What is not a factor is the idea that men will find a women more attractive, desirable or respectable because of a piece of paper alleging competency. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/21 02:48 PM |
| 1 | Are men actually the more logical gender?Lol, you're still doing it! You're litterally not cognitively capable of separating an idea from how it makes you feel. To women, it's one and the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/21 02:45 PM |
| 0 | It’s expected that men act in their own best interests in mind, but when it comes to their own mothers/daughters/sisters, the tables turn. What would a “red pill” man teach his daughter(s) or sister(s) about sex, dating, & marriage?Because of proximity, not because a guy gets a boner from someone else's degree. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/21 02:53 PM |
| 1 | Only women's dating problems are solvableAn increasing number of guys are doing just that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/21 02:06 PM |
| 2 | If you can't love me now, don't love me later when my later is greater..Men don't want to be bothered by women in their decline that never gave them the time of day back in the day =/= All women should never attempt to communicate their attention to men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/21 01:08 PM |
| 2 | If you can't love me now, don't love me later when my later is greater..People don't really "change", so much as they regress to the mean. Adolescence and early adulthood have a turbulent effect on where people are at in any given moment, but personality and general intelligence is mostly heritable. "Becoming mature" is really just a person settling into what they always truly were. I suspect men resent women that change their tune based on men's self-improvement because those women demonstrate a lack of empathy and wisdom to see that the self-impoved man was always… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/21 01:05 PM |
| 2 | Are men actually the more logical gender?Do you think women have more sexual selection now or under patriarchy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/21 12:20 PM |
| -2 | Are men actually the more logical gender?Correct. The numbers show it's their fault, when coupled with the data that points to women having more sexual selection. Women choose the men, they choose poorly, they get rid of them or the men leave and children are raised extremely poorly as a result. Men did not fight for women to have the freedom or right to do any of this. they own all of it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/21 12:01 PM |
| 1 | Are men actually the more logical gender?This is a perfect example if male rationality versus female irrationality. He made an assertion, and you respond with that typical female rhetorical question aimed at making a value judgment of the of the assertion due to having a negative emotional response to the implications of the assertion, rather than grapple with the accuracy of the assertion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/21 11:51 AM |
| 1 | its easier to become attractive as a men than to become attractive as a womenThe average women on tinder is a 2/10 in the real world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/21 11:26 AM |
| 1 | "Above a certain income level, all men are paying for sex" Scott AdamsTake 100 guys and 100 women. Ask them if they had a SO that they found attractive and likeable, and were rich but never spent a dime on them, would the unwillingness to spend on them despite their wealth hurt the relationship. Which gender is more likely to take exception to the lack of spending? Which gender is less likely to even grasp that someone can be a good partner without spending on them. Which gender is more likely to measure their own validation and the SO's commitment on things like … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/21 09:13 AM |
| 2 | Women are disingenuous when complementing each other as a way to appear better than they are"It is also female nature to have a sense of, and I hate this word but, solidarity with other females. I don't think men can comprehend or understand the innate female drive to help and uplift other women, because you don't have that among yourselves." One of the most incorrect statements that can ever be read. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/21 06:16 AM |
| 1 | Empathy Differentials and GenderMen understand the female pov better than they do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/21 06:01 AM |
| 1 | Why is it considered fine for gay men to have many sexual partners but not for women despite it being the same, in that they get many dicks in their orifices?It's shamed all the time by "homophobes". Heterosexual men that aren't homophobic are not concerned with homosexual promiscuity because they are not trying to pair-bond with other men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/21 12:22 PM |
| 2 | How Will Smart Pornography Change the Dating Landscape?Smart porn as it gets advanced will displace new pornstars. There's already enough porn in existence that if you can convincingly superimpose any actor's likeness on a body, you can put them in any concievable scene. This would result in the the death of Sex-positive feminism. Feminism is simply the political expression of female reproductive strategy. It's just woman using culture and the state to maximize their leverage over men. If all visual sex workers were to be displaced by smart porn, th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/21 12:04 PM |
| 1 | “If he really wanted me, he would approach me” Do y’all really believe this ?"for a number of months" filters out non-desperate, non psychopaths. A normal, well-adjusted man of merit with a follicle of self respect is not participating in a several month interview; Or he is while getting women on the side that aren't dragging things out: So much for filtering those men out, again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/21 11:10 AM |
| 9 | What is the female equivalent of "male thirst"?White women really be on some other shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/21 10:21 AM |
| -1 | Women's argument that men want domestic slaves is nothing but strawman to justify their entitlementIf the system told you it was great, you would all be doing it. Women are more agreeable(pliable) than men. That btw, is the reason why women's suffrage happened. The powers that be essentially doubled the effectiveness of manufactured consent overnight. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/21 06:27 AM |
| 1 | Is it ever a good idea to verbally bring up the topic of sex to a date?I wouldn't bring it up like a bullet point to cover in a meeting. I'd let the topic of sex germinate naturally, then use that as an opportunity to steer the conversation into your concerns. If the topic of sex doesn't germinate naturally, that's an answer in of itself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/21 02:47 PM |
| 2 | Some level of “creepiness” amongst men is acceptable.True. When guys mind their own business, it doesn't take long for rumors of being gay or serial killer to arise, and it almost always comes from women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/21 07:27 PM |
| 3 | Why do people insist that only women postpone having kids when many women risk becoming single mothers to have kids?The 18 percent portion is on women. It's not a majority of men that act like this. It's a small minority of men that women select from repeatedly. Case in point; My dad had at least 5 kids from 3 women. My dad didn't keep it a secret that he was a deadbeat for 2 when he met my mom. Did it stop her from giving him 2 more kids? Nope. Shockingly, he abandoned me and my sister and last I hear I have another sister in Mexico somewhere. That's one piece of shit man, and 3 stupid women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/21 05:31 PM |
| 10 | How Come Women Like Feminine Men But Men Don't Like Masculine Women?Birth control pills reduce the attractiveness of masculine qualities in men. Hormonal contraceptives change what women find attractive, men's ability to be attracted to women and should women change their usage of birth control, it will change how they feel about their partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/21 09:28 AM |
| 3 | Women putting off children is not due to children being expensive - the poorest in society have more children than anyone.Victory has defeated the West. Westerners grossly overestimate the value of comfort and happiness, grossly overestimate the viability of it's current level of security and prosperity and grossly underestimate humanity's ability to thrive amidst adversity. Survival is not supposed to be easy. Comfort and indulgence is not supposed to be the norm. You can insist that it should be that way, but look at the numbers. 1st worlders are being replaced by 3rd worlders. The West is dying of it's own greed… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/21 08:53 PM |
| 2 | Can someone please give me some good reasons why any financially successful man (or woman) should ever get married in today’s day and age?"Over half of millennial births are out of wedlock." That's...not the ringing endorsement of out-of-wedlock births that you think it is. Millennials will be remembered as Boomerstien's Monsters. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/21 04:50 PM |
| 6 | Waiting for sex, and wanting a provider as an independent woman - thoughts?It litterally is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/21 03:36 PM |
| 4 | Body positivity does far more harm than good.No there weren't. A couple of obese boogies paying a fortune to have paintings of them drawn =/= being fat was ever attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/21 03:30 PM |
| 2 | “If he really wanted me, he would approach me” Do y’all really believe this ?But, you didn't remove those men, you selected for them by being passive. You didn't filter them out, you filtered them in. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/21 07:06 PM |
| 1 | “If he really wanted me, he would approach me” Do y’all really believe this ?How can you be interested in any person holistically if the only thing you have done is physically see them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/21 07:05 PM |
| 4 | “If he really wanted me, he would approach me” Do y’all really believe this ?How are they bad? Most guys are not hitting on women every waking second of their lives. At any given moment, most guys are not approaching a women. Where is the logic in this? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/21 09:32 PM |
| 8 | “If he really wanted me, he would approach me” Do y’all really believe this ?Yeah, sex. A guy that also doesn't approach you won't mind sex either. One's just thirstier than the other. You think thirst is attractive? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/21 09:29 PM |
| 2 | “If he really wanted me, he would approach me” Do y’all really believe this ?No, he didn't litterally say that, hence the quotation marks and context. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/21 08:45 PM |
| 2 | “If he really wanted me, he would approach me” Do y’all really believe this ?Why cut out a large percentage of men in the first place, based on a metric that is not objectively better? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/21 08:41 PM |
| 6 | “If he really wanted me, he would approach me” Do y’all really believe this ?"Moreso than a man you approach" ...how do you even come to that conclusion? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/21 08:40 PM |
| 1 | “If he really wanted me, he would approach me” Do y’all really believe this ?How does approaching men mean you can't keep vetting? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/21 08:36 PM |
| 1 | “If he really wanted me, he would approach me” Do y’all really believe this ?"Like i could be wrong, but I got told that men would fuck anything with a hole." And refusing to approach men changes this how, exactly? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/21 08:21 PM |
| 2 | “If he really wanted me, he would approach me” Do y’all really believe this ?Fine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/21 07:59 PM |
| 3 | “If he really wanted me, he would approach me” Do y’all really believe this ?Explain the logic behind this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/21 07:58 PM |
| 3 | Men here are getting their ideas of female nature from porn and porn-related things.You got it backwards. Porn is a parody of real life, or real sentiments. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/21 08:23 PM |
| 3 | Are men not self sufficient or are women purposefully humbling those that are?Objectively speaking, men are more self-sufficient than women. Women are just not thrilled by the idea of mere sufficiency. It's a reproductive strategy. Guys who are "messy" signal a disinterest in impressing a woman, and women don't like guys that are not driven to impress them. Which type of guy is more likely to produce wealth above susbsitance, then share it? Probably not the guy that gives zero fucks and is content on those terms. As for women purposefully humbling... it's not explicitly p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/21 06:06 PM |
| 8 | Are men not self sufficient or are women purposefully humbling those that are?Yes, that's what they pink tax is; products being more expensive for women because they're willing to pay more for it. Men do it too though, but when guys pay thousands of dollars for useless pieces of carbon, or ugly cloths made by slaves- guess who's that actually for. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/21 04:46 PM |
| 1 | Women are only attracted to the top 10-20% of men because the bottom 80-90% don’t put enough effort into their appearance.But the distribution of female attractiveness is even. If men being overweight was the issue, than men would also rate 80 percent of women below average, not the expected 50 percent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/21 09:16 AM |
| 1 | Women are only attracted to the top 10-20% of men because the bottom 80-90% don’t put enough effort into their appearance.Women aren't much better on that front, so why would the distribution still be even? I can tell you right now, being overweight is not offset by makeup and hairdos. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/21 09:12 AM |
| 2 | For a woman, it's way more profitable to be dumb and hot than nice and kind."Have you ever seen a line of thirsty dudes waiting on nice, kind, pretty to average girls with interests, the ones that are just a good human beings?" Yes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/21 08:48 AM |
| 24 | Women are only attracted to the top 10-20% of men because the bottom 80-90% don’t put enough effort into their appearance."You're generalizing too much" Your OP is 80 percent of men don't take care of their appearance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/21 06:38 PM |
| 0 | Women are only attracted to the top 10-20% of men because the bottom 80-90% don’t put enough effort into their appearance.And women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/21 06:35 PM |
| 0 | Why do men react so shrilly to “OnlyFans” but don’t seem to have an issue with porn, strip clubs, sex phone operators, cam girls on porn sites...?"Some" k thx. Obviously I was referring to victims of trafficking and not the overwhelming majority of porn. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/21 06:34 PM |
| -5 | Why do men react so shrilly to “OnlyFans” but don’t seem to have an issue with porn, strip clubs, sex phone operators, cam girls on porn sites...?I don't care what the porn industry does to women. They were warned for decades by conservatives and still throw themselves at the industry to this day. They deserve everything they get. OF simps are predominantly young men who were not warned, but rather conditioned to be emasculated losers defined solely by meaningless consumption. Women fought tooth and nail for the right to be disposable corporate pieces of meat. These young men had to be gaslight from birth to adolescence to be mentally ill… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/21 06:11 PM |
| 19 | Women are only attracted to the top 10-20% of men because the bottom 80-90% don’t put enough effort into their appearance.A lot of words to describe an anecdote. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/21 05:51 PM |
| 1 | Why do men react so shrilly to “OnlyFans” but don’t seem to have an issue with porn, strip clubs, sex phone operators, cam girls on porn sites...?Because it is unambiguously predatory against the mentally ill: Porn: Onlyfans is porn you pay for, when untold terabytes of free porn is readily available. Strip Clubs: Onlyfans doesn't have physical contact, alcohol, social gathering etc. Sex Phone Operators: Was from a time when untold terabytes of free porn wasn't a thing. Cam Girls: More interactive and responsive to user input than Onlyfans. Every alternative to Onlyfans makes sense or made sense on some level. Onlyfans only makes sense if… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/21 05:32 PM |
| 1 | If you want equality like equal domestic responsibility, then you should want equal financial responsibility in the relationship"women can cut the middle man out", no the elite cut the middle man out and reaped all the benefits. You flooded the market with labor, stagnating wages. You won the right to be just another wage slave, only with less free time, a lower quality of life and children raised by the system to perpetuate the race to the bottom. You got conned. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/21 11:12 AM |
| 9 | Why shouldn't women exploit their own sexuality for gain?Females is the appropriate neutral term for women in many circles, especially since the LBGT crowd have basically destroyed terminology like "men" and "women". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/21 08:48 AM |
| 12 | Why shouldn't women exploit their own sexuality for gain?Friends and therapy are not a substitute for sex and romance, at least not for a man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/21 08:45 AM |
| 2 | Most Legitimately Average Men Don't Have Such A Huge Problem With Having SexI noticed abject poverty wasn't on your list. Why is that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/21 08:30 AM |
| 0 | There is no incentive for Kevin Samuels to be telling you the truthYou just accidentally discovered that democracy is the most fraudulent political model. Indeed, there is actually a negative correlation between popular opinion and public policy in democracies, worse than autocracies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/21 01:01 AM |
| 2 | Is Feminism only a addon to american conservative christianity?Yeah, 5-7 gap and she was his teacher? What if the genders were reversed? Gonna say, "well there's no evidence he blackmailed her or anything!" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/21 12:43 AM |
| 1 | Everybody is having less sex, it's just easier for womenToo bad you don't know what they are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/21 12:20 AM |
| 1 | If you want equality like equal domestic responsibility, then you should want equal financial responsibility in the relationship"We just want to be able to survive on our own" No you don't because you don't know what that is. The modern woman is subsidized by the state when she's not subsidized by men. The modern women are servile to men sitting in the ivory tower writing checks when she's not serving her husband. "We aren't going going back.." - you never left. You just traded the common man for a managerial beuracracy. You outsourced male responsibilities to strangers that couldn't give two shits about you struggling t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/21 12:05 AM |
| 1 | Ladies: Does career take priority over family, and until what point does this hold true?That in no way shape or form changes the fact that women get the last word. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/21 11:47 PM |
| 2 | Most Legitimately Average Men Don't Have Such A Huge Problem With Having SexHealing pile of sophistic garbage noted. What I said is still true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/21 11:14 PM |
| 1 | Are the female and male imperatives inherently irreconcilable?No, they both got mutual sexual exclusivity to one partner. That portion of the imperative is satisfied in both parties. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/21 10:58 PM |
| 3 | Are the female and male imperatives inherently irreconcilable?With the amount of women complaining about "being used for sex", it sure comes across as any kind of sex being the absolute worst experience a woman can endure. Can't blame them though. Sex for most women I imagine is the same thing as, everything besides sex in dating for most men; Tedious bullshit to get through so you get what you want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/21 10:33 PM |
| 7 | Most Legitimately Average Men Don't Have Such A Huge Problem With Having SexThat's a horrible strategy. Women love to do 2 things; talk shit about men when they talk to their girlfriends. put down men they aren't attracted to that they know are attracted to them. In any friendzone situation, the guy is all but certain the subject of mockery amoungst the woman's friends. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/21 10:04 PM |
| 2 | Most Legitimately Average Men Don't Have Such A Huge Problem With Having SexThe problem with your assertion is you're confusing the cause with the effect. Nearly all the things you listed off come after years of invalidation, regardless of where they initially started. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/21 09:55 PM |
| 1 | How do you know what your SMV/RMV is?That's actually a great system. Guy SMV: Can't even pay for pussy tier. Can't get pussy tier. Can get pussy if I put a name on it tier. Can get pussy without putting a name on it tier. Girl SMV: Can't get dick tier ONS tier Situationship tier Bae tier | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/21 09:21 PM |
| 1 | Cmv: people don’t change even when they self improvePeople only change in personality under extremely traumatic circumstances. Outside of that, personality is almost entirely a function of genetics. Self-improvement is largely a meme and a grift because the people that need to do it, won't commit to it because if they could commit to it, they would have been doing it from the outset. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/21 09:14 PM |
| 1 | Porn distorts male desires the same way Romance content and Mass media distorts Female desiresNo, Disney's impact is significantly worse. Most guys keep their porn habits to themselves for a reason. They know it's a vulgur fantasy to feed and urge that's already present, not to be projected onto reality. Disney on the other hand is mainstream fiction aka mythology, and the implicit themes of mythology are intended to be internalized and applied to everyday life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/21 09:01 PM |
| 2 | Most Legitimately Average Men Don't Have Such A Huge Problem With Having SexYeah, that's why they pump and dump the below average girls. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/21 05:33 PM |
| 4 | Men develop theories and rules about women’s behavior because that’s the way men understand social situations."It's how people can find great success with casual relationships but then fail to find anything deeper." Women? Lotta good that empathy did them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/21 07:20 AM |
| 5 | Men develop theories and rules about women’s behavior because that’s the way men understand social situations.Systematyzing and relating to people are not mutually exclusive at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/21 07:18 AM |
| 2 | [Q4W] What are your views concerning the “long game?”I would draw the conclusion that he taking a risk, how calculated or stupid the risk depends on how apparent the woman is using him as a meal ticket or not. Long game is beneficial if ltr is what you're looking for, you're fairly certain you're not in the meal-ticket zone, and you are doing something about your blue balls in the meantime. Otherwise, it's a waste of time and money, but If the long game works out, it's a big win cause you will have a lot of confidence that she thinks you're the re… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/21 05:37 PM |
| 4 | Could this be the problem so many men struggle with women?"Men struggling with women", are guys that aren't getting the opportunity to have sex with women in the first place. If the orgasm gap is the reason, then that means women are having sex with a certain pool of men, being unsatisfied, then going right back to that same pool instead of exploring the other pool. The guys struggling with women can't do anything about that. I don't think the orgasm gap has anything to do with dating problems. The gap is the inevitable consequence of higher libido in … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/21 03:54 PM |
| 1 | "Don't complain that you're hungry when there's a perfectly good hot dog on the ground"Agreed, hense MGTOW. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/21 10:50 AM |
| 3 | Ladies: Does career take priority over family, and until what point does this hold true?No, they don't. Women have the last word on whether or not a man has a child, to the point of pre-natal homicide (and in Virginia maybe post-natal). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/21 08:51 AM |
| 1 | Ladies: Does career take priority over family, and until what point does this hold true?There is no such thing as a human society that is not hierarchical, not could there ever be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/21 08:48 AM |
| 1 | I don't buy it that women have body image/self esteem issues."They want a man who loves them. They don't want the man using them for sex" You don't understand men if you treat this as a dicotomy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/21 03:00 PM |
| 0 | If you want equality like equal domestic responsibility, then you should want equal financial responsibility in the relationshipCorrect. Enjoy the fruits of sexual liberation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/21 12:11 PM |
| -1 | If you want equality like equal domestic responsibility, then you should want equal financial responsibility in the relationshipA lot of this seems to be premised on the idea that men signed up for the whole equality thing. The overwhelming majority didn't. It wasn't our idea. It was women's idea and the small number of men in the ruling elite saw the profitability of essentially doubling the workforce. Both partners should be on the same page? No thanks. Women decided the franchise and financial independence was more important than consent and cooperation with their male counterpart. You don't get to circle back to coop… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/21 12:08 PM |
| -1 | Opinions on Couples Therapy? True or Phony?Imagine equating the efficacy and professional standards of therapy to medicine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/21 12:32 AM |
| 0 | Women are the reason why high beauty standards for them still existThat men have any standards at all does not prove they are the ones making them too high. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/21 09:42 PM |
| 2 | Do less physically developed boys tend to internalize sexual shame/repression since puberty?Fair Japanese men aren't killing other people, just themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/21 04:13 PM |
| 1 | what do you think is the main reason for men giving commitment to one girl, but not the other?Looks: Sexual attractiveness and beauty can often be conflated, but they are distinct in areas. If you're a butterface, you may get fuck-zoned. Modesty: If a woman gives off thot vibes, I may not want to bring her home to see mom, or talk about her as a girlfriend to friends. That's an easy path to the fuckzone. Personality: She may be sexually attractive, but not a particularly likeable person. Maybe she's a bitch and I would think less of myself if getting serious with her. In that case, fuckz… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/21 12:01 AM |
| 1 | The men like beauty women like success thing is greatly exaggerated.Notice how you can't actually explain what I misunderstood about the comment beyond your gender, which is irrelevant to you comment. Your comment is completely wrong no matter who's mouth it comes out of. Men do acknowledge, all the time that women put a great deal of stock is a man's physical attractiveness. Men do in fact place importance on looking physically attractive. Not as much as women though, because men do not engage in the mating strategy of attracting higher value prospects that the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/21 10:41 PM |
| 0 | The men like beauty women like success thing is greatly exaggerated.You didn't write anything of substance beyond a female talking point, which I promptly shot down. Your conclusion, that men think appearences don't matter much(which makes no sense since guys talk about women valuing looks too much all the time) is because men don't take go through the pathological lengths many women take to appear "beautiful". I already explained how that was off by a mile. It's more of the same garbage of blaming men for women doing what they want to do. Yeah ladies, me and th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/21 10:14 PM |
| 1 | The men like beauty women like success thing is greatly exaggerated.Good job on sounding indistinguishable from the wife that settled for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/21 09:43 PM |
| -1 | The men like beauty women like success thing is greatly exaggerated."Men have unreastically high beauty standards" No, the men that you want have unrealistic standards of you specifically, because they are out of your league and you're hoping enough hair and skin product will dupe them into thinking otherwise. When they wake up and see they see what they actually shagged, they bounce and you tell yourself that -you- were the one that was decieved and exploited. Men don't do this because men typically don't concern themselves with fucking someone way above their … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/21 09:40 PM |
| 1 | Feminizing men in the US is only going to hurt the men that get feminized and the women that do it.I would argue those early predictions turned out to be true and the dystopia is here and now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/21 09:21 PM |
| 1 | Having sex is a mutual benefit for the man and the woman, not just for the man.If you are not tracking the consequences of out-of-wedlock births, then this isn't the place for you. I'm an atheist, this isn't a religious thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/21 02:24 PM |
| 0 | I’m confused- what makes women’s standards unreasonable?Why would I care about any of that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/21 02:18 PM |
| 2 | I’m confused- what makes women’s standards unreasonable?No and only if they bother me about their politics. My standards are don't be ugly or annoying. Details can be sorted out later. I don't run a checklist in my brain of every single argument that can potentially happen and discount people on account of that. That's a great way to pass on perfectly fine people if favor of boring people. Kind of like how movies and videos games tend to suck more and more because of ludicrously high budgets prompt producers to risk-mitigate, leading to content being… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/21 01:34 PM |
| -1 | I’m confused- what makes women’s standards unreasonable?Her standards are not that unreasonable on paper; The problem is, it's on paper and that is a red flag. You shouldn't need a checkbox running in your head. If you do, you're in a relationship with your standards, not a human being. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/21 11:26 AM |
| -1 | Hypergamy/polygamy is the fantasy, assortative mating is the reality24/7? Well there's your problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/21 11:11 AM |
| -1 | Hypergamy/polygamy is the fantasy, assortative mating is the realityWhat is the value of that to a man? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/21 11:02 AM |
| 2 | Hypergamy/polygamy is the fantasy, assortative mating is the realityProlly to mitigate risk of divorce. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/21 10:28 AM |
| 1 | Having sex is a mutual benefit for the man and the woman, not just for the man.No, what's happening is marraige is such a systemic disaster currently that only the most stable relationships are even attempting it, hence the lower rate of marraige and divorce. People aren't making better choices, children out-of-wedlock births are still a huge problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/21 10:25 AM |
| 4 | How do BP/RP/PP women and men feel about who pays on dates in the pre-relationship phase? How does that decision impact you?That's not even remotely fair because men usually don't get a date without asking for it, so the end result is guys pay for all the dates. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/21 04:59 PM |
| 1 | Having sex is a mutual benefit for the man and the woman, not just for the man.Divorce is down because marraige is down. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/21 10:25 AM |
| 1 | Do women get bored of relationships faster than men?Starfish over here says men suck at bed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/21 08:11 PM |
| 1 | men of PPD: would you marry an unattractive woman who has potential to get prettier?No, and I would tend to disagree with the idea that women don't date for potential. Whenever you see a thread about a woman complaining about a man "lacking ambition", what they're really saying is earning potential. Guys complain all the time about girlfriends trying to change their habits, friends and hobbies precisely because woman date men as much for potential as for what's already present, whereas guys want only what they see in front of them and hate when women change on them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/21 07:15 PM |
| 1 | Why are women who get MBA's from elite institutions more likely to work part time then women who don't?Because if they were affluent enough to get an MBA and a career out if it, they had the option of walking away from work. The ones that didn't are more likely poor and have to work as much as possible to get by. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/21 07:07 PM |
| 1 | What does a woman have to work on in order to attract a man?Weird cause I've run across more than a few homosapiens that don't make it a point to give others a hard time, especially when they give a shit about them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/21 06:53 PM |
| 1 | What does a woman have to work on in order to attract a man?"Men want a smiling girl who claps her hands together when he comes into the room." Yes. Was this supposed to be a gotcha? "Nu-uh I want to come from work to get my balls busted more!" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/21 05:25 PM |
| 1 | The biggest dating issue for men is wanting things to be simple and not accepting complexity.Fuck buddies would certainly like to think there's a difference. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/21 03:05 PM |
| 1 | Most people marry after they "hit the wall" and it's a very bad idea to marry when you're young and "in your prime".It doesn't take longer than a few weeks to figure someone out, let alone 5 years. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/21 07:45 AM |
| 1 | Declining relationship trends VS semi-instinctual cravings for love: what will win out?Single-parenthood wins out. Single-parent households are the manifestation of these two factors being satisfied. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/21 09:24 PM |
| 1 | Be Honest: Does A Woman Doing Certain Things in The Bedroom Change Your Feelings For Her?I'm in the "lady in the streets, freak in the sheets" type of guy. That said, is it truly plausible that a woman thought I was so special that she decided to be the nastiest, horniest freak just for me and not plenty of other guys in the past? No, so we can chalk this up as a valid example of men having unrealistic expectations. I reconcile this unrealistic expectation with this standard; in past and present conduct, a women should at minimum be modest and discreet enough in her dealings for me … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/21 08:59 PM |
| 1 | Why all the Salty fighting over age gap relationships?Whatever the consequences of age-gap relationships, the reason why there is so much stigma around older dudes with young women is because there is stigma around all sexual selection in men. Women, particularly if the woke variety want to shame men into having absolutely no preferences that ask of women things they either can't do or won't do. Fat/body acceptance: I don't want to lose weight/look attractive to get the man I want. Age-gap stigma: I don't want to compete with a woman 10 years my ju… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/21 07:56 PM |
| 1 | Do you really want someone that challenges your views?Depends on the person. I have zero interest in being "challenged" in a relationship. That defeats the purpose of a relationship for me. I want to come home from work relaxed, not be bothered by someone else's shit takes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/21 04:55 PM |
| 1 | Do you really want someone that challenges your views?Depends on the person. I have zero interest in being "challenged" in a relationship. That defeats the purpose of a relationship for me. I want to come home from work relaxed, not be bothered by someone else's shit takes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/21 04:55 PM |
| 1 | What to do about low status/unattractive men? Has our society done enough to supplement them with alternatives?"I’m not sure why women would’ve just suddenly considered more men “low status” around the 2000s for no apparent reason" Men are falling behind women in education, arguably the single biggest status symbol in western civilization. Being hypergamistic, women don't want to settle down with the increasing population of men that cannot keep up with them in formal education. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/21 01:25 PM |
| 16 | Are FDS users aware of the fact that there's a large overlap in their thinking and traditional conservative values?Conservatives make the argument all the time that sex work exploitative and harmful to women, hense immoral. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/21 12:27 PM |
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