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bybedad/r/askTRP13/11/18 01:48 PM
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I forgot on how to break up with her: Text her: "My girlfriend does not sleep with her godfather." Then block her everywhere, delete her contact and completely ignore everything from her.
/r/askTRP06/01/19 03:54 PM
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End it now. Her exam does not matter. You need closure as soon as possible for you own sake. Go into this with the mindset that she lost the prize (you) and you dodged a massive bullet.
/r/askTRP06/01/19 02:39 PM
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Yeah, but most people are also stupid. ​ Condom effectiveness: Chlamydia: reduces risk by 60% HPV: reduces risk by 58% Gonorrhea : reduces risk by 90% HIV : reduces risk by 80% Syphilis: reduces risk by 60-70% Hepatitis B: reduces risk by 75%
/r/askTRP04/01/19 05:57 PM
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An the number of sets (reps for compound lifts should be in the range of 8-12 and for accessory and isolation lifts they may go up to 15): ​ Push: - 3 x Bench Press - 3 x Overhead Press - 3 x Incline Bench Press - 2 x Side Lateral Raise - 2 x Triceps Pressdown - 2 x Overhead Triceps Extension - Abdominal Training Pull: - 3 x Deadlift - 3 x Lat Pull Down - 3 x Shrug - 2 x Face Pull - 2 x Barbell Curl - 2 x Dumbbell Hammer Curl - Abdominal Training Legs: - 3 x Squat - 2 x Leg Press - 2 x Leg Curl …
/r/askTRP04/01/19 03:10 PM
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After the first tingles she came to her senses and realized that unprotected sex is stupid.
/r/askTRP04/01/19 12:25 PM
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You are right. Bent Over Row should be included. I have always had issues with my lower back and Deadlifts and Rows are too much. You can do them on the second Pull Day of the week (Friday) instead of Deadlifts if you go really heavy on Deadlifts on Tuesday. Pull-Ups can be done instead of Lat Pull Down as you said.
/r/askTRP04/01/19 12:09 PM
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Do not train one body part per session unless you are on a pro level. If you are a beginner do Full Body thrice a week. If you are intermediate/advanced you can do PPL. An example of PPLPPL is below. ​ Mon: Push - Tue: Pull - Wed: Legs - Thu: Push - Fri: Pull - Sat: Legs - Sun: Rest ​ Push: - Bench Press - Overhead Press - Incline Bench Press - Side Lateral Raise - Triceps Pressdown - Overhead Triceps Extension - Abdominal Training ​ Pull: - Deadlift - Lat Pull Down - Shrug - Face Pull - Barbell…
/r/askTRP04/01/19 07:43 AM
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That's basically it. You need to know that you will always have yourself unless you die. Hence, the key is to like yourself and be content with yourself. Then, not very much else matters anymore.
/r/askTRP04/01/19 06:57 AM
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If what you write in your post history is true and not delusional, it should be a no brainer for you to ditch him. He seems to have some serious issues and I am not able to explain his behaviour by Red Pill standards. ​ Red Pill, no matter if you are a woman or a man, is about caring for yourself and bettering yourself constantly. And having relationships with absolute idiots certainly does not help it. Get some respect for yourself and stop writing hundreds of posts about your situation. Move o…
/r/askTRP03/01/19 12:48 PM
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The most important thing is that you yourself are your number one priority. No matter what is going on with girls, family or friends, the most important things are your body and your mind (work, sports, diet, hygiene, hobbies, ...). ​ As long as it isn't your child, losing someone should never be a big deal for you. It is a hard mindset to achieve and I struggle myself. But having this mindset will lead to a fulfilling live with honest relationships. Work on this mindset!
/r/askTRP02/01/19 01:05 PM
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Yes. ​ Because if men would stop putting women on pedestrals two things would happen: 1) more men would be happier 2) more women would be in better mental health.
/r/askTRP02/01/19 12:54 PM
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What helps me with thoughts that I do not want to have: make up something that you will think about whenever an unpleasant thought comes up. You recognize the unwanted thought and actively think about whatever is your "default distracting thought". Your "default distracting thought" can be anything. It can even be couting to 20. "Your thoughts become your words, Your words become your actions, Your actions become your habits, Your habits become your values, Your values become your destiny." ~ Gh…
/r/askTRP01/01/19 06:37 PM
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I thought is was the next town and 40 km. ​ Then check if you really can not transfer to the third grade in another school. Call a potential school near your Grandparent's. Maybe they can put in a similiar grade where you do not lose that much time. ​ Good luck to you!
/r/askTRP01/01/19 03:16 PM
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She went for someone else a couple of weeks ago. She is most likely not texting you because her life is going great at the moment. Do not be her rebound/shoulder to cry on/... . Block or ignore her. You said yourself that you got shit to focus on and anything else than a long distance relationship will not come out of this.
/r/askTRP01/01/19 03:10 PM
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Are you sure that you can't change schools between semesters? Isn't the stuff being teached more or less the same at all schools? In my country it works. I mean it happens a lot; people move. ​ Any way to move to your Grandparent's and commute to school? Public transportation? Probably borrow a car or have someone drive you? Even if it takes a lot of time each day, it should be worth it. And commuting would only be for two more years.
/r/askTRP01/01/19 10:50 AM
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Second that. I'd move out as quick as possible. Check if you can change to another school near you Grandparent's.
/r/askTRP01/01/19 10:12 AM
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You did fine. No need to make moves on girls in any situation. Just write her that you enjoyed your brief conversation and would like to get to know her and tell her to meet you for coffee at time x and place y.
/r/askTRP01/01/19 09:12 AM
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Either you are gay or you are not. Stop wasting your time on such pointless things.
/r/askTRP31/12/18 03:06 PM
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If you are already into editing videos, you might find pleasure in photography. You will alwas get immediate results but can still improve all the time.
/r/askTRP31/12/18 03:03 PM
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Now know that she has a bad character and you do not want to have to do something with her. Hard next her. ​ Ghosting is disgusting and people who do it are sociopaths in my opinion.
/r/askTRP30/12/18 02:57 PM
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A good physique comes with a "pretty great price". You either pay it or you don't. Simple as that.
/r/askTRP29/12/18 03:54 PM
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To no texting rule is exaggerated in my opinion. Keep texting her until the date. Not too much and take your time. But ignoring her will lead to her not trusting you and she might flake. Tinder girls have options, so you need to keep at least a little contact to stay on her radar.
/r/askTRP26/12/18 08:45 PM
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Same for me. Training comes easy. Eating enough is the hard part. I suggest that you eat clean and eat at least 1 gram of protein per day for every lbs bodyweight. Then lots of (good) fat and a bit of carbs. If you really have trouble getting your calories in, you can add a couple of shakes to your diet (curd, milk, eggs, protein powder, peanut butter, oatmeal, ...). They are easy and good calories. Also, you being 18 is great. You will make faster progress than someone older.
/r/askTRP24/12/18 06:52 AM
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If you have average genetics, are eating and training consistently and more or less in the right way, your progress might be as follows (if your aim is getting as big as possible): 3 to 6 months: people you know start noticing that you look different 1 year: you look like your average athletic person 2 years: in clothes, one can tell that you take your fitness seriously and without clothes, you might turn heads (if you are at a low bodyfat) 5 years: in clothes, you might turn heads and without c…
/r/askTRP24/12/18 03:08 AM
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Sounds like a plan. Do not make it look too staged and obvious. Good luck to you!
/r/askTRP19/12/18 07:51 PM
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I think this depends heavily on the individual and the circumstances. Some are into texting a lot. Some are not and get bored by it. And even if she is into texting, she will probably get bored by it eventually. I mean, she is on holiday and texting you will not be the highlight of her day, no matter what you write. ​ In such situations, I like to check in once in a while and then text a bit more and the pull back again or let her pull back. At some point, when she is about to return, you can st…
/r/askTRP19/12/18 01:51 PM
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Funny, I am in the exact same scenario with two girls I would like to plate. Both of them could be LTR-material a little further down the road. ​ Been on a couple of dates with them; but then the pre-Christmas stress and the Christmas holidays made it was very hard to set up more dates. Texting is becoming a bit more distant and less frequent. ​ I did not really come up with a solution. I guess I just have to wait until they and I myself become more available again. Then I need to set up more da…
/r/askTRP19/12/18 11:38 AM
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I would like to add that it is recommendable to have a buddy or trainer teach you some basic excerices for a full body workout during your first session (I would recommend: Deadlifts, Squats, Benchpress, Lat Pulldowns, Triceps Kickbacks, Biceps Curls, Crunches). ​ Stick to this full body workout for a couple of weeks. You will see good progress and get comfortable with the exercices. ​ Once you got a feeling for the weights and your body you can start to implement more and more exercises or a di…
/r/askTRP27/11/18 03:04 PM
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In the beginning, set yourself regular days and times to go lifting. Stick to this. No excuses. You will either get addicted or you won't. ​ If you get addicted, perfect. Then, the off-days are actually harder than the training days. ​ If you do not get addicted, not so perfect. Then, you need discipline. No easy way around. ​ It is as simple as that. ​ For me, personally, eating enough is the real hassle.
/r/askTRP27/11/18 02:52 PM
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It is a different company but the offices are in the same building. We have been out of college for a while now. I am not planning to go straight into ltr mode. I obviously need to vet her first. I would not call it oneitis. If it works out with her: great. If not, that's fine too. Right now I can't really imagine to settle down at all unless it's with a woman that checks 95% of my boxes. She might be one of these women as far as I can tell right now. Does your remark on hitting her up out of th…
/r/askTRP13/11/18 03:52 PM
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Second that. Sounds like she said it rather impulsively and quickly realized it was stupid. You handled it well. If you like her and the talk in person with her goes well, stay with her. But be aware that, at some point, she might want to take an actual break to see what else is out there. Especially with her circle of friends that you described.
/r/askTRP26/09/18 06:05 PM
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Soft next means you ignore her for a limited amount of time and start communication again if she reaches out to you and knows that she has done something wrong. In OP's case I would soft next her. She wanted the attention, will not get it during the soft next, will most likely see that she fucked up and come back to make it up because she obviously cares about OP.
/r/askTRP23/09/18 12:07 PM
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Listen, no one can upset me. If someone jokes about me, I will jump in on his jokes. Because, believe it or not, I truly do not care what others think about me. I know my value. Interestingly, people respect me although I do not throw acid in their faces. Now, if I go to some random middle eastern dude, chances are good that I can provoke him within minutes to the point where he would get himself into a lot of trouble to beat me up. It is not because he wants to keep his honor. It is because he …
/r/askTRP21/09/18 05:07 PM
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Jap. Giving so much fucks that you are willing to go to jail screams of confidence.
/r/askTRP21/09/18 04:56 PM
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If you won't vet them, you might as well roll a dice.
/r/askTRP21/09/18 02:15 PM
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Is any of these girls already a plate of yours?
/r/askTRP21/09/18 02:05 PM
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