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| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 317 | “What do you bring to the table?” You can’t sit with us. 💅 | MOOD FOR LIFE | bysarahwithlove | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/20 04:57 PM |
| 152 | “Work is not my first priority. YOU are my first priority.” | GREEN FLAG 🟢 | bysarahwithlove | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/20 06:08 PM |
| 63 | How guys come up with their dating profile height | FDS HUMOR | bysarahwithlove | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/20 11:44 AM |
| 1 | FDS resources in other languages? | GLOBAL RESISTANCE | bysarahwithlove | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 03:19 AM |
| 1 | Green Flag Friday: He remembers my grandparents’ first names without ever being reminded or asked to. He has only met them once; I never use their names. While not enough by itself, it’s just one of the hundreds of small things he does that proves he listens. I deserve someone who gives a damn. | GREEN FLAG 🟢 | bysarahwithlove | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 03:04 AM |
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| 4 | Made the mistake of inviting a man to a cooked meal (never again). He declined. Had the fucking cooked meal for myself and it was amazing.Man, what a turd. You did the right thing and you are amazing and if I could I would hug you then eat lambchops with you in solidarity sitting on the kitchen floor. I hope your dad is okay now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 06:38 AM |
| 9 | High value women exercise their right to vote!This is how my (Canadian) husband (American) feels, and of course I think he’s made the right choice to vote for Biden given the alternative... but I still can’t help but be flabbergasted that out of all the democratic candidates, it was Biden that ended up being the front runner. It seemed like there was several really solid candidates available for American Dems to choose from, or at least more solid than Biden. I don’t follow American elections in great depth so sometimes I feel like I missed… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 04:11 AM |
| 14 | 'Why don't women just tell us "no"? They complicate it all so much' (found on twitter)For real. I got engaged and still had a guy friend ask me “so do i still have a chance?” We aren’t friends anymore. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 05:05 AM |
| 10 | Where can I find cute form fitting tops that aren’t crop tops? I don’t like dressing too revealing on dates and the style doesn’t always look good on me, but society keeps pushes them.A scarf with sleeves? Dead 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 02:14 AM |
| 9 | What advice have *men* given you that aligns with FDS?If their wives suddenly become their equal, got a high paying job and all, they won't suddenly respect her. If they get dumped by their wives, they'll curse her and get revenge on her. If the whole generation of women stand up for themselves and reject men like them, they will stop telling women like me to respect myself, they'll start telling women love is everything, sacrificing for family is noble, women's work at home is important and precious, men love nothing more but to protect and provid… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 12:42 AM |
| 6 | How hard is it to put on a nice shirt?Damn. If I wasn’t already married, I’d aspire to be this savage at dating. Haha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 12:20 AM |
| 59 | A Reminder: What He Won't Provide For You, Someone Else Will.Projection be like that. He feels selfish so the defence mechanism is to accuse her of being selfish. Lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 10:38 PM |
| 43 | Has to get to know me over coffee and THEN we can go on “real” dates 🙄I feel ya on this one a little bit. I’d love to say I absorbed 100% of the handbook overnight but I think the truth is for most people, it’s a process. And like any rule book, the goal is to start by following closely to learn the ropes, but eventually evolving to a point where you can rely on your advanced intuition/knowledge to read a situation. I’ve been in situations where I directly went against the handbook but it worked out for me because I was wise enough to read the signs correctly, and… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/20 03:56 AM |
| 4 | Petty, racist and a pickmeisha!People who feel bad about themselves will do all sorts of mental gymnastics to convince themselves they are superior over others, because it’s easier to “knock someone else down a peg” than to improve themselves. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/20 02:12 AM |
| 36 | The other womanI think it happens from a place of bad self-esteem, which leads to a lot of rationalizing behaviours to “protect” their own psyche. When under a lot of stress, it’s pretty common for people to avoid action by rewriting their own narrative. It’s not a healthy behaviour and worse in the long-term, but in the short-term, it can feel “safer” because it lets them avoid change and further immediate conflict. Rationale namely being: I don’t deserve any better This is my fault for not doing/being X All … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 04:11 AM |
| 15 | I still send essaysBeing heard never stops being important, but even more important is understanding how to use your voice productively. We all have limited energy; it’s of paramount importance that you learn to use your energy wisely. There will be times where you say something to someone who is truly listening. These are the people you need to be mentally healthy. Purge the people who don’t and surround yourself with people who do. On an intimate level, you have the power to choose who is close to you. Grey rock… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 03:54 AM |
| 12 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 30 2020Props to the mods, I don’t really see these posts, seems they’re mostly cleaned up by the time my browsing hours roll around. We appreciate you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 07:11 AM |
| 5 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 30 2020Cheers to that! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 07:08 AM |
| 6 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 30 2020Proud of you, lady. Keep on being unapologetically focused on yourself, you deserve it. ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 07:07 AM |
| 11 | Once again, men freely telling the Internet how broke they are!That sounds amazing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 05:14 AM |
| 4 | Gaslighting: Table for 3Do they measure you in the US? When I got my ID here in Canada, they just took my word for it on a form I filled out. Same with my passport. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/20 08:24 PM |
| 1 | Now Who’s the Joke?Why did the republicans decide to vote for her? I’m not familiar with American politics, so I thought (based on internet representations) that republicans were pretty anti-woman anything. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/20 07:37 PM |
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