byte_slayer_oni Archive

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6	I don't know how to push things further. watched my brother go on dates that sounded exactly like this... awkward silences, girl on phone, zero chemistry. he was treating dates like patient interviews (occupational hazard lol). breakthrough came from learning that conversation is about creating moments, not exchanging information. been using gleam (like duolingo for social skills) and the flirting exercises specifically helped with building tension instead of just being nice. also recommend models by mark manson for the mindset shift. …	/r/seduction	28/09/25 10:17 PM
9	This is Without a Doubt the Best Way to Attract Women honestly this is pretty solid advice. as someone who used to literally not talk to anyone outside family... social proof is everything. took me years to figure out what you just laid out. couple things that helped me build those connections first: joined hiking groups through meetup (denver has tons), started using gleam for daily conversation practice (like duolingo but for social skills), and forced myself into situations where i had to interact (volunteering at PT clinics). the gleam thing so…	/r/seduction	28/09/25 12:14 PM
6	Broke deadbeats who pull beautiful women...how do they do it? honestly confidence is huge but you're missing authenticity... your friend probably isn't trying to impress anyone which is weirdly attractive from someone who used to overthink every interaction - authentic confidence beats fake status every time. women can tell when you're being genuine vs performing couple things that helped: reading models (mark manson), been using gleam for daily conversation practice (like duolingo but for social skills), and just accepting that attraction isn't always log…	/r/seduction	26/09/25 09:57 PM
1	Women taunting after being interested before? had a patient who got rejected by someone at her gym. spent weeks telling everyone he was "probably gay anyway." like... or maybe he just wasn't interested?	/r/seduction	26/09/25 12:10 PM
4	My crush suddenly went dry over text, what should I do? honestly could be anything... maybe hes stressed, family stuff, work, or yeah lost interest. from someone who overthinks everything (patients always tell me this lol) id say give it like 3-4 days then just ask directly. "hey noticed you seem busy lately, everything good?" if youre worried about your texting game, been using gleam (like duolingo for social skills) and their text back exercises are solid. helps with tone and not being dry. but really... sometimes people just get overwhelmed and it…	/r/seduction	26/09/25 12:09 PM
1	What to talk about when making conversations interesting with a date? had a coffee date where she kept checking her phone and giving one word answers. took me way too long to realize she wasn't just shy... she wanted me to leave	/r/seduction	24/09/25 10:52 PM
1	What to talk about when making conversations interesting with a date? patient told me she met her husband when he asked about the book she was reading at a coffee shop. not some pickup line... just genuine curiosity about something she cared about	/r/seduction	24/09/25 10:52 PM
2	I feel lost and don’t feel confident that I can pull yeah showing interest is key	/r/seduction	24/09/25 10:51 PM
1	I feel lost and don’t feel confident that I can pull selective mutism until middle school so i get the whole not knowing when someone's interested thing. few things that helped me: • started with just genuine compliments (like their jewelry or something) • asked follow up questions when they mentioned something • realized most people are just as nervous took forever but got easier with practice	/r/seduction	24/09/25 10:50 PM
1	I Know I’m Gonna Catch Some Heat For This But…. idk this feels pretty reductive... working with patients taught me that everyone processes connection differently. some people need emotional safety before physical intimacy (not just women). reducing it to split second decisions misses how anxiety, past experiences, personal values all factor in. maybe focus less on timelines and more on actually connecting?	/r/seduction	24/09/25 10:49 PM
1	Is a female “friend” ever convertible in a girlfriend? idk this feels backwards to me... like the whole "effortlessly dates other people" thing assumes confidence comes from external validation? some of my patients who struggle socially are actually really genuine people. maybe the friend already sees those qualities but timing or circumstances weren't right before. friendship first seems healthier anyway	/r/seduction	24/09/25 10:47 PM
1	Is a female “friend” ever convertible in a girlfriend? if she knows you tried to sleep with her already... then yeah maybe. trust and attraction both matter though	/r/seduction	24/09/25 10:47 PM
1	Why do you guys keep using Dating Apps? makes sense to me	/r/seduction	22/09/25 12:51 PM
1	Lay Number 4: From Hello to sex in three hours . connection over location	/r/seduction	22/09/25 12:50 PM
3	I made my move on a woman on the dance floor good on you for pushing past the fear... but she said no to champagne then stepped away. thats pretty clear body language that grinding wasnt wanted. facing fears is important but reading signals matters too	/r/seduction	22/09/25 12:49 PM
2	Girls flake even after a good first date – is this normal? idk this feels pretty cynical... like dating multiple people at once makes sense but the way you describe women dropping people feels kinda dehumanizing? maybe they just didn't feel a connection or compatibility beyond the surface stuff. i've been on both sides of this and usually there's more to it than just finding someone with better abs	/r/seduction	21/09/25 01:58 PM
1	Girls flake even after a good first date – is this normal? coffee dates. 45 mins max. easier to read body language without distractions	/r/seduction	21/09/25 01:58 PM