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byteseed/r/askTRP03/05/21 03:11 PM
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byteseed/r/MarriedRedPill27/01/23 07:58 PM
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Yes, female friend is a good pivot into any social circle. It is much easier to get into parties and to approach sets with a female friend. Builds instant social proof.
/r/seduction27/12/24 08:05 PM
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You need to learn how to follow up with a phone numeber and push for instant date. Approach is only a first step of the process. The easiest one, paradoxically, every one can do the approah, now you need to learn how to close and follow up. There are plenty of videos on YT from Todd, for example. Call her, have a fun story to tell, ask how her schedule looks like and make a plan for the next few days. You need to learn texting and calling if you want a date.
/r/seduction21/10/24 12:56 PM
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Do you have a goal in your life? Regarding social circle, go dancing it is good for socail circle, make new friends. Don't expect to meet different women, the street is the king for a good selection. I'm scared of clubs and night game Why? cold is coming You can do approaches in the transport, cold weather is not a problem for a bigger city. It is a daygame, dude, you can approach everywhere! Even when I get numbers, most of them don't respond That is normal, make sure to build a good connection…
/r/seduction21/10/24 11:24 AM
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10-15 women over TWO years? Sorry OP, if it is your experience, there is nothing to learn yet. You need to do at least 100 to get a taste. You should do 10 in a day. A hour conversation is not a result. You need to close, have a date, bring her home.
/r/seduction19/10/24 07:57 AM
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Go in the club, dress provocative. You will be hit all the time. Even if you are ugly. Alcohol and darkness makes any women desirable. You can do it with girlfriends as well. 2x2 is a classic set, everyone is winning. Dating apps, super easy ways, the amount of thirsty men is astonishing, you will be overswiped even with bad photos. Just don't catfish. I see one woman in a local bar/club almost every time I am going out, every time she leaves with another man. And those are pretty good looking m…
/r/seduction15/09/24 10:32 PM
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Preselection. More your woman see you are a catch in the eyes of other women, more she is attracted to you. Notice how desireble you become when you go out with your GF vs without a GF. People treat you differently, especially women. Preselection is a fundamental rule of the game.
/r/seduction01/07/24 10:17 PM
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Google charisma, plenty of books and videos. In a nutshell, you need to stop giving a fuck.
/r/seduction28/06/24 10:57 AM
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This, rules are very situational. Most guys are frustrated and lonely, asking out many times is a sign of neediness. Therefore it is a default rule. But it is ok to ask few times, the girl may be busy, going through something complicated in life, hundreds of reasons. Sometimes it pays to be a little bit pushy, it should come from abundant mindset and you should never ask twice because you have no choices. Remember, she should chase, and asking too much is not a good frame.
/r/seduction03/02/24 09:35 PM
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Thanks, I felt it in the message, but was not able to verbalize. Really good example.
/r/askMRP16/12/23 10:54 AM
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Counterargument: Sharing location is a useful tool. It is OK to use it, just don't tie your actions to the knowledge that your location is shared. In other words, if you share location, you should not give a fuck about your wife's knowledge of your location (or anybody else).
/r/askMRP16/12/23 10:52 AM
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> I was okay with it for awhile, but now I don’t like it. Disable it. >how should I handle it when she asks By being honest and telling that you feel uncomfortable sharing because [put your reason here]. Confront the reality. Own your decisions. >she is terrible with her phone to begin with 🙄 You are inventing reasons. Mean thing to say about your wife, maybe you can teach her instead? >she doesn’t deserve it anymore >deserve What the fuck am I reading? You behave like a bitch, by associating se…
/r/askMRP16/12/23 10:40 AM
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>and I'm not sure how to keep on driving now that I'm most of the way to where I want to be You don't. Motivation is for pussies. If you think you achieved something by having two houses and getting laid, maybe you have lame goals. "do better than yesterday" is not a goal. I want to invent a new gene therapy is a goal. I want to conquer every mountain in the world is a goal. I want to build a new electric car is a goal. You should have goals as big as your life.
/r/askMRP07/12/23 03:16 PM
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>will going to the gym consistently turn me into a guy who can get frequently laid from dating apps and bar/clubs? No. It makes you healthy, it makes you strong, it makes you enjoy your body, makes you a better lover, it helps with not giving a shit. Besides of doing thw work on yourself, you need to put yourself out there, ask out girls, flirt, and go to events, that is what gives results and builds abundance. You can be the most wimpy individual, but if you approach, you are guaranteed to scor…
/r/TheRedPill25/11/23 07:15 PM
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>great job >great father, I think it is a part of being fulfilled man. >dealing with constant shit tests You don't "deal" with shit tests, you pass them without noticing because you are awesome. Every woman will test you to some degree, and this is a good thing, part of the game! Shit tests are fun. >and reading your wife’s moods It is basic social intelligence, one of the most attractive qualities. >mommy mode all the time with no time or interest in wife mode Kids are a huge responsibility, if…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/11/23 01:05 PM
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You are missing the point. OP describes how to be a healthy, stylish, decisive, happy high value man. Yes, to be a man takes work. It is r/marriedredpill, understandably, men here want families. The point is, independently from your wife, you want to be a man who is attractive to women. You can fuck your wife, mistress, random girl from the street, whatever you want, but first, you need to do the work and become attractive.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/11/23 11:37 PM
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Maybe because you are banned?
/r/askMRP21/11/23 06:32 PM
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My god. That kind of lesson makes you Red Pill for all your life. Your are lucky she did not get pregnant. Congratulations on getting out. Don't do it again.
/r/askMRP15/11/23 06:50 PM
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It is good, man, many of us have been there. Take the rage, regret and do good with it. You are in control. It may take some time and sacrifices, but you can use this rage to build yourself up to what you are. Truth hurts, it will make you free. Do some heavy physical activities, kayaking, weights, combat sports, football, all will work to make your mind more calm. Remember, it is not your wife who pussified you, it was you, you took the action, you took the choice. It is always about your choic…
/r/askMRP15/11/23 06:33 AM
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Don't worry about it, you need to relax and do something for yourself. Seems like you are in distress and it is a bad place to be. Go do something you love, meet old friends, go to the forest, go social dancing. You need to get past the neediness and emotional rollercoaster you are having now.
/r/askMRP14/11/23 10:34 PM
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I may be mistaken, but you think if you have all of this things: I make x2.8 the median income of my city, and I'm pretty good shape 6 pack and jacked, I've a lot of books of the side bar, I know it will be hard for her to find better than me in the whole package, woman should be with you and your GF should love you. For me, it sounds like a big covert contract. Tell me if I am wrong. The same when you mention "history together" like you are trying to hold her because you have "history" and it i…
/r/askMRP14/11/23 10:16 PM
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>I miss her so much like I can't even live without her Ok, you need to fix this first. That is your main problem. Do not make any important decisions in this state. >Wtf is wrong with her, its like she lives in fantasy land. It is normal, she is a woman >It's just fvcking crazy how she can throw all the great memories even with my parents like that in the trash. It is normal, she is a woman >In the beginning I said I didn't want marriage or kids >ultimatum Do not get married. You need to calm do…
/r/askMRP14/11/23 09:56 PM
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Reading replies, there are many broken men lurking in the sub, you never know.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/23 08:57 AM
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It is not a superpower, it is a curse. You are mixing causation with correlation. To be a top performer you do not need to be a narcissist. People are ready to tolerate abuse from high performers because they give an immerse value. If you cannot give value and decide to be a narcissist, just because, you are setting yourself to a failure. If you want to destroy relationships with people around you, hurt people you care about, and attract broken women in your life, be a narcissist.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/23 08:50 AM
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Agree.
/r/askMRP09/11/23 05:35 PM
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Bruh. Talk about things you like. If you are bored with your wife, do something. Go on a walk together. If you do not like topics she brings, bring what you like, obviously. Do what makes you happy and bring your family in. Game 101.
/r/askMRP09/11/23 07:09 AM
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Genuine desire does totally exist. Have you ever had a puppy? How it follows you and depends on you. Well, it the same thing but when you meet the right woman(and you are the man)
/r/askMRP08/11/23 08:43 AM
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It is when woman looks at you with awe, admiration, you can see it in her eyes, you can feel it when you around her. It does not matter which age she is, you see a small girl in front of you, giggling, warm, full of love and affection, craving your presence, your time, your attention, your touch. You know when it happens, because it absolutely different mental state, I am not sure men can be that way, it is the essence of femininity in your presence. She trusts you completely and you can do what…
/r/askMRP08/11/23 08:28 AM
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I think you have done well, bad behavior should be addressed right away. Personally, I would not force myself to pretend everything is good just for other people, take care of kids, and have a good time with other people, but no attention to wife and she should know why. Disrespect means no attention. A genuine apology in this case is due. You have not fucked it up. Stop overthinking. If it starts to be a usual thing, now you know you fucked up.
/r/askMRP07/11/23 10:51 PM
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strong, adhd, but depressed You are mixing egg and chicken. It is because OP is a small boy who is getting butthurt as there are no sweets (sex). Properly fucked and led women will not be strong or depressed. I bet, once OP changes(or finally leaves his wife), wife will look at him with a small girl's admiration and will enthusiastically initiate sex.
/r/askMRP07/11/23 10:37 PM
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>42 years old, always been sixpack fit. Workout every day. Solid career. played it cool Sounds like a bitch. My advice will be to sign up for a local Muay Thai/MMA/Grappling or other combat sports class and get your ass kicked. But find a real one, when they train for combat and do sparring Why do you care so much? She is not attracted to you? Why should you care? Divorce? Why should you care? Are you even attracted to your wife? No sex? Who fucking cares. Go masturbate, find a prostitute, kill …
/r/askMRP07/11/23 10:01 PM
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> I'm not sure that's really how it works long-term Because it is a completely pointless epimeric number for nerds who are not getting laid. If you are getting laid, you have a high SMV, that's all.
/r/askMRP07/11/23 09:45 PM
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As a husband, you can use beta points: Successfully assembling IKEA furniture together without the manual. Reward: +10 Teamwork points. Daily Quests. For each day that goes by without her reminding you of forgotten chores. +5 Memory points. Stealth Mode. Sneaking out of bed for a midnight snack without waking her. +15 Agility points. Puzzle Solving. Deciphering what she means by "fine" in under 5 minutes. +20 Insight points. That is how you determine sex rank. For the wife, it depends on amount …
/r/askMRP07/11/23 09:14 PM
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This is a correct answer.
/r/askMRP07/11/23 09:05 PM
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Marriage is for kids. And to combine wealth. No one is forcing you to watch a TV. Your wife will fuck you enthusiastically if you do something useful instead, maybe even with her. Marriage is a paper, legal ground to reproduce, it does not change who you are or limit you on what you can do, you impose limits by yourself. It does not change the fact that it is very hard to find a good woman for marriage. Imagine, some Red pilled dads want to have a nuclear family, by choice. It is not about sex o…
/r/TheRedPill05/11/23 08:47 PM
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The ability to walk away does not mean OP should nuke a good relationship because something went wrong, it is not like cheating, being addicted to drugs or some other things that mean full STOP; especially when OP admits, he was needy and weak. Putting effort is worth it, that said, effort should go into the OP first, by improving himself, he can turn around by property leading his GF to any desireble effect.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/23 08:39 PM
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I succeeded with my exams and landed a good job but my gf sort of lost interest in me and went cold because of my mistakes. I horribly broke frame in my moments of weakness, got a little jealous and stuff. Failed a hell lot of shit tests. Congrats! Live your life, continue developing your career, and keep meeting and flirting with new women in your life (just to ensure you are not needy, no need to sleep with them if you are still in a committed relationship). Meet with your GF, have fun, hook u…
/r/TheRedPill05/11/23 10:22 AM
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Because you offer your freedom and resources for the illusion of a relationship. A man becomes an "orbiter" with occasional sex. A man invests, gets attached, and gets resources spent. Woman receives all the "love" and validation without the need to engage in any sex or affection. Needless to say, in LDR it is very hard to be her "first choice", the frame is bad. Good question, it is a lose-lose situation for everyone involved.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/23 09:43 AM
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taken by one guy Do you realize this guy is you, right? Otherwise, fun story. The Red Pill is just a collection of different facts, strategies and observations, nothing less, nothing more. And the community, of course. Take it with grain of salt and test it for yourself.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/23 09:31 PM
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That is a good analysis. Beautiful insight of the aftertaste I get from the post. Thanks!
/r/TheRedPill04/11/23 09:16 PM
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What advice you need? You already know what to do. Do you want to date her as LTR? Seems like you are negotiating, not a good sign. Plate her if you want, do not give any promises. Dating sounds like you are attached, and give her false expectations. It is not your problem if she invested, make it damn clear you are not going to be with her in a long run and keep it casual. Meet, have fun, do not commit, use condoms, enjoy your life. Do not get attached. The past in this case is sort of irreleva…
/r/TheRedPill04/11/23 09:01 PM
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This. Same shit happened to me in my Long Distance "Relationship". Never again, seems we are learning in hard way only. If it is not committed, it is OK.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/23 08:45 PM
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He is your father, of course you can introduce him to any topic your find interesting. TRP is just a philosophy with some roots in optimal reproductive strategy and biology. It is not something secret or sacred, especially for men, neither it is completely truthful. Nice to discuss with someone expirienced.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/23 08:20 PM
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Long distance There is no such thing a long distance sexual/romantic relationship. Break up. You are not in a ,"relationship" as you think anyway. Being there done that,wasted a lot of time and resources. Find a girl in your city. You are setting the frame, discussing being jealous, etc. The "relationship" is lost and you know it. She crossed your boundaries? No going back from that. You have not expressed your boundaries? It should be topic on week one. If you need to regain frame NOW, and comm…
/r/TheRedPill04/11/23 08:09 PM
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Girls who get drunk with coworkers at night are not LTR material. Mix of alcohol makes woman lose control over her body and mind. Smart girls who care about their partners will never get drunk and disappear. If they do so, again, they are not LTR material. No explanations or rationality going to change that. I have been in bars ar night, and you don't need to search long for examples of ladies going out, getting drunk and doing stupid things. It can be totally avoided and doing so is a deliberat…
/r/TheRedPill04/11/23 07:53 PM
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> got drunk with a divorced coworker Do I need to tell what kind of shit drunk girls do? It is a pussy without control. > admitting to sleep with the best friend of her previous BF > LTR Being there. Done those mistakes. Break up is a good decision! Why do you bring a low-quality woman to be your LTR? Independently of if she cheated on you or not, it is not going to work. >Sending bait texts and other elaborate fuckery Why do you bring low-quality women to be your LTR? Independently of whether s…
/r/TheRedPill04/11/23 07:36 PM
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Fair enough. I am sure 99% it is my kid. We were together at the time of conception and I even can pinpoint the exact moment when it happened. You are right about the scarcity mindset.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/01/23 08:45 PM
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Thank you.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/01/23 08:38 PM
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Thanks that's what I needed to hear. I am definitely not on the birth certificate. >You're see-sawing emotionally like a child What does it mean? How do you see it? I relly appreciate replies like that because it let me see myself from the side.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/01/23 08:33 PM
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Fair enough, but I still ask for advice.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/01/23 08:29 PM
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I need a RedPill advice.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/01/23 08:24 PM
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The comment is better than the original post. A smart woman will see through all the bullshit "triad" OP has posted. Maybe it will work for some teenagers in an abusive relationship. It will never work with an experienced woman, or at least with a woman you want to copulate with. Women are much more experienced in manipulation on average. The real power comes from abundance and because of not giving a fuck, not because you need to manipulate and emotionally bully people. And if you are a natural…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/01/23 03:03 PM
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Delete. This is the ultimate cringe.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/01/23 09:01 PM
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Why do you want to exchange numbers with some random stranger? Pretty ass is not a good enough reason to give your personal phone number to some random girl. Beaty is common, as well as craziness. At least learn if you like what she is in a short conversation before giving her your valuable contacts. Maybe she is stupid and boring, has nice boobs and you are wasting your time on phone calls, when it is enough to have a small conversation to know it will not work. Are you collecting numbers or bu…
/r/seduction30/05/22 09:19 AM
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Thats why i said “once you brake through first approaches and become good”. There are different stages of the game, the first 1000 approaches(depending on the person) are the most difficult, but also the most effective for learning. Once the ice is broken and you know what you are doing, there is no need to approach like it is a job. Moreover, it is counter productive, sabotages other life aspects. It is good to be goal oriented when you started. But at some point deliberately practicing just cr…
/r/seduction23/05/22 07:55 AM
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Game should never be a center of your life (unless you are a professional dating coach). Once you brake through your first approaches and become good in game(or at least ok), it is totally normal to run game in the background. Actually, it is how it should work. You are not supposed to “chase women”. You need to live balanced happy life and approach woman on occasion, when it suits your lifestyle. Flirting with women in any social gathering, coffee shop or bus. It becomes your ego, automatic hab…
/r/seduction23/05/22 06:59 AM
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Not important at all. It can help, like any tool. If you are a “pickup artist”, accurately curated social media profile can be a part of your arsenal. But if you are not into it, do not force it. You never should put yourself into a some box to get a girl. Maximize your strengths, minimize you weaknesses. It is better not to have a social profile at all, than to have some mediocre shit. Social media draws your attention, emotional health and time. Perfectly reasonable not to use it. By the way, …
/r/seduction19/05/22 03:17 PM
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Do not listen to coaches, what you need to do is go out and approach girls regularly. Everything else is counterproductive. If it works for some Kyle, no guarantees it will work for you. There are some basic rules (like eye contact, neediness, biological nature of a woman, etc.), yes, but I guess you know them already, if you are here. Nothing beats experience. Coaches build systems of attraction and so on, but the more you go out and approach, the more you will understand that nothing is static…
/r/seduction14/05/22 04:46 PM
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You are trying to manipulate, it will not work. Speak about your interests( because you will be passionate) and invite her out. Keep the conversation short as possible. Do not make it difficult. Phone is for logistics.
/r/seduction10/05/22 01:30 PM
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Man… you can’t really build attraction via phone. If you have a nice voice, socially savage and can support conversation, it will get you started. It will be enough to invite her out. Make a small talk about something that you are interested, comes to your mind and invite her out. You need eye contact, touch, nonverbal communication to feel attracted, no way she will feel attracted via phone, unless she is already in love with you. Also, if you goal is LTR, you are already failing. You have not …
/r/seduction10/05/22 01:19 PM
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It is normal to sleep at 4am and honestly, sane person will not call so late. It is not normal to call at 4am. Only in some special circumstances. She feels like trouble. You are feeling too needy by putting too much in this situation. Call back, make a date. Go on with whatever happens next. Just treat her like a normal girl. If she likes you, she will go. If not, no problem.
/r/seduction06/05/22 06:12 PM
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Well, it depends on what you want from this situation? Do you like her? Do you want to fuck her? Personally, I tend to learn about people before fucking them. You do not put your dick in crazy. Meet in some public place, do some fun and get to know each other. You do not need to invite her home for sex either, use your imagination (car, night park, beach at night, hotel), go to her place. Also, there are good people and bad people everywhere, independently of the profession. I will not put judgm…
/r/seduction06/05/22 07:15 AM
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If you want to fuck other girls, go on, just: A) be honest with you GF about the nature of your relationships. Clearly communicate it is what you want. B) be ready she will leave you. And she has full right to do it. Generally, such arrangements can work as long as you keep your relationship healthy, and your GF is loved and cherished as she should be. Do not do it secretly, because it will break trust.
/r/seduction02/05/22 06:04 PM
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Thats the fun part. You don’t. Keep going. What you need to understand is there is no bad teases, as long as you do not care about what happens. What is a tease? Basically a way to show a girl that you have your own mind, own values and see her as she is, without any pink lenses. You are outcome dependent. There is no need to be arrogant, arrogance comes from one thing: you should be so self sufficient that any reaction can’t get to you (aka holding frame). Arrogance is not a tool, it is the res…
/r/seduction01/05/22 10:09 AM
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Moral principles, love, friendship, trust, good communication. Why should she cheat when there is a trust between partners, when emotional needs are satisfied and relationship is working? The fear of cheating comes from problems inside relationship, from internal weakness, neediness. The man who leads and knows own value, will not be feared to be cheated or over some random phone messages. Your frame and values are very important, she should understand that being not loyal will end relationship …
/r/seduction23/04/22 05:12 AM
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1.72m is avarege, OP will be ok.
/r/seduction04/04/22 01:31 PM
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It will give you ZERO advantage with women. Especially in Europe. You are putting too much effort in trying to be attractive. Concentrate on yourself, your social status, good body, skills, knowledge, hobbies and wealth. Once your concentrate on those thing and keep meeting new women, you will realize that height is not important at all and you can get women you will enjoy independently of how much inches you have in your legs.
/r/seduction04/04/22 10:32 AM
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No. It will backfire.
/r/seduction11/03/22 07:07 AM
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True, do not use it if you are not close enough, OP. But do not shield your feelings either.
/r/seduction27/02/22 04:05 PM
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Say what you feel, express yourself fully, look into his eyes when climaxing. Say how you love him, say you are his, say how you want to be fucked by him, say how you are enjoying him inside, use emotions, be loud, speak dirty. Say how he makes you come. Make it personal, enjoy and do not filter yourself or try to achieve certain result, be wild, submit yourself to pleasure. Grab him stronger with your whole body, use kisses everywhere, moan. It is not about what you are saying, more about how y…
/r/seduction27/02/22 11:49 AM
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If she is into you, she will be laughing from your jokes even when they are not funny. Do not try to be funny, have a great time by yourself and invite girl in this fun bubble.
/r/seduction26/02/22 10:01 AM
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Not every girl, you need to screen for girls with trauma, history of bad relationships, low self esteem or any other psychological problem that can be exploited. Why dark triad works? 1. Narcissism makes you overconfident. Confidence is attractive. 2. Psychopathy makes you not to give a fuck about what woman thinks and just get what you want. 3. Machiavellianism makes you a calculative manipulator, who knows how to exploit weaknesses of others but with an empathy to understand consequences. Do n…
/r/seduction25/02/22 11:39 AM
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Yes, check Dark Triad traits. Not something easy to learn, but if you are used to have manipulators in your family or friends and relatives, observe their behavior. I strongly advise you against manipulation for you own sanity and integrity. The Book of Pook or Mistery Method are actually good sources of manipulation tricks. But having manipulative partner or friend is much better lesson.
/r/seduction25/02/22 11:28 AM
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TRP is big and composed from different views starting from extreme nonsense and ending with reasonable advices. It is not bad, you just need to filter for what works for you and avoid becoming women hater. Also, do not think knowledge here will make you a better human. Take everything from TRP with grain of salt, fact check. You do not want to live by anecdotes. Otherwise it is a good place.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/22 07:43 PM
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For men in this subreddit, never break down or cry in front of your lover. Never. The damage is irreparable. The only justification can be death of you loved ones or similar circumstances, even then, go to you friend. Showing vulnerability is ok, but showing mental weakness over something insignificant is the biggest flag of psychological instability.
/r/seduction23/02/22 02:04 PM
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If we talk about biology only: It is hard because it is evolutionary need. Woman is supposed to carry your child, therefore she is screening for the best genes. If you do not show characteristics that guarantee the best possible mating strategy for the woman in the current moment, you will be filtered out. But once you have established those characteristics, sex becomes super easy.
/r/seduction23/02/22 01:35 PM
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True, if you manage to be a leader in large social group, picking up girls becomes much easier. Social proof is very powerful. A group is a girl, a girl is a group, as old PUA saying states.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/22 12:34 PM
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Nah, Tinder is a shithole. Scrolling filtered pictures and writing pointless messages to get girls to like you. What the fuck is this? Time waster. I prefer real interaction with real women any day over the Tinder disgrace.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/22 09:15 AM
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If you are cute, you will be approached. If you are ugly, just wait for the night and alcohol to kick in. From my experience, a woman in a bar will never be alone for long. Just be careful.
/r/seduction18/02/22 07:57 AM
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Well, they are usually not young (I guess, it really depends on the place and organizer.). Good for chat, but not someone you will consider dating, unless you are an older guy. I find different meetups/circles by interest to be much more effective in meeting women. My biggest problem with speed dating is that it sets expectations, puts a little bit of pressure on the situation and creates artificial environment. It is very unnatural space for attraction to flourish.
/r/seduction15/02/22 11:45 PM
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No, it is not worth it. The whole promise of speed dating is needy as hell. You go to the specific place, usually pay money for organizers, to speak with limited set of strangers. Why not to go to the local event/club and do the same, but meet women you actually want to meet? Think about it, who goes to the speed dating event? Hint, it is not the young cute nursing student from your local university, who is constantly hit by men. Although, it can be useful if you do not have social skills whatso…
/r/seduction15/02/22 01:04 PM
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OP was playing in a team, won the match, some yoga traveler girl, who he got introduced earlier, suddenly become attracted to him. OP refused to meet her because he was celebrating with the team and recovering, next day he banged her. They had a short romance, she left to ride dick carousel elsewhere. The end.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/22 08:25 PM
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Good story, OP! Thank you for sharing! I loved how you went with a team instead of visiting her after the game, the right choice that made her even more attracted.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/22 08:17 AM
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It can be number of things: sleep deprivation, medications, stress, anxiety, focus as you have mentioned, eye problem.
/r/seduction12/02/22 01:54 PM
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Single moms are not damaged goods. I do not like the use of such words, it sounds degrading. There are different situations in life. I warn OP into going in any relations with single moms, it is just not worth the hassle. It is better to date woman without kids, less problems. Regarding relationships, yes, it should be mutual agreement of two people. But the point is, man gains a little going into relationship, woman should initiate any committed relationship. And man chooses to get into it or n…
/r/seduction12/02/22 01:29 AM
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What I am saying, the commitment or in other words, monogamous relationships, should be man’s decision. Commitment should come from genuine desire, understanding of own value and on basis of respect. Man should never commit to a woman because he cannot find anyone better! Commitment is a choice made toward a woman who makes man’s life better, more fulfilling, more enjoyable. In real life it looks like, you met a girl, you have fun, you meet other girl, you have fun. You keep meeting the first gi…
/r/seduction11/02/22 11:25 PM
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Well, if you want just to fuck them, and you are clearly establish this intention from the start, it may work. Just be aware, single moms are looking for someone to help them raise children, no matter what they are saying to you. I will avoid dating woman with a child, possible issues overcome short term pleasures.
/r/seduction11/02/22 05:04 PM
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lock Do not try to lock anyone, OP. Relationships should be woman’s idea. Man provides commitment, women provides sex. When you are trying to “lock” someone for the LTR as a man, the underlying communication is neediness. Why single moms are more cooperative? it is harder to get commitment from the successful male as a single mom. If you can have any woman you want, why should you pick a chick with not yours children? 1. You will never be a priority in relationship, her child comes first. 2. You…
/r/seduction11/02/22 04:51 PM
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I am not saying that men should have sex with thousands of women. You can built value, frame etc. as much as you want. But only interactions with woman will teach how to be a better lover. We can find countless examples within millionaires, take Bezos. His frame, value have not saved him from divorce. Interaction with women is a skill that should be learned, probably you will sleep with a lot of women along the way. “Ruining” is not the right word. It is learning. Now, do sleeping with a lot of …
/r/TheRedPill11/02/22 11:05 AM
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To become good with women, you need the real world experience. Only by meeting a lot of women and be in relationships, man can learn how to be attractive and how to handle man to woman interactions. This is the paradox, to attract the woman you want to commit, you will need experience from thousands of others. Women do not have this issue, as they are born into it. Their femininity, fertility, beauty doesn’t need to be learned by sleeping with men. Men are built, women are born. What do you mean…
/r/TheRedPill11/02/22 10:17 AM
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Good quality woman will not fall for Chad even if you are the worst simp. Actually, when in LTR, smart women tend to trade a lot for the commitment. You need to make many mistakes over and over again, before she will sleep with another man.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/22 09:48 AM
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I do not know where are you from, but it is not true for Europe for sure.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/22 09:44 AM
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Thank you, OP! Citing sources and using actual data is the best thing we can do in this sub. Good read.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/22 07:21 AM
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I absolutely love the intimacy of holding hands and physical contact in general, in and out if relationship. It may be more enjoyable even compared to kisses. Now, it really depends on the environment and how do you feel about it. If it is in the club, dancing, hugging, holding hands can happen automatically. But yeah, on the first date, it may send relationships vibe and can be wired if you do not have strong attraction. I love to initiate physical contact with a dance, and lead by holding hand…
/r/seduction07/02/22 03:34 PM
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Hardly any woman worth investing your time for so long without sex. In my experience, 3 dates is average time when a woman is ready to have sex with you. 6-7 dates are really stretching your investment. My favorite relationships started with sex on the 1st or 2nd date, due to the strong sexual tension between me and my partner. Sex is not worth the wait. Building comfort destroys sexual tension. You cannot go into relationship without knowing if you both are sexually compatible at all. And there…
/r/seduction07/02/22 01:20 PM
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You know, OP, what keeps me sane everyday? If I lose money in the market, compare myself to other people or get rejected by a woman again, I do one thing each night. I go for a long run with some body weight workout in the end. There is no one on the street at 1:00. Sometimes I meet wild animals, rabbits, foxes, cats. I run till my legs become like wool. And while I run, I laugh. Because nothing really is important as long as your muscles are working, feet going in the ground, arms doing push up…
/r/TheRedPill06/02/22 08:27 PM
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For the future. Never, in any situation, tell a woman how many partners you used to have in the past. Let her draw the picture, use her imagination to fill the gaps. If she asks, turn it into a joke, like: “I had one girlfriend, but in each country I travel. So they will not meet each other.” Or answer with some impossible number, like 999. On the other hand, for long term relationships, avoid woman with many experiences in the past. It is not a rule, but women who went through a lot of breakups…
/r/seduction06/02/22 09:23 AM
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When I have started, I got laid after around 300 approaches. Almost everything I learned about women, I learned from approaching. Now about self esteem, dedication etc. I do not know how you perceive cold approach, but it is actually fun. There is a lot of nice conversations coming out of talking to strangers, moreover beautiful women are very masterful in rejecting you in a nice way. I advocate for approaching the most beautiful women you can find, they are delightful and fun to talk. Rejection…
/r/seduction03/02/22 12:33 PM
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Incorrect. It literally works for everyone, as long as you are willing to learn and put the work. Cold approach is a skill. Even if you have zero game, by doing cold approach you will find one women per thousands who will be glad to sleep with you. In reality it is even easier, usually guys have some level of game and understanding of what attracts women. The biggest advantage of the cold approach is outcome independence, there is nothing to lose by doing an approach, compared to social circle o…
/r/seduction03/02/22 12:07 PM
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You do not need to buy anything in bars or even drink. When I go to game in the bar/club I buy zero alcohol drinks. Maybe coke or water occasionally.
/r/seduction03/02/22 10:08 AM
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You need to learn how to approach groups. The fact that you are ugly is not so important. As long as you keep yourself in a good shape/haircut/style/body you should be ok. Moreover, I met ugly guys dressed like a construction workers who were able to pull girls at parties just by being charismatic and funny. Appearance is irreverent as long as you do not care about it. What you need to do: 1. Be social. It is very suspicious for a man to be in a bar alone. When I go by myself, I receive those st…
/r/seduction03/02/22 09:34 AM
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What if jerkery it is not in your character? I feel like following your advice creates an unbalance between feelings and behavior. I have tried to do the shit with ass slapping and so on, and I felt huge inconsistency between internal state and what I am doing. It comes out as an act, which expects a certain reaction, the most Beta behavior out there. If you care at some point and put a mask that you are not caring, girls see through the act. It destroys attraction even more.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/22 08:04 AM
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While I agree with you that many PUAs are just scum. Some of the theory is really helpful for the beginning. It is enough to get concepts and approach, approach, approach.
/r/seduction29/01/22 09:43 AM
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Yes. If you are attractive. What makes you attractive is another story(surprise, surprise not necessarily looks): confidence, not neediness, social calibration, frame.
/r/seduction28/01/22 11:45 PM
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Go for it. What are you losing anyway? Looking with a “I want you” eyes is more or less safe, lol.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/22 03:46 PM
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Whatever works for you, man. For me, Tinder gives zero success. And approaching girls actually got me results. When you are very direct after the approach, e.g. on the date, it works well. I do not usually say sexual things, I just escalate physically, with voice and eye contact, while keeping conversation flirty. Girls said to me several times, that I seduced them with my eyes.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/22 12:51 PM
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Sober animalistic attraction is the best!
/r/TheRedPill27/01/22 12:43 PM
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dick sucked on a Tinder ”masculine” shit in person Tinder is good when you are matching, but it is better to be rejected by gorgeous woman on the spot for what you want, compared to swiping like a bafoon in some app. I agree with OP, unless you are totally out of reality and ugly, highly polarizing game works well for some girls. You need to own it and be completely apologetic. Make it into a game, not like an assault, which is not easy to pull off when you have social anxiety.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/22 12:37 PM
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Yes. It is called preselection. Try to go at any social gathering with a woman, you will be surprised how much warmer people will become towards you. It automatically increases your social status and acceptance within a group. You can use it for your own good in a club, the whole Mystery Method is heavily based on how to open groups and leverage other females to get what you want. Preselection is one of the most powerful tools in seduction, the man wanted by one woman is the man wanted by many w…
/r/seduction27/01/22 10:29 AM
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Think about it in this way, you have two strategies: 1. “Safe” one, Indirect openers, dates, require a lot of time, but you have much less rejections when approached. Conversation goes well, you get to know each other, go to a date, maybe second date, etc. Long safe way. 2. “Dangerous” way, when you are approaching directly, expressing your desire, and see if it sticks. Very high blowout rate, a lot of rejections. But you can find a girl who will say “yes” right away. Direct, fast, dangerous. No…
/r/TheRedPill27/01/22 08:59 AM
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Extremely agree, to do this shit, you need to be well calibrated to the environment, woman you are approaching and, the most important, to yourself. For someone novice or inexperienced it will be a disaster. Do not try this until you are confident with approaching, guys. Any doubt and you will be punished instantly. Which can be a good thing, when you are approaching regularly and geared towards fast results. The more direct intention is, the more polarized is intersection. High risk, high rewar…
/r/TheRedPill27/01/22 08:47 AM
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Well, you have your answer. Just get in some social groups, go to some parties and you will be golden.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/22 05:37 PM
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PUA style cold approach talk to them on bus/school/bar It is exactly cold approach, lol. While the best type game for a town is social circle, the problem with social game, it is hard to get in a place where you have young women, a lot of them to choose and still have some interesting things to do. Every meetup I have attended in my city is full of women in their 30. Nothing wrong with it, they are usually fun, goal oriented women who do well. But i want younger pussy. So cold approach is the on…
/r/TheRedPill25/01/22 12:57 PM
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Move to a bigger city man, gaming in a small town is like walking on rakes. You will become famous with cold approaches. And it is not kind of fame you want to have .
/r/TheRedPill25/01/22 12:25 PM
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What is the best way There are two ways, actually: 1. You build yourself in such a way that you become famous and recognizable. Like playing in the band. Woman will approach you instead. But it is a long way, and you never should do it for women only. 2. Approaching shit ton of women anywhere, anytime and searching if they fit your criteria( most of them will not, lol). where to find cute girls. You need to learn how to open sets and integrate yourself into the group. Cute girls are rarely alone…
/r/TheRedPill25/01/22 09:01 AM
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Find some social gathering in your town like: - Psychology meetups - Public speaking meetings - Language exchange - Dance events - Concerts Pick whatever you like and go. By the way, you can approach anywhere, even in shopping malls. Do not add random chicks on Facebook, it is desperate.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/22 08:51 AM
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Great post, Op! I would add, when you are starting, it is totally ok to talk not only to girls, but anyone. You should create a habit of talking to anyone in any social conditions: with a barmen, museum guide, security. Then when you see pretty woman it will become natural for you to approach. Do not afraid to talk to groups of girls as well, it is even easier than talking to one girl. Do not be a creep by approaching on the lonely streets at night, I saw guys doing it, lol. Calibration to the s…
/r/TheRedPill25/01/22 08:23 AM
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That’s the fastest ticket to a friendzone, lol. Respect should be earned. There is basic level of respect, as for any human being, everything else should be earned.
/r/seduction24/01/22 01:33 PM
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Yes, fellow redditor, all women are beautiful. Just do not fuck ugly ones. And crazy.
/r/seduction24/01/22 11:28 AM
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This is very good post, thank you very much!
/r/seduction23/01/22 09:12 PM
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Well, it is a good point. Do not use such terms as “killing Beta” it is very vague and do not get to the point, It is a bad terminology, because you can pack anything inside and make it into a pseudoscience. Getting over neediness is a must have for any man.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/22 08:31 PM
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Woman that I find attractive can be considered not so attractive by my friends. I like feminine woman who doesn’t use make up with natural long hair, big eyes and sense of style. When approaching I speak to fat woman, I speak to skinny woman, blonds, brunettes, old, young. It doesn’t mean I am going to fuck all of them. It is not enough to have good looks. Sometimes I have a conversation with very beautiful woman, but once she opens her mouth, any attraction is going down the drain. Vice versa, …
/r/TheRedPill23/01/22 04:19 PM
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What? Have you ever met strangers? You are making a lot of assumptions here. I suggest you to go on the street and speak with people before making judgments. Ugly Define uglinesses. If someone is judging people on their looks, it is already red flag. Value And what value can anyone demonstrate on a first date, for example? Charisma, social intelligence, knowledge, humor, personal experience. A lot of value. Actually, it is not even about person who is approaching, it is about what “hot babe” can…
/r/TheRedPill23/01/22 03:59 PM
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You are calling me delusional, which is not how a good debate is built. Provide your evidence. I have my anecdotal experience, I know experience of other guys. Who said that it was 0.5 seconds? It is not how approaching works at all. You go to someone you like, and you strike a conversation, it is not seconds. Have you ever tried to talk to strangers? It can be done anywhere, street, museum, bar, any social gathering. My best dates were on the spot dates, which lasted half an hour or more. Regar…
/r/TheRedPill23/01/22 03:41 PM
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What is your evidence? I have cold approached thousands of women, I got rejected, I got dates, I got laid, I got one night stands. I never managed to get a gf before approaching. I got my first GF when I approached her in the shopping mall. Everything I learned about women comes from approaches, from fails and pain of rejections. Cold approach works. And what is the alternative, by the way? Take your place where society is pointing you? If you don’t go for what you want, you will never get.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/22 03:16 PM
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Yes, it makes sense. In my experience, with self development it is easier to be with a woman who checks your list of requirements. When you are fit, earn a lot of money, have shit together, the pool of quality women accessible to you becomes larger. Why it is not totally required to get laid, it definitely should be background task for every men.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/22 11:38 AM
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I agree with you, just being in shape and having money, pursuing goals makes life much easier and more enjoyable in the long run. You can totally get laid broke and skinny, with the power of cold approaching, exposing yourself to women.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/22 11:01 AM
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Texting for logistics only is a good general advice. But it should not come from manipulation standpoint. Text as much as you want, but have boundaries. For example, I hate texting in general, so I call to have a date. And I do not text when I am working. Indeed, for woman you just met, number one priority is to have a date and get you know each other, check if you really like her, which is not doable through text. Regarding your interaction: You done very well. Probably she is not really intere…
/r/seduction23/01/22 09:22 AM
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Sorry man, what you are writing is basic knowledge on this sub or any seduction community. To get laid with woman you really want, you need two things: 1. Working on yourself, which includes money, social skills, body building, learning, etc. 2. Approaching women continuously and delivering your value. I do not understand what “killing Beta” really means. “Beta” behavior is situational. Of course by doing self development and approaching you become more confident man, who is better positioned fo…
/r/TheRedPill23/01/22 12:29 AM
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Keep your frame. Your beliefs and values are what makes the man. It doesn’t mean you are not listening, but never change your beliefs for a woman without good logical reason. It is a nature of the feminine, fitness test of your masculinity. She should respect your views, either she agrees with them or not. As long as you love her and keep your views, relationships will work. Once you start to getting into her views and accepting her changes, it is done. You can think it in the following way: As …
/r/seduction21/01/22 01:21 PM
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Sorry about your son, thank you for the lessons. Keep going, man! You built yourself and now you are stronger.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/22 06:32 PM
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Sorry man, I am doing software engineering, but it took me years to get there, so cannot suggested anything rapid. You need to explore what you can do by yourself, something that you like.
/r/seduction20/01/22 01:04 PM
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Go for Eastern Europe, women there are very feminine.
/r/seduction20/01/22 12:31 PM
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good looking women Any Slavic country or Eastern Europe: Hungary, Poland, Czech Republic(Budapest, Krakow, Wrocław, Warszawa, Praha). If you are able to secure a job in London and move to Eastern Europe, you can live very comfortably. Woman in Spain are beautiful and it is a good place to live. Any big city is good for dating(try Madrid or Barcelona). Personally I like Madrid(many pretty women on the streets, good food and relaxed way of living, people are nice), Wrocław(a lot of young women and…
/r/seduction20/01/22 12:27 PM
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Good post! Show your hobbies, make them love what you love, guys. The quality on this sub starts to improve to its past glory, which makes me happy. More value, less tears and anger! I recommend to learn some storytelling tricks, going to a local storytelling club or course, like Toastmasters. They will teach you how to deliver your interests in engaging way, you will love it!
/r/TheRedPill19/01/22 09:08 PM
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There are nuances, you are not disregarding completely what woman say, you need to learn how to listen to them. What they are saying is true, just in another coordinate system, feelings related. For example, when woman says to you something like: “You didn’t even miss me while I was gone”, classic “shit test”. She is not expected to hear how you have missed her and how precious she is for you, she is asking to be reassured that you are confident man who is glad to see her, but who is not thinkin…
/r/seduction19/01/22 02:11 PM
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It is ok to be nice. The only problem with “nice” is when it comes from place of weakness. Nice guys are nice not because they want to be nice, it is because they do not have dangerous side discovered. Women really want a nice guy, the nice guy who control his danger, the guy who has the power to be nice. And chooses to be nice without sacrificing his desires, goals, values for women.
/r/seduction19/01/22 01:57 PM
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I stand with you, man. The truth should be spoken, whatever it is pleasurable or not. Almost any good seduction book or PUA course covers this topic: not to listen what women say, but how women act. (It actually goes for men as well, unfortunately). Not sure why your post was removed, maybe there was another reason?
/r/seduction19/01/22 01:47 PM
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In some sense, yes. If it is your goal. Let me clarify, being millionaire is used here as example of extreme self improvement, in real life it is enough to get shit together, have some savings and not living in the parents basement. Which is basic knowledge preached in the sub. You can bang woman as an broke dishwasher, of course, it is just easier to do when you are constantly following your goals. And everyone can lift to be ripped.
/r/seduction19/01/22 07:58 AM
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It is question about boners, man, automatically sexual topic. And I telling my experience. OP can do whatever he wants with it. Maybe he will like the associated adrenaline rush, maybe not. Everyone has own preferences. But it is good to know different views. Of course there are other sides of relationships. Sex is just one side of a good relationship and it is fun to try something extreme, especially if you have good chemistry with your partner.
/r/seduction18/01/22 09:14 PM
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Do not prevent it, own it. Congratulations! My best partners were constantly giving me boners, in the street, in the theater, in the bus. She will know, she will like it, it is ok for her to notice. Show her what she is doing to you! Let her feel it. Women love when men are physically attracted to them. Pure attraction is impossible to fake, it is honest signal of the raw sexual chemistry. Do some fun together in the dark park or lonely beach. Enjoy!
/r/seduction18/01/22 10:40 AM
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We need more background. What does it mean: hasn’t warmed up? Give us a full story, if you want an advice.
/r/seduction18/01/22 10:25 AM
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OP, default advice here, when you are already constantly improving yourself, is to start approaching regularly. Improving yourself will not bring results alone(unless you become really famous and rich), but combined with the regular cold approach, it makes wonders.
/r/seduction18/01/22 12:19 AM
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Actually, improving yourself will help not only for casual sex, but for LTR as well. Higher quality man is attractive for smarter, more feminine and pretty woman. Think it as a shotgun analogy. When a guy is fat and stupid, chances to find THE ONE(who did not exist, by the way) are slim. Of course, miracles happen. Like a sniper, average guy counts on one shot, one love, one luck. But if you are ripped millionaire, chics will mold themselves, into what you like, chase you, increasing chances to …
/r/seduction18/01/22 12:13 AM
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For me cold approach was the best therapy. It allowed me to meet my fear of talking to women and understood that asking woman out is not scary, but fun adventure. You will be surprised how many pleasurable interactions you can have with beautiful ladies when you are smiling and playfully inviting them on a date or just chatting. Try it for yourself and see. There are literally nothing you can lose. Online dating is much more depressing place to be. Few words about other methods, if you think abo…
/r/seduction17/01/22 12:17 AM
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Here is the thing about online dating: 10% of males fuck 90% of girls. You will be better asking woman on the street to sleep with you. Statistically you have higher chances, unless you are famous, recognizable rich boy( but if you are, why should you use online dating?). Do not waste your time chasing women, especially online, they will use you for validation.
/r/seduction16/01/22 10:32 PM
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Never get back with an ex. It is like checking out old garbage in the bin. You get dirty, it gets messy for both of you. Just leave the garbage in the bin and let it be collected. She dumped you, go on with your life, have respect for yourself, find someone better, she lost her chances with you. When she leaves you, If she wants to fix it, let her do all the work, and do not give her any relationship or commitment. She has been downgraded to the level of random girl from a night club. For the fu…
/r/seduction16/01/22 09:27 PM
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Exchanging instagrams is good if you want a follower. Go for number/WhatsApp, even mail. The more direct it is, better it is. Facebook can work.
/r/seduction16/01/22 08:02 PM
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Good place to be, congrats.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/22 10:48 PM
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Not sure why you are talking about the appearance. Chad is Chad not because of his looks. Moreover, to be the prize is not necessary to be good looking, while you are working out and keeping finances, other life aspects in order, looks become just a small bonus. I totally agree that charisma is much more important for a man, and it should make panties wet, not some gorgeous face or few muscles.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/22 10:46 PM
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While it is true that there are many reasons for sex, I feel that Chad like sex is the most satisfying for me as a man. It is nice to feel wanted, observing her fascination for you, feeling how she wants to pleasure you, this unfiltered desire, fountain of emotions. If you experienced the fire to be truly desired by the woman, her feminine towards your masculine, any other reason is just not satisfactory. Thanks for the quality post!
/r/TheRedPill15/01/22 10:25 PM
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Absolutely. Life is short to spend time with people who do not appreciate you. Remember, it goes both ways. If you can’t say “yes!” to your romantic partner or friend, do not do it. It should be hard Yes from both of you.
/r/seduction15/01/22 07:53 AM
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Do not listen to the advices of women, which are saying it is ok to cry, OP. Being vulnerable and expressing yourself is good, but not crying. Yes, crying will destroy attraction. Being overemotional is not masculine quality. It may bond you with your best girl friend, but it will not give you porn style sex. It is the role of the woman to be more emotional in relationship. Men should provide rigidity.
/r/seduction12/01/22 11:51 PM
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It depends on circumstances, if she is the reason of your tears, definitely yes. It destroys frame completely. If you cry because you relative deceased, and she is just a witness, it is normal.
/r/seduction12/01/22 11:40 PM
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Great post! I found “showing” in the bedroom works extremely well. One thing I can recommend to learn how to lead physically, is lead-follower type dance classes. I like Salsa/Bachata, but Tango or Kizomba works equally as good. As additional benefit you actually learn how to dance. Of course, the best practice is performed in the bedroom.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/22 03:29 PM
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Thanks for the info! I see the article on girlschase. He was catched selling audio recording with woman without consent in some of his courses and several people really took a Crusader raid to bring him down. He went underwater, but it happened before. I am really sorry to hear that. Tom was the reason I started learning daygame. He was example of how extremely nerdy guy can turn himself into confident seducer. He was relatable, passionate teacher. It is a big loss for PUA community.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/22 07:21 PM
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Thanks for the info! I see the article on girlschase. He was catched selling audio recording with underaged woman in some of his courses and several people really took a Crusader raid to bring him down. He went underwater, but it happened before. I am really sorry to hear that. Tom was the reason I started learning daygame. He was example of how extremely nerdy guy can turn himself into confident seducer. He was relatable, passionate teacher. It is a big loss for PUA community.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/22 07:21 PM
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Thanks for the info! I see the article on girlschase. He was catched selling audio recording with underaged woman in some of his courses and several people really took a Crusader raid to bring him down. He went underwater, but it happened before. I am really sorry to hear that. Tom was the reason I started learning daygame. He was example of how extremely nerdy guy can turn himself into confident seducer. He was relatable, passionate teacher. It is a big loss for PUA community.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/22 07:21 PM
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Thanks for the info! I see the article on girlschase. He was catched selling audio recording with underaged woman in some of his courses and several people really took a Crusader raid to bring him down. He went underwater, but it happened before. I am really sorry to hear that. Tom was the reason I started learning daygame. He was example of how extremely nerdy guy can turn himself into confident seducer. He was relatable, passionate teacher. It is a big loss for PUA community.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/22 07:20 PM
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Thanks for the info! I see the article on girlschase. He was catched selling audio recording with underaged woman in some of his courses and several people really took a Crusader raid to bring him down. He went underwater, but it happened before. I am really sorry to hear that. Tom was the reason I started learning daygame. He was example of how extremely nerdy guy can turn himself into confident seducer. He was relatable, passionate teacher. It is a big loss for PUA community.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/22 07:19 PM
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Thanks for the info! I see the article on girlschase. He was catched selling audio recording with underaged woman in some of his courses and several people really took a Crusader raid to bring him down. He went underwater, but it happened before. I am really sorry to hear that. Tom was the reason I started learning daygame. He was example of how extremely nerdy guy can turn himself into confident seducer. He was relatable, passionate teacher. It is a big loss for PUA community.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/22 07:18 PM
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No way! Do you have any source? I really loved his podcast and he was one of my favorite old style PUAs.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/22 07:00 PM
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That is why good PUAs are also good with inner game. I will argue, doing cold approach for long time is kind of therapy. Take Tom Torero, famous day gamer or Mark Manson. They started with PUA routines and slowly transitioned into mastering self. If you do PUA band aid regularly, it leads to abundance and, as a result, you become what you are faking.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/22 05:22 PM
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Do you want sympathy or hard work? You may perceive him as Chad, but behaviors you have described are not unique and sometimes even just stupid. I have been there, I have been Chad, I have been bluepill lad. There is no such thing as Alfa/Chad or Beta, whatever. Everything is situational, changes with the context. The same woman can love you in the evening and hate you in the morning. How can you be better? You know it. Follow the sidebar. Stop bitching, every time you think she was 10/10, shut …
/r/TheRedPill05/01/22 04:39 PM
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You have not learned anything. Stop thinking about women, work on yourself and approach regularly. Also, Chad from your story is not really a Chad, if you think about it accurately, you have a potential to be better.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/22 04:23 PM

Go to r/marriedredpill and read the sidebar. You are not totally wrong about “bad boys”, but your reasoning and understanding are lacking. You need to learn a lot.
/r/RedPillParenting02/01/22 10:09 AM
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Yes, but it is actually easier than hitting on one girl, because as soon as group accepts you, the girl you like will accept you as well. The only tricky part is isolation and logistics. For the basics how to, read Mystery Method. Todd has few short videos about group approaches, which will cover your knowledge. It is nice to have wingman for such situations. Actually, groups are now my favorite due to the amount of fun you get from being with several ladies.
/r/seduction10/12/21 10:55 AM
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Yes, yes, yes. Cold approach is the only way to achieve social freedom. No money, status, knowledge will compensate for it. The sole ability to talk to anyone, skill of creating attraction, can be trained only by going out and approaching. Once you understand how powerful cold approach is, everything else becomes obsolete. Cold approach is the freedom to choose. You want a smart girlfriend? Approach. You want some night stand? Approach. You want open relationship with bunch of cute girls? Approa…
/r/seduction10/12/21 10:34 AM
1

Stop doing online game. Stop going nightclubs. Start going places/doing things you like and pick up girls at those places! Nightclubs are only good for the approach skill.
/r/seduction09/12/21 01:09 AM
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If you need to confirm, call.
/r/seduction22/11/21 08:13 AM
8

Do not use Tinder. 10% of Tinder guys are banging 90% of Tinder ladies. Another 90% are just swipe and pay. Chances are simply not in your favor. You will learn much more, get better experiences, meet wonderful women by doing cold approach.
/r/seduction18/11/21 08:38 AM
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You are just showing arrogance. There is much more to herpes besides cold sores. Even HSV-1 can cause a lot of damage in certain conditions. E.g. deadly Encephalitis, especially in infants. HSV-2 flares much more on genitals, five times per year. You may have only one cold sore per year for HSV-1, but bloody ulcer almost each month on your penis due to HSV-2.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/21 07:01 AM
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Poor thing. But she is a good person for telling you before the intercourse. There are experimental vaccines against HSV-2, in few years the cure has very high chances to be working. I am not a biologist, but once I started reading about different viruses, bacterias, genes an so on, one night stands started to freak me out. You need to be really selective where you stick yourself.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/21 06:47 AM
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HSV-1 is very common, almost everyone is infected. But usually it is kept under control by Immune system. You may have it and do not experience symptoms for all of your life. What you should definitely avoid always, is genital herpes. It can be HSV-1, but usually it is HSV-2. If she has it, bail out immediately. How can you have any safe sex, be in relationship, touch each other everywhere with the STD? Not gonna work. I have a list, written paper, what I want in a woman. One of the lines states…
/r/TheRedPill16/11/21 08:37 PM
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Is it a joke? Popular movies are absolutely useless in depiction of the game. The motto you mentioned is not correct at all. You have unlimited number of fails. Actually, the same woman can react to you differently depending on the night/day/Weather/mood/moon phase. There is no one shot, one deal, the one. Just go and approach to discover the real deal. Game is played in the field, movie will never come close.
/r/seduction15/11/21 11:45 AM
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Not sure if it is a joke, but 400$% ROI is a pretty good result.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/21 12:54 PM
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In this case, start to form social circles around you. I know a guy who created Foodies<CITYNAME> group in my city. He invites people for cooking related events. Like backers competition, fries testing in the local bars or picnics. It is easy to organize, but there a lot of people coming, including single and no so single ladies. If there is no regular meetups in your city for specific interest, create one. Meet new people doing something you love.
/r/seduction08/11/21 10:11 AM
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I prefer meetups and latin dance parties, live music events, ice skating, sport in the park, hiking, workshops, galleries, comedy nights. Basically, everything you like, where people are gathering together will work. Nightclubs are noisy it is hard to hold a conversation and people are drunk, which I personally dislike the most.
/r/seduction08/11/21 08:44 AM
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It is very manipulative behavior. Do you have any underlying psychological issues? What you are doing is fine to explore own nature, but what is the point to wear masks? It is sort of destructive way of living. I done something similar with girls when I got into seduction. Building different persona from myself, using stories, PUA techniques and other questionable tricks to get woman adore me. Manipulation works to certain extend, the feeling of power is nice. The ability to influence emotions f…
/r/seduction04/11/21 02:28 PM
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Being ignored is a really subjective, sometimes I leave the set when I do not know what to do and conversation is dead. Sometimes my voice is not powerful enough to actually make her hear my words on opening if it is a club. For me, ignoring, is when she stops investing. But It is more like self rejection if you think about it. The correct way to do it for a newbie is to stay in the set until she leaves. I did not really pay attention to “I am in relationship” anymore. But it happens all the tim…
/r/TheRedPill04/11/21 07:24 AM
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True, women like to be approached most of the time. If you are not a total creep, reaction will be good. I have done around 200 approaches and never had a really bad reaction, the worst was ignoring.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/21 10:38 AM
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Good job, OP! Keep going, write a lessons learned when you reach some milestones, like first cold approach pull or 1000 approaches.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/21 08:15 AM
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Another nail in the coffin of this sub. Provide some quality sources and a little research to support your claims, otherwise it is low effort pseudoscience.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/21 01:27 PM
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There are IOs, most obvious is eye contact. But usually it is very hard to notice in busy environments. Do not look for confirmation, shift the frame: “She wants to be approached by me, we will have a great time interacting.” Woman want to be approached by the right man, you are the right man because you are improving yourself by stepping in the game, learning seduction and making life of everyone with you better. Feelings are in your head, change them.
/r/seduction30/10/21 10:21 AM
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Yes. This is why there are two basic rules of trp for anyone in this sub: 1. STFU. 2. Do the work.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/21 09:32 AM
5

I found married RedPill subreddit to be inline with philosophy and still very reasonable, calm and smart. Quality is much better, even if it is a slow sub.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/21 07:36 AM
2

As far as I understand, the goal of TRP, is to be the man who is free to do whatever he wants. If you are satisfied with one woman, go for it. Woman should not be the focus of man’s attention. As long as your sexual/romantic partner needs are met, fuck whatever your want in quantities you are comfortable.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/21 04:52 AM
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Yes it is true, quality over quantity. The goal of seduction is to be able to sleep with woman you want to sleep, and choose very carefully with who you are sleeping with. Seduction is about freedom, you want monogamy? It is ok. You want sleep with a lot of woman? It is ok as well. As long as you can attract woman you like into your life, body count is irrelevant.
/r/seduction16/10/21 07:39 PM
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I learned about stock market. Lost all my money, gained anxiety. Instead of ex’s ass pictures I am looking to the options chain now. Well, not maybe so fatal! Stocks, Facebook, even women have something in common, they are highly addictive. As such, should have imposed boundaries and allocated time. Don’t hate the tool, use it properly with discipline.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/21 07:31 AM
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Me, average guy, not tall, neither ripped, not beautiful either, getting girls with cold approach. Looks are important, but style, good haircut, voice, eye contact, skills, confidence and knowledge are much more important than a pretty face. Look at Tom Torrero or Owen Cook, ugly dudes getting tons of ladies just because they done thousands of approaches to learn how to be attractive. Being good looking helps a little, that’s all.
/r/seduction10/10/21 11:35 PM
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Cold approach is the ultimate cheat code. Once you realize you can approach anyone and even have success from time to time, there is no going back. Cold approach creates abundance, abundance leads to more ladies, more sex, better relationships and kids. What is the alternative to a cold approach? Social circle? Dance classes? Online dating( the worst thing ever)? I do not think so. The most powerful way to take what you want is by going for it anywhere, anytime in any social situation. Edit: sto…
/r/seduction10/10/21 11:13 PM
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I don’t find her attractive 1. Either you fuck her hard just because you can. And dump her next day (personally I will not do it, if your families are in the same orbit, do not shit where you eat). 2. Or, do not sleep with someone who you are not attracted to, simple as that.
/r/seduction09/10/21 06:09 PM
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Op, do not to the indirect stories, etc. Be threatening(in a good way), you approach to invite her out because you like her. Start with a “Hi”, if you like how she looks, complement on her style. If she with her friend, greet friend as well. Spark a friendly conversation, you want to learn if you like her not only outside, but you guys have something to share. And if you vibe well, ask her on a fun date. You know what to do OP. Be prepared she will reject you, be prepared you will not like her p…
/r/seduction06/10/21 08:32 PM
1

If conversation is going well, and you do have time(as a man with full life there is no much room for texting anyway), it is OK to reply. Not OK to not reply because you think she will lose interest or whatever. BUT if you are asking such questions, probably you should limit texting as much as possible, it is much easier to fuck up “chemistry” by text.
/r/seduction06/10/21 06:16 PM
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Yes, what is wrong about it? You overthinking a lot. If you want to know her, approach.
/r/seduction06/10/21 05:51 PM
4

I am impressed! This one of the best, practical, rational and calm posts I have read in a while. Quality of the r/marriedredpill is so much better compared to r/RedPill. I am not married but going through Child Support with a woman I do not want to have in my life and your post helped me mentally. Thank you!
/r/MarriedRedPill30/09/21 08:58 AM
2

I got my first GF at dance class. But generally, do not recommend it as a source of woman, too limited. Dance classes are for learning how to dance for the first place. The best way to find woman you like is cold approach at dance events, streets, anywhere.
/r/seduction26/09/21 08:06 AM
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Living with parents makes you creative. I used to do following in student years: 1. Car. You will be surprised how many girls want to do it in the car. 2. Somewhere unusual, like river beach. Works perfect for summer nights. 3. Rent Airbnb/hotel. More for GF, because you do not want to throw away money. 4. In your room, again works only for stable GF, as you will probably need to introduce her to parents. 5. At her place. 6. Clubs, parks, change rooms, tent in woods. Use your imagination. Ultima…
/r/seduction25/09/21 05:09 PM
1

Thanks dude. I know, it will be done once the baby is born. Until then I am preparing for the worst case scenario. The worst thing is waiting when the shit hits the fun. There nothing more terrifying than a closed door.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/09/21 07:01 AM
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OYS #0 Time to start it, everything is falling apart and I need something to stick to. Intro: me, not married, in early 30s , but expecting child support to be assigned. Broke up with long distance, LTR GF, before she announced her pregnancy. After few month of trying to fix failing relationship we are not together anymore, living in different countries. I have moved to my parents house to save some money for what awaits me in the future ( hope it will be possible to move out in few month, maxim…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/09/21 07:04 PM
2

Wall represents the threshold at which most women realize their lessened capacity to sexually compete with the next generation of women in their ‘actualized’ sexual peak (22-24). https://therationalmale.com/2012/07/18/the-wall/
/r/RedPillParenting04/07/21 12:08 PM
3

Yep. No way around it with LTR.
/r/askTRP29/05/21 08:19 AM
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I am in a similar situation. Prepare a lot of money and a lawyer, probably, you will end paying child support if it is your chid( it is, you are sure about it, as I understand). You are thinking that you are not ready to be a daddy, but reality is, she decided you are ready, as you “started getting your life on track”, no way you can influence this decision now, you have been elected to be a dad. Congrats. If she is your LTR, tricks will not work, give this shit to plates and one-night stands. T…
/r/askTRP29/05/21 08:00 AM
4

Wow, that hit me so hard. Thanks man, for the truth.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/21 07:52 AM
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Thank you!
/r/askTRP03/05/21 07:05 PM
1

Thank you for the feedback, man. I am deleting the post out of the fear to be recognized, sorry.
/r/askTRP03/05/21 06:53 PM
1

I agree, that’s why having a child now will only amplify our personal problems. Unfortunately it is not an argument for her.
/r/askTRP03/05/21 06:16 PM
1

Yes, unfortunately it is why I will be a bad father.
/r/askTRP03/05/21 06:01 PM
1

Yes, stupid me. Good advice.
/r/askTRP03/05/21 05:53 PM
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I will not argue with you, but abortion is not killing, she is under 6weeks now. And we are not ready to be parents, the relationship is doomed, moreover we live in different countries. I just do not want to be responsible for something I will not handle at this point of my life. I do not want to be only a bank account, but it is not possible for me to be a dad right now. Unfortunately, I will be absent father if the child will born. The only thing I may offer is money to her mother(as legally r…
/r/askTRP03/05/21 05:13 PM
5

Yes, it is highly manipulative, but I will do it if other options will not work.
/r/askTRP03/05/21 04:45 PM
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Thanks man! I am going to, but it will take 9 month of not knowing, and I want to be prepared for the worst outcome! There is a prenatal test, but it is super expensive here, like almost half of my salary.
/r/askTRP03/05/21 04:07 PM
2

Thanks man!
/r/askTRP03/05/21 03:47 PM
1

Good for you, better pay once than to pay whole life for a family who makes you miserable. Thanks!
/r/askTRP03/05/21 03:44 PM
4

Denting ego is not a bad thing, it makes you much stronger in handling rejections and as by product, more attractive.
/r/seduction15/03/21 01:15 PM
3

Stop reading and start approaching. You know everything you need already.
/r/seduction20/11/20 01:50 PM
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I disagree. She should know it is man to woman from the start. It is normal to express your interest in woman if you find her attractive. The point of conversation is to find out if she is as amazing person as she is beautiful woman.
/r/seduction18/11/20 08:49 PM
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Daygame/cold approach is very addictive. Once you have tried it, every other way of getting ladies becomes boring and ineffective. You will never come back. It is ultimate cheat code. IDDQD to get woman you want. I miss times before COVID, when it was possible to approach without any risk to the health.
/r/seduction18/11/20 08:43 PM
1

Woman sexuality is in her head, different girls need a different stimulation. It even differs for every day of the month. Generally, balance is the key. Dominance and intimacy mixed together, use gentle power, caresses, kisses, bites. You should enjoy it firstly. Do what you like during sex. Be selfish, be free in your expressions of love and see if you are compatible. Another important thing, provide a clear communication path. Ask what she likes, if she is really into you, she will guide you. …
/r/seduction22/08/20 07:27 AM
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Bring her to whatever you like to do. I often go dancing salsa, climbing, ice skating, now it is good time for a bicycle. Test guitars in a store, go on a picnic, visit anatomy exhibition, have some fun. Possibilities are endless.
/r/seduction16/06/20 08:17 PM
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