bythisnoise Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
458	The "peak" for women really is in our youth. But it's not a peak in achievement, happiness or looks. It's a peak in exploitation and being used.	CULTURAL MISOGYNY	bythisnoise	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/02/20 05:07 PM
21	Dating with age?	SEEKING ADVICE	bythisnoise	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/03/20 10:05 PM

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7	The "peak" for women really is in our youth. But it's not a peak in achievement, happiness or looks. It's a peak in exploitation and being used. The "you don't need money I'm going to take care of you" almost sends chills down my back. Unfortunately so relatable. There was a time that talk was appealing to me, back when I was barely starting out in life and so young and unsure of myself. I'm inspired by stories like yours and women like you. I want out so badly. Despite my disgust for him it's gotten complicated and I have a long way to go before escaping. But in the meantime I do take some comfort in warning other women. Thank you for y…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/02/20 03:38 AM
12	The "peak" for women really is in our youth. But it's not a peak in achievement, happiness or looks. It's a peak in exploitation and being used. For a while I was obsessed with the statistics of this but it's been a while so I'm rusty but I believe there is a 90-95% divorce rate in couples with a age gap of 15 or more years. And 85 rate for a 10 year gap. The smallest divorce rate is amongst companionships that are the same age within a few years. Most couples are actually the same age. Another lie I used to believe was that most men are older than their wives. They may be older but not more than five years. When I'm talking about "old" …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/02/20 03:29 AM
9	The "peak" for women really is in our youth. But it's not a peak in achievement, happiness or looks. It's a peak in exploitation and being used. ♥️♥️♥️ my heart breaks for you for having to go through all this too. Thank you for sharing. I used to be the type of person who had to learn the hard way, through experience. I've only recently learned how to soak up other people's stories enough to learn with them. So I really appreciate you sharing yours. I'm still a work in progress and terrified I'll mess up again when/if I date again because it can be hard to navigate through this garbage.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/02/20 03:17 AM
10	The "peak" for women really is in our youth. But it's not a peak in achievement, happiness or looks. It's a peak in exploitation and being used. Yes! Listen to you mom! The pressure to play house so early in life is dreadful. The stats are bleak for young marriages. You're 20s are so transformative, enjoy it and focus on yourself!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/02/20 03:14 AM
20	The "peak" for women really is in our youth. But it's not a peak in achievement, happiness or looks. It's a peak in exploitation and being used. This is something that I just carry. It's embarrassing. Plus, not exactly a predicament that garners sympathy. In the spirit of warning each other, however, I wanted to share the reality of what happens when you believe high value men = money and high value women = youthful beauty. The sidebar advice and most of the content here explains it so well but from time to time money is glamorized here.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/02/20 09:41 PM
34	The "peak" for women really is in our youth. But it's not a peak in achievement, happiness or looks. It's a peak in exploitation and being used. You are of course so right. Unfortunately calling out the lie about women peaking young is ignored. Or worse! Gets drowned out. The reason I wrote this out here is because in any other space there would be cries from men trying to desperately to defend the lie. It benefits them to keep it going. "Women have an early peak" is negging.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/02/20 09:09 PM
71	The "peak" for women really is in our youth. But it's not a peak in achievement, happiness or looks. It's a peak in exploitation and being used. IF YOU PUT IN THE WORK you can build your life into whatever you want to AND you can attract whoever you want to. At any stage of life. That's hard to believe when you're 20 something but it's true x a million. Make yourself DEEPLY attractive at every layer instead of taking the shortcuts of cashing in on youthful beauty alone. Also listen to the warnings of women who have dated older men. Notice that those of us who have gone through it always warn others? Don't do what I did and dismiss it as …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/02/20 08:21 PM