byzantiu Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	What is your motivation to be in relationship? honest question: why are you trying to reason with these guys?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/26 05:14 AM
–	Women don’t owe it to society to raise birth rates Whose job is it, then?	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/04/26 03:42 AM
3	Men are not protectors. Women are. The post doesn’t prove that, though. Women are paid to teach and to work in medicine. We can talk about whether they’re paid enough, but that is conditional.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/26 06:27 PM
7	Men are not protectors. Women are. That is not what a protector looks like. Were the conscripted French soldiers on the Marne in 1914 not protectors, then? Even if it’s not all men, the fact that this reaction shows up so consistently says something. Does it? If the same social media-addled hundred dudes (or bots) show up to every post, that isn’t a generalizable sample. That doesn’t look like a natural instinct to protect or take responsibility. It looks conditional. Unless you believe in God, there is no such thing as unconditi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/26 06:24 PM
9	Men wouldn't complain about "modern women" or feminism if both sexes were equally attracted to each other i don’t know if “try harder” is going to work out they could also try harder to enact Gilead	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/25 09:49 PM
–	Too many men make normal bad experiences their whole personality, and allows it to stunt their growth. Your suggestion for dealing with misplaced feelings is therapy. Lot of the guys I know can’t afford it. So, what’s the alternative? At risk of banality, feelings aren’t based on a rational assessment of whether or not they’re justified. They arise, fair or unfair, and people struggle to deal with them. That’s not someone “allowing” feelings to stunt their growth. Unless you think it’s a conscious choice to feel something?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/25 01:39 AM
2	The percentage of genuinely loving marriages is astonishingly low crickets	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/11/25 08:12 PM
1	for people that were late bloomers in dating, is it normal or just common to have envy/resentment towards people who got to date and have relationships before they did or just people who got to date, have relationships around the typical societal norm of when people have their first relationship? I’d believe it only hurts this dude if we didn’t have the R’s actively repealing women’s rights.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/11/25 12:04 AM
1	This sub is an objectively bad example of what average men are like in real life because there’s over-representation of autistic/socially incompetent men here source or claim dismissed	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/11/25 05:43 AM
–	When exactly is a woman deserving? How would one respond to being born in Afghanistan to achieve a better result than I can in the United States?	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/25 01:06 PM
2	When exactly is a woman deserving? But they don’t. I don’t choose to be born in Liverpool in 1899. I don’t choose to get conscripted into the British Army. I don’t choose to take part in the first wave of the Somme offensive and, consequently, die. Alternatively, people don’t choose to be born in Afghanistan. But they’re not going to have the same schooling opportunities as I have. That’s not a choice, unless you’re arguing everyone should risk their lives to escape, which is absurd. Even if you made that choice, you could still …	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/25 02:47 AM
1	When exactly is a woman deserving? regardless of starting point how one exercises agency in response to both negative and positive stimuli, is pivotal to their outcomes. What do you mean by pivotal?	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/25 02:18 AM
2	When exactly is a woman deserving? How is life at all meritocratic? Where you’re born, to whom, and when all dramatically alter your opportunities. Nothing about life is meritocratic. Putting in effort delivers consistent returns very rarely - the only thing that really comes to mind is the gym.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/25 01:35 AM
2	The gender war epidemic The manosphere offers two crucial things to young men: a community and an easy explanation for the difficulties and frustrations they experience. In general, people as a whole are lonelier than they have been in the past. The pervasive influence of mobile phones, attention-commanding algorithms, video games, and bingeable television diminishes people’s desire to go out. This has, alongside online shopping, attenuated third spaces and community groups. People are making fewer friends. They spend …	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/09/25 03:56 PM
2	There is no dating app data I basically agree, I would only add that time, being a zero-sum resource, is now much more seldom expended going out. Twenty years ago, people would spend maybe an hour a day on their phone, and I think that might overstate it. Today, it could be four to six hours. More, for younger demographics. That’s not to say that twenty years ago was a paradise of reading and going out. Computers, games, and TV are still around, but the competition for people’s attention has never been as fierce as in this…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/25 12:46 AM
–	Threatening that you aren't going to marry isn't as scary as you think to women this is correct that said, if our demographic pyramid completely inverts, we’re in for a societal shit-show that will make the late sixties look like a Victorian tea party	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/25 08:36 PM
7	There is no dating app data I think if you steelman the red pill argument, it comes to this: On dating apps, women swipe on approx. 7% of profiles. Generally research shows that women have fairly consistent ratings of male attractiveness based on physical features (sources below). A 0.5 to 0.7 range shows that there is still room for subjective/individual preference but that there are clear objective indicators of attractiveness. If we were to apply that .5-.7 consistency to the 7% selection we would expect that women have…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/25 08:22 PM
1	Most boyfriends would be happier forgiving their cheating girlfriend or wife bait	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/08/25 09:45 PM
4	Men cannot complain their way to sex and relationships Complaining is cathartic, a psychological release valve for the various frictions of life. Most people like to complain. The title of your OP, strictly read, is true. But people aren’t complaining with the expectation that a solution will manifest itself. They complain to feel seen in a society that does not value any person beyond how much money they have.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/07/25 01:53 AM
1	The resentment for women will grow drastically in years to come I agree, but it’s easier said than done. The screen is designed to addict. In a perfect world, attention-commanding algorithms would be banned.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/25 02:03 PM
5	The resentment for women will grow drastically in years to come To be honest, that would be a solid start.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/25 01:55 PM
1	The resentment for women will grow drastically in years to come The algorithms are designed to command attention, though. I don’t want to defenestrate personal choice, but if radicalizing posts get people to click, that’s what the site shows people.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/25 01:53 PM
1	The resentment for women will grow drastically in years to come I mean, negotiating with terrorists is how we got the Good Friday Agreement.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/25 01:50 PM
2	Both genders would be happier if women did the approaching What if you’re not solitary and you still don’t get approached?	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/25 05:09 PM
4	Both genders would be happier if women did the approaching The only men who don't get approached are those who don't have a social life. Ouch…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/25 04:01 PM
1	Wanting to matter to someone without being a healed woman's reward is not narcissism, it's human Define “baggage.”	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/04/25 03:06 AM
0	The Just World Fallacy is one of society's biggest barriers to Dating for Men Is it? What are the telltale signs, then?	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/25 11:26 PM
-6	The Just World Fallacy is one of society's biggest barriers to Dating for Men What’s your evidence that this presents an actual barrier? How would a person even know about their partner’s dating history?	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/25 11:09 PM
-1	Q4M: Does "Choose better" assume there's an abundance of good options? There are, I think, a significant number of good options. But the question itself is wrong. Social media is designed to command attention by any means necessary. When the platforms show videos like this to someone who can only dream of having fifty options to choose from, what other emotion could that possibly elicit except some mixture of envy and anger? Dating is difficult for everyone. The constant back and forth over which gender has it worse obfuscates the truth - that we live in an increas…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/25 06:02 PM
18	The obsession with getting women to “admit” they prefer big dicks is hurting men instead, many guys choose to ignore that and chase a more painful “truth” because they want to feel betrayed. This post is good, I only disagree with this last statement. I think these dudes are in a dilemma. For one reason or another, they aren’t receiving the validation they desire from ladies. They could find fault in themselves and work on self-improvement. No guarantee that this works, and it hits your self-esteem, which may already be fragile. Or, they can find fault with women/society. If…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/25 01:23 PM
2	Wanting to matter to someone without being a healed woman's reward is not narcissism, it's human Actual nice guys do not have a problem finding partners. Ah… that stings.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/25 05:06 AM
4	Wanting to matter to someone without being a healed woman's reward is not narcissism, it's human Ah… but that’s inconvenient to acknowledge. Men and women who have been in relationships aren’t damaged goods. They’re people with flaws and imperfect judgment. I dislike the OP’s use of the word “healed”, with the implication that people sustain some kind of permanent psychic injury if they have an ex. It reeks of pair-bonding rhetoric.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/25 04:57 AM
1	Q4Men: choose a life: bad boy with 5 baby mamas or mild mannered virgin how does Option B suck?	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/02/25 10:42 PM
4	Q4Men: choose a life: bad boy with 5 baby mamas or mild mannered virgin are you high?	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/02/25 10:22 PM
1	Q4Men: choose a life: bad boy with 5 baby mamas or mild mannered virgin why does it matter? shouldn’t that just make it trivial to answer?	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/02/25 10:21 PM
1	Q4Men: choose a life: bad boy with 5 baby mamas or mild mannered virgin option B is, by almost any metric, far better. what’s disturbing is how many people are responding as if these are both bad or, even more insane, that A is somehow superior.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/02/25 10:16 PM