c0l245 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
64	Fixing male rape perceptions one at a time. . .	c0l245	/r/MensRights	18/06/12 12:51 PM
39	If the genders were reversed, there would be a man hunt and charges filed.	c0l245	/r/MensRights	01/01/12 09:01 PM
6	If you haven't heard about the "veil of ignorance" it is how all divorce and child custody decisions should be made. Read up. Use it in your discussions.	c0l245	/r/MensRights	16/05/12 04:04 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	[FR] "If i didn't have a boyfriend i would have sex with you right here on the dancefloor" I don't think that you know what objectifying means. Aren't the people who believe that a woman can be "stolen" objectifying them? I'm actually stating that they are human and can make their own decisions.	/r/seduction	04/01/13 12:30 AM
3	[FR] "If i didn't have a boyfriend i would have sex with you right here on the dancefloor" You sound heartbroken and beta. Awh. It's not like women are mindless inanimate objects here... This attitude is like someone is picking a pocket rather than a fully self aware and responsible adult is leaving a relationship for a better fit. Deal with it; it's reality. Women have minds and can choose different options. If you are relying on the entire male population of the world to keep your girl faithful, you're gonna have a bad time.	/r/seduction	03/01/13 11:18 AM
8	[FR] "If i didn't have a boyfriend i would have sex with you right here on the dancefloor" Awh, you sound so insecure. It's every man in the world's job to try and convince your girl that you are not the right guy for her. And, well, if they succeed, she's not your girl. 'Nuff said.	/r/seduction	03/01/13 02:54 AM
1	For the (relatively) older men of Seddit: if you could do college over again, what would you do differently (regarding women)? Go on....	/r/seduction	13/07/12 11:30 AM
1	My girlfriend asked me to hit on someone else to prove I had game. Yeah, that's an option. Personally, I like to see how my girl handles herself. If she can't eject herself from a guy hitting on her while I'm in the bar with her, . . . we probably have an issue.	/r/seduction	11/07/12 07:53 PM
1	My girlfriend asked me to hit on someone else to prove I had game. Agreed. To keep it in context though, we are talking about while a guy is buying your girl a drink and flirting with her in a bar.	/r/seduction	11/07/12 06:02 PM
1	My girlfriend asked me to hit on someone else to prove I had game. I wouldn't draw that conclusion that quickly. I'd say that they are very rare. Some may be sociopaths, but I don't think that one has to exclusively be a sociopath to be one.	/r/seduction	11/07/12 05:47 PM
1	My girlfriend asked me to hit on someone else to prove I had game. Thanks for the book suggestion. I'll probably pick it up. And I agree, the links referenced were from the top few hits on a google search. The fact that they are blogs and whatever doesn't necessarily invalidate them. You haven't provided anything really to support your stance. What distinction do you want between "feeling" something and "acting" on something? One is an outward, visible action. The other is simply within one's own self. How is that confusing? I stand by the statement "Alpha male…	/r/seduction	11/07/12 05:32 PM
1	My girlfriend asked me to hit on someone else to prove I had game. It does not directly contradict. The statement is limited to alpha males. The post you replied to is not limited to alpha males. I'll stand by it. If you're an alpha, you shouldn't get jealous. Very few, of us are alphas. Edit: typos.	/r/seduction	11/07/12 05:17 PM
-2	My girlfriend asked me to hit on someone else to prove I had game. Feeling it is fine. Going and shooting the guy in the face is not. Do you understand the difference? Feeling vs. acting.	/r/seduction	11/07/12 03:43 PM
1	My girlfriend asked me to hit on someone else to prove I had game. You asked where jealousy comes from; it comes from the limbic system. The physical answer does not help the discussion; you seem smart enough to know this. Let me help you. What causes the limbic system to produce jealous feelings? Here's some help. http://mr-knowitall.hubpages.com/hub/what-causes-jealousy Jealousy is an emotional attitude directed toward another person (or persons) who is seen as usurping possessions or privileges felt to be properly one's own. It delives from a sense of person…	/r/seduction	11/07/12 03:39 PM
2	My girlfriend asked me to hit on someone else to prove I had game. The limbic system. Great non-answer. Sure, the subconscious feeling of jealousy arises from the limbic system. It is then sent to the prefrontal cortex for processing via the executive function. You appear to be saying that you are NOT going to execute the executive function of your brain and instead just allow your feelings and subconscious to determine your actions. Personally, I'd act out jealously if it suits how I feel in the moment I would call this advice ill-advised for any person and es…	/r/seduction	11/07/12 02:55 PM
6	My girlfriend asked me to hit on someone else to prove I had game. Agreed on both points. Feeling jealousy is fine. Acting on jealousy is not -- alpha male or other. The two are mutually exclusive.	/r/seduction	11/07/12 02:21 PM
6	My girlfriend asked me to hit on someone else to prove I had game. Personal insecurity is not 1:1 linked to jealousy. It's possible to feel very secure in a situation and still, moment to moment, have instances of jealousy. From what, then, does this jealousy arise? Would you not agree that if you are 100% secure in a situation then there is absolutely no reason to be jealous? I agree on the usage of alpha male and such. The point is, we cannot be afraid to lose what is not ours. And if your girl is going to go off with a guy that's hitting on her at a bar, she…	/r/seduction	11/07/12 02:19 PM
-6	My girlfriend asked me to hit on someone else to prove I had game. As a feeling, jealousy is fine. Failing to recognize that the feeling comes from personal insecurity is a tragedy; especially if it's acted upon. Alpha males do not get jealous.	/r/seduction	11/07/12 12:21 PM
21	My girlfriend asked me to hit on someone else to prove I had game. I could easily see myself asking her to get a drink from a guy and give it to me and then seeing rage build as he started hitting on her You'd get jealous like that? Is that because you don't think your girlfriend would handle the guy properly or is it a self-confidence thing? I'm asking because your post seemed very confident, but this seems otherwise.	/r/seduction	11/07/12 10:22 AM
1	How to stop girl initiating texting? we sit next to each other seven hours a day Can you explain this? A white lie might help. Tell her you only get 500 txt / month.	/r/seduction	11/07/12 03:27 AM
3	[FR] 26 year old virgin, first date back to my place but not-quite-F-close During this discussion I disclose I'm a virgin There is both no reason to do this in the first place or ever again.	/r/seduction	09/07/12 12:47 AM
34	Girl told me i was beautiful and said i could get any girl i wanted. She wouldn't give me her number. My viewpoint is this: If some guy can seduce my girl into fucking him, she's not my girl. He did me a favor. My girl needs to be strong enough to tell guys to fuck off if she doesn't want the advance. Expecting the entire world of men to protect your relationship is asinine.	/r/seduction	04/07/12 03:00 AM
1	To /r/feminism: here's what's wrong with reddit Well, no doubt that it's absolutely fucking stupid. I was taking issue with your assertion that name calling should have zero affect because it's not an action. But, we can agree to disagree on that finer detail.	/r/MensRights	30/06/12 05:48 AM
1	To /r/feminism: here's what's wrong with reddit Playing devil's advocate. Dog can be applied to men, "What's up dog?" and not mean what you are proposing. But instead mean pack mate. Either way, "bitch" does not imply a human woman in and of itself. And that alone makes the term not misogynistic. It has a wide array of uses.	/r/MensRights	29/06/12 09:29 PM
1	To /r/feminism: here's what's wrong with reddit And, . . . you don't understand what analogy means. Time to move along.	/r/MensRights	29/06/12 07:59 PM
1	To /r/feminism: here's what's wrong with reddit In every case it applies to a female dog and is used as an analogy. "She bitched at me." This refers to how female dogs will bark and yip a lot. This can be applied equally to humans, dogs or any other animal. What is so hard to understand about that?	/r/MensRights	29/06/12 07:49 PM
1	To /r/feminism: here's what's wrong with reddit Your analysis seems to only be centered on one person calling one other person something without regard to any onlookers.	/r/MensRights	29/06/12 06:51 PM
1	To /r/feminism: here's what's wrong with reddit is incorrect because in the context we are talking about, its used to describe a human that's engaging in a certain kind of abusive behaviour analogous to a female dog thats engaging in abusive behaviour. FTFY	/r/MensRights	29/06/12 06:50 PM
1	To /r/feminism: here's what's wrong with reddit It is this little thing called a comparative analogy. http://www.thefreedictionary.com/_/dict.aspx?word=analogy Even in the event that one says, "you are a bitch" surely the person does not literally mean that the human is a female dog. The implication is "you are acting like a bitch.". Which still results in a analogy. http://m.dictionary.com/d/?q=bitch&o=0&l=dir Show me how what you are saying is true using true English definitions.	/r/MensRights	29/06/12 06:05 PM
1	To /r/feminism: here's what's wrong with reddit Are you implying that taking an action to express verbal words does not carry with it the capability to hange situations? Can it not affect the material outcome of matters immediately pertinent to one's interests? In a business setting, are these two things the same? "That bitch in accounting is hard to work with." "That lady in accounting is hard to work with." How about: "You're one stupid bitch.". "you're one stupid girl."	/r/MensRights	29/06/12 05:57 PM
2	To /r/feminism: here's what's wrong with reddit This is incorrect. It is describing the abusive behavior of a female dog.	/r/MensRights	29/06/12 12:55 PM
1	To /r/feminism: here's what's wrong with reddit Is calling someone a name not an action?	/r/MensRights	29/06/12 12:53 PM
0	To /r/feminism: here's what's wrong with reddit All of your arguments fall apart when you realize that a "bitch" is a female dog. It does not refer to a human at all, but calling someone a bitch is actually calling them a female dog. Replace the word "bitch" in every instance you used it above with "female dog" and still try to maintain it's misogyny.	/r/MensRights	29/06/12 12:51 PM
26	Guys, we need to start doing these things So, in college my X decided to punch me during a fight. Broke my glasses and cut my cheek. I kicked her out of the house, called the cops. Cop came and I told him that I wanted to press charges. He asked me some questions and when I explained to him that she was 5'1" and about 100 lbs, he looked at me and said this: "No jury is going to believe that she punched you and that you did nothing physically to provoke it. All she is going to do is get up on the stand, say that you pushed her and she wa…	/r/MensRights	21/06/12 01:39 PM
10	Whats a classy way of saying "Do you wanna come over to my place and fuck?" rule 34.	/r/seduction	19/06/12 08:19 AM
3	Fixing male rape perceptions one at a time. . . Just saw this reply that makes it even more clear.	/r/MensRights	18/06/12 03:00 PM
2	I tell people women AND men's rights are important, and I'm told to get off my high horse. I'll agree that there can be some zealotry. It really matters how much time you have to spend trying to change someone's mind. If the expectation is to do it all in one conversation, it's probably not going to work. Slowly, making points without arguing and educating them tends to be the way that works. At least for me.	/r/MensRights	07/06/12 01:05 AM
21	My husband received $35 in child support today (venting) Sounds unfair, no doubt. However, I'd take having the kids and no money over not seeing the kids or doing every other week.	/r/MensRights	07/06/12 12:10 AM
3	I tell people women AND men's rights are important, and I'm told to get off my high horse. The people you want to be discussing with are not the ones that with whom it's easy to find agreement. That's called preaching to the choir. Change hearts and minds by discussing topics in a civil manner with people who haven't considered them or who have different opinions.	/r/MensRights	06/06/12 09:05 PM
1	[FR] #Close. 5 minutes on a train. Didn't say a word Too much to carry. . . for travel expenses.	/r/seduction	25/05/12 05:00 PM
3	[FR] #Close. 5 minutes on a train. Didn't say a word Actually, you just solved a related issue for me. Just downloaded Scanner Pro and I'm going to check it out for my expense reports. Thanks!	/r/seduction	25/05/12 01:53 PM
2	[FR] #Close. 5 minutes on a train. Didn't say a word Who scans anymore? Take a picture with your cell.	/r/seduction	25/05/12 12:48 PM
-6	So I did a little experiment in one of my psychology classes last week... Down vote me as requested.	/r/MensRights	04/05/12 03:38 PM
1	Got ostracized by the overwhelming majority of female friends for refusing to respect women solely based on gender Probably could have done without the personal insults.	/r/MensRights	30/04/12 02:11 AM
2	Seddit, I need help with an HB10 who doesn't drink. It's not oneitis, it's a unicorn. HB10 At least body pics. . . at least. :)	/r/seduction	23/04/12 08:15 PM
1	You guys helped me out...I was on the edge of giving up, but, after 1 year, I now see my son on regular basis. THANK YOU! Great to hear. Keep at it; I'm sure that she'll throw down some more speed bumps.	/r/MensRights	23/04/12 11:46 AM
0	Having trouble with some shit tests When they ask what you do for a living, tell them that you are a professional taxidermist and you specialize in beavers.	/r/seduction	22/04/12 07:34 AM
29	You guys helped me out...I was on the edge of giving up, but, after 1 year, I now see my son on regular basis. THANK YOU! Can you explain what it took for you to get back visitation? What was the road you took?	/r/MensRights	17/04/12 11:15 AM
3	Follow up to "This is my child support story." Brazil.	/r/MensRights	11/11/11 05:35 AM
1	[X-Post from highseddit] Being genuine. What isn't?	/r/seduction	10/09/11 02:25 PM
5	Colleges expand definitions of sexual misconduct to punish consensual sex Interactions in a relationship can very well, and often are, a negotiation process. Asking someone repeatedly and in different ways (in order to convince) by no means should be punishable. It happens in scenarios across the board in relationships (chores, restaurant negotiations, purchases, habitat organization, orderliness, daily routines, sex, etc. .). This seeks to punish the behavior because it happens to be about one specific area of a relationship. Your scenario above is not close to reali…	/r/MensRights	09/09/11 07:04 PM