c4993 Archive

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2	Men are having bad sex, and it is not talked about. Imo I think we’re talking about the wrong subset of men to make this comparison. It should be more about the men that have difficulty getting hard or orgasming without a deeper connection, and if his connection takes longer than her connection does and he doesn’t get hard during the sex because of it, then it’s very hard to communicate that (before or after) without sounding like he just has E.D., he’s not attracted to her, or he needs porno level sex in order to get off. I don’t believe that th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/12/24 04:00 AM
7	In an age where you’re damned if you try to get sexual too quickly and damned if you stay platonic for too long, what’s the best approach? All women are fully aware of this conundrum and if they’re truly interested then they won’t put you through it and if they do put you through it then they either aren’t interested, they’re so terrible at communication that they’re gonna be half stepping you your entire relationship, or they spend too much time on a radfem subreddit and they’re so primed to be scared of men that waving to them is rape (pretty rare to find in real life though) Find a woman that’s actually an adult that is willing …	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/10/23 03:59 AM
1	What do you think are the factors leading to so many men’s lack of romantic success besides hypergamy? We need better consistent real life places to meet people than bars where people get drunk and random events not everyone’s going to know about. Most people going to events don’t want to be bothered with people flirting with them, they just want to have fun. Meet ups for singles are terribly inconsistent and only have like 7 people an event because most people don’t know about it. Online dating is very superficial where the strengths a lot of introverted people have that come more from conversat…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/09/23 09:36 PM
1	Could you fall in love with someone you don’t find physically attractive? Yes and no Idk about “fallen in love” but I’ve started with people I wasn’t really into but I was lonely and grew attraction later	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/09/23 05:40 AM
1	Why does it seem when Western women reach their 30s their expectations get higher(not lower) whenever they are met or not that’s a different story? (Challenging the wall narrative) I mean, tbf a 30 year old woman is naturally gonna feel more of a ticking clock (sociologically and biologically) so they have less time to waste. I’m 29 and I’m even feeling it a bit as a guy (even though most of my life won’t change beyond the purely psychological “my 20s are over” feeling people beat themselves up over and any 23 year old on the same level on paper as me being picked over me in most jobs when I begin a new field, but I’m moving up fast so I’m good) so women have it tough in t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/22 10:36 PM
6	Women really dislike autistic men Yeah but the point of pages like these is to have conversations to help out the people that aren’t doing anything wrong but are still being left at the wayside, not to try to hammer in what kind of villany everyone that’s not succeeding is hiding. Innocent until proven guilty, man. Not to mention there’s nothing worth the energy to say to the people that are willful assholes, cause they already know what they’re doing that’s hurting them	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/22 06:38 AM
12	Women really dislike autistic men Can people like you ever conceptualize that a person like him maybe isnt saying anything horrible, or even bad? If you got proven that, does your (coughcoughredditscough) entire philosophy on the dating game just crumble?	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/22 05:50 AM
1	The vast majority of men would prefer a relationship to constantly trying for hookups. Women however only give their attention to the ones that only want sex. It points to the bigger picture though. Actors and public persona figures are literally the worst examples to bring up because (with respect) 90% of their profession is lying, exaggerating truths, and/or covering up blemishes	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/06/22 04:34 AM
8	The vast majority of men would prefer a relationship to constantly trying for hookups. Women however only give their attention to the ones that only want sex. “That Jada and that Will love” -J. Cole in 2014	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/06/22 07:48 AM
0	Q4MEN: What are the clues a woman can use to tell if a man only wants sex and not commitment? The more you say it publicly the more fake people will just use it lol so idk what you’re trying to accomplish here	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/06/22 05:35 AM
1	Women CONSTANTLY reiterate the axiom that “the standards for men are at an all time low” and that “the bar is on the floor. ” This is not only total bullshit, but an enormous slap in the face to the vast majority of males who are good people, many of whom are attractive and successful. Yeah the bar is on the floor but the game is Limbo lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/22 02:13 AM
1	would you be in a relationship with someone if sex is off the table Do what you want, but I would just see it as a high functioning friendship. If a hot chick that really wants to smash hits me up, do you think I’m gonna say no?	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/22 06:17 PM
23	The average young man is boring, easily manipulated, and desperate, and this is why they can't get a lady “Life is not fair buddy, just accept it and don’t try to change things” How many times has this line been used throughout history lmao	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/22 11:49 PM
3	As of 2019, 61.6% of men above the age of 15 are fathers. If y’all stretch any farther trying to make excuses for women, you might pull a muscle	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/04/22 12:47 PM
2	Virginity is a choice Its impossible to prove because no one individual can be a virgin a second time, but imo the who, what, when, where, why, and how of your first time definitely matters when it comes to all sex that happens after. My first time was absolutely special with someone that I absolutely loved that absolutely loved me, and there’s never been a better feeling I’ve gotten from anybody even if that first relationship ended badly. Mostly it’s just been about chasing that “true connection” feeling ever since…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/22 11:09 PM
2	Virginity is a choice I think you and a lot of the people that hate on redpillers & incels keep either pivoting (with the “don’t owe you”, “you’re fat and lazy”, & “lower your standards” deflections) or simply missing entirely the core of the male virginity argument for many regular people out there which is that it’s more than just about getting sex. They want it to mean something with someone that feels the same way about them (when they’re fully being themselves) that they feel about that person as well. Yeah just…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/22 10:53 PM
2	N count only matters if it's in one of the extreme. Maybe your wife doesn’t like the idea that you’ve slept with other women, too. Difference is she’s not going to think about it if you’re otherwise great for her There’s a difference between having a preference of attraction and requiring social handicaps because things get under your skin easily. Not to mention women are just going to lie more the more guys require low n counts, and if insecurity, lies, and distrust are built into the foundation of your relationship, then it’s doomed to fail fro…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/22 08:51 PM
2	The response to men who complain about the dating world of “maybe you should improve yourself or find out what you’re doing wrong” is simply disingenuous and yet another deflection Guess we’re not ready to have that conversation yet	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/04/22 07:32 PM
3	N count only matters if it's in one of the extreme. Yeah absolutely everyone’s entitled to theirs, and I understand where you’re coming from. I just think that this creates an environment where women are encouraged to lie about a period where their sex drive, curiosity, alcohol consumption, and things like last year college networking are at lifelong highs, and things tend to go down for women as they age (that grow for most men), so they’re hit with a “now or never” decision. I think they can be forgiven for things they do so young, but that jus…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/22 09:55 PM
0	N count only matters if it's in one of the extreme. I don’t find that most promiscuous people are lifelong promiscuous, though. I don’t find, based on my experience and the hundreds if not thousands of people that I’ve met in the city, that people that aren’t sex workers aren’t just consistently having sex with 10-20 people a year every year. It’s mostly like people dive in, they rail a few dozen in like a period of 6 months, then they jump out and screw like 1 or 2 a year until they get married. If someone has a 3 count over the past 6 years, ar…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/22 09:11 PM
4	N count only matters if it's in one of the extreme. People that care about N counts only want people they can control. The lower the N count, the less they know what they’re doing and can be molded, especially if they’re young. It’s so cringe when people try to frame it as “trust” when no, you just don’t want someone to tell you when you don’t know what you’re talking about and you don’t want there to be a chance that they realize that 30 other people they’ve been with would’ve handled any particular scenario better than you did	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/04/22 08:49 PM
2	The response to men who complain about the dating world of “maybe you should improve yourself or find out what you’re doing wrong” is simply disingenuous and yet another deflection Influence is a lesser form of control or a loosening of the control of another. If I can make you laugh, then I can control your ability to keep a straight face. It’s beyond influence because I can change your reaction to certain scenarios. It’s a good form of control with varying levels but it’s control nonetheless. It’s on both sides of the relationship, and that dynamic of bending control between 2 parties is what keeps a relationship going. The more you look at relationships from a reward sy…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/22 06:37 PM
1	The response to men who complain about the dating world of “maybe you should improve yourself or find out what you’re doing wrong” is simply disingenuous and yet another deflection It’s not necessarily about me when talking about someone else; I’m not going to arbitrarily dictate whether a woman I’m talking to has improved herself judging only by her hair being messy (when mines nice) and a twitch in her eye when she may have just got a 100 on her midterms that she pounded coffee and pulled an all nighter studying for it. If a guy is playing video games and eating Cheetos all day but they were listening to audiobooks of all of Schopenhauer’s and Machiavelli’s works while d…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/22 08:01 AM
4	The response to men who complain about the dating world of “maybe you should improve yourself or find out what you’re doing wrong” is simply disingenuous and yet another deflection Or you can become self aware of it and learn to control your own attraction so that other people aren’t required to do it for you	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/22 05:40 AM
0	The response to men who complain about the dating world of “maybe you should improve yourself or find out what you’re doing wrong” is simply disingenuous and yet another deflection The entire attraction game is about how well you can control another person	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/22 05:38 AM
2	The response to men who complain about the dating world of “maybe you should improve yourself or find out what you’re doing wrong” is simply disingenuous and yet another deflection Everyone that’s not on dope is always improving themselves, so it’s a nonstarter statement. Perhaps the qualities of themselves that they aren’t improving might not be the exact qualities you want improved, which then begs the line between being yourself and changing yourself for others.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/22 12:55 AM
1	How much can young people having less sex be attributed to porn? I didn't have sex for the first time until I was 21. First time I had ever seen porn was when I was 24. I would say none, personally	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/22 06:06 PM
15	Women are having less sex than Men (as of 2021) Chicks are just as likely to lie about not having sex as men are likely to lie about having sex lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/22 08:30 AM
1	What are the dating prospects for the bottom 20% of men? To stir the pot a little bit, a better question to ask is “is it truly possible for a <20% man to move up to >80%”? To tighten this a bit, what is the percentage that any person, no matter what percentile they are in (and for the sake of cliche-deflection assuming they all make the same money and they’re “doing it for themselves” like literally everyone is) can a person move up? Example: let’s say if any person, if they work as hard as they possibly can on themselves and submit to whatever game …	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/03/22 10:27 PM
1	It makes sense that women’s standards are “high”, and they are avoiding the majority of men, when men are basically saying that being with a man lowers a woman’s value I’ve never understood the hyperfixation on virginity if it didn’t come from a place of homophobia, pedophilia, or manipulation. I also don’t get the perspective of it bringing down the value of a woman. Successfully tricking a young virgin might get you 5-10 years before her epiphany-turned divorce (has happened a million times), while an experienced woman that truly understands why she loves you will last exponentially longer. Is it entirely impossible for a woman that’s gotten her 50 to ever b…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/22 04:01 AM
0	Ghosting is a bitch move Contributing factors that no one takes any responsibility for because they aren’t entitled to because no one is 100% directly responsible for it happening. It’s easy to blame the individual without accounting for the sickness and build up that can be systemically and socially contributed over years or decades without the person even realizing what’s happening. It’s never just “one person ghosting” it’s usually a lot for people with which this is a real problem. Even a simple “here’s why I’m ghos…	/r/seduction	09/02/22 06:52 AM
2	Ghosting is a bitch move I don’t think ghosting applies to y’all fuckboys, more for the people that have been talking for a while and they vanish. It’s wasted time and no lesson learned for them and a person left to stew over what they might’ve done wrong…it could fuck them up	/r/seduction	09/02/22 06:19 AM
1	Ghosting is a bitch move Too much effort for privileged people	/r/seduction	09/02/22 06:10 AM
6	Ghosting is a bitch move “Owe owe owe” its such a lean for entitled douchebags with no accountability If you like making the world a shittier place that’s on you, but thousands of people ghosting one person and each thinking they’re the only one doing it is a big part of a lot of neglect-turned-violent issues facing us today, and people being brought up/encouraged to ghost while the suicide and shooting numbers keep steadily rising is no coincidence So yeah, fuck people like you dude	/r/seduction	09/02/22 06:09 AM
10	Lack of empathy for the opposite gender I don’t understand how we go from the shrimp color analogy where men can’t see womens struggles to men being selfish for writing only about mens struggles in all of media. Like are you wanting to see men try to talk about women’s struggles? I get women should get more platform to create media about their experiences but this is still a lose-lose take on the mens side	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/02/22 05:12 AM
0	How will TRP change dating and general culture as more people grow up knowing it? This was bound to happen now that women make as much as men and have more college grads per year. Red pillers want control, they can’t have it. Any change they’ll make will be indirect but will bring forth more sophisticated conversation. The rp debate kinda goes Yin and Yang with the gender roles and non-binary conversation, though, cause as soon as that water and oil mixes it’s gonna create some real change in dating, in “why should x approach y”, “should extroversion be a requirement on eithe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/02/22 04:44 AM
13	Q4W: What is your main disagreement with the Red Pill? Also the analogous comparisons to animals “on the hunt” for x animal that’s weaker and vulnerable. Human beings are so self aware and experience-based that we can willingly subvert any evolutionary instinct we want to the moment we find out about it. We can cook a potato in 100 different ways after self-driving our rainbow painted car to a movie theater that we used a 5 inch supercomputer to buy tickets for in 30 seconds, yet some redpillers are still trying to compare human instincts to a wild …	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/02/22 04:07 AM
1	[CMV]Women who don't have LOOKS are low value You seem like you just want validation and to “win” the argument. I hope you find peace I don’t, I’m not really attracted to her but she’s attractive in her own way. It doesn’t confirm anything aside from she can do what she wants but I’m not asking for my girl to get that skinny, and most guys I talk to don’t either. Most people want someone they can have a conversation with. She found success, good for her I guess. Incorrect, no one cares about skinniness but shitty women and douchey guys (ins…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/02/22 05:29 PM
1	[CMV]Women who don't have LOOKS are low value I don’t even believe in the “Stacy”, Alessandra Ambrioso seems like Alessandra Ambrioso. I’m not really attracted to her but she’s attractive in her own way and she seems happy. I don’t really understand your point tbh I assume fogging means like misleading girls into things like anorexia and bulimia and dangerous surgeries and such, which is definitely systemically developed and should absolutely change and more education and help should be brought up to young adults at risk of that behavior. T…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/02/22 04:52 PM
7	[CMV]Women who don't have LOOKS are low value You don’t know what you’re talking about. The thought of competition ends when the relationship begins (If it’s healthy, that is). Insecurity of that kind is a red flag Also racism alert about black men in your other comment	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/02/22 03:56 PM
1	[CMV]Women who don't have LOOKS are low value There’s a massive gap between Stacy and Becky that people seem to be vehemently and militantly ignoring for some reason, and this sets a precedent that the moment an average woman finds success they become a Stacy, and anyone else is rounded down to a fat boring Becky that needs to change herself. Average girls are just fine to most men and most of them aren’t judged by any of these standards except by other women and shallow men. Confidence only matters to insecure people.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/02/22 03:41 PM
0	"Men struggle to find dates because they expect someone hotter than them" is patently false Username checks out, cause you’re definitely full of shit 👌	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/02/22 01:42 PM
2	"Men struggle to find dates because they expect someone hotter than them" is patently false Maybe this is still such a huge problem because they are attractive enough but they get denied without reason, and any time they try to speak publicly about it it’s always “all single men are fat antisocial incel neck beards that need to change themselves” when in reality that’s only about 20% of single men, and even that percentage is generous. I don’t understand why so many people still vehemently and militantly ignore this massive gap between bridgetrolls and Brad Pitt	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/02/22 01:38 PM
1	"Men struggle to find dates because they expect someone hotter than them" is patently false Pareto principal and studies suggest that consistently 20% of men are dating 80% of women, which includes college campuses. I don’t have this study on hand but there was even a lineup of 100 men and 100 women and the men picked variously among 50 women while women consistently picked between the same 10	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/02/22 01:24 PM
2	"Men struggle to find dates because they expect someone hotter than them" is patently false They put more effort into their looks because they aren’t the ones that traditionally approach. Not to mention women don’t care about looks? Half the comments on here are generalizing all single men as fat, short neck beards	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/02/22 01:21 PM
1	"Men struggle to find dates because they expect someone hotter than them" is patently false Jesus your confidently incorrect ass moves the goal post a lot throughout this thread. The point people are making about introverted women is that if men have to approach and do most of the convincing, then a woman’s social skills are only an added bonus and not a requirement, when it shouldn’t have to be a requirement for either. You can’t tell if someone’s an introvert on Tinder, but it doesn’t matter for women; show me an introverted woman on Tinder and an introverted man on Tinder and show m…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/02/22 01:01 PM
1	"Men struggle to find dates because they expect someone hotter than them" is patently false More mature community events on this matter can stand to become more organized and larger-scale than they are, like something in between coffee shop speed dating and a gymnasium-sized job fair, where people can meet and write down things they find unattractive to people to put into jars or something for those not knowing what they’re doing wrong to read later. Perhaps even have an anonymous rating out of 10 to relieve some egos. Have these types of large scale events posted on dating sites alrea…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/02/22 12:28 PM
1	Question For Women: For those who have a negative perception of Red Pill Men, could anything change your mind to the point that you would consider a relationship with a Red Pill Man? Thank you, you too!	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/02/22 04:39 AM
1	Question For Women: For those who have a negative perception of Red Pill Men, could anything change your mind to the point that you would consider a relationship with a Red Pill Man? You seem very nice and genuine about this. It’s just very hard to say things about this kind of thing because if you speak loud enough for all to hear then you’re bound to be framed as crazy for it, and any other volume is generally ignored or brushed off. This all being said I’m generally happy for feminism and civil rights, and I mean no ill will. Sometimes individualism is right though and collateral damage is just hard to pin down. As far as my individual experience, I’m almost done with sch…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/02/22 04:33 AM
1	Question For Women: For those who have a negative perception of Red Pill Men, could anything change your mind to the point that you would consider a relationship with a Red Pill Man? They have. My boss makes jokes about cis white men pretty frequently and only has women working with her as the managers. Previous boss was Mexican and by all accounts we’re cool but I found out he was taking credit for my innovations for reinventing the menu that became successful and then denied it when I spoke up. I have a multitude of stories from places before that and yes I have been told about my privilege at every time I have challenged in any way I have. I’m sorry that it sounds unlikel…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/02/22 04:11 AM
1	Question For Women: For those who have a negative perception of Red Pill Men, could anything change your mind to the point that you would consider a relationship with a Red Pill Man? His argument has some merit to it An important note to make is that it’s about people removing competition. A busy white male manager that has to choose between moving up a white man, a white woman, or a black man, and only has one role to give, was usually going to choose the white man because there’s virtually no chance of any issue becoming “about” race or sex with any little thing moving forward. It’s not white supremacy as much as it is choosing to remove anxieties when you have a mountain …	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/02/22 03:14 AM
2	As a woman you can’t seduce me by flirting if I’m not attracted to you : That is very generalized. Stay frosty	/r/seduction	01/02/22 12:32 AM
1	A female friend told me that I have no sexual vibe. What to do? That’s not the way you’re supposed to be yourself man tsk tsk	/r/seduction	16/12/21 07:49 PM
3	It's not that 'nice guys' finish last, it's men forced into acting nice as a result of them being too weak to stand up for themselves or their beliefs that will never prosper. You can be nice without being spineless, and a nice act from someone that isn’t spineless is (or at least comes off) much more real And tbf nice guys let the girl finish first, and I got no qualms with that	/r/seduction	07/01/21 09:01 PM