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19

Bruh when you cop a tag in a shawty story and you have mutuals, can’t think of anything worse lmao keep my @ out your damn mouth
/r/seduction05/08/22 01:06 AM
0

Yes this is where friends with benefits come in. But this is also where feelings come in. Lots to learn and lots to feel. Good luck OP
/r/seduction30/07/22 11:21 AM
17

Even if it did happen this is basic lust vs love and this isn’t a case of love it’s just crushing on your first taste of woman
/r/seduction10/07/22 07:31 PM
9

Yeah bro it’s fucked up but it’s gotta be facts I work around lots of women and flirt with them daily, as soon as one get serious they all asking me out on dates? Shits surreal bro makes little sense
/r/seduction05/07/22 06:37 AM
1

If you’re actively doing it it’s desperate yeah. If you happen to notice she seems single a few months later you’re chillin
/r/seduction30/06/22 06:54 AM
2

Yeah you can also remember what she looks like lol, you get enough phone numbers shit gets a bit confusing
/r/seduction30/06/22 06:52 AM
3

Yeah, I just keep myself inviteable. If the night is nearing an end and I’m around a girl I’m into and is into me, like 80% of the time they’ll ask me what I’m doing after. My response is always, I’m not sure but I’m open to anything, what are you doing? 100% of that 80% u get invited wherever they are going and from then on as far as I’m concerned it’s closed
/r/seduction28/06/22 03:58 AM
2

In my experience these women enjoy casual hookups they just have to be with random people and not someone they know. If they want to sleep with you and you are close with them it will hurt them. This is anecdotal to my life so take it how you will
/r/seduction11/03/22 08:30 AM
1

Yeah I’m in the 40s but I also am not certain. In general in hate the question cause the sex I’ve had that matters is with about 6 people and the rest were relatively meaningless so I’m not sure why they’d matter in a relationship I’m starting if that makes sense
/r/seduction26/12/21 12:34 AM
3

Must have misunderstood your question mark then
/r/seduction22/12/21 05:29 AM
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Cause you asked
/r/seduction22/12/21 03:55 AM
2

That’s the aim, and I do genuinely not remember a lot of them from my younger days of being a dick head
/r/seduction22/12/21 02:31 AM
6

I almost find it easier to talk to women than men for the same reason. And that’s because I want to be friends with people before even thinking about anything else. Could just be because I can’t shut the fuck up in general
/r/seduction22/12/21 02:29 AM
2

Your strat is what I do when I don’t get invited, it’s the standard procedure just never needed to do it with a date more so casual events we are at
/r/seduction22/12/21 02:18 AM
1

I just say I stopped counting at 20 and don’t remember most of them anyway. That’s kept me out of trouble
/r/seduction22/12/21 12:13 AM
1

In regards to number 3, I’ve never invited a girl around to mine after a date I’ve always just implied that I’m 100% free afterwards and a good majority ask me to come over to watch something and the rest I have to close myself. Maybe I’m lucky or maybe I’m just an inviteable person
/r/seduction22/12/21 12:12 AM
19

She ain’t owe you shit either
/r/seduction22/12/21 12:09 AM
14

Completely agree. I love my female friends and I have more of them than male and I truly do think of all of them as “just friends”. BUT, if I’m out with one of them and it’s getting late and it’s implied that I should stay the night that doesn’t mean anything is off the tables and it definitely doesn’t mean the friend ship will be weird after. Guys who get friend zoned do so because they are scared of the women they are with
/r/seduction22/12/21 12:06 AM
20

Guys are their own worst enemy when it comes to height, it’s the same as any other feature, some women care some don’t, some women like tall guys some women like short guys. Height doesn’t mean shit Unless you’re tall, that’s always an advantage
/r/seduction22/12/21 12:03 AM
35

I’d say of the male population here 80% are here for advice and don’t speak to women and like 10% fuck because they’re pretty and the other 10% can communicate
/r/seduction20/10/21 07:34 PM
2

Also he doesn’t seem to act on his actions if that makes sense. And watching him taught me to be myself. I’ll say what I want, and carry on like it was normal and conveyed no intent behind it
/r/seduction13/10/21 05:41 AM
8

Instagram is the best for communication with people you have met. Terrible place to meet people
/r/seduction12/10/21 10:27 PM
1

Was weird reading this cause it’s where my head went
/r/seduction09/10/21 06:38 AM
3

Yep but like all teachers if you don’t listen you won’t learn
/r/seduction08/10/21 01:13 AM
2

Thanks, I only had to fuck up a stupid number of times and now my gentle ego does all the work for me
/r/seduction08/10/21 12:15 AM
2

It’s complicated for some because they can’t remove the notion that you can speak to a woman without the immediate urge to fuck her. Sometimes I’ll go up to a woman to just chat and get to know each other. Then when you see her again you literally already know each other and it’s time to close
/r/seduction08/10/21 12:15 AM
6

No one will approach someone who looks unapproachable. Sound stupid but if you never approach you won’t give of an inviting vibe.
/r/seduction08/10/21 12:13 AM
2

I do believe in the stoicism philosophy however showing emotion to be able to relate to people sometimes is also needed. As all things it’s about balance. I used to think I was sociopathic because I struggled to empathise and sympathise with people all the time but I learned that even if you pretend a few times you learn to open up.
/r/seduction08/10/21 12:10 AM
2

Yeah, read the room, sometimes the only escalation needed is confirming chemistry to the other person
/r/seduction07/10/21 08:48 AM
12

At the end of the day if you’re fucking and that’s what you want, you’re winning. What you learn while at college and at your future job will help you learn more about approaching people for all things in life. I used to do shopping centre sales, and I figured if I can stop a random grown ass man and make him give me money, I can approach a hot girl and get a meet up out of it
/r/seduction07/10/21 08:44 AM
2

I just focus on what I can control; sounds super cliche but it somehow clicked for me when I was much younger and now, even though I’m still young I feel confident about life. I get called an old soul unreasonably often by random people though.
/r/seduction07/10/21 08:15 AM
1

I don’t recall anything about attitude problems but you’re welcome my guy
/r/seduction04/10/21 02:02 AM
1

You are talking to two different people I never said anything of the sort Yes I would love to try and help
/r/seduction04/10/21 01:29 AM
1

What do you mean what then? I’m not really a teacher I can’t just ramble on with no context. Ask a question and maybe I can try help, you’re conveying a very pessimistic tone here
/r/seduction04/10/21 01:23 AM
1

I’ve said this before and I might make a post about it but fuck numbers man get the Instagram Instagram is hacks, you can respond to their stories which is like a free dm slide, you remember who they are cause I assume you get a lot of numbers and it’s easy to forget, and also when you want people in your dms you just have to upload a captivating story and the girl you’re after will probably respond to it To answer you though I go next day once the hangover has settled and you can say shit like …
/r/seduction04/10/21 01:04 AM
1

Try getting instagrams instead of numbers, that way people you message will remember who the fuck you are if you didn’t make a ground breaking first impression. Secondly use texts/dms as a conversation ground not a ground to just close a deal
/r/seduction04/10/21 12:37 AM
1

And no offence to some people but some blokes just gotta drop their standards. I have a mate who’s in the squad, not great looking but dresses well and is funny, he knows his worth and still pulls regularly. I also have an very attractive friend and he he’s happy to go for quality over quantity. Really just gotta learn how to talk, when yo shut the fuck up and when to close
/r/seduction04/10/21 12:36 AM
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It’s all facts too and as you experience it you can add your own nuances to it and women will want to sleep with you again. Nothing better than playing the game of getting someone and then they hit you up for more. Good luck brother use it
/r/seduction03/10/21 05:03 AM
1

All the input I can give is that the key to sales is indifference. I don’t know what your profile looks like or what you look like. 95% of tinder is looks. Try posting videos
/r/seduction27/09/21 04:47 AM
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Idk. My profile looks like a meme and half of my photos are selfie videos of me monologuing a really random thing like making a coffee. That and my bio says I’m toxic but I’ll buy you food. And it works, the amount of effort put in is nothing other than the convo you have when you match which is when I say some stupid compliments that no ones heard before Also if you link your profile to you active Instagram and get people to follow you there instead of talking on tinder that shit works wonders.…
/r/seduction27/09/21 01:49 AM
1

Yeah but that cold approach will stand out more 100% of the time if they are on an even playing field in terms of looks, right? I use tinder and stuff but I much prefer a cold approach (relatively cold) it allows me to show myself with A LOT more than just pictures and a biography.
/r/seduction24/08/21 06:01 AM
2

Love having back burner flings. Might be a controversial opinion and unrelated to tinder but I have this habit of getting close with girls in relationships and coincidentally being there when they become single. And I gotta say I enjoy being that person
/r/seduction09/08/19 07:41 AM
4

The only thing I can offer is for when you’re in that awkward part where you’re dropping her off at home either by foot or by car and you’re not sure if it’s implied that you’re joining her inside or not. What’s worked for me is using your charisma that got you where you are to cheekily invite yourself in. Things like, “hey so do you need a hand getting inside” or “thanks for the offer, I’d love a cup of tea” If there is genuine interest and you can get these things across smoothly, it’s likely …
/r/seduction30/11/18 04:49 AM
2

They look up legitimately 95% of the time, if they don’t then you have 3 options (at least in my experience). You can; slide your hand behind the neck and lightly pull in going for another kiss, you can just smile at them and move on with conversation or it can get awkward because you both know what you tried to do and it didn’t work. Either way move on from it and don’t make it weird. She seems into OP and that is grounds enough to go for a kiss
/r/seduction18/09/18 09:41 AM
3

My go to has always been to put one finger under their chin and push up slightly, if her head looks up with ease then you just gotta go in for the kiss. After the kiss it’s all pretty straight forward
/r/seduction18/09/18 08:32 AM
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