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31

Smug shitbag cheating moron. He's checking in to make sure her self-esteem hasn't gotten too high since the last time he wrecked it. Hope she blocks!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 02:24 AM
5

The OP said in a comment that the guy has been unemployed for a year 😂 the audacity never fails to crack me up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 10:04 PM
13

Chello? Goodbye.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 07:11 AM
18

Even worse, one of the commenters "helpfully" suggested that she look into roleplay because perhaps it was the rape that turned him on...these kinds of things make me not want to live in this world 😥😥
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/20 01:00 AM
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Pick-me programming is tough to recover from...I'm still definitely struggling against it at times when FDS recommendations appear at first glance to contradict my values. What helps me is to remember that one of the fundamental purposes of FDS is to help you vet. To help you avoid wasting time (or even risking your safety/sanity) with men who don't value or respect you. So while it seems noble and fair-minded to think "shouldn't I also have to prove my investment," it can be downright dangerous…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/20 05:44 AM
19

Also women would actually go their own way rather than just talking about it, hahaha.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 12:11 PM
34

Guess who probably also would've told a fat gal to lose weight even when he was 20 stone, lol. I bet you she wasn't overweight.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 11:57 PM
17

LOL!! Such a great way to put it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 11:25 PM
5

Wow, not just a selfish bum but an abusive, controlling one too. I really wanna kick that guy's ass after reading your story; who does he think he is to treat you like that!? Much love to you, girl, and hoping it's all uphill for you from here on out. ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 08:56 PM
27

Yeah I was thinking the same thing! Maybe there are a ton of women who lurk the sub but don't comment. Hope they will come here instead if that's true!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 11:33 PM
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13 YEARS with no job? Girl please tell me he had a business or something 😰😰😰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 10:15 PM
11

WOW some rounding error 🤣 or "oopsies added an extra 1 lolz"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 09:08 PM
31

Lol!!!!!!! Too true
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 03:45 AM
5

Great post! I was wondering though, if any of you have had good experiences with volunteering? I'm thinking of doing some regular volunteer work for a nonprofit I admire, but after reading this I'm starting to think twice. Thoughts/stories? Thanks!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/20 06:34 AM
53

"Everyone does." 🤥
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 07:44 PM
88

Well, at least he didn't drag her into a relationship with him when he wasn't in a good place, and he's decided to leave her alone now that she's found someone. He chose decent actions for his situation and I just hope he stays firm with that instead of trying to confess his feelings later.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 01:05 PM
5

Wait...okay...I didn't read any Twilight . The boner thing is actually in the books?? 😮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 02:39 AM
30

Yes it seems some folks don't realize how subjective beauty can be. It might be true that most people think flat stomachs look the best, but many actually prefer the look of a rounded stomach. For myself, I understand the aesthetic appeal of a flat stomach, but this woman's physique is perfection to me. Plus, the photo isn't really the point in this post.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/20 05:47 AM
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"Get ready..." How bout NO. 😂 What gave him the impression that she should give a damn? The response killed me 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 09:20 PM
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I don't want to see their faces tbh 😂 and some might use their D pics instead hahaha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 09:02 PM
59

FDS is the reason I finally caved in to Reddit pressuring me to download the Reddit app. Worth it! Love you queens 😘
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 08:54 PM
19

Yikes. I wish more people would realize that there are many ways of being abusive. So glad you were able to leave and that's messed up that he's still included.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 08:49 PM
13

Omg yes it's so obvious that he knows exactly what he's doing - only the bare minimum so that she'll stay.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 08:22 PM
71

There was another quote in the article I should've included: "If you're having a crappy time most of the time, that's not a reason to break up." Like, what? I'd hate to know what she thinks is a good reason to break up 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 08:19 PM
73

16 years with a rapist man-baby... and she's afraid to leave him because he "can't do things on his own." This is really awful and I hope she can get out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 08:12 PM
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It's a man, baby! Reported.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/20 05:33 AM
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Username checks out 😏 (j/k haha I love it!)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/20 05:13 AM
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I checked it out and the rating system is really odd (I just looked at a bunch of posts, I didn't look at any pinned posts or anything.) Like, it looks like almost all ratings for women are between 4 and 6, and for guys it seems slightly higher in general, like 5-8. Such a narrow range, how useful is that?? Virtually meaningless. Only very very extreme cases elicit a rating outside of those ranges...like I saw an absolutely perfect Giga Stacy type gal, and that was nearly the only 7 rating I saw…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/20 08:53 AM
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That chocolate cake looks really good 😋
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 12:36 AM
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Thank you so much for sharing, he sounds wonderful and I wish all the best for you two. It's so encouraging to know that men like this actually exist! Where did you meet?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 04:24 AM
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Hahaha that was my first thought, like damn boy you spending wayyyy too much time checking out the other dudes 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 03:48 AM
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Yeah 'cause women just looove to be called "Tits" 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/20 08:38 PM
54

Being a busy musician necessitates acting like an abusive caveman. Right. THE AUDACITY!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/20 06:48 PM
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He might tho
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 04:59 AM
72

It is so true. Male lurkers and FDS haters seem to focus on the "pay for dates" thing, but it's really not about that at all. The most important thing is putting in the effort to show that you care.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 10:10 PM
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Wtf, if the one you "love" is at home, why are you getting sucked and fucked by someone else?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 06:02 PM
67

That is really, really cute! Good job!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/20 03:25 AM
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Imagine thinking we care about the opinions she's parroting. "Sexism sexism, low value women, low value women!" I guess at least she's keeping herself entertained 🤷
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 09:11 AM
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Yeah like, the first comment in this thread she said was her last comment in this sub and...She's still commenting 😅 There are plenty of subs on Reddit where she won't have to come across this horrendous "sexism" against males (which she determined from ONE POST, a meme that wasn't even meant to be taken literally), why not bounce now?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 08:18 AM
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Omg, my grandma would always sing this song, and even as a little girl I thought those lyrics were questionable 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/20 07:34 AM
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I say good for the wife - he sounds like a bitter asshole. He insists he was a loving husband before his "transformation" but he does not strike me as a good person at all. We'll never know her side of the story or even if the whole thing is totally made up / exaggerated. It does kinda sound like it was made up to confirm the RP/MGTOW narrative about what women want. He says he's disgusted that she "liked it" when he treated her badly, but it didn't seem like he asked her why she started being i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 11:44 PM
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Pocket husband sounds so adorable though 😄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/20 01:40 AM
15

A dating app isn't the place to look for a personal chef, lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/20 08:02 PM
23

Oh damn. I love her even more now!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/20 04:08 PM
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"You know" -Evan (He said it like 50 times per sentence 🤣)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/20 12:09 PM
85

Yes especially because a lot of men seem to think they don't have to make any effort at aging gracefully or at least living well so they don't age prematurely. Sunscreen, a healthy diet, regular exercise, and good sleep - gentlemen, you need these too!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/20 08:17 AM
59

I laughed way too hard at this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/19 01:12 PM
75

How do you go from favorite drinks to sending nudes/sex positions? He's like a poorly-programmed chatbot. I hope he gets blocked and reported every time!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/19 10:51 AM
36

We're not your Axe 3-in-1 body wash, yeesh!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/19 10:42 AM
6

Ugh, PPD is where I first found the link to FDS and that makes me happy, but the sub itself is so infuriating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/19 04:52 AM
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She was super apologetic in voicing her valid-as-fuck frustrations to him and he's acting like the hugest passive aggressive baby ever. I hope she wakes up from this nightmare and leaves him alone with the dog he wanted but is too lazy to take care of 😤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/19 04:11 AM
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Yes, it's so true. When I was a teen and I developed crushes on guys that weren't reciprocated, I never ever thought to blame it on them or on men in general. That's why I was so shocked and confused to learn about incels and how they think they're being wronged by women because they believe they're entitled to physical intimacy and romantic relationships.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/19 08:00 AM
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Yeah like wtf, why would you insult a stranger's mom for no reason 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 04:30 PM
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Yeah I think it's questionable because I love dating a good cook too, but I wouldn't put it on a profile unless I also added that I like to cook myself so that it would be a shared interest.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 04:04 PM
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🎵 But suddenly an angel has smiled at me And touched my face without a trace of fright I dare to dream that she Might even care for me ...,🎶 Quasimodo is deffo Facebook-stalking Esmeralda in his belltower! It wouldn't be such a creepy thing if it was just a little thought he kept to himself, I'm sure we've all been cheered up by a cute cashier sometime in our lives. But to look up her Facebook profile, download her photo, and post on a forum about it? 😰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 03:54 PM
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One thing is not like the other... I find it bizarre that the whole thrust of his profile there is denouncing stupidity/dullness yet he opens with he's not interested in prudes. But that profile would sure dry anyone's pussy up 🤭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 03:45 PM
75

Wow. Just WOW. I knew she was stunning but she's really out of this world!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 12:11 PM
58

Sounds like he didn't graduate from high school 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 11:46 AM
6

Ahhh I do also agree with Aprivatephilosophy actually. I think, reading over my comment again, that I didn't word it quite right. I agree that there is nothing inherently wrong with personal preferences, almost full stop (the exception being if the preference is something like pedophilia.) The way I worded it above made it seem like I think that if you exhibit the behaviors I listed then that makes your personal preferences not okay. But what I meant to say is that it's the behaviors in my list …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 10:00 PM
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Very interesting. I don't think there's anything wrong with personal preferences, physical or otherwise, in dating, as long as: You're not rude to people solely because they're not attractive to you (treat people like human beings even if you don't want to date them.) You don't try to make it seem like your preference is universal and/or that anyone who doesn't share your preference is lying about it or a freak, e.g. when guys say that all men would prefer to date younger women or that women who…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 01:39 PM
106

I'm laughing too 😂 Honestly, where do they get these ideas? Or is this one of THEIR fantasies?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 11:16 AM
37

That's what I face-palmed at too. Yikes! A lack of symptoms doesn't mean you don't need to get tested.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 11:05 AM
21

Side-eyeing LinkedIn creepers right now 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 10:47 AM
7

Good for you!! I wasn't so strong in the past, have definitely responded to some, but from now on I'll take cues from badass women like you. 💪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 08:54 AM
7

I love this story! Truly a good one to contemplate upon as we move into 2020 👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 08:51 AM
13

That's disgusting! I really hope that woman, fake or not, was reported.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 08:25 AM
9

Oh my God, I'm so sorry that happened to you...What did he do, where did everything go? Did he sell your belongings and take all the money? I'm sorry for asking but I'm just so shocked and horrified, I've not heard of a divorce like this. I really hope there is some way you can go after him for that even if there was no prenup.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 08:04 AM
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Hahaha I love the "joke's on you!" smile she's sporting! Perfect photo for it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 07:54 AM
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LOL!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/19 11:26 AM
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Exactly! And you know what's funny? Someone pm'd me a reply to my OP saying that FDS is "one of the worst echo chambers out there" because FDS removes posts from men and posts from women who try to give advice that runs counter to basic FDS principles, and that it's different from incel subs because there's "no discussion allowed." As if there are actually any mature discussions happening between men and women on incel subs! Sure, some allow women to comment, but from what I've seen, those femal…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/19 04:53 AM
10

Damn, girl! I love Shakira.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/19 03:36 AM
13

Thanks! I'm subbed to PPF but I haven't yet checked out WGTOW, much appreciated.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/19 12:26 AM
8

That was brilliant 👏 Thank you!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/19 11:00 PM
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Hahaha 🤣 The gum!! Thanks OP I needed that laugh today. Some serious pickmeisha posts on Reddit really do read this way sadly...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/19 09:56 PM
33

Fuck us for expecting basic life skills and basic human decency, amirite?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/19 08:22 PM
38

And it's true that his comment doesn't actually address any of her points & puts in a bunch of crap that she didn't say or even imply...it does just read like a laundry list of things ex-gfs must've said to him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/19 07:58 PM
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Omg the comments. I don't know whether to laugh or to cry at the incredibly basic list of qualities that they deemed "unreasonably high standards." They have the gall to ask what we bring to the table other than a vagina, when they expect us to be impressed with the life skills of a 5-year-old?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/19 07:29 PM
43

Mud butt? Is that what it sounds like? 😰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/19 07:12 PM
69

One of the worst: "Wait, you verbally asked to have sex? Never do that. That's weak as fuck." Apparently asking for consent, giving oral to a woman (one commenter was incredulous that the OP liked eating pussy, exclaiming that he must "watch too much porn" - like, what??) and respecting her explicitly-stated boundaries rather than "popping it into her butt" instead are "beta" moves 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/19 07:06 PM
8

Omg I laughed, that's so cute! Dw honey you're not a witch you don't need a broom 👍 Hugs!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/19 06:25 PM
8

Thank you! Needed this today.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 08:25 PM
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That is a great point about vaginas, I never thought of it that way. I'm giggling because it sounds funny but it's so true!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 07:39 PM
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True statement. Oneitus is a trip!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 07:32 PM
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Yeah I got a one word message from him, looked at his comment history - Red Pill stuff - and was like NOPE.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 07:30 PM
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Hmm, I'm not clear on what exactly is happening... Are these guy friends or guys who are trying to date you? I'm just confused because you said they are jealous because you're "not exclusive" (which made me think you're dating them) then you said you "aren't even dating." Either way, it's best to cut them off completely if they're not respecting your boundaries. I used to try to be friends with guys who I didn't want to date that were interested in me romantically, if I enjoyed their company oth…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 02:39 PM
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They actually believe this?? Wow...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 01:05 PM
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Same, girl! Gorgeous lingerie is for me, guys do not appreciate it properly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 04:37 AM
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Yeah and the ones where it was obvious that the woman was sore and in pain, sometimes even explicitly said so, and the guy didn't give a shit shudders Monsters...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 04:16 AM
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Oh yeah totally - like I said I'm a gamer too, and I do have pals in other countries that I can only game with. That's why I was asking the OP if there were other activities he could possibly do with the friends. And yes it's a good point about being able to balance your life with your hobbies, and I do like the suggestion of OP scheduling time to do her own hobbies during his gaming time. But OP clearly feels it's too much gaming, so I'm getting the vibe that he might not really be balancing it…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 03:37 AM
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Gosh, so sorry about your ex, that sounds like it was a terrifying and dreadful situation. With your current bf, I was wondering, have you talked to him much or at all about his gaming habit? I am a gamer myself and have gamed 6+ hrs in a day many times, but doing it every day is definitely unhealthy imo. I can see that it's probably a big social thing for him since he's playing with his friends, but I'm sure there are other ways that he could spend time with friends? The thing about gaming, as …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 01:20 AM
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Yeah exactly, I used to think that being a dominatrix would feel empowering but now I can see how it's probably usually not so. Activist Rachel Moran, in her memoir "Paid For: My Journey Through Prostitution" talked in detail about working as a dominatrix & she said the men wanted to be "dominated" but only according to their own often very specific fantasies. I experienced a bit of this myself when chatting to a guy who claimed he was a submissive looking for a femdom. This was before I came ac…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 01:02 AM
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Unfortunately he might enjoy doing that 🙊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/19 11:06 PM
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Truly despicable behavior, I can't believe anyone would say all those things... I'm sorry you had to go through that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/19 03:13 PM
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Definitely. Even early 20s guys. Boyfriend in my first LTR (we were both 21) always wanted to pay. I felt bad (I was a pickmeisha in many ways back then) and many times tried to take the bill, but he'd only agree if it was his birthday and even then he still seemed uncomfortable with it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/19 01:14 PM
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This post makes me feel like crying, all those all-too-familiar emotions, you've expressed them so well. Happy for you queen, keep rocking it!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 03:52 AM
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Yeah and I bet he offers ice cream/froyo 'cause he wants to watch her eat it, barf!! Disgusting in every way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 02:46 AM
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