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1 more vote for Shallon Lester. Found out about her from FDS actually!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 04:36 AM
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Boychild! Im going to start using that 👏🏼👏🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 04:32 AM
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These men also place their own worth and value on their body count. Funny how it works inversely. The higher his number, the better he feels about himself. These men also typically don’t have much else going on in their lives. Usually complacent or stagnant in their careers and no hobbies (no, Reddit doesn’t count you sleazy slobs).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 03:09 PM
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When men who look and act like toilet plungers start thinking they are actual humans who deserve respect is a line I won’t let them cross
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 09:39 PM
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“My love language is physical touch” “ethically non monogamous relationship” 🤮🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 07:16 AM
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One of the biggest lessons I’ve learned recently is that men with low self esteem can be narcissists too. These sad sacks of shit need to put down women, esp HVW women who are completely out of their league, to make them feel better about themselves 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 06:29 PM
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Insecure men get off on having a woman that’s totally out of their league chase after them. Fucking parasites
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 06:18 AM
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Putting my energy into something I know I’m good at, and excelling at it. Surrounding myself with people who uplift me and love me hard enough to tell me when I’m doing something self destructive. Making a conscious effort to prioritize myself and my mental health. Forgiving myself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 04:46 AM
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If it’s a break up - Set your “limit”, keep accountability (tell a friend you trust), and be ruthless about following through. Keep your mind occupied, focus your energy on becoming an even better version of yourself. One thing that’s helped me is to write a “con list”. Whenever I find my mind drifting back to him or the “good times”, I read the list out loud and I’m right back down on earth. Good luck sis 💛
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 04:28 PM
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YES. I like to set a deadline for how long I can “mope around” after a break up. And of course, this timeline depends on how long I’ve been with him/how intimate the relationship was. Once that time is up, it’s done. No more crying. No more wasting my precious time or energy on him. Wipe my tears, re-adjust my crown, and move the fuck on
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 01:14 PM
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THIS. This is exactly what I did before ending things with the last LVM I dated. This and a daily dose of FDS. A few mins of FDS a day keeps the LVMs away 🙂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 01:05 PM
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Yuck
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 04:15 AM
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“Standards only mean something if you can maintain them in difficult times” PREACH 🙌🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 04:43 AM
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I really think you should spend some time on yourself, by yourself. As in, not in a “relationship” with one LVM after another. You need to break that pattern, and the best way to do that is to self reflect and work on the parts of yourself that you let these men put down. Also, this shouldn’t matter, but size 4 isn’t overweight. Wishing you the best 💛
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/20 02:10 AM
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