cafeaulait13 Archive

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1	X-Post from r/askreddit "What could female bloggers do to increase male readership." (Lively discussion with a genuine mutual sensitivity to gender-specific issues. Please join in!) TL:DR for mine. There are many man who honestly believe that htey respect women but do things that in fact, disrespect women. How do I convey this sentiment without immediately driving men away?	/r/MensRights	06/12/12 01:02 AM
1	I'm not a MRA or a Feminist but I do think this shows the double standard that feminists have. A man raped by a woman. Please read the comment section Are the people saying that men can't be raped feminists? None of them seem to be to me. If so, then talk about the feminist double standard, but every feminist I know would be arguing for the victim.	/r/MensRights	05/12/12 06:36 PM
1	X-Post from r/askreddit "What could female bloggers do to increase male readership." (Lively discussion with a genuine mutual sensitivity to gender-specific issues. Please join in!) I really appreciate your feedback. REspect women came from a couple stories I've heard about men who would of course respect their girlfriends. Except that they would have sex with their girlfriends when the girlfriends said that they were feeling used. They respected their girlfriends except when they called them crazy. They respected their girlfriends until they broke up and suddenly they turned nasty and aggressive. So I do think that some men would never think that they don't respect women. …	/r/MensRights	05/12/12 02:38 PM
2	X-Post from r/askreddit "What could female bloggers do to increase male readership." (Lively discussion with a genuine mutual sensitivity to gender-specific issues. Please join in!) Thanks for the critiques. Men's issues are one issue that I'd like to write about, but you're right, I shouldn't write about what I don't know. I do need content that men would like to read, but I didn't want to steroetype and make assumptions. I also think you're right; that I need to re-evaluate and double check everything before I write it. I checked it from my perspective, but your critiques were invaluable. I can't write everything perfectly the first time, and I do appreciate feedback. Isn…	/r/MensRights	04/12/12 09:53 PM
17	Translating Feminist CodeSpeak So many straw feminists, I don't know where to start.	/r/MensRights	04/12/12 02:46 AM
-1	X-Post from r/askreddit "What could female bloggers do to increase male readership." (Lively discussion with a genuine mutual sensitivity to gender-specific issues. Please join in!) Also, you'd probably have more success getting feminists to help you with your goals if other MRA's stopped using words like Feminazi. You haven't, but there are many MRA's who do and give the movement a rather ugly reputation in feminist circles. The problem is that the loudest, most offensive members of the MRA are perceived as the leaders. If you hear someone use such language, you have the power to change the dialogue. We can't do that. It's nice to meet people who are willing to discuss iss…	/r/MensRights	04/12/12 02:40 AM
0	X-Post from r/askreddit "What could female bloggers do to increase male readership." (Lively discussion with a genuine mutual sensitivity to gender-specific issues. Please join in!) I don't know what I can write about divorce courts; neither I nor my friends have any experience with that. From what I've seen, the reason women tend to get alimony is because women stayed at home to raise the children, which is based on the patriarchical model that feminists are trying to dismantle. Alimony is supposed to help compensate for lost wages or time on the job market. The same model assumes that men are worse caretakers, and that women should get the children. That's part of the sys…	/r/MensRights	04/12/12 02:35 AM
1	X-Post from r/askreddit "What could female bloggers do to increase male readership." (Lively discussion with a genuine mutual sensitivity to gender-specific issues. Please join in!) he big ones are marriage, education, courts and reproductive rights. Care to elaborate? I though the big issues in marriage were about Gay Marriage? Education, is this about the over diagnosis of ADHD? Because I was under the impression that colleges were usign affirmative action to get a 50/50 ratio of applicants. Courts? is this about divorce settlements? Or about sentencing? Divorce settlements are based on a patriarchal model of mother as caretaker that is problematic. I'll conceed to that. …	/r/MensRights	04/12/12 01:25 AM
2	X-Post from r/askreddit "What could female bloggers do to increase male readership." (Lively discussion with a genuine mutual sensitivity to gender-specific issues. Please join in!) It seems to me that, based on past experience, I need better sources for finding the facts that "dont present a false bias." I'm not sure what you mean by that. I've gotten flamed for using statistics from the US Department of Justice. How would you reccomend presenting the information in a way that would not make you think that it was "doctored to present a false bias?" What sources would you find credible? Do I need to link to the entire source? Advice greatly appreciated, here.	/r/MensRights	04/12/12 12:59 AM
1	X-Post from r/askreddit "What could female bloggers do to increase male readership." (Lively discussion with a genuine mutual sensitivity to gender-specific issues. Please join in!) I address a lot of issues other than feminism, and I want men to help on those issues too. Social Justice isn't just for women; it's for everyone. Also, if we want to be a less sexist society, some of the more loud sexists might listen to a man more than they would a woman, so it helps to have men understand feminism. Honest question, if I included the facts and statistics in my blog posts, would it help with male readership?	/r/MensRights	04/12/12 12:51 AM
2	X-Post from r/askreddit "What could female bloggers do to increase male readership." (Lively discussion with a genuine mutual sensitivity to gender-specific issues. Please join in!) OP of other thread here. What is bullshit to you? What is substance?	/r/MensRights	04/12/12 12:27 AM
1	"Rules" to not be profiled as a rapist. I'm sorry for what you've suffered. That's terrible that someone would use their authority to hurt another person. The piece wasn't about male victims of rape. It was about the fear women are socialized to fear at night. Not all women feel that way; it's a personal thing. Nobody's asking to be worshipped. Nobody is accusing you of rape. We're just asking you to mind your manners in situations which already have an element of fear. It's just good manners to not scare the people around you. Send m…	/r/MensRights	08/11/12 08:28 PM