cafebandito Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
321	Stop focusing on getting a girl to like you and focus on yourself! YOU need to be the magnet that attracts women to you.		cafebandito	/r/seduction	28/01/17 10:08 PM

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1	If you have sex with a girl but don’t orgasm did you still lose your virginity? Sure, why not. It’s not like virginity is an actual thing in the real world. It’s just a concept of if you’ve had sex or not.	/r/seduction	24/01/22 01:09 PM
1	Stop focusing on getting a girl to like you and focus on yourself! YOU need to be the magnet that attracts women to you. Hey, thanks for sending the appreciation and I’m glad it was helpful to you! :) All the best in your situation. I believe in you man!	/r/seduction	26/12/21 10:47 PM
3	Don't try to impress but instead EXPRESS. Express your true self and let the other person get to know the real you. Good luck bro. I feel for you with the depression and whatnot.	/r/seduction	08/12/21 06:47 AM
4	Best way to respond if a woman says no when you ask her out? Just stare at her and start slowly backing away.	/r/seduction	18/10/21 07:51 AM
3	In last two years, I spent more than $25000 on hookers. why do you have to tell her about your past? As far as I’m concerned, you could leave it at something vague like, “yeah I was dumb when I was younger and slept around a bit too much” and not need to mention hookers at all.	/r/seduction	06/10/21 12:45 PM
2	Unprotected sex Run. Run far away from this woman.	/r/seduction	06/10/21 12:40 PM
2	Need a smooth answer for when she asks the question "Who do you think you are?" “I am the terror…that faps in the night”	/r/seduction	25/08/21 02:49 AM
1	Approached a girl on the street for the first time today! My man! Awesome work!	/r/seduction	28/05/21 11:52 PM
35	I impersonated a girl online dating for a week and I’m shocked at what I found Op did this experiment with the goal of helping men on the sub Reddit, and some of you assholes are making fun of him for getting too into character? Anyways, thanks for the research OP. It provided some valuable information for me and I'm sure many others who are a tiny bit mature.	/r/seduction	28/02/17 01:23 PM
1	Stop focusing on getting a girl to like you and focus on yourself! YOU need to be the magnet that attracts women to you. That's excellent! Realizing you can only control your perception of yourself is a huge milestone. We all have shit that we don't like about ourselves. A good quote I like that Tyrion said is: Let me give you some advice bastard. Never forget what you are. The rest of the world will not. Wear it like armor, and it can never be used to hurt you. What this says to me is acknowledge whatever it is you don't like about yourself, accept it, and move on. If you're upset or in denial about something, th…	/r/seduction	29/01/17 04:56 PM
2	Stop focusing on getting a girl to like you and focus on yourself! YOU need to be the magnet that attracts women to you. I'm not trying to assume, but are you judging yourself by the fact that you're a 5'6" thin guy in your mid-30's? I think if you are, and it's a negative judgment, that's the reason you're running into roadblocks. Edit: Also being thin/average build is something you can change. It'll require work, but you can change it if you want.	/r/seduction	29/01/17 03:51 PM
1	Stop focusing on getting a girl to like you and focus on yourself! YOU need to be the magnet that attracts women to you. I think reading on Reddit can be good (assuming you're reading subreddits that help improve you...ELI5, News, some posts on Seddit, etc.) But it's not a substitute for proper reading of a book. I think the differences are that: There's the commitment of reading everyday to work towards accomplishing the bigger goal of finishing a book Ideas are much more formulated since you're typically looking at 300-400 pages. The act of sitting/lying down and reading is meditative. It's a break from a screen…	/r/seduction	29/01/17 03:48 PM
3	Stop focusing on getting a girl to like you and focus on yourself! YOU need to be the magnet that attracts women to you. Definitely! As mentioned, I'm still fairly new to reading seriously/consistently, so I'm hoping to grow my list moving forward. Here are some books I love: The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck by Mark Manson (I got many ideas about living life from this book) Models by Mark Manson (This is one I read when it first came out, but really need to revisit) The Last Lecture The Tipping Point Outliers And I think reading fiction is important too... The Alchemist Kafka on the Shore 1984 Please hit me up …	/r/seduction	29/01/17 03:39 PM
6	Stop focusing on getting a girl to like you and focus on yourself! YOU need to be the magnet that attracts women to you. I'm not saying if you improve yourself completely, you'll be able to get any girl. That idea is usually just marketing bullshit and not how life works. Because you're right. There are plenty of situations that will just never work out. I think it's important if you're interested in a girl to see if a romantic relationship will work out. But once you realize it won't, it's important to be OK with that, realize there are many others who will be better matches, and move on. Of course, this is also …	/r/seduction	29/01/17 10:14 AM
7	Don't let boring girls/guys bring you down. Where do you volunteer?	/r/seduction	28/01/17 10:12 PM
2	Don't let boring girls/guys bring you down. Excellent advice. This is great to keep in mind so you don't blame yourself on bad situations. Also you have a typo here: "bad dates, bad convos, but openers"	/r/seduction	28/01/17 10:11 PM
2	30-Day Challenge To Become An Attractive Man (Week 2) Clever idea. I started a similar lifestyle a few weeks ago (the meditating with "10% happier" app and working out) and my overall mindset has improved which has affected literally every other aspect of my life. Saving this post to revisit when I haven't woken up in the middle of the night and started to browse reddit	/r/seduction	20/01/17 08:12 AM
2	She confirmed it, the truth in one sentence. Excellent post! This is true confidence. You're doing things to better yourself for the sake of loving yourself and wanting the best. It's like altruism for yourself.	/r/seduction	03/12/16 06:20 PM
3	How To Talk To Beautiful Women Even If You're Extremely Shy Hey 🙋 It's something some guys overthink. There's some solid advice in this video.	/r/seduction	29/11/16 10:41 AM
17	Tips for movie date Make sure the hole is super tiny	/r/seduction	23/02/16 10:18 PM
1	The best advice I've got for beginner's with AA... You sound like me! Except at the moment I don't have very many friends. Anyways, it appears that you're making excuses for why you can't or don't want to change. I know this from personal experience, and you won't get anywhere with that attitude. You'll just remain unhappy and stagnant where you currently are in life. Don't think about why you can't do something, or how you'll do it later...Just do it, and do it now!	/r/seduction	06/10/12 02:18 AM
1	If you have low self esteem, watch this She really nailed that girl at the end, and came off as a huge bitch. Anyways, good watch, learned a few things. Thanks!	/r/seduction	06/10/12 12:05 AM