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| 33 | See LTR of 1 year differently after she got tipsy and talked about her past. Myriad of red flags that I never would have guessed. | caffeine_at_night | /r/askTRP | 11/05/21 07:22 PM | |
| 18 | Ghosted after a seemingly successful first date | caffeine_at_night | /r/askTRP | 05/10/20 03:09 PM | |
| 4 | need advice when it comes to borderline | caffeine_at_night | /r/askTRP | 29/06/20 05:59 AM | |
| 3 | Broke up with an LTR that showed major signs of BPD. | caffeine_at_night | /r/askTRP | 14/09/20 03:22 AM |
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| 10 | See LTR of 1 year differently after she got tipsy and talked about her past. Myriad of red flags that I never would have guessed.Sorry, I should've been more clear. Drug use in any way shape or form is a hard pass for me, she doesn't use currently, and I drink more than she does (about once a month), but she presented herself very convincingly to be a good girl (AWALT but she was convincing) and hearing that she snuck out (lied) to underage drink and do drugs was something I never would've pegged her doing. It's not the act itself, becaues I was wild in College and High school and I was also around girls like that, it's j… | /r/askTRP | 11/05/21 08:15 PM |
| 1 | Ghosted after a seemingly successful first dateYou were either giving off boyfriend vibes on the date or you had her and didn’t go for the bang so now she doesn’t see you as a man. It legit be that black and white these days I had 3 plates before I foolishly LTR'd one 6 months ago and was in a 7 year relationship before that. I need to shake off this rust and get accustomed to this new norm. Always Keep Escalating and yeah I never send good morning texts, huge mistake but lesson learned. Thanks man | /r/askTRP | 05/10/20 04:00 PM |
| 4 | Ghosted after a seemingly successful first dateWomen are flakey, and many times we miss opportunities. Next time go in for the grand slam and don't assume a dating app girl is there for anything more than a new lay. 10-4, missing opportunities for sure, hindsight is a bitch | /r/askTRP | 05/10/20 03:57 PM |
| 1 | Ghosted after a seemingly successful first dateor sleep with a girl really quickly either, but modern dating has create a world that women aren't attracted to men who take it slow. Shit I'm learning that for sure. My rule is I don't fuck on the first date, but I guess I have to switch it u. | /r/askTRP | 05/10/20 03:56 PM |
| 2 | Ghosted after a seemingly successful first dateNow sometimes girls will give you another chance if you're the top option, but that's a very tough hand to play when she has infinite choices on a dating app. You're absolutely right. I completely forgot about missing the window, and I don't fuck on the first date because the last 3 times I did the women turned crazy, so I always saved that for my second. But in hindsight yeah I should've escalated a lot more past making out and went with my gut. Appreciate the response dude, it all came togethe… | /r/askTRP | 05/10/20 03:55 PM |
| 6 | Ghosted after a seemingly successful first dateyou didn't escalate - by her solipsistic view, you rejected her. Damn dude, spot the fuck on as always. I used to have that happen to me in college, Fresh off 2 LTR's in the past 4 years I definitely forgot about missing the window. Last 2 women I fucked on the first date ended up being crazy so I always save sex for my second, I guess I gotta re-evaluate. And a secret: she wants a man who is assertive enough to find out for himself.not some manchild who needs his mommy to hold his hand all the … | /r/askTRP | 05/10/20 03:52 PM |
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