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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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9	Why do girls keep going to the toxic guy who ruins their mental health but not the one who is willing to take care of them? In my experience like attracts like. Toxic women are attracted to toxic men and vice versa.	/r/seduction	23/04/22 01:54 PM
5	Let’s just fuck already All aboard the Hot Mess Express!	/r/seduction	22/04/22 06:58 PM
1	Go to a Salsa/Bachata classes to improve your game. Fun fact: my ex-wife (long time ago) hated dancing with me because I was so bad. Classes and practice have changed everything completely. If she could only see me now haha.	/r/seduction	20/04/22 03:45 PM
4	Best types/styles of dance to learn for life in general? I have been dancing for 9 years I think	/r/seduction	20/04/22 04:54 AM
48	Go to a Salsa/Bachata classes to improve your game. Dancing is the best thing anyone can learn. Classes are a good start but going to the actual dance events / bars are where its at. You will meet endless amounts of people. I want to point out there are lots of styles of dance to lots of styles of music. here is my list of classes I have taken. is my list of classes I have taken that I just posted in this sub.	/r/seduction	19/04/22 11:42 PM
12	Go to a Salsa/Bachata classes to improve your game. My favorite dance place is an all ages bar and it is full of women from 18-65+ Pretty much every where I have been dancing has had lots of people under 35. Don't discourage younger people from something awesome with your negative bias.	/r/seduction	19/04/22 11:35 PM
1	Is it possible for a guy to be too much of a hunk? Shouldn't you be oiling your nipples while fantasizing about one day losing your virginity?	/r/seduction	19/04/22 11:31 PM
8	Best types/styles of dance to learn for life in general? I have taken all of the following and I have enjoyed almost all of them. I will literally dance to anything, anywhere with any woman at this point. - Hip Hop: Individual dance during lessons but definitely be done with a partner in the club. This is the only one you will see at every single club. The rest of these tend to be more at social dances rather than clubs. - West Coast Swing: partner dance that can be applied to many types of music especially pop. The best for learning lots of moves at …	/r/seduction	19/04/22 11:21 PM
5	Is it possible for a guy to be too much of a hunk? If you actually knew what a barrel chest was you wouldn't be bragging about it.	/r/seduction	19/04/22 10:57 PM
3	Cold approaching is really insane This whole post is about meeting IRL not OLD. That's what a cold approach is. You're gonna have to ask someone else about OLD because I don't care about it. I'm not gonna work 10x as hard for dates on OLD but feel free to do it yourself.	/r/seduction	19/04/22 04:58 AM
7	My Thoughts After 50 Approaches (update) I think most posts here have a different idea of what a cold approach is. These people sound like they drop a pickup line, get a number and expect something to happen. Yes i would expect that to yield shit results. I expect to have a conversation right then and feel them out. If they are into it I get their number. If you do this you will very rarely get a flake. Also what is success rate? One night stands? I don’t do ONS anymore because they usually suck. If success is getting numbers of women …	/r/seduction	18/04/22 06:04 PM
1	Does natural “game” still work ? The books are not completely useless. It helped me to read a few because somethings are not obvious, Iike trying too hard / being too nice / needy are all attraction killers. It’s worth the read just to get rid of behaviors that are working against you. Just remember like every self help book ever printed half of the contents are bullshit used as padding to make it seem like a value for your money. Just keep the parts that align with your values and discard the parts that don’t.	/r/seduction	18/04/22 05:33 PM
8	My Thoughts After 50 Approaches (update) IMO the reason cold approach works so well is men don’t do it much anymore. Women often tell me they don’t ever get approached so any man that does really sticks out in their mind. I also have different experience with meeting women in bars. They turn into dates just as easily as day time approaches for me, maybe even easier.	/r/seduction	18/04/22 04:39 PM
2	So I have a gf but… Oh look another cake eater.	/r/seduction	18/04/22 07:36 AM
1	Cold approaching is really insane Answered on the other comment	/r/seduction	17/04/22 05:27 PM
10	Cold approaching is really insane I think you misunderstand what I mean by building rapport. You are supposed to do that before getting the number. The whole point of meeting IRL is you make a solid first impression in person. If you don’t do that first your odds will definitely go down. I don’t ever just drop a pickup line and get a number. I also don’t believe in texting early in relationships. The texting trap is a byproduct of app culture. It requires too much investment of my time and leaves less mystery for a date. I also …	/r/seduction	17/04/22 05:25 PM
-1	Cold approaching is really insane What do you mean? Like record my approaches?	/r/seduction	17/04/22 02:06 PM
6	Cold approaching is really insane Ignore these haters. They think they will get ghosted because they are used to app culture. I meet women irl all the time and never get ghosted.	/r/seduction	17/04/22 01:11 PM
2	Cold approaching is really insane Same here. Apps suck for me. IRL I meet higher quality women and no flakes.	/r/seduction	17/04/22 01:09 PM
4	Cold approaching is really insane Maybe your not building rapport? Almost every number I get ends up with a date.	/r/seduction	17/04/22 01:07 PM
1	My favourite date ever if you both like to be active: Bouldering It’s not that dependent as a beginner. There are lots of set routes that have generous hand and foot holds. Most beginner routes are designed to be easy to stand on. As routes progress, this changes dramatically but V0, V1 routes should be doable by anyone that is not completely out of shape.	/r/seduction	16/04/22 07:26 PM
10	How do you defuse people who call you a creep for dating younger women? Why is there so much hate on some subreddits for men in their 30s who date/seduce ADULT women in their early to mid 20s? This whole narrative about men dating younger women because women their own age won’t is the most fabricated narrative I have ever heard of. We don’t date younger women because have to, we date younger women because we can.	/r/seduction	16/04/22 06:38 PM
3	How did dating in your late 20s / early 30s compare to dating in your early 20s? Dating has constantly gotten better as I get older. 20s were ok. I got way more attention in my 30s. I’m now in my 40s and I feel like my options are wide open. I just ended a LTR and moved across the country. So many women to choose from now.	/r/seduction	15/04/22 04:39 PM
3	Dating apps are huge waste of time and here's why! lol weddings are literally the easiest place. Easiest intro is ask what their connection to the bride / groom is. Also ignore what Reddit says. I go to most events alone and i talk to everyone: men, women, young and old. I have never had a problem. Just be nice and read the room.	/r/seduction	06/04/22 04:16 PM
2	Dating apps are huge waste of time and here's why! No it doesn’t. Currently meet at least 2 women a week right now at bars that I end up talking to and spending time with later. The worst case scenario is women say they are not interested and I say have a good night. It’s really that easy. 10x easier than apps for me.	/r/seduction	06/04/22 04:11 PM
2	Dating apps are huge waste of time and here's why! OLD works for some but IRL approaches work 10x better for me and it takes less work. Some guys might want to do the grind on apps but meeting women in bars is too good for me to spend time or money on apps. Also the quality of women I have seen on apps lately is pretty low.	/r/seduction	06/04/22 04:07 PM