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Do you think Costa Rica is an eastern country?
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre01/07/21 11:03 PM
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I don’t feel any consequences of this in my everyday life. I don’t get stared at or catcalled, can’t remember the last time that happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 02:23 PM
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Your points are just about the sunk coast fallacy. Red pill is not about accepting irresponsible men because they make good money or because they look good. Her boyfriend is a Chad, not husband material. A good man wakes up early, works hard and has a great sense of responsibility. Looks will fade, money comes and goes.
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/21 01:08 PM
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It’s not the only bar, op.
/r/RedPillWomen29/06/21 06:08 PM
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He’s not above average where I’m from. Someone who sleeps all day, smokes weed and watches YouTube isn’t above average. And it’s not “in her eyes”. Why are you implying that she’s the problem? Jesus.
/r/RedPillWomen29/06/21 05:17 PM
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Ok, so you think she should marry him and make 2.5 kids… because he’s “above average” based on income and looks None of these things necessarily make him husband material. This dude has no ambition. It would be miserable being married to him.
/r/RedPillWomen29/06/21 01:51 PM
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Boy. I can’t believe how low the bar goes for men in this sub. It’s super weird. Like women don’t have options.
/r/RedPillWomen29/06/21 10:33 AM
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It’s not that hard to find a functional adult who doesn’t smoke pot and sleep all day long.
/r/RedPillWomen29/06/21 10:30 AM
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You are being reasonable. He’s not husband material. He’s a pot head man child lucky enough to have landed a decent job. He’d get worse if he had kids.
/r/RedPillWomen29/06/21 10:29 AM
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Stop blaming her for him being an irresponsible man child
/r/RedPillWomen29/06/21 10:27 AM
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I don’t think you’re neurotic, I think he makes you neurotic.
/r/RedPillWomen29/06/21 10:26 AM
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If she was your daughter would you be okay with the relationship?
/r/RedPillWomen04/06/21 03:43 PM
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She doesn’t want love in her life, she wants “the experience of having loves and heartbreaks” This is really disturbing. She’s learned nothing in 15 years.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/05/21 03:19 PM
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More
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 01:34 PM
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Yes I do get it and frankly this subject was exhausted 10 years ago. Next
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 01:32 PM
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Anecdotal evidence
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/19 11:19 AM
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I know! Go ahead and spend your days fishing, hiking, reading, playing video games, having NSA sex or jerking off. I respect your way of life 100%. NO ONE CARES.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/19 05:01 PM
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Get married or don’t, it’s your life and it’s 2019, the age of individual freedom. I wish MGTOW would just go their own way already. Yet they still try to attack the institution of marriage with their vitriol. I’m married 10+ years and going strong. It was probably worth it for both of us. We’re just not wired to be alone. Some people do just fine, but it’s not our nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/19 03:33 PM
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Whatever works for you! (I mean it, I’m not being sarcastic)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/19 06:52 PM
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Even if you’re right and they are. Why is it a bad thing? Not everyone enjoys the irresponsible ahole. I love the feeling that I’m comfortable in my relationship. I’d be crazy if I was attracted to wild people instead. I was not different when I was a teenager or in my 20s. The party boy was NEVER my style. Being stable and secure is a good thing. Men and women both should be attracted to that. But as I always say... it’s 2019 people, you do you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/19 05:49 PM
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I don’t believe this applies to every man. There are plenty of loyal man that want one woman to be his partner and there are advantages to this lifestyle. No one is forced to be into monogamy. It’s 2019, live your life the way you want. If you’re asking what we bring to the table you probably already think the answer is nothing and that’s fine, as long as you own it and is not hurting anyone. Why my partner would trade his woman for some thot? I must be worth keeping. NAMALT 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/19 11:25 AM
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Lol you’re sooooo right. I’m so tired of these 30 something teenagers wanting to be cool and going to Coachella get high. Or whatever being cool means. Just stop 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/19 11:15 AM
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I feel like this storyline happens a lot more in manosphere blogs and incel forums than in real life. It’s like their prologue. But OK, I get what you’re saying. I just never did that to anyone, and I don’t know many people who did it either. Anyone really.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/19 11:12 AM
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This, 100%.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/19 04:23 PM
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Sure, if being pretty is everything you have to offer. I make my man’s life better and am the mother of his kid. Our home is peaceful and cozy, our bed is warm and our fridge is full. I’m not irreplaceable, but why would he do that? He looks at me with pride and shows me off to his friends wherever we go, always holding hands. I’m a lot more than a pretty face. It’s not that hard to find beautiful women to fuck if that’s all you think your worth lies. Be more than that to your partner. And don’t…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/19 02:12 PM
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Same
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/19 09:25 AM
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Omg the endless discussion about porn. People want to watch them, let them. People want to work with it and make money, let them. What is the big deal? Jesus. Stop censoring everything fun FFS
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/19 08:09 PM
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Get a FWB then, not a boyfriend
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/19 09:19 PM
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No. People should take their relationships seriously, regardless if they are young. If anything I say they don’t take them seriously enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/19 08:26 PM
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I know!!! Maybe we suck more than men because we make everyone believe we don’t suck at all Gaslighting bitches
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/19 05:21 PM
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Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/19 05:20 PM
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I must say I changed my mind about my own kind when I read the sub that shouldn’t be named (what the hell, female dating strategies) The level of the entitlement there blows my mind. Seriously. We suck after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/19 02:39 PM
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Can’t see my life without my husband and my kid. They bring me so much joy. They are my best life achievement by far.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/19 10:06 AM
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Yep, the problem with this sub are the extremes people stretch their arguments to prove a point. One side is reasonable to a degree, and the other is not wrong either. No one want to parent a man child or a woman child for the matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/19 06:26 PM
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I did at 20 when I got married!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/19 12:28 PM
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Im on the fence! I’d say 70% traditional
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/19 12:14 PM
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Nah, quite the contrary. I’d rather date someone who has no idea about the dating game. And I’d rather have no idea too. It kills romance!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/19 12:07 PM
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Its not a rational stance to think sex on a 3rd or even first date means anything, oh you'll find people who believe that, but you can find people who literally believe anything. THIS
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/19 08:43 AM
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Having sex in front of children is child abusish in my mind. Even if they can’t understand it (babies sleeping). Call me a prude, I don’t care.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/19 11:54 PM
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Hey I’m not talking about myself here.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/19 11:03 PM
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Are you a virgin?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/19 09:39 PM
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Lol thanks for the class
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/19 09:12 PM
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Why is it either be a virgin or have sex with 50 men?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/19 08:10 PM
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Totally
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/19 08:08 PM
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What women faults are you talking about exactly? Wanting to have sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/19 07:30 PM
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One of your mottos is AWALT.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/19 07:10 PM
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It’s falling apart in some areas and improving in others. People are dissatisfied now and were then because... we’re people, we’re dissatisfied by default.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/19 07:09 PM
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Wait, but if she does she’s a slut! We can’t win with you people
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/19 06:17 PM
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Honestly, it’s impossible to meet RP men standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/19 06:16 PM
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Yes and yes
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/19 10:57 PM
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Lol seriously?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/19 02:17 PM
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That’s so obvious yet people are so dramatic about it. Yawn. Some of you guys are worse than Stacey complaining about chad. If you’re over 15 you should have learned it already. Teen movies teaches us that. Have you ever watched twilight?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/19 02:16 PM
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You met someone years ago and never made a move? That’s on you, you were never that into them to go for it in the first place. And the fact that you say she was a 7 and is now a 5 to the world but not to you... you’re just trying to put her down to make yourself feel better. “Nah she’s not that good anyway”. I do the same with cakes when I’m on a diet lol The woman doesn’t need her partner (or fuck boy for the matter) to be her friend first, she already got a bunch of them. You friend zoned your…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/19 02:14 PM
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We don’t friend zone men. Men do this to themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/19 10:38 AM
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Along with abuse and rape
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/19 12:33 PM
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Nah, I think you’re over generalizing. You’re probably right about some people, but not all of them. There are plenty of toxic men who don’t have any of attractive traits. SOME of them can be: Insecure: tries to put other people down to make him feel better Out of shape: are very envious of active people and often their own SOs Socially inept: loner, most psychopaths are Etc PS: hey you don’t need to downvote me just because you don’t agree with me. It’s always like this in this sub, with commen…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/19 12:33 PM
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I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/19 12:28 PM
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I don’t go through pain to make it work. It’s more like the second part: I make sure he feels loved and admired. And I make sure I’m not a bitch.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/19 12:26 PM
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Lol this is 100% the answer to most of these questions
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/19 10:46 AM
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To me, it’s not even unconscious. I went through that when I was younger and it was nasty.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/19 10:16 AM
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I agree 100%. I have no problem with age gaps past 18 or when someone is senile. Everyone is an adult and is okay for adults to date each other. Feminists can just stop trying to nanny young women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/19 10:15 AM
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Jealousy is not as strong in men? Are you kidding?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/19 11:56 PM
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Yes, but I don’t care
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/19 11:46 PM
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I work my ass off in this relationship. My sisters just as much with their SOs. Don’t know about other people’s private lives and I know it’s just anedoctal evidence, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/19 10:38 PM
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I think you’d freak out any man his age having this talk.
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/19 07:26 PM
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Agreed about gene kelly. Dammit, he was beautiful. I can’t get enough of singing in the rain. Perfect in every way.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 07:22 PM
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How old are you?
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/19 06:15 PM
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He just wants to live while he’s alive
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 05:42 PM
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Well it would not be something I’d put as a reason not to date him. On the contrary. Who knows what he would be open to in bed and what he would make me explore? Kind of exciting.
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/19 05:41 PM
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False. They just want to understand the world better and RP offers a different light than mainstream. That’s why I’m into it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 05:01 PM
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I would
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/19 04:57 PM
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Jon bon jovi
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 01:37 PM
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I don’t understand your point either.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/19 11:00 PM
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This stuff is great and I do it. I was just giving examples of advice people offer on many article about finding a significant other. And I’m pretty sure nothing lasts forever. But life is not short. It can be very long and we need to be smart about our choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/19 10:07 PM
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That was not your initial point. You were talking about sex. But yes, I believe it does.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/19 08:41 PM
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Never.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/19 07:54 PM
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I like that I can have sex the moment I want to. I can just join an app and go hump someone a few hours afterwards. I don’t because I don’t need it, I’m committed. And I like being beautiful and knowing it. I like being checked out... sorry not sorry. I would not like to be a man, not at all. So it does have an impact on my life. I don’t see the stuff you mentioned in such negative light. We pay our dues as women but eh, not that bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/19 07:48 PM
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Man from the internet/ Reddit? No idea. I don’t know any man who would prefer a virgin in real life, though. It freaks them out. My virgin past 20 yo friends are... still virgins.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/19 02:25 PM
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No way that’s the reason. You’re not a helpless little flower.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/19 02:19 PM
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Would you say rollo is not red pill? Because he’s married.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/19 08:53 PM
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Wait, the red pill never said that. Dalrock is a dinosaur from the red pill dude, he almost invented it. Stop the gatekeeping
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/19 08:17 PM
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For sex and casual dating? Sure. For long term relationships and marriage? Hell no.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/19 08:14 PM
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This is so sick. It’s unbelievable how many people are comfortable to tell random people to leave their marriages based on two paragraphs. Misery loves company.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/19 08:04 PM
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Not true! He’s redpill but not MGTOW. Different concepts 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/19 07:55 PM
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I think that’s probably the right way to go. I would probably not cohabitate before marriage. If someone seriously want a family I don’t see the the point of dragging a good relationship along forever wondering where the grass is greener for no reason. Maaaaybe if they’re both early 20s and figuring out life. But of course that’s just me and it’s okay to be more wary.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/19 02:52 PM
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