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When you're a teenager, all the guys fixate on lasting longer. When you become an adult with more partners, you realize it didn't make sense. Like, do women race home the minute you come, so that's your only chance? No, they don't. Know what you do when you don't last very long, especially with a new partner where you both are burning with beginning-stage lust? Simple: have sex again in 20min. I think the one thing that plagued my teens looking back (I'm now in my 30s) is that I was overthinking…
/r/seduction02/07/22 05:21 PM
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i mean, "i love you" doesn't mean the same thing every time it's uttered. it's not some sort of spell that always betrays the same internal state of anyone who ever says it. i'd say a woman saying it so soon actually says very little about how much she might actually love you. most likely she's just inexperienced and expressing her infatuation. weird to confuse that with "1/3rd the way to marriage".
/r/seduction10/09/21 01:02 AM
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big time.
/r/seduction18/07/21 09:13 PM
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Eventually the tension was so high all we could hear were the waves. our boy here is the god damn shakespeare.
/r/seduction05/05/21 03:40 AM
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nah, it's neutral at worst. experienced at best. it not only weeds out flakes, but it also reopens the comms channel shortly before the date and sets the stage for some last min logistics. maybe you're thinking of something else?
/r/seduction05/05/21 03:03 AM
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Even after serious efforts to get over it by plunging into the deep end, I've generally just accepted that cold approaching just isn't my strength and my time is best spent elsewhere, not to say that I shouldn't try exercising the muscle anyways. For example, the alternative to approaching is "incidentally meeting people" which is how most humans in the world meet. That means merely putting yourself in situations where you're meeting the people around you, some of them will be your next good fri…
/r/seduction15/04/21 02:22 AM
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This is like asking if you should wait to start exercising until you build a full garage gym: you can be doing pushups right now. Your dating life involves skills that you can train today, like practicing talking to everyone (not just cute girls), befriending people (not just cute girls), expanding social circle, etc. But of course, there's nothing stopping you from meeting women and going on dates today either, you are just giving us your self-limiting beliefs and excuses.
/r/seduction08/04/21 09:10 AM
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The bottom line is that attraction isn't a choice, yet we are born into a modern world where we don't tend to cultivate the identity that attracts women (e.g. spending your entire teens watching Twitch wishing you had a gf), so we need to learn how to attract women since it's not coming to us naturally. If you're here because you don't have the success you want with women and dating, that's why. Also, odds are you aren't having social success in general, like you aren't making too many guy frien…
/r/seduction07/04/21 06:26 AM
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Yup, I don't go out without gum.
/r/seduction06/04/21 09:07 PM
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which fragrance you wearing, bruv?
/r/seduction06/04/21 09:06 PM
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"lol u suck at sex" isn't communication. "Hey, I would like you to try X" is. Some women have this idea that men are supposed to read their minds. It's a really crappy kind of woman to get stuck with when you're inexperienced. When you're more experienced and a woman said that yet wasn't communicating what she wanted, you'd just dick her down harder and not worry about it, which is probably what she even wants.
/r/seduction06/04/21 06:29 AM
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There are two things I've found going on when I am obsessing about women: I'm not busy enough. This isn't just work but anything else that I can productively fill my time with, like exercise and hobbies and friends. I'm not meeting enough women. When you have multiple spinning plates, you simply care less when one of them falls. That said, online/app dating is much worse than IRL dating, that's why they are supplemental at best. Make sure you're doing shit in the real world that has you incident…
/r/seduction06/04/21 06:07 AM
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Your account is older than mine, you Redditor. lol.
/r/seduction06/04/21 03:54 AM
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It's a reference for the intellectuals reading this thread.
/r/seduction06/04/21 03:51 AM
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The reframe is really just changing "pick up" into "meet people". You'll notice that "pick up" and "flirt" are doing massive work in all of these comments as it makes people conjure up the most ridiculous scenarios like unwanted advances and damsels in distress.
/r/seduction06/04/21 03:48 AM
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it’s 18 in most states. How is there always a morsel of bullshit in every one of your comments here? States where the age of consent is 16 (31): Alabama, Alaska, Arkansas, Connecticut, Georgia, Hawaii, Indiana, Iowa, Kansas, Maine, Maryland, Massachusetts, Michigan, Minnesota, Mississippi, Montana, Nebraska, Nevada, New Hampshire, New Jersey, New Mexico, North Carolina, Ohio,[a] Oklahoma, Pennsylvania,[b] Rhode Island, South Carolina, South Dakota, Vermont, Washington, and West Virginia. States …
/r/seduction06/04/21 03:45 AM
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Do you think you're Rammus?
/r/seduction06/04/21 03:42 AM
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Nobody owes anybody a conversation, we agree on that. But we live in a world where you don't know what someone wants until you talk to them, and you might be exactly what they want, and they might be exactly what you want, and maybe it just becomes friendship or something. It might save you some frustration if every person in the world stops talking to each other so that none of them accidentally talk to you when you don't want it, but that's pretty selfish too, no? At least acknowledging that p…
/r/seduction06/04/21 03:32 AM
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It's funny how it's the people with the creepiest and unhealthiest ideas on banter and dating that go "omg no it's creepy to talk to people younger than you." People who think OP is too old to banter with women on a college campus likely need to read some entry-level material on this subreddit to learn how to talk to people that isn't just "hey want sum fuky suky??"
/r/seduction06/04/21 03:26 AM
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real question is who wants to get flirted with on your college campus? it’s not a place to mingle it’s literally a place people go to school to learn. Uh, almost everybody wants to meet someone they're attracted to, maybe fall in love, maybe just feel good with, companionship, etc. Just because I had to go to a 2pm Sociology class doesn't change that, nor did it change it for any of the women I dated during and after uni that I met on campus. You are doing some serious projection in these commen…
/r/seduction06/04/21 03:21 AM
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FWIW, 16 is the most common age of consent in USA. Not that it's a carte blanche license to fuck everyone north of 15. But it's also ridiculous to do what they're doing in these comments and assume it's creepy to talk to adults on a college campus, lol.
/r/seduction06/04/21 03:16 AM
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The unethical behavior isn't in talking to and bantering with a minor but trying to fuck one while knowing their age. You seriously need to learn some tips on what "flirting" means that doesn't involve the presumably creepy shit you currently do. Maybe check out the sidebar. For example, one critical part of all this is that OP is going to be talking to women light-heartedly and make them laugh and enjoy their day.
/r/seduction06/04/21 03:13 AM
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It seriously seems like you are confusing highschool and university, or you went to a really small/weird college. It also seems like you don't know what flirting entails other than creepy, unwanted advances? Replace "flirting" with "talking to and bantering with and getting to know", for example, and you'll see how silly your PoV comes across to me. Maybe ask us for some help flirting if you come off as a creep when you do it, especially if people are calling the cops on you, lmao.
/r/seduction06/04/21 03:08 AM
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I went to a large university (Univ of Texas) and there were so many reasons someone might be on campus that it wouldn't even come up. "I'm going to {the library, class, just passing through, Starbucks, the Wendy's, I like walking on campus, etc.}" This also just sounds like a self-limiting belief of yours. It's not creepy to interact with the adults around you, people are just scared to, often because they have weird self-limiting beliefs. If you can't think of anything to say to "so, what's up?…
/r/seduction06/04/21 03:04 AM
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Be specific then, what's wrong with getting to know adults on a college campus? You never actually said anything of substance, so you made it an exercise for the rest of us to interpret your comment. For all we know, your point is that the age of consent should be 28.
/r/seduction06/04/21 03:00 AM
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That's popular Reddit opinion, but it's nonsensical. You're assuming OP is a manipulative asshole just because of their age, knowing nothing else about them, and you don't want to admit it. You're treating uni students like helpless children. Though I've found this view mostly from jealous incel men and bitter older women. Anyways, for OP, no problem talking to uni students in your 30s. If you can pull it off, good for you. I work remotely out of a uni library since it's the only place in this b…
/r/seduction06/04/21 02:54 AM
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I think it's the same reason why you have to have the cock and them the vagina. Why they want masculinity from you and you want femininity from them. Nobody got to choose how things are, but you can learn how to thrive within it. Go ahead and take a moment to mourn the unfairness in life, but eventually you must go "fine, let's do this". When I was a teenager, I loathed the fact that I had to be the one to approach women while I watched my sisters have hordes of men approaching them, how unfair!…
/r/seduction02/04/21 06:29 PM
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In terms of my relationship, I consistently used my girlfriend as an emotional sounding board on how overwhelmed I felt with everything. Hard pill to swallow and a rough lesson to learn (and, for some of us, repeatedly), but yeah, this is why we really need trusted guy friends who will listen to us let off some steam. It's kinda staggering just how unfit a girlfriend/wife is for this role. It wasn't until I was like 30 that I first-hand really learned that I needed to find a separate way to deal…
/r/seduction02/04/21 08:13 AM
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I think the reflex to bail comes from the idea to quit while you're ahead. The desync, though, is that the height of the interaction isn't when you get her number but rather after you've had a chance to build rapport with her.
/r/seduction02/04/21 06:27 AM
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I agree in general, but there's nothing wrong with being honest about why you're out alone though. "I like meeting new people." I've had great convos starting with just the honesty of "I'm trying to get more comfortable hanging out at a bar alone and making new friends." It's an intriguing response because a lot of people realize it's also out of their comfort zone, and they have some interesting questions for you. It also makes you more human, not less. Nice thing about being honest is that you…
/r/seduction02/04/21 05:32 AM
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Also I think talking to anyone about anything puts you in the best mindset, especially when out alone. It's obvious in hindsight, but I remember when I started going out alone in my 20s, I made the fatal error of judging every interaction with every woman instead of just giving myself a +1 point for holding a conversation with anyone. Meeting people in general is what opens doors.
/r/seduction02/04/21 05:23 AM
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The issue is that it doesn't really matter, it's just a thought experiment. It's like whether we live in a simulation or not.
/r/seduction31/03/21 05:55 AM
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I just mean that it doesn't serve you to try to work out that complicated sort of "does she really like me?" equation. That's the kind of thing that has you overanalyzing her behavior, it's just not useful and it can't tell you much. In other words, it's easy to see if I girl is actually interested: that's what trying to go on a date tells you. Nothing else can really tell you if she's interested.
/r/seduction30/03/21 08:17 PM
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You don't try to do that calculus. You assume attraction, see if you can escalate it into a date or future meetup.
/r/seduction30/03/21 07:31 PM
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You know, I've thought of writing an anonymous book for young men and my hypothetical future son that deals with everything from handling aging/balding to relating to women to long term travel to other things I don't think society has healthy answers for at large (or are hard to find in the large pile of crap). Publishing it on Github.com or Archive.org or some location that might survive a lil while past my death. Not that I have all the answers, but I once was 15yo scrambling for answers that …
/r/seduction30/03/21 03:38 AM
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He's kinda right. Don't reject advice just because you want to keep entertaining the wuss inside you instead of manning up.
/r/seduction27/03/21 06:49 AM
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man, zoomers are fucked. some drinks = bring out consent form.
/r/seduction27/03/21 01:46 AM
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While it's nice to try to square away your weaknesses, at a certain point doesn't it make more sense to play to your strengths? I've always had pretty intense AA, but I never particularly liked the cold approach. It's like it takes something from me every time. It's like public speaking for fun; I don't think of my perfect life involving public speaking even if I were to get good at it. So I just don't chase that. I prefer to meet women with any sort of incidental reason to do it. I live on a be…
/r/seduction26/03/21 02:46 AM
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I think it's always a good exercise to talk to a lot of women in one night. It can totally shift your anxieties if you've never tried it before. If you're an anxious individual, you can really prove to yourself very quickly that it's just not as bad as you think. But competing for rejection seems a bit... convenient. Seems more like a group of guys convincing themselves "haha oh man getting rejected sooo much tonight... just like I intended haha, really hard work to make these women lose interes…
/r/seduction25/03/21 03:57 PM
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Dating apps really are a supplementary social life for the above-average guy. Honestly if you aren't getting matches, and there's nothing you're overtly doing wrong in your pics (note: it's never a good idea for your pics to look better than you do IRL), then just forget online dating. Your strengths are going to be meeting women IRL. Focus on that. Keeping Tinder around when you barely get matches just seems like a daily exercise with the goal of wearing down your self-esteem.
/r/seduction25/03/21 01:58 PM
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I've seen a gorgeous girl in class but I didn't get the chance to talk to her. So after the week was over, and due to covid the college stopped for a week so the only choice i had was texting her and so I did. Next time, when you have the opportunity, always try to meet someone in person first. Exchanging even just a few sentences in class would have been 100x better than cold-texting her number you got from a group chat. You could drop it, but you lose nothing by finally shooting your shot and …
/r/seduction25/03/21 01:46 PM
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"[Get to a point where you just need to] Be yourself [to get what you want in life. Always be evolving in that direction. Never stop, never give up, learn to love yourself.]"
/r/seduction25/03/21 01:31 PM
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You gain nothing expressing your annoyance at the delay. Just give her the benefit of the doubt, she was busy, so what. So were you. But hey, she did decide to pick things back up. "Counter-ghosting" to punish her doesn't make too much sense to me. Instead I'd nip it in the bud once and for all and try one last time to meet up. If she's down, then cool. If not, then it's over and always was, that's fine.
/r/seduction25/03/21 01:19 PM
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This is also why you practice talking to everyone.
/r/seduction25/03/21 01:13 PM
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My crush Lost me there. Oh, asking this question is some fetish of OP's I guess: https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/kwl1wi/why_do_i_feel_inferior_when_my_female/ (2 months ago)
/r/seduction25/03/21 01:03 PM
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The relationship is over, and it ended for a reason. Move on. :)
/r/seduction25/03/21 12:51 PM
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Man, this is one of the fastest ways to show someone that you're crazy: (1) that you get pissy over slow texts and (2) you think it's something worth confronting them over and (3) you're manipulative, esp over the most petty thing in the world. Can you even tell me what you think your objective is with "hey look if you're busy its totally cool of we talk later on"? Is she supposed to carve out time in her day any time you text her lest she has other shit going on and you throw another tantrum? W…
/r/seduction25/03/21 12:11 PM
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Sure, but OP isn't in a situation where he's with an amazing women who loves him who happens to live out of town which might make the LDR worthwhile. He's investing in a woman out of town who he has no relationship with who he doesn't even know he likes when he can do that exact same thing with women in town with 100x less hardship. Sure, "LDRs don't work" doesn't capture that distinction. LDRs are major concessions thus they only make sense for a woman you know deserves that concession in your …
/r/seduction25/03/21 09:16 AM
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Reflect, accept, and move on. A major part of neediness is when you can't do that. Also, any avenue that ends with a recovery of attraction is going to start with you backing off.
/r/seduction25/03/21 06:21 AM
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Looks like you've done the necessary introspection to reach the next level. After some self pity, it's great when you break through and go "alright, I'm ready to do what I need to do." The way you build social confidence is the same way you build confidence rock-climbing. You have to put yourself in social scenarios where you will ultimately grow socially and gain confidence from seeing your own success. Things like volunteering and meetup.com and such are classic ideas, the more regular, the be…
/r/seduction25/03/21 06:01 AM
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I'm starting to recognize your username. Good content as usual.
/r/seduction25/03/21 05:39 AM
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It's not an open relationship just because you're seeing other women while you're talking to her. You don't have a relationship with her, lol. Of course she's going to say no. An open relationship is something you talk about when a relationship is formed or imminent. Asking her for an open relationship right now is basically "hey, we aren't in a relationship yet but things might be going that way if we figure out this distance thing and see each other frequently, but... want to just skip ahead a…
/r/seduction25/03/21 05:18 AM
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So what? In a relationship, as it gets longer and longer, those feelings and urges are going to crop up for both you and her. It's natural. It feels good to win a stranger's interest from time to time even. And this perspective can help you appreciate your relationship even more. You don't want to spend enough time with someone else that your girlfriend loses your emotional intimacy, of course. But don't be so hard on yourself for a drunken text. I was just in a really long relationship and got …
/r/seduction25/03/21 04:39 AM
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So, you drunkenly texted "wanna hang?" to another woman once and never saw her? You're wasting your time worrying about this. You can bet your girlfriend is keeping in touch with male friends. It's a normal thing to do. Even if this girl came over and shared a beer with you and your friends, so what?
/r/seduction25/03/21 04:28 AM
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if you're on macos/ios, use the Notes.app since it syncs between laptop and phone. yeah give it a shot. next time you're about to socialize or go on a date, read over it and see if it doesn't change your outlook a little. always does for me. it's not just a list of qualities but a bunch of mini-sections i've accumulated over the years like small stories and commandments. kinda like my tyler durden self writing advice to my boy self. good luck.
/r/seduction25/03/21 04:03 AM
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Great list. It seemed corny at first but a while back I added traits like this to a notes file on my computer and have to scroll past it all the time. That file is quite large now with all sorts of notes, but I still sometimes read through and remind myself of the person I want to be. Those notes come in handy when you're dealing with something, not 100% sure how to act, and you go "oh wait, of course I should do X." Your "Skill" and "Resilience" bits remind me when I first moved to the beach in…
/r/seduction25/03/21 02:50 AM
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Then you have "Someday" book-ending you on the future side. "Someday [I will...]", letting you live vicariously through things you pretend you will do. Just do it!
/r/seduction24/03/21 10:48 PM
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"Are you not interested?" is a last resort in the context of trying to plan a date, she says she can't do it that day, you try another day, she can't, she doesn't help plan a date that does work for her. You could just say "fine, then" and never talk to her again, but before that, you can also level with her. As I get older, I like the latter because there's nothing wrong with one last check while walking out the door. Sometimes a woman does like you and suddenly feels sheepish to realize that s…
/r/seduction24/03/21 10:34 PM
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"Always assume attraction" is something drilled into me at age 15 from the David DeAngelo series along with "attraction isn't a choice [so don't obsess over one woman who doesn't like you]". Critical axioms for everyone to have in their brain, ideally from a young age.
/r/seduction24/03/21 09:01 PM
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I wouldn't read too much into this. Your first sexual experience especially tends to be couched in too many other thoughts and emotions for you to really enjoy it. It takes practice, new experiences, and helpful women to really learn what you want from sex and how to achieve it.
/r/seduction23/03/21 07:45 AM
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Writing is always a good idea. Not just concrete objectives like writing down your goals, but also just dumping how you feel about your life right now onto paper or some note-taking app on your computer. This might sound trite, but we easily get stuck in thought loops for swathes of our lives. If you're on macOS/iOS, check out Day One journaling app. There's something super effective about writing down how you feel right this second when it comes to figuring yourself out and the next actions you…
/r/seduction23/03/21 07:22 AM
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Yep, dating isn't Build-a-Bear workshop. And thank god it's not because you can often be surprised at the woman that sweeps your heart. Someone much more interesting than what you thought you wanted.
/r/seduction23/03/21 07:14 AM
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Some things you're just going to have to practice, especially if you aren't normally touchy. This might seem inauthentic, but I think you'll find that you prefer it and that it heightens your own experiences. Also, lack of touching others usually comes from repression, not some sort of immutable congenital character trait. For example, a classic thing to practice is to briefly touch someone on the shoulder when expressing an emotion. Like when apologizing to someone in line for stepping on their…
/r/seduction23/03/21 07:07 AM
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Create emotions in the other person. Think of the stories you have to tell and the emotions they can build in others. A story about getting mugged can stimulate intrigue and awe in someone. A story about putting your dog down, but deciding to have it die in your arms, can stimulate sadness but compassion in someone. Doesn't need to just be stories, they are just obvious examples. Being excited about someone's own story or retelling of events, for instance, can stimulate excitement and energy in …
/r/seduction23/03/21 06:46 AM
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Nah, there are just limits for any one-liner morsel of advice. "No filters" means stop second guessing what you're going to say, don't overthink the predicted impact of everything you want to say before you say it, don't swap out your honest opinion for one that you think is more agreeable or one that you think she's going to like more. The point isn't that you should say literally anything that comes to mind. "Don’t judge or criticize other people" is always a good rule of thumb. Talking bad ab…
/r/seduction23/03/21 06:36 AM
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i realize what sucked about turning 30 wasn't that 30 is old, it's that you don't get to use the excuse of "meh, i'll get my shit together when i'm 30" anymore. :P now that i'm in my 30s, it's now or never. either get out there and do shit now, or i never will. did you two ever get back in touch the breakup only happened a couple months ago. when she broke up with me, at first i wasn't seeing very clearly because of emotions, maybe even denial or something. i tried talking to her a little bit on…
/r/seduction23/03/21 04:53 AM
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i don't regret the long relationship. i don't feel like i wasted those years. i learned a lot. i learned that i can commit which is something useful to know about yourself. i've evolved into a better person. i've learned what i want and what i don't want. i suppose you are right that it ended up a sort of comfort zone that i didn't want to leave, and there are drawbacks to that, but there are also upsides. this is all life is. time spent loving someone and being loved is not a waste of time just…
/r/seduction23/03/21 04:31 AM
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i was with my ex-gf when i was aged 25-32. we never had plans to get married or anything, we just met in a foreign country and it was like one long summer fling that never ended. she was 6 years older than me, so i guess when she hit 38 this year, she just wanted to date around some more and meet new people while she's still young enough. i also think we got kinda complacent in the relationship after so much time, and neither of us ever communicated something like "hmm, we should change it up an…
/r/seduction23/03/21 02:41 AM
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She probably got cold feet over any number of reasons. For instance, just mentioning exs in general when you're meeting someone isn't always the best move. Depending on how it comes up, it might seem like you aren't even over her or something. I just have learned that unless you know for certain why someone lost interest, it's best to not assume the reason why. I just got out of a seven year relationship myself. I've been meeting women and it sometimes does come up through conversation. If anyth…
/r/seduction23/03/21 02:19 AM
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What I pretty much was asking was would a girl think REBOUND if they see me fresh out of a 4 year relationship. No. People just don't do that kind of deep calculus in general, so you shouldn't assume their reaction on their behalf. ;)
/r/seduction23/03/21 02:13 AM
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The logistics here suck since she's 40min away, so you should be more lenient here than if she was your apartment neighbor. I'm never a fan of #2 (freezing her out) since you more likely just miss opportunities from women who just need more direction, and women are less likely to be the ones to push the first few meetups. I think the best option is to reconcile all this when you're trying to plan the date. Someone who wants to see you won't just leave it at "lol sry I can't meet up that day"—the…
/r/seduction23/03/21 12:56 AM
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Women don't react the way that you think they do. This is a self-limiting belief that you invented out of thin air, so you should try to eliminate it. You're trying too hard and wayy overthinking it which will make women run for the hills. If you want to post on IG, just post. Are you posting weird shit or something like sappy breakup quotes or something? lol. Women also aren't giving you are hard time for just coming out of a relationship, not sure how you're coming up with this shit. They're h…
/r/seduction23/03/21 12:35 AM
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You need to be meeting more women. That's the only thing that puts you into the right mindset. When you just have a single prospect, then too much of your emotions and ego are dependent on that outcome. And if things fizzle out, you're 1000x more likely to go "welp, I fucked that up" instead of "it just wasn't meant to be." and you end up with less and less self-esteem. That was me in my early 20s, probably most of us. You just don't want to be in a position where you're crushing on women you ba…
/r/seduction23/03/21 12:20 AM
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If you're going to only do it to some people and not others, then you're still overthinking it. It's kind of like how you should be able to talk to everyone, not wait until you find a woman you like before you finally practice your ability to connect over conversation. Good luck. Eliminate these self-limiting beliefs that you have about the world, they are just holding you back from your goals.
/r/seduction22/03/21 11:54 PM
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Smile and let her look away. You're overthinking it. If you're in earshot distance and a woman doesn't look away, you say hello. Being able to hold eye contact with people and not wuss out and not overthink shit like "when can I look at them again??" is a fundamental social skill that you should read more about and practice. Work this quirk out of your identity. Practice walking down the street and smiling at people and letting them avert eye contact first. If it's another guy and neither of you…
/r/seduction22/03/21 11:01 PM
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I'm not really following. Who cares how similar you look to that time you dated her? Who cares if you look different, as long as you didn't let yourself go and gain a bunch of weight? Ideally you will have evolved since the days that you used to date her. Ideally you've met other women. And for the love of god you better be over a woman you haven't seen in 6 years. You don't even want to be the same guy. I was in a relationship for seven years. When we broke up, it was a turning point in my life…
/r/seduction22/03/21 10:46 PM
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Ideally you don't have to depend on texting to keep up rapport with someone, but you often don't have a choice because you don't see these people regularly. Some communication is better than, none else that contact is going to just fizzle out forever so you might as well send them that message. You have nothing to lose. As an extreme example, I live on a beach in Mexico and keep in touch with tourist men and women who I only knew for a week or two. Some of them fizzle out. Some of them I continu…
/r/seduction22/03/21 09:38 PM
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social network stuff is a bad deal if you already don't have regular success with women. at best, it's a supplementary but slow source of meeting people while you're already meeting people irl. at worst, you're training yourself to get your hopes up because someone followed you and liked some photos.
/r/seduction22/03/21 08:35 PM
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No good comes out of using the word "bitch". Catch-all slurs just make it sound like you're having an emotional reaction. If you want to call someone out, be specific, say it's not acceptable, move on.
/r/seduction22/03/21 01:17 AM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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