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I'm right here. I'm very elusive and I don't teach anymore. Also don't have any social media. You can message me though :)
/r/seduction25/01/22 08:05 PM
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This is an entire module from my Charisma Decoded program. It's a 6 week course that has lessons every week with homework and this was one of our most popular lessons. I thought you guys would enjoy it, so I put it up for free. It's pretty dense, but enjoy! Let me know if you have any questions.
/r/seduction19/05/17 04:14 PM
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Sorry: Ayyy lmao. Damn girl you shit wit dat ass? How many gas station pickles can you eat?
/r/seduction04/04/17 04:03 PM
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That's actually one of my nicest sweaters. 100% dog yarn.
/r/seduction04/04/17 02:52 PM
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Dem youtube views tho?
/r/seduction04/04/17 02:50 PM
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Well we tested them on hundreds of women, and did polls with our female facebook friends with lots of other "Top tinder openers" that we got from this subreddit. These 3 were unanimously the best, which is funny because I don't even like them all.
/r/seduction04/04/17 02:41 PM
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I've talked about this before, but the best for me were: Improvisation Classes Survival Training Anything that involves public performance, so comedy, singing, acting, dance etc.
/r/seduction04/04/17 01:49 PM
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Well Rob spent 4 years testing all this stuff and talked with some of the guys behind the scenes, so it's not like it's just some guess. All of his recommendations are based on months of testing and conversations with the guys behind the scenes.
/r/seduction30/03/17 08:31 PM
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Yeah there's a bit more to it than just that, but that's one strategy.
/r/seduction30/03/17 08:29 PM
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Men's attraction to Women: 80% Looks, 20% personality - Guys will say personality goes a long way with women, but the truth is that guys will sleep with a hot woman who has a shit personality most of the time. Women's attraction to Men: 80% Personality, 20% Looks - Looks do matter, about 20% which is a good amount. But the hottest guys in the bars still go home with nobody most nights. Even the best looking guy will have a very hard time finding someone if he's creepy, weird or even boring. So y…
/r/seduction16/03/17 05:40 PM
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Depends where you are. At a bar: Gorgeous, hot, sexy as fuck, cute Social event: cool, interesting, fun, nice Daytime: Stunning, vibrant, something about you, great energy Always end with "What's your name?" otherwise you may as well just give her a cat call since her response will likely be "Thanks." and then walk away.
/r/seduction09/03/17 05:39 PM
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Use statements of intent: "I like you. We should get married and have like 30 kids. (look at her hips) You can handle 30 kids, Definitely. They'll be good lookin kids too, look at us." "I'm bad news. I'm the last guy here you should be talking to." "If all these people weren't around right now I'd do terrible things." "I'd love to go on a date with you, take you out somewhere nice and be a gentleman, but see, then I'd take you home and do terrible...fun things with you." "We need to stop talking…
/r/seduction09/03/17 05:35 PM
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FYI We do these shows every Monday at 8pm EST on our Youtube channel. We encourage call ins, questions and comments on the live stream, and answer them on the fly. We'll try to get a thread going on here too before every show if you guys are interested in getting your questions answered or have comments.
/r/seduction08/03/17 06:51 PM
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We're havin fun aren't we? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7DJ6YvXyixw
/r/seduction18/11/16 12:20 AM
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When I first started, I would need about 10 women to talk to before I would get a solid connection that would lead to something.
/r/seduction31/10/16 09:37 PM
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This may work, but it's not too solid. Think of it this way, if you asked a woman what she likes in a guy flirtatiously, and she responded "A guy who knows exactly what to say." in a seductive tone. Would that give you an obvious hint? Maybe, but it wouldn't be obvious what you're supposed to do. Woman don't really know what "going after what they want" looks like from a guy's perspective, unless it was already obvious you were both really into each other, she'll probably just give you the same …
/r/seduction31/10/16 09:34 PM
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"You are." Then give a knowing, confident smile. What she's really asking here is "I wonder if he likes women like me." So when you answer "You are." it gets straight to the point. She'll either blush and smile, and give you a greenlight to move forward, OR if she doesn't buy it (Too early in conversation) she may probe further but will appreciate your brazen response.
/r/seduction31/10/16 09:25 PM
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Do you offer training? 100% must buy. Doing me and the things I'm interested in is what most guys have trouble with.
/r/seduction14/10/16 07:32 PM
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Yeah I know what you're getting at, and you're absolutely right. But that doesn't mean that this article is hindering guys. When I was learning stand up comedy, my comedian friend made me do an open mic with him. "Just go up and expect to bomb, but treat the whole thing like it's a room full of your friends and they love you." This was great advice, and did help tremendously. Anyone starting out should hear this. But, After I did this a few times I realized that I was ready to move on and try so…
/r/seduction14/10/16 06:59 PM
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This isn't always true. For instance: If I approach a woman and she is giving me the shoulder, the last thing I would want to do is "assume attraction" in the sense that I should escalate or move forward. I used to do that and it mostly just pisses women off. I will switch my body language, be more skeptical of her being cool, and generally allow her to "warm up" to me while being charming. Then I will assume attraction and move forward quickly. In the beginner stages it may be more useful to ta…
/r/seduction14/10/16 05:46 PM
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This is awesome. Anything that can be made to reference a Bowie song is automatically better. I will use this acronym from now on and credit you.
/r/seduction14/10/16 03:10 PM
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This is on point. Jazz is something that is so much more than just music. It is the acoustic representation of tapping into inspiration and creativity and then simultaneously acting them out in real time. Game is the same thing when you speak and act from emotions instead of logic and everything falls into place. So is sports at the highest level when you hear athletes saying things like "I know the shot is good before it leaves my hand...". So is all art...maybe everything is at the highest lev…
/r/seduction02/08/16 07:18 PM
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Jim Morrison Errol Flynn Phil Lynott Marilyn Monroe Mick Jagger Robert Plant Warren Beatty Billy Joel Ric Ocasek James Dean Tom Cruise Olliver Reed Frank Sinatra There's more, but they're the ones off the top of my head.
/r/seduction29/07/16 03:48 PM
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Stop treating women like the audience. You're the audience. They're either the show, or if they're cool they're in the audience with you and everyone else is the show. Toronto has a lot of great small bars, and a few good big ones. The madison is the bar I've ran the most bootcamps out of and is kind of a college bar for drunk dudes, and it's where myself, Mystery, Savoy, Tenmagnet, and TD cut their teeth in the mid to early 2000s. It's basically the birthplace of "Game" and there's always lots …
/r/seduction29/07/16 03:02 PM
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Marlon Brando. Check out his old films. Move like him. I learned body language by studying him along with about a dozen other guys.
/r/seduction29/07/16 02:56 PM
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Thanks man! Montreal? Depends on your age, foufounes on lady's night is good if you're young. New city gas, Tokyo bar if it's a weekend, it's nice out and the patio is open.
/r/seduction28/07/16 07:11 PM
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No. Production company owns it.
/r/seduction28/07/16 03:42 PM
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Those are the teams. When you go infield, you get put into one of the instructor teams (North, south, east, west) you switch over on the Saturday night. So maybe North on Friday night, south on Saturday. That way you get to work with many different instructors.
/r/seduction28/07/16 01:24 PM
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Hey man! As long as you're not the guy who always has a guitar and busts out wonderwall all the time, it's a great way to get attraction. It's really only going to come into play at places that have a guitar, so usually house parties. But bringing women back to your place for after-parties with your wing and having a little concert is a time old tradition of game that works. I like rogues and thieves because of the roleplaying aspects. Last time I played a gnome illusionist, which is a pretty we…
/r/seduction28/07/16 01:22 PM
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Thanks, I made them myself.
/r/seduction27/07/16 02:47 PM
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Well done.
/r/seduction27/07/16 02:47 PM
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Take singing, acting, or public speaking classes. There's nothing uniquely special about it. Once you learn to speak from your diaphragm, you can relax your throat muscles and speak from your chest and get a bassy, booming voice that won't strain your vocal chords. I use this when I'm doing seminars without a mic. It's also good for when you speak to groups in a loud venue since it commands attention and people will immediately see you as "alpha" for lack of a better term.
/r/seduction27/07/16 01:42 PM
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Nobody said this would be easy. It's the hardest thing I've ever done. The question you have to ask yourself is not "how can I make this easy?" it's "Is this worth it?" Being a bit autistic is definitely going to make this incredibly difficult. But it can be overcome. I've seen it happen. Online dating can be a good alternative as well.
/r/seduction27/07/16 01:25 PM
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I'll usually try to break her out of that. So something like: Me: You guys look like bad motherfuckers. I'm into it. Her: gives look of not being in the mood to get chatted up Me: Uh oh, you're giving me cold eyes, you must be the leader? Her: Oh haha no (breaks out of mood a little bit) Me: Sorry, you seem bored. Don't worry, It's my fault, I have no game. My mom dropped me off here tonight on a scooter, I'm a virgin. I like you though, we should get married. What's your name? It's kind of game…
/r/seduction27/07/16 01:20 PM
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Yeah! We're announcing one at the super conference with Vercetti!
/r/seduction27/07/16 01:09 PM
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I've been to some good ones on Cahuenga. The best ones I've been to are secret ones where you go into unmarked doors off alleys. I only go to LA about once every few years, so I don't know the city too well yet. I wouldn't even know where they were. See 1, sorry. I went to Edison's last time, it was alright, hemingway's was kind of cool but super dark. It would need to be FAST. It would need to have some cool new element that wasn't gimmicky. Make him able to climb and scurry up walls or somethi…
/r/seduction27/07/16 01:08 PM
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Yeah they call that unconscious competence. I mean, yeah I guess that would be the best game, but that's like asking "Do you believe the best way to play guitar is to just know how to play it and be really awesome at it without thinking about it?" Uhhh yes? I guess a more realistic comparison would be something like "What style of music is worthy of more praise? Classical or Jazz?" or "Is it better to have game that is a product of heavy memorization and repetition of sequences, or is it better …
/r/seduction26/07/16 07:08 PM
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Whaaaaa? Octoberfest is awesome for pickup. I've gone twice and taught bootcamps there. You need to pick the right places to go out, but Munich during octoberfest is like Vegas. You're crazy!
/r/seduction26/07/16 03:39 PM
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Get used to it. Attractive women are usually just as insecure and full of doubts as the average looking ones. Sometimes they can be more insecure since guys tend to be scared around them. Once you've been around them enough, and realize they too have gross smelling farts, say dumb embarrassing shit, and get really insecure in groups, you stop thinking they're unattainable.
/r/seduction26/07/16 02:18 PM
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Yeah, no comment. :)
/r/seduction26/07/16 02:05 PM
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Yeah, I mean I think there's a lot more you can get away with when you're shorter and you go direct. If you're a huge dude it can come across intimidating, but shorter guys can get away with it. Yeah, don't hide your intentions. Nick Savoy wrote magic bullets and he's like 6'6, so he probably was writing those pieces from his perspective. He probably also meant that you shouldn't show interest in a woman until she shows interest in you first, but even that is a rule that can be broken constantly…
/r/seduction26/07/16 01:44 PM
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Act as if it's your party being help in your honour, at your house. I mean, don't go around saying that or anything, but just talk to people as if that's the case. You: Hey, I haven't met you guys yet, you having fun? Them: Yeah! You: Cool, let me guess, pre-med? Just go around introducing yourself to people under the assumption that you're the guy to know at that place, and if they're being rude about that then they're really weird and probably won't be invited back next time. Other than that, …
/r/seduction26/07/16 01:28 PM
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Yeah I did that.
/r/seduction26/07/16 01:22 PM
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Be content Have fun/ be happy Be unapologetically flirty Move like Brando
/r/seduction26/07/16 01:22 PM
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LS was traditionally a company that prided itself on it's "word of mouth" advertising. That worked great when the game was selling hundreds of thousands of copies, Mystery was on TV, and I was relishing in keys to the VIP admiration. Once all that kind of fell to the wayside, LS didn't really adapt and kind of fell out of the limelight. I'm in the process of bringing it back, and yes we're definitely going to be doing a lot of video content and blogs. Redoing our marketing efforts from top to bo…
/r/seduction26/07/16 12:59 PM
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I don't believe so, no. Last I heard he runs an online business out of LA and is doing well.
/r/seduction26/07/16 12:55 PM
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I've worked with a good number of mildly autistic guys, to be honest the best thing you can do for yourself is to join some social groups that are warm and accepting as a way to ease into this. Talking to women in bars and on the street can be very overwhelming, add in the inability to grasp some of the more subtle social cues, like sarcasm, irony and facetiousness and it becomes very very stressful and can really mess you up. I would tip-toe into this and build a strong base of social condition…
/r/seduction26/07/16 12:54 PM
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You're Welcome!
/r/seduction25/07/16 09:48 PM
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Basically anything that involves lying.
/r/seduction25/07/16 08:35 PM
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To be honest, I didn't have much input into the triad model. I see it kind of like how artists see the colour wheel. It exists and it's super important for mixing colours and understanding how your tools and techniques work. Everything will fit into one of those categories by definition.
/r/seduction25/07/16 08:25 PM
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Well, to be honest, we do a super conference every year in Vegas where all the Love Systems instructors get together and teach our best stuff to guys over the course of a weekend. We eat with you, go out with you, and basically train you non-stop the entire weekend. It's the only place you can get every guy from every different style to help you, so if you needed to learn how to ace this as fast as possible and not get in the friendzone again, I would do that. It's Aug. 19th weekend. That's wher…
/r/seduction25/07/16 08:22 PM
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Although I can see the similarity. Game is actually quite different in that you're actually the product. It would be closer to a job interview than a sales pitch, but even that's pretty far off unless you're looking for a gold digger. Game is emotional. Being good at sales for game would be like being good at a few specific chords for music. It would definitely help, but unless you're going to create an entire song out of those few chords (which CAN be done!) you're better off using that knowled…
/r/seduction25/07/16 08:11 PM
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You gotta learn Latin dancing.
/r/seduction25/07/16 07:39 PM
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I actually am settled. I'm married. Having said that, I still go out, and I still show guys what can be done. I just try to keep things classy now. No offence to the guys that just want to Clooney it, but I wanted to try out the next stage.
/r/seduction25/07/16 07:27 PM
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awww stop it!
/r/seduction25/07/16 07:21 PM
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Thanks a lot man! I've been quiet the past few years due to some stuff with family, and to be honest I'm actually kind of a shy and pretty reserved guy. Nick Savoy expressed to me back in February that he was looking at getting out of the business and trying something else. I contacted a friend of mine who, along with myself and Chris decided to purchase Love Systems with his company. The deal went through in May and I was put in charge. 3 guys with best game? Hmm maybe... Venture Vercetti Bradd…
/r/seduction25/07/16 07:06 PM
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I'll tell you this: Attraction and "game" isn't logical. It's emotional. It's not about what you're saying, and how you're moving, it's about what those things say about YOU. Game is about your ability to communicate to others who you ACTUALLY are. Are you the guy who tries to present himself the way he thinks people will most likely find him attractive? Because if they're moderately intelligent, that's how they will see you. You'll never get a foolproof logical system working unless you plan on…
/r/seduction25/07/16 06:54 PM
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Agreed, im down.
/r/seduction25/07/16 06:36 PM
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YEEEEAAAAh
/r/seduction25/07/16 06:35 PM
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AHHHHHH no palm reading, no negging! You don't need to say much when you're dancing. Your body should be doing the communicating. Once you've flirted a bit and you're both digging the dance, then take her close and say "Come sit and have a drink with me" then go off the dance floor and get to know her.
/r/seduction25/07/16 06:35 PM
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shhhhh bby is ok.
/r/seduction25/07/16 06:29 PM
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1) I just moved to Toronto, didn't really have a job, read the game and decided that I could do it. 2) Bit of a natural. I was kind of popular in high school, in drama and student council and was a class clown. I got voted most likely to appear on SNL. So my humour and confidence was already pretty good. I had no idea what I was doing though, I was the guy who had women attracted to him but didn't know what to do with it. 3) I'm 5'7. You're hardly short. Being short for guys in our height range …
/r/seduction25/07/16 06:28 PM
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I think they do a great job marketing to their demographic. They have tons of content. Some stuff I've heard from them I thought was genius, other stuff I thought sounded kind of weird and aggressive. Like anything else, it probably depends on who is speaking. They seem to all have different aspects to their style. I think we're a bit more mature with our style as a whole.
/r/seduction25/07/16 05:59 PM
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Godbless!
/r/seduction25/07/16 05:55 PM
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Hey! Thanks man! Yeah I think more important than anything is to be able to hang together comfortably. There needs to be a mutual respect for everyone in the group. To be honest, a lot of the guys I've met with self described "great game" are narcissist pricks who I couldn't stand. Women can tell, and they'll respect a true group of genuine guys over a pack of bros out to hunt pussy any time.
/r/seduction25/07/16 05:55 PM
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I actually messaged the mods about a week ago, but didn't get a response. It's cool, I'll be around all day and can answer questions as long as people are asking for days.
/r/seduction25/07/16 05:52 PM
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Los Angeles has a lot of great dives. I've been to a couple on cahuenga and there's some pretty ok ones in Hollywood. The best bars in LA are always hard to get into, so normally when I have to work there I'll go to a place like Edison's, which is pretty good for what it is.
/r/seduction25/07/16 05:50 PM
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Thanks...I think. One thing I advise doing is to make a list of 5 things that the you in 10 years would be good at, that you're not currently. It could be speaking another language, playing an instrument, or even owning a successful business. Write down that list. Now put it somewhere you'll see it everyday. Everyday you need to work towards one of these goals. EVERY DAY! It doesn't have to be difficult. Some days when I'm feeling lazy, I'll just watch a video on youtube in a different language,…
/r/seduction25/07/16 04:27 PM
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Ask yourself "How would most women fantasize about meeting their one true love" They would all tell a story that involved the following: Fate intervened to have them come together (meet in an unexpected way) He would sweep her off her feet (he would be charming and confident) It would all happen fast, and it would feel serendipitous. This literally sounds like meeting a woman in the daytime. She won't be expecting it (your fear of her being busy), you will need to be charming and confident becau…
/r/seduction25/07/16 04:10 PM
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Hey man! It's all in your head. You need to realize that your social skills are a bit rusty, but they will come back quickly, probably in a night of doing this. We all get rusty, I usually need 2-3 practice sets before I feel socially acclimated. We're scheduling a Germany bootcamp right now! Probably for Octoberfest. Not sure if I'll be there, but I might be!
/r/seduction25/07/16 03:58 PM
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"Don't approach a girl unless she gives you a clear signal." Did I actually say that? Weird. That's wrong. You can approach any woman, but probably want to stay away from ones who are actively giving you a disinterested signal though. Anyway, as for women in loud environments. You don't need to have a lot to say. It's all about your body language in those situations. You should probably take dancing lessons if you find yourself in loud clubs often. As for repeating yourself. Just simplify to you…
/r/seduction25/07/16 03:52 PM
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I mean, I could say speak from your diaphragm, but that won't mean much reading it on a forum. Take singing, acting, or public speaking classes. You can learn to speak in a "King's voice" as I call it which allows a great amount of volume, resonance and a specific timbre to your voice with minimal effort. It's something all men should learn and it's very useful in many different situations.
/r/seduction25/07/16 03:37 PM
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Thanks man, keep an eye out at lovesystems.com there's probably going to be a new product/book of mine come out before year end that will feature a lot of these.
/r/seduction25/07/16 03:30 PM
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We just got a great camera and are working on that this week. I'll do a video answer for the best question from this AMA.
/r/seduction25/07/16 03:21 PM
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I could literally write 10,000 words about this without stopping to think. If you're in a high status social gathering and you go up to a woman you haven't met and say "Excuse me, I don't think we've met. I'm Derek." She will probably smile, introduce herself, and you will come across great. If you do this same thing in a loud club, she will probably say "What!?" then walk away. Implied value is a very great tool to use when you can.
/r/seduction25/07/16 03:17 PM
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No, not really. I prefer formless methods. I always have. Best way to get attraction immediately is to stop seeing women as the audience. THEY are not the audience, YOU are the audience. Go into social situations with this is mind and you'll find attraction comes much easier.
/r/seduction25/07/16 03:12 PM
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I wrote a book! The gentleman's guide to online dating. It was about online dating though, of course. Did you mean a book of stories? Because I'm actually putting that together now as well.
/r/seduction25/07/16 03:08 PM
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I wish I knew that women use their emotions (and your emotions) to guide themselves in a conversation with strangers. Men use logic, so we think "If I SAY this, she'll think this!" when really she's not paying too much attention to what you're saying, she's paying attention to the emotion you're giving off when you speak. Guys that can control their emotions will ALWAYS be able to become amazing at game. It's the defining factor of whether or not you'll be "good" (literally anyone can become goo…
/r/seduction25/07/16 02:43 PM
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"Game" can be a pretty subjective thing at the high levels. Having said that, I'm pretty good under pressure. I often function better when cameras are around or I'm being judged. So I'd definitely have an edge there against anyone who would be nervous from those things. Right now I've been teaching this for 10 years, I've been all over the world and understand women and attraction in a way that can only be obtained from pouring thousands of hours into conversing with them from all different back…
/r/seduction25/07/16 02:28 PM
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The experience was definitely interesting. I wasn't really known at the time, and the episode definitely put me on the map in the underground pickup scene. It was a while ago, I mostly remember not really caring about the show and just doing things that I thought would be funny or entertaining. The after-party was a bunch of models telling me how awesome I was and giving me shots....for 45 mins to get the footage, then they left and I had 2 bottles to myself with some friends I brought. It was o…
/r/seduction25/07/16 02:18 PM
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Who said you had to be the funny guy forever? I think you're looking at this the wrong way. I've always told guys who have issues with approaching "THEY (the women you're approaching) are not the audience, YOU are the audience." It's not about entertaining them and convincing them to like you, that's a surefire way to come across weird. It's about finding interesting people that you sincerely click with and enjoy meeting and finding out about. When that feeling is mutual, relationships form natu…
/r/seduction08/07/16 06:07 PM
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I just finished chopping wood and ripping a bear in half. I'm ready to answer questions ABOUT BEING A MAN.
/r/seduction08/07/16 04:30 PM
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Awesome! I always started my programs by saying "Success with women is the smallest thing you can learn from all this. This isn't about learning how to attract women, it's about learning how to deal with fear." Guys who get into this just to fuck chicks are missing the big picture. It's about learning how to become a man.
/r/seduction22/06/16 02:50 PM
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An easy way to train yourself to do this is to think about what your experiencing through your senses instead of what your mind is telling you. What does the environment smell like? What kind music is playing? What is the vibe like where you are? How much fun is everyone having? What colour dress is she wearing? Just try to FEEL where you are in that moment and appreciate it. I'd usually do a "reset" like this whenever I was getting too into my head. I'd just focus on my senses, look around, smi…
/r/seduction21/06/16 09:14 PM
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In short: They're kind of trained to be by our culture. Picture yourself as a hot woman. From the very beginning, even at a young age, what kind of experiences are you having? Everyone telling you how cute you are, being able to use your looks to get what you want. Finding out that you can emotionally manipulate people with ease, and basically nobody calls you on it, becomes extremely empowering and addicting. As you get older you find that you can make your "power" even better by accentuating y…
/r/seduction21/06/16 09:03 PM
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I'll also keep an eye on this thread if anyone has any questions about anything we talked about....which may or may not include questions about liquor and/or Sega Genesis.
/r/seduction13/02/13 07:05 PM
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I have a question for you. I work for Lovesystems, and am known in the "industry" to a certain degree (and I've also done an Iama here recently). Anwyays, I haven't read your book or met you (I think?) but I'm curious in what you think about all these "puas" you've met? I've only met a few outside of my company and find them to all suffer from negative personality disorders that were either created by or drew them towards their careers as "dating coaches". It's kinda sad actually, as there are v…
/r/seduction26/09/12 01:42 AM
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Self-improvement should be for yourself, not for other people, or what you think would make you "seem cooler". If you go in with those attitudes, then you'll quit eventually. Things I do: Painting Sword fighting Reading literary classics Writing Piano Lessons Designing or altering clothes Learning to cook interesting things Make things out of wood, so far I've made a spoon, spatula, short bow (with real feather arrows), and a caduceus. I want to make an arcade cabinet next but need some more too…
/r/seduction25/09/12 10:21 PM
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I'll be in Miami in November!
/r/seduction19/08/12 09:15 PM
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Don't give up.
/r/seduction31/07/12 04:36 PM
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Not too much anymore. Used to be pretty chronic.
/r/seduction31/07/12 04:29 PM
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Brando: Wild one, Streetcar named desire, on the waterfront Beatty: Shampoo was good. Beatty doesn't really play himself too often in films, I hear Bullworth was the closest, but you can get an idea of him from anecdotes. Madonna has said some funny things about him.
/r/seduction31/07/12 04:10 PM
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Oh for fuck's sakes! Thanks!
/r/seduction31/07/12 04:02 PM
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TOO MANY QUESTIONS! I'll answer a couple. Well duh, of course! As long as it's the right kind of teaching. There's some charlatans out there. I don't subscribe to the whole taking seduction as a logical science thing. I teach guys how to be naturals. Decide to get better and then COMMIT. Have 100% conviction that you are improving yourself and you will get better. It's a long hard path and nobody said it would be easy. You are going to be scared, you will have doubts, you will get embarassed, an…
/r/seduction30/07/12 07:56 PM
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No. The episode was filmed 2 hours outside of Toronto in a university town. We left right after filming. I got a text from Alicia as I was leaving inviting me to a dorm party but I was gone by then, and St. Catherines is not really a place I'd ever go back to for a girl.
/r/seduction30/07/12 07:48 PM
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Heath Ledger had the James Dean thing. Ryan Gosling can channel a Brando vibe occasionally. I like his stuff.
/r/seduction30/07/12 07:46 PM
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Yeah sometimes I have nights where I think "Uhh I really don't feel social tonight." It happened much more often when I was learning, and to get over I would usually tell myself "Alright just do 5 sets, make them quick and stupid if you want, but just do 5 and then you can go home." So I would commit to doing 5 before I left. The first few probably wouldn't go so well, but by the 4th or 5th one of them always went well, and once that happened I had become much more socially acclimated and no lon…
/r/seduction30/07/12 07:44 PM
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I met him when I first started going out in Toronto. We sort of randomly ran into each other the very fist night I went out after reading the game, and I filled him in about it since he used to be friends with Erik (Mystery) and didn't know he had this book about him and all the project hollywood stuff. So he read the game, was pissed off that Erik was doing well and never bothered to pay him back a loan he gave him, and then we both decided we were going to go out all the time and try to become…
/r/seduction30/07/12 07:37 PM
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Entrepeneur Run a bar Make something/ be creative. I'm biased, I can't really have a boss, I can't deal with authority figures.
/r/seduction30/07/12 07:32 PM
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The "prize" was the party at the end. It wasn't that great, they hire all those models for about an hour to get all the shots they need of you "partying" which are all really just the producers being like "Ok Derek now lets get a shot of you doing a shot!" Once they have all their shots they take off and leave you and your 3 invitees with a bottle of Vodka to split. I brought Mitch and 2 women, and we finished the bottle before they even left (1.17 liter!) and made them get us another. They were…
/r/seduction30/07/12 07:28 PM
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Agreed! Thanks for adding that!
/r/seduction30/07/12 04:10 AM
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I was just in Prague! Although I guess that's more central Europe. I'd love to come to Poland! I'll think about it!
/r/seduction30/07/12 04:05 AM
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Haha thanks, I love making my own clothes. I was inspired by the show.
/r/seduction30/07/12 04:02 AM
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You're success is limited by your fear. Guys like you can progress quick and without too many hurdles. Alcohol can help since it diminishes your fear, but you need to be able to handle that without the drink. Start by forcing yourself to do scary shit, you don't need to start with talking to hot women, try doing things like karaoke (seriously) or improv. Get out of your comfort zone! Guys are easy, you can always bond on women, drinking, sports, regional bullshit. When I meet new guys I always t…
/r/seduction30/07/12 04:01 AM
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I'm not supposed to tell you. Then you would know my weaknesses! I'm a trickster though.
/r/seduction30/07/12 03:42 AM
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Just be humble, I usually say something like "Uhh I'm actually a writer, but I write really dumb shit. I act too, but that's mostly for fun." They'll usually ask what I write and I say "I wrote a book about online dating. Ahahaha Seriously though I did." I usually drop it after that though and get into another topic. So say something like "Alright that's enough questions, I want to find out more about you so when we get married I have some embarassing things I can say about how you tried to impr…
/r/seduction30/07/12 03:38 AM
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Buffalo knob-water.
/r/seduction30/07/12 03:29 AM
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Enjoy the scenery. Plateaus are mostly an illusion. You learn so much in the beginning that when it slows down you think you stopped learning. You didn't though, you're just not as aware of it.
/r/seduction30/07/12 03:28 AM
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rapier/fencing mostly. Some Broadsword. I learn at Academie Duello.
/r/seduction30/07/12 03:26 AM
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Brando- Subtext, masculine energy, getting a joke they don't get. Warren Beatty- playfulness, cocky teasing, not giving a shit. Jim Morrison - Sexuality, aura of comfort. Billy Joel - Personality. Conviction that what he's saying is entertaining.
/r/seduction30/07/12 03:24 AM
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Ooooh I'm so young and slim.
/r/seduction30/07/12 03:17 AM
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Lone-wolfing helped quite a bit but it's very different. You need to "work the room" short sets work well, and acting like everyone there is your friend. Don't be alone looking around etc. I was going out alone about 30% of the time when I was getting into it. It was extremely nerve racking at first but you get used to it once you make friends with the bartenders and locals. For everything to FEEL natural? I was getting moments of it a couple months in, and then nights of it after about a year, …
/r/seduction30/07/12 03:16 AM
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"Nah, no numbers. One girl wanted a threesome, we couldn't find a partner though. I could have used your help there. condescending smile" Girl: Embarassed, or (worst case)" Threesome with you? hahaha" You: Your loss. shit eating grin, look at others as if you jut won argument and don't give a shit what she says next
/r/seduction30/07/12 03:01 AM
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Sounds like it's you who has an issue here. There are no absolutes when it comes to people, so I can't answer this. My wager, judging by your phrasing of the question, is that you're insecure, and you communicate that. They don't respond to you because your insecurity creeps them out and makes them feel bad. Just have fun man. Stop seeing yourself through the eyes of others, you'll only become resentful when you see what you can't admit to yourself. Not very. It's true that "mpuas" (I don't real…
/r/seduction30/07/12 02:56 AM
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Just open direct. So if you see a girl you like go up to her and say "Hey I haven't met you yet. (Smile) What's your name?" Just think: "If this was my private birthday party, and there's people here I haven't met. How would I go about meeting them?"
/r/seduction30/07/12 02:43 AM
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I'm in a relationship now. 2 years. Favourite film is Once upon a time in the west.
/r/seduction30/07/12 02:41 AM
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That's a long answer, but to sum it up: Have strong boundaries that you reinforce whenever they are stepped on or crossed. Don't reveal how you feel until you're positive it's mutual. Let the relationship figure itself out. Don't impose too many expectations. Mostly it's women who do this anyways, so just be honest with what you want/expect when it gets brought up. Whisky? I mostly like Ryes since I'm Canadian. Kentucky bourbons I'm not too fond of, and for Scotch whiskeys I like Islay single ma…
/r/seduction30/07/12 02:40 AM
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Sexuality stems from a belief. Beliefs stem from (perceived) truths. Truths come from experience. Your sexuality will only ever be an act until you make it your truth. You can't come out of nothing and be at the top. Well if you're a really good actor you could...maybe.
/r/seduction30/07/12 02:36 AM
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It's a little important for women. Much more important for how much it affects you. If you believe it's an issue, then it will be an easy way to give yourself some confidence. Plus it's healthy!
/r/seduction30/07/12 02:33 AM
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Women like being the object of desire. Play out that fantasy, so vocalize how much she's turning you on, how hard you are etc. With women, emotional stimulation always wins out over physical. Find out before what turns her on by asking things like "What is the hottest shit for you? Like If you were directing your own porno designed to turn you on, what would happen in it? Be honest, I don't judge."
/r/seduction30/07/12 02:31 AM
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Ok: Inner game: Most important part? Frame everything in your head as WIN/WIN. The truth is that it is. Force yourself to see "failure" as inevitable and hilarious. Best advice I got was from Johnny Depp when he said his mantra is "Fuck it!" Life is funny, have a drink friend. I prepare by laughing. So, joking with my friends, watching something funny or listening to music and drinking some. Making up games you're going to play like "Let's see how many women we can convince that we know their da…
/r/seduction30/07/12 02:28 AM
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I prefer direct. Indirect has it's advantages, mostly for situational and early in the night openers. Daygame has to be emotionally honest and usually direct.
/r/seduction30/07/12 02:13 AM
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Thanks!
/r/seduction30/07/12 02:12 AM
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Personally? Yes. Not all pros will agree with me. A lot of senior LS instructors still use logical constructs to steer them socially. I don't really. I rely mostly on instinct now. Mostly because I'm lazy and I like a challenge...I'm aware of the hypocrisy.
/r/seduction30/07/12 02:10 AM
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He communicates emotionally instead of logically. He uses his body and his face fluidly more than any other male actor at the time (except Brando) I always saw him as a soft Brando, Brando has much more masculine energy; brooding, confident, playful, restrained Brando gives a "I know what you're doing/thinking and I think it's cute." vibe. Dean does a lot in the other spectrum, so he's more: Mischievous, tormented, honest, explosive emotional outbursts. Dean gives more of a "I don't have to say …
/r/seduction30/07/12 02:08 AM
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I'll say something like Cajun: Hahaha Girls like you always have boyfriends. Is this a serious one? You gonna marry him? Woman: Haha maybe. Cajun: Well if you marry me first we can adopt a puppy and I'll let you name him whatever you want as long as it's Bob Barker. Basically treat the issue as a non-issue which if she's lying about it, then it is, and if she isn't she won't continue to flirt or escalate unless it's nothing serious. Win/win!
/r/seduction30/07/12 01:58 AM
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Shave your head. I mean BIC it! Embrace your faults! Your perceived "looks problems" are 90% in your head. Women don't really care about it as much as you think, there are some, but you wouldn't really want those women anyways. I'm short, maybe 5'7 on a good day. I get tall women who often say "You're very short" or "I'm much taller than you" and I usually respond with something like "What else do you like about me?" as I pull them in closer and look them dead in the eye. They're asking to see i…
/r/seduction30/07/12 01:52 AM
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This goes away more as you get older. Personally I think it's due to a lack of identity. I used to feel the same, until I did enough things in my life where I was confident and comfortable with who I was. The biggest ingredient in that I believe is passion. I have many passions but I had to figure them out and try them. Meeting many people changed it for me as well. Once you realize how "average" your average person is you stop comparing. Good thing is, for men (in most places), value is only ab…
/r/seduction30/07/12 01:48 AM
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Also, favourite scotch would be single malts from the islay region. I'm not brand loyal. I LIKE EM PEATY!
/r/seduction30/07/12 01:37 AM
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Has to do with how you look at it. If you build something up as an annoyingly difficult and frustrating task, then that's how you'll see it and you'll end up resenting it. I used to use the analogy of a sink full of dishes. I HATE doing dishes and because of this they would pile up and I'd look at them and think "FUCK look how man there are, that is going to take HOURS to do. FUCK FUCK FUCK." then i'd get pissed off and avoid them. This only made the problem worse and I KNEW that. But having to …
/r/seduction30/07/12 01:35 AM
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Well, it's kind of a complicated question but basically I have worn down my fear response over time. Actually, it's not even worn down, it's just changed. Fear excites me, it always kind of has, but there's a certain feeling you get when you can engage in a terrifying activity and then conquer it. It's the feeling of being a man I guess. It's very addictive, I'm confident when approaching women because: I don't care what happens. Even if she slaps me and calls me a faggot (which would never happ…
/r/seduction30/07/12 01:25 AM
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I don't think so. I did quite a bit of daygame in Toronto, it was fine. Vancouver is quite difficult though. It really comes down to the energy you're bringing. If you seem a bit crazy or forward it may turn them off. For me day game was always about being completely honest and trying to connect with them on something right off the bat. Easiest for me was making them laugh because that's easy for me, but it can be anything.
/r/seduction30/07/12 01:19 AM
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Right so I was involved in improv way before I learned all this "game" stuff. The reason I think I got good so fast is because I saw it as something extremely similar to improv. Here's what you learn to do in improv: -Say clever/funny things without having time to think. -Be spontaneous. -Read other people's body language/ signals to know where to go next in a scene. -Learn how to be creative. -Become confident in extremely nerve racking and stressful situations. Sound familiar? College freshman…
/r/seduction30/07/12 01:16 AM
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Yes I visualize in most things. It's not really what you may think though, the truth is EVERYONE visualizes. The problem is that men tend to visualize logically, so this happens: sees cute girl* "Uh oh, what should I say? Oh right, I'll use that opener Cajun told me. Wait...what if she says _____? Uh oh, and what do I say after that? Shit shit shit. Oh right I just transition....but what if...ad infinium" When we create a logical problem in our head through visualization we tend to stress until …
/r/seduction30/07/12 01:12 AM
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T-minus 1 hour!
/r/seduction30/07/12 12:00 AM
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HAHAHAHAHA!
/r/seduction27/07/12 01:47 AM
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Mitch is good, been in a string of relationships since the show. Now dating a ballerina. He's also an avid redditor, although not this subreddit.
/r/seduction27/07/12 01:42 AM
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Are you sure? I think im ok, but by no means a looker.
/r/seduction27/07/12 01:41 AM
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Looking forward to it guys! I'm going to start posting more on this sub as well.
/r/seduction26/07/12 10:19 PM
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Cajun here. Couple things about this video: It's from 4 years ago. I no longer act or game the same way. Even in the video I was toning it down because I didn't want to potentially come across as sleazy or a horndog on a national TV show my family and friends would see. When I say my success rate is 95%, I was talking about attracting women, not fucking them. Most guys have no idea how subtle female attraction can be; that's one of the reasons guys need help. It's not like these girls are scream…
/r/seduction13/06/12 04:24 AM
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accualy is Dolan.
/r/seduction25/04/12 02:43 AM
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A genie appears and tells you that you have two choices. You must pick one, failure to choose will result in having to complete both and then sucking the genie's dick just for being an asshole. The genie says that you must fuck someone behind one of two doors. "Don't worry though!" he reassures you, "I'll let you see who's behind each door, no tricks!" Door #1: It's the hottest "woman" you've ever seen. Perfect body, perfect face, lovely voice. Except she has a penis. It's a man. Door #2: Hairy …
/r/seduction25/04/12 02:20 AM
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