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but that's what im tryng to ask, how do i find an excuse if its just a guy i see on the street that walks past me
/r/seduction12/06/26 04:26 PM
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but it's like a guy walking past me, how do I even get into a situation where I get to have a conversation with him?
/r/seduction12/06/26 03:36 PM
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what if it's just his face, as shallow as that sounds 💀
/r/seduction12/06/26 03:35 PM
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Yea you're right, I'd say a large part of it is social media reinforcing that there is a social ranking based on looks. As for not overthinking it, that'll be hard, the only thing that helps is alcohol 💀
/r/seduction12/06/26 03:35 PM
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but what if they already walk past me and it's too late, i usually need a moment to work myself to go up to a guy, do i run back to him? 😭
/r/seduction12/06/26 03:33 PM
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gosh i'll totally try this!
/r/seduction25/08/25 01:48 AM
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I should, agh lets see
/r/seduction25/08/25 01:21 AM
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i want to but ugh its actually so scary, idk if i can do it. Like ive been tryna atleast smile at a guy and maintain eye contact but that itself is so hard, but i feel like i can just give him a paper and nervously speed walk away 💀💀
/r/seduction25/08/25 01:12 AM
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i must have the courage to even look at them first 💀💀
/r/seduction25/08/25 01:08 AM
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you'd be surprised how much men on this subreddit hate me just for saying I'm average in looks and scared to talk to attractive guys and by attractive I just mean average but they're attractive to me 😭😭 Yet they encourage all the men here to shoot their shot or encourage men to hookup.
/r/seduction20/08/25 04:13 AM
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maybe your two friends are gay lol
/r/seduction08/08/25 11:34 PM
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Are you stupid? I dont want to date a date conventionally attractive men. Jeez
/r/seduction04/08/25 02:44 AM
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I do have male friends I meet organically, I just put that in my bio cause i get too many weird men messaging me lewd things under the context of “friends on reddit” . For my safety i make friends with men naturally through close friends but I dont have that many as most of my friends are friends with other women who are also women
/r/seduction03/08/25 06:20 PM
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I know right!!! It makes me feel so sad how so many men just wanna fuck instead of actually love me :(
/r/seduction03/08/25 06:17 PM
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I actually am into really average looking men or men at my level. Even my friends and guy friends say so. I just said attractive cause they’re attractive to me 😭. But I notice a double standard on this sub, i see many men trying to bag “hot women” and other men hyping them up but suddenly im “entitled” if i want that ?
/r/seduction03/08/25 06:16 PM
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I already do this with women, it feels more natural for women to randomly compliment each other tbh haha
/r/seduction03/08/25 03:08 PM
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I guess it just fucks with me cause I’ve never had a guy ever ask me out. I do occasionally see guys checking me out but I’ve never been into them. But you’re right about the first part, I wish people could just talk to random people without having to want something, like needing an excuse to talk to someone.
/r/seduction03/08/25 02:45 PM
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I joined the gym but gyms are so awkward for socialising 😭😭
/r/seduction02/08/25 03:36 PM
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You’re right, thanks for the pep talk!
/r/seduction02/08/25 03:27 PM
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I think its more so im scared they’ll think im ugly and be like “ew”, i find it hard to perceive myself
/r/seduction02/08/25 03:21 PM
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While yes thats true, i was trying to be as objective as possible. Even my guy friends say the men I find attractive are ugly sometimes lol and I think I am a 6, my friends rate me more as you said thats how women are but the fact that random elderly women with nothing to gain hype me up feels like it maybe true? I am pretty skinny, dress well, wear makeup well, do my hair well. I try my best to look good.
/r/seduction02/08/25 03:12 PM
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Agh i must try but my self esteem is like in a ditch haha, sometimes i wish it was so easy to just randomly strike a conservation.
/r/seduction02/08/25 03:09 PM
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I thought about that too, but idk I feel as though I don't come across as someone seeking sex, even when I ask a guy out. I come across like shy. Not sure if that's communicated though.
/r/seduction21/06/25 04:38 PM
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i just said I don't mind men above 5'7 💀, mustve triggered some guys below that height lol
/r/seduction21/06/25 04:36 PM
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Possibly, I just don't enjoy going to clubs or I'm not sure what events to go to. I've been trying to go out a bit as of lately but I'm a fairly reserved person so I'm not sure if I come across as inviting. Also, I don't think I have unrealistic expectations, the men I've seen previously were all pretty average in looks. Calling me "superficial" for not wanting to date men below 5'7 is unfair, we as a society don't pressure men into marrying overweight or obese women or even unattractive women. …
/r/seduction21/06/25 04:35 PM
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That's fair, i'll keep that in mind!
/r/seduction21/06/25 04:07 PM
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thing is, i find it harder to make friends with men and when i do, theyre often interested in me and im not into them and then naturally they dont wanna set me up with their friends
/r/seduction21/06/25 04:06 PM
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man that's insane 😭😭
/r/seduction21/06/25 02:49 PM
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what's ur source lol
/r/seduction21/06/25 02:48 PM
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It's not that I just want to get numbers, i want it to lead into a long term relationship with a guy that is actually interested in me.
/r/seduction21/06/25 02:47 PM
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I'm asking men out lol
/r/seduction21/06/25 02:35 PM
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I think that was originally the plan lol
/r/seduction21/06/25 02:31 PM
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im happy being a girly and feminine tyvm lol
/r/seduction21/06/25 02:29 PM
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maybe, i dont think I'm that picky about looks.
/r/seduction21/06/25 02:29 PM
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Maybe I'm speaking from a girl perspective or in North America atleast. Short is below is 5'10. I don't mind 5'7 and above.
/r/seduction21/06/25 02:27 PM
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I nearly peed myself from anxiety lol, im sure when I reach 30 it'll be nothing. If anything this is good rejection therapy lol
/r/seduction21/06/25 02:26 PM
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idk im wondering if it's worth continuing in order to get a long term relationship?
/r/seduction21/06/25 02:10 PM
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idk guys my age never approach me, im wondering if im ugly or something but i occasionally match with guys my type on the apps.
/r/seduction21/06/25 02:09 PM
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agh its just so hard lol, idk how people do this but it gives me a thrill. I will say.
/r/seduction21/06/25 01:59 PM
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I'm really not, I date short dudes. I've even dated unemployed dudes. My friends say the men are like are ugly too 💔
/r/seduction21/06/25 01:58 PM
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