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32 M here, moderately attractive. I can pull 18-22 yo with only a little less success than those closer in age. Just remember, you're not in college and they're not dating you thinking you're going to act that way. They'll most likely expect you to be more mature and put together than boys their age, so just be yourself.
/r/seduction14/10/15 08:43 PM
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This is also a sub full of "tricks" on how to relate to human beings. Somehow we've gotten along without it for hundreds of thousands of years.
/r/seduction23/07/15 09:16 PM
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Well, clearly ;)
/r/seduction21/07/15 07:54 PM
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I'm against being completely smooth, like many women are. Just feels weird. Trimming also reveals more and makes it appear larger. Edit: Also looks really weird if you have a hairy chest/stomach (even a little) and absolutely nothing in the pubic area, only to have hairy legs. Weird transition.
/r/seduction21/07/15 01:42 PM
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Probably not many, but honestly there are far worse things in the world. It's just underwear.
/r/seduction21/07/15 01:39 PM
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I'm just going with … some dudes are here because they've never been with a woman at all.
/r/seduction21/07/15 01:38 PM
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I get a lot of compliments on shaving the goods, but only trimming the pubic area above. So penis/balls smooth, patch above trimmed to soft fuzz. Anywhere they're likely to have their mouth is hair free.
/r/seduction21/07/15 01:34 PM
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But how else would they keep up the gender norm charade?
/r/seduction22/06/15 05:54 PM
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This is the where the "nice guy" description breaks down. He's not doing these things to seem nice; OP's actions are far from "nice guy". He's taking her hand, leading her with his body, literally directing where they go. It's showing confidence, light dominance, and providing her safety. In a way, it puts her into little girl mode as the big strong man takes her hand to cross the street. It's also a soft show of respect and chivalry. Opening a door for a woman will only look bad if she's an ult…
/r/seduction22/06/15 01:41 PM
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And OP, if you can be confident with the braces on, just imagine how confident you'll be when you have amazing, straight teeth after. A year-18 months may seem like forever, but you'll have them off a lot faster than you think.
/r/seduction12/06/15 08:02 PM
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That's not to say people won't notice, but being fully honest, they won't care. Or at least not enough to discount you entirely.
/r/seduction12/06/15 07:31 PM
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Eh, you'll be fine. And so what if they do lose interest? You're doing it for your betterment. Just focus on the results, and let the women fall where they will. I've never had an issue. I don't mention it, they don't mention it, we still make out without a hassle.
/r/seduction12/06/15 06:37 PM
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You'll be fine. I got & have braces at 31 and no one ever mentions them. Just do your best to forget you have them. That'll be hard for the first week or so, as you'll have tooth pain, and inner lip discomfort, but I promise that will pass. Ibuprofen or acetaminophen should help with both of those. If you don't make them a big deal neither will they. Edit: Especially at your age. Mid-late teens/early 20's are a very popular time for orthodontia.
/r/seduction12/06/15 06:24 PM
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It's kinda like turning 21 & being able to buy beer. Sure, maybe you've sampled the waters or even reveled in what booze (boob) you can get your hands on … but there's this sense that everything will be insane once you hit that magic 21. Wrong … it gets old hat very, very quickly. Not to say it isn't fun, or a valuable experience, but it's definitely not the most defining point in your life.
/r/seduction10/06/15 12:54 PM
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Studies show in the casual space men are willing to lower their standards, but women raise theirs … a lot.
/r/seduction03/06/15 08:35 PM
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I do this a lot. If you're waiting in line or just killing time I try to make an effort to chat with the older folks around. That and be really polite and considerate. Doing what I can to show that not every younger man is a self centered d-bag.
/r/seduction28/05/15 04:59 PM
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I think it was pretty admirable. Very chill, made her laugh a lot. Definite rule 1 & 2 going on, but still got that number.
/r/seduction28/05/15 01:13 PM
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Open relationship?
/r/seduction22/05/15 05:29 PM
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I'm usually very honest right up front. I generally just say I don't have the time for a very serious relationship and that I don't want anyone getting hurt. If they're not interested they'll definitely let you know.
/r/seduction19/05/15 06:00 PM
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Just writing to confirm better responses from low matches. By far my best dates / flings have been from 60%-ish matches. I have no idea why that is, but it holds for me.
/r/seduction01/05/15 08:49 PM
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Just keep the text numbers down. Take it from a guy who messed up with the exact relationship he was looking for, don't be needy.
/r/seduction01/05/15 06:01 PM
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If you go red pill just make sure no other human being knows you go red pill. I get they're trying to re-brand, but they're always going to be guilty by association. Much like they'd consider a feminist guilty by association due to the feminist label.
/r/seduction30/04/15 06:01 PM
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I would have said "helped that". Whenever I promise something I get too in my own head. I prefer that sex be a team sport (even if that team sport is you dominating the fuck out of your partner. I help my woman orgasm. If that means I'm pounding her from behind with my hand squeezed tight around her throat, then so be it. But I can't always MAKE you go, but I'll try my damnedest to help you get there. My endurance only lasts so long after all.
/r/seduction28/04/15 01:03 PM
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oh sorry, haha! Fair enough. I just see lots and lots of advice essentially telling men it's their problem if a woman doesn't cum. There's rarely any advice to those guys that they suggest the woman take charge of themselves. That's what I do … after foreplay & into intercourse I play a little then straight out tell them to play, or I literally take their hand and place it on their mound. I understand the messages sent to women and ego bruising, but f' that. If he's not doing it just go for it. …
/r/seduction27/04/15 09:39 PM
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Ever think to touch yourself there? If your guy's not doing it and you're not doing it, it's never getting done. Take some ownership over your orgasm, stop worrying about his ego, and get yourself off.
/r/seduction27/04/15 09:19 PM
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Besides wanting to know your routine, haha, I got nothing. You're fine. People date around. Of course everyone's different, so just don't lie if asked. Source: I'm in an open marriage, so I'm already "taken", but we both see a few others.
/r/seduction21/04/15 05:09 PM
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I'll definitely second #10. I usually have a pretty low response rate (I'm 31 and go very young … it's a kink, sue me ;), but if they're online it means they're just as bored as you. Your chances are far, far higher if they're around when your message pops up onscreen.
/r/seduction14/04/15 02:09 PM
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Don't worry about the responses too much. They come from (mostly very young, and upstart) complicated human beings trying to make mathematical formulas on how to attract other complicated human beings. Do your thing, son. Take all advice here with a large grain of salt.
/r/seduction10/04/15 06:57 PM
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Several sources cite the $14-20 figure. If you think they've become 25% of the headphone market due to a paltry 300% markup you're sorely mistaken. They're also rated rather poorly on many metrics. As a marketer, trust me, they're a garbage fashion icon sold to teenagers and early 20 somethings.
/r/seduction03/04/15 08:04 PM
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Sorry, I don't take fashion advice from rap stars with a messiah complex. Dude makes some ugly ass overpriced clothes that'll be out of fashion in a few years. Kinda like those $14 Beats by Dre that sell for $400. It worked for OP though, which is the main point. While I'd have asked her where the fuck she got those things. Probably wouldn't have gone over as well, haha.
/r/seduction03/04/15 05:14 PM
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Wow, people actually wear shoes like that? News to me. An uglier shoe I have not seen. Good on ya, though.
/r/seduction03/04/15 04:12 PM
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I'm a very casual dater, so mine might not be what you're looking for. When it goes well, mine is usually: 1-2 Drinks at a prearranged bar > suggest a walk to another near-ish bar to get moving, hold hands, kiss a little, and change scenery > Another drink or 2 at second bar > make out at a car > either say goodnight or go to one of our places.
/r/seduction26/03/15 06:35 PM
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Show up?
/r/seduction23/03/15 11:06 AM
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