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You can get the models if you are in the right place at the right time and don't do anything stupid.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/18 10:31 PM
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That is certainly true, but your friend group can evolve to omit people that have made bad decisions or turn out to be bad eggs for whatever reason. I've had to do that several times in my life so far. Generally speaking though, most of the guys that were solid in my youth are still pretty solid today and I would imagine (hope?) that is going to be the case more often than not for most men.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/18 01:12 AM
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I can't really get behind this. Maybe it's the sports I played growing up (rugby, soccer) but I far prefer to be part of a squad than a lone wolf. Having a close group of trustworthy men that I can count on and confide in is invaluable to me. Talking about teams, the key part is to make sure you pull your own weight. Admittedly I'm finding LTR, kids, job and location have made it sometimes hard to maintain these long term relationships, but so far my oldest and closest friends have been there wh…
/r/TheRedPill29/07/18 05:09 PM
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Be careful though. No need to make enemies in the modern #metoo workplace, including (especially?) scorned women.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/18 10:10 PM
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I prefer women who are pretty, in shape and make a decent salary. Too bad they are often egotistical cunts.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/17 11:48 PM
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You are 21. Have patience. You are on the right track pursuing an ambitious career (assuming you truly want to be a doctor of course). Keep the head down in the library and the gym. Personally I found I was a bit invisible to women at your age but by the time I was late 20s with my career off the runway (and more established in terms of status and self-confidence) they were lining up. In med school and residency I'm not sure how much time and energy you will have for chasing tail anyway.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/17 08:18 PM
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I've never heard of that. I was seriously considering living in France at some point. What is the logic behind 'keep the peace'? To be honest my mind is kinda blown over here!
/r/TheRedPill31/03/17 08:04 PM
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I had a shrink help me through a difficult breakup (offload) last year. Wasn't cheap but he did a great job. If you can find a good one I think it's worth a try. Felt a bit like having a flying instructor help me get the plane off the runway.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/17 01:07 AM
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I agree. I don't want any old trash coming into my apartment or knowing where I live.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/17 05:06 PM
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Not necessarily. It's perfectly okay to want to hook up with women you perceive as higher quality and lower n count.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/17 05:05 PM
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Are you sure? What about after the LTRs ended?
/r/TheRedPill13/02/17 06:18 PM
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I don't fully agree. If you save and invest every penny and don't spend some to enjoy the journey you arguably don't have the right balance. Don't knock Ibiza. A lot of fun can be had in places like that!
/r/TheRedPill09/02/17 08:09 AM
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I really enjoyed this. Good general primer for newbies.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/17 06:27 AM
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Each to their own. It's a good thing we aren't all aiming for the exact same women!
/r/TheRedPill08/02/17 10:03 PM
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Tough shit. I like the cowgirl look!
/r/TheRedPill08/02/17 06:10 PM
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That's fair. I'm originally from Scotland. It's not perfect but I enjoyed a healthy life there and the healthcare system was glorious compared to the cluster fuck of the US
/r/TheRedPill06/02/17 06:17 PM
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Good for you man. Enjoy it.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/17 06:13 PM
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I can see this working out regularly, but not every single time. There are women out there who are either too proud or too insecure to tolerate other women sharing their space. Especially if they are hitting the wall and think they might have a chance to lock you into a beta bux provider role.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/17 03:02 AM
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I'm really not convinced all women will tolerate being a plate. In fact my experience is a many women seem to go to lengths to lock you down and make sure nothing like that is going on.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/17 02:28 AM
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You are not the only one. I don't have a poker face and I'm crap at lying. This makes it very hard to spin plates naturally.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/17 11:27 PM
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Well said. Not all of us are yanks.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/17 06:39 AM
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I don't think this is over yet. Hang out with her again and see where it goes. I had a similar situation to the 'I think I'm losing you' a few weeks back and after a few more dates it all worked out in my favor.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/17 05:04 PM
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For me personally, assuming they are pretty and athletic, tomboys are my favorite. The reason is they are usually a better fit for my lifestyle - snowboarding, watching sports etc. My last LTR was into sports and welding, which kinda did it for me. Unfortunately she still shittested me into oblivion.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/17 02:06 PM
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Mid 20s I also let myself go a bit too. In my 30s however I got it in check. As my career took off, with maturity and growing confidence the women came. Sounds like you are on the right track. Now you just need patience and discipline. Stay the course.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/17 05:05 PM
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Let's be careful here. Rather than school, consider an executive meeting in a Fortune 500 company. I have seen posts on here advocate a 'silence is golden' approach to these situations, or at least a 'say only needs to be said'. The opposite is to go balls in and own the meeting, perhaps going too far and annoying everyone in the room with your ramblings. In reality as a successful man you will hopefully develop the ability to observe and adapt to your surroundings and judiciously adjust your le…
/r/TheRedPill10/01/17 05:23 PM
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Very true. The hottest sorority girls I knew back in college all locked down BB doctors and real estate guys right before hitting the wall. Having their cake and eating it too. Now they are breeding and look quite content to be settling into the soccer mom lifestyle. There is no balance. Remember boys, life's not fair. It's all about what you make for yourself.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/16 01:35 PM
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I was just referring to the fact that she seems to have stuck around through the tough times. I'd like to think most women can tolerate their man having a weak moment once in a while, if apart from anything else to prove he is not a robot/psychopath, but I am a recovering beta beginning my journey so what the fuck do I know.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/16 05:35 PM
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Because, generally speaking, soccer has a pyramidal structure in Europe where every small town has their own local team. It's almost impossible for a soccer franchise to pick up sticks like the Rams just did. This lends a bit more authenticity and tradition to even the larger franchises. Obviously if you 'support' Barcelona but don't live in Catalonia you are a glory hunting twat. But I'm not talking about the global franchises here, I'm trying to advocate local small town sports, in which case …
/r/TheRedPill15/12/16 12:48 AM
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This logic certainly applies to the big, soulless sports franchises, especially US ones. Supporting your national team at the soccer World Cup however, or your local small town team, particularly if it's amateur.....well I think that kind of tribalism is totally acceptable and arguably quite healthy.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/16 09:52 PM
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Good for you OP. I would have lost patience (and frame) well before the end.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/16 12:46 AM
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Sounds like your LTR might be worth keeping around.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/16 07:20 AM
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I think this is a pretty good insight. I hadn't thought of it that way before. We similarly make a snap judgement, in my case usually in a matter of seconds, based almost entirely on physical appearance.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/16 07:10 AM
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This is a fairly well documented case. She hit the wall and is bitter about his subsequent flings with actresses and models. That said, telling in her ear during the first dance at their wedding that he's the alpha in the relationship (if true) is a bit crass, even by TRP standards.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/16 04:21 PM
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How did you work that one out?
/r/TheRedPill06/12/16 04:19 PM
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I don't necessarily agree. 36, career is on fire, but why wouldn't I want to spend Saturday night playing beer pong with college chicks? 30-something post-wall women looking for a husband can get pretty draining after a while. I think in your 30s you can flip between scenes pretty easily if you do it right. It's not all or nothing. I agree the hangovers are getting worse though...
/r/TheRedPill26/11/16 03:42 AM
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This is not strictly true. I've met some women who are superb physicists and better at it that me, including the communication. Generally though, you have a point. You haven't mentioned the other thing: 'tech bitch' or 'physics princess' syndrome, where a 4/10 starts thinking she is a 9/10 because she's surrounded by doting neckbeards. Possibly the worst type of female. Similar to the fatties you see at metal shows.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/16 04:32 PM
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Experienced all of this. I can see it all so clearly now I am free.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/16 11:22 PM
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I am not the OP. But this is excellent advice and applies to my own journey perfectly. Looking back, abuse is the correct term. Positive ending for me: after a fairly difficult break-up and move out (we lived together) over the past few months I now have a bachelor pad by the beach. First date last night with an absolute stunner. Life is feeling pretty good right now. Bullet dodged!
/r/TheRedPill15/11/16 08:07 PM
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The part about avoiding at all costs is really solid advice. Do not turn back now!
/r/TheRedPill25/10/16 06:50 PM
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I had this and in the end it was the reason I broke it off.....but for a short while I tried to brush it under the carpet. Idiot.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/16 06:38 PM
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I just went through the exact same thing (although I am older 36 and she is 28). I never thought of her as BPD but looking back on things I think she was exactly the same as yours. Sweet as can be six days a week but on the seventh her dark side would come out. Holy crap. Shittesting all the way to the suicide threats every fucking weekend when her attempts to bully me into marriage didn't work out. Eventually I had enough. I kept hoping things would get better but then I woke up. Now I'm here. …
/r/TheRedPill25/10/16 06:36 PM
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