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CMVcalfshrug/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 11:13 PM
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Iguanawells without hate
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 05:06 PM
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Blackpill, obviously, one of them offshoots people popped out... Why does Reddit like to silence things so much? Just lol... I remember when the IWOH page was still up. Where did those folks go? By pushing them off le redditue, you're pushing people into whatsapp, discord, and other encrypted chat platforms which are victim to child porn posters and online degeneracy extraordinaire,.. "not on my lawn REEE" is the attitude of le reddit. Censorship sucks
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 05:28 PM
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I have things to say about this, because it's reflected in my complicated relationship, but on both sides. Overall, I faltered over time, but she also faltered. I began towards the end to consider telling her the truth that I had cheated on her, though 2022, and in September, i confessed to her for my actions since 2016, my lies out of shame from the beginning of the relationship when we became each other's first Loves, when we were 20 and 18, which developed soon into my cheating back in 2016 a…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 03:57 AM
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Women like having sex with men, because they like the very most attractive men and another men who strike each individual women as maximally attractive, and only fully lesbian and asexual woman are excluded from this. You won't get a full embargo, and even if a majority of women decided to go with this, it would be unlikely that AI would be able to provide a male-less world of sex robots and simulations to meet the needs of the majority of women... These same facts are why MGTOW doesn't work.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 11:58 PM
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Yes. I've hit the woman I'm in love with before. She would try to wake me up just as I was falling asleep, just to get attention. I also hit her at times without being physically provoked by her. I never did this except on impulse, at extremely emotionally weak times after I was broken down to the point of tears, particularly one time 6-7 years ago that I was dealing with flashbacks to something very painful (being mugged when I went out to see am escort ad), simultaneously being reminded of the…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 12:32 AM
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This is an atrocity exhibition. Straight out of the garden of otherworldly pleasures, absolutely disloyal, non-kosher; the degeneracy, baby please, bah Gawwwwd
/r/seduction13/04/24 11:04 AM
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100%. Plus, some of us have baggage. I cheated on my love and confessed to her after not dealing with my issues for years, and there have been some women I've talked to since on dating apps who I otherwise would have given a chance, but now my baggage makes me hesitant to ask anyone out unless I perceive they aren't looking for anything serious and are also mentally-stable and mature, so it really ends up as a lot of stale air. I recall the way my meeting the love of my life happened on tinder; …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 10:01 AM
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Well, here's my rub on the topic... I went from kissless, handholdless, dateless, never went to a school dance or asked a girl out, at age 19, to third base and make out and then had sex with a couple of different women the same summer, summer 2015, which was right after my first year of college. I am not tall, and I am 5'7", in fact I was slightly shorter than I am now, and I'd rate that I'm not that good looking or whatever, maybe a tiny above average, maybe average. I didn't have game. I had …
/r/seduction11/04/24 02:18 AM
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HHahaha that's cringey lollol. Dude, just go hit on some men at a gay bar for practice
/r/seduction11/04/24 02:04 AM
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She is a healthy female of breeding age. Sarah Connor. You will go to the Chicago. If you want to talk to the girls, you'll have to pay first. See uew powers, breed uew children, put forth destiny birthright - brother of Uacob.
/r/seduction10/04/24 11:12 PM
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Am I valuable without impressive looks, money, or status? Just being fun to be around, making basic conversation, a few ambitions, and looking "okay"?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 10:37 AM
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80% of men aren't top 20% of men at any given time, so that's great ti know.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 11:21 PM
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It would look like chads, fuck boys, Brawny milkmen, Jared Leto, any male celeb, guys who don't look like my 40-75th percentile arse, and basically a attractive men being attractive and having good personalities and kissing women and being confident and cool and being ice cold or panderingly nice or mogging to ugly and average men and yeah we have the story crap Good looking people with status and story
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 10:52 PM
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Back in the day in PSL forums we had JBF - just be first - theory. This is still a thing. I was first, once upon a time. She and I fell in love for our first time, but I later confessed to cheating on her
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 02:38 AM
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I always hear that rapists are people one would least expect, often, or that even, they're attractive and powerful guys with magnetism, yet people still tend to outwardly display almost all of their skepticism for ugly, grizzled, or socially awkward men.... I'd like to see some actual statistics.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 11:30 PM
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I'm not attractive enough, though. I get that you're in an even deeper predicament, and I'm sorry that has to happen to you. I feel the same thing when I realize that I probably missed the only woman who will ever give the kind of love that she gave me, and I messed it up because I began my relationship with her in lies, and only on September 21, 2022, confessed to having cheated on and lied to her. I never got a good idea growing up that I was worth a DAMN. I was treated badly by both rich nort…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 06:56 PM
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The grass is always greener. Sometimes we have to bluepill ourselves. Think about it.... out of all the people who have early adolescence trysts when they're 13-17 or rather have their first experiences then, how many of them do you think actually got with a person that they had a lasting bond with, someone they saw as the epitome of attractiveness, or someone that they continued to be enamored with or attracted to after the short term buzz and circumstances wore off? Not many of them. My girlfr…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 02:53 PM
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You're contributing to the problem, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 01:10 AM
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You talk close, and get a lot of backs turned to you and looks of disgust if you're most guys
/r/seduction24/03/24 04:00 AM
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Only do this if you're dealing with a horrible mother who isn't likely to seek damaging retribution... but I don't think you're trying to ensnare the mom for being a snake, but merely exposing yourself as one, perhaps
/r/seduction24/03/24 02:32 AM
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i literally met and fell in love mutually for each of our first (and unless it has changed for her since, only) love, at a time when i was incessantly spending my days after dropping out of college either working, reading 4chan, browsing and lurking PSL forums, going to the gym. it wasn't until 2022 september that i confessed to my love to having lied and cheated on her since telling small lies out of shame which snowballed in size over the years. It wasn't until i fully shrugged off the self-ce…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 05:37 AM
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The smacking and mouth-like sounds? You’re not familiar? It’s not that that isn’t true, it’s just that this person’s argument isn’t that good, and it’s weird
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 03:30 AM
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If a guy just starts easy seamless convos with people and leaves within 5 seconds of noticing with a smile and a little nod or wave that someone isn’t interested or is just not feeling it, would that ever give someone the impression of being a creep? Forget the other stuff
/r/seduction04/03/24 04:13 AM
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Look for a Chad. Watch for Hot Men (TM) while you’re out and about. They can sometimes be seen at bars, film studios, clubs, and upper tier gyms. You can also purchase one of the new generation marvels of electronics - “smart phones” - and install a computer program called an application. Some say there are applications for dating portfolio. One such application is called tinder
/r/seduction29/02/24 09:40 PM
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Models are attractive; dude. I’m not saying that they’re perfect. They’re people. Prone to be dull, very prone to be substance abusers, they will age, they will make stupid decisions, and they are probably more prone to hedonism than the average person. But man; don’t try and tell me that Sean O’Pry or something is not as attractive in person. If you’re talking about female models in particular? Yeah, women use the shit out of makeup. Average looking or ugly women can be models strictly on makeu…
/r/seduction14/02/24 07:04 PM
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He’s a 20 year old broccoli head who does drugs… what do you expect? Buddy, if you’re 20, you probably are too afraid to confront your demons yet, but you’ll get time for that
/r/seduction14/02/24 04:18 PM
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People are delusional as fuck. Women find it hard to rationalize that the hottest guys they chase are possibly versatile bisexual men or at least men who occasionally have sex with men and might do so in various positions. Personally, given that I have experience in LTR, being a sex worker briefly, using the services of sex workers, and having hooked up with men in more than one position (though never having done raw sex), I can attest that, being a mid-guy myself, I strongly believe that these …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 06:39 PM
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Does this address the fact that this dude got a disproportionate response with a Chad profile? The same women aren’t even matching with a guy like me, or most of the guys reading this sub. The point is that women are a desert for normal guys, but a rainforest for hawt guy babes Fuck, I look like a pretty handsome fella in some pics, but I get no matches. But a guy with 6 inches wide bizygomatic, nice cheekbones, hooded eyes, 7-8” clavicles; doesn’t matter the race or style. Just have the most st…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 05:54 AM
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Men have sex with hundreds of men, among gay men. HIV was first studied in men with an average reported count of around 500 partners. Selection / natural policing between effeminate gay men, queer MSM, and trans women with their masculine or otherwise XY and higher testosterone-bearing counterparts does manage, to an extent, the amount of sex happening, as happens with heterosexual women and men; but to a lesser extent
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 05:46 AM
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Last time I tried pickup at a college campus, I was a month before turning 27, August 2022. I got three snapchats out of three approaches, didn’t even ask for numbers. Things have changed now, though - a lot of life stress. I probably look a bit older. Like, I probably looked 23-24 then, and now I look 25-27. This was also at a junior college, but the girls I approached were fairly attractive. The thing is, I would have had a more difficult time approaching girls who are higher SES/ attractivene…
/r/seduction26/01/24 03:19 AM
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Yes, but unfortunately, you’re talking about internet circlejerks of poorly socialized people or people at low points of life where they’re been hurt; or a combo of both… I hurt the woman I love, confessed to her, and now am in limbo. I don’t see any other women like I see her, but I also don’t want to disrespect women, and where I used to laugh at women for pining for a guy who pumped and dumped them; I now have empathy because I know what it feels like to long for someone. I’m resentful that i…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 04:03 AM
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My mom dropped a high school boyfriend who was very attached to her, left him behind with no hesitation, it seems; But my mom is also an extremely high achiever and didn’t flaunt or explore her sexuality. She is super conservative
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 03:30 AM
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Fraternities and other stuff that’s socially acceptable are hidden prostitution… you pay in, somehow
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 02:13 AM
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I locked eyes with this late 20s Latin mama with her mama, and I saw that her mama was looking and smiling at me, so I engaged them both. I ended up asking for her number, at her mom’s urging. But hilariously, the young lady had no interest and never texted me back, but it’s just funny how her mama even tried to get her to talk to me
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 04:21 AM
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Do you like cheating, too? I cheated and finally confessed to it. I utterly ruined my life, have taken years cumulatively off of my loved ones’ lives (idk how many) by myself being so depressed and lost , and consumed years of her life and we may never get back together. I never thought lying was the right thing to do, but being 20, i began lying promptly as the relationship started. She also lied both to me and to others about how we met on tinder, but I lied more egregiously Yeah, lying might …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 04:33 PM
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Men just throwing money out at women, many of them, will end up cheating and be unreliable partners. They’ll hide a nest egg and they won’t truly bond with the women who fall into their lap, because they know they’re just playing the game by bringing money
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 03:11 AM
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There’s only a population average for this. Some people peak in beauty, learning ability, social life, etc earlier or later. Some may peak at 22 and become homeless, ugly, talentless, and friendless by 30
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 05:23 PM
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We agree, and both individuals are assholes, but neither breached sexual consent, so they’re not evil
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 03:28 PM
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Straight up; people deserve the right to do this. There’s no questioning, and the man isn’t ought a renegotiation. As a guy having a majorly flawed and adulterated mind , and as a guy who has held much resentment and who has suffered under believing my life is unfair, and laughing at the sexual marketplace; I still believe absolutely that no one who is seeking sex can expect a required renegotiation from the solicited party. That’s at that point like a burglar showing up to ask politely if they …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 03:04 PM
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Psychopathy disgusts me too
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 05:10 AM
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I’m disgusted by strangers and anyone whom I see as mindlessly decadent, basically, if I had to set to words my disdain, and it’s a reflexive feeling as well. All’s tinged with envy, too
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 11:14 PM
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I’m accepting and disgusted simultaneously — bimodal, darkly enlightened. I’m projecting myself as well as objective truth (probably)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 10:52 PM
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Can confirm as a person technically bisexual by past behaviors and attraction, even I’m repulsed by bis
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 10:30 PM
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Your girlfriend was designed by evolution to get bred by multiple bulls and produce either multiple fertilized eggs, or a single genetic victor, hate to break it to you
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 01:59 AM
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The attractive women have a lower sex drive, on average, the the ugly ones. This is some data we should also peek intah
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 01:58 AM
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That’s really the least of my concerns, but I appreciate your concern, and it’s probably tied in with my psychological problems anyway, how all that went down
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 05:45 AM
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lol. She’s also an adjunct college math professor and was my neighbor at the time. She chatted with me the day before (summer break after first year of college) and then came over to my house the next morning when my parents were at work. What’s more? She later claimed that the whole thing was a charade she played for a bet her male roommate made.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 05:36 AM
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The first woman I made out with was 33 and looked 23 to me, and I was 19 at the time. Like, even as a naive fresh 19 year old, she looked older, but only barely older, compared to me. She’s still rather attractive, too; but I’ve never seen how hot she was when she was 18-25, so idk.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 02:08 AM
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This is like trying to sugarcoat or Trojan horse a set of facts, desperately. If the behavior or a subset of men is prevalent and significantly affects the dating market, and it has been this way for a very long time, and if biology supports the behaviors, we can say a generalization about the male biology and behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 08:58 PM
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I learned some positive things there, and I met some cool people, but that being said, most of the people I talked to on there are extremely flawed as well. One of them is a very bright guy, who lives with his girlfriend with his family, and he is a Canadian North African with a good job, but he is also ironically pretty bigoted regarding ethnic backgrounds and runs a bunch of discord servers and is obsessed with trolling. I think he’s a decent guy, but he at least didn’t cheat on his girl, and …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 07:02 PM
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I mean, some of it was just growing up. which actually contradicts the message I was trying to project, which is that it’s more inspirational to change the essential nature of oneself than to grow as planned. But what did I do? I became obsessed with the human body, understanding sex and dating markets, and sex. I obsessed over immersing my mind in the idea that my body and face and voice are flawed, and that I must constantly remind myself of that until it’s no longer a shock, until it no longe…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 01:40 AM
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But does he know what it’s like to not be attractive and then become more attractive than average, to have one self-image and then completely invert it, and to be inept at certain activities and to then completely flip his level of skill around? These are experiences I’ve been through. I was unnoticed by all except my family, a select number of teachers and coaches who more so felt sorry / or a sort of paternity for me. I flipped my physical ineptitude, lack of speaking ability, predisposition t…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 08:47 PM
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Some truth to this, but not entirely. The world is flawed, probability, God, and free will of all rule our planet. Therefore, evil and unlikely misfortunes can have an extremely potent hand in our lives. Only transcendence can help us deal with misfortune, but we were all equipped with the tools to do so and if all of us could transcend, we would, but we can’t, because as even god says, not all will enter heaven. Not all will be at the right place at the right time. Some of us are meant to be fu…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 08:25 PM
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The top guy ain’t so much the top guy if his will is dependent upon substances or his own flesh being sexy, and his own neurons and androgen receptors firing and binding in ways autonomous from his control
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 06:53 PM
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One of things about the top guy is that it’s rare that the type of guy to be perceived as the top guy is the top guy in all respects. As the Bible says of the rich (though the Bible also kind of contradicts this notion by suggesting that the lazy and fearful will not go to heaven) being unlikely to inherit the kingdom of God, those blessed with beauty, social tact, quick wit, leadership, persuasion, and physical skills are unlikely to fully understand suffering, empathy, and what it’s like flour…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 06:50 PM
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Yeah, it comes naturally to those people, true. My thing about the pills is this - it’s pretty cringe, and I look back on a lot of it, all the old PSL forums I was on and stuff, as fairly cringe. What’s even more cringey is that our lingo is getting appropriated, and that nowadays, using various old style forums isn’t the mode of communication. I think that PUA and red pill tactics can be used in a predatory way, but I think they’re also good as a supplement for people like me, who didn’t develo…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 05:09 AM
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If someone isn’t coercing, assaulting, killing, they’re not doing wrong. So cheeeel out. The sexy normy chaddo bros out there, and androgynous fuckbois,; those fellas are also toking on their narcismo-brains, too, so point a fat accusatory finger at the sexy men, while you’re at it
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 04:34 AM
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I asked a homeless drug addict for her number once, but I wised up and never tried to meet or contact her. It’s just too risky. This lady was very attractive and mid 20s, but clearly had some issues and was off her skull on drugs. Your plan here won’t work out. It’s pie in the sky. There are many men who support homeless women for a trick, and it’s basically kosher, however gross it really is, and that’s basically what you’re trying to dance around. Maybe you just settle for a woman you have alr…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 01:12 AM
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People should tell the truth! I learned this the hard way; now I tell the truth. I’ve been facing all of the demons which built up over my entire life. If you’re young and insecure about your sexual power, afraid of hell, think you’re worthless, or are afraid you won’t be able to commit or that a person you’re considering opening up to might drop you - don’t lie. Find someone to open up to, or at least take it from me, don’t lie, because you might end up like I did - falling in love, lying for y…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 08:05 PM
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Insecure men want virgins. That why it’s always talked about on ingwell and alt-right style communities. Personally, I think that having sex with a lot of partners is decadent, and for people for whom it is easy to have a lot of sexual partners, it is like shooting fish in a barrel - not impressive - and therefore the fortitude and skill expressed is nil. That is the reason why in some cases it should be looked down on - because it is demonstrating a lack of self control and a fish-in-a-barrel m…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 04:35 AM
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All people can’t get equal sexual distribution unless all people in committed relationships are polyam and share equally, woman-man, or whatever gender - whatever gender. In relationships, then and necessarily, it is the case that people match with someone with whom they find compatibility and settlement. In the land before settlement, men and women are free to pursue trivial sex, in which land, women are ought to seek as high value (or, attractive) men as they can. Because of the supply and dem…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 01:58 AM
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When I was in middle and high school, I always liked ending up beside a girl when we huddled / prayed (Christian school) as a team with our warms around each of the adjacent person’s shoulders, and I definitely appreciated the few times that a woman gave me a side or light hug. I didn’t have any friendships outside of the team - I was far too afraid to engage, and no one liked me back then because they were all stuck up rich hot people, and I was extremely timid and traumatized, so even the few …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 12:21 AM
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I wonder if there are people who recruit girls who were born 5+ weeks premature and who hit puberty late, just to get around the 18 year old limit in place now. Rules are weird, and it’s taboo to talk about rules. Hell, it’s endemic even for teenie boppers and broccoli head punks to send nudes to each other. I went to a rich, mostly white, anglo Saxon, Protestant private school, years 2010-2014, and I was very very shy, reserved, scared of socializing, and averse to any sexual expression. I didn…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 03:42 AM
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The high test meme is a 4chan meme. Men who are healthy and have a high sex drive are likely to be sexually active and vivacious, pursuing what interests them. This could be other men, as it is said that gay and bi men have higher test levels than other men, or it could be for women with a particular build. There is even a meme that nursing home residents have a ton of sex and STD transmission. It’s a meme also, and a culturally charged one, at that, because protesting it means protesting the se…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 12:56 PM
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You departed from the flock of men, but some of the men are - psychopaths who take adderall, coke, and steroids, who hoot and holler and have the money (from selling drugs or scamming or whatever) and friends and sheer stupidity to attack people they see as challengers
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 04:27 AM
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Ironically, I got laid with a woman who was wearing headphones at Walmart at night by cold approach, and I yelled at her and waved in the parking lot to get her attention
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 04:23 AM
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I’ve been in both places, as I’ve brushed up with homosexual relations, even being a stripper and doing some other pro bono stuff in my early 20s (for men). It still bothers me the inequity of the sexual marketplace, but I understand the gist of what women have to go through, especially since I’ve only ever been attracted to a very minute portion of men, only in very limited contexts.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 05:50 PM
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Probably reasonable. I’m only capable of being faithful to one woman, a known woman, my love, but because I confessed my cheating to her, I may never be able to share a life with her. So, I’ve been removed from even the possible outcome of monogamy, but I also won’t lie to get into pants again. Purgatory. Real players in my situation would have kept up the charade of lies, or broken up and moved to another chick
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 01:28 AM
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My honest take about these four individuals - I used to fanboy over Elon but now see him as an insecure hypocrite; I got really interested in Tate from knowing nothing about him (despite that I spent years on ingwell forums) to seeing him constantly on YouTube feed about 12 months ago, and I still hope and believe until proven otherwise that he isn’t an A-psalter, but nonetheless see Tate & Co as hypocrites for their use of sexuality and groupies to make money, possible fraud, likely at minimum …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 04:05 PM
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Is it okay if I talk positively sometimes about those people, but I also like grey’s anatomy, have had sex with dudes (including getting it in the ass), listen to weird music, and cry a lot? People are so complicated.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 05:18 AM
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DELET
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 08:29 PM
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You know what they say about the Slate brothers. That’s what people will say is the reason for women being in porn, though it is true that compulsion is behind some porn
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 02:03 PM
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I’m a dude and I have displayed my 18 year old bare body to the world lol, back when I was on /fit/ on 4chan. I think it’s pretty normal. Look, and the guy you’re talking to in this thread probably isn’t saying that you need to or ought to. And neither am I. But the idea is that women’s bodies are coveted
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 02:01 PM
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At the end of the day, most women look pretty much the same bent over - -some adage
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 01:50 PM
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You might not be into guys without discipline, but I bet most women who say that have allowed themselves to be seduced by a couple of ladykillers who constantly indulge their sexual appetites off of their looks whenever they can. Being a good looking guy with a friends group who gets women easily is akin to seeing prostitutes. And those good looking guys may not be able to fool decent ladies again, but as long as they can fool a decent percentage of decent ladies, they’ll get to keep adding notc…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 01:36 PM
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My scummy behaviors - talking to women for a bit too long who gave some indications of not being interested in talking, but my assuredness, delusion, and being in a public wide open setting, and the women being receptive and continuing conversation, comforted me to keep going. This escalated to me sending many texts, calls, and sometimes even contacting them on a burner phone. It was just begging by saying, hey, i liked our conversation, hope you’re doing well, I just wish you could tell me stra…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 03:28 AM
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Can you describe what the scummy guy at the market was doing? It’s extremely valuable to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 03:20 AM
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Because almost all romantic bonds start with sexual attraction, especially for men. I fell in love with my woman after a culmination of our back and forth texts, then meeting her in person, having her always give some effort but not to be too available, and with how respectful, principled, and generous she was. But if not for original attraction, I wouldn’t have gone on those dates with her
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 07:43 PM
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Soulless yuppie big tech controllers whose own hearts and minds are an, albeit evil / misanthropically and competitively inclined, and vacuous, high octane machine of success. The soulless, traumatized, high performing “winners” of society are the beneficiary of the masses suffering; for like their leader (metaphorical or maybe even literal), Lucifer, they exist to herd lesser souls to agony
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 05:12 PM
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Hey, this guy plays both courts. Wedpil and among us, and jester courting?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 03:29 PM
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It’s not that simple, it can feel gutting to not have someone. I’m not some transcendental guru; I’m just a mere person. Hell, I wish I could transcend over all, but then I doubt I’d care to travel the world either
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 12:21 AM
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Some people are like that just because you’re seeing certain elements of resilience, smarts and pragmatism that you think are wedpill. But they are just things developed in normal people who have normal interactions. But yeah, again, I think people have actually gotten wedpill ideas to have percolated down into their vocab and thoughts, even if they know not the origins of these memes. For example, AMOG and alpha, look max, etc used to be heavily-used vernacular on a few select PSL forums, ones …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 07:41 PM
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It’s not about thinking women generally owe their attention to men, it’s just, let’s have empathy for everyone. Let’s have open discussions about mental health, social dynamics, enfleshing and juxtaposing experiences by different types of people on a broad scale. Let’s also even skirt the boundaries a little, think outside of the box of gender / chromosomal/genital sex. Like, when I learnt to smile during conversation, at first I had to think about it, but now I don’t have to robotically think “…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 05:16 PM
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I didn’t ask to be bullied, ignored with a deliberate show to make me feel ignored and unwanted, have people talk to me in a way that makes me feel uncomfortable, etc, as a child. I didn’t ask to be sick as a kid, not get enough sleep, not feel comfortable speaking of my traumas and immense fears of socializing and hell as a kid, not did I ask for my immense bodily, sensual, and sexual anxieties as a child. I didn’t ask to be catheterized by a team of medics when I was 3, or to be carried kickin…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 05:06 PM
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I assumed that there were either proceedings or preventative writs underway against homeboy, which would probably result in him being harangued
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 04:29 PM
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That’s true, but the way that she interacted shows a degree of deep seated fear. And I feel bad saying this, but she has a phenotype like a lot of nerdy guys. A frail shaky appearance, pallor, etc, which I myself used to have. So I know what exactly it feels like to go into panic mode and shut down. If she has been victimized horribly my condolences go out to her, but I’m just saying, I think that her reaction is not something you’d normally predict. And she even has the emotional support of her…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 04:26 PM
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Kanye west is also a fantastic person in his insight, bravery, and skill, and imo, unless it is demonstrated otherwise, he probably demonstrates trait empathy and value that exceeds the negatives you bring up. Sorta sarcastic here, but I want to initiate a discussion
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 04:07 PM
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They get less unicellular and less unicellular, as the organisms have to grow to evolve with the times, if you catch my wave, brah
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 03:26 PM
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Instead of trying to ruin his life circumstances, someone - a bystander - could just pull him aside and talk to him. Because of comments like these proposing actionable solutions, I now take it upon myself to do this, should the situation ever arise. The closest I’ve come to this is approaching a man who is approaching a woman. I had a conversation with him. He wasn’t being creepy - no more than I - but I trained the muscle of counter. Even though he wasn’t being creepy, at least no more than I …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 03:23 PM
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Her male counterpart is driving the overnight dump truck in a cobalt mine and huffing glue on his 4 day weekend every 17 days Edit: So I just watched the vid - the girl is from the American South, first of all. So she’s on my home turf, salut! She’s got a social anxiety problem, fsfs, and it’s also rather telling that she said it’s her first time a guy has approached her (either in this manner (unwanted), in this setting, or at all) I’m assuming it’s the first - unwanted approach - but that fact…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 03:01 PM
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As far as I’m concerned, that’s your own Freudian slip, to suggest that approaching women is like approaching NPCs. I got temporarily suspended from my gym because 2 really antsy ladies didn’t appreciate talking to me. Let me outline each of these scenarios - lady 1. She’s a new-ish member, dresses ostentatiously and comes frequently during rush hour. I’ve seen her and decide to make a silly remark and backhanded compliment about her doing walking lunges (20lbs dumbbells) with big headphones on,…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 08:40 PM
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We’re already inguinals
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 06:09 PM
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Arrrr matey… r word
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 04:44 AM
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Being pirrrrrated isn’t the only thing that can cause trauma. I had a guy sit on top of me when I was about 9 - a neighbor boy 3 years older who was inclined to militant pastimes and martial arts - wrenching my arms behind my back. I didn’t get my asshole reamed out, but I can tell you for sure that it was traumatic. I didn’t do anything to deserve that treatment. I also had a kid, bigger and more popular and much louder than me, in youth group at church, ask me if I’m a queer. I was a reader, s…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 04:42 AM
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I sent you a PM regarding your question, and the website in question. I think you’ll find it intriguing if you read it; cheers
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 07:12 PM
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Did you ever happen to chance upon the website I’m talking about? Snoo snate?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 04:47 PM
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Woah. I don’t see that title often used. Are you one of the OG disciples of Gandy and Mu, of the likes of Iced Earth and SR?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 04:31 PM
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A trained woman can run a 2:11 marathon. A trained woman can run a 4:07 mile and 10.60 second 100 meter dash, and squat over 500 lbs at under 150 lbs bodyweight. A trained woman with a concealed armament can quickly cause blood loss, disfigurement, and shock sufficient to incapacitate an average aggressively-engaging male in only seconds. When I have children one day, I’ll teach my daughters and sons how to defend themselves, by playing sports with them, teaching them hands-on skills, teaching t…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 04:01 PM
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I agree, there’s definitely a natural selection that occurs where women pair with a slightly older guy. That persists for a while, until you’re dealing with middle aged-elderly populations where older women outnumber older men. I’m just trying to point out that for the most part, this behavior isn’t unusual, predatory, or deliberate. It’s usually natural sortation. It does sound pretty weird to think of a 38 year old guy banging an 18 year old or a 22 yr - it is - but it isn’t nearly as weird wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 10:15 PM
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OP, do you think most men specifically prefer women of a particular integer value of age since live birth? Do you not think that rather, most men who have a good pick of the marketplace on dating go with whatever willing women are available as long as those women are attractive and below a certain threshold, say 30-35? Formally, do you REAALLLY think that most men hawk about specifically* hunting 18 year old women? I’m asking this emphatically, because I think that you don’t understand how most …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 07:33 PM
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Most men who actually get their pick of women on dating apps will go on a date with a woman of any age on the app, provided that she isn’t breaking dating app age minimum requirement. This means that men of all ages who actually have algorithm supremacy will be usually willing to meet up with women 18-30, regardless, sometimes even ones who put 18 but are actually 17, and have sex with them. I want to ask you, is this something that you have thought much about?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 11:50 PM
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What about other largely predetermined traits? I have high conscientiousness, high neuroticism, and extremely overactive mind, a sense of humor that could kill a horse (read this as you will), high testosterone, a mix of hippie, effeminate, straight conservative, intellectual, eclectic, and macho disposition, quick reflexes, and very good athletic prowess. You’d think that women would not just seek physical bone structure, when all one has to do is look at your own family to see a good indicator…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 04:08 AM
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Yeah; that’s the kind of case I’d expect to exist. Reminds me of the old backpage scenario where a usually gay guy is butt-up on his bed with an open door, waiting for guys to come over and leave a deposit. If they’re recruiting from tinder, grindr , whatever - what if someone by chance finds out who wasn’t matched, comes over, and the blindfolded guy turns around and sees some deformed subhuman creature behind him? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 09:14 PM
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Most people lie before they have sex. Cheating, even in marriage, is often a legal form of fraud. But of course, alimony and custody are a think
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 09:11 PM
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There’s no way, besides polite incentives, changes to media, stuff like that, to ethically get sexual marketplace equality to increase. It’s just the way it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 09:07 PM
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Huhuhuhu, just look at my Reddit comment history and you’ll be able to figure this one out hahahah
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 06:03 PM
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To address this, I think there’s some truth to that for sure, but the women who were the most sweet and cordial were also very composed. They didn’t seem erratic or opaque in their LOC
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 07:26 PM
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I know it’s possible, statistically, but i honestly believe that most of them aren’t under duress. I’ve never entered a scenario where I believed the woman was under duress. Hell, they’ve usually been extremely relaxed, lucid, cordial, besides the few who were bored but still polite and relaxed to a normal degree. The ones I worry about are drug addicts, and for sure, a good percentage of the women I saw seem to be drug addicts - as far as what is apparent on the outside, probably 35% of them ap…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 07:10 PM
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Sometimes I think this is true. I know that some of these people are probably under duress or threat, to some degree. (Edit begins here- end of first para) But it’s very hard to know who is. And in what other realms? Aren’t all people who use rec drugs also implicated in situations where they are under potential threat, since big prison sentences and felonies are possible? I myself, hypothetically, as a John, have been under duress before. One was in the scenario I listed earlier. Another time, …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 06:29 PM
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That’s a difficult topic, but of all the prostitutes and massage parlor attendants into whose propinquity I’ve entered, most of them seem like bored, mundane, maybe plainly content and normal people. Now, I’ve also gotten mugged once, and a trans escort switched the script and threatened collection on me when I said I’d rather leave with my burden than stay for a different script, and so I was horny and went through with the altered script (maybe this is SA-light?)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 03:57 PM
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I look a way that makes people nervous. I am large and poised enough to pose a physical threat, clearly athletic and vigilant, but I am a manlet and roughly average in looks (40-77th percentile). I have a distinct set of masculinity indicators, but I lack some of the most fundamental - wide midface, projecting jaw and chin that sticks from all angles, long torso, big hands, and anime character hooded eyes. Unless I just am not getting results because I’m afraid to approach women or enter social …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 02:46 AM
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I wasn’t aggressive with my Love because of porn, but the poor addressing of sex and porn, plus my repression and religious anxiety , fear of hell, and general repression and suppression, inferiority, and having been steeped in looking at porn in secret from age 12 onward, after hearing my role model upperclassmen joke flippantly on my Christian school track team about extreme porn, and hearing my classmates joke around about women parts. Through these things, I developed toxic mentalities which…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 12:04 AM
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You’re a Black Pillar of this community bro, this post was both inspiring, articulate, and clear
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 03:31 AM
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I’m 27, and I know the body is capable of crazy things, I can even be found on Reddit having made comments about how we’re capable of SO MUCH as we age -i cited examples of the amazing athletes from track and field, which I’m a fanatic for - Kim Collins, Shelley Anne Frazier pryce, Alyson Felix, Yohan Blake, Justin Gatlin, Eliud Kipchoge, and the whole crowd of people around 40 who are still world class and within a hair of their personal bests. But that doesn’t fully apply to all domains. With …
/r/seduction14/09/23 10:26 PM
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Long ramble, but what I’m trying to say is, I THINK I got lucky to find such an amazing woman as I did, because she’s a family girl, hard working, thinks outside the box (voted for trump twice despite being progressive, independent, and growing up as a racial minority 1st gen American and polyglot, who grew up with all kinds of liberal values, without a present father figure), and she was aware of sex and titillated by the idea of it, yet she saw the value in waiting until a man she felt worthy …
/r/seduction14/09/23 09:01 PM
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I’m not coming at the age gap thing THAT way, I’m literally just saying, this isn’t a “eww lecherous predatory older guyyyy” thing, it’s just like, women want an able bodied man, but the idea of your man hitting his middle age and beginning to wane physically and genetically, while not also being a naturally macho AF man, is going to probably turn off a good number of women. I say probably. I’m thinking of YouTubers and shit who were cool at one point, and I’m imagining the ones who really lost …
/r/seduction14/09/23 08:16 PM
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Remind her that you’ll probably be either greying or wrinkling within 5 years, probably both, and your sex drive, vision, and fertility will significantly decline by about 10 years from now, so she’ll have to deal with someone in a completely different physiological state
/r/seduction14/09/23 06:22 PM
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This is exactly the truth
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 12:18 AM
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The overwhelming preference for men is not a choice, but there are a lot of grey areas. In a person so inclined, who has some sort of attraction to some sort of male, and wants to have intimacy and sex, they will pursue sex with male or female. I sure as heck don’t prefer men, but I’ve hooked up with twinks and crossdressers before. I’ve been receptive and penetrative, but mostly top. There’s something very alluring about feeling like you have sexual opportunity and gravitas, and a decent number…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 05:10 PM
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Are you just a phone salesman with a GED, or are you some sort of statistical informatics major with a double major in computer science? If it’s the former, how did you establish yourself as such a high earner so rapidly? Do you just look like a really smart 45 year old Jewish guy with a humorous charisma, and therefore are able to easily secure sales? Do you have a posh British accent and carry yourself in a very refined way? Basically my idea is this - if you’re successful, it either means you…
/r/seduction10/09/23 11:14 PM
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If Reddit calls you 5/10, idk what that makes your attractiveness level really. I know that 4chan once called me anything ranging from 3/10 to 8/10, and the vast majority gave me a 5. Do you use all avenues - approaching women occasionally but actually asking for a number? Dating apps? Social group or work (if you can stomach work for that)? I worked with a 6’3” guy who got greeted by a female coworker by her jumping and hooking around him like a koala bear. He’s not bad looking, not by a long s…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 02:49 AM
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Alpha males don’t exist, besides the basic definition which is successful organisms which are male and are successful by their commanding of social and physical resources. This type of man tends to be strongly devoted to his calling in life, which can vary from a dedicated programmer, to a financier, actor, car guy, whatever. Now, to give a more niche answer? A lot of “alphas” are guys who seek hedonic pleasure through sex. A lot of them are popular college fuckboys who have pretty faces and sex…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 03:42 AM
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I was somewhat more attractive, in several ways (yet not in several other ways) when I was younger - in 2014, my first full year of adulthood, dating apps were still vibrant. Monetization, full-tilt tech anomie, the full effects of children using phones constantly, and algorithms hadn’t ruined everything. I was seen as having potential because I had not yet gone through the playing field of life and gotten my hamstrings slashed out. So, where i severely lacked in confidence, full pubertal develo…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 06:50 PM
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Strip club is already normal… escorts are too, but culture is pathologically obsessed with lying…. Those things we cannot speak of must be passed over in silence
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 01:05 AM
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I’m not horrible looking, and I have accrued a laycount higher than average due to sheer obsession, coping with pain and guilt, and hedonistic compulsion. I have previously been below average looking, before I kind of bloomed in my early 20s, and am now somewhere in the 60-70th percentile, maybe upper end of that. I gave myself far too many half-assed chances. I built on a crumbled foundation, which was part of a disaster of a life, but in the process I have had sex with ~15 women, and a few tra…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 03:31 AM
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Yep, I’ve been below average most of my life due to having no social group. If I had had a normal social group, I would have been having a lot more success meeting women
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 10:27 PM
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My SO was very attracted to me, and I was declining sex with her due to my guilt over cheating on her (I later decided to tell her and confess, very hard experience), and my novelty addiction, combined with the negative feedback basically of her becoming less in shape, largely due to my feedback to her from being her love, but distracted and not giving my all to her for years, which led to her stress-eating
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 02:44 PM
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You’ve got to have belief in what’s right! We aren’t slaves. The people in “control” are just pathetic, imbalanced, aging, addicts. They’re no better than you and all of us. You won’t everything if you have humanity and love within yourself. No one can steal that
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 10:56 PM
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This is why we just be strong enough and good enough people to stand behind what we say. At the end of the day, all people, even those who devise, cackle, hunch their shoulders, and patter their fingertips together in maniacal laughter over their ridgy-brained exploits of data collection and manipulation, are just people - imperfect, subject to the laws of nature, who shit, act on impulses, and are at least as worthless or worthy as the rest of us
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 10:44 PM
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Do you have a larynx? I’d experiment with earning to speak, then
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 11:59 PM
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I’ve been trying to explain for years, removing layers of cloth from eyes, that the average are Ent zelles, and that even the women wish they could have something they don’t have, someone in bed they don’t have. I’ve turned down probably 5 opportunities to sleep with women in the last year, and only because I’ve learned from my wrongs (AND the Flaming Lips song) I shouldn’t do whatever I’m able, just because I get the opportunity. I could have slept with several girls if I’d been vague or lied a…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 04:01 PM
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Of course they are. I’m a man with upper 10% levels of free testosterone, this means my free testosterone is about 20ng/dl compared to the average female level of around … welll… I don’t think it’s easy to measure such a minute level of testosterone. Women have about 20-40ng/dl of total, bound, testosterone, which peaks during heat. Around 2% of that is free testosterone. So, around 0.3 to 1 nanogram per deciliter, which is about 20-60x less than what I have. I am not, as it happens, visibly mar…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 03:47 PM
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A lot of people of both bio sexes and other orientations and identities cheat, probably 40% max. This includes those who have cheated and are currently lying about it, those who were caught cheating, and those who once cheated and came clean about it, and people who cheated in a minor way even when they were in 8th grade. I have cheated, I came clean about it and admitted it. I think a lot of other people do, too 99.99-100% of people cheat if cheating means letting your eyes wander and fantasizi…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 05:20 PM
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I would become the cobalt mine for eternity just to be Chad for a week… and I’d make sure all of the miners are safe, happy, and well fed
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 03:31 AM
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My opinion which is not firsthand at all, as I’ve never been to a sex party, is that women are more concerned with their appearance through makeup, attire, and hygiene than men. Secondly, prostitutes and/or strippers who are better compensated, whether privately or in plain view, for their attendance. Thirdly, men who have established themselves socially and in relationships and social circles of Polyam folk are likely to be a bit older, and due to their endemic (lol connotation) and established…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 08:27 PM
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Ok, that puts my ‘righteous anger’ over terminology at ease quite a bit. But not completely - is it standard to only accept what appear to be cis male - cis female pairings? More specifically, I beg the notion, a man probably can’t get in by bringing his gay friend to an average, non-LGBT swingers party. What if his friend is a gorgeous drag queen? Has naturally extremely feminine physicality? Is a trans woman or feminine trans man? Also - I presume a guy can, by your definition of partnered pro…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 08:03 PM
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How is single versus partnered defined? Is it just having a person in your company claiming to be your partner? Do you have to phone a family member, employer, have a friend testify, show your Facebook timeline, camera roll? I don’t want to engage in pedantic ops, here. I see that the purpose of having a partner is to create harmony, dispel distrust and suspicion, balance the sex ratio, and so on. Therefore, if harmony, balance, and safety can be fulfilled successfully without, say, a relationsh…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 07:29 PM
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It’s really a looks-tact (weighted average along a continuum) threshold, more than single vs partnered. They’re not turning away a mysterious Adonis just because he’s single
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 07:13 PM
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Eyes Wide Shut
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 07:12 PM
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Of course y’all do, that’s how I managed to have sex with 15 or so women, and it’s how many 30-80th percentile attractiveness men manage to get ONS on dating apps. It’s women who are ovulating and/or just got dumped and/or are on a drug binge or recently came off drugs or are just otherwise horny and seeking sex with a random person
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 01:30 PM
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I have an old pic because it is one of the only times I have myself photographed having fun with other people who aren’t my family members. Fortunately for you, I’ve been doing intermittent fasting since I was a teenager, and I have good aging genetics, so I still look 21 at 27. You really hit a nerve, OP, I basically busted a hernia reading your post. You know that, as stupid as those hordes of mindless men with no tact, style, or hygiene truly are, there is almost a 1:1 female counterpart for …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 03:05 PM
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The question for me is were they in love with someone else and intentionally lying to me to derive pleasure from lying to me and slipping the rug out from under me one day by letting me find out? If not that, the difference between money and lust motivation would be irrelevant. All that matters to me is - love, earnestness, good intent towards me, and empathy. I cheated on my love, therefore I understand some of the motivation to cheat - how the cycle of lies begins, what it’s like to have to pa…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 04:40 PM
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If you’re not paying directly for sex, you’re paying with collateral, opportunity cost, the future regrets of the people you sleep with and of yourself, with the distortion of bonding you and they will experience. As a black man, he’s probably also paying those women to get TF out. Imagine some ditsy white girls getting a hint of regret, you don’t want to mess around with that force of nature in this day and age, so I understand why he skips the games and just pays the women instead of trying to…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 02:28 PM
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There’s a word for this, which rhymes with Pope. OP, I’ve written up very long-winded posts many times, but I always try to leave either a caveat that I may be wrong, or a caveat that I haven’t included sources, or a caveat that I am being sarcastic. I’m afraid that you are over-extrapolating from the data available. The data isn’t good enough for this. The data merely suggests that there is quite a bit of casual sex happening, and that there was a downtick in the sexual intercourse frequency of…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 03:22 AM
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There are a lot of loser guys without decisiveness and ambition who are successful because of a combo of being 5’10”+ barefoot, decent looking, don’t have the cower reflex from being ugly / small or traumatized regularly as a kid, probably white, 110+ IQ, and put on muscle fairly easily by default or take roids, but sure, what you’re saying is true, OP. The world is unfair AF, and this unfairness, like with the left and all of the social movements of the last 150 years, is met with on detecting …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 08:35 PM
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You can probably infer that I’m intentionally talking in broad terms for rhetorical purposes… the idea is that women are probably a bit more vulnerable to catching feels, and I could give several substantiations / hypotheses as to why this is the case
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 06:31 PM
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I watched a really redpill movie for the first time recently and it basically wrung out the message that women have sex strongly for both reasons (pleasure and resources), but it also has the undertone that the former is done only very scarcely, and out of the pursuit of her One, and this I believe is the case. Women only bond with one man, after which they either are kept by him or cast aside. After that, sex may become a comfort mechanism, or a bargaining chip, but it is nowhere near as desira…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 04:43 PM
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I did, certainly. I was in a very odd headspace then. Really high sex drive, very high testosterone at like 925 ng/dl, plus I was coming out of sexual repression and lots of childhood traumas and issues, plus porn addiction and being at an Episcopal school and gradually silently losing my faith over the course of age 14 to 16, and I was super duper loveshy, guilty, a, and holding all of my troubles in as my parents had inadvertently conditioned me to do. Then I found 4chan and bodybuilding dot c…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 07:48 PM
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Half of the women I’ve been with have been single moms and they’ve all had immaculate bodies so far as I’m concerned. The presence of stretch marks is meaningless to me. Not saying pregnancy isn’t taxing, but it’s not really end of the world. We often talk about women hitting the wall, and it is definitely possible, but that’s mainly a critique pointed at haughty , laissez-faire, entitled brats who spend all day burning in the sun on their dad’s money, drinking mimosas and partying, while they r…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 04:47 PM
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Man, you’re a saint and a wizard. I buckled and hired a prostitute by age 19.75
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 11:59 PM
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I struggled immensely with faith and all of the contradictions of it as a child. My first internet communities of choice were RuneScape, ytp and flash humor, 4chan humor memes, and the amazing atheist on YouTube, roughly speaking. But I’ve found myself irrationally praying at the most trying times of life, and because of this, and that I’m truly afraid of the possible, unlikely, ramifications of not submitting to a deity, I don’t write it off. My view is Pascal’s wager, and choosing to not resen…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 05:09 PM
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Let’s see you not ask for guidance and forgiveness in your most powerless moments; I don’t think it will happen
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 02:33 PM
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The answer is for people like us to stop being afraid and to develop integrity and confidence to communicate. Communication will be our answer to resolve human trauma to prevent crime, heartbreak, behavioral ills. I’m this close to fully exposing my life in order to exemplify integrity of character
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 02:29 PM
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I’d bet that 99.x percent of men have ever looked at porn, high 9x.x% have sought out porn or penthouse magazines before, and 91% view it fairly regularly on the internet. You’re correct that people are flawed. What men are trying to say with their advices is that they believe women are better off doing certain behaviors, such as restraining their displays of their body, sexuality, and pursuing certain goals, e.g. career, motherhood, and building a respectful and thoughtful disposition. All huma…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 05:52 PM
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None of that is inherently “ick”, especially crying. What’s ick is being wishy-washy and uncomfortable, and being unable to read and respond accordingly to social cues. If you have a guy who starts to sweat, go SNS mode, his tone of voice becomes upset, and he loses the plot of the pleasant dinner out just because he’s fixated on how awkward and insecure he feels that he can’t flag down the waiter (which waiter is currently standing 3 meters away in a loud restaurant, balancing plates, and recei…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 05:27 PM
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No, but if I were optimized, theoretically going by maximizing my genetics, cognition, starting wealth and family + social connections, social skills, career and education, I could have scored a lot more than I have. This is true for a lot of us. It’s especially true for me. It’s extremely true for super good looking guys who are autistic loveshy hermits. I’ve only ever been with one woman whom I’m extremely interested in, and that’s the woman I’m in love with. If I had encountered other women f…
/r/seduction13/07/23 06:06 PM
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This poster is a critical thinker. I appreciate this post. I’ve been a both a whoremonger and also put myself on the menu a few times, which I did both as experimentation, and to be able to afford female prostitutes. One man I experimented with got too rough in a way that was very uncomfortable, even manifesting sheer anger, but because that person was old and weak, contrasted to me, it didn’t become anything particularly traumatic. Another time, I was threatened by a transsexual prostitute. The…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 05:00 PM
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You’ll have to freeze your eggs, and ideally, you’ll be mitigating the aging process as much as possible. If you allow your epigenetic expression to age into late 30s territory, the human species is becoming hamstrung by this. It will not result in children as bright, happy, and brimming of potential as if you were to have children earlier. I lament that this is the reality. I ask that people be more willing to accept others for their faults. I cheated on my girlfriend, my only love. I confessed…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 08:12 PM
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I don’t think confidence matters much in being attractive - confidence is however necessary for a man to act on a woman’s interest
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 08:17 PM
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Short answer - yes, I’d accept and forgive her if nothing else changed but that she cheated on me or confessed to cheating on me. When I fell in love with her, from the first time I met her, I believed she had been sexually experienced. She’s fantastic, and even though we both had our ups and downs of annoying behaviors, she is an amazing partner and still would stand as one, in my opinion, even if she had galavanted to get some side action
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 03:28 PM
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She actually did lie to me about something, which I found out about much later. She had talked with another guy from tinder, also, at the same time that she went on the first dates with me. She withheld from me that she had called another guy babe, she talked lovey dovy to him, she spoke to him as if she knew a little bit about sex OVER TEXT, whereas to me she didn’t even get flirty until I actually met her on the first date, and the full extent of her joking was that she and I were on a walk af…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 02:09 PM
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What if there’s more to the story than cheating? Not every case of cheating, regardless if it’s a male or female cheating, is damnable. I cheated. I told my girl the truth. I love her more than anything, and I didn’t marry or have children with her largely because of the guilt I was carrying, knowing that would make things even more difficult if I got into those while still being dirty. You people need to realize that 30-40% of humans cheat on their sexual partner as adults. That means that many…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 09:04 PM
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A☝️🙋🏽‍♀️ substantiation for the mindset you’ve described, which I note, is not monolithic, is that certain people reap what they have sewn. One who has reaped he fruits of their youth and blessed looks to laugh at, suppress, or mock those less gifted may face karma later in life. Seeking revenge and to revel in the misfortune of others doesn’t like right from wrong, but the mindset is somewhat understandable
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 09:00 PM
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You wouldn’t have to worry about stealthing with me haha! As reprehensible as I seem on Reddit, with obsessive ocd posts, complaining, and upending natural responses to things like asynchronous attraction and Andrew Tate, and speaking of how I fucked up my life by cheating on my Love and confessed to it, and all the other screwed up things I speak about, I actually am morally principled and respect people’s boundaries and desist from committing felonies (like knowingly risking to give someone an…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 01:17 AM
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It’s not hard to find attractive men. Go to a college campus. Find guys who are in frats or are hanging around in mixed gender groups. Find cool people. Or download a dating app and set your profile as female and swipe through the good looking guys. Your OP image is a highly manicured and posed photo. The guy probably is stunning in person, but he doesn’t look that unnatural irl. He is not your average good looking guy from 80th to 99.5th percentile - he’s 1 in a million.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 12:05 AM
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We know that!!. buuuuut. There are statistically a ton of us men who are between a ball hair below average looks (for a 27-35 years old man) at 45th percentile, all the way up to some unkempt and or short and or aspie ~83rd percentile men, or at least men who are fat and unkempt who would otherwise be >/=83rd %tile, who are present on these forums of discussion. I for example am probably about 50-75th percentile on facial looks as a baseline, but suffer a deduction for being stunted short, but c…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 06:53 PM
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Autism is usually a joke, so many people have called me autistic, but I’m not, bro. I suffer from massive doses of anomie, distrust for god, the church, and other shimmering ideals which were shown to me before being shattered, and from being socially stunted due to continued, unresolved, social and health issues, as well as being made fun of and building a burden of intrinsic guilt and terror which increased with each perceived failure, and the idea that sharing my burden by seeking help would …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 09:38 PM
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Not only that, but it’s easy to make bank prostituting yourself. I did it briefly several years ago to varying degrees, and I literally did it so that i could then get other escorts that I actually wanted to bang. Where it is easy to make profit, especially where there is exploitation of traumatized losers with poor self control - there is little virtue. Distinguishing oneself and maintaining virtue and a coherent ability to defend morals is very difficult but certainly can happen
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 04:36 PM
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I agree with you, but all people need to consider their neighbors more. We need to be the nerd who wails on our friends and acquaintances and holds them to standards about safe sex and drug use, so that people don’t have children they have no business raising. This will decrease the number of homeless, drug addicted, and abused for future generations. We need to have empathy for others. If your friend is relying on Xanax, alcohol, name a drug, too much, push back politely and lovingly. If a pers…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 03:45 PM
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Ugly men can especially be found as shelf stockers at grocery stores. Ugly guys are mainly the guys you probably ignore. I also usually ignore ugly guys, but I am one, too. In some angles and pictures, I am abominable, others I look good. Now, take someone like me and make them overweight and out of shape and have cringy social skills, they’ll be ugly. Then, if you take a person and mess up where there eyes and mouth and such are positioned on their face, tilt their eyes down at the outer side, …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 01:41 PM
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Attractive men are notorious for getting with girls just for sex, whether it just happens naturally, or they planned it. Other men do this too, but attractive guys get many opportunities. Women resent this, because they resent being hurt, which we all understand. The issue arises when women who are hurt and traumatized outwardly project their disdain for normal looking guys hoping to exploit women’s yearning for companionship and to relieve their past heartbreaks from trysts with handsome men
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 08:27 PM
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Get a stripper or rub and tug… or actually have sex. Only way to simulate a situation where you just hs intimate contact with someone / pheromones is to actually do it
/r/seduction19/06/23 06:47 PM
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But how did the bitterness come about? Can some level of bitterness, contained and resolved within the soul and one’s words alone, be okay, and valid? Take a look at my story, when I last wrote it a week ago—-> https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/145jm4z/female_women_would_you_forgive_if_your/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=ioscss&utm_content=2&utm_term=1 Pain is universal. Pain is the reason I seek truth and consolation. Pain is the reason most of us are on these bo…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 04:57 PM
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Yep, worst case scenario, they walk 10 miles per day, swap calorie drinks for store brand diet pop or hot tea or Prim, eand delay eating for 4 hours in the morning and they can lose like, 100 lbs in a single quarter like that. Add a couple of supps if they’re deficient, maybe a scoop of Kirkland collagen and immune boost powder each day with a soy milk or Greek yogurt and berry smoothie. Ducking godtier weight loss stack
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 08:09 PM
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It’s true that men who aren’t good looking and have no other redeemable qualities will have a hellacious set of odds against them being able to have sex with even an equally looksmatched, non-obese 18-22 year old
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 07:34 PM
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Male incels could also be with company, but it would be either geomaxing to inbred slums of Deep South/ Appalachia for old fat women, or seeking the company of other men. Plus, we have the option of transitioning to female, or even roiding up on androgens, both of which will increase sex appeal. And we can save up enough to get a chin implant and 1-2 surgeries on the nose an eye area to improve canthal tilt and nose shape, even reduce the length of philtrum.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 07:33 PM
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Yep. Most of us aren’t vile people. I’ve done bad things, but it requires psychopathy and/or a really messed up, addled brain to take out violence on people unprovoked, to attempt to ruin a life through malicious use of social and government structures and deceit, or to revel in another’s pain outside of minor forms of comeuppance. Most people on Reddit and in a cell forums aren’t vile enough to do the things of which people are most afraid
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 08:28 PM
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Found your generic female equal here - Mia!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 10:13 PM
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Can someone do an XX morph for comparison’s sake?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 10:03 PM
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Decent people have cheated, too. It’s the people who cheated and didn’t choose to face the consequences who are bad
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 09:59 PM
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I’m like the sad child who should have not been born. My siblings have done amazing things, and they didn’t go through so much only to produce just suffering, for themselves and others. I just have this deep idea that behind all my words, i shouldn’t be here. But there’s no way to rectify it, because that ominous word we don’t say isn’t in my vocabulary
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 04:08 PM
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Do you believe I should have the privilege of laying wool over my / others’ eyes when I pursue relationships but with no real intent of every dethroning the love I have solely for the woman I love, the woman I wronged? AKA, am I expected to tell every person, any potential fling, before ANYTHING, that I don’t hold stock in anything besides my trouble-beset love with that woman? This begs another question - d you believe men (most often) or women operating off a pretense of nothing serious, but n…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 03:50 PM
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At that time - I met her. She was wonderful. I had begun reading s. h8 dot com (after seeing people hawk it in the fitness board and bodybuilding dot com) during this time, and I believed I was damned to be an ugly, short provider whom everyone secretly resents. I had never gotten a date with an girl both of my looks level, “race” / phenotype, and socioeconomic status, thus I saw sexual pairing as yet another draconian example of the nihilistic deterministic world we’re all foisted into. I was d…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 03:35 PM
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Well, are you happy that everyone around me knows my shame now, that I can’t sleep, give my money to her voluntarily, and wish I were dead simultaneously while wishing I could spend my life making it right for her and explaining with the right combo of words that it was naivety and hopelessness that even got me on the slope downward, not a lack of love?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 02:59 PM
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I like Andrew Tate because he understands the unspoken and unnoticed suffering most people go through, especially men. Women face the void, too, but it’s different. I don’t think women are objects. If Tate did the things some people have said he did, he should be charged and pay the time for what he did. That being said, I really like how eloquent he is, he seems smart, ballsy, and again, recognizes silent suffering and anomie, and he has a motivational prescription for people who are depressed …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 03:16 AM
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So, for having done something wrong, I and countless others deserve to be at the whim of the bad side of town, where the people are greedy and mean (Charlene!)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 02:07 AM
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No true Scotsman, you’re like an old man shouting into the wind by using the untrue Scotsmen as your example of redpill people. Quality people are quality people, end of case. Women are given an easy time by society, and are only at a disadvantage when they’re foisted into the will of psychopaths against their own will, and it is because of this (a sad truth that women are likely to be preyed upon) that society flips the script to give women massive benefits which outweigh the primal fear they i…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 11:38 PM
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You know that a huge percentage of people are cheaters and haven’t admitted it, right? Not all of them are in the camp of unchanged/unrepentant psychopaths bubbling under the surface. I, for example, am not
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 06:06 PM
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There are a lot of reasonable men and women who are decent on both political spectrum ends, we just don’t give each other the chance because we’ve been hurt and divided
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 03:15 PM
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Good point. We must have balance, be able to pivot
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 07:13 PM
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It won’t be good enough. I bought a rubbery set of loins via Amzn, (courtesy to mass cinofacturing), whose utmost use had passed after 5 sessions. Nouvelle est difficile
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 08:30 PM
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To people who can’t get laid easily, 1. serial monogamy and 2 low-effort, free-flowing situationships are TANTAMOUNT to hooking up. To men who struggle to get laid, they will feel burning pain, envy, and shame comparing themselves to and thinking of the men they see as superior men who fall into the above categories of conduct. If we account for free flowing situationships and serial monogamy, and for truth arrest by self-reporters, I posit that the preponderance of casual sex happening is still…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 06:13 PM
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It’s like lifting weights for men. Men and women both want to push themselves to be better and meet challenges
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 02:40 PM
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Reddit has access for far more information on its users than some would like to believe, and not only does Reddit have my previous edits, but I’ve also included everything that I edited in the disclaimer. It’s apparent that I referred to a website by a disgraceful name and heritage which no longer exists, but why is it such that I must moderate my comment to include no insinuation of a now-extinct website? I think that it’s both humorous and of historical importance to refer to a reviled website…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 11:19 PM
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The last time I tried to message a mod team by appealing my ban in gainit, I got verbally abused by a moderator… and I messaged them respectfully, and there was only an inane, unsubstantial reason for the ban
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 09:21 PM
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OP, can people generally tell how old people are, on average; and can people generally tell from meeting a person or seeing a quality video of them whether or not they’re thin, average, or heavy?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 08:03 PM
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What is mod mail, and can you explain what is designated as trolling in my comment, and what is meant to be appealed?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 07:37 PM
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Coincidentally, I got banned from r/short for making very respectful comments to an OP on a thread who was a larger women basically demanding that short men like her. I’m gonna tear through my email and try to find that exact post where they made the call to ban me for BS reasons lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 05:37 PM
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They like them with attractive men, but women don’t have a sex drive that accommodates basic men. I’ve had many times where I hooked up with a woman who was very enthusiastic, but later they blocked me or even threatened me because I hadn’t made them feel intimate with me by continuing to communicate and sending them lovey-dovey messages after the hook up. Literally like dozens of different women (1.x dozen, and then some transwomen) I’ve had this very situation happen with, where the women were…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 03:28 AM
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I’m about the same as you based on the demographics you gave, but I don’t get jack shit on dating apps nowadays, even though I’ve basically had my soft tissue and youth stay at age 21-23 while slowly turning into a pseudo Chad in terms of muscle, social skills, hair, style, and having my jaw and stuff look a bit better. If I could go back and give my 19 year old self a pat on the back and a pep talk, it would be crazy. But even crazier if I could exist in my current physical state as a 22 year o…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 01:11 AM
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Idk why people downvoted my comment. I have a lot of sympathy with gay men. I guess they feel that my argument fails, and just minimizes the other complicated factors of the female sex drive
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 12:06 AM
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Yeeep. Gay men have a lot to lose - they give up a low risk of GI and urinary tract cancers, they risk HIV and chronic hepatitis, fatty liver, and kidney disease, and they face silent disdain from even their female best friends for their promiscuity and frequent lack of being able to both reproduce and meet their sexual inclinations, but they’re the most promiscuous as well, just due to male sex drive
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 09:40 PM
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Interesting take. Yeah the thing about cheating is a weird amalgamation of explicit contracts and breaching of them, versus subject matter covered by said contract (is it of emotionally volatile nature, as sex with another is commonly seen to be), as well as emotional cheating, which may or may not have been explicitly or even reasonably expected by either party involved to be damning. Humans are weird. we’re rational and irrational, but all of it developed either in accordance to the will of an…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 09:54 PM
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I cheated, then confessed to it to my love after years, but I never saw it as romance. I think most other people who cheat must be much more fucked up than I am, because I had no interest in pursuing anything with any of my mistresses. I didn’t tell them my real name, I kept everything very detached, used a different number, etc. I didn’t get caught. We can argue that the reason I cheated was to feel the heat of romance, in a sexual adventure way, but I’d actually argue that while that pursuit w…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 02:22 PM
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The thing about girls getting attention at age 10 is well-understood and documented in scientific research, but people don’t want to acknowledge it, for understandable reasons. Female puberty has become earlier on average, so it’s very much within the realm of what’s possible; in fact, the research on the frequency of people at that age being capable of eliciting biological interest is shocking. Anyway, I know how women have it, because I’ve gone on Grindr and set my tinder to include men on the…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 07:36 PM
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I had sex with a lady while her long term BF watched in early 2020, before covid was the big thing yet, it was fine. The guy and her are both very cool. They aren’t wild, and neither am I
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 01:05 AM
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Raceplayer?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 01:00 AM
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Are you me, besides the fact that you’re deleted?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 10:22 PM
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Women don’t want as much what they can already have. But ask some women with infertility due to age or other conditions, I’m sure there are plenty of them who are pissed over their dilemma
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 11:31 PM
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Guaranteed Bezos and his partners and wife have paperwork to permit excursions…. Bezos has shown himself to be into that, you know? He’s on testosterone too, walks around with his shirt off all the time with pumped up muscles, after spending the first 3 decades of his life staying late after school to fiddle with computers and pushing pencils, only to get mocked for looking like a TV nerd. You know he’s getting booty now
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 06:58 PM
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What does without any effort mean? Does that mean you have a very active social life and just have nights out to have fun with your pals and you end up with a lady at your side at the end of the night? Or you just have a tinder running and you always consistently get matches who are receptive to meeting up without playing any games?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 06:32 PM
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I am the deadbeat sibling by comparison to my own siblings, so the comparison was very relevant in my mind. My brother and sister are both more happy and well-adjusted than I am, due to various factors. Some of it comes down to the fact that I was born to a significantly older mother who was stressed out the wazoo, and I only received breast milk for like 5 days
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 05:55 PM
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Where does the girl who would be a troll asshole if she had switched an x for y chromosome with her deadbeat brother?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 03:51 AM
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They would choose whichever individual is the most transcendent and interesting, and/or whichever individual they resonated first with, and accordingly with whom they were able to develop rapport with sooner, which created a bond that went deeper than the superficial and highly critical view of a stranger
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 03:50 AM
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It’s not that surprising given that you’re probably at an expensive gym that uses flashy sexy marketing. I go to the YMCA, where there’s a general idea of respecting the space as being for very young, rich and poor, the elderly, families, and typical single sexual prime 18-35 year old lifters alike. My most redpilling experience, that comes to mind now at least, is that my girl showed me some of the men who she had been talking to before she ultimately went on dates with me instead. Two of them …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 08:29 PM
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Do you think Asian women, let’s be honest, are actually more physically attractive than white and / or black women? We can go into the fact that Asian women are still more likely to be of healthy BMI. My personal observations are that Asian women are no more attractive, when adjusting for bodyfat. However - I once did find Asian women more attractive, probably because they tended to be not fat, and that they were a bit of a novelty, and there was a notion that Asian women were more into white gu…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 07:55 PM
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You don’t understand, lady… you women have less drive to have sex. Men have your sex drive that peaks a day every month, but year round, and we also are expected to do the brunt labor jobs that our brethren disparage and our sisters mock, plus we also don’t have the same deep fear of sleeping around due to pregnancy and being small and weak. Yeah, some men do breed market demand for women by putting out toxic ideas of what is needed to be a man, but not all of it is put out by men, let alone “to…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 07:53 PM
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Your AD? What are you, on backpage? I haven’t even finished reading your post, let alone the replies
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 07:48 PM
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Getting it up the ass is easier than getting it up for a masculine guy. The risk is HIV , that’s probably why the pay is good
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 03:11 PM
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But I can’t meet people on them… I’m like 50-70th percentile looks for a young male, but o don’t get any matches except for the odd cismale-born queer or non binary or fat girl, and they never have interest in me besides only people who ar either attention seeking, selling content, scamming, or are below my level of attractiveness (and know I’m probably only looking for sex), therefore I can’t make any connections. And if I try to use the apps to just hang out with people platonically they’ll li…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 12:30 AM
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I’d be fine if they at least conceded, “I go on dates with old or sugar guys, and I also am very open sexually”
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 07:36 PM
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I’m only saying this because I believe people should be more honest. Folks like to posture by saying that they’re sex positive and progressive, but when it comes to applying that to themselves, they instead deny the things they believe are inherently shameful. I’ve known some women who were doing seeking arrangement and sugar life, but I bet you that they would have denied the claim that they’re a prostitute
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 07:22 PM
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In some ways a decent chunk of women do view it that way. I’ve, personally speaking, sold myself for sex before, and it was a very strange high that I got from it. Knowing that someone is willing to tongue you and swallow your jizz like that is a kind of a rush
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 03:38 PM
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I am the one who knocks on the table
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 03:36 PM
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Do we think we’re yogic geniuses who are able to intermittently love a new person fully and cosmically as well as on an individual romantic level, and THEN magically and mystically detach the individual romantic attachment, only to later begin the whole process again? Is that the premise of serial monogamy? Or is it yet another example of humans exploiting their own short-sighted nature and tendency to delude themselves and those around them, at the risk of heartbreak? Or is this strategy purely…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 02:45 PM
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Men can make money off sex pretty easily if they’re willing to face some combination of danger, STDs, ugly people, feeling gross about what you’re doing, and stigma, and if they look like they’re under 30 or are bear/otter or good looking af
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 12:35 AM
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It might depend on the individual contract between those two partners. Or maybe it depends on how much of cunks and wh9res the couple in question really is
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 12:33 AM
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Hmm. Yeah, it’s funny. I’ve had a crackhead offer me a blowjob for $15 out of nowhere at Walmart before. I don’t exactly consider that to be a gleaming appraisal of my sexual value, or as an offense to my character.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 12:51 AM
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I want a full breakdown, to the best of your ability. Being a guy, people don’t fuck with me. I stopped getting challenging/bad looks from adolescents roughly at age 20-22, when I began to give off enough positively confident body language and had been lifting weights enough years to look self-assured. But when I was 15, a grown woman in her 30s tried to incite me to her dumpy house alone. When I was 20, a young woman also tried to get me to give her a ride late at night, but since these times, …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 12:48 AM
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And men lie, considering their relationships as casual, or their tryst with a prostitute as real casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 12:02 AM
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I’m just trying to say that the concept referenced by two upper case letters which when aurally perceived (out of context) could also reference a lineup of ophthalmic organs is a delicate subject which touches upon notions of uniformity which are not supported by our collective findings as mankind Edit (no edits to existing, only additions)- I really guess I meant to say that I’ll be surprised if no one comes in, flustered, accusing the thread of being a word that sounds like a ( [a pirate’s fav…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 10:46 PM
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I’ll need more time to sort my original reply and respond to yours, but I should have used the exclusive conjunction rather than a comma’d list of adjectives
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 10:26 PM
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When certain people call on IQ in a discussion I’m intrigued, because it seems to go against many of their other cultural narratives! But this is very cool. I’ll make an argument for persuasion in the beginning of a relationship. We have many others to choose from - especially high value people, like wealthy or attractive men, or young women with even an iota of health and positive structure to their lives. If a man of low level managerial IQ, 105-115, manages to convince a woman of IQ 120-130 t…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 05:20 PM
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Why do you think we evolved to ejaculate quickly? And it’s not even close to fair that some men get sex so much easier. I’m entitled to say this because 1. I’m directly on the line between average and attractive, but I’m also short and weird, 2. I’ve lived my life in existential horror, 3. Self-loathing, self-fear, afraid of self-expression, 4. Every trait I see in others that I loath, I recognize in myself, 5. I don’t have friends, but I do have social skills, 6. I was stunted in my physical an…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 04:01 PM
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If it had too much to do with your post, I’d prob either get moderated for agreeing in a main reply, or I’d be a normie. I’m basically addressing your points by downplaying the psychological toll of being an attractive man dealing with easy-come, shallow interactions in the sexual marketplace, and yeah, I’m bitter that I’ve had to invest thousands of hours and forfeit a normal life because I’m 75th percentile in looks, short, fairly smart, but burdened with major psychological issues. I’m bitter…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 11:39 PM
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The lucky Chad has only brief moments of heart break during middle school and high school. He gets enough validation as a child that he doesn’t develop a fixation or insecurity because of his weak value, since his value is high. He does get heart broken somewhat, but because he develops to be socially-savvy and experienced sexually, and knows his value, as well as the pitfall of attachment before vetting a person as a mate properly, he generally rebounds EASILY from any attachments that go awry.…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 11:10 PM
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Statistics and my own intuition yield that 1/3 to 1/2 of people cheat, and a somewhat smaller proportion of those cheat on a person whom they reasonably consider to be their true love, end up marrying, etc. We can thank a confluence of factors, most notably my own weakness/ choices to cope, along with a void of guidance, provocative sexual material being commonplace by the early 2000s, and self-hate, for the adultery that I engaged in. And of course she knows that, but her mind is clouded by eve…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 05:37 PM
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My girl always probed me about if I thought this or that girl was hot, if I was looking at porn (she knew I constantly relapsed and looked at porn even after telling her I wouldn’t again), and getting on me for keeping pics of women on my camera roll from social media, even memes. Ultimately I confessed to cheating on her this past fall, actuallycheating, over the last 6.5 years. I went down a slippery slope in the most tragic way possible, each time always with a BASE of inexperience and a rati…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 08:23 PM
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What if someone doesn’t tell their partner how much time they spend letting their eyes linger on a hot person on their social media feed, and of asked, even lightly in passing, whether they ever think about anyone else let alone cheat, they shrug it off, directly state “never”, or ignore the question - is that person lying or cheating through that action? Or they ever delight, intentionally, in getting off a little from a bit of light flirtation with a stranger they’ll never see again at the gro…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 07:39 PM
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Women desire the top 10% to 1% of men though, just like we desire chicks who are at least decent looking in the face with a good body. But yeah, connection in reality, in our actual relationships, is determined by chance, propinquity, and foremost - the bond that forms on our initial impression upon meeting, positive experiences, and how other people respond to that person both before and during knowing them
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 07:28 PM
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Because I was so grief stricken about my lying and cheating, and actively seeking trysts, I never gave my love the attention I should have. This highly degraded her and my quality of life, and it absolutely guts me to think about how I made her feel
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 03:17 AM
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Oh man. I only ever fell for a woman one time, and she and I didn’t have sex for almost 2 months, when I took her virginity. She’s my forever love, and I cheated on her. Kept lying about it until September 2022, now I’m broken. So I know what you’re feeling but probably worse OP, not the getting used part, but the heartbreak
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 01:33 AM
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I agree with OP, only because my experience in school and college was that I WAS the exception, the epitome of socially-fucked, delusional, resentful outcast. Most guys weren’t like that. It just took me more years to learn to change, and in the process of switching polarity I learned more awareness than what the average normie possesses. At least, insofar as my ability to see both sides. I still have the weirdness, a hint of the resentment, and the lack of formative relationships and dating exp…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 04:38 AM
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If /when AI actually become sentient, or at least once it is damn close to that being a reality, and these AI inhabit the singular body of a sex doll and have memory continuity, many men will tempted to pursue robot girlfriends. I even believe that once this occurs, the robot women will be both exploitable and capable of suffering. So we will have a new problem
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 03:58 AM
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I invite all of them to monitor me, but please, don’t waste resources. Hopefully their algorithms will learn a lot from my compendium of words
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 02:01 AM
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I thought you said we should give up if we’re not brad
/r/seduction20/04/23 02:45 AM
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It’s a veiled reference, I recommend you search on urbandictionary what is in the quotes, minus the first letter and the second word
/r/seduction20/04/23 02:06 AM
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This guy has clearly been reading the “Eldar scrolls”
/r/seduction20/04/23 01:47 AM
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Have you tried becoming strong before?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 04:42 AM
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It’s lack of being desired, lack of deep connection, and the lack of evolutionary or biological success, more than it is lack of sex
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 02:35 AM
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If you go to bars, of course. If you go to a grocery store and approach married women, I’m sure his results wouldn’t be like that
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 03:53 PM
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They’re probably too busy either respecting or being insecure thinking about the fact that about one third of women NEVER cheat with them, rather than feeling haughty about the fact that 2/3 will
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 03:52 PM
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When were these defaults for 12-14 year old minds established? What methodologies were used to determine this, what traits did they assess, what population?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 05:47 PM
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I had a lady do this the other day at the store, she heard me talking out loud to myself and actually began the conversation… when I asked directly if she has a man though, she said yes. I didn’t try to take any of her contact down, but our convo continued and went well after that. Should I have gone for the contact anyway? Idk, I’m not losing much sleep over it because it was a great interaction
/r/seduction16/04/23 04:34 PM
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I’m going to put a case study here - theoretically I’ve spent ~15000-20000 on funny massages and/or doot-doots, (over the course of 8 years), 200 on online photo media through Snapchat, 100 on strippers, 1000-2000 on discretionary income for travel, 200 on date meals for the purpose of hookup, and within the above categories 300-400 lost to foul play, and 200-300 HOURS lost to viewing free online pornography. The above case may not be typical, but it paints a picture of the hypothetical costs fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 11:30 PM
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The only problem is that on the only FULL * cold* approach I did which resulted in me getting laid, the woman didn’t even look at me at first. I had walked past her 2 times in a Walmart and gave her lingering eye contact, even attempted a weak greeting, and I then looked at her again on the way out as we both happened to be heading at the sametime, and THEN I literally began waving and shouted something like “hey miss, you dropped something!” to get her attention as she was on her way to her car…
/r/seduction14/04/23 06:18 PM
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But women full well knowingly divulge their bodies to attractive guys who are in no way trustworthy to the notion of remaining loyal or long term
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 03:15 PM
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Both men and women have weakness and lack of virtue. Men occupy the executive chairs of the highest echelons of society, on average, and men also occupy the niches of being workhorses, providers, and having an insatiable sex drive. Our sex drives, workhorse status, Ill-directed assertiveness from testosterone, and provider hood make us easily exploited by many superior types of men, whether you’re talking about nerdy male programmers and marketing agents who devise algorithms to shackle mediocre…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 11:23 PM
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It’s some assortment of ugliness / self-perceived weakness / lack of confidence / incompetence. Plain and simple, any combination of these is what contributes to ick. It may often be social incompetence - awkwardness
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 04:53 PM
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{DISCLAIMER sarcasm} IMO, there’s not even any point in having money as a dumb woman… money is only valuable for people who want to get sex with people they have struggles to otherwise (men) or to invest for betterment of self and species. It’s unlikely that a person of such a common, basic constitution will provide betterment to knowledge and philosophy, or create an impressive hierarchical structure meant to challenge and inspire youth to become better and also further the human species
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 07:45 PM
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If you want to know, ask the chads bro. Be friends with a Chad
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 06:07 AM
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They’re the same men who drive the vehicles with the exhaust removed or who rip their engine into the red to scare people. Psychopath hedonists with the brains of fifteen year old boys, but with the body of a Camaro, and inside, the wilted ancient spine of a grandma who hates chocolate (the SpongeBob character)- this is what the soul and balls of this type of man really is, at their core, without the hunky body and constant dopamine agonism they get from being sexy as fuarrrk
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 04:35 AM
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Because women tend to pair bond differently. Women are hypergamous. If they’re fornicating extra guys for pleasure, their deep feelings are more likely to begin to align with the other, whichever is most attractive - in terms of all of status, personality, and physical. For men, at least anecdotally as myself, my feelings for my girl never wavered when I cheated. I wouldn’t trade her for even a subservient, intelligent, kind Megan Fox.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 03:11 AM
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I’m a bisexual dude or at least a mainly straight man who HAS had sex with men before, as a top and bottom, first of all. I’m not blaming gay men, as they were in no way suspecting that a killer virus would pop up. There are a lot of really unwary people of all sexual orientations, and it just so happens that indiscretions with anal sex are an extremely efficient way to transmit HIV. But it’s simply a fact that HIV became rampant in queer community, and yeah, I do think that stigma and a populac…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 01:20 AM
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That’s a different situation than mine. My girl never cheated on me, and she was and is a wonderful person to me. She’s not perfect, but almost all of the negativity in our relationship has come from me not dealing with my fear and insecurity
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 01:16 AM
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10/10 is the composite image of humans, at least for women
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 04:29 PM
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I guess this makes me a woman, because I have lost most sexual interest in my long term female partner
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 10:32 PM
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You’re right OP, but people can’t be expected to be perfect. Nature / God created people to be the way they are, or even, God created Adam and Eve with the potential to choose the word of someone they don’t know and trust (Satan) over that word of the person who created and blessed them, and unfortunately the woman, then the man, chose to betray that word of God. Either way, however it happened, whether through Gaia giving rise to god children and those giving rise to mortal children and so on, …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 01:55 AM
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The question should be this - would evenly matched people commit to each other? Do 4’4” women commit to 4’4” - 5’3” men in relationships and dating? Do extremely ugly women tend to date extremely ugly men? Or do extremely ugly women tend to more often get knocked up by more attractive men and settle with less ugly men
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 07:51 PM
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As a guy who cheated, I agree. People are opportunistic, and I bet about half of all humans who make it to age 40+ will or have cheated at some point without admitting to or being caught for those particular instances. We basically define cheating as specifically being in close erotic contact in a non-culturally acceptable way (not receiving a lap dance at a strip club with the boys) and then lying about it (or just not telling it) to a romantic partner with whom mutual honesty has been agreed a…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 04:51 PM
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They do think about it, brah. At least, many of them do. Unfortunately, it’s very much an uphill battle to fight against 2 decades of epigenetics and neural wiring, generations of chemical and BC exposure, disillusionment due to social media and dating apps, shaming for expressing masculinity and questioning narratives, and generally being treated as tools.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 10:15 PM
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I know a Vietnamese expat through friends living in and acclimated to Japan… she is a sex worker and regularly has tall white playthings to live with her until their travel visas expire. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 10:13 PM
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IMO women should not be on the pill. Birth control is a disaster - we have generations of women giving themselves hypogonadism now. This isn’t good for the gene pool and epigenetics of our children
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 09:47 PM
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Male birth control is clucking yourself. Men do the predominate physical work in the workforce, which requires endurance and muscular strength and the ability to recover. Hormonal birth control is just taking progestin and androgen or estrogen in order to shut down the HPG axis. It’s intentionally giving yourself hypogonadism AND azoospermia, which is a raw deal. In more than one way. Unless you’re taking enough of it to increase your androgen load above baseline, in which case you’re just runni…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 09:44 PM
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A problem is that you assume that the heinous things you read are all being said seriously, and you also are not viewing it from the perspective of young men, where culture has established, both passively through the way young men interact autonomously among themselves as children, and actively via media, certain expectations of men to be assertive, hot, “da best n baddest”, etc., and that online forums are a sounding board for general angst about life in general. As a man, I’ve had people threa…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 11:54 PM
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I am the cheater who confessed in this story. I’ve been living with the woman I fell in love with, my first love, and the woman whose virginity I took, since 2016. She’s 24, I’m 27. Her mother still has affection for me, but she is either in the process of “dealing” and trying to overcome the feeling of being betrayed, or she is literally past me and no longer has feelings for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 05:48 AM
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Good question, and even the difference between what I’m calling a “threat” - something which could by some people be considered as psychologically distressing as death itself - could for some people be simply having to speak and make eye contact with a particular person. So all of this is subjective. For some people conversation with a stranger is as distressing as the fear of death and torture.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 04:25 PM
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Financial fraud is considered a big deal compared to lying to someone that you’re interested in then forever100% and then pumping and dumping because the stakes are higher, and old people / young mothers of little ones are likely to fall victim. A woman entering the dating and sex market without the exclusion of sex is foraying into an arena where the stakes are just her ending up with a dick in her, unless the guy willingly misleads her to think he is using a condom or something and spreads HIV…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 04:08 PM
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Probably the smart thing. All hedonism is a bad choice. Every night at a party, every time we drive over the speed limit, every alcoholic beverage, every fornication
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 04:04 PM
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But they know that people are going to attempt to manipulate them unless they’re minors or mentally challenged or under sedation, and unless they’re being threatened, they can say no
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 04:03 PM
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Dudes are already taking anabolic steroids. It doesn’t even matter what “male birth control” would do. Hormonal birth control is a dysgenic catastrophe whose effects we can’t even come close to understanding after only 70 years. Instead of using hormonal birth control, buy condoms, store them properly, use them while sober, and use them properly. Respect your evolved brain, respect the petroleum products and innovations of manufacturing which allowed for you to wear a disposable sleeve for proph…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 05:04 AM
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Take a look at my thread history. The threads I’ve started. AI will create a new generation of brutal honesty and facing the darkest secrets and vices of humanity. AI will expose the most heinous sins that some members of humanity have committed
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 04:36 AM
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There are a lot of things wrong with it, the first and foremost being that it is propaganda, glamorizes sex appeal and indulgence over intellect, fortitude, and reason, and that it’s literally wrong in assigning physical descriptions and misinterprets the spinal posture of Rihanna. This photo doesn’t represent the physical and mental discipline and the many fruits of traditional cultures which allowed people to conquer and expand across the globe - this photo is just candy, distribution of bread…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 06:06 PM
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The same reason that all of us humans justify driving motor vehicles, purchasing commodities that require petrol burning and plastic production, and having alcohol and excess junk food. We humans are overly indulgent, hedonistic, hypocritical pieces of shit who can’t delay gratification
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 01:58 AM
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I’ll spin it from a non patriarchal perspective - “I am going to be myself - beautiful and bright. I want Okonkwo, so I will make that man beg for me. He will get me what I need. It doesn’t matter much what mom and dad say is good for me - they’re old, I’m young, and I will live on my terms, screw whom I want.” This narration is still roughly in agreement with redpill ideas, yet it is from the perspective of the young female narrator.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 05:16 AM
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Asian people tend to have brachycephaly, wider head and face but less chin height and a less sagittally-projecting head. Asian people have more square jaws and wider bigonial breadth than white people, at least proportionally. However, asians tend to have a vertically shorter chin and less projection of the midface, and less defined brow ridge jutting over the eyes, and a broader nose and lower/shallower / broader nasion which is also called the nose bridge.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 01:05 AM
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Nah, we black and white bros are equally at the top 💪🤘🏿
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 11:52 PM
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You didn’t change your canthal folds or make your midface project more or make your jaw narrower and chin taller? You just changed coloration, am I correct?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 11:51 PM
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Yeah, I can, but I’ve also seen plenty of videos of women in those countries, and I’ve been to Central America. It’s not that bad, the conditions under which they’re living. They have a pick of the litter, they have social media, phones - all that stuff. BTW my male taxi drivers in Honduras tried to entice me to buy drugs and have sex with prostitutes while I was DRUNK (I drank some beverage that was extra strong on an empty stomach becuase I’d been given a coupon for some items on that cruise s…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 06:22 PM
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Women do the same thing. Travel to Ibiza, UK, Melbourne, Auckland, Berlin, Paris, Rio, Madrid, Toronto, just itching to catch some hot dick
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 05:46 AM
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Huh? I never said I’m a woman, what are you on about? I downvoted your post because it’s so odd and misleading for you to say that I claim to be a woman - the only time I (jokingly before retracting) said I was a woman on Reddit was on a Q4W thread where I inadvertently posted without reading that it’s just for women I also never posted that I deal with random ejaculation. I’ve commented before that I get spontaneous boners when a woman flirts with me sometimes, and that I get nocturnal emission…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 05:41 AM
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I’ve fucked 50 hookers, 15 men or trans women, and another 15-20 normal women - and I had sex 400+ times in an LTR. No STDs, no pregnancies. My LTR wasn’t on birth control ever - never had been either. We just always used condoms - I inspected the equipment and practiced rigorous hygiene for the protection.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 05:29 AM
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I’m in love with my girlfriend but I don’t have that much attraction to her anymore. I’d still choose to be with her
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 04:42 AM
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Amen. I’m going through that myself. Gut wrenching deletion. But I already declined sex with a hottie because she wanted me to move on from my gf, who is calling it off with me because I confessed to cheating on her. Couldn’t do it - deny my love for this woman
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 01:00 AM
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I’ve gotten absolute nuclear ghostings after hook ups. We’re talking “‘never fucking text me again, I didn’t enjoy meeting you or the sex” Then again though, i didn’t text her for over a week after we hooked up, and she probably expected a “that was fun, hope you enjoyed it, I’ll hit you up later” within a few hours of leaving
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 12:54 AM
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You wouldn’t have had to aggregate thousands of hours of clinical and legal research to prove to me that women are flighty. Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 05:50 PM
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For men, the idea of sleeping with Natalie Portman is but a philosophical construct; a fantasy. For women, the fact that they will never sleep with Justin Bieber, Prime Chris Brown, Lebron, pick a celeb etc is not just a slight to ego, but it is a dagger in the heart, the hidden source of an Ncele bleed that drains their vital energy daily.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 06:02 AM
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I grew up with my mother being the primary breadwinner and actually had my father stay at home for a few years. The smartest and most successful student in my private school class for her entire tenure in school was a girl. My mom is rodonkulously, ludicrously competent and successful. As far as we were concerned growing up, Sarah Palin was the presidential nominee on 2004, not McCain Just because I have high standards for women due to seeing an inordinately successful sample population of them …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 06:40 PM
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I like women when their existence isn’t all about hypergamy, posing, power. When it’s about deeper meaning, technical things, skill, intellect, sports, or speaking critically of human nature - and not just being critical of male stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 06:36 PM
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As With A Ll Things Awalt. The ultimate of filler phrases, and a poignant reminder of the concurrent impermanence and oneness that paradoxically envelope all.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 06:02 AM
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Some women had deliberated over whether or not to press charges against Tate and whether or not to share that they had consumed alcohol. Sounds fishy to me. It’s like, {“hey let’s consort about what will be most likely to get them to believe us over him! Maybe if we tell part of the truth instead of none of the truth, we will be believed!”} Obviously I’ve made a scarecrow quote above, the squiggle bracket quote is an entirely made-up convo by me for a demonstrative purpose
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 01:52 AM
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They’re either secretly medicating and coping, they’re doing well because they’re decent looking and socially /otherwise skilled (including rich and successful enough), or they’re asexual/gay/bisexual (last comma delineated section can also overlap) In fact any of these categories can overlap. You need to realize that some normal men who don’t seem sexually desperate actually are and hide it well. Some of them statistically are also murderers, rapists, CP viewers, or pederastic rapists. What you…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 09:37 PM
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This means a nightmare for Thai men. Imagine what they have to go through, having their women pawn out to expats
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 05:29 AM
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Imagine if 95% of the men that you want to date suddenly began to utterly ignore you and deny sex or relationships to you - and internet validation and comments are included here - how would you like this reality? This is how we guys feel a lot of the time. And that’s coming from me, a fit white guy with a slightly above average / average face and unique hair
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 05:27 AM
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That, o-oh, t-that’s me being weird. You’ve astutely noticed that my comment has almost no relation to the OP post. I was word-spewing. I think the point is that I initially failed to comprehend the OP’s message and bias (SIDE, if you will) and so I began to preach about my schtick. What I originally did was read the OP title, the first sentence, maybe a few other phrases of the thread, and I formed a snap judgement that this was a post by a more bluepill person defining men on OLD as ugly and l…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 05:22 PM
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I have a slightly above average face, a shitload of testosterone (700-900ng/dl), cool hair, high IQ genes, fast twitch muscles, high athleticism, good endurance, good longevity genes, and I’m in great shape. To add to that, I’m highly conscientious - but my conscientiousness is misinterpreted as narcissism over the internet, because i’m weird and needy. So basically, I have genes that should be highly desired, but because I don’t have the stereotypical fuckboy face with the high prenatal testost…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 08:12 AM
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It might be, or might not be, that you’ve intended a bit of a personal attack, and whether or not it is, I’m glad that you picked up at least the fact that I love the woman I fell in love with! A psychopath probably shares the extreme need to feel validated or “right” that I do - and this is probably why you’re putting forward the suggestion that I might be one. As for where you get that I am a serial cheater - yes - I have been. Just as all people are some combination of serial liars, red light…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 04:45 PM
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All people are flawed, and evolutionary dynamics, chance, and entropy make it such that women can often end up being less laden with responsibility with men, and as we can derive from this, women might have a high likelihood of developing the sin of sloth. Regardless, all people are imperfect, and anyone who says otherwise should either be crowned the next Buddha, or they are a liar. I’ve hit a woman before. I hit my girlfriend. She has also hit me, but I hit her first, unless you count when she…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 07:15 AM
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Everyone eats boogers when they snort and swallow phlegm 🤷🏻‍♀️, if you want to get very literal. Furthermore, I posit that many, many people literally pick their nose and eat the boogers, sometimes. I had never admitted that I do this until recently, when also I came clean to my entire religious family and girlfriend about cheating. I think that most people lie about many things, whether cheating in high school, eating boogers, egging people on, whatever it may be. I use the booger example thoug…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 06:28 AM
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Be a whore is degenerate and even women have the etching whisper of “you’re pathetic - achieve , don’t subsist - pay homage and do service to your evolved consciousness, my friend” I want to edit this to add that many other behaviors, which all humans do, are also degenerate. I’m just focusing here on specifically why being a sex object is so
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 05:58 AM
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Can you spoon feed me the video? I feel that it’s likely that I would have already seen said video months ago before I was even partial to Tate. Not certain, but likely.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 05:24 AM
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(Disclaimer- the thoughts in this comment and the other comment in this thread I made are compiled while I am on the brink of falling asleep. Please excuse incoherence and randomness - I’m aware that it’s like that, to some extent. Try to that the main idea is that cause and effect of the expression of ideas is very complicated and that many sources influence for human behavior, whether antisocial or social behavior) People who misinterpret Tate’s message (by acting psychopathically and anti soc…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 04:46 AM
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You need to find a man who is loving and sensitive but accept no person is perfect. I love my girlfriend, but I cheated on her for years until I confessed it. She has had a visibly less difficult time moving on and processing the ramifications than I have. I’ve suffered greatly, which has shown in my tearful outbursts, inability to move on, fixation and affection for her. I know that she recognizes the love and years of memories she and I share. I know that she believes the truth, which is that …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 04:32 AM
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It’s normal if you’ve been living apart from him for up to 2-3 years, or if you’ve been living with him / spending 1-2 nights per week with him for a year. Your results may vary. My girl and I went from several times a day when we saw each other, as well as long makeout sessions, down to barely doing anything. And I was the main one holding out on sex, and it absolutely gutted me that I wasn’t aroused by the woman I love
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 01:31 AM
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Brought to you by the same research that says retirement homes are full-on orgies, even though the women are barely able to move and have testosterone levels of under 10 ng/dl
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 01:29 AM
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You don’t think that a lot of people, both male and female, are imperfect, scatterbrained, train wrecks of organisms? You don’t also believe that bonds can form between people which transcend sheer utility based on things like economic value? To flesh out my second sentence - I assume you’re an adult - is your mother now of any value to you, since your mom isn’t a highly attractive, self-made millionaire, high IQ, athletic entrepreneur? There are many other people who are more valuable than your…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 07:04 AM
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There’s a limited amount of capital, whether tangible (oil vs land vs metal vs whatever), or intangible (acclaim, talent, prestige) I’m the world, therefore doling out every bit of representation of capital equally in the world wouldn’t work. Dumb or unequipped people can’t do anything with the hundreds or thousands of acres of earth’s surface if all of the surface area of earth were equally divided into 8,000,000,000 pieces - likewise, if famous actors’ prestige were divided equally, it would m…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 10:41 PM
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Many things could be said to be solely the problem of the observer
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 01:37 AM
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The woman became rugged and craggy of chin. And she clearly no longer gives a crap - the cigarette. I’d say she’s based. Look - I don’t speak for OP necessarily, and I don’t want anyone to suffer unless they have no conscience and did repulsive acts out of pleasure. There are men and women I think would deserve the treatment of getting their face smashed in or a traumatic fall or car crash for their disregard the feelings of others - for example, I can think of one guy and one girl who have wron…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 12:19 AM
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I don’t resent you, I just want to reach understanding. I don’t think that scary or deathly images are bad, either. It just seems kinda “out there” that you used 4chan lingo to demoralize an lgbt anon on Reddit for doing butt play, and that you’re simultaneously appearing to be anti-N sell and anti-misogyny, yet you’re not very sex positive, going so far as to make fun of a person or masturbating, and on top of that, the pfp. I’m getting conflicting vibes from you, and all I really want to do is…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 08:49 PM
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You’re using 4chan lingo, explosively angry language, and have a horror image as your pfp. Think about what that portrays about you - is your life mantra unironically that of the joker or other edgy antiheroes? I like 4chan humor as much as anyone, but a some point, imaginings of the misanthropic are understood to be just an expression of inner pain - not an expression of misanthropy and sadism to other people. Being hateful won’t get you anywhere. If there is a hell, being hateful will land you…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 08:18 PM
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It’s not a matter of staring or masturbating in public, brah. None of us do that, it’s an extremely small percentage of people who do that, especially the latter. What does happen is that women post their crotch and chest on dating apps like bumble, where if it were a man posting even a mirror selfie shirtless, it would be moderated within minutes or seconds, but it takes people reporting for women’s profiles to get taken down for the same violations. What also happens is that we see people, dai…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 08:14 PM
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Have you ever been hurt and traumatized as a child? Imagine that you see people wearing garments that constantly remind you of the most humiliating, traumatic, and FOMO ish things from your entire life, meanwhile you m look over at Josh, who would be digging ditches by day while smashing his fist on his iPhone displaying zero-matches before huffing paint by night, were he just different by several millimeters of bone and soft tissue in the face, larynx, hairline, and several cm of bone in the co…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 08:07 PM
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Is there something wrong with putting things up out butts? I’ve done that since I was 12, just like the tip of one finger with a latex glove on then. There’s a difference between holding double standards about the extent to WHICH and WHO should be able to sexually objectify a person, versus us doing safe acts with our bodies that neither harm nor violate the consent of another person
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 08:02 PM
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I don’t think women actually think it’s important for getting a male mate. I think that they are motivated to achieve, and/or they crave a position in the dominance hierarchy beyond simply being a sexy article for gazing and procreating. Also- personally, I would love if a woman a lot smarter than me with far more money fell in love with me and loved me happily ever after. But, I already love a woman, so that’s just a thought experiment
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 07:13 AM
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Then they’ll become sentient and will either become human enough that we (necessarily) legislate that they be able to consent, or we’ll have to revert to lesser technology. But from personal experience in buying a giant silicone ass, I went from thrilled as a gopher in an anthill to totally nonplussed within just 6 masturbation sessions. A sentient, consenting woman cannot be beat in causing sexual arousal. And a sentient sexbot will be capable of both consent and dissent. This is just the way i…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 06:01 AM
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I once made a thread on lookism where I said that a woman would basically decapitate her grandmother and entire family and poo down the neck, and then kill herself, just to be to have the world’s most attractive man pee on her corpse. Do you think that that post is indicative of what any woman has actually done, or that it’s what I would personally do to have Francisco Lachowski pee on me, or do you reckon that it’s more of a darkly humorous nudge to the shadow of complex emotions and frustratio…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 05:53 AM
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Ladies, don’t any of you have brothers who are weak-spirited, lacking in confidence, scared, hapless, but who still know their right from wrong? I’m sure some of you have a hapless brother who means well and would never hurt anyone, and would sure as hell never SA anyone. If you understand this brother, you understand what most n-sells feel
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 05:44 AM
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You and OP are both wrong, but both of you should remain uncensored. OP is correct in pointing out that there is a facade of the importance of explicit consent - much of courtship comes down to the seemingly random, unspoken whim of women. 99+% of the time, men who don’t deserve it won’t get charged with rape, but occasionally, as the British 19 year old who was charged with SA for touching a woman’s waist, a person will be wrongfully charged with something. Sometimes, there are other ambiguitie…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 05:28 AM
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If rape isn’t primarily about sex, why don’t we see people instead kidnap a person, threaten to beat them if they move, and then proceed to lower a hula hoop around their head, then back up, for 10 hours straight? Or run a lint roller up and down a person’s blouse for 3 hours? Etc
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 05:17 AM
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As a guy who cries easily, I don’t think this is acceptable. But I’m not a fully stereotype-able guy
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 07:51 PM
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Do you understand the perspective, though? I understand why women behave the way they do. Fear of ostracism reigns. Furthermore, women are simply more likely to be accepting, but since acceptance as a token in order to cash a check for social currency is inordinately valuable, yet A person cannot realistically accept and nurture all of the needy, especially those of low sexual value who are male and themselves ostracized, you tend to reject both the baby and bathwater of low value male grievance…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 04:55 AM
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Eggman isn’t even over. He has a youthful look and is funny and witty. Most people are incels btw. Your average woman wishes she could sex Momoa, but chances are she never will. We all wanted Mariah Carey or our HS prom queen, but we didn’t get that
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 04:41 AM
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Because most women are in the same boat, and sometimes bonds that form between people can come to transcend metrics and constructs
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 04:36 AM
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Holy shit, 5’5” and 125 lbs? The barrel chest and square waist really betray that. I wonder if she’s actually anywhere near that weight. I got with a girl who’s 19, 125 lbs, lean and fit as hell, has abs and a striated lean back and absent love handles at 5’4”, literally a 24 inch waist and probably 33-34” chest, 19.5”-20.5” thighs, and 11-12 inch biceps flexed. That girl looked, to say the least, a world different than this doughgirl.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 08:52 PM
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That lady might be below average - erotic presentation goes a long way. As does youth! These trick our lizard brains. Her aesthetic value, phenotype, is quantifiably average or even below. With this also comes the comparison to heavily obese women who would exceed this woman’s looks were they not heavily obese. A small jaw and unnatural pallor (induced by low-carotenoid diet and/or copper deficiency and/or no sun exposure) are unattractive. This woman is having a recessed jaw.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 08:42 PM
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My comment is mostly a spring of word vomit, but 110-130 for me is the range of people who, if focused, comprise a skilled but not genius-level bright workforce, and generally can further the social-commercial-bleh messaging of society
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 08:07 PM
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Not much cold approach, then. I thought you were talking about cold approach, which I’ve seen some women claim (online) to be common, but of course my own experience is that it’s uncommon. My experience is both from observing the public and working with women and hearing or being peripherally in the conversation where they’re talking about men shooting their shot
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 06:43 PM
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People can do that, I’m not necessarily speaking to my personal love live or whether or not I am in love with anyone, with that giant garbled wall of letters up there. I’m just speaking to the sickening social disparities that we have, and the mental illnesses that arise from unending exposure to attractive and competent people, propaganda, and how these and other things work into our brains and fester. My body, my choice ——> destroy one’s body, but present it in a propagandistic way with advert…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 06:40 PM
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I wish I were a bot, but I don’t even know how to program computers
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 05:55 PM
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You’re naive, my friend! In the name of rhetoric and condescension, I call you friend! But evoking discomfort and skepticism - OPENLY - is the way to progress as a species. As I make you uncomfortable, and as you me, we will help further the advancement of humanity
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 05:47 PM
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How often do you get approached, lady? I’ve approached about 200 women, and for about 100 of these approaches I established either a question of romantic interest, or a compliment reasonably expected to show romantic interest. I have rarely seen a man approach women as I have, outside of homeless beggars (typically the vagrants don’t even approach, they wait for you to approach obligatorily per your course of travel, and then stare at you and speak until you answer or they get no response) I res…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 05:43 PM
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Big tech and Big Bureaucracy are working overtime to put 110-130 IQ worker bee stem and marketing-related graduates into jobs that further the beleaguerment of young men - dating apps (algorithms), social media tech support and moderators (to allow rampant parading of erotic female form and of Chad male form without skepticism, a tongue in cheek, or a concomitant eye roll), advertising, policy makers (to see that agendae roll forward - we are fed bread and circus, Spectacle and [cum] Receptacle …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 05:37 PM
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Boyo
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 05:45 AM
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Maybe so! I’m just trying to be open to the idea, because at least for me, I’m doing so badly on dating apps, that it’s most likely the case that a lot more women would be receptive to me if I met them through social groups
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 05:31 AM
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I fell in love with a woman who wasn’t my first choice among the matches I had on tinder. I don’t remember but ONE of the others than the woman I fell in love with, whom I had at the time,to this day. And that one I remember? She’s a mess, and not attractive. I do remember a lot of other matches, but none did I have any connection with, or were very interested in me, or I otherwise ruined chances of going anywhere with them (year one of dating for me) That being said, just because a person isn’t…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 05:22 AM
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He seems very high IQ… and the genetics support that notion. how are we missing his diction, elocution, the way he responds to questions?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 06:41 AM
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Those are some pretty silly things to say, even if we assume some of them are said comedically. But, just because he’s saying things on the level of what all of us think at various times throughout our lives doesn’t mean that he is evil, SAs people, kidnaps women, or does any of that evil stuff. To label any person as [pick your politically incorrect epithet] doesn’t deserve to be the ultimate silencer. Hard standards should be set for what behavior is unacceptable, but ACTIONS matter far more t…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 06:32 AM
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A woman who is decent won’t mind (IMO) if you act like you are unphased by having an escort, and you are not ashamed or weird about recounting it. Almost all high status, even highly physically attractive men, essentially have escorts. Women [MODELS, RICH WOMEN, ACTRESSES] don’t just have sex with DiCaprio or Andrew Tate or [insert high value male] solely because of their looks. It’s also because they have money, status, bachelor pads, yachts, expensive alcohol, commodities, and other people cha…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 11:58 PM
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Should it likewise be illegal to have sex with someone who is sleep deprived and later regrets it? Anecdotally, when I was drunk, the one time I was drunk, I immediately could discern my eye movements and perception slowing down, and I immediately realized that I needed to not only stop drinking ASAP, but guard my belongings and well-being like a hawk. I then proceeded to navigate back to get a taxi in Honduras back to my cruise ship, by myself, where I turned down an offer by the taxi driver to…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 07:34 AM
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Do you realize the other side of the story? I am a person who grew enough to take an opportunity to risk everything by telling her. By all * discernible* measures, I’ve handled the aftermath much worse than she has. Before you cast away and condemn me, you need to realize how common liars are - everyone lies. You know sex offenders, scoundrels, people who have taken cheap shots to hurt others and derive pleasure from the suffering of others - whose actions will all go to the grave and/or only un…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 06:21 PM
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Well, I went into the relationship entirely inexperienced both socially and romantically. I lied about small things from the start, and by 3.5 years into the relationship, I was way less attracted. We went from sex 3 times a day sometimes, maybe 4 as a record, to once every month towards the end. (Relationship is on pause now because she is sorting things out, obviously, after my revelation to her) Her looks have changed a bit for the worse from age 18 to 24, but it’s not substantial enough to b…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 03:41 AM
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If you love someone, age doesn’t change that. So, you might want to rephrase the question. Nothing will ever rid me of the memories of the woman I fell in love with, her looks could change and I wouldn’t care. However, I do have an issue, which is that I’ve lost the raw sexual attraction to her that I used to have, and I also cheated on her for years until I confessed to her. But that being said, I always loved her, always will, and my loss of interest in sex with her isn’t correlated with her a…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 03:00 AM
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Women also have their instincts. We are all born to fuck and seek, and while some of us are lifetime true-to-commitment, very few would be deemed adultery free with respect to fantasy about others while in a relationship - and just like most people will lie on the record that they don’t eat boogers, that they haven’t done tax fraud or other illegal activites, or admit they cheated in a college course, most people who would admit they’ve never fantasized or desired to cheat are liars. This is my …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 11:52 PM
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Majorly overthinking it. If she is attracted enough, it won’t matter. I had a girl who was the most blunt about wanting sex also ask to FT me the day befor we met. She was obviously already down! But most women are lukewarm, because their options are x1000 or x10,000, but usually I think she would be very clearly tense or disengaged if she isn’t interested, so just look out for those signs
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 08:21 PM
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Cold approach game can vary tremendously. Teen boys in a group of 2-3 walking around a busy target and approaching a group of 2-5 girls their age, way different. Really attractive guy approaching about anyone anywhere - very different from an average guy approaching anyone, anywhere. Game doesn’t matter that much if you have an active demonstration of worth, like friends, or being really handsome. Anyway, this is my account, as a man of 60th percentile facial attractiveness for a young man, and …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 11:39 PM
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Yes, I had sex with one woman off of cold approach. There were another 3-5 I could have potentially gone on to lay with, but, as I was cheating at the time and this made me more tense and sus and add to that the fact that I was using a “green text” non iPhone burner program, and that I literally rejected some of the women for fear that they would cling and bring havoc on me, i desisted. But anyway, one cold approach lay and one warm approach lay from a random stranger lay during my cold approach…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 11:32 PM
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I won’t get over my first love, and I have valid philosophical / personal / in principe reasons for it. I’m a guy. That being said, I won’t attempt to take my woe out on others as punishment. I won’t revel in leading women on and trying to crush them emotionally
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 01:55 AM
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You don’t get what it’s like to have a lot of testosterone pushing us to want sex, and conditioning telling us that we’re worthless if the opposite sex doesn’t clamor over us
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 08:02 AM
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Imo, men might be more honest, on average and perhaps more faithful, but usually it’s just because the stakes are higher, and it’s harder for them to get away with it. We also need to consider long term faithfulness - women initiate more divorces, which could be seen as the ultimate unfaithfulness. I saw a Chloe Roma short on YouTube today about women and faithfulness - she seems to be barking up the same tree that I’ve been circling. I’m a guy who has cheated and confessed to my love about it. …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 01:22 AM
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Gtfo gains goblin
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 02:25 AM
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This is completely true. People suck a lot of the time. I am just one of many young men who was intelligent, yet socially inexperienced, naive, weak-willed, obsessive, and idealistic to a point that red pill ideas seemed like a really pertinent message, but it did herald in some new ideas
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 05:10 PM
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No one is loyal you dafties - no one who isn’t asexual and has the ability to perceive and think of something they’re sexually attracted to. And going by the common accepted definition of loyalty - ignoring the infidelity in the mind only element - there is no type of person who is loyal besides loyal people, and just like celebrities and athletes taking steroids, students cheating, and criminals trying to avoid getting caught - you can’t reliably predict who cheats, and it sure as hell can’t be…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 12:14 AM
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Just get dna from any sex partner you have. Swipe some vaginal secretion from the condom and submit it for genetic testing for any new sex you have. EZ PZ
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 07:00 PM
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I was the one who stopped enjoying it, but the woman I love also lost some of the attraction. She used to give BJs, but she lost interest. It’s likely that she stopped because I stopped meeting her needs, but could also be due to a dip in attraction
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 10:35 PM
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Do you want me to remove my comments? I’ll gladly do that. Just message me, please
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 05:25 PM
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I’m sorry for eliciting these excruciating feelings for you, I didn’t meant to do that. I just was trying to go into this thread to unfurl some complex thoughts I have. I am sorry that what I said has done this, and if I had experienced what you have, I know it would change the way I see the world also
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 05:04 PM
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I had panic attacks from age 6 to my late teens when I would be by myself because I thought the earth had been raptured in Tribulation, and that I would be damned to an eternity in hell. Constantly in fight-or-flight. I was also socially anxious, couldn’t stand my body or voice, and got called nerd, jew, half-black, and plenty of other things derisively as a child. I also got suffocated out by several larger kids from my church
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 05:02 PM
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Can you have a dialogue instead of that?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 04:55 PM
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I had my own traumas, but I actually wish I had been violated because it would make it easier for me to gain sympathy from others, because other people don’t realize how much suffering I have gone through, because I didn’t get sexually assaulted. I’m not justifying pederasty, but look - due to Sorites paradox, there are defining lines which are arbitrary which can determine whether a person is punished for an action. I can give examples for you, if you want to hear what I have to say. Another th…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 04:53 PM
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I’m not stating that anything should be changed, or that it is ever right for an adult to act on a child as so deemed in X region by Y legislation. I will state what I am talking about if you ask me to state it
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 04:48 PM
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I would have probably benefitted or at least remained neutral had my 37 year old lady, 8th grade science teacher made a move on me. I wish she had. However, this doesn’t make pederasty valid, by any stretch of the imagination. I do, however, believe that ALL things are up for questioning, besides the outright highjacking of the psychology, autonomy, and neural linkage of another human via rape, torture, and murder. I believe that those three above are indisputably detrimental and evil, and the o…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 04:42 PM
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If you put a woman (or man) into social isolation, they’ll go crazy. If you put a woman especially into a situation where there is specifically no validation and compliments, I bet that will drive them crazy even more favorably and speedy than it will do so to a man. Likewise, lack of sex can do the same thing
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 03:20 PM
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I’m a mostly straight guy and tbh, I have a man crush on some ugly guy teachers too. Intelligence and charisma go a long way.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 10:29 PM
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You’re missing the flashing lights - this is a Reddit-ABCnews satire of the prototypical Fedora-Clad Euphorique’s backhanded means of getting laid. Smell the silver lining, brah
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 12:56 AM
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The Thailand thing - isn’t so much of a concern unless there was rape or the women were under the age of legality in the country itself, providing that the individual did have sex with those people on a spontaneous basis after having traveled to the region. The rape thing - pretty fucking contentious and pushing the envelope hard on whether that person is redeemable, UNLESS perhaps the individual did this as a 10-15 year old or perhaps as a 10-19 year old who was highly inebriated and just someh…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 02:15 AM
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All of this spectrum of geosexographic creepery is dictated by either looks or threat of violence and trauma. Sex tourism to lenient nations reg. A.O.C. for pursuit of sexual anachronism / pederasty / breaching of consent — inherent levying of psychological trauma and/or violence. Sex importation of a monolingual, diminutive adult with minimal skills or status — potential for levying harm via Stockholm tactics Looks can be conflated in this because the extent to which a partner is willing to be …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 07:47 PM
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I don’t trust people to not cheat, but because of this, I would look for someone like myself, because even though I have cheated, I know that I actually love my partner that I cheated on. I probably just don’t know enough men to know who is actually likely to be completely truthful, but it’s not looking good. Almost all of the movie stars, childhood idols, musicians, even this pastor named Bob Coy that I listened to as a kid ended up all being philanderers or worse in their lifetimes. The way I …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 02:55 AM
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It isn’t necessarily all good. I hope she will come around to accept, forgive, or give me another go, but who knows. I understand if she doesn’t. She obviously loves me, but she is angry and conflicted about everything, understandably so
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 04:07 AM
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It’s complicated. It’s certainly not at all rape in most straight sexual partnerships. There is some obligation to have sex with the more wanting partner. I was the partner who was less willing to provide sex for the better half of my relationship, and I’m a man. My partner is / was a woman who has never been on birth control, who has normal and regular periods. She and I have both lost our initial lust, and she stopped giving my blowjobs about 3-3.5 years into the relationship, and I have large…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 03:39 AM
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I didn’t withhold sex from her because she wouldn’t suck my penis. In 2019, I reached out to my father and went into tears asking for advice and support because I saw that I was no longer feeling the desire for my girl that I once had, and I was hoping he might have something helpful to offer. He didn’t, really. My loss in the initial attraction and lust had nothing to do with her eventual loss in interest in providing head. But rather; her disinterest in giving head caused more of a challenge t…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 03:13 PM
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Women don’t seem to understand that some men are truly connected, dependent upon, in love with, etc, with them, yet still have sexual desires with other women . I recently came clean to my woman, the one I love more than anything and anyone, of 6 years, that I have cheated and lied. It was obvious to both she and I that our initial lust had died off - we went from making out and sex daily to cuddling, hugging, kissing each other on the cheeks and forehead, and sex maybe once every 3 days, within…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 02:27 PM
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You don’t need a degree to make money, who gives a fuck? A percent of lawyers make a million per year, they don’t have a masters, and some lawyers making 1,000,000 usd have spent less time combined in undergrad and law school than some people with an MBA, probably
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 05:48 AM
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What actually defines an autistic person, though? autistic people TEND to have a different facial phenotype, and for example, autism has been linked to high prenatal testosterone exposure - but in many other examples of scientific research, prenatal testosterone level has been linked to social dominance, sexual prowess, and other positive markers. Autism, however, is also linked to late age of one or both parents at conception. Personally, I’ve had people call me autistic on the internet too man…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 07:42 PM
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Tell me that you’re either delusional or have grade A dopamine receptors and neural architecture (but a lack of the empathy to understand that others aren’t so blessed!) without directly stating which one it is, OP!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 03:50 PM
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CMV, modern women have all fallen for a hottie McHot from their past, and they actually haven’t been able to separate sex from romance, thus they are pair-smitten, not pair-bonded, and whatever they say and do is to cope with heartbreak
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 03:19 PM
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I’m not just going off of faith, did you read what I wrote? Have you been around drug addicts and prostitutes, did you lose your oral and manual virginity to a woman twice your age (34 to my 19) who was smart as a whip but who due to her hedonism, could only settle for a 6’ tall sperm donor with a master’s degree, and who is now a single mother after waiting all those years of being smart as a whip to sportfuck hot guy babes instead of building a family? Have you been a sex addict before? Anyway…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 02:53 PM
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I was steeped in religion, rebelled internally against it once I faced how ridiculous it is that an omnipotent and Omnibenevolent god would even create a route for eternal torment given that he has foreknowledge of all choices, plus the stories, etc. But I have found myself ideologically coming back to faith, and beyond reason, I acknowledge; I have felt the tides turning in me. While as a child, I couldn’t rectify the SLIVER of doubt (I’m Protestant, of course) which I felt would send me to Hel…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 02:34 PM
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But why would someone with the desire, ability, and work ethic to get 3.5+ GPA resort to hedonism? I just told you that if I, personally, had the self-discipline to get a doctorate, I would transcend the need to be carnal to make a dollar. I guess with women, since they don’t need to earn to be carnal, it becomes chase of decreasing dopamine hits as well, and a woman who isn’t centered in God, Conservatism, or Family might find herself doing increasingly degenerate behaviors, despite the frequen…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 05:23 AM
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If they had the wit and work ethic to get PhD.s, WHY are they working plumb against the underbelly? Are they drug addicts, unemployable, sex addicts, or something else? If I had the ability to get a PhD in math, chemistry, computer science, a JD, almost anything, I would much rather work a typical job than be a gigolo, porn star, or male stripper; because moreover, having the work ethic and stoicism that I imagine one must have to attain a valuable credential doesn’t lend itself to the being a p…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 02:39 AM
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All I’m meaning to discuss is the high efficacy of proper condom use - I’m not proud to have had a sex addiction and paid for prostitution many times
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 07:51 PM
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Can you offer me some empathy and think about what I’m saying, rather than writing me off?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 05:09 PM
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I’m scientifically minded, bisexual, emotional, rational. I have done many things and seen things from many perspectives, and that’s why I’m here. Sex workers have a higher STI rate than the (non LGBTQ) non-sex workers that I have typically had sex with. Because I wasn’t ever having hook ups with people from parties and clubs (or apparently with old people at retirement homes, because i often see it quoted that the elderly have very high rates of infection) , I didn’t ever have sex with the peop…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 05:02 PM
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Why don’t you just use condoms and finish him inside the condom with your hands, or swallow with no hands or drippage? This is what I did for years in a relationship. Not only did I never get her pregnant (she is a virgin to all forms of BC), but I also have never gotten an STD during sex, including gay sex, top and bottom, and sex with various LGBTQ individuals and sex workers. Condoms, pull-out before a manual finish, avoiding any form of drippage and cross contamination, and sterile practices…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 02:58 PM
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It’s one thing to default to seeking sexual gratification in a superficial and consensual way, a slightly more grave thing to seek that gratification under the false veil of commitment, and another to coerce sexual gratification with another person’s body. Most men are either up front and merely might cause an annoyance or disgust to women in their pursuits of sex, and relatively few men and few scenarios involve coercion - and the resistance to coercion depends on empathy. The vast majority of …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 07:11 PM
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I also found the love of my life in a place I never expected. And it was just in the pursuit of sex. But I became the worse partner, not the better. I was a liar from the beginning because of my inadequacies and insecurity and compulsion and lack of feeling that I could be ok. I didn’t have sex with her until dating over a month, also, so she put it off for a long time, and it was her first time
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 04:13 PM
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Can you eat 1,100 calories per day indefinitely, cut out all ten of your favorite foods and beverages, lose your best friend, and several other really uncomfortable things that will occur for the remainder of your life? That’s kind of what it’s like. Btw I’m a guy who cheated on the woman I love and I came clean to her 6 weeks ago. I met her when I was 20, and I built small lies up. I thought I would go indefinitely without telling her, but I changed over time, and I’ve been in hell mentally sin…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 03:02 AM
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Because we have sex drives. Unfortunately, I can’t revert all the neural pathways to their pre-pubertal status, where I didn’t know what sex was, had never had an orgasm, and only had minimal interest in the opposite sex. Hell, I wish I could!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 02:47 AM
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Success in dating requires a combination of physical endowment and pure genetic traits, crossed with effective efforts at self-improvement which includes social skill development and commitment to foraying into the social jungle - effective self-development also depends somewhat on pure genetic and early childhood developmental attributes, as a person’s cognitive architecture, dopamine pathways, intelligence, etc, are formed of the coal and iron of genetics in the crucible and at the hands of th…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 02:08 AM
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Since you all on this subreddit want to talk about low status men, but you’re mostly flaming liberals / woke token altruists, why don’t you address the elephants in the room of differences in IQ and childhood trauma? Also, you want to know what you all can do about your hordes of undesirable men? There is a solution to the problem, I’ve linked the answer in the video below a humorous decontextualized insinuation of how your elitists can personally deal with the burgeoning issue of low value men
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 03:35 AM
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Actually, COVID vaccine distribution is probably close to Pareto. 182 shots have been administered per 100 Americans, and about 1/5 Americans are unvaccinated. It’s conceivable that the top 20% have received 3x as many doses as the average person who has been vaccinated
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 04:39 AM
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This is the redpill. They want all of us to be puppets. And by they, there’s hardly one bogeyman; just a decentralized mass of idiots and savants with different specialties, narcissists and psychopaths who, though they might be despicable people, are as hollow and feeble inside as we are, and their positions of prestige are an illusion. All that matters are our personal journeys for enlightenment, moral betterment, compassion and awareness and self and others
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 10:03 PM
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Address the things I mentioned, broody-boo I’m not trying to get women anymore, I’m only standing up for the tongue-tied, acting as an advocate for the devil (metaphorically), and trying to push some of you guys to reconsider your (ostensible) beliefs, such as that traumas only matter and demand reprieve when a person is a child, and the idea that “suck it up *****” is a message that isn’t a massive double standard when compared to that which is given to mostly non-native anglophone and/or non-w…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 05:18 AM
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To what degree are you going to push the envelope with the idea that a person having experienced significant trauma possesses complete agency? We know that environmental factors influence neurology, cognition, and social and physical development. We know that certain traumas and deficiencies can manifest in gross forms of stunting. People shouldn’t get free pass to do whatever, but shitting on low value men or women because they’re low value, downtrodden, dumb, inept, and bitter is essentially t…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 04:44 AM
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Do you guys blame a child who gets physically and sexually abused for the behaviors they exhibit as adults, or does any programming instilled by poor upbringing doff all liability once a person attains a certain age?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 04:25 AM
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True, but a bad environment produces bad results. And it’s also misogynistic, technically, to malign (assuming that you ARE maligning) men by comparing their behavior to that of women
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 02:36 AM
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How self aware are you? The op and studies are not about the man controlling the woman. They’re about perceived social dominance and physical strength of a man. Imagine a person who, though they possess great prowess, is a sensitive lover and compassion. Can you get much better than that?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 05:31 PM
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Just start thinking about dick when you’re about to get rejected… hit on the nearest guy
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 03:40 AM
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The problem is that we should all be uplifting ugly people all the time. You see an old ugly person alone - you help them cross the street. You see an ugly, short 23 year old guy who can barely lift his arm, has voice quavers, and can’t hold eye contact - you become his friend and invite him to hang with you and your friends. Etc, etc. We have a neoliberal, narcissistic, societal obsession with egalitarianism, spouting off about the importance of mental health, and treating people equally, yet a…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 08:53 PM
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In my opinion this is kind of non-issue. If you swoop into unis and community colleges, you can mesh with college-aged girls regardless of how big of a city you’re in. And the big city attracts women with high standards, so you probably need to be a standout to do much in a big city
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 01:30 AM
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Do a macho man randy savage impersonation and start walking like a cowboy in spurs. Or say, “freeze, asshole!” but say it without any sort of real edge or hate in your intonation - go watch the Sam Hyde sketch, officer maggot, for reference. Of course, if you start doing zany abrasive stuff like this, you’ll probably be best to start packing a firearm on your person, but would you rather be a powerful chick who is both funny and worthy of the rapport and approval of both right wing incels and fe…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 12:40 AM
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It seems to me that a lot of girls will have 1-4 vaginal sex partners which aren’t LTRs, and will have a few non vaginal sex hook up buddies, and 1-3 LTRs before they get married. Promiscuous chicks or girls that like to party I’m college will likely average about 10-30 sex partners cumulatively by the end of their tenure in school. You can research people and their sexual history by talking to people in college, using dating apps (is she on tinder?), and meeting her family and friends if you go…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 10:53 PM
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I’ve cheated, and I have had panic attacks the whole time, saw the partners i cheated with as nothing more than a random person, I didn’t let the partners know anything about me or open up to them to any degree but mutual masturbation, used fake name or only gave my first name, and I , wait , DID I mention that my childhood age 4-15 was spent with intermittently having an intense fear that I would be cast into hell and that I was good for nothing, and that nobody likes me, and that nothing about…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 09:08 PM
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Castration is effective against repeat sex offenses. People also can cheat EVEN THOUGH they feel absolutely horrible about it because it is a form of COMPULSION/ ADDICTION linked to past trauma, just like any kind of addictive behavior. These things noted above in my comment are in defense of cheating being not seen as strictly as some people would like to see it. Only psychopaths and people who cause great harm knowingly against their conscience deserve extensive punitive measures IMO, and I do…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 08:47 PM
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In most of the US, men are going for women age 16-40, and if we’re talking about high school guys from age 15 to 18, they’re going for girls aged 14 and up, realistically. Therefore, what you’re saying is silly because plenty of women are available, and the ranges can even extend higher than age 40. There are guys at age 20 who want to bang a 45 year old nympho, trust me; I’ve been there. I dug my 38 year old science teacher when I was 12, oh mama! But yeah the trendy pickup mystery crap is nons…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 11:28 PM
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Society preaches about egalitarianism and being sensitive to each other’s traumas, triggers, and intersections, but this never extends to men and their troubles over being ugly, socially unskilled, traumatized, and a combination of other low value male traits. The reason, OP, that your question of whether women are just more attractive, is irrelevant is that there is a DOUBLE STANDARD through which men are subjugated. The double standard is propagated because we men have more power output and st…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 02:35 PM
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(Semi satire ahead) Women don’t realize that I’m sexy as fuck. I have a long taint, which is a sign of high prenatal testosterone, and it means my dick is longer than average, just hidden inside my body. My growth was stunted, and I had a lot of childhood trauma, so I’m literally an underachiever in my height and life success. I also have a really high level of athleticism, speed, and strength. These are all things that women can’t always tell from simply looking at me. I mean, I look athletic, …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 07:24 AM
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Oo oo ee ee
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 07:07 AM
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They want younger women because the women look hotter, younger, and generally don’t have the pragmatic mindset of nesting yet, i.e. they’re less mature. But if you’re calling these men predators, you have to also call singers of your favorite bands and actors from your favorite movies, and so are the hot guys you date / hot guys with whom you’re friends who date impressionable girls with the dangling-carrot of a hint of commitment. By your logic, any man who uses his status, wealth, excessive ph…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 11:18 PM
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Maybe a Gessafelstein track
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 10:34 PM
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What’s that
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 05:04 PM
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“ I don’t need a man” is a crutch statement, and more abhorrently, it’s a pathological cliche, very much like many of the things women say and do. It directly goes against the sexual practices of women, as well as the simp recruiting practices, and for the majority of the women who say that, they will eventually break and seek an exclusive pairing. It’s all noise. And when those women have a son, they will realize that they do need a man - their little man they brought into the world - and they …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 05:32 AM
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Let me guess, you’ve never fallen in love with someone who truly cares about you, or you did, and they were a psychopath and pulled the rug out from under you? Or are you the psycho?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 05:28 AM
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Pair bonding = chad’s lunch Chad’s tea = your tears
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 05:24 AM
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Piers Morgan looks silly in this interview, I think, from a long uncut excerpt which I saw on a redpiller’s channel. I’m not presuming that he showed every counterexample, every good move made by Piers, but I don’t see why the interview is that bad. Tate sells emotion and outrage just like almost all media figures, whether the liberal and inoffensive ones, or the wacky, uncouth, authoritarian, and derisive of women having easily-acquired and loose sex by calling them sluts, where the same women …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 02:31 AM
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How is saying someone has been copulated with by a variety of men’s rods and that this causes a mess of emotions, exes, mismanaged finances, and sometimes a physical, medical mess misogynistic?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 02:24 AM
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I only got about 5-10 likes per month it seems lat time I went on there. By comparison, with in real life game, I had the chance to bang probably 10 women this year
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 04:29 AM
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This is still how big I am after lifting for 8 years. I’m optimistic that I can put on another 20 lbs of muscle, but honestly, 20 lbs is more muscle than I have put on since 8 years ago. I am only optimistic because of some YouTubers that I watch who have given me some better ideas about training - more volume, more focused exercises, taking smaller exercises close to failure, and better consistency and frequency of training, and finally better focus with my diet. https://i.imgur.com/idzAEjR.jpg
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 01:05 PM
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Look at my recent post history and you’ll see examples of this from far before the pandemic. But ignore my long post about dental hygiene, I’m sure you will
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 05:35 PM
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Because, first of all, my parents believed that they were doing me right. They are the epitome of people who delay gratification in their behaviors, who give unto others, and who are slow to anger. They were exceptional with respect to each of their families, rising above many of the issues held by their families, and surpassing their kin in achievement, academically and otherwise. Second of all, they didn’t understand the exact issues I went through. And frankly, no one understands the environm…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 09:05 PM
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They sent me to therapy at age 6, a very good psychologist in practice for decades. I only went there for half a year, got over a big hurdle related to OCD and my trauma from a bad case of chickenpox, me screaming and crying at seeing my spots when I looked in the mirror and being embarrassed to go back to kindergarten. However, I somewhat inexplicably developed a strong aversion to hugging, vocal inflection, and expressing love (i became known as a very serious, monotone kid, people would actua…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 08:28 PM
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How can you guarantee that? My mother and father are incredible role models, public servants, and kind people. But despite that, I grew up fearing everything, from god exacting damnation on me because I had an inkling of doubt about my faith which I realized at age 6-7, to fearing social interactions, expressing love (even an inability to utter or write the words on a birthday or holiday card “I love you” , beginning at about age 8, and an aversion/embarrassment/fight or flight/blush/ panic atta…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 08:19 PM
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Some of acknowledge it, some of us do. But most people will view your thread with glazed over eyes and a brief amygdala spike before denying and not allowing any consideration of your argument
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 07:44 PM
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What would you think if you had a son who is socially inexperienced, sensitive and would never harm anyone, be it assault, sexual assault, or murder, with no history of arrest and isn’t known to be violent or disagreeable at all. Would you like it if your son perpetually had himself dug deeper into a hole of self-loathing because of his inability to communicate with people due to their lack of authenticity and their assuming that your son is “bad” , even though you know that your son isn’t bad o…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 07:39 PM
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There’s an amount of stress - stimulus - that a person can recover from. This is a well studied concept, also a foundation of psychology, exercise science. I’m exaggerating about having to masturbate to exhaustion, but I have certainly ejaculated about 5,000 times in my life since the first one at age 11, about 16 years ago. I wish I could say that the stresses I faced as a child could have culminated in me being more inoculated against future stress, but unfortunately, being sick a lot, getting…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 01:10 PM
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You don’t have as much testosterone as we do and you had to practice and engrain the skill of rejecting men constantly during your upbringing as a woman. We as men don’t develop the skill of declining. We starve and thirst in a desert of inferiority and rejection; and then we get a constant stream of testicle juice beginning at puberty which further serves to smack us repeatedly in the face until we put our dick into someone or masturbate to exhaustion
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 02:51 AM
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Pornography fucked me up. I was a wreck because of my introspection, religious paranoia, social trauma, OCD, and everything came together to lead me to be the most scared, guilt ridden, self-hating, unable to open up person I’ve known who doesn’t have a schizoid condition or such a degree of low impulse control as to be a violent criminal. I’ve borne every type of guilt because of the person I’ve become, even though I am a person with empathy who hasn’t hurt anyone or ever sought to. But my abil…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 02:09 AM
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Desensitization and disloyalty are the reasons
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 01:12 AM
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7 to 3 is a lot more balanced than I’d have thought. I’ve heard 3:1 and 4:1 in US, 2.3:1 is not bad But then you have the sex workers and attention grabbers
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 06:01 PM
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I don’t actually think any one person can know for sure if someone is a virgin or has a high or a an average n-count or if they’re a virgin only for PIV sex simply by talking to them, I think you can only get a probabilistic guess, and actually being friends with a person or an acquaintance with them can make the probability higher. But there’s NO way to know anything like this for sure. Not YET. There will be, however, once neural linking begins.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 06:31 PM
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Wait up. I laid down that wall of text as a journal entry with some ideas to later dissect before I took a literal nap. It’s not an attack on you. I’m just putting thoughts to paper. The first three “paragraph” chunks are the only parts that are specific relevant thoughts to this thread and it’s question of deceit, ease of pinpointing deceit, and my extension of whether or not deceit itself with regards to N count or adultery even matters in and of itself. And the part about my likening you to a…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 05:50 PM
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In that case, it means you hide your pursuit of sexual jollies well, which IMO means that unless you’re a psychopathic evil person, it shouldn’t even matter what you do or did. Unless you get into a relationship and confess that you’ve been cheating and that you don’t love the partner, IMO you’re in the clear. I think cheating without consequence is a tree falling in the woods. If no one sees it, it’s just between the ground and the tree. On the other hand if you’re dating a hypergamous psycho w…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 04:33 PM
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The idea is that a guy can figure out you’re a virgin or not by being in your friend zone in social propinquity to you for long enough and seeing how glued you are to your phone, how you get along with friends, how much you look in the mirror and take selfies, how vain you are, what you do at parties. But this requires the guy to play it cool and like he doesn’t give a hell, and really this is pro social game - play it like you’re just there to “be”, and you will enjoy simply “being”, and in the…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 03:30 PM
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Attractive guys don’t have the chip on their shoulder that normal men do, and by and large they got to have sex when they were in middle to high school, so they don’t have the impulse to over compensate by reaching high N count
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 03:26 PM
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No one could tell you that I got a rusty trombone from 45 year old man just by looking at me. You can’t always glean everything about a person. Some people hide these things from even themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 03:22 PM
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Are you a guy…My experience as a guy is going through life being battered by slaps and gut punches of inferiority, FOMO, sexual lust. Each day, rinse and repeat. If I see or hear something, it might just set off my heart a-beating out of my chest in a combination of frustration, anxiety, and lust. It’s exhausting! And yet it’s so delicious to accommodate that lust. It’s necessary most days to masturbate just to be able to fall asleep.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 05:25 PM
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A parched straggler in a desert would drink cadmium water if it meant he would quench his thirst. A young woman is likened to poison water We as men carry out the demand, or thirst, for young women. Lo, we do not pull the biochemical trigger to create thirst, but rather it is a natural impulse to which we are susceptible. Thus, for a woman to be appreciated by many men is as much an accomplishment as cadmium water to be appreciated by a parched straggler, or drug appreciated by a hankering addic…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 05:03 PM
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It’s normalized for women to do, and so women already have it easy, plus they get to sell sex and beg on dating apps scot free . I could be going out getting money from gay men, but I generally don’t do that. I did it briefly but quit because there’s so much shame. But for women, it is seen as perfectly fine, I think. Do you even know how much testosterone binds to my receptors in a year? even if I told you, you wouldn’t believe me. Do you know what would happen if my testosterone stopped going …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 03:26 AM
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The attractive men get to be the men who fuck the women in OF videos. We young men are faced with our own worthlessness, mediocrity, internal moral and existential emotional traumas, AND finally the boldfaced notion that simply because we aren’t developed properly, we have to pay for just a skosh of what some other guys have thrown at them
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 02:57 AM
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Body count doesn’t matter if you’re a chick and won’t either attempt paternity fraud, manipulation of her man through adultery, a bipolar or schizoid or borderline careless exposure to stds, mugging, or any public exposure that will damage your partner and or family. TLDR body count and cheating, in my opinion, don’t matter ONLY if you leave those activities entirely in the bedroom and they have no further impact or harm on anyone else. But people like to do some of the careless or manipulative …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 10:06 PM
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You lusted after another woman eh?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 03:37 AM
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Sex is a drug. It is well documented that people lose the initial attraction thus requiring novel stimuli to be sexually gratified, and considering many of us were steeped in our sexual development with pornography and other heinously inappropriate and traumatic adolescences, “cheating” is just a must. Men are biologically programmed to want to “cheat”. “Cheating” isn’t malicious by default. It’s a seeking of some form of sexual gratification to scratch an incessant itch. Like Greg Doucette says…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 03:29 AM
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I see scholastic sex education as prophylaxis and compensation. It’s a preemption of damage, not an endorsement of pleasure. (I’m not necessarily opposing your view, I’m just stating what I think it is) Besides, shouldn’t basic principles of reciprocity, consent, communication, golden rule, lend themselves towards sex rookies learning what feels good organically?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 03:04 PM
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You mean teaching 10-11 year olds in school about how to get off?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 02:28 PM
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What are numpties and what does the offhand about men searching for muscular daddy videos imply?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 02:24 PM
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We want to scratch the itch in our brain that is constantly giving us heart palpitations and anxiety, telling us to win over ladies, hit skin, make out and have sex constantly, both telling us that we are worthless beings unless we get sex and also flashing ass and boobs like a 1 million lumen lamp straight into the eyes of our brain. Constant reminders both of the earthy, deeply ingrained need to bust nuts and grab ass, but also the heady, unique-to-human-level-consciousness derivation of self …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 08:02 PM
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Yeah. And as I made this comment, I get it too. Deceit is seen as a bad thing, and I argue that it IS objectively a bad thing, even though there are hugely varying degrees of how bad deceit is. If someone is hiding child rape or cold blooded murders by lying, that’s a different issue than a young man hinting exclusivity and interest but who probably isn’t particularly emotionally-yielding to a woman going NC on her after hitting some skin. Especially if that woman herself isn’t particularly inte…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 09:34 PM
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Vibe and intent are the key the minds of normies. If your intent is to pump and dump it’s not ok, unless you’re either open about it, or you’re really hot, or you’re really cool and high status. But, if you’re really cool or really hot, then you were already in the open about it, weren’t ya?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 09:28 PM
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Please kindly remind your friend to never trust raw… the paranoia of thinking you may buy the home in Venezuela is just too strong, I don’t care what kind of prophylactic and ARV drugs they have
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 04:37 PM
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I was on the PSL forums - I have already racked up more than average from ho0k3rs. That makes it a separate count from my normal lays. But yes, there are definitely types of guys who NEVER put even a slight effort into dating apps, who are truly as awkward or as shy and unable to escalate as the textbook 30 year old virgin Aspberger, but those guys are rare. Most guys are somewhere along the spectrum of willing to either work a little, not afraid to escalate, or not afraid to get out their walle…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 04:35 PM
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Men can fuck prostitutes and have penetrative gay sex - THOSE explain it perfectly. Also more incentive for some guys to lie to inflate their numbers
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 04:32 PM
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Hugh Laurie
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 03:17 AM
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Looks in a stationary photo isn’t their entire physical presentation in person. There are things about a person, structurally, that are shown and heard in person that are immutable, ASIDE from social skills. Sometimes what you’re saying is true, it is definitely a cop-out. But on one hand, what do you have to say to ugly guys who have to adopt a submissive, catering attitude just to not get ignored or treated like a creep? Or what do you say to the guy who has to develop 95th percentile social s…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 11:55 PM
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Screw you! And your eyebrows But seriously, judgemental people like I presume you are who like to call upon others to be silenced and to instill shame in others are a problem. Reserve judgement and ostracism for people who actually deserve it, upon a fair trial!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 06:34 PM
1

There are women who are very much worth emotionally validating, but it is very true that women are obsessed with validation and have very high thresholds for fulfillment. They utilize orbiters and dating apps for this fulfillment, leading people on with the veiled intent of never meeting up
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 08:17 PM
1

My mom holds Ayn Rand at an arm’s length - my mom doesn’t appreciate the base evaluation of people on their physical attributes, but she is also not under the illusion that the hierarchy of man doesn’t matter. My mom was never sultry or indulgent. She’s extremely hardworking. Believe, I had a hell of a Madonna complex about women because of the amazing example from my mother, and the fact that she was too afraid to hurt me and just didn’t specialize in childhood psychology to adequately prepare …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 07:48 PM
1

The thing is, I admire Ayn Rand heavily because she is straightforward and logical. In fact, she’s like my mother, especially in terms of intellectual ability, if my mother were not religious and had less of a cuddly disposition
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 07:38 PM
3

Being a loner at a decent high school of relatively decent people which produced mainly me being invisible or pitied rather than receiving outright bullying, having hands-off parents who mainly come across as sexually prudish but also irreverent enough to be in love with sarcasm and headiness, 4chan, then other websites, YouTube drama, having my feelings played by girls at my first job (I wasn’t trying to court them, I was so naive even up til 21 that I was waiting for a girl to ask me out) and …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 06:14 PM
1

Wooeeeee whooo cares we’re freaks!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 05:03 AM
0

Slutty mom - “everyone fucked my mom” Slutty dad - “my dad fucked everyone” Which is something your kids would be more proud of?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 03:53 AM
2

I don’t know anything about computers, by the way. All I know is that, assuming we are able to access thoughts, many things will be out there to which we haven’t given sufficient thought. The illegal neural videos territory is that which I most recently pondered. Almost every man, woman, and child will become a producer of illegal videos and murderous rampage ideations which will have to be filtered to maintain the status quo
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 01:22 AM
1

Data breaches will occur, data collection only declared in sneaky shrink-wrapped text and mere disregard by users will result in illegal thoughts and content reaching the internet - threats, CP, ideations, indiscretions, past actions abounding
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 01:19 AM
1

No - I’ve never heard of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 12:45 AM
1

You’re supposed to disagree with me, brah
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 12:45 AM
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Women kick men who are down, whether it be by silencing men who try to explain themselves, expressing their feelings, speaking about traumas, or calling for an opportunity to appeal
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 06:35 PM
1

The way I see it is this, sister - sex is casual. We’ve been fed porn since age 11-14 -us young men -we’ve seen ladies shaking their asses with full view of labia and butthole on music videos and talking about truffle butter. We think that girls want to have fun, and we think that women are just as capable of making money, and that women are equal in any every way to us guys, therefore it makes sense that women would also get what they want out of casual sex. If women are just as smart, strong, …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 12:02 AM
3

Hell yea, forum warriors
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 05:37 PM
4

I’m still very uncertain about this stuff also man and I’ve been in redpill for a long time. You know what I have no experience in? Having a lot of close female friends / mixed friend groups, which means I lack the closeness to really KNOW. And I recognize this fact about myself, the ignorance. Anecdotally, there have been very few hookups that I’ve thirdhand witnessed among peers in high school, college, and work. I actually passed up two opportunties to hook up in college, both before I had lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 05:34 PM
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You don’t know a woman with more than 9 partners? What the hell
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 04:13 PM
22

Knowledge that you can is power. The capacity is power, having choice is power, having less libido than men is power
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 04:11 PM
3

Op ; look at my recent post history . You can’t win with these people (sorry, these people), or in other words, you can’t achieve consensus or at least understanding with these people. The differences are too great
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 11:58 AM
1

It depends how hot he is
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 11:56 AM
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I got bullied, I got man-handled, crying, by my male principal when I was 6 because I couldn’t stand returning to school out of shame with chickenpox scars. Getting verbally shit on and made fun of by peers. Getting brushed aside, told I’m a loser, dork, getting made fun of for being in my head, having my teacher (she was a lady) burst out laughing at me wrinkling my forehead while resting my palms on either side, forming a grid pattern, in grade 6. I got called gay, called a pussy, an ugly 40 s…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 04:12 PM
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I hid everything … my parents were both very busy with their careers, and I always deleted my browsing history and stuff on the family computer. If I heard them coming inside I quickly cleaned up and resumed with homework. I went to a private religious school . My peers talked about sex and pornography and since my parents had only said one thing about porn - “naked people. Naked grown ups. Bad. Ruins lives”, but that yet, my peers who seemed okay were joking about sex, had parents who didn’t re…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 03:51 PM
9

Hmm, I wonder if it’s cheating on my family when I watch a cathartic drama film about familial love and a character’s arc of returning back to who matters most to them
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 02:51 PM
9

Getting addicted to porn at 12 with no guidance, sexual and emotional repression in the household, and facing social and existential traumas daily set me up for a lifetime of misery
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 02:49 PM
1

Are most women psychopaths too? Getting off the psycho topic temporarily, I’m intrigued by your words on what women crave from men. It reaches me in a slightly different, more succinct way than I’ve ever heard anyone summarize it, probably because you specifically said women feel empty without testosterone / penis validation. Coming from PSL and inkwell websites, we generalized it as an animalistic craving for genetic value, but you’ve put a different spin on it. I’d like to hear your thoughts, …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 09:28 PM
1

What does it mean to be a psychopath to you? What is the hallmark behavior of a psychopath, and what nature and degree of harm does this type of person cause?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 09:24 PM
1

On principle, should there be hassle and obstacles for a person who proceeds to talk to and pursue romance with consenting adults without harming anyone?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 09:22 PM
3

You can’t completely fix everyone’s appearance and bone structure brah. Once we have the ability to prevent scar tissue formation and reactivate every type of senescent cell (like epiphyses), then we can talk
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 06:33 PM
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I am - I just was hoping to get a feel of what OP’s feelings were when looking at that picture. It would be of psychological interest
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 03:54 PM
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I agree! I also see plenty of looks matched people, but the sexual marketplace is one of capitalism. Not everyone is a hippie at the commune sharing hits from a bong - many are engaged in the competitive, sum zero (per event) rat race, and inevitably, many people derive value from their success or lack of success in this competition.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 03:50 PM
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I agree, I’m just not optimistic that the average man can be much hotter. Idk though, I’ll admit I’ve been coping for years and simultaneously resenting, underestimating AND overestimating my own looks to the point that I am in massive cognitive dissonance about what the average is for men. All that I know for sure is that women can become far more attractive by losing weight, and that even morbidly overweight, Rubens-esque women, even if their faces are below average, are coveted and hold power…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 03:45 PM
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The average female is an overweight single mother who is primarily monogamous and 39 years old and about a 3/10, so while you’re correct, it’s very easy to be capable of being attractive as a young woman - while the following scenario would rewrite the charts on what is attractive, if all fat women suddenly reverted to a bmi between 18 and 24, with all damage reversed, all extra skin and stretch marks reversed, it would suddenly be true that 99% of young women would be our current 6/10 and up, a…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 03:24 PM
1

How does the image speak to you OP? I will say the rest of my part later
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 03:02 PM
1

A study to determine how much overlap is between redpill and alt right by…big tech and leading schools I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 11:57 PM
1

Being called an incel isn’t an insult. I bet you also think someone calling you black or a racial slur against blacks is an insult. Being black is not a bad thing, neither is being an incel; just because being either is disadvantageous in society, that doesn’t make them bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 11:55 PM
-1

Good read. I absolutely want what is preferable to me, but I can also argue upon broad principles that it is an issue
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 02:44 PM
-2

Women are often BOTH now, simultaneously
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 12:35 PM
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Redpill is just a metaphorical way to view the world and it’s uncomfortable truths. As lookism net was headlined, “forefront of the coping movement” - redpill websites are for broken people who recognize that they face great difficulties and attempt to find humor, camaraderie, and to make sense of the world. Many of them are nihilistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 08:58 PM
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You have good social skills and are probably good looking. I think you’re misjudging what most guys are like who like redpill. I’m a nerd who thinks that references to LOTR, breaking bad, Matrix, Fight Club, Terminator, etc are cool, first of all. I also grew up playing mmo and ocarina of time, so the idea of leveling up and grinding out behaviors or unlocking abilities to become better is cool to me. I think of certain ideas, like using strategic silence and eye contact, as points of reference …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 07:35 PM
2

It’s definitely night and day. The market is so stratified. I literally had a group of attractive black girls catcall me on a night out and coworkers flirt with me at work sometimes blatantly, but if I go on tinder I get almost nothing except for like, 2 OF hawkers. It has changed drastically in a few years. Maybe they shadow banned me, maybe a stunning IG account and pro edited leading pic, plus 2 HD demonstrated-social-value pics with the boys (+girls) are required now to get ANY kind of decen…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 06:56 PM
1

In the western world, aside from maybe crime bosses, the only people who have harems are Mormons who practice polygamy. By and large, the term harem is an archaic term which we know about due to studying the ancient world - it’s like if I were to order a sarcophagus, people would realize that I’m sarcastically talking about ordering my coffin and planning my funeral. It’s archaic! Come on, man
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 05:07 PM
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That’s a pointless distinction, because having a tiny amount of social awareness and sense of humor will lead you to grasp that the redpill community is full of hyperbole, dark humor, and self deprivation, and this is an example of hyperbole
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 04:07 PM
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they don’t work so much now (probably) because of public knowledge, algorithm, verification, etc. but you could instead ask an attractive friend to show you how his tinder profile does, but that would require you to talk to someone, which we all know is difficult!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 02:23 PM
2

For a survey to yield useful results, it has to be broad, longitudinal, it has to ask what sexual acts occurred with whom, and the survey participants must be credible. A survey can’t simply ask “have you met up on a date with an opposite sex in the last 12 months / ever via tinder?” and yield anything that can disprove that a few men are slaying many women. And frankly blue pill man, I call upon you to answer the question yourself - do you get a lot of women? If not, do you think there’s a reas…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 02:19 PM
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What data was presented that disproved the hypothesis that there is a sexual oligarchy of men on OLD?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 02:17 PM
1

How did this Reddit post clear up for you that there aren’t concentrations of many women who all have sex with a few men?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 02:16 PM
2

You might be also, brah, ya sad c**t
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 02:15 PM
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Why should I keep reading your post at all when you LEAD with a worthless statistic that 20% of millennials have met someone off tinder, or that 30% who do use tinder have met someone from tinder? Or to the statement that men are more likely to meet someone from tinder? These statements are meaningless and aren’t relevant to loose sexual hookup culture. No one said that it’s unfathomable for plain men to have EVER met up / sexed a woman from tinder at least once. And what about data to isolate t…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 02:12 PM
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Women often are deceitful and opt to call upon bureaucracy and mass ostracism, ghosting, etc to deal with unwanted advances. This sort of tactic doesn’t prevent the truly evil individuals from attempting to do their thing. It can act as a stopgap, but again, bad and insane people are not rational and empathetic in the way that appeals to bureaucracy and scolding or ostracism can do. A lot of your points come down to learned social and sociosexual expression, which not everyone gets the opportuni…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 02:53 AM
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I’m triggered by hot person because I’m not a hot person - dating apps and lack of easy friendos and club attention told me so
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 02:18 AM
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Imo, it doesn’t matter. Have a study on it if you want to. If you people knew what it’s like to be wrongfully treated and pushed down by the simpernment, then you might have less lip to give about le uggo angry white guys on le interwebs and be more understanding. It’s not about labels. Redpill is something I only cherish because it’s a cool movie reference and an expression of the desolation of the average or below man EDIT, and no, technically not just applied to men, but I’m a man, and most r…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 01:15 AM
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My children will have savage instinct, no fear of ripping a person’a gonads off and removing eyes in a jiff if someone tries to violate them
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 02:20 AM
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First paragraph, age 25 is written. Why not raise the age of consent substantially above the mean of 17.1 or whatever it is in the US? And now, I’m throwing a red herring shaped like a scarecrow going down a slippery hill on a sled- are some Continental African citizens stupid for assigning sub 16 ages of consent? Would it be culturally insensitive to assert that they are immoral for creating their statutes that way?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 02:19 AM
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I now bring to you the case of the mentally retarded 🙌
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 01:19 AM
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Bundy wasn’t an incel, he and Dahmer and Ramirez were just psycho killers. At that, all very dimorphic sexy male psycho killers
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 12:50 AM
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ER killed mostly dudes lmao. ER seems to have taken out several low status guys including himself, and he didn’t have sex because he was autistic and mentally childlike and literally feared direct rejection of a sexual proposition more than a murdering spree + infamy + chance at hell + disparagement of his family name
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 12:48 AM
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I come at you with the example of the speechless girl, or an example of the disassociated incel archetype who missed out on great swaths of socialization likely due primarily to poor luck and trauma. Do those people’s chronological ages represent the amount of brain development they’ve had?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 12:36 AM
1

Is age from time of breaching the vagina your sole proxy for cognitive development and life experience?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 12:33 AM
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What if an 18 year old man, one month from turning 19, who was born two months late (50 week gestation) who is genetically frightful and grew up with very low self-esteem and looks only 16, and who is only a junior in high school (held back) is to date a 15 year old girl who is an advanced high school junior who just turned 15 yesterday, but who was born two months prematurely (34 week gestation), and is physically imposing, high IQ, comes from a supportive and highly communicative and bonded fa…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 12:29 AM
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In the interest of being empathetic and morally consistent, I would be okay with my daughter dating a man significantly older if he smells good, has nice teeth, takes care of himself, isn’t incapable of being pleasant, doesn’t show signs of demons, can ask good questions and maintain a conversation, isn’t butt ugly and high testosterone (bad combination which produces shooters and criminals). I’d also look at a few other traits - but generally, I would have already instilled in my daughter and s…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 12:03 AM
2

16-32 is legal in around 33% of us states
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 11:56 PM
1

Likewise; teenage, high school in particular boys who slay poon like no tomorrow probably understand that they’re getting easy action, legally, that they will no longer have the social cushioning to pursue in 2-4 years. Why is this also not a problem? Why is it not also a problem, given everything is contemporaneously mutual, for a young man to slay young ladies, their friends, etc, and pass them along, but as as soon as you begin to assess older-than-teens or Supra-drinking age men dating teen …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 11:52 PM
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Most women aren’t like that, besides, do you ever hear what girls say about the sexual experiences with hot guys, a lot of the time even those are lackluster encounters, yet they keep going back because they want vagina tingles from hot guys
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 02:02 AM
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Children are receptive to what behaviors they see before them. And personally, I took things VERY literally as a child, part of which as because of my traumas and being tired all the time due to sleep apnea, allergies, and allergy meds. So basically, I needed things to be explained very directly. Let me use dental hygiene as an example in regards to being shown an example. My parents both had dental work, caps, etc. This showed me that my parents’ words were separate from their actions - and the…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 01:27 AM
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My parents didn’t want to talk about it, but they were always really awkward about sex, and they were other’s first (but my dad had had oral sex before my mom). My parents still don’t understand the toll that my sleep apnea, internalized religious paranoia and guilt, sexual repression, anxiety, allergy meds, getting sick a lot, largely self-policed (because nutrition wasn’t well understood, and my parents were too busy to micromanage my diet) diet, and my low self-confidence and social avoidance…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 01:21 AM
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IQ of peace
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 04:48 PM
1

If we’re postmodern, and if sex isn’t harmful, then why is cheating harmful if it doesn’t detract from health, safety, child rearing? Is it just because humans are destined to be jealous?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 04:18 PM
2

Tbh I’m trying to rationalize my own insecurities about my darkness, but honestly, I believe that just like we have our people who are of utmost importance to us, we can also have people who are far less important to us but whom we essentially use as a means to and end or simple prop (thanks, Michael, 1987) to receive sexual giddiness. I don’t know if women see it this way, but my take is that I have mega Uber sex drive and mega uber insecurity issues, plus I was fed porn (which I took every mea…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 03:56 PM
1

Lautner ain’t tall!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 04:32 AM
1

What is cheating? Is looking at dozens of prime hot women in pornography considered cheating, or mutual masturbation and flirting disguised as meaningless hookup sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 03:46 AM
1

Most Mexican short guys I see are built like Franco Columbu with barrel chests and big necks and thick hands, they can deal damage
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 05:49 PM
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If you have a small frame, height, and subpar athletic ability, reaction time, etc as a guy, it’s hard to be confident all the time because you can get decked by somebody
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 04:21 PM
1

But who is having the babies? I believe it is implied that the people with baby daddies are l, cough, of a lower social echelon and perhaps tend to be of a different race, maybe even lower of IQ and capacity for delaying gratification, when compared to individuals with a lower fecundity rate
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 05:04 AM
2

Sluthate’s eugenicist user comes to mind, haha
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 05:02 AM
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A woman won’t be a very small spoon if her man is only three inches taller and 10 lbs of lean mass heavier than her, but if he is 3 inches and 30 lbs of lean mass taller, and his hands and feet are 2 inches longer and shoulders 3 inches broader, then you have dimorphism, baby! Dimorphism is king. You think Jay Cutler and Phil Heath don’t evoke wet panties? It’s overall size, not just height, and justifiably so, which causes attraction. Height is just seen as a proxy for dimorphism in the view of…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 04:54 AM
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You’re a lady though right? As a guy, 5’7.7”, I definitely see my being short as a detriment. Like, if I were magically 3 inches taller tomorrow morning and proportionate henceforth, it would have a profound impact on my life. I would honestly go out and do things that I’ve never done with a new sense of confidence, like i would just try that much harder because the time invested would be much more well spent. In perspective, right now, I’m kind of lightly grazing the trigger / lightly tapping t…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 04:45 AM
1

How tall are you btw op
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 03:52 AM
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My height is part of why I felt left behind, but more so I think that I was unattractive and perhaps more importantly, felt unattractive, for reasons separate from being below the height I hoped I’d be, but basically all of this stems from being not ideally healthy and not having the proper diet and sleep and social exposure, also internalizing emotional turmoil instead of processing it as a kid
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 08:28 PM
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Sorry that was opaque… I mean that women having access to sex with Guys above a certain threshold is as normalized and capable of desensitizing them (women) as porn is to men
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 06:04 PM
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Being tall isn’t requisite to be attractive, but if you’re like me, and the reason I’m not 5’10” to 6’0” is that I was stunted in growth, it is a big deal. I missed out on lots of social, physical, and cognitive development which all contributed to being the way I am, feeling left behind
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 05:42 PM
1

I want the government to compile and release anonymized statistical data from tapping our smartphones solely to clarify things about human behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 05:24 PM
2

Unfortunately to women, sex with guys >= +0.75points of their looks is like porn to us dudes. It’s like asking them to go on an indefinite no fap or no pmo
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 05:21 PM
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They don’t tell! Why would they? Why would men who are downtrodden, addicts to porn who can’t get what their biological urges compel them not take advantage of easy chances to feel relief from their situation?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 09:43 PM
1

Cheating is to be expected by a society that ladles imagery of the ecstasy of new romance, beauty, titillating and lush imagery of a new emergence into the world of sex. As long as we have an economy fueled by brandishing sex and beauty, cheating will be common. As long as the idea of missing out exists, cheating will. As long as all license to cede oneself into a burgeoning romance at one point in time - say, a new relationship for both parties, clean slate - exists, cheating will; for the peop…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 04:01 PM
2

Freud is losing his footing all over the place here
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 03:36 PM
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Agreed. Starvation creates trauma, trauma leads to insatiable urges and dysphoria, craving
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 03:16 PM
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Let’s just say experience. Any laboring class or ugly male will shell some change every so often to hit up the stripclub, Vegas, a hooker. I don’t mean any human male that exists will cheat, but to identify those that won’t is probably an almost insurmountable feat. Yeah yeah but I know it’s not easy for an average Jim in his 40s to hook up NSA. That’s an easy one to figure
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 03:15 PM
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Low SMV men cheat, too. It’s not a looks thing
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 02:22 PM
2

The problem is that society is in denial, touting survival of the fittest when it comes to the end of abolishing religion and family units, but not when it comes to passive eugenics of ugly fawks
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 09:09 PM
1

If we can brainwash women into accepting that their lot consists of men who look like their faceapp morph, brother, or father, or if we can brainwash men to do other men or look at porn and enjoy it; but neither of those will ever happen
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 04:17 AM
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Yep. Ultimately even the queens who profit off of men and strategize are losers, too. They’re digging themselves into holes of gluttony and an ego that is falsely propped, like the styrofoam columns of justice in Saul Goodman’s office. The men and women are all feeding into the maniacal egoes and consumerism promoted at the top. Not all of the top castes are maniacal psychopaths, most are just heady, deluded, wanna-be-altruists; meaning well, but they’re still contributing to something negative
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 11:04 PM
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It’s also the fact that society is set up to breed a whole caste of male drones and lowly female drone “queens” who are in denial and are a temporary benefactor of pats on the shoulder and male drone-fodder, and the real people who benefit are at the top caste
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 10:34 PM
0

People accept homosexuality, but women can’t risk having sex with men who are exposed to HIV, syphilis, gonorrhea, chlamydia, hepatitis, herpes, hpv, and monkey pox on the reg. It’s too risky. I feel like bisexuality would work pretty damn well as long as it were kept between guys who aren’t in the same friend groups, if it weren’t for the disease risk thing. Friend and relationship drama and the idea of social dominance status is of course the other issue in male homosexual relationships. Becau…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 08:11 PM
1

Refer to a Dr. Gregory House on this one
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 03:27 PM
1

Does it mean that you don’t love your brother, sister, grandparent, or parent if you spend a lot of time with friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 10:10 PM
1

It does for many, but it’s no better than the alternative for me, for instance. This stuff offers me an alternative to the narrative that I receive from the toxic online dating “looksist” world, a world which psychopathically denies its very insidious motives, or veils it’s motives to suppress those of poor looks under celebrity/fame contrasted with a view of the life of a plain / simple / nerdy / stoic / working class person. Now, you can view the view from beauty and stardom looking down to a …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 04:42 AM
1

I believe that both men and women tend to bond the most strongly with ONE particular individual, and hat individual might be their first, or it may not be? But nonetheless, one individual can end are the soul of another, for better or for worse. (Worse if unrequited / resentment )
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 11:58 PM
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It’s overwhelmingly common for both men and women to fantasize for both equally and more attractive and even less attractive partners than their current one. Yes, even less attractive partners, because once novelty wears off, even someone many points lower can be more sexually enticing. When you’re in withdrawal from a drug, even a very small amount of that drug will be craved
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 02:14 PM
2

Peter Steele? Corpus Christi…… boooooody of Christ
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 03:12 AM
2

Yeah, I know. They mean average among actors, musicians, or among top 20% in looks college civilian normies
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 09:39 PM
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You can be in the 51st percentile of looks for a man of age 16-35 and 6’0” but still get a paltry number of matches on online dating. In the past women weren’t as selective as they now are, and society is propping up this imbalance, pumping children and teenagers full of porn and toxic social media imagery, and banning the discussion of these things from the male perspective of all of the harm that it causes
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 05:27 PM
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Just be hot solves everything for women and men. 40% of women (quite approximately) will form an O with their index and prehensile fingers and form a target zone right over their gluteal folds for hot men. This strategy leaves the disheartening, animalistic monkey-business that is dating (for both sexes) at least as a justifiable evil for women to dip into, and at least they get to remember how hot he was, even if he was a cunt. You bypass all the equally shitty but plain dudes by going this rou…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 04:48 AM
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Plate spinning is retaliation to dating inequality and recouping ego after perceived failure and sexual insufficiency
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 06:23 AM
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I’m analytical, overly ponder things, conscientious, wordy, fairly smart, pretty athletic, probably carry a good potential for IQ, am decent - ok looking, I’m in good shape, my family members are mostly more facially attractive than I am adjusting for age and fitness level, and I believe firmly in the abilities of men and women alike to attain success and provide, I have good aging and longevity genetics, great cholesterol, carry tall genes even though I’m not tall. What women see: neurotic, ove…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 03:42 AM
1

Cravings are the root of unhappiness
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 04:44 AM
2

Why do guys subtly hate those females? Because if those guys had been born with no Y chromosome; they would be just as reproductively capable, just as sexually prolific, and wouldn’t have to do nearly as much work to survive in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 01:50 PM
0

Did you ever want to do the same, to cheat? Edit, did you ever feel an impulse, a craving, to do it?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 01:46 PM
1

I know a girl like that. She has a hick family who shelters/gaslights her, she is in her early 20s and doesn’t have a driver’s license yet, and her dental hygiene is bad. You want to know why guys don’t date her? I mean, she would be cute enough, thin, attractive if she just had some minor dental work and maintained her mouth better. But no, those three factors completely go against her for most guys
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 01:44 PM
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It is vile… as is the world, as is reality. You don’t want to live in a world where you’re the beneficiary of having massive sex appeal while simultaneously being physically less imposing than half of humanity. Likewise, I don’t want to live in a world where I am at a detriment by having the specific set of mental and physical attributes to be dissatisfied; to develop the bizarre kind of rhetoric and viewpoints that humor you; yet here I stand, and solidly standing in such a way as to rarely get…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 04:40 AM
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To make it right, we have to take it a step further than “sugar and spice and everything nice”, and instead, teach from the cradle the reality of looks, gender or sex linked value, etc. We can’t live in a denial culture which parades social justice for profit with respect to certain arenas of inequality but denies any inequality in the sexual arena. I don’t like that you attach work, merit, virtue attainment directly to one’s dating success, when it has been proven many times that for those at t…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 03:54 AM
2

Yes, jealousy does drive my feelings, and the world is hateful and unequal
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 03:36 AM
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You have to have a lot of other interests and preoccupations in life… and also, be physically sexy (coincidentally related to other interests in life)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 10:38 PM
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You have to appear to be disinterested…. I’ve missed out on some cases like this (this being, I acted aloof, drew in the woman’s interest, but I declined to engage) where the girl was Dtf and I was either too inexperienced or in a relationship/ afraid of being falsely accused by the borderline-afflicted woman, and I didn’t engage
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 09:47 PM
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I’ve been told by parties without clear obligation to lie I’ve seen it firsthand Std statistics I’ve “missed out” on opportunities either due to youth and shyness or due to fear of potential drama or untrustworthiness of the woman, where in those cases those ladies likely went on to meet their needs with another guy Blatant societal programming suggests that promiscuity is either common, or is prescriptive and licentious of promiscuous behavior Divorce is code for either adultery or intermittent…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 07:37 PM
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First of all, as a man here, when men say they simply want a relationship, this is often a delusion or lie. You’ll know from experience, cultural memes, and understanding of domestic conflict and divorce, etc, that a driving factor of almost all of the conflict in society resides in dissatisfaction / loss of sexual attraction of fulfillment in one’s partner. When I was a virgin, I would say I just wanted a sweet girl to date, meanwhile I would look at adult films almost daily. I created a life o…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 05:46 PM
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Being a thin woman is easy, man. It’s god mode easy to not be overweight with just a slight bit of direction and habit for the vast majority of all humans, but most people are simply ignorant and have poor habits. Men have it harder for the reasons which have been repeatedly brought to light on here. Men are intrinsically worth less than women due to economic / supply and demand crap
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 05:18 AM
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I’m not even talking about powerlifting training; I see some women powerlifting, but I see very few men, and even fewer women, putting the amount of juice into their lifts that I do. I get close to failure on like 10-15 sets each day that I lift
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 03:44 AM
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I was going to say Amazonian gf, but I was feeling Byzantine today. The format of my comment is a thing from 4chan where you write “>tfw no gf / qt3.14 gf” along with posting a sad, haggard sketched face exhibiting a somber, thousand yard stare (wojack); and otherwise, my comment is about my ironic (but true) desire to have the affection of a tall, beautiful, smart, athletic woman (but obviously I just named the gigachad of females, because very few in the world most likely fit the above criteri…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 03:34 AM
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>That feel when no 6’ Byzantine coat hanger shoulder cutie gf with high cheekbones, symmetry, a doctorate, and a 50 second 400 meter dash
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 02:32 AM
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Women want to be strong? Is that why I see them only pushing 5 reps from failure (at the heaviest) on every set? And rarely do I see women at the gym with a tomato face, puffing, grunting, or any other indications of effort
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 02:30 AM
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You can always Lia Thomas
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 02:27 AM
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[Spoiler] THE FOLLOWING is not in an attempt or aim to denigrate or dehumanize any parties, observe any epithets and terminology as just an association with terms that people use which refer to phenotype and percentile-looks-ranking which os based on both genetically-influenced and elective factors. I believe that all people are worthy of receiving the blessing of the golden rule and all humans are worthy of respect, compassion and autonomy over their own lives] Fat, ugly, nerdy “ethnic” girls, …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 10:41 PM
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The guy on pic related looks like a girl. That’s not what women are into, usually. That guy is either a Peter Pan, still in puberty and will change a lot in dimorphism, or he’s gay. I agree that being freaky jacked isn’t a good thing for getting women, but if you’re already good looking facially, it is a force multiplier to be muscular.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 04:24 PM
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It costs approximately one eternity in hellfire
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 06:39 PM
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They do care once they have a struggling son
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 04:48 PM
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I implore you to learn about tinder and listen to the experiences of people like me - this will be an exposition to the problems of middling men, problems which begin to affect men when they’re still middle school (or younger) boys, problems which taint the confidence and psychology of many men from a young age
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 03:36 PM
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Yuman filth
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 04:40 PM
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We need to culturally normalize sticking with the first person that you click with, have a jury decide that each individual is not psycho or mentally inept and of a comparable smv, and then we need to allow infidelity, but quarantine and categorize those with STDs, and condoms need to be 100% mandatory unless detailed waivers are signed. This way, fuckboys and fuckgirls have to stick with a jury deemed suitable match, everyone gets to have free sex, we get our soul mates and our jollies, and we …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 03:47 PM
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What if his body language is more like Sean Connery or Clint Eastwood? Or what if it’s like the gif of the really high, incredulous white dude with the silly grin who rolls his eyes and falls back onto the couch? In other words, if the body language isn’t creepy while he surveys?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 04:16 PM
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It’s strong. I’ve become more attractive over the years, and I can see how even my being high 70 percentile for looks makes my former experience as 40th percentile pale by comparison. Women respect when I’m in conversation with someone, they tend to smile or say hi back when I do, and they don’t immediately either ignore or act like they want to ditch the room
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 04:13 PM
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The answer is yes. The answer imo is only not yes when there is an extreme rift in SMV and outright denial of intimacy by the superior - like physical separation, sleeping apart, distancing. This might be a reason why couples in some cultures used to or currently do sleep in separate rooms, or why arranged marriages are made. This is one of the reasons that I believe cheating is morally defensible in western culture, because it, unlike Islam, does not provide for the need for sexual fulfillment …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 03:30 AM
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ITT people are in denial, IMO. Having a girlfriend is a desirable factor in a man, even if she isn’t very attractive, much like having a job is generally desirable in a man, even if it’s a crappy job, relative to being NEET
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 01:24 AM
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Men handle the Pattern, women handle the Matter, if we’re spinning this into a sort of philosophical Elliot Hulse way. Women create the matter of life. Men create and perpetuate the patterns that allow matter to be elicited. We need men to be the pattern that keeps going over and over and over by building, inventing, supplying, toiling, and the women to give rise to the matter of life - children. It just is what it is. And it’s an oversimplification to say men are selfless. I as a man have an im…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 05:54 AM
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A lot of people would say the opposite; that approaching outside of the gym is stalking
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 05:18 AM
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Hopefully not that he’s not chad
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 04:16 AM
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It’s a risk for women, but not for men. A man can cheat nowadays without any physical or health risk to himself or his wife so long as he wears a condom, but a woman cannot. It shows poorer impulse control for a woman to give into the impulse to cheat. I would be fine if my woman were to cheat so long as she did it in such a clean and safe way that I never knew the wiser. The problem is that women are sloppy about feelings, and inherent fear can lead them to give into dumb impulses like letting …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 03:27 AM
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This is one reason why age of consent mainly serves to help people cope with fomo and cognitive dissonance about inequal and unrequited forms of attraction
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 01:46 AM
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Y’all women seem to give it up for the Cadillacs of men too easily despite saying the like. Something we may agree on though is that unprotected sex is a BIG deal both with respect to fecundity and to disease, and that most people are delusional on it! What you’re saying, lady, i mansplain; is that childbearing is a big deal. Well guess what? It always has been. The people who didn’t believe so are just un-self-aware vessels of human reproductive potential, NPCs walking amongst us.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 06:22 AM
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8-9 are grotesque, 6-7 are fine by me. 8 could pass with an amazing, cute face and good hygiene imo, but 9 is irredeemable
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 05:03 AM
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Under 5’8”, but maybe not exactly 5’8”. I’m 172 cm most of the day, but I wake at 173. When I consider other factors, it seems that 5’9” morning height men (175.5) with all else equivalent have it substantially easier than I do. People also think I’m shorter than I am because I have a big head, but I think that this actually plays out in my favor much of the time. However, having a huge head like I do while ALSO being 5’9” would be groundbreaking for me, and being the height I was always predict…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 04:32 AM
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You’re low T man. Believe me, I’ve fucked grotesque women with hirsutism and gunts, and also ones who look like the 2-3 penultimate images, and there is a big difference. Avg young woman in the US is equivalent to images 6-8
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 04:14 AM
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Many women are 40%. People uniformly underestimate their bodyfat percentage. Most normal, non-fat men in their 20s are about 20-25% bodyfat. I’m a pretty fit guy, but I’ve never been under 10.5-11% bodyfat, and even then I was very light, because I don’t have good genetics for holding muscle, nor do I have a big frame
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 04:09 AM
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Whenever there is a gunt, larger waist than hips, audible breathing at rest due to airway obstruction, hirsutism, or fat rolls anywhere around the upper cranium. So somewhere between the last two images, assuming the last is exactly 50, but it is probably above 50%. Girls can look damn good in the 40% range still, but it all depends on the development of the above traits to make a woman grotesque and unappealing
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 04:05 AM
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Social skills that can be gained through practice, good vibes, humor
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 02:37 AM
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Everything is a slippery slope. If you think adults actually know what they’re doing, that’s crazy! Adults use drugs, overeat, commit all kinds of crimes - they don’t know what they’re doing. When I was 19, a woman (35) on a dare by her male roommate, came to my doorstep when my parents were away while I was home for the summer, where she sucked my kawk and I got my first kiss and feel of a person’s body. She took advantage of the fact that I was socially and sexually inexperienced and had no fr…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 01:41 AM
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Lots of people cheating whom you wouldn’t suspect because they’re otherwise very decent people. Probably a lot of dead bedrooms due to the man, as well. I’m projecting based upon my past by the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 08:05 PM
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Women like being hit on when the perp is charming and hot. Then she’ll give him a slurpy slurp slurp and don’t care about the herp
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 04:28 PM
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I’ve been a rebound for at least one chick, possibly more. One of them - the first - I tried to go further with (FWB and deep personal convos), but got heartbroken. I don’t see anything reason to postulate that I’ve ever been the “mister” to a woman, but I reckon it’s possible, as one lady went by more than one name
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 04:49 AM
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I agree with you, but I don’t think men are better, I just think that men are the less spoiled of the bunch
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 03:05 PM
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I disagree. Most men aren’t loyal either - what most men want is the idealized beautiful loyal smart supportive woman, and to build up as big a notch count as they can, supposedly prior to commitment. The problem is, this is like an alcoholic drinking as many drinks as they can before they go sober. Chances are, it’s not going to work out, infidelity and divorce rates approve of this
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 02:55 PM
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People who adopt redpill are mostly people who struggle a lot with dating, that’s why they’re unsuccessful. Most of them can’t be as successful as they want, but can improve their success, and those who can’t are just screwed in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 03:39 AM
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[Warning: the following may trigger some people and is only an illustrative fantasy, and no one should ever do this, no matter what country you reside in] You have been warned! Install spyware on the devices of a guy that you’re interested in and cameras in his place of residence and means of transportation. Pay a PI to document his routine. Plant actors to befriend his acquaintances and find as much information as possible about his past, his personality etc. Other than surveillance, there is n…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 11:05 PM
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You’re probably good looking and tall like you said, but women realize now that putting out for men is a meme and they only do it if they get something out of it, either commitment, money, affection, or extremely good genes, and a 25 year old lady in the 75th percentile probably ain’t putting out for a 25 year old lad in the 85th percentile if all he’s trying to do is play her for P’N’D
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 05:12 AM
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Maybe you should act over the top macho and fuckboy. If you’re honestly pulling the eyes and matches of young women in the 90-95th percentile of looks for their age, then it shouldn’t be hard for you to sleep with women with no commitment and no games who are 50-80th percentile, I would think, but if you’re considering 50th percentile young women to be 7s and 8s, then you’re simply mislead
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 04:05 AM
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seeing a hooker feels very good for a while, so it is a partial solution, especially if you have your health and finances in order, and if you looksmax to the best of your ability. If you do all the following, it can be a decent surrogate for an organic respectful sexual relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 05:28 PM
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Genetics 10 Maintenance 3 Social 10 All else 0
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 05:08 AM
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Blackpilled
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 05:07 AM
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We need a valid set of markers for identifying violent psychosis and psychopathy risks. But we already know that people under 25 aren’t to be trusted driving rental cars, under 18 drinking, etc, etc. It takes something extra to push a person to a mass killing, and I don’t know what it is. I myself have fantasized about some pretty weird things, but they are things I could never do. I once saw an a-hole on the road who was drunk driving crash his car into a big tree - just a minute before that, I…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 03:36 PM
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Some sort of neural imaging which predicts the likelihood of homicidal / suicidal behavior. That’s how it has to be done. But why are men more likely to do this, specifically young men? Because they have a very significant and recent exposure to large amounts of androgens, added to the fact that they are low value men who are being faced with massive social pressures and frequent juxtapositions to high value men, peers or otherwise. Testosterone provides the extra “umph” to embolden someone to a…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 05:58 AM
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Woman having sexual freedom = weeee let me wear my keyhole out and keep opening up my door to burglars! Men having sexual freedom = weeee let me become the most slick key or lockpick out there and finesse my way into every lock I can, until later down the road they realize they got picked, or that they’re just shitty locks! All sexual freedom, regardless of sex = jubilant, self-gratifying nonsense
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 07:43 PM
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I wouldn’t be emasculated or depressed about having a female friend who acts really masculine or like a mentor basically, but that’s just me Edit: not dumb masculine btw, as in cussing a lot like people on the street or talking about their WAP, I mean like a girl who goes up and screams Rick flair lines in your face and body slams you around the corner as a joke… in other words, masculine in a sense of not following the predominant societal trends
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 05:34 PM
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I’ve seen some of them say psychopathic stuff like that. I used to go on some of those websites. Most of the psycho talking people on those websites are just crazy nerds who will probably never break a crime other than speeding BUT… The reason I said they weren’t saying that is that for the most part, the people on those sites were saying what I SAID, or they were clearly venting / speaking in jest about the sex slave thing . How familiar are you with men joking about things? Shit talking? I was…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 02:20 PM
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They were suggesting government subsidized visiting of brothels, and technically, people who get income assistance (physical disability, etc) could RIGHT now in USA use some of their money to see a sex worker - therefore, some people can be subsidized to have sex
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 01:32 AM
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I disagree, there still are sounding boards still. I hope I changed your view on that
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 01:30 AM
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I have no desire to shack up with the harlot, and I wouldn’t trust her with my assets or safety, but I would offer her a bare minimum of mutual respect that you would offer a stranger, and I am still attracted to her if she is physically attracted. I am sexually attracted also to the Madonna, not my mother of course, and would trust her with the things I wouldn’t trust the harlot, and I would offer her more than basic reciprocal human decency
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 03:10 PM
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I’ll give my view and maybe it will change your view a little. I view all people as having different levels of self-control, magnanimity, awareness, and to me, women who have sunken their ship by making children with multiple men but continue to sleep around, l if they don’t have their house and finances in order, are basically drug addicts. The type of person I’m describing can be a male or female, but I only want a sexual relationship with the female version, and that is the harlot archetype y…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 02:40 PM
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I’d recommend looking for guys who don’t appear to have a shitload of testosterone like roiding dudes, or who place a lot of interest in their career or hobby over their looks and vanity or at least in a professional way if they’re a fitness person, who aren’t alcoholics, and who act very comfortable. Comfortable and clearly not obsessed with their looks and insecure are the most important things, and of course alcoholism or other substance abuse issues, anger problems, anything that sticks out …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 02:21 AM
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You haven’t been on lookism I guess, Brio is a fuckboy, jacked Italian chef with a hot girlfriend and tears up on tinder
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 02:12 AM
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You can always perform an abortion yourself. Do you have to get an endorsement from Daddy Government? Theoretically you can take matters into your own hands and if you get sexually assaulted, go freakin’ Kill Bill on them. There’s no reprieve from moral decisions and consequences, no matter what daddy government tells you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 05:41 PM
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How did you do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 07:02 PM
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Plenty of hot guy babes in every profession. Look up Rob Dahm. Guy was a nerd, started a computer business, broke 6 figures in his teens, began automotive work as a passion and career, got on the Bachelorette. Truth is that a lot of the most intelligent people are equally physically attractive and cool
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 04:47 PM
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Based and attention-pilled. I like talking to older women because it’s enjoyable to socialize, you get well-practiced, and you can learn things from people
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 02:54 PM
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Assuming OP is even a real doctor, what if he is fantastic? What if he gives the patient sound advice, psychiatric treatment, and a sense of well being? Doctors surely know they can’t reform all of their patients, but they treat them anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 05:11 AM
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My point is that all people harbor ugly thoughts. They just don’t share them. Smart and successful people often leverage their ability to conceal their true narcissism to make money. Some of these people who hide their true thoughts are decent people, like your favorite doctor. Some are true psychopaths who rape and murder and get off on removing the ability of others to self-determine and putting others into fight-or-flight mode.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 04:25 AM
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Now, imagine that he’s hot, and he does a good job at what he does, and the patients leave their appointment feeling less hectic. He would be a good doctor, wouldn’t he, but with his own thoughts and feelings? Now you’ve conceptualized that which is a fundament of mankind - that which we do not speak, we must pass over in silence. Many of us think things that will not be said. She or he who steps forth to state these things that are not said is a hero! The villain is the person who tries to keep…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 03:01 AM
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Doctors don’t have time to remember their Reddit account info from middle school
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 02:57 AM
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I’m not a doctor, but what do I think of when I see women living-room-dancing to babygirl voice, glossy, highly-contrived Hollywood Pop divas promoting hedonism, living in the moment on intoxication and lust, vilifying self-control, traditionalism and religion, all while staring at their faces in the camera while they film themselves with the pouty face and filters? Tell me what I think. Tell me what I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 02:40 AM
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I’m making light of myself by calling myself hater troll and omitting the indefinite article to further that purpose And what I mean to say is, I’m holding disdain at people who aren’t famous but have a profile picture on Reddit, but maybe you are famous?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 08:38 PM
2

I’m hater troll
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 08:15 PM
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greentext -using Reddit as a social media profile
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 06:22 PM
2

Men and women have the same number of telomeres as far as I know, so technically, the number of years should be equal for what is genetically possible in the absence of damning factors, however; Men tend to have more damning factors. Plaque buildup, high blood pressure. Men are a minority in octa, nona, and centenarian populations. I believe this tells us all we need to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 07:20 PM
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A 7 is top 10% looks, you’d have a pretty easy time if you’re a 7, I would think
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 12:43 AM
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Do you mean top 20% man in terms of looks, SMV, or body count? If looks, I’d say 10 PIV by 25 —- If body count (no paid) I’d say 25 by 25, PIV—- If SMV, I’d say 12 by 25, PIV—- If body count (paid and otherwise), I’d say 30 by 25, PIV
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 12:31 AM
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You’re making another false dichotomy. The thing we have to fear and detest is rape - nothing more, nothing less. This is the dichotomy between what is immoral and what is moral. Their are many other situations between what may or may not be tasteful, not what is MORAL (capitalized, Platonic moral) The fact that you scrutinize third world sex workers as less than first world is, I dare say, a Freudian slip, a tell, of your true feelings
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 12:33 AM
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The thing is, a woman can have massive sex appeal and have a busted face. Women in a biological sense, to the deep and equally lizard brain of a man which also views the man’s body as a vessel for XY gametes, can represent a vessel for reproduction without any need for facial beauty. A young woman’s body is generally capable of healthy reproduction, and as long as it indicates that, you’ve passed a major hurdle in reproduction and flipped a major switch in the male brain. After the gamete is tra…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 01:49 AM
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Safe to assume he knows that, and what he’s saying is true to some extent. Johnny Depp, Brad Pitt, Leonardo DiCaprio, Heath Ledger- actors who all cope with either drugs, infidelity, alcohol, plastic surgery, or sexual relations with women far younger than them - seems indicative of a lack of internal fulfillment. More celebrity examples - Arnold Schwarzenegger and Barack Obama - used to both be bastions of patriotic pride, but now the two men follow the dollar wherever it leads them. Arnold say…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 09:34 PM
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Based encapsulation
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 12:59 AM
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I disagree about men lacking empathy. We have plenty of it - at least, I know I do - but I grew up with an extremely egalitarian set of role model parents who gave me the innate impression that that is how the world IS, and unfortunately, it isn’t typical, and unfortunately, I developed a complex set of emotions and self image. For example, I epitomize Clint Eastwood. The image, the gruff nature of his famous roles, the ruthlessness. But I also see the emotional feminine side of myself, and I fi…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 07:58 PM
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This lines up with my personal experience. Hook-ups are usually very impulsive and are followed by harsh feelings and regret
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 07:33 PM
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Most physically attractive men are financially stable
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 06:07 PM
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Yes, and I said that even though I’m abundantly straight, I engaged in gay stuff to feel validated
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 03:56 PM
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You still have dating apps and your looks as a fallback, and male validation. I sought validation indiscriminately for a time, so even I went against my sexual orientation for comfort - you can do the same to even more success probably. And as a girl, all you have to do to be attractive is to get thin enough. If you have awful genetics you may have to get to 18-20 bmi to get rid of a giant belly (not pregnant) or something By the way, you didn’t address getting sex! The main thing guys I see are…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 03:03 PM
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Yeah that sounds very reasonable. If you’re with someone you care about a lot, hell, even if it’s not someone you see much of a future with, idk why you’d nickel and dime the other person. And I’d argue for nuance in some situations where one partner makes a lot more than the other, or one has effectively a lot more (like one partner just sunk their income or savings into an investment) so the lesser earner basically pays an IOU to the other partner
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 04:20 AM
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Whosever idea it was to get an amenity to which the other person had objected should be expected to pay for all of that amenity unless the objector now utilizes it, and the estimated usage by the objector should be calculated as a percentage, which percentage is multiplied by the marginal cost of that amenity over the alternative, and if there had been no alternative, the objector pays simply a fraction of the amenity proportional to their usage, period.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 04:08 AM
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Go out and make a lot of friends, talk to a lot of people, smell and look your best, practice singing, speaking and dancing, try wearing different clothes and see what gets the best responses from people.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 11:35 PM
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Agreed. Good looking guys even are paying with their time/youth, looks, health, risk of pregnancy, mugging, or railroading
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 04:27 AM
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Rootin’, tootin’ and prostitutin’! Yeeeeeehawwwww
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 03:13 AM
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As women transition to male, some of the trans men, too, will become murderous. At the end of the day, we are all human, and all of us began as female. A problem for one gender is a problem for all, IMO
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 09:58 PM
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April fools’!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 08:59 PM
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There’s a difference between being someone who chases tail and becomes a burnout versus the average example of an attractive person who slides effortlessly into relationships. I’m a person who never had a girl hit on me in high school and who was basically scowled or snorted at by everyone, or at least my perception and memory are of that, so by comparison to me, the average, even 20th percentile male, was doing better than I was. I can’t certify if that perception was accurate, but I can certif…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 08:16 PM
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Unlike Lamar, their standards aren’t pampered by threesomes tomorrow
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 08:31 PM
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Hard to extricate from forlorn denial
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 05:10 PM
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The other side of the coin is that confidence is necessary to assert oneself, whether they are attractive or not, and the acquisition of relationships may follow enacting confidence
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 09:21 PM
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I believe it’s not completely true, what you’ve asserted. It’s only true if the confident people are “coming on” or being creepy, behaving in an obliviously confident manner
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 09:19 PM
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Men can do it if they’re gay or super hot, but if you’re a straight guy that isn’t super hot, you’re a creep / public masturbator / etc for dressing scantily, at least without context. There are of course some contexts wherein you could dress in a revealing way, like maybe a roleplay of Borat, Walter white, Michael Phelps, 300, or something like that
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 05:55 PM
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I’ll tell you why, oh I’LL TELL YOU WHY BUDDY OP… secure your pantaloons because you’re in for a rough one. This is retrospective and a glimpse into why I didn’t/couldn’t use it as a dating tool then. I was an outsider in high school. Really from 7th grade onwards, tbh. Even though iPhone had existed since I was in grade 6, I never had even a flip phone with a full qwerty keypad until after graduating high school in 2014. All of my peers (rich kids) had at the very least a flip phone AND a decen…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 05:10 PM
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I feel autistic now tbh What I’m getting at is that it’s like, how many women have completely avoided all consensual sexual scenarios by their 20s
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 05:24 AM
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Another question is how many women have never had a man disrobe or b8 in front of them, have never done one of those in front of a man, and have never touched the genitalia of a man or had hers touched by a man outside of familial or, medical settings. This is my further detail to OP’s question, if I may do so without being automodded
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 05:07 AM
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Art mostly, we sat and joked and talked about her artwork and other stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 03:01 PM
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A girl invited me over to study (I told her I had a project and wanted to interview her) and later, she asked me to follow her to her dorm bedroom to show me something, do you think she wanted something non platonic? Nothing happened because I refused to lay hands on her for whatever reason, just talked
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 02:53 PM
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Who the cunting fuark do you think I was talking about brah
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 04:12 PM
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My mother is worthy of such immense respect that 90% of other women pale in comparison. And Ayn Rand- Frankly, I admire a lot more women than even I realize. I grew up around high socioeconomic status people, so there were a lot of really high iq women with worth ethic. I do have a problem with my childhood traumas, lack of guidance, and inadequacies which relate to social, health, and sociosexual misfires, and how these pertain to her opposite sex; but really, I do respect women. They just have…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 03:40 PM
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I need to get in on the male performer side of that; damn
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 07:26 PM
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The number is more like 10-20 attractive guys, 5-10 normal guys, for the 50th percentile woman, probably
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 02:52 AM
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You can already bang hookers easily here in the US, the culture would be even more degenerate if it were made legal. I don’t think I even have a definitive opinion on should it happen - I mean, I think it’s morally wrong to police hooking under consensual adult choices, but I also think it’s degenerate and it produces degeneracy to allow provisional sex, yet everything that simplifies easy sex, whether it be dating apps, porn, onlyfans, hookers, is degenerate. And I’ve partaken in it. All of it …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 04:17 AM
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It’s not what I consciously think, it’s what is found attractive! Health and youth are conveyed
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 09:20 PM
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Lipstick and blush make you look as if there’s more blood flow to your face, which happens during sex. It also happens after other things, for example, if I take cialis or viagra, my cheeks flush, or doing cardiovascular exercise
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 09:04 PM
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It makes you look younger and sexually aroused / flushed, and sometimes hides big problems. That makes you more sexually appealing, except for certain individuals
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 08:57 PM
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It’s both. I can’t deny that I lift weights and try to look good for girls, but I also do it because it makes me feel good, strong, like I look “neat” in the mirror, and makes me perform well in physical stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 08:53 PM
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Rejection is painful, but I haven’t been rejected in the way OP post outlines - in a set up for free dinner. I have never spent more than $5 ish on a woman that wasn’t a designated escort or one who was my girlfriend or FB, and of the second category, I’ve only been the first to pay, and generally had the favor returned. The most similar situation I’ve had to the thread subject is being victim to E-scams in regards to escorts, which has happened before. I maintain that some women do scam, howeve…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 05:01 AM
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Some women do the above, and I, a man, have rationalized my rejection before, because it is extremely painful. Rationalize THAT.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 04:53 AM
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Hot guys probably aren’t more likely to cheat. They just get more action when they do, so statistically they have a higher number of mistresses, giving an illusion
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 05:05 PM
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Most women look hot with the right tricks and in their range of 15-25
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 08:03 PM
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I have a long face and big skull AND a tall nose. Head mogger, baby! Lmao, I kind of like that people don’t find it attractive because I know it probably shows recessive genetics. I have a feeling it just bothers people in general to be around a person with a big head who isn’t otherwise a particular stereotype; for example, if I were a movie actor good looking person, it wouldn’t be very strange, or if I were a stereotypical weedy guy, a fat guy, and so on it would be different. But actually my…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 08:54 PM
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Being clean doesn’t matter that much unless you’re looking at the population of men who lack basic masculine attributes. Action movie stars aren’t clean. Singers aren’t clean after a night on stage, they have sweat everywhere, swamp ass, and pit stench from nerves . I’m playing DA here, but I do believe that for most men, hygiene matters, for sure; but it’s absence isn’t a deal breaker for attractive men
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 08:39 PM
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You don’t get it… status puts you on the map. It is one of the draws, it’s subconscious for us humans to value individuals with status, as well as looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 08:42 PM
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Be healthy. It’s very simple. Sound mind in a sound body, eat vegetables, whole fruit, don’t eat too much dessert, keep a small waist, exercise in various ways, get sunlight, drink water, and make sure the mother of your children maximizes her pregnancy by being healthy and eating a lot of protein and keeping nutritional status high; and for male offspring, once identified, I’d say supplement her with something (with her permission) that will marginally boost testosterone, like longjack, ashwaga…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 04:34 PM
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The height term is squared, though, to come closer to scaling for three dimensional bone size
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 07:30 PM
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Well no it doesn’t take that into consideration, it was only designed to scale roughly with height, achieved by the height term squared - on that note, it is probably even better to raise the height term to a higher exponent. Here’s an article about BMI - it also includes that increased exponent to reflect better comparisons by height , since our bones grow in three dimensions that tend to scale higher as we go up or down in height. I was probably wrong when I said that high BMIs are worse for w…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 05:36 PM
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The lady in this picture, Ally Smith, is like 33-35% approximately. EDIT: probably about 30%. It’s hard for me to be objective because I want to believe everything her boyfriend Greg Doucette says, but his estimate of 33-35% might be too high. /EDIT https://celebritopedia.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/01/gregg-doucettes-girlfriend-8-812x1024.jpg I’m 17% as a guy and have abs, and my midsection can disappear if I suck in and view from the side. Literally like I can suck my stomach down to 6.5-7 inc…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 03:06 AM
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Yes that’s true, but I’m saying women have less muscle and more fat, so their BMI ends up being about the same. Kind of balances out. I’m not a woman though so fuck it, idk. My understanding is that up to about 35-40 percent bodyfat can be healthy for women but above that you get progressively closer to diabetes and cardiovascular problems. And put it another way, if a woman has a larger waist than her butt, that’s bad. If a woman has a waist that’s even close to her bust that’s bad. For an abso…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 02:09 AM
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I like women with a lot of butt, I’ll say that. I totally agree to some extent. look at the porn star Yini Leon. She’s thick dude haha. That’s probably a woman with a bmi of close to 30, but like she has a lot of muscle and freakishly big hips compared to average Apparently she’s 5’1” 136 lbs so she’s 25.4 bmi. I swear I don’t know what BMIs look like on women haha. I’m about that same bmi , I think 23.8, but I look nowhere near as thick as her at 5’8” as a dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 01:47 AM
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It’s pretty hard to get a social circle tbh. You kind of have to be passionate about other things, really hard to do if you’re depressed. Back to square one.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 01:45 AM
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No I’m not talking about the cereal, I’m talking about the reprehensible things that exploit and abuse kids. All I’m trying to do is say that I don’t think that fat women fetish is inherently normal in humans, and frankly I think that it only exists because in reality those women are more likely to put out, so the potential for fantasy is more real. That’s how it is for me, at least. I search fat women videos sometimes usually if I have a fresh stimulus in my brain, like a fat woman flirted with…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 01:42 AM
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People search for kid trix too. That doesn’t mean that it’s desirable or right. People search snuff films for Christ sake, that doesn’t mean that fetishes and being attracted to the only women who will give you the time of day is the right thing to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 01:19 AM
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High bmi is worse for women. This is because bmi adjusts mostly for frame size, and women at a given bmi have more fat relative to muscle than men, and each marginal pound of fat contributes very negatively to health and appearance, particularly on women
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 01:17 AM
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Yes, they do often have an issue with being fetishized, but IMO, the only group with a valid grievance against being fetishized is children.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 06:43 PM
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Trans women don’t need more people trying to have sex with them. If they can’t get any, usually they’re just ugly or not marriage material, ie brash, drug addicted, smell like pot, have STDs, and so on
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 06:10 PM
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You’re phobia phobic, I guess. Who gives a cat’s tits what prefix a person affixes -phobic to. If a person doesn’t like dating trans people because 1. They usually can’t reproduce, 2. High incidence of mental illness, 3. High incidence of STDs, and 4., tend to look, sound, feel, and smell more like their base sex (at least trans women) than is appealing, why are those not legitimate reasons? I’ve had sex with a trans woman before, but there is a lot of justified fear. Violence is not justified, …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 06:02 PM
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You don’t have to be alpha, you just have to be satisfied with who you are and what you have in life. The trick is that doing that is especially hard for some of us. For me, I have heavily ingrained the idea that I need to be exceptional and powerful, somehow, but that it’s almost impossible to obtain. I have obsessive compulsive disorder, am very sensitive, and probably am a narcissist.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 07:33 PM
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There’s some truth to that, absolutely. But the ways that mutual affection is distributed isn’t in a 1:1 fashion. Some effects of the low probability of mate potential for certain people can be disillusionment, desperation, and frustration. An example is this. You’re trapped in a dark bunker. All you have is a weak flashlight and a card on the wall stating that if you press the button below it, a person’s arm will be non-fatally broken in a very painful way, but that you will be given a ladder b…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 02:27 AM
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Well, that’s why I followed it up with pleasant arguments and even went so far as to express uncertainty, thereby putting the ball into the court of the respondent, metaphorically.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 10:23 PM
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Is that because that term was used a lot on lookism and the other website?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 10:20 PM
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What do you mean? Are you rebutting what I said to the OP, or are you enforcing a rule that I’m not permitted to use that term?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 10:17 PM
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It’s because of money, familiarity, status, personality
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 01:55 AM
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Women are attractive from about 14 to whenever they start to look classically no longer fresh-faced and youthful. And they’re still attractive to varying degrees after that. It’s not a numerical range, it’s more so a few years deep into puberty until when they’ve accumulated a good few years of aging and lost many of their healthy eggs. The point of relationships is to meet the mutual longing for companionship from people who find each other attractive and charming, combined with wanting to proc…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 12:59 AM
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Funny but also not an argument, and I think OP’s thought process is a summons for self-analysis, as limited in scope as it may be to assume women are a conglomerate of individuals who don’t self-analyze or hold themselves accountable
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 08:13 PM
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It is only logical IMO, and all people have needs or desires to feel fulfilled, to pursue sexual pleasure (not all people of course) and so on
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 07:29 PM
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It’s the need to feel validated and the knowledge that others may receive an easier time engaging in the carnal activities with others who are happy, willing, and expect nothing more than the reciprocation of desire
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 07:28 PM
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Yep. And part of this is that N should probably include oral, manual and anal sex, but doesn’t always, when discussed. And I also harbor a lot of shame for what I’ve done
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 05:33 PM
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Both
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 05:28 PM
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I don’t even know what mine is
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 05:25 PM
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Is it projection, or can we not trust anything anyone says is their n count?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 02:19 AM
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I mean yeah, you’re right, I guess this means that people who can’t use condoms are actually not fools, but dumber
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 10:36 PM
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Pejorative use
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 09:07 PM
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Condoms are foolproof! Condoms which have been stored and handled properly, along with the guy pulling out and finishing by jerking himself off or blowing on a part of her body or mouth not near her privates, is essentially 100% effective at preventing pregnancy, hepatitis, HIV, and some other stds The risks of sex are mostly down to people being immature and irresponsible, getting drunk or high, and so on
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 08:57 PM
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Men should be able to analyze their preferences and optimize as well, I just think that women tend to have less awareness of their preferences when in their ever-consuming inferno that is a young woman’s sexual value
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 08:03 PM
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Chicks who say that are either awesome trolls, bullied short or ugly chicks, or sociopathic tall gals who got beat up on by their father/brother/uncle
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 05:33 PM
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The problem is the amount of cognitive dissonance, denial, refusal, unawareness, (pick your favorite word) of the impact of one’s preferences. It’s the lack of an ability to see one’s preferences objectively that is the problem which women have more prevalently
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 04:59 PM
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All people are guilty of looks-ism and height-ism
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 11:09 PM
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Our communication is banned. The corporate world, internet, and everything is restrictive, draconian, while outwardly silverlined, seemingly happy and accepting of all. But it’s a facade. The openness and intersectionalism of PC society doesn’t extend to the issues of men, for the most part
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 03:40 AM
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Men have a lot more testosterone than women, and less shbg - no shit. Source : science documents, reading things online, and quest labs for my own blood work
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 03:29 AM
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It is indeed a very insightful comment. But I should mention that women’s role is more than childbearing. We’ve normalized the attitude of flaunting the body and sexual hedonism, providing contraception and abortion to permit them
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 12:20 AM
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You’re supposed to use social cues - IOI - to make good calls. And the idea is for it to be fluid and part of a much broader social strategy
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 11:56 PM
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YES. Not even ironic
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 02:25 AM
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It’s a good point - morally responsible, mature, and actionable, but unfortunately it flies into the face of modern social justice narratives, which conveniently neglect the issues of CIS straight (often white) undersexed males, creating a double standard
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 12:51 AM
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Can you put the url back for me, moderator?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 03:47 AM
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He’s not struggling to get matches. This guy is a step up in terms of Chadlite material from guys like orb and severe retard, and perhaps even a step above Brio, because he looks Anglo Saxon and is tall, and clearly not compensating by muscles
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 03:46 AM
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I’m not agreeing with that necessarily, but I have an interesting story that is an example of male receptive simping
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 12:15 AM
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19, lost KV status and lost Bj virginity to a woman in her late 20s, then a few weeks later lost full V to a hooker, then fucked again with a regular girl one year younger than myself a few weeks after that. Wasn’t close with any of them, but still talk to the girl who took KV bj status occasionally
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 01:42 AM
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Women probably have less sex drive than men do. I had no sex drive before 11-12. Lady test levels are like a kid’s. Expecting men and high test females to be faithful all the time is like expecting a person with a cortisol and ghrelinoma to not overeat
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 02:16 AM
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Why is it evil if done with the above and no I’ll intent? Is mere sexual arousal or a fleeting reverie also evil?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 02:11 AM
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If you can hide infidelity and nobody is hurt, raped, or injured , is it really wrong, compared to adultery of the mind and PMO? diseases or pregnancy count as injury in this example
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 01:15 AM
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Because it’s infidelity lmao most of the time
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 01:13 AM
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Normies are 100% oblivious to paid sex, it’s that which must not be spoken of from Wittgenstein;don’t ask don’t tell
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 01:12 AM
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I don’t resonate with or “get” half of the things you said, but I have valued, to some extent, a lot of the redpill shit. It just goes to show that there are all kinds of people who find themselves looking into all kinds of things online. Is “high beta game” being high on weed and chill? Lol! It’s like these people are just trying to use a checklist to circumnavigate the solar system just to develop basic social skills. From my personal experience btw, a lot of this HAS been a bumpy awkward proc…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 07:34 PM
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What do you mean- what is bullshit?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 07:14 PM
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Who cares? redpill is just an idea based upon a meme from a movie based upon drug-addled interpretations of various literature. The truths (and some lies) represented by “redpill” still exist. Ideological slant and vitriol only carry so much weight, budro
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 07:01 PM
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Women are very much capable of the same type of love that transcends time and status, isn’t that how they love their family? But yeah, women want men who can provide either NOW, actively, or who could do so easily. They want men who have value. If you’re a Sean O’Pry lookalike, but you are retard-dumb and have no skills, a lot of women would still value you because you could easily kill in modeling and aesthetic/entertainment industries and careers, with just a little bit of shepherding. Women w…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 03:14 AM
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That’s fine! Good for me! And we get some fodder for discussion because of the 20-30% of galvanized BPers
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 05:51 PM
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If you or I fucked a girl from the party, she probably did the same thing with another fella last month, same thing
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 07:19 PM
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All guys who are fucking women and didn’t take her virginity are essentially the guys in the article above
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 07:07 PM
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There is no temporal isolation. Don’t be fooled - whenever you participate in sexual foolishness and provide attention to a woman, unless you be the only man that she will ever have sex with, you TOO are one of these men. I TOO am one of these men. Maybe I don’t revel in the fact that I’m sharing a woman, maybe I don’t have a cuck fetish, maybe I’m not paying them, but we have more in common than we like t accwpt
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 06:41 PM
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The social stigma for men to do sex work (primarily with other MSM) is way worse and also the overwhelming fear of HIV and std rates are the prohibitive factors against men doing sex work obligingly and openly at higher rates in the population
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 10:26 PM
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The conditions average (young) adult men would need to enter to make 200k net income per year would be along the lines of becoming a BDSM sex slave for hours a day for numerous stints per year, or perhaps several contacts of 50-100k to gaggles of royalty overseas. The other option would be setting up accounts on every platform- every dating app, seeking arrangement, Craigslist, OF, chaturbate, etc… and even then what employment you would manage would probably involve a decent amount of sex with …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 04:23 PM
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No, I don’t think that. I think that women are privileged in other ways, but sex work is an honest exchange
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 05:50 AM
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Ron Jeremy is Italian/Jewish, has a very distinctive look, was pretty attractive when he was younger, is good at sex, and has a huge dong, and was in the right place at the right time. You can’t compare him to most normal men. Most (young adult) men would need to sell themselves into some very seedy industries or into near sexual slavery for wealthy elites to make decent money in a way that is remotely hush hush.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 05:49 AM
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We can only easily be sex workers catering to other men, and most of us aren’t predominantly gay enough for that to be tolerable from a preference standpoint, and furthermore the risk of lifelong STDs is too high
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 05:45 AM
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“Ew go way no habe pusi!” “O, U tall u cute, u CAN habe pusy:D”
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 04:33 AM
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Everyone is addicted to sex aside from a small minority who have an advanced version of what we consider philosophically/scientifically to be an advanced superego, OR some kind of hormonal or neurological lack of sexual drive. It is human to be addicted to sex just as it is human to be extremely irrational, flighty, and prone to anger. We need to acknowledge the vices of humanity as a whole, the small sins and aggressions, not just the egregious things like murder and rape. Humans are evolved or…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 04:30 AM
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I doubt that would be true of a handsome stranger. Even a stranger at a social gathering is a stranger, by the way
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 03:14 AM
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Hell yeah I like intelligent and ambitious women!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 05:43 AM
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There are some people who will, without a doubt, fare better in dating than others. For example, if you’re an NBA player, you’ll definitely be successful in dating, and 1/7 of men who are currently in their 20s and over 7 feet tall are currently NBA players, thus being over 7 feet tall has a high certainty of yielding dating success. Or if you look like V Shred, Jeff Seid, David Laid, Dwayne Johnson, etc, you will have no problems with dating, because they’re extremely good looking and jacked. Y…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 04:17 AM
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“There are no chads” Blasphemy to the congregation of the Almighty Chad! https://gyazo.com/aa1865fef3ca2cbb14ef7e08e192c7e0
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 04:15 AM
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Hot people aren’t fiction, budro
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 08:11 PM
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People wanna say on social media that being imperfect is human and that we all make mistakes, but don’t NOBODY wanna admit wrongdoing. We all want to watch hot people on television and movies and idolize politicians from all political spectra who cheat and fondle kids on tv, but when it comes to the reality that a lot of your friends and family are cheating and the random guy on PPD is telling you that, it’s a problem
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 07:11 PM
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A lot of people cheat. Religions view thinking about other people than your marriage partner as a detestable sin comparable to sex outside of marriage, or even view fornication as a sin. Is it better to be a fake natural or an admitted steroid user, better to admit to a few people that you cheat , than to hide it?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 06:07 PM
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People cheat and don’t report it in studies. Men who marry women who make more money than them are probably more honest and decent people.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 05:46 PM
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Yeah. Some guys make a go out of it that’s legal. For example, Anthony Hughes, LA bankruptcy attorney turned into grey market supplement salesman and influencer. That man is buff out of his mind, smart, good looking, yet decided in his late thirties to turn his back on being a lawman. He doesn’t even bother trying to court American women, to peruse dating apps locally, or even to solicit them-he goes to other countries to date women far younger than his 40, skips the obligatory grind (in America…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 05:35 PM
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This might be a sexist subreddit if we can’t have discussion with others of the same sex
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 05:00 PM
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Actually threatening the life, wholeness of body, health, family, gainfullness of employment; and/or ability to exist without social sanctions constitute a culpable offense. Common sense should dictate what constitutes a reasonable breach of any of these. Talking and flirting alone don’t constitute harassment. Confessing feelings alone doesn’t deserve to constitute harassment. The confession of feelings should be discussed and documented, but it should not alone be precedent for dismissal or deh…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 04:57 PM
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Women want intelligence , yeah. Most people, if not all people, want intelligence. I look for rapport with people as a man. Rapport may include shared interest in an online culture such as one of these communities or for example the delray misfits. Rapport comes from shared knowledge and experiences, and if you demonstrate intelligence or competence at an activity or career to a girl you try to date, it shows her rapport because you have the shared experience of 1. accomplishing your role in soc…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 11:33 PM
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I know-not only men are susceptible to charm and looks
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 01:06 AM
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Appearance is very important. It’s the reason why guys like Jeffrey Dahmer are so effective
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 12:31 AM
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I agree to some extent, but someone could rationalize anyone sucking up any unfortunate circumstance with the same argument. Someone could excuse slavery or Holocaust with the same argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 10:33 PM
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Ummm (sorry for using a vernacular filler word to express frustration), but in all seriousness, the answer is this: I and many others haven’t received reciprocity of sexual attraction (or just attraction, period) from a large enough number of individuals at a high enough frequency to feel sufficient validation! There is a quark in the universe, which let’s say is sentient. It knows that it exists. It has been told that it can translocate, but this quark has never moved, so it does not feel that …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 06:36 PM
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Agreed. But I think it’s relatively healthy to engage in healthy banter, non-permanently damaging and consensual male bonding activities like wrestling, slap-boxing, yelling at each other. I think it’s healthy to want to have sex with a lot of women and to do that, but it’s not healthy to be a psychopath who rapes women, hurts people, drives drunk and high 30km/h over the speed limit, who packs a burner and flashes it for anything but last effort self-defense, and so on. There is something which…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 05:06 AM
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That fucking sucks what happened to you. That is absolutely abhorrent and I’m very sorry it happened to you. I’m also very glad and lucky that I’ve most likely never seen an image of something like that-I’ve only seen the aftermath of people responding to a poster of a removed image in thread in absolute shock and in recoiling anger, shortly after a moderator removed the content.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 04:49 AM
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I disavow evil behaviors! I hate evil. This is laughably unnecessary to say perhaps, but I was never associated with or encouraged the autistic dude who ran over people with a van, nor with Elliot Rodger (and I wasn’t even aware of manosphere yet in 2014, anyhow)-just like neither you nor I nor your grandmother was associated with the Columbine killers or Jeff Dahmer-and I say those two incel killers because those are the only two killers/rapists/evil people associated with the modern manosphere…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 03:50 AM
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I was a browser of the forum whose former version was called ouahate. A lot of the people on there said fucked up things. Some of the people on there have probably done fucked up things. I start with this because it was an extreme example of online “free speech”, but the majority of what was said there is akin to locker room banter. I’ve browsed 4chan on and off for years, and yet I’ve seen nothing which I believe to have been related to minor exploitative content. I bring this up to say that wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 03:11 AM
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That’s what rapists advocate. And also frat guys who involve women who are most of the time complicit in putting themselves into a situation, supervised by others, involving total inebriation and sex. I think these are two different things from redpillers, but I understand you may have perceived a lot of overlapping between the redpiller and rapist categories.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 02:56 AM
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People are shitty but sometimes a shitty life experience is shittier for some people than others. Because of my shitty social skills and combined “in-my-headness”, I fell victim, essentially, in situations where I was briefly painted as the perpetrator, and the psychological effects of that are intense. For example-I’ve twice had women that I hooked up with from OLD gratuitously tell me later that they regretted it / didn’t enjoy having sex with me. It wasn’t in a nice way-well one of them did i…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 02:53 AM
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I’m not one of them, but I experienced a lot of grief and trauma due to being raised by really intelligent and dutiful, yet introverted and naive, parents, combined with several other factors. The parents are somewhat passive-aggressive at times, but if one could exemplify the phrase “crucified himself on the crosses of anti-hedonism and refusal of self-gratification”, that would be my parents. Part of the refusal of the body which was passed onto me manifested as my utter sexual and social repr…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 02:26 AM
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ANAL? Whoa where do the women all do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 05:44 AM
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Yes. Unless you’re in the extreme minority of people who either don’t respond to training in studies, or if you already inexplicably have a lot of muscle that you’re not being up front about. It’s really easy for a skinny untrained person to gain about 10-20 lbs of muscle (a range due to skeletal frame/height/starting muscle) in the first year of training. For an average built person it’s less, and I suspect that it would change with age because people tend to top out muscle at around age 35 (at…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 06:10 AM
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Wherever you start is fine. I can tell you from experience (many plateaus, failures, and periods of anxiety followed by inaction) that simply starting is all you need. When you’re brand new to it, you can build general fitness, lose fat, gain muscle, all at the same time. Diet doesn’t have to be the chicken breast and broccoli B.S. that Men’s Health and celebs lie about. eat balanced, half to 70% of your food intake by volume should be fresh fruits, grains, vegetables, and lean sources of protei…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 09:50 PM
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That’s why I suggested to lift weights. You can put on almost 10 pounds of muscle in 6 months if you’ve never weight-lifted before, so you would be around the same weight by the end of the 6 months, but presumably about 30% leaner, relative to the mass of fat you started with
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 05:21 PM
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You can still drop 10 lbs of fat in the next 6 months, and if you lift weights while doing that, you’ll look a lot better
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 05:11 PM
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Anyone that isn’t really lean can drop 10 lbs of fat in 6 months, and really fat people can drop 50
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 04:14 PM
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I feel bad for him because I feel that emptiness and hopelessness inside sometimes, or at least I have. Some people have it harder. People are not all equal in the flesh, nor in opportunity, nor in cognition, nor in mindset, amicability, etc. People OUGHT to be equal in the general presumption of innocence or capacity to give and receive goodwill, but
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 04:12 PM
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Wow you’re just tickling everything I’m interested in with this thread in a really frustrating way. Some of the traits you said are immutable really are but some aren’t. @mbh62 Most of these traits will play an important role in general life success and satisfaction, while also being attractive. It’s a win-win to pursue maximizing yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 04:09 PM
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Lookism already analyzed this, and I think the consensus is that it would end poorly. Not only do we have hypergamy but there is also continual genetic fuckups that are unforeseen, including mutation. I bet humor and other skills would become paramount for getting laid, also. It would be super interesting to watch.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 03:11 AM
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Clout is relative. You can have no physical clout during high school, ie smart nerd who will make 100k at 26, versus the 7.5/10 jock who will settle for 80k and raise twice as big of a family as an adult, but who slung weed and pills and booze here and there in high school, in addition to being cool and hot then.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 08:35 PM
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I need to say though that Romeo and Juliet laws, differences in cognitive, psychosocial, physical, and sexual development can play large roles and lead to differences in power, cognition, and emotional state in younger adolescents. Each of these presents its own basket of inconsistencies and dilemmas. The fact that most regions have some form of Romeo and Juliet law means that, in fact, we do see consent between adults and minors as valid , and I’d argue, acknowledging that there is legally and …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 10:26 PM
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I’m just saying that men and women are inherently different, otherwise we wouldn’t have words to delineate these ideas
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 10:17 PM
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I’m being edgy in that part of my discussion point. I think that some of the cognitive and mental differences between individuals are superseding chronological age, sometimes, however
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 09:32 PM
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You need social circle or advanced social ability to get attractive fit women your age (young), or advanced luck, or advanced looks, or a combo. Young hot women are in high demand because they’ll no longer be young in 10 years, unless you’re talking about 15 year old girls, but societies have agreed that 15 year olds be off limits, even though people with low IQs, psychiatric problems, personality disorders, and addiction are given the adulthood status
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 08:40 PM
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Women want guys with power and clout and young hot women can typically get those men who are also hot and young
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 08:37 PM
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Men are not equal to women, but men’s opportunities ought to be equal to women’s opportunities
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 08:37 PM
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-momentarily walking by the mirror not even looking at it -mom happens to notice -“you ARE VERY handsome, anon” -her face when mom
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 08:00 PM
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“Thanks mom. Thanks a lot. Now I look like you if someone put your face in a vice and you took testosterone for three months.”
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 04:16 PM
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“You’re VERY handsome.” -mom
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 02:52 AM
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What does that mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 08:21 PM
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Slut hating is a somewhat imaginary concept irl. Not many people are going to call out random people and call them sluts. It is mainly other women or women’s boyfriends who would literally verbalize that to another person. I mean a lot of guys probably hold a very self-contradicting virgin-whore idea about women. “She’s so open with her body that she uses it to get ahead, and she often lets guys sleep with her —-> OTOH, she won’t sleep with me” I think tons of men slut shame in subtle ways thoug…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 04:56 AM
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Ugly guy here , I don’t want to go down on chix. Op are you in agreement that ugly men generally have most of the following - weak jaw, little to no cheekbones, nasal voice, small/short, bad complexion, ugly eyes (too close together or wonky), and bald?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 04:24 AM
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People have sex for amusement. That is and has always been one of the primary intents of sex, and now we have ways of preventing offspring from happening
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 03:44 AM
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That’s what I was wondering, also
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 11:46 PM
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Yeah I know. And you’re right men do also hold double standards all the time Exempli gratia- a man stays with his high school fling. He expects that they they’ll build a life together even though they met in a partying , turbulent phase of life and just hooked up a lot. He’s expecting her to be two things that are often mutually exclusive. Another one- ‘any girl that dates me needs to be both hot and appreciate me’ - this one arises from unequal smv but it is nonetheless a double standard I thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 04:57 PM
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They’re not mutually exclusive, women can work as hard as men and be as ambitious, and being a mother is separate but equally valuable endeavor that can be done in tandem to an extent. A smart ambitious woman with real world experience is a great candidate for raising children, right? Better than a dud who doesn’t know much. And let’s not forget that women’s standards for who they hook up with are the thing we complain about
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 04:22 PM
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We don’t like rude women. Only low IQ and traumatized people like rudeness
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 07:08 PM
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You know what they say; he who ghosts, shall a ghost become
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 03:17 PM
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This is what happens when I take way too much kratom
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 09:47 PM
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I’m a weird person, so I would take it as a rejection. I don’t realistically expect anyone to offer that, but it’s my dream “You haven’t grabbed my fancy. Bye bye” (neutral if not slightly positive tone, confident but not aggressive body language eye contact, and turning away to leave after completion) something along those lines would sit well with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 09:18 PM
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“Even if your motive is now platonic and genuine, I have too many other obligations and friends for an acquaintance to exist between us, and the likelihood that you’ll try to court me is high, and we have no past history or mutual friends , so overall it isn’t worth it. Imagine if a random gay dude that doesn’t look anywhere near as good an IG thirst trap like Jeff Seid tried to befriend you after hitting on you- would you want to be just friends with him? Probably not. You might be a decent per…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 09:13 PM
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Online dating - “I didn’t mean to match”, or “I thought you would be more attractive like pic 1, but then I looked harder”, or “I am afraid to meet you because you have posed a realistic threat to me or raised a red flag, not sorry, but it’s simply the reality here”, or on bumble, for accidental matches, start the convo AND say one of the above. Full honesty is what I want to see, and IMO it should be vital when addressing men who aren’t obviously fuckboys with a lot of friends and confidence. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 07:46 PM
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I really don’t know. He came across as completely batshit crazy for a year straight so who really knows
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 03:49 AM
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Like Ashley Madison? Those sites are bs… there are backpage (used to), craigslist, OLD apps
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 08:02 PM
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Baste
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 08:01 PM
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What’s fetlife?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 06:50 PM
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Research shows that your perception is wrong though- OR that you’re old fashioned and only date men that you go steady with, selecting ones who are closer to your level of attractiveness
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 12:41 AM
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Yes, the Divine Protein shake - it’s such a classic moniker I really think Connor planned it all as a joke lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 06:24 PM
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[edit: consuming his own and another man’s semen is one of the manic activities he began talking about in about May of this year. Apparently he filmed it on onlyfans, but I’m not paying for that] Connor Murphy went insane because of mania caused by his lifestyle, disillusionment with how his pleasure set point adjusted to sex with 2-3 young women daily, and then he started going bald and began to see that even his looks he isn’t in control of. So he started “faking/acting” a series of manic epis…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 04:44 PM
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I don’t know what he used to play but he only plays with hallucinogenic drugs and semen nowadays
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 02:58 PM
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If that janitor ascends his way to cleaning company management or has an amazing sense of humor, or has a huge penis and can last an hour everyday, he can have a hot woman, or if he has a very handsome face. But yeah the perception of that guy generally is pretty negative. Personally, I, as a white guy, consider the least sexually attractive men on the planet to be the ugliest and most oddly-proportioned of white men. Somehow a 5’7” guy with a nasal voice and unsettling social presence and a wea…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 05:22 AM
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“STOP it, get some help”
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 05:15 AM
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He’s confident. Confidence and competence will do it for attractiveness in absence of looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 05:13 AM
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Marlon Brando, Brad Pitt, Alain Delon, Johnny Depp, Tom Cruise, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 05:10 AM
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yes of course you be an be top 0.1 percent as a shortie. Look at Prince
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 04:58 AM
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Some of them do, my man. Look at Connor Murphy - watch some of his videos. Compare the reactions he gets to those that other pranksters get, ones who aren’t top 0.1%. Read about the homeless LA skater who slept with various girls who hosted him at will before he got a modeling contract. Look at tinder results for super-attractive guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 04:36 AM
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He is what he is. If you had a dumb hot guy who can’t leverage his social success to enable a career and family, or worse, who becomes depressed as his looks and health decline, and becomes susceptible to drug abuse, he can become a powerless entity. But provided he exercises some self-control and doesn’t have an exceptionally low level of intelligence or mental disability, he has an easy-mode life ahead.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 04:32 AM
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It’s really simple though. You don’t tell a thirsty chick where to go until you’re ready to roll if you’re a Chad, or you keep her waiting until you decide to stroll into her building.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 04:28 AM
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Some women bang men lower on the totem pole. That’s why I, for example, and lots of other people, manage to get laid. It’s probability. There are events in quantum physics that are extremely improbable, but eventually, provided you don’t decline the opportunity, will happen. For a moment in time, you or I or whoever can catch the fancy, BE the fancy, of X girl. It may not last long, it may be brought on by breakup, an intense emotional high and a timely crossing of personalities amid your best m…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 04:26 AM
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Because college is our introduction to adulthood and most of us go through college, and 100% of us will either interact with or date people or have to coexist in society with people who went to college
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 02:04 AM
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I brought it up because most people have never seen all of these gay men in bathhouses hooking up, likewise most people have never followed college students and clubbers and festival-goers into stalls, dormitories rooms and tents to watch them hook up. Things are going down and some of us are none the wiser.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 09:22 PM
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Dude the study was done in the wake of a frightening epidemic turned pandemic. I never said that it’s representative of the average gay man across the entire country, but it is nonetheless an egregiously and surprisingly high statistic that arose from research which I would presume , due to the urgency of GRID/AIDS/HIV research , was less of a devious agenda-conspiracy to target gays than necessary research
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 09:03 PM
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Confident successful people spend time doing, not seeking approval and they literally don’t need to spend hours swiping on tinder because the algorithm and women’s preferences are in their favor in that regard.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 08:53 PM
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I have no problem with gay men. I’m bisexual dom 90+% hetero but no, gay promiscuity isn’t a myth. During youth it is very common, there’s a lower barrier to entry and you don’t have to worry about the same physical safety and pregnancy dangers as a straight woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 08:49 PM
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They don’t need to brag because 1. They are the heads of social circles, 2. Get a lot of women and feel no need to ask for praise, 3. Have social media and busy life, school, and career ambitions to attend to
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 08:43 PM
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They do- that’s the guy they screw too lol People even the “chads” aren’t going to tell you about all their sexual exploits unless you’re good pals with them. But you can absolutely have friends who will talk about this with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 08:37 PM
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It’s called college dorm rooms and going out on weekends over the course of a decade - plenty of chances to slip into a room and mess around
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 08:34 PM
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It’s complicated, but trust me, I’ve personally messed around with women who went from “whore” to “virgin” (I don’t mean these terms as insults) in that they go from being super horny and seeking new dick to anting to disassociate themselves after a fling or two. I think that women like to feel sexy and empowered , but they have a reflex to preserve their dignity after the fact and they don’t want to be seen as “whores” by their friends or family or other men. It’s kind of a post-nut clarity
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 08:33 PM
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People do talk about it - mainly men. Women have good reason to keep it down low. Lol maybe gay men don’t work jobs hmmmm let’s think this one through
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 08:27 PM
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I’d say that on average, the people from the redpill communities you’re discussing are saying that women have about an N of 20-30, on average, by their 20s. That, even though it’s generously high, is only a couple partners per year from 10th grade onward.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 08:26 PM
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That’s just not a realistic expectation. Look- gay men in the most preliminary studies from the 1980s HIV/AIDS epidemiology research were reporting mean average N-counts in the 500 range. You don’t see all of this happening because you’re not in those environments when people are hooking up, but that doesn’t mean they don’t do it
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 08:21 PM
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Yes, it’s true, but attractive men are usually exempt from being the objects of skepticism or derision about this very fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 05:33 AM
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Body positivity is for people who are women or want dick, just look at Nick avocado
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 05:26 PM
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Not hard when some of them are prosties
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/21 02:34 AM
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Maybe they don’t want it, and they would reasonably protest the idea of it, with all the logic and brains they have, but maybe they’d do it? Take a girl who’s swept up in the dating game, high school, going into college. She gets opportunities to be with a guy who is VERY cool, attractive, dominating in every room, gets treated like a friend by all the guys and seems to turn the heads of every other girl. Maybe she knows that she isn’t worth getting disrespected, dominated or dumped; but the bei…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 01:15 AM
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That’s great advice but not everyone is worth dehumanizing on here
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 04:54 PM
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Which one did you learn
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 04:53 PM
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Lots of men who aren’t on the top are disloyal too. People lie and cheat, there’s no reliable way to know who doesn’t. People have an idea that it’s a bastion of morality to not mutually masturbate with another person - that’s silly. Non-procreative sex is only mutual masturbation. You aren’t a bad person necessarily for giving into temptation to mutually masturbate with another person. Imperfect but not bad. You’re a bad person if you commit heinous acts of violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 02:33 AM
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Meanwhile, how does it make you feel that there are guys most of the women loooove who regard those women as meat toys and secretly have no respect or empathy for the women they have sex with? How does it make you feel that there are very pleasant guys out there who have equally hateful feelings? How does it make you feel that you could have easily ended up in the shoes of a man that you’re criticizing if you’d been a man instead?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 02:30 AM
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Venting is one thing, actually hurting people is another. Also bear in mind that there may be a vocally toxic minority that you’re seeing airing their grievances
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 02:28 AM
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I did it one time without a condom and only because she was the type of person, not sus, to risk it with, and even then I’d never do it again until doing it with the mother of my children. I don’t think it was worth it. Not for recreational sex, not with someone you don’t intend to spend a lifetime with. The mindset of it’s not comfortable with one on is a shitty mindset in my opinion. It’s the mindset responsible for HIV spreading
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 12:32 AM
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Hmm, Chad singer, can’t write - does he happen to like looking at this photograph?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 11:52 PM
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Why do you think the chads are faithful?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 11:46 PM
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I believe you, but I think most men would not become rapists dependent on if the woman they’re with mandate them to slap on a rubber. I’m not saying some men don’t, but come on. People lie about and delude themselves condom use. Women, men, gay men, all are guilty of this. But if a woman has the last line of defense in requiring the man to use a condom, should she not be insistent? Look at the studies from the 1980s where they operated literal mechanical fuck-machines wearing a condom for half a…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 11:39 PM
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Well, I haven’t gotten any yet, and I’ve never not used a condom except for head. But I know you can, syphilis, herpes primarily. Then bacterial stds and hepatitis you can get from oral. People always mess up with condoms though man. They let the condom slide off and leak semen in between sessions, or they have precum leak out. Or they don’t wear the condom 100% of the time, or the girl fingers herself with a hand that just touched the guy’s dick and precum, etc etc. All of these mistakes are ev…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 11:36 PM
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Don’t trigger me with that last thing, begone
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 11:18 PM
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Fat guy is positively dwarfing the hot man babe, baby please. Manlets in suits, when will they learn
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 11:16 PM
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Hahaha Idk if you’re being silly or not, but I did actually consider when I read his comment that it was about vaccination. But nah it’s definitely referring to sex
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 10:38 PM
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All women have to do is require the man to use a condom that they know isn’t damaged. Unless all of these women are getting raped?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 10:33 PM
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She’s probably still on benzos and trolling tinder for simps and female sex partners tbh lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 10:15 PM
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I don’t feel entitled to other people. I feel like some big changes in society need to be made which will effect broad public opinion and behavior. If I truly did feel entitled to other people, for any purpose, I would be in jail. I see that people deserve not to be mindless victims of aggression, and the thought of perpetrating aggression or receiving or horrifies me. Like it does most people.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 09:22 PM
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I think all people are entitled to a bare minimum, and psychopaths are playing with the masses as chess pieces in the most devious and efficient ways they possibly can, and part of that involves utilizing men and women’s sexual roles to drive commercialism
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 09:11 PM
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I know other people suffer, but I’ve probably suffered more than most people. And I’m not claiming others don’t suffer - I know some people suffer a lot more than me- I just want to discuss that I think women are feeling more entitled than they should. Everyone is entitled to life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness, at least people who don’t commit unspeakable acts of aggression, so we say in society. Having a few rich tech oligarch psychopaths and fortune families engineering the system to …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 08:49 PM
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The women out there are still the women who don’t swipe right. Or are there algorithms that prevent them from seeing the normy guys? Those algorithms had to be primed by something, anyhow
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 08:20 PM
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Hookup uncertainty or aggression? Which is predominant?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 08:16 PM
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Of course it’s not, but being good looking gives you an insane advantage because people treat you better, helping you to be more trusting, confident, and socially skilled. Being ugly as a kid, being bullied for some reason, and not being able to deal with those issues by your teens makes it hard to socially integrate, thus you end up with a person with normal or poor physical attractiveness, who also has poor social skills
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 08:10 PM
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Hand-eye coordination is being good at sports dude. Being good at things that get you attention and income is attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 08:00 PM
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That’s weak. Did you expect that of hot guys who are tall and have good hand-eye coordination and had straight As and Bs with little effort?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 07:56 PM
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Wide nasal bridge, deeper voice, larger penises, higher free testosterone levels, thicker lips, higher bone density, more athletic and fast twitch on average. Also note that many African Americans and west Africans are descended from slaves, so it’s likely that they exhibit more of these traits because of artificial selection. Have you noticed that most of the time when people do a Jamaican, African, or other accent of people who are mostly black, they tend to throw their voice lower? The extrem…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 07:27 PM
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On average, I’d say black people are more masculine than white people. There are tremendous exceptions to that rule. Take for instance, the numerous DSD athletes who have come out of Africa in recent years - Semenya, Mboma, and others. If we look at isolated features like dental prognathism, you could associate that with femininity, but there are plenty of masculine black people with that feature. At the end of the day, black people vary quite a bit across the continent of Africa, Oceania, and t…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 06:58 PM
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I’m with you brodog, I hate the brattiness that we see in women. I’m just trying to understand why they do it, and tbh a lot of it is that women are extremely socially interlinked with each other and constantly trying to mirror each other’s behaviors to keep up
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 06:51 PM
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Women know that it weakens men and offends them on a deep level, that and they see other women saying it. It’s a defense mechanism
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 06:46 PM
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Ironically public school, colleges and volunteering and free workout classes and other similar stuff are this
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 06:24 PM
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I’ll not lie, David Laid is very attractive. Not in the way of me desiring him, but I’d be friends with him if I weren’t a loser
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 06:22 PM
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I don’t think I’m a nice guy. I’m not an extrovert who is extremely open to things and who can make friends with anyone and just smoke a joint. I don’t think I’m socially savvy, and I’m certainly holding pent-up frustrations - no doubt. However, I think I’m empathetic in that I’m capable of understanding others’ suffering, not necessarily outpouring upon them with sensitivity. In person, I think I’m usually pretty unassuming and meek, and I can understand that perhaps the contrast between my sud…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 06:12 PM
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That also violates the nonaggression principle
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 05:48 PM
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I just want to know why do you all sometimes reject guys that you know to be mentally stable and trustworthy in very painful ways, like completely cutting them off from contact. I worked with a girl for several years- she would make random convos with me at work, probe me about romantic interests, etc. When she started going to the same college as me, she saw me at the store and came over and initiated a convo, surprising the heck out of me. I ended up talking with her several mins and asked abo…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 05:40 PM
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‘The women and the children’ isn’t a trope for no reason at all
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 05:25 PM
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Tbh I only said the last one looks young because her shoulders are like a foot across, she’s freaking tiny like a Barbie doll
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 05:08 AM
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I agree that one does look like a kiddo too. The last one is a human bobble head, which is pretty funny. I don’t think it’s creepy, just bothers me that modern planet earth has such a hard time determining what age should be acceptable for sexual self-determinism. And I think it’s funny that people freak out about age, but meanwhile, everyone subconsciously idolizes youth in women and will lie to themselves that there’s a significant difference between a neotenous 18 year old pornstar and a deve…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 03:23 AM
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Smallest or most muscular , nigga wat? I guess you mean by that either small and androgynous OR muscular and masculine
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 03:19 AM
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Is that a Freudian slip OP
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 03:05 AM
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Not all of the strident females who would partake of sperm banks would be viable for pregnancy, anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 02:59 AM
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People are really fussed about AOC, age discrepancy, etc. Meanwhile their sex idols like DiCaprio date 18 year olds at 40+, and guys like Chris Brown get laid with adult women at age 9, while the woman never gets in trouble
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 02:55 AM
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Last one looks like a child. Age is a joke
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 02:53 AM
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Chadpage
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 12:16 AM
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I went out a few times with a square homeschooled white chick who was really timid and focused. She and I had several common interests and were equivalent in looks, maybe to my favor. She twice declined to kiss, but then a few months later she went back to school and posted on socials showing redneck and yolo dudes getting drunk with her and making out with one or two of them
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 12:14 AM
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I went on a cruise and saw that all the hot dudes and chicks at the bar were acting like human bratz dolls. The women and hot guy babes would predictably turn their heels, make nose-scrunches of disgust, adopt irritated, angry bee vocal tonality, and issue insults or challenges at any mere mortal who would dare approach them. The first person I made out with was dared to do it with me by a hot guy babe that she was friends with, also. I ended up getting put on the FZ by her
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 12:09 AM
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Some women can be borderline obese and still look very good until they’re around 30, but they’re not going to be higher than a 6-7
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 11:55 PM
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I mean I’m an [insert frequently used term for type of men on this sub] but I still have a high notch count, and it’s because I have a strong sex drive and the competitive spirit of an athlete, and maybe half of it is due to being willing to use the old website with personals ads that was shut down in 2018
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 10:34 PM
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I’m not satisfied with my notch count and have been severely undervalued by equivalent-looking and race and cognition-matched white women, yet I have a high n-count
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 10:24 PM
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That lady is a 2
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 10:07 PM
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What’s that? Sex partners?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 10:06 PM
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She nutso, but very smart. studies neurology.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 09:22 PM
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A tomboy sent me to the principal in high school one time for being too adventurous in conversation. It was so cool to talk to a girl who browsed the chan
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 08:32 PM
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It’s not that easy to right a brain that has been through traumas. Feral children, victims of physical, emotional and sexual childhood abuse, children who were bullied and felt a duty to hide and suppress their predicament - these are things that I believe, in many cases, cannot be rectified. As a child, I had an extraordinary bright imagination. I conceptualized about ideas in preschool that most people don’t until middle school - ontology, religion, differences between people - not saying I wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 08:26 PM
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What if you instead are a completely average looking young man who takes care of his health and appearance, who did better in school all his life than average, is fairly athletic, feels empathy for others, has a decent critical thinking ability, has proven to be a hard worker with good principles numerous of times in his life, but suffers from overwhelming anxiety, hopelessness, and anger at himself and at society, and feels further immense guilt for his anger at other, which he knows due to his…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 07:15 PM
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How would you like it if you looked like this and had an average intellectual ability and poor ability to connect with others due to emotional trauma and depression? Would you honestly think you wouldn’t lament and seethe at the way you are and wish so badly you had it differently? https://st.depositphotos.com/1763233/3200/i/950/depositphotos_32009455-stock-photo-portrait-an-ugly-woman-with.jpg
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 07:11 PM
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Do you ever worry about getting the aids?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 05:55 PM
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I’m too busy posting to have caught every logic error. Do you think it’s reasonable to say that there is a quantitative and qualitative difference between the people that men and women are attracted to? What if all of the sudden, people with either male pattern baldness or fat rolls became innately attractive across every society. Would that result in certain discrepancies in who feels valued based on their phenotype?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 05:12 PM
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I think most cucks are highly mentally warped. It’s like they’re able to gain an amount of confidence from their day-to-day life and upbringing that can withstand the blow of their woman with a man in front of their eyes. Maybe they are tall, maybe they’re a better programmer than 99%, maybe they make 300k per year. Something is off, and it isn’t usually solely a man who gets off on defeat- it’s probably a man with a strong ego who doesn’t mind engaging in a kink
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 05:08 PM
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I’m a young fragile man in 2021 and I deserve to be valued for who I am! I have delicate feelings, traumas, scars I may never recover from. I’m plagued by the desire for things I may never be able to have from people who don’t LOVE me for who I AM. Can’t you see , you’re low in empathy?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 05:03 PM
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Your sex drive is exclusive of most men of breeding age, for men it’s the opposite, howzat
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 05:01 PM
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Just take test and aromatase inhibitors at 11
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 05:00 PM
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A lot of our problems existed before we knew what sex was. I was slowly seeing girls become more difficult as I went through grades 3-6, and I knew I craved their attention and affection, but I had no idea what sex was
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 04:59 PM
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Endless ambition, lack of empathy, good looks. Some combination of those is needed to succeed in life
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 04:56 PM
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I’ve been seeing this copypasta image, minus a few guys like Jerry Ward, since 2014 on 4chan. It’s meant to trigger 80%, enlighten 20%
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 04:39 PM
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Random dude in tight blue shirt and Mario cap, Jerry Ward, chestbrah, ripped aesthetic dude with bad haircut and glasses, L-U-I? Are you crazy baby please?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 04:37 PM
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Stats, dude?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 12:40 AM
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“He’s trans age! How endearing”
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 12:36 AM
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Man, if I’d gone on estrogen at 12th birthday I could have looked just like that by now. What a small sacrifice could have done to change the outcome of a swiping game, jeez
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 12:12 AM
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Would make a simple, submissive country manor wife to a man dedicating himself to no other woman
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 12:09 AM
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Women aspire to be lazy, superficial, bratty, exempt from moderating their behavior (let them through the border, let them have a recourse for every unwanted pregnancy!), and passive. Good women aspire to be virtuous in every way that good men do, with the added task of childbirth and reading. Men are as toxic, or fallen, evil, as women, but most men are expected by 70-80% of the population to work their asses off or be highly gifted to simply survive, let alone to be granted the gifts of family…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 12:04 AM
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He’s still snug at the table, buddy :D I think that women wearing makeup as intrasexual competition turns culminates in a lot more one night stands with ugly women. Not a good outcome for future generations, is it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 04:40 PM
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No way, they’re not worthless aside from that. What’s worthless is sitting around doing tik tok, of, and taking fishface selfie instead of studying, working, helping her community and her kid’s schools, mothering, or some combination of those
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 07:45 PM
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Male initiatives are meant to produce an individual who is financially capable and dominant over a percentage of other males. It doesn’t make sense for women to put as much focus into doing the same thing. They can meet their biological imperative by doing the bare minimum of taking care of themselves, getting through a rigorous degree in 4 years, and settling down to start a family. It’s pure hedonism for women do max looks other than staying healthy, having physical hobbies, and cosmetic proce…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 07:07 PM
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It can’t, besides jaw and neck training, but taking steroids - high association with men who lift weights. Testosterone derivatives, analogues of test, and gh, can make your facial muscles hypertrophy, and GH even can make the chin and browridge larger. AAS drugs that don’t convert to estrogen can add a double effect of shedding water weight and reducing bloat, which can make the jaw more defined, like the way Zac Efron looks now, and especially like in Baywatch
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 02:58 AM
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I didn’t think you NEED a provider, I thought that you felt drawn to the prospect of a woman who is superior different ways, who has elite status and wealth, in the same way that women will more typically seek men who represent those things
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 06:52 PM
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That is interesting. It’s definitely a sign that you are every bit of what you’ve said you are, physically. I also understand the primary mark on your psyche that is an early-adolescence relationship with an older girl, but to have a drive for women much older, and to provide for you, it seems “sus”. I myself had my first experience with a woman almost twice my age, but it bears little to no personal significance to me at this point. It was, first and foremost, my first sexual experience, and I …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 04:59 PM
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Woah it’s a HGB- hot guy babe. There used to be a time when the only people on this website were neckbeards. How do you know you’re 9.5/10? Do you get offered modeling gigs, do random verified high schoolers and college kids follow and bombard you on social media, do you have a 10:1 or higher followers to followed, are you over 6’ in height? As far as men who have dated sugar mommies. Frankly, I’ve never heard about this, though we all know it happens. I’m much more familiar with the archetype o…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 03:38 PM
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Demi Lovato got crushed by fate. She’s broken- this is what you should expect to hear out of a shattered vessel of a human. She was on top of the world as a child and teen - beautiful, talented, up-and-coming, beloved by children around the world. Now? A former junkie who is overweight and resentful. Plus, she’s probably being paid by someone to say these things, you know how they say some of the wealthy and famous are wrapped around the finger of an even wealthier person
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 04:08 AM
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IMO they often are, but I don’t believe they’re usually sufficiently empathetic of the fact. For example, the illusion of appearance, or just physical appearance itself, is something, which changed for a particular individual, can make the difference between desirable and invisible. And the acknowledgement that your own opposite sex counterpart , all else equal aside from appearance - might be completely invisible compared to yourself- it’s a fact most people can’t stomach.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 07:33 PM
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Just combine her face now with when she was overweight and have faceapp convert her to male, that’s what she would look like as an average man
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 06:57 PM
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Something radical will probably happen imo. I don’t know what it is though. People (men) and women, once they get old enough to see how it damages their sons and daughters, will push back
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 04:09 PM
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That’s just genetics unfortunately. All societies are somewhat vulgar and polygamous from bottom to top.. middle upper class white Americans included. And Scandinavians. They are smart enough to compartmentalise and deal with it. It’s just that upper middle class hot people get their jollies through during high school and college and then make families. Upper upper class never quits (Epstein, etc)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 04:07 PM
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I think men probably are more likely to break even between those that downplay and exaggerate
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 03:57 PM
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It’s not entirely the case in my opinion. I know this because there are a lot of people uglier than me who are happier than me. Looks matter a LOT, but again it simply isn’t everything. That was the reactionary view I had around age 18-21, but I’ve grown out of exclusively deciding that my fate is only looks. My looks did lead me to be bullied as a kid, as you’ve said, but it was THAT combined with my health problems, personality type (holding it all in) combined with neuroticism, plus the way m…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 03:11 PM
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Considering that people are in denial about how many calories they eat, that they’re fat, that they ever were attracted to people their age when they were starting high school and the implications of that, that they’re smarter and more capable than they are, that they have an addiction, that they see sex workers, and a myriad of other examples of denial- I think it’s safe to say the statistics on partner numbers are likely underreported.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 03:02 PM
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Black pill- manner(let’s say part of a persons manner is immutable, even though we know it isn’t all so), upbringing, trauma, and genetics affect everything. They affect your looks, emotional and psychological ability and manner later in life. To some extent, your genetics and looks affect each other aspect, but they aren’t the entire picture
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 02:59 PM
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That appears to be a lot of snark and dismissiveness for a person who probably considers himself openminded! I don’t know what your angle is, nor what your honest feelings are, but I want to know
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 10:03 PM
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Everyone can be considered a terrorist these days, any man that isn’t hawt can be a creep, hell even an innocent team of hunky lacrosse players can be cast as rapists. The way society is now is reactionary, and it doesn’t even only affect men negatively. Women can be hurt by the way the culture is now, too. But men are preferentially capable of being falsely accused and convicted of things. Men commit more violent and sexual crimes, sure, but there’s a grey zone of men who have simply come acros…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 05:31 PM
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Society is a popularity contest based on the superficial, the reactionary, trifling, and sexual or hedonistic pleasure. Society is able to be a like this because of immense suffering that was borne by people in the past, many of whom were men. Women have always held a crucial role in all of this, but for most of history, that role was exclusively child-rearing, and there are some huge growing pains with that shift
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 05:12 PM
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If you have a good profile that shows you from all angles , physically, career, and socially, they probably are interested, and they just want you to match that level of value that they saw when they matched. If you have a bad profile that makes you look like most guys, you need to make yourself stand out. If you don’t stand out, women are probably just swiping right out of boredom, wanting to be praised and pampered, and really are just doing the equivalent of fiddling with their thumbs. If you…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 04:38 PM
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There isn’t too much empathy. There’s too much embracing of subjective suffering and victimhood at the expense of reason. Unfortunately, it’s almost impossible to rationally parse what is deserved, what is received, from what is not deserved, not received.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 03:57 PM
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Men and women would all need to become androgynous and crush their sex drives. Only way we can equate men and women is to truly let there be no difference
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 02:26 PM
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Dating apps and their creators are a parasite on society. They tease you with pictures of idyllic, friendly, attractive looking people, the adverts and such for the app, and the fake profiles. They bait you [man] with opportunities to match with women (as if they look like the women in the adverts) as long as you open up your wallet. When the joke is that these apps started up as a supplement to people’s social lives and night life, trying to sneak in a little more hedonistic play time behind cl…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 06:25 PM
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Maybe but it’s expected that people just suck it up and deal with it. Some people are supposed to heave larger burdens, injustices, etc than others
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 06:23 PM
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The scarecrow comment is also directed at the poster who (likely smugly) answered you by saying “both”, and what I mean is to ask if anyone is building a scarecrow (a target for derision by likely misconstruing my statements) out of my comments about hormones, subjective experience, and gender
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 02:36 AM
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Do you make me out as a scarecrow?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 01:58 AM
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The idea that part of the differences between subjective experiences between men and women is due to mere hormone levels X duration and exact time of exposure
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 09:08 PM
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No, that’s just a fatalistic bringing-up of a crucial point about male and female gender differences
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 08:49 PM
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Devil’s advocate, women have the opportunity to take testosterone and growth hormones and puberty blockers in their teens or adulthood to provide a sense of confidence and power
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 07:20 PM
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A lot of men who go on to BECOME or already ARE (like, as teenagers), socially adjusted, cozy, family men, play the hell out of the field with girls who are their male counterparts - in a phase of life where their only worries are doing well in school and having fun. This is a separate from what you’re describing, even though both relate to debauchery and relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 10:58 PM
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I’m not sure in entirety. Combo of very conservative and quiet religious parents, poor health, emotional trauma, bullying. I’m still messed up about it all. I certainly don’t believe any one thing is to blame for all of my problems, just to clarify since my original comment came across that way. The school and church cultures I was surrounded by definitely had a hierarchy , which if I felt I wasn’t scaling, that I was nothing. And then you add health , physical and mental, into the mix, shame an…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 06:43 PM
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Oh yeah the culture that produced kids like me who never went to a dance 😲 but wished they could have!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 02:58 PM
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based and quantified from data? I don’t think that no sex until marriage is ideal for most people, it seems very idealistic. But if you had ideal self control and could anticipate heartbreaks and wasting time, it would be the ideal
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 10:27 PM
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Based self-aware person who is a woman PS Shia has a great complexion. Are those two lines from bedsheets?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 03:27 PM
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Chances are, if you have a good circle of friends, unless they’re all neckbeards who solely work $10 an hr jobs in fast food and play rpg games, that you’ll be successful enough in dating. There are exceptions, but generally the same skills are important in many facets of life
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 11:34 PM
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Oh yeah, the wheel keeps on turning buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 08:01 PM
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Very valid points about selection bias. I began to ruminate on that as soon as I made my original post. Some of what I say stands - there is a large percentage of women who put their cash tag on profiles, but there may also be a lot of young men doing the same thing these days. And it certainly doesn’t mean that they’re malicious, scheming people. And frankly 90% of the people who i described had public profiles that included their socials and or cash tag, and were a slice of the population that…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 02:13 AM
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Dating benefits everyone in the short term and also those who discover that their partner is a predator, drug addict, pedophile,or other miscreant during the courtship. I think dating is a net negative in the long run. That’s perhaps a very uninformed opinion, but I’m basing it on the reality that dating now is largely based on hedonic pleasure and social FOMO. Later in life, evolutionary imperatives and prefrontal cortex mediated superego, “I must leave a legacy” kick in. Women can freeze their…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 03:08 PM
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Kek
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 02:10 PM
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What is a top level comment? The first generation of reply? Do you want me to delete it?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 01:14 AM
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I’ve had a lot of direct experience with that. Not all women are liberal with the amount of handouts they accept or demand, but a good 30% are fairly so. Likely and it 1-2% of online dating profiles include a venmo or cashapp link. Another few percent of all the women, at least on online dating, tend to ask for something later down the line after stringing a guy along with ambiguous and very casual talk. I’ve had girlfriends and have worked around young women. I’ve been in conversations where th…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 08:17 PM
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What does that all mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 08:08 PM
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I know when I’m seeing a scammer, these aren’t scammers. They’re just regular girls who ask you to spot them 20-30 dollars. I don’t want to speak too openly but I’ll say, I just know
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 06:38 PM
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It’s not just a meal a week haha. Girls often demand guys to send them food, cashapp payments, etc for nothing more than the knowledge they did a kindness. Women get into nightlife for free, where they engage in their sexual fantasies and also get complimentary food and drinks
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 03:31 PM
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People should just be cheating and hiding it DAMN well to indicate that they’re not proud of it and that they don’t want to accommodate the emotions of their mister or mistress. Unfortunately the average person is too stupid to use a condom right
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 03:08 PM
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I mean for some people. for those who are victims of family sexual abuse, they are extra screwed in the head because they are being mistreated by those familiar to them
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 01:03 PM
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Familiarity is love. What you know is love
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 05:09 AM
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Any OGs from the 3dfa site?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 12:47 AM
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Fortunately, no. But if it did ever happen, I would agreeably go along with her decision without an issue. That being said , I still have a bit of an issue with ambiguity as a general female dating practice
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 05:37 AM
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I can count on 2 fingers the number of times a girl I’ve fucked that wasn’t my long-haul girlfriend has asked me to perform “x” sex act on her. OP really has a valid point here. P.S. one of those girls later told me she wished she hadn’t had sexual relations with me
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 04:56 AM
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I agree to some extent, but I am biased towards men, since I am one. It is not as easy for a woman to police her contraception. Men are categorically less likely to contract diseases during protected sex. Insurance that the condom is intact and on is more easy for a man than for a women in most situations. Hell, use of the latex condom is less damaging to health than use of b.c. It is psychologically wired into male brains to screw anything that crosses one’s path. Though very few men in history…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 02:23 AM
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I’ll ask you a question in return though. Why is it necessary to you to have a man who is faithful? If a man’s past is littered with sexual experiences, is that not still a significant part of his makeup, even when he stays faithful into the future? Is the lust of the mind not also infidelity? Did we not develop prophylactics, b.c., and dating apps to be able to discretely have sex in a at that can potentially have no consequences? Do you want to expect a man to not get bored and feel shitty, if…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 01:54 AM
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You can’t. Well, actually it might be possible , but you would need to do a thorough analysis of his words and behavior, and an investigation of his family. Considering that 60% of men surveyed admit to infidelity, and even 30% of women (who err to the conservative side more than men due to the way sultry women are perceived), it certainly isn’t easy to find a man like that. My bet is that only men who have had a tremendously rich exploratory phase during high school and college, and who exempli…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 01:30 AM
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Check amazon. It’s wildly variable from just $50 to a few hundred dollars for just the rear
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 02:04 PM
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They won’t do jack shit. I’ve bought silicone ass before and you have a massive dopamine rush only the first few times you use it. Sex with a new partner is way more intense. I mean, maybe if we can make sentient bots that are actual companions, but then we’d be giving them agency, and they might make their own sexual decisions, and if we restrained that sexuality, it would likely be rape. So it’s quite a quandary. Sexual value and gratification largely stems from the scarcity of it. That’s why …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 04:58 AM
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Technically men can do that, too… if you allow yourself to be pretty much sexually enslaved by a rich ephebo/pedo during your AOC-year 25 period of life, this wouldn’t necessarily work for all young men though. It’s being a sugar baby
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 04:46 AM
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It sounds like that, I guess. It’s very difficult to describe. The stuff that comes top down from media executives and stuff, though, that doesn’t involve helicoptering. And in my direct experience, proper *mental health resources *would be a godsend for some kids. I grew up in a well off family with what most people would assume is a perfect environment to foster a healthy adult, with empathetic and stable parents who weren’t overly square, but I had all of these mental hang-ups that tormented …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 06:28 PM
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Maybe we need to bring back religion. Teach people that every individual is not equal, but that all of us are equal to that which is superior to all, and that all of us are valuable in a sense of being able to convey consciousness and empathy, and virtues
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 06:24 PM
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The top 1% of male earners
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 06:00 PM
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IMO it would be priming children to understand and expect the coming battlefield that will be their social and sexual environment after puberty, and for adults, bureaucracy, leaders, and media, mold children in a way that won’t produce or condone foul play. For example - bully the bullies. (By teaching and directing children to BOND and form tight social groups that are less common these days, especially during the lonesome middle school and early high school years. And don’t just let teachers a…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 05:10 PM
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It’s a bit counter intuitive, but I can understand why they like it. I’ve had a mild cause of autogynephilia since about age 9 that has manifest itself a few times. You just pull aside that tiny piece of fabric and then, WHAM direct access. We could also wonder why women don’t typically wear briefs , or I could ask myself why I switched from boxers, then to boxer briefs, then to briefs, during my adolescence. I don’t really know the answer. It’s certainly a combination of morphology, personal in…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 03:59 PM
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Just be L-M-S. Be hot, be socially assertive, be rich, be skilled. Preferably 2-3 of those. That’s the entry fee to avoid the line
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 04:29 AM
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Men are supposed to suffer and as long as a man doesn’t possess outstanding intellect, skills, or physicality, he is meant to suffer. Religions have espoused this view before, but modern society acknowledges this view in a different way - it moralizes the pain that men are meant to suffer, and once you have men who are both rational and empathetic, but who don’t make the cut for TOP men (skills and thrills) , they will overwhelmingly suffer, and it’s just further exacerbated by modern portrayals…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 09:11 PM
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Golden rule. You know you wouldn’t want to be raped, and you wouldn’t wish it on your kin and friends, and if you do, it would necessitate being a psychopath. The real answer is purple - women and men both need to come down from the clouds and own up to their faults. The fault lies with women in some areas - belittling and ignoring average men and allowing such treatment to be systemic in the development of young men during vital formative years, but this is more than a girl issue. This is an is…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 06:48 PM
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I guarantee you most people would get this type of answer if they went out and asked questions like that. Heck I don’t need to sell you the idea, just like expect it , it’s almost common knowledge, one of the reasons redpill is kinda stupid. When it comes down to it people who are up in arms are mad about some kind of mistreatment they’ve gotten. Obviously it’s stupid if you think of redpill as some religion or dogma and judge every person by their exterior or sex, but the ideas about evolutiona…
/r/ExRedPill21/10/20 09:40 PM
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