cali1993 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
280	Saw this👏🏻👏🏻	LEVEL UP BRO!	cali1993	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/05/20 08:52 PM
155	You don’t have the effing right to touch me where you want when you want!	RANT	cali1993	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/05/20 02:21 PM
12	Welp I did it again. I scared him away.	LESSON LEARNED	cali1993	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/04/20 06:10 PM
1	LVM wants to date me and talk to his Ex	#JustLVMThings	cali1993	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/05/20 05:26 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
5	First time? Oh my goodness if you ladies have no seen the most ridiculous movie, it’s called unplanned on amazon! It’s a pro life movie featuring a women! She literally is the reason why women’s rights are being set back!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/05/20 06:59 PM
10	Reminder: When he says he’s not ready for a relationship just yet, he’s only stringing you along for female validation until he finds someone he’s actually into. Know your worth, don’t let him drag you in the mud in hopes he’ll respect you some day! I can’t stop laughing	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/05/20 07:02 AM
3	You don’t have the effing right to touch me where you want when you want! Oof girl. Sounds like you also dodged a bullet	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/05/20 02:35 AM
7	You don’t have the effing right to touch me where you want when you want! Really though	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/05/20 02:33 AM
3	You don’t have the effing right to touch me where you want when you want! Ew	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/05/20 02:31 AM
15	You don’t have the effing right to touch me where you want when you want! Appreciate the advice! Will take it into consideration going forward!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/05/20 03:29 PM
4	Finding My Dignity Yes! Do it! Never lower your standards for ANYONE! I recently got of a similar situation. LVM dressed up as a HVM. Does all the things a bf does, but won’t commit because he’s “not ready.” Glad you learned your lesson now sis! Be in turn with your emotions, process the loss and move the eff on. Shine bright love!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/05/20 03:27 PM
1	Unwillingness to be shallow led me to dating scraps + motivation to get out of a subpar relationship Yes queen! I used to think the same way! I love this post! You are valued!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/05/20 03:21 PM
1	Things seem to be taking a negative turn here. Please, let's focus our energies on building each other up and IGNORING trash men. Thank you love. You too! Don’t let anyone tear you down! We all deserve to be respected and heard! Keeping lighting the world up with your positivity girl! You are amazing!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/05/20 03:05 PM
45	You don’t have the effing right to touch me where you want when you want! Oh 100%. Especially since I told him I didn’t want to be touched there. And he did it again! Like dude do you not respect boundaries?!??Honestly thinking about it, I’m disgusted that I even kissed him. But you’re right! Lesson learned and bullet dodged.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/05/20 03:01 PM
1	Things seem to be taking a negative turn here. Please, let's focus our energies on building each other up and IGNORING trash men. Yes! I completely agree. I feel as though some women on here are very jaded and anything that doesn’t align with that “bitch mentality” is beneath them. And I for one AM NOT BENEATH ANYONE. I feel as though some women on this sub are NOT in touch with their feelings and as a result pounce on people who are. News flash! Everyone has feelings. And some of us(myself included) are trying to actively work through those feelings to develop a positive and productive way to create boundaries. I have lea…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/05/20 02:58 PM
3	Things seem to be taking a negative turn here. Please, let's focus our energies on building each other up and IGNORING trash men. I 100% agree with you! Honestly I really like what this sub stands for and I have learned a lot From the handbook, but a while back I Made a post on what I was going through and a few women on here tore me to shreds. I felt completely belittled, disregarded, devalued and misunderstood. I wasn’t asking to hear how I messed up (I was well aware). I wanted to hear feedback from women who could give me genuine advice on the situation and how to handle things going forward. I’m a big girl, I don’t ne…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/05/20 02:37 PM
5	Winner of the r/amitheasshole LVMs I was literally thinking that as I was reading...	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/04/20 12:57 AM
4	Don’t let this be you, sis. Much needed!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/04/20 12:49 AM
2	Welp I did it again. I scared him away. I have read the handbook and learned a lot from the advice of women who commented on this post. However, I went from feeling shitty to feeling worse when I saw that, and it makes me not want to comment on this sub anymore. As for not being angry with myself. I let it go and now and just getting over the feeling of rejection, which will fade.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/04/20 01:47 PM
7	Welp I did it again. I scared him away. I am reading through them all now. Lesson learned.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/04/20 12:39 AM
6	Welp I did it again. I scared him away. Lesson learned.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/04/20 12:37 AM
4	Welp I did it again. I scared him away. Thanks sis! This spoke to me on so many levels.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/04/20 07:50 PM
7	Welp I did it again. I scared him away. Yes! This guy was similar. Buying dinner, and cooking for me. Not pushing me for sex.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/04/20 07:21 PM
2	Welp I did it again. I scared him away. Just started reading!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/04/20 07:20 PM
5	Welp I did it again. I scared him away. So I have a question, going forward, how soon is too soon to bring up the fact that I want to work towards commitment? I feel like I have brought that up in the past, and the same thing happens, they say they aren't looking for a relationship. Or are not ready. Or I am moving too fast.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/04/20 07:09 PM
2	Welp I did it again. I scared him away. This stupid idea I keep telling myself that I will "change him". Plus he was like one of the hottest guys I have ever dated and the most compatible with me.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/04/20 07:07 PM
17	Welp I did it again. I scared him away. Appreciate the real words!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/04/20 07:06 PM
8	Welp I did it again. I scared him away. Thank you love! Yes I need to stop lying to myself that I am going to "change" a man into committing. THIS IS NEVER THE CASE! Lesson learned. It's times like this that make me want to give up dating all together. I hate feeling rejected for saying my true feelings.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/04/20 07:05 PM
19	Welp I did it again. I scared him away. I wouldn't call him a fuck boy. He's the one guy that is worse than a fuck boy. It's the guy who is super sweet, treats you like a girlfriend, but refuses to commit claiming "he's not ready."	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/04/20 06:51 PM
14	Welp I did it again. I scared him away. Thank you! That's what I needed to hear. I am working on learning strategies to not be self deprecating, especially letting someone I am dating's action to affect my feelings.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/04/20 06:24 PM
8	Welp I did it again. I scared him away. Thank you for that!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/04/20 06:22 PM
23	Welp I did it again. I scared him away. That's good advice.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/04/20 06:22 PM
-56	Welp I did it again. I scared him away. Not exactly words of encouragement. Doesn't make the feeling of being rejected any better....Also I guess I was hoping I would be able to change his mind. He said he wasn't dead set on not wanting one, he just wasn't looking for one in that moment. He treated me like a girlfriend when we were together or out.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/04/20 06:15 PM
5	For those men who are 35+ and say ‘i’M nOt lOoKiNG 4 aNYtHINg sERIoUS’ my dude you’re half way to being elderly lmao like get it together Michael. Stop deluding yourselves into thinking you’re a spring chicken, you’re not! This gave me a good chuckle. Fucking Michael.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/03/20 01:41 PM
0	Stop explaining & engaging LVM What’s LVM and LVHM?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/03/20 04:18 AM
2	Your hate mail has nothing to do with me Oof that was a little too real.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/03/20 12:13 AM
7	Your hate mail has nothing to do with me Men. Seriously. Why is a successful, financially independent, intelligent, good looking woman a threat to men?!? Reasons my current dating life is a joke.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/03/20 05:56 PM
9	LVM be like This made me laugh a little too hard	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/03/20 12:13 AM