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same. I always feel weird approaching women at the gym since they usually have headphones on. Last time I tried to talk to a girl about how she left her phone back at the bench press and she just walked right past me and either didnt notice me trying to talk to her or didnt care lol.
/r/seduction17/12/19 09:12 PM
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Man im envious you sound like you have a cool dad. Even at 27 my dad berates me for talking to girls HA. Indian culture is wonderful.
/r/seduction10/12/19 05:16 PM
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Hmm maybe. I’ve had many women tell me though that they’re flattered I super liked them. Guess it could play both ways
/r/seduction05/12/19 07:53 PM
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I usually ask them about their boards or how cold the water is. Or ill make fun of some dumb ass in the line up and usually the girl will giggle a little bit. Truthfully though ive never pulled a girl in the lineup cause well.... kinda hard to get contact info when you cant carry your phone on you. Ive tried afterwards but its so easy to get separated especially when its pumping.
/r/seduction05/12/19 05:06 PM
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Online dating has become absolute trash dude. Still absolutely possible to be successful but the "numbers" in the number game have definitely gone up considerably since everyone is on there. You got several dilemmas present: 1.) men are thirsty as fuck. Even unattractive women on there are getting bombarded with messages left and right 2.) around maybe 25% of the women on there dont actually use tinder but just swipe for the ego boost 3.) Attention, attention, attention. I know tons of women who…
/r/seduction05/12/19 04:41 PM
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damn teach me ur ways homie. Havent gotten above an 8 since college :(
/r/seduction12/11/19 05:20 PM
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Ah I see thanks for the advice. But ya I mean if these girls would just tell me upfront they werent interested in seeing me I would be totally OK. So far out of the past 6 girls ive seen only one of them had the decency to tell me that upfront and I told her I appreciated that so much. Thats really whats bothering me the most is the lack of human decency. I know these women dont owe me anything, and I can understand why theyd lie to my face (since some dudes can get very aggressive). But vast ma…
/r/seduction12/11/19 04:54 PM
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Then why are they having sex with me and making out with me lmao. I’ll admit I can be bit shy but I’m definitely not introverted.
/r/seduction12/11/19 04:15 PM
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ill admit. I can be a bit clingy sometimes. One of the girls i saw recently I definitely made it way to obvious i was into her. Definitely made a A LOT of mistakes with her. But ive learned my lesson. But im not this way with all the girls thats for sure. Im very picky about the girls i actually like and want to purse a relationship with. Its just lately that ive been getting ghosted a fuck ton but im starting to think it has a lot to do with how busy I am now a days... i dont really have much t…
/r/seduction12/11/19 04:12 AM
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Haha well i wouldnt say im very good looking. Ive been told by a lot of my female friends and girls ive dated that I am pretty good looking but I come up short in terms of the fact that well Im short. (5'7) and im indian. I know race isnt that big of a deal but when you live in a predominately rich white area many women have definitely disqualified me immediately for being brown. (literally have had girls tell me im really hot/cute but they arent interested in indian guys). Doesnt really bother …
/r/seduction12/11/19 01:47 AM
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I usually follow up a day or two later saying something along the lines of how it was nice to see them and that we should do it again sometime.
/r/seduction11/11/19 07:17 PM
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Fair enough you’re totally right. I’m just so confused... I mean why kiss me all night and keep telling me I’m cute and that she wants to see me when she doesn’t. God people suck.
/r/seduction06/11/19 08:22 PM
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thank you i needed to hear this lmao
/r/seduction04/09/19 08:42 PM
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Well is she planning on having sex with other people? Thats highly hypocritical of her if shes gonna go out and ride the carousal of cocks and pussy and expect you to still be around but if you sleep with another person its game over. Dont be a cuck. Define the break, are you just seeing other people just to go on dates and have new experiences or does she want a break cause she feels you arent satisfying her enough sexually? ​ I might not be the best advice since ive never had a serious relatio…
/r/seduction19/07/19 03:26 PM
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This is just one situation dude dont let it get you down. First step is to just get used to being rejected. Get rejected until it doesnt even phase you anymore. One word of advice I can give you though is next time dont approach a girl from behind, especially if she looks like shes in a hurry or is trying to get some where. You may have just caught her off guard or she may have been on her way to meet someone. Stick with frontal approaches for the time being until you feel more confident to try …
/r/seduction19/07/19 03:13 PM
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Yeah im terrible at dating is the other thing. Never had a gf or dated, just a string of hookups in college. I actually got asked out recently by a really attractive women and I thought the date didnt go badly but she didnt feel any romantic connection and said she didnt want to see me again. I have no clue how to date or be boyfriend material so its something I guess ill have to learn. ​ Hookup wise though all my coworkers constantly brag about how easy it is to get one night stands through tin…
/r/seduction12/07/19 10:54 PM
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I strength train 3x a week and surf 3x a week so in terms of physical fitness Im very fit
/r/seduction12/07/19 06:56 PM
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Im not a fan of hinge either. Low key i think its racist lmao Im brown also and it only ever shows me brown women. Really tho fuck dating apps today everyone is so fake but id stick with tinder/ bumble if you need one. Tinder is definitely way over saturated with dudes but ive had more luck on those. Bumble is also lame in that you have to wait for the girl but ive gotten a few dates off there as well.
/r/seduction10/07/19 07:51 PM
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not bad. 6'4+ would be better. If you wanna keep playing Okcupid id lie and say you were 6'2. Dont be fat, workout. Have cool pics not a bunch of selfies, have pics of you out in nature or playing sports or with groups of friends. And maintain a clean cut appearance (clean up facial hair, have a nice hair cut, reduce any acne etc). But in all honesty, okcupid is whack. I get decent amount of matches and even girls messaging me on there and nothing ever pans out, every girl just ghosts once they …
/r/seduction10/07/19 07:41 PM
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"brown skin" Theres your answer. Sorry if this sounds shitty but okcupid does data analysis on their users each year and comes up with the exact same result. Your best bet for online dating is to be born white. It sucks but thats the sad fact of life. Really unless you're super good looking or really tall, Okcupid (and most dating apps) are pretty much useless. Go out and pull.
/r/seduction10/07/19 07:03 PM
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Yeah I feel that. You're right. Sucks cause this was the first time I actually felt a connection and I guess I was wrong? Or maybe I did something small that ticked her off but regardless Ive been telling myself that if she doesnt like a guy like me than her loss. I mean shes the one who asked me out... and I have several other girls asking me out as well so I might as well just get over her. Ive kind of been in this spot lately for the past 2 years where ive just been focusing on myself and my …
/r/seduction31/05/19 10:13 PM
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Sigh yeah its kind of confusing cause while we were texting before we met she kept calling me cute/ adorable and she was even the one who asked me out. and on the date she complimented me a few times... I mean the date wasnt amazing we had both just gotten off work and were tired but she laughed at my jokes and complimented me and I thought we had a fun time so i was feeling pretty confident about it. The only thing I can think of is maybe our age difference? she was 6 years older than me so she…
/r/seduction31/05/19 10:08 PM
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