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calleballe01/r/seduction20/06/19 08:52 PM
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Sounds to me like she is loyal to her partner and does not want to pursue something with you. I have no idea about your struggles but I can imagine it’s way harder to find someone when you can only target specific girls but there are still tons of people out there that you can get other than this girl.
/r/seduction22/06/19 03:56 PM
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If it’s not working for you, then you don’t have to try to emulate something you are not. Sounds like you have pretty good value anyways. And especially with this girl I get the impression that she may want something else than a ”badboy” and sees that you are way better than those guys. Be yourself my man
/r/seduction22/06/19 03:54 PM
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Ahh I see. Sorry man it’s 4am here so my brain is a bit fucked. Seems like you’ve got it figured out already, that she is not really the type of girl that hooks up like that. I’d advice you to mix it up a bit and ask her to just take a walk around town or something since staying at home watching tv really screams hookup. When you go and do something you also get more time to talk. More time for her to get into you since she to me seems like someone who values personality value more than straight…
/r/seduction22/06/19 01:53 AM
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If you feel like you want to be more than friends you have to make it clear to her. Being in a friendship with someone you have feelings for sucks and will just demolish your game completely. Who knows. Maybe she is waiting for you to make the next move. Maybe she is not. You can’t know until you try and up until you actually try, don’t get too attached to her bro. Then you’ll loose yourself in the pursuit after her. Ask her out and accept whatever happens. Good luck man! Keep me updated ;)
/r/seduction22/06/19 01:37 AM
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You can’t brother. People change all the time and feelings change even often. You can only learn from hers and yours past. Does she seem like the one compared to other girls you’ve been with? Or is she after something else. Don’t commit until you are ready which you clearly not are, asking this question.
/r/seduction22/06/19 01:08 AM
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I would not try to initate with girls whos work task is being nice. If you really think she is flirting and won’t regret it if you get rejected I’d just ask for her number after I’m done at the gym. Tell her you can work out together sometime or something. You never know till you try. As long as you can handle a rejection.
/r/seduction22/06/19 01:05 AM
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The best date I’ve ever had we just took a walk and bought some small food/snacks on the way. You’ve gotta have some great looking spots out there you can show her. Talking also gets way easier when walking in my experience. I’d say something like ”I’m way busy, wanna take a walk so I can combine my daily excersise with meeting a cute girl?”. That works for me.
/r/seduction22/06/19 12:58 AM
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I cannot know for sure but in my experience she is just seeking for your ”you are the only girl I text”. ”You are the prettiest of them all” texts. So yeah, basically validation. She is also testing you to see how hard of a grip she has on you.
/r/seduction22/06/19 12:54 AM
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Do you have good time around her? Do you just want to have sex with her? If you have a good time and you feel something growing, then why not hangout? If you don’t feel anything towards her but you are still having a good time, then why not hangout? You are not wasting time by having fun. It’s also a great experience in that not every girl is someone you want to pursue. So if she wants to meet. Do it. If she does not want to meet, then you are wasting your time with her.
/r/seduction22/06/19 12:52 AM
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Next time just tell her that you already tell that to your other bitches. Fuck her man she sounds like someone who just fucks with your head.
/r/seduction22/06/19 12:48 AM
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Sure. In the foundation no one wants someone who is not of value. But what is of value can depend on the girl and that’s when your game comes in. Just because you look good and seem to have a great lifestyle won’t make you get all the girls. But making yourself be of higher value will put you miles ahead of everyone else.
/r/seduction22/06/19 12:44 AM
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I don’t know if this is true or not since people are saying you post this like a troll. But if it is. Stop caring man. It’s really hard but if it happens again in a nother scenario. Keep doing what you are doing. You should not be this worried about someone else’s actions since it is out of your own control.
/r/seduction22/06/19 12:41 AM
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She sounds a bit strange to me man. If you aren’t in contact with her off social media I’d remove her since she is just messing up your game by making you think about her. This is really a case of ”not you, it’s me”. Like the other guy said, almost autist warning on that one.
/r/seduction22/06/19 12:38 AM
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Some girls are just like this. They come to the date with principles of not going to far on a date. Sounds like this girl is not that used to guys being as forward as you. She showed interest in that and in you by her ”touchyness”. Just go for another date and play it cool. Let her set the tempo. On the next date I would probably say something like ”If you’re gonna keep being so close to me like this we can skip the first kiss right off”. She will be a bit embarrased and then you go in for the k…
/r/seduction22/06/19 12:36 AM
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Haha wtf man. What’s the purpose of this? You only look bad yourself.
/r/seduction22/06/19 12:30 AM
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Well the first step I advice you to take it stop being so hard on yourself. You seem like a great dude that’s just a bit unlucky with the people you meet. Keep living your life, work out at a gym, get on some activites like group cross fit o maybe even some martial art. Get on with some reading. But most of all, enjoy the time you spend with yourself during this process. Give yourself credit every step on the way and you’ll learn he invaluable lesson that the most important person in the world i…
/r/seduction22/06/19 12:29 AM
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Great fucking job man. The hardest part is actually doing it. Then comes the grinding of actually finding someone that want to take it further but most of all someone YOU want to take it further with. Just looking at a cute girl wont mean that you’ll have a great date. But you’ll never know if you didn’t try. Keep it up man. The first ones are always the hardest. I promise.
/r/seduction22/06/19 12:23 AM
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Don’t be hard on yourself man. Learn from it. What would you rather feel? The feeling of regret and not knowing about the outcome. Or actually doing the thing you want to do, knowing the outcome and proving to yourself and no one else that YOU have it in you to do it. No matter what the outcome is it’s always such a huge feeling of confidence afterwards. The hardest part is initiating yourself to do it. Just count to three and make a promise to yourself to do it. Then come back and tell me what …
/r/seduction22/06/19 12:18 AM
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You’ve also got it way easier to build muscle mass that shows. I’ve been pretty lanky all my life up until now do to my height. You’ve got it bro. If girls give u crap over height they are not worth it anyways
/r/seduction21/06/19 07:42 AM
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Read my reply to the other guy. Height matters at first but when girls see that you have confidence either way, they’ll like you either way. Shit man girls can be so bitchy about height. Let them be but don’t let it affect you. That’s a prime shit test
/r/seduction21/06/19 07:40 AM
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Exactly. It’s all about the confidence. Being a bit shorter just leads to more ways to show a strong frame by not giving in to shit tests that women often give shorter guys.
/r/seduction21/06/19 07:33 AM
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Erhm, I’m 190cm and I think that transltes into like 6’3. Why?
/r/seduction21/06/19 07:31 AM
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Def regret. I can think about why I didn’t do something for daayss on end. But when I finally do something, I might fail and be hard on myself about it. But when I ”fail”, I always take wisdom from it. The only wisdom you get from regret is that you really should start doing the things that you regret not doing. I am probably messing this quote up but it’s from the movie ”Call Me by Your Name” -To feel nothing, just to not feel anything. What a horrible way to live. Is it better to speak, or to …
/r/seduction20/06/19 09:50 PM
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Exactly. Knowing that is the difference between girls rejecting you because of your approach and girls ”rejecting” you because of their view and thoughts. If you view it this way. That it’s mostly the girls responsibility to react you not your responsibility. Then you will find much peace of mind knowing that it is the girls ”fault” for reacting the way she did. Sure, sometimes you fuck up. But girls acting cold probably have some reason inside of them to be cold. Laugh it of and keep on looking…
/r/seduction20/06/19 09:44 PM
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Thanks bro! Of course I’d like it if it works out but I am learning to let some things go if it wont work out. Either way this will be a great thing for me. Keep it up man! Best excercise I’ve ever had and the feeling afterwards is something else.
/r/seduction20/06/19 09:19 PM
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Well Tinder is something you could start right now. I find it great for learning to not care that much about girls rejecting or ignoring since that is what 80% of girls do. They just use it to feed their confirmation needs. You’ll find some luck there for sure but the nr1 thing is that lesson. Stop glorifying women making them seem so terrifying in your mind. Build yourself up with a strong frame and peace of mind. A thing I think about sub-consiously during most of my social encounters is that …
/r/seduction16/06/19 08:57 PM
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Yes that would have been strange. You could have gone up to her in between sets and just said that you think you recognize her from somwehere. If she was a stranger then you could introduce yourself and maybe start a convo. Just for 10 sec or something, you can always get out just by saying that you have to get back to your workout. Hanging out with girls? Well there is not any way to force this other than putting yourself out there. Get on tinder and go out clubbing if that is something you lik…
/r/seduction16/06/19 07:00 PM
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Well then show off your ability to be yourself and most of all, being with yourself. That girl is probably way too used to guys chasing her. Be a contrast to that and she might see you in a different light. My main advice would be that you start messaging other girls as well. Then she will come my friend. If she does not then see it as a way for you to meet other girls. I had the same issue with a girl when I put in all the effort into the convos while she was passive. Then I started messaging a…
/r/seduction16/06/19 06:20 PM
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Don’t initiate convos she does not want to have. Have a bit of fun with your friends and show off a bit. After a week or something, ask her out. She will want to be apart of your things then and will see you as an opurtinity rather than a guy that keeps bothering her with convos. Right now you are just feeding her confirmation needs. Cut that shit off and she might come to you instead.
/r/seduction16/06/19 10:39 AM
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If you feel like you need this girl. Then meet up with her. If you can’t, make sure you can. My advice however is that you should meet up with other girls. Sounds like you are in a zone of oneitis, obsessing a bit over this girl. If you could land that 10, you can land others.
/r/seduction16/06/19 10:35 AM
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Learn to love your own company. Don’t see this as loneliness. But see it as a way for yourself to never be lonely again. When you and yourself are feeling a bit bored. Go out and do something by yourself. Go clubbing or something. That behaviour you had in HS is still there. Just because you are focusing a lot on studying and your routinely life as of late doesn’t mean that you lost your ability to have fun. Meet new people by just living life. There is no need to force it. Many people spend tim…
/r/seduction16/06/19 10:33 AM
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I’ve made the misstake of chasing a meetup many times. She has shown interest in you so you can back off a bit. Go out and maybe even meet other girls. If this girl asks you out again, go for it. But there is no need to chase something that keeps backing off.
/r/seduction16/06/19 10:27 AM
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The number one thing I’m thinking about in dating, seduction but also everyday things is: Don’t force things. If you feel a vibe, keep it going. But if things start to cool of, don’t throw a bunch of fuel on it. Maybe a little bit. There are tons of girls and oppurtunities out there so don’t be afraid to close a door. I promise you that many other doors will open. Good luck man. You’ll forget about her in no time ;)
/r/seduction16/06/19 10:25 AM
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She is interested bro. Since you have her kinda on the hook, don’t reel in to hard. That will just make her push in the other direction. Snapchat really kills the vibe after a tinder chat. Try to arrange a meetup instead. Good luck man. You’ve got it in you. Be yourself and don’t force things.
/r/seduction16/06/19 10:22 AM
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Shit, I’ve got a lot of experience with this. Take her out of her shell but do it slow. If you need to force it it is not worth it. I kinda did this mistake. I built this girl up and then I lost the things I liked about her since she changed so much. Just be yourself, that’s probably what she likes about you. That you are a contrast to her. Don’t feel awkward just because she kinda idolozie you to the point that she feels a bit insecure. DON’T confront her.
/r/seduction16/06/19 10:19 AM
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"Emotional tampon" is a perfect description of how she used me. Thanks for opening up my mind. That's really what the Red Pill is huh? An Eye-opener.
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